Episode 327: Applying Pressure

[00:00:00] I'll be locked in loading it you already know it is she must love is always Donald Peasley alongside of the Sean No beautiful day him I see man shout out to y'all for like comment subscribe No, doing all the things I do every week we do appreciate y'all Man, we got Joe in the building they ain't in the building quantity in the building your day. My levels good Yeah, just just my levels guys just change it. Just change it. Joe cuz he's wrong. Come on, man Just just just go I'm waiting a camera to come on

[00:00:28] I got the same road, but it's all three Nixon six This and motherfucking six if you a Celtics fan watching this right now, bro I spared y'all bro. I kept it cool. Game one. I ain't say nothing to niggas game two I say nothing to niggas game three. I ain't say nothing. Niggas game. I didn't say nothing to niggas all series long, bro y'all are the most arrogant

[00:00:55] Nasty corny fan base. I've ever seen in my fucking life. I know we some assholes I know we some assholes, bro, but y'all niggas for for for a franchise that harps on a history so fucking much I've been at four years For years bro Was it 25 years? We up and I just like we've been ass Let me cook I don't know Something's fine in the pot brother

[00:01:25] Y'all niggas have two championships in the last 20 years You don't have to And y'all built super teams to get them What's it 25? What? I was that? Fuck is niggas talking about acting like it's like like like y'all like y'all like y'all fucking dominating team in the fucking league? No, y'all not Y'all still chasing the Lakers nigga They passed the Lakers Fuck outta here. I said what I said I wanna be a fucking Boston fan nigga You know what's crazy? I'll uh Hold on, I'm not done

[00:01:52] All my Dominican friends who root for the Celtics Get y'all fucking act together man The Dominicans is in New York Big fucking bodega nigga Fuck is niggas talking about it I ain't a lot, all Jody's like a cigarette behind his ear My six six nigga Yo, respect to Jason Tatum bro You know you're one of my favorite players bro I've never said a bad word about you bro Get well soon But the other nigga Jalen Brown That nigga said losing to the Knicks Mr. Bad Haircut

[00:02:22] Losing to the Knicks like death is crazy And I saw you in them Diddy parties nigga Oh yeah He done, nigga He done before he fried off Nixon fucking six nigga You even say Rose by throwing My Rose My Rose is Nixon six My bud Is Nixon Winning the next series I'm looking forward to it And my thorn

[00:02:52] Should have been Nixon four It's that we didn't win it in four That's it Who's next? Yo brother Yo my level's good? They heard that? Yo trust me they heard you I'm pretty sure the whole fucking bro heard that shit You know what? You alright now? You done? Nixon six

[00:03:22] Niggas six Y'all been assed like how we been assed as crazy That's not even true But let him cook Let me cook You got it You got it big dog Thank you I actually watched that game So understandable It was enjoyable What was your rose butt thorn for the week? My rose butt thorn My rose would be going Going to Cali Going back I haven't been to Cali in fucking years Since I worked at the airline

[00:03:53] I was shooting some shit for Bob's Burgers That was cool This is a great week man Great week Rose bud The next shoot that excites me The rest of the shit's coming up We're very like Whatever You gotta use the whatever ones to get better Yeah yeah yeah yeah facts That's what I've been doing though Just working on the craft I wanna you know

[00:04:23] I applied for a few joints Let's see what For real? A few jobs yeah yeah yeah yeah Oh yeah and I also got the white people White man paperwork That's another thing Oh yeah let's give it up for my man's right here Let's give it up for my man's right here Full time employment baby Tax is about to manage Yeah I need more money though Yeah that's just Yeah that's another story It is a great week all together Um Thorn Bro I don't I had to text LA I said yo bro I don't know you do red eyes bro

[00:04:53] I flew out Sunday At Five but the flight was delayed To like six something Flew out to Cali Sunday Flew back in here Flew back towards here on Monday And flying there Flying Flying into Burbank I told LA the fucking flight landed Hit the ground a little bit My nigga I almost shit my pants I almost you laughing my nigga That shit hit the floor It came back up? Flew back up I said bro

[00:05:23] There's no way in hell I'm going right now bro There's no way in hell But by the grace of God I prayed And um I thank I thank the Lord for hitting the ground And gave me the assay So um yeah That's my rose button I got two weeks of stuff Cause y'all niggas didn't want to show up last week Oh damn Joe ditched us for the uh Knicks game Y'all see Ronnie Kiff Jersey on fire Y'all a lot of niggas ain't got this I'm a day fucking one

[00:05:54] Fuck is niggas talking about Nigga Jerome James nigga Y'all wasn't there Who was your I see all y'all new Nick fans too bro Can't have new Nick fans? We'll address that another day Alright So I got like mad rosebud thorns Uh Uh da da da da da da da da da da Oh shit You wrote them all down? Yeah I try to cause my My day to day be so much

[00:06:23] That when I try to like Remember all that happened I'm be like damn So I That's my way of uh Coming prepared Uh But because this is two weeks old I realize there's not a thorn anymore So that's just like a moment of life Where you sometimes you just gotta let shit go And they don't bother But I'm still bringing it up Um Rosebud thorn Uh My rose for this week Uh I'll just use last week

[00:06:51] I snapped myself out of doing some dumb shit But I still ended up doing the dumb shit But Why you always talking about doing some dumb shit? Cause it don't mean dumb shit Black man taking account of it I just think you know LaShaw you know better So that's how I say yo Okay That's dumb shit Uh Bud Looking forward to having a traveling partner Mmm Yeah She paying? Huh? She paying? I was thinking dog My time is now

[00:07:21] Um But nah Uh Yeah I got Uh I was done I was looking forward to that Um They ain't gonna laugh They ain't gonna laugh My thorn is the concept of applying pressure How is that a thorn? Of what that mean Oh And find a balance between not doing too much and Cause I feel like applying pressure is too close to begging Like you ever You ever see that white man in the middle of Manhattan with the sign?

[00:07:51] The dude with the sign The dude with the sign Yeah that's That's what I That's begging you? Or that's how it feels when you apply pressure Love me please When you apply pressure Really? Sometimes You feel that way like When Alright Alright Matter of fact I wanna publicly say this Because he show us mad love Shout out to my nigga Scrap Shout out to Scrap Shout out to Scrap For real for real Scrap The pod drop at 8 He watching my 801 And he'll let me know They got Starbucks in his head As you watching that shit

[00:08:21] We love people like that man So shout out to Scrap Shout out to insurance niggas out there Shout out to my insurance niggas Shout out to Scrap You need insurance? It's not for sale Um Nah but Scrap had posted something the other day I don't know if Scrap remember But Scrap has said something to the extent of like I don't know apply pressure I just like shit to be mutual And I kinda In the week of all of that happening All of those The applying pressure concept came up

[00:08:51] I was like yeah I think What gets confused With the concept of applying pressure Who you applying this pressure to? To the baddie If it's a Alright cool Let me give you a wild example That came to my mind On why I think applying pressure is stupid Okay In a sense In a sense After we done record And I say yo guys Let's all go outside And try to move this building one inch Move the building? Yeah

[00:09:21] We all just Push Push The building The building To get it to move One inch Apply the pressure Let's apply all the force that we can So And that And that's why I feel like Don can't move the building The concept I feel like sometimes The concept of applying pressure If you're applying pressure To an immovable force Yeah It's pointless You look You know how many people Go drive by and look What are you thinking? I'm probably sitting there and watch

[00:09:51] They probably think we stretching You know what I'm saying? So So are you And I have to ask Are you saying that Some situations are immovable? I believe so How so? Like what's confirming that for you? Alright, whoa Let me not do that Not for you But just what's confirming that for you I'm gonna ask you a question after that No, no, go ahead Go ahead I'll wait So like say He's the easiest one Dang That nigga is sick of us

[00:10:20] Say Dane trying to talk to a girl I seen it Dane really I'm telling you Joby's snitching Joby's snitching Joby's snitching Unprovoked Dane is really interested in this girl Dane want her badly And he's applying pressure But you know You can kinda get the gist of She don't really feel what you want Yeah Okay I think Dane looks crazy To keep applying pressure To this said person

[00:10:50] Even though he wants Her badly I don't think you should apply pressure To somebody who's not swing Whether even if they don't communicate They're not interested or not You could kinda tell Off of a mutual You're talking about like You triple texting and all that I wanna agree If it's not verbal Right? I do If it Well Yeah, if it's verbal I can understand If it's not verbal I think there's always Space To For you to interpret

[00:11:19] And make the decision on your own If you should continue to apply pressure I feel like you know When you feel crazy about something Maybe Maybe you just see it sometimes though I think the whole thing also depends on How much you're exerting True, true, true, true, right? True, true, true, true, true, right? True, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true, true. Cause pressure And we all know Cause we know We know how pressure goes There's low pressure There's medium pressure There's high pressure If Dane is in his low pressure stage Of applying pressure to said individual He can be able to say to himself Like yo, I ain't even doing that much right now And maybe that's why

[00:11:48] It may not seem like So he should turn it up a little bit more Maybe he can push a little bit more To see and like be able to Confirm or deny Like am I even making any pressure? You ask if he can move the building an inch Almost impossible Not almost Actually impossible to do Because of how it's built in You can make a girl smile You can A girl will tell you Not to come into a fucking space Well what happened to the other? You remember they always say There's a thin line between Uh, harassment There's only a picture

[00:12:18] There's only a picture I don't even want to see them on What's that seat on? I'm not applying no more pressure You know what I'm saying? I feel you We about to go to Burgers and Bottles, right? I believe you Have a good time Are we going as a team? Are we sure? We should Okay, cool Let's get a sprinter I'm not doing that That was last June Cause you know Oh, definitely Conversations change You know what I mean? Oh, oh And we're all gonna see The guys We update us With the guys running down Yup Yup

[00:12:48] And we're all gonna see They face The curve The curve in the face The uncomfortable conversation The uncomfortable You know what I'm saying? With the Don Julio breath Yup Yup Yup Yup And we're gonna say Oh, homie's trying to apply pressure On the girl he wants You feel me? So it's like We also get that second hand embarrassment too Woo Would it be Would he be applying pressure to a girl That he had just He's just seen in the spot for the first time? Or somebody that he's been like DM Well we would

[00:13:17] We would know that Because I think that makes a difference It gives a nigga a different kind of confidence I think when He been to show you DM for a couple weeks Or a couple months or whatever And then he see her out And then he run down And now we observe How's the conversation going in the DM though? That's what I'm saying It depends on the person that's saying the DM Cause now if you still pull up And you talking to yourself in the DM I'm not gonna lie to you You gotta go to jail brother You gotta lock niggas like that up But if she over there engaging with something That's different though Making him feel like there's a Yeah, well see But see that's the mutual

[00:13:46] The undertone consent In like Yeah The engagement back and forth Yeah, yeah But sometimes Us as humans We love the attention sometimes Yeah I think women are the The cream of the crop And I honestly think Men should stay away from those type of women Right I love that I love the Yeah In this example What is Dane's way of applying pressure? Is it him buying drinks? Is it him buying Oh Yo Is he buying flowers? Oh Oh shit Is he buying material objects

[00:14:15] That she can take pictures of? Cause you know Then you have to say Is she benefiting from the pressure Even though she ain't really looking forward to taking this any further than that? That's a good That's a good point Right? Cause a nigga think he applying pressure thinking Oh here this is working I can change her mind Not even He don't even think he has to change her mind She's accepting of the pressure Oh so she fuck with me

[00:14:45] But she has no She has no No foresight She only sees the moment This is it This is it Give me more Pause Yeah Oh He's a freak In a sense I'm saying No diddy In a sense I'm saying She's opened the door And allowed In this example Dane to come in Occupy space, time, money I'm talking dinner Maybe oh you wanna go to dinner I'm out here yo Send her flowers You know what I'm saying She's accepting the Venus of Fleur flowers Right?

[00:15:15] Cause women love shit like that And then She knows She tell her homegirl Or there's another nigga That she really interested in That's really sponsored Communicate that with him She in the passenger seat with him Mmhmm He got the big body You know what I'm saying Pause That I don't care what you I can't fix it It's over You know what I'm saying But that So she's not communicating That to Dane Because in his head He feel like I don't know Maybe it's a competition in me He feel like yo She accepting on my shit I got a chance too

[00:15:46] You know what I'm saying So he keeps He might go harder now He might see the The Mercedes Benz light picture Right? I love showing that shit off That was a competition I have a competition now Oh fuck So now He pull up in the That too How you feel about that competition? I bow out I mean Well let me not Let me not You know what I will generally I will generally bow out Is there an exception to the rule? It has to be Probably There is probably somewhere

[00:16:15] The world of your dreams You better take the other nigga out the equation How do you do it? How do you How do you How do you How do you How do you How do you Oh you never bring up the nigga? You You obviously know she Now you Now you're falling for her my nigga You know she fucked with another nigga What That's why I feel like Nick

[00:16:44] That's why I say I generally You generally bow out But bow out Bow out Bow out Bow out Bow out That's why I said It depends on who And how early You notice yourself You know what I'm saying But then Cause I remember I was talking I was talking to a girl And um A woman right now Cause we gotta A woman Yeah facts facts Fact she was well over the age of 28 Yeah we got her We got her She was 28 She was over 28 For her ID Um

[00:17:14] And when we first When we first started talking Um I let it be known I'm I'm talking to multiple people An honest man ladies Yeah Clear and to the point He is Volunteer that information Yes I want I want to Yup Not offer Hey my name is LaShawn I'm talking to three other women I got managers Yeah yeah yeah yeah Thank you for being the runner up alright Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah So it was kinda like Are you seeing anybody Yeah I'm talking to three other people You said three? But they not you Queen

[00:17:45] He's a player But That's a talking and dating That's a last week Um So But that didn't stop her from Coming over Right So Wait for your man She should've fall harder I know what you're doing bro Um But The applying pressure in that sense I don't think that's applying pressure Wait did you know that she Did she tell

[00:18:15] You didn't reveal Did she tell you about her Uh She told me she was recently Talking to somebody Talking Yeah So You would never ask that question though would you? Yeah I would I would He make it clear he wanna know Yeah Would you ask the question? Yeah I'm talking about early Maybe not I wouldn't ask I ain't gonna lie I wouldn't ask You wouldn't want I wouldn't ask I would not I would not put myself in a position to be like I wouldn't ask you to tell me that I would not put myself in a position to be like I'm not gonna lie to you

[00:18:51] It's not my That's the applying pressure Huh That's it I'm with it That's the applying pressure I'm okay with that Proceed I'm talking about when you feel like the force is immovable Like you literally So let me give you an example Let me give you an example Let me give you an example Are you gonna use a building again though? Huh? You gonna use a building? No no no we not gonna use Zoom We gonna use Dane again Okay shout out to Dane Right? Uh Dane gonna laugh bro

[00:19:23] Dane gonna laugh Uh Mother's Day Mother's Day come Mother's Day is approaching right? We ain't actually powerful Mother's Day So shout out to all the mothers in the world Happy belated to my man You know I'm shouting y'all out You know what I'm saying You know what I'm saying And Dane is too Cause he's your mother's favorite lover But you know what I'm saying He doesn't Let's say Let's say Mother's Day is approaching Dane is talking Or was talking Oh no Dane got a thing He got a thing for a mother? He got a thing for a mother

[00:19:53] And Dane is thinking to himself Um Should I send something to her? For Mother's Day? In the midst of him doing that He comes to the revelation of Nah Is this Am I sending it for the right reasons? Right? Am I sending it just to say Happy Mother's Day? Or is this low key Me applying pressure? I mean It's always a little bit of both I think a little bit of both

[00:20:22] I think a little bit of both No I see See that's That's where The trick The I think The debate comes in The intent behind it Will then impact how he feels Once the flowers is received Oh thanks I mean her response also Is a part of it Yeah So that's why That's why That's why I think Intention matters Right? So what I would tell Dane Or told myself Or told myself Yo take

[00:20:53] Take the result Of her receiving the flowers Out of it You know we talk about manipulation a lot on this pod I think you gotta pick your spots and shit like this Bro This is not fucking basketball But you do bro I'm not gonna lie to you my nigga Yo If I'm good at that right side corner I'm using that I'm going to get a screen Bring the big man Let me cook I'm getting an overall screen nigga How about pulling man You gotta find your spots So yes A holiday's coming up And the girl I'm talking to Got a seed

[00:21:23] Bring the little nigga too What he like Yo I respect Dane for doing that He gotta pick his spots And that's the You could kill two birds with one stone He can apply pressure And saying like yo I would do this for you on any holiday Valentine's Christmas Thanksgiving Your birthday Anniversary Now the thing The thing about my full control Now you're Do you keep up this energy? After you get her You can't wait for it You can't wait for more opportunities After you get her After you get her Oh yeah That's when I feel like that's when you feel the safest to do it

[00:21:53] Yeah he could've He could've just sent flowers And just been Oh because I'm a good person Now we go we go we go He could've just sent flowers And said I'm a good person Here yo It's mother's day I'm sending flowers All the mothers That's just who he is right But he's not In his head I'm gonna be pressing Oh it's the flower In his head He's doing it because Shit I want her to know that I appreciate her And I want her to know that I want to do this on a more consistent basis too So you're doing this to move up in the ranks Nigga it don't even gotta be nobody around

[00:22:22] It don't We can remove competition out of the picture too Just saying That is a good form of applying pressure Is using and picking your spots and knowing that today is a perfect opportunity for me to step up into What if What if What if Dane knows Hypothetically That This ain't gonna change How she feel about it How she feel And he still does it Then he still does it Then he's actually Okay Okay Does that make you a fool

[00:22:50] He's wasting motion because he could put that energy To another heavy mother To another heavy mother No See I wasn't I'm not allowed to say He could though I was gonna say I was gonna say He could put that energy into another way in Another way in Like what? But why would he Why would he look so way in if If she's not letting him in? That's why That's why I think the applying pressure thing Is crazy Because now you look like a burglar I ain't gonna lie bro It's like a 5'2 nigga trying to back down Shaq Nigga it's not gonna work bro Just stop Yeah

[00:23:19] He could try it and face up though He could look at him Be fucking serious bro He don't look stupid bro I said 5'2 That's on my head bro No I get what y'all saying though I do He does kinda look odd Like yo she just said But this is where it comes from clarity If she hard cuts it Like Nigga this is what it is You're doing too much You're making me uncomfortable Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah There's no other way in That ain't happening today I'd rather Just wanna protect me I'd rather just avoid that altogether Like yo Me too Me too Me too It gets to the point where it's like I feel like you're okay

[00:23:48] I don't think you're catching the signs Cause they're cause they're alright You wanna have that conversation now I'm mad I'm here now You applying pressure or you thirsty? I ain't gonna lie I'll be a lot of things Corny thirsty I'm just down We not doing that bro In any of your past relationships Did you apply pressure to get there? You know what's that crazy I wanted to ask y'all that Did y'all apply pressure But the thing To get rich out girl Or what is that mutual thing? You have to That's why I'm asking you You have to You cannot Get in any relationship Without applying pressure Bro fool You can't

[00:24:19] I'm not gonna lie I'm not gonna lie I'm probably Nigga every You're applying pressure now Nigga when I met her I was like I bet We saw her texting Nigga I saw her every fucking day bro You know I'm like But it was a mutual thing It was a mutual thing though I had a lot of form of pressure It was a mutual thing though Yeah yeah yeah Cause then she was at the party Yeah that's what I'm saying What what? She ran down and came at a party But I was like I ain't That's not applying pressure Oh it is Nigga there's a shitty on my lap bro I was just I didn't wanna say that fuck Nah nah it's well Huh? It's the main joint? My shorty? My shorty now? It's the main part Yeah

[00:24:51] Nigga's wrong Like she wasn't there It was a shorty on my lap And she was like Yo I like your outfit But yo you? Yo shorty on your lap? He had a girl on his lap Yeah I was like She came to her Hold on You know You know when they say Don't Don't let your girlfriend Stop you from the door You know what they're like That's hilarious Okay boy Yeah That's a pre- But look that worked You know what I'm saying Imagine That don't motivate you? No

[00:25:21] So I see a nigga With a curl At Bergenson Motto said I just pull up yo Yeah I got a bottle of Instagram Talk about popping on Instagram Okay okay That could get ugly You do gotta run down though That's crazy In the idle time though Like as a man you gotta play it a little smarter Obviously You know what I'm saying? We just joking But if you do see a nigga With his arm around shorty You wait till she alone If you really want that Oh damn Nasty Nasty boy

[00:25:51] As a nigga You got a girl bro There's no way in hell My man She's her own individual Oh this nigga's wilder Oh yeah Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six Nix is six To apply pressure You have to look at that like Nah I want that though Nah you I want that though I want that though I'm not buggin' Yes I ain't gonna I know I'm not buggin'

[00:26:21] I ain't gonna front bro Niggas ain't soft But I ain't gonna lie I'm not getting shot with no woman Niggas a Niggas a cop you for the shorty my man Is that his woman? If it's not Why are you shooting me brother? Why are you shooting me? It's not your woman Bro Son You know what I'm saying? Jealousy I get jealousy I know niggas be jealous And all that But I am who I am And that's why Did you apply pressure? I did I just said that I didn't hear you I'm sorry I had mess I had so many streams of pressure What's going on y'all? If you listen to this episode Don't forget to subscribe to our Patreon

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[00:27:50] Go to SundayNewYork.com Get your new collection Yeah It'll be out Monday Yeah Yeah The ad Inserted The flyer Right Now Shout to the swans out there Facts I ran down I met her at a college party I think that was what? 2019? Yeah 2019 In the mic In the mic

[00:28:16] In the mic I seen her She was just She was just sitting there looking stush Just looking like she don't even My type of vibe Yeah She don't wanna Well she didn't wanna be there But um So I went up to her And I asked her What did I say? I said um Look at the joy Why are you dancing? Mhm And I don't even know She just looked at me like I'm fucking Like I had three hands like

[00:28:45] This nigga's one of the nigga's white You should be smiling Yo bro You know you know When you see somebody's like Yo I don't know what the fuck I have to say I have to say something Yeah I have to say something Um so I Yeah I said that um Gia really gave me no type of good answer But I kept the conversation going a little bit Um Got her name And then I ended up getting her gram And then I followed her the next day She followed me back I got her number the next day Oh so the gram should work We what? The gram's a little bit safer than the number these days

[00:29:15] I'ma speak I'ma speak But Yeah Joe But we've had on and off So I've had to run down again You have to reapply I have to reapply You have to reapply I have to reapply I have to reapply every time So the last time Yeah yeah well not The second to last time I seen her at I think it was EMC or something like that right? Mhm This is where we weren't talking So I haven't seen her in a while So she was there with all her friends Or whatever Like Coach I think she was talking to some nigga I think

[00:29:45] It was just like a night time She was talking to some nigga And I seen her I think I was a little lit That's why he agreed with me No no no no Even if I wasn't lit You would've not lit I'm as bad as anyway So I went up to her I grabbed her I said why are you not talking to me Oh Oh wow I think it's an aggressive approach She's like why are you not talking to me And she's like what? And I'm like why are you not talking to me And I kissed her Just kiss on the right of mouth? Oh That is a romantic That's a good man I ain't fractured

[00:30:14] Could've went left though Could've went left You see that line I talked about already? No no no You don't do this with just We have that type of vibe That shit with a I don't wanna get too aggressive No no no I'm gonna get too aggressive How it happened though? You grabbed her like back her head I'm literally Nigga I'm literally My bad coach bro I'm literally like this Asking her why are you not talking to me She's looking at me And you know somebody wanna kiss you So I kissed her Right in the mouth

[00:30:44] That was beautiful And it makes me realize that I wasn't applying pressure I ain't no lie I went from the DMs To like you know Playfully flirting To the first link was very Normal and casual Like to me the way I see Applying pressure is being consistent And like letting you know that I'm here And taking like Taking a liking to your interest And the things that you care about

[00:31:13] And pouring into those things Like to me that's applying pressure I see your ball I fuck with it I wish I would've had an opportunity like that Cause that was wavy but That Yeah yeah but like You could also not apply pressure By not doing the things that I mentioned Right? You could meet a girl Flirt with her And then not go nowhere And I think I was in that stage too Like I was doing a lot of like In and out in and out And actually I called out for it Like yo you just You just gonna call me pretty all the time Like that shit

[00:31:43] It actually turned me off I was tight And then I spun the block Like I'm not a pussy And I can say that So that was my turning point And that's when I decided to apply right Real pressure And be more Be more active as a There is a I think Not even a small window There is a window of interest Like that Yeah so if I apply this pressure I know my success rate is higher than most Yo I think I speak from the person That is uncertain of the success rate

[00:32:12] And has the hezi Like damn If I do this They gonna turn the They gonna turn the mellow next day Yeah like I don't wanna You know? And they don't jump Now you just looking like Like it's bobblehead night at the garden Like I don't wanna do that You feel me? Yeah nah And I always appreciate the window still Yeah the window I don't know Maybe I opened the window That's how much pressure I had to probably reapply Cause sometimes A girl tell you that Yo You doing all that Pump faking or whatever Like it's over Yeah it's clit It can be clit Yeah

[00:32:41] Once it turns into a full blown For a fucking relationship It's like Yo God you looked out You know what I'm saying? Speaking of God You know what's crazy? Speaking of God I wrote down Yo You know how we talk about Our attachment styles? Yeah In general You ever thought about Your attachment style with God? Like I have a very anxious Attachment style with Big Homie Like yo when is this gonna happen? Like I need to hear from you Like hurry up What's going on? Why you moving so slow? Like what do you have for me? Should I make this move? Should I?

[00:33:10] I have a very anxious style with God And I think You know I was mad hype When I found out I had a secure style But that shit don't matter When I'm like Anxious with God All the time Like all the fucking time I'm like yo gang Like not that I don't appreciate everything else But you think Yo this This Christmas list I got Is only I'm only asking for one thing now Like I'm thinking for everything else That I'm not gonna be You know ungrateful But like my style with Big Homie I'm very anxious

[00:33:40] Like yo please Help a nigga Come on now I'm the same way though But I'm also like Very like apologetic Like yo sorry if I'm not going in the right direction Help me Please God You continue to guide me I mean I gotta I mean this is It's the same as forgiveness Yeah Asking for forgiveness Yeah Like I know I'm not perfect Lord Like just continue to guide me Continue Follow me on this path Blah blah blah Like that I don't think about

[00:34:12] That shit That shit I have a check in approach You have a check in approach? Check in approach he said That's I feel that I can see that too I've had those moments with him like Yo we doing the right thing Yeah Alright I'm here You know Give me a sign brother Give me a sign brother Yeah That I think that's also That also Oh Show me if this is the woman for me And then Nigga I gotta I had wrote a whole Yo that prayer was mad long I got a wife prayer now

[00:34:42] That I say every night I ain't gonna reveal that Cause that's a little too personal But I mean I posted it in the close friends the other night I saw Yeah Yeah That's a long Yeah That's how I said I wish I Sometimes I was a lover boy like this Yeah I have a whole wife A wife prayer A wife prayer? Yeah Like I saw it I was like We gonna get into that lover boy conversation for a minute Behind the table Oh yeah Listen I know we talk about Patreon a lot I ain't gonna lie This might be one that you're gonna have to hear

[00:35:12] I might yell this episode I can't try If you subscribe for one week and leave Cause you wanna hear this week's episode I ain't even mad at you For those who've seen it We're covering the show Clever That came out on Netflix You know what I'm saying Beautiful bro And we're gonna have a great debate on it Maybe Maybe what No no we are I mean we all might be on the same phone side Who knows Highly doubt it Call the nigga a bum

[00:35:43] So yeah Subscribe to the Patreon and tune in to that episode That one I'm really excited to record I know bro Like I But yeah But yeah son The applying pressure The applying pressure concept to me Like I can Oh to answer your question Every woman I've dated Did I apply pressure to I'm trying to go down the list Oh Is that a long list? Nah it's not that long But I'm trying to think I'm talking about relationships Relationships yeah

[00:36:12] Then the answer is Damn if I say no it's gonna sound crazy I would say yes But I was confident In the applying pressure Cause I knew there was a mutual interest Nine times out of ten Most of my relationships started with A girl telling me she wanted me Cause you be chillin' Cause I be chillin' Now that I'm Yeah he nigga know I got You got You want to do the picking bro Now Listen listen Now that I'm A little bit more assertive

[00:36:43] I'm finding Maybe I've been Had those years of comfortability That like I have to get out of this It feels uncomfortable Cause I'm like damn Why do I feel like I'm begging Like nigga It's lit here You like R&B music? You know Sometimes you gotta be Come on bro Beg Beg nigga Women always say Oh there's no more Niggas don't romanticize no more Niggas don't be begging no more Niggas ain't not telling me I'm too hell Let it go I am afraid you do gotta let that Let it go Let it go Let it go Oh

[00:37:12] Listen man you got I mean if it feel like begging bro I think I feel right Feel right Cojo you crazy I'm crazy I don't know I don't know I don't know But what if What if you're applying pressure Cojo's trying to make us go viral on TikTok He's lying He's going crazy He's wilding He's wilding What if you think you're applying pressure But in her eyes you're not Oh my god You feel like you're doing the most But she's like you didn't really do shit I'm not This just has nothing for me Like you buying her flowers You buying all of this shit She's like

[00:37:42] I had niggas that do this before You ain't doing shit You ain't doing nothing special That's valid That's valid That's a valid argument That's why you gotta grab her up in the party And kiss her Come here Grind him out Yeah bro She gotta feel it bro Yo The party's crazy bro Yo They gonna put you in the stand next bro Oh shit This nigga Get a wallet bro You better bleep that

[00:38:12] Don't do that F*** Okay End that Um Nah that's a valid point But I think somewhere within that Well there's no but I would at least prefer to hear that Than me doing all this work It's like The f*** For nothing? It's not for nothing It's not Yeah You're not doing enough Ungrateful ass I would Just to know Cause then it would let me know I

[00:38:41] Sound like I set my shit up I'll leave It's not that I'm not in the The clear Yo just step it up Just step it up This Damn how damn You can't trust a woman like that bro Yeah he don't lie that's crazy yo Step your shit up Every bin minimum is different from people I mean yeah You can't trust a woman The other day Me and Deshawn was actually talking That felt good We was talking Cause he couldn't believe What I told him So I had showed him I had showed him the proof Of what was happening I was like yo bro you know me For all of my adult life

[00:39:11] I'd rather not lie So Yeah he was like yo bro That really happened I'm like yeah he was like yo bro Sometimes You gotta stay away from the soda and nuggets It's true You know that too Beer sippers Yo Nigga called them beer sippers Alright brother hold on Slow down Slow down Slow down brother Slow down brother Slow down brother It's low on calories brother Stick to the people that drink cold 45s brother

[00:39:41] He was like He was like yo you gotta You gotta you know you gotta stay away from the soda and nuggets Because they don't really appreciate what you're doing Or they don't even know They'll not accept it They'll not accept it So I took that advice for what it was And that's what I'm saying Sometimes you You gotta apply all the pressure you want If the force is in Inuitable Yeah then you look You look crazy regardless And that's that's one of my That's how I stay in my head a lot Like yo you look crazy That's why I will always say

[00:40:11] If you ever hear me say yo Almost did some dumb shit Nine times out of ten It ain't really dumb shit I just think I look crazy That's how I associate Some dumb shit Yeah cause I was talking to Dana about Um some other dumb shit And Dana agreed As a friend and as a fellow man bro I think my advice in this moment To you would be to Forget about looking dumb bro And like completely erase that out of your mind He gotta look at himself in the mirror bro

[00:40:40] No listen to me speak Because I think Yes sir I think it's irrelevant In when you If you're if you are an optimist I know I'm the optimist But if you are an optimist about this If you've sat and taken your time to pray about it There's some optimism behind that I don't know a pessimist that Really has that much faith Like you're not a pessimist No I'm not So if in your In your view of who you are as a person And what you believe God is going to grant you Eventually right At the end of that Please

[00:41:10] If you're listening to Kojo Yes that means That at the end of this There is a woman at the end of this Who is everything that you dreamed of But that does not mean that the path there is Roses and sunflowers bro Sometimes It is Sometimes It's

[00:41:40] That's so crazy That you hear this thing I said that with my head though I didn't say it out loud That's my fault That's my fault That's my fault That's my fault

[00:42:10] The tip of the iceberg I think LA's thing is like Cause that's forever That's through the whole relationship You gotta apply pressure bro To your queen You might have to apply You will have to apply pressure to your girl The woman that you put on Wait wait wait wait I don't I don't want you to Think that I'm not Or I'm above it It's the reaction to the pressure No so he can understand the joke Oh I will read it Nah it's a picture It's the Shit Oh tough

[00:42:39] You kidding You kidding I saw that before Yeah that's why That's why I had to Jog in memory But I'm more Focused in what I'm saying to you right now On your reaction to applying pressure And not seeing Yeah we out here trying to move the building We saying it's not moving That shit might have moved a centimeter We don't know You know what I'm saying We just don't know We don't know the progress we're making

[00:43:06] If we're only focused on The result of the pressure Yeah You know what I'm saying We should focus on our acts Our intention And our goals Until it's made clear to you That this is not for you Okay and it doesn't And the clarity doesn't have to be directly from the person That's what I Who can it be from? You can observe something For what it is You talking about the situation So not the person? Yeah

[00:43:36] But then that means you would play a role in that too Yeah It's not just her Oh listen listen listen Accountability Okay Yeah But then a part of taking accountability Like we always talk about Is doing the right thing once you're held accountable Absolutely So if I hold myself accountable Like I I've been applying pressure I haven't really been seeing anything And don't feel mutual It's a little one sided I've Talked to my My friend groups about it Got some honest feedback

[00:44:05] And I still continue to apply pressure Then it's like Alright LaShawn We You gotta hold yourself accountable here Hmm Okay Interesting that we said that In this whole conversation I don't think we talked about If us as men apply pressure to women Do they have to return the pressure? It has to be reciprocated

[00:44:35] Dane apply pressure Right? Dane plans a date Okay That's pressure? Okay And she Okay okay He makes intentions to see her Yes yes yes Right? And every Yo! Dane! Snotty nose? No more You can't let the person go slide You can't let the person go slide You can't let anybody else be doing bro Niggas That nigga fucking allergies Fucking him up Um Dane Dane creates this whole itinerary

[00:45:04] He goes He tries to see her Right? Uh huh I'm glad that nigga start walling out bro Alright Mixed with two serious things Mixed with six Continue Oh He tries to make time to see her She's always Not available

[00:45:33] She's not available Right? He comes He comes To the pod on Saturday He's like Yo bro We been talking I been trying to get to know this girl Blah blah blah I ain't really You know And we all say yo bro Maybe she not interested Maybe she just so flat out wouldn't tell you Or maybe she just too busy to date Or maybe she not in the right space to date Or she got a nigga Or she got a nigga Could be bad woman too Or she could be a bad person Either way

[00:46:02] I said bad woman but that's what we're saying Oh who's it? Um And Dane Dane hears what we say He go home He think about it He process it And then Tuesday he tries again That's Dane applying pressure still right? Yeah But he looks stupid doing that She's already showed you Without verbally saying I'm not interested How many dates You gonna plan That she not available for? How many Wait that confirms that she not interested though? I would think so Dang

[00:46:31] It depends I ain't gonna front If we talking about a schedule You tell me oh I'm available this day And I make a plan You don't show up? Nigga you know how big a date is I ain't gonna lie We done No it's fine to cut that off Yeah we done bro I ain't gonna front it It's over with I wouldn't say I wouldn't say you bugging But it doesn't confirm That she doesn't wanna fuck with you It doesn't confirm that She has to tell you that She has to tell me what? Joe is the same person Who said what? Who would say oh Um Damn what am I going with?

[00:47:01] People make time For what they wanna do I believe that Right? They Joe is literally arguing a point Before the pod That If we Oh yeah Yeah I don't wanna reveal that Cause that's off pod Women with kids Nah you know what? I'll let y'all cook I'll let y'all cook I'm gonna clip that part That's crazy Leaving that as a clip I am That'd be good No but I

[00:47:31] But you would say I don't wanna cross those two Cause I wanna stay with this No cause I'm saying You would say You're saying that Just because They're a mom Doesn't mean they don't have time Or that's the only thing That's making them busy Right? Cause a woman could get a job And be more busy Way busy than a woman Right? But There is some sort of communication That comes with that Hey here's my schedule Let me I won't have time this time But I can make time for this Right? So I've talked to a woman Who would tell me Oh my I'm free every other weekend

[00:48:01] But this weekend I already made plans with my friends Uh huh Maybe in two more weeks Uh huh We could do Yeah But That doesn't serve you Huh? That doesn't serve you No no no no no It didn't serve you It did? It did? Okay In four weeks But we ain't never gonna get no ass I wish they could go in your face But don't worry In four weeks We can set up some time

[00:48:29] Cool at least I know there's a set up But if it's just awesome I'll see Blah blah blah But yo you dealing with a person Who time travels And I'm still trying to make time for you Aight Come on I ain't gonna lie I ain't gonna lie I'm not gonna lie With a short With a schedule like that You might as well fuck with somebody that's getting deployed My God Bro Bro The nigga said he time travels He's right though He's right though But And you guys do have a point Mmm

[00:48:58] And I don't wanna step on y'all point I just wanna also say There is still no confirmation That she is not interested But sometimes you don't need the verbal confirmation So You feel it You get you have an idea In the situation Because She can tell the story later down on You felt like you was doing too much I'm gonna dub this I do I do have I write that Without the confirmation Yeah Alright then I've grown from that I'm just letting you know Oh so then why do you have to grow from that? Because it's a mentality You don't trust your instinct? I ain't gonna lie I ain't gonna lie That's not a bad thing

[00:49:27] But you too optimistic bro Like I ain't gonna front you want It's not even about optimism It's about what's fair is fair She can go and tell the story later down the line Like no I never I like this nigga I just was bad with time Oh so she's not good communicating Yeah She didn't Party let me cook Party let me cook Cause I'm cooking here Look look look Because she could go tell that story Now I really I liked him I was interested in him I just was in a space where I couldn't fucking Communication? I couldn't communicate You remember You said this on a pod That shorty Uh Came back Weeks later Yeah he said that okay

[00:49:57] I wasn't tripping Yeah he said that on a pod That shorty came back weeks later To say like yo I was fucking I couldn't communicate back then Like that I felt like he was moving too fast Oh she was in the space Right She that You made a decision She ain't fucking with me The whole time she was She just Was you know what I mean? You didn't confirm that But you made a decision that was Seemed confirmed Like oh yeah she don't fuck me That's why she spent a block on you Cause she was fucking with you She couldn't wait to see your selfie bro That's what I be trying to say Oh he went too far

[00:50:26] He went too far He went too far He went too far You was cooking and you went too far my man You saw you saw the add different seasoners You saw the add different seasoners You know what I mean? You gonna burn the chicken You gonna burn the chicken You know what I mean? Nah I understand That's what I mean That's what I mean There was a There's no confirmation in that decision And saying So would you flat Okay so would you keep going though? So would you flat out say Yo do you fuck with me? So I can stop applying pressure? That's how you confirm That's how you can get a confirmation Damn Now I think I'm being Damn nigga you mad at

[00:50:56] Refuge 30 Now also even though I said that You might have to deal with somebody Who might not be honest And might lie to you Like yeah I'm fucking with you Which would be a dumb decision Yeah I'm fucking with you I'm fucking with you Yeah I'm fuck with your energy Yeah you can hear that That's how they sound That's how they sound bro Oh y'all make me sick Anyway And then she'll come back And still be doing the same dumb shit Then I guess you can sit there And say well this doesn't serve me But will you ever be able to Truly confirm she don't fuck with you? Do you need the 100% confirmation though? You don't need it

[00:51:26] Okay You don't That's what I'm saying I can understand y'all movements But y'all cannot definitively say She wasn't fucking with me so I left Alright do you give yourself My phone cut you off Do you give yourself a time period Where it's like alright I'm gonna I'm gonna have This is really gonna be my joint In like three months or whatever And if you still applying the pressure Nothing's happening Do you then actually like yo My advice to all men Apply pressure for two months straight What? 60 days 60 days

[00:51:55] Regardless of result And see where it gets you But dictate it Dictate the amount of pressure And the power of the pressure Based off of what you are receiving In reaction In a season Based off the season as well So keep it low if it deserves to be low If you feel like she fucking with you Go medium Or high If she don't react well to the high Bring it back medium And stay there If she's not reacting well to the medium Stay low And when do you turn the stove off Joe?

[00:52:24] Turn the stove off after that 60th day So the 61st day The 61st day If she ain't ready to give you children Dict What? You want to hear? I'm joking I know you know you know you know you know you They went too far But at the 60th day I think two months is a good enough time Where you can realize Okay eight weeks have passed Um Alright like There's something here You could feel the groove You know what I'm saying Y'all might Y'all could plan a trip You know what I'm saying You know what I mean? What season did you Apply pressure to your shorty by the way? I just wanna Season? Yeah like what's it?

[00:52:54] Was it like summertime? Um I feel like that plays a role as well Uh Early year Early Early Maybe early in here My home girl told me that too Maybe winter See? She was like yo don't ever apply pressure during the summer They outside Oh I was saying that's a question I had I got that from a woman They're not good people I think I'm gonna cancel on TikTok man Oh man

[00:53:24] No no no no I'm just I No What is that? In the summer? That's what I was told my nigga That's why niggas be getting girls pregnant in the summer son Stay ass home I'm lying? That's a wrap Let's get out of here I'm lying? Let's just get out of here Alright I'm Don Peasley my name Don the camera guy Don the runner And you can follow me at StayFocusedLA Don't forget to like, comment and subscribe All things What's A Good Guy Coming out every Monday at 8am on whatstagoodguy.com If you're on that Patreon

[00:53:53] It comes out on Sunday And you get a double episode on Thursday If the hotel that I'm at got Wafa I didn't see the notification I was like damn we're late right? Yeah, then I gotta wait till I get back home But um Yeah, I try to get it done early and have it uploaded pre-ready Um But yeah, we got some good content This week though on May 25th Our brother Ty Key is throwing a golf event You know, I like to see black people in sports that are That aren't uh

[00:54:23] For us Dedicated for us But we are also good at It's called For The Culture For The Culture Yeah Shout out to our key It's at uh Bah bah bah It's on May 25th Mm-hmm From 5 to 10 Uh It's on 15th Hoyt Street, Brooklyn, New York 1-1-2-0-1 Uh Oh shit One hour open bar for the alcoholics So What's the sponsor? The sponsor? Uh, nah, there's no sponsor by the

[00:54:52] Oh, so it's Top Shelf probably Yeah, facts So, golf, food, drinks, and good vibes Brought to you by the good folks at You know Yo, I ain't gonna front I'll have some tealas I wanna tell you from Taki, one of the most innovative creatives I've met In the last 10 years, bro I ain't gonna lie, bro He know how to He reinvent himself Every time He's consistent He be having great ideas So yo I'ma send this to Taki I feel like he need to hear that Yeah, you know I know You know how I rock with you, bro I told something in person I said, yo, bro, you great, bro I know you be feeling like She don't be going your way, my nigga I'm like, yo, just be patient, bro You got it?

[00:55:22] Yeah, so So yeah, for the culture May 25th From 5 to 10 On 15 Hoyt Street We'll put the link in the bio of the pod If you wanna go Go out and show some love Golf Learn how to golf Learn how to play tennis You know Do some things that'll make you Get the body moving And grooving this summer You probably found somebody out there, too Enjoy something Yo, you know what's crazy?

[00:55:51] I got an episode that I wanna record Maybe next week It's called Where to meet them Cause one of my homegirls Asked me She was like, LaShawn, where you meeting these girls at? That like Have poor communication skills Man, I ain't gonna lie Brie said it Shout out to Brie Shout out to Dane's sister Brie was like, yo Where you meeting these girls that can't communicate? I said, Brie, they don't have a sign on their forehead That says I can't communicate Nigga, I can't talk So it's not So it's not

[00:56:20] Whether I meet them at a party Whether I talk to them on a gram Whether I see them on a plane I'm not gonna know You got someone on the plane for? Nah, nah Actually That coffee line almost worked Usually when they say When they say it It's a white woman So I be scared When they ask I ask them what they wanna drink And they be like Coffee And I ask them, how you like your coffee? She was like, just like you That almost worked But I had to maintain my professionalism And uh

[00:56:50] And uh, and I kept it pushing Um Damn man Yeah, so nah I don't think I would do that on the plane I don't know how that might go over at work So But yeah For the culture Pop out Swing Learn how to golf Have a good time Meet new people, man Yeah, facts And meet new people Um Till next time God is the greatest, baby Have a good time Have a good time