Episode 312: Too Fast

[00:00:03] Set the mood Oink Prayers for Wim Bignon My son had a blood clot That's the same shit Chris Basha had His was on his shoulder though, at least not his, Chris was his lungs Yeah, his was his lungs, yeah Y'all ready? Yeah, that was intense Damn, you already know this motherfuckers She wants to love us over with Donald Peasley Alongside of LaShawn Another beautiful day here in LA's palace What do you call this place besides your home?

[00:00:32] I ain't got a name for it yet You know? Because nobody's here to make it a home Yo, we here to make it a home for you Facts Y'all leave Y'all leave me like everywhere else Alright I knew that was going there They get comfortable on this couch and they go Oh fuck I'm sick and tired of this shit man Fuck Say hi Joe, how you doing? I'm doing alright man My feet are a little cold but that's my fault I should've said something Yeah I said

[00:01:01] Yo listen y'all, speak up for yourselves wherever y'all at man You know what I mean? Look at Dane killing it! I see the mistake you just said You gotta get through it, you gotta get through it I don't wanna put no pressure on my boy man I don't wanna put no pressure on him Dane killing it! Shout out to our producer, you know what I'm saying? Dane in the building? You can put it on yourself too man I can copy, copy, copy How y'all feeling though? Which moment off? What the fuck was that? What the fuck was that? The main camera, keep going it y'all Oh shit Yeah but I'm feeling good man This week, also kinda like a blur

[00:01:30] I feel like I'm easing into Well I'm trying to ease into A new schedule for myself As you guys keep, you know Encouraging of me But uh, other than that Just happy to be here Happy to be alive And yeah man, I'm excited for the next couple weeks So what's that time? Damn, am I ready? Right, right time? Just be flying I mean like not next week, but next week No, but that's the thing With February being the shortest month in general

[00:01:59] It also to me kinda flies by speed wise too Not only is it short, but I think In comparison to what January is And how January is So trying on our own When our minds and bodies is the fresh start of the year And stuff like that February in comparison is so short But I always seem to have Really good February's It's the end, it shows It's crazy Like I remember when I first First time I had left my first like corporate job

[00:02:29] Six months after that I started in like September I left in January And that's when I was like really doing my freelance shit heavy That first month of freelancing in January was tough The following February I had made the most money that I have ever made as an individual In the shortest month of the year But I always use February as a benchmark of like how my year is gonna go So if that's the case this year then Okay We went in Let's talk about my week while LA is fixing some stuff

[00:02:57] I can't really talk too much because my visuals is back on No you're good Damn so it's my week next Back on Alright so I guess it's my week next huh A little bit like yours like my week was kind of a blur I think I was like on autopilot a bit Yeah a little bit Having a gym per usual I'm gonna be back I would hope so Stop subbing me Yo we was on live I'm gonna keep sending niggas videos bro I'm gonna keep sending niggas videos

[00:03:26] Like yo bro like They call me worthless I didn't call you worthless I didn't say that Oh I thought I sent out all the same videos Like yo bro like you could do it That's what it was? It's like yo bro you know It's like more of like yo you didn't want it You don't want it bad enough Yeah I don't I mean you'll get to the point where it's like you gonna go do it But um yeah it's uh Work was cool We did Wrestlemania this week and I think we did Oh that's fine Yeah I'll um I don't think I sent you all the videos

[00:03:56] I think I was just literally on autopilot Um Wrestlemania and I did something We did something else Wrestlemania and Sandlot That's a classic first of all Yeah so and then we last week The week before that we did Deadpool And then we do a Deadpool again How does Job get all these clearances? Um that's that's what basically we do Um we work with licensing so Marvel, DC But y'all sell clothes though right? Yeah and it's yeah So y'all license So they get peace too Yeah facts

[00:04:24] No no so it's more it's more just marketing for them Yeah For people to rewatch it so Even when they bring out the I think there's another Deadpool or there's like another Sandlot 2 Whatever the fuck it is There's a Sandlot 2 Oh it's like uh It's like the anniversary Copy They'll drop something Yeah and then they drop the The anniversary for Fantasia the Disney movie We did a shirt for that as well Fantasia has a Disney movie? Not Fantasia but Reno Not Fantasia like that but yeah But shit like that um So yeah that's what basically I'm doing I'm putting this job is not serious

[00:04:54] It's basically what I'm doing I'm not saying it's not serious but it's like very unserious But yeah pretty solid week That's pretty dope man Oh my week how was my week? My week was emotional A lot of emotions this week Got my feelings hurt Sheesh Had to process that Another plane accident This time it's close to the home That close Knocked on the door Shit That shit getting closer

[00:05:25] Damn so That Tired trying to find time to sleep in myself Yeah made some money That's always cool Lost some money Lost mad money Quanti Quanti Oh what's the two? That investment shit I was fucking with Quanti this week But it was all good Finally packed finally packed Chase up out of here

[00:05:55] You got some new money? Nah Chase be stealing my money bro Stealing my money So you know I'm over with Hold on Why would I shit at? That's crazy So yeah I got that What else I did this week? That's it That's it Try and find my life again Try and get my life back Yeah That's about it But we could start Y'all not gonna do Rosebud thorn? Yeah facts

[00:06:24] Let's do Rosebud thorn bro I got mad thorns yo I got mad thorns Let's start with the thorn Nah go ahead dawg Rose? I would say my rose would be...

[00:06:56] My rose for the week would be... I guess doing WrestleMania. Okay. So once again, this is our first time doing it. Tell us what each thing is. Okay, so the rose would be what... So we say rose for the week. Rose would be what I love, the best thing about the week. Okay. And then Bud would be what you're looking forward to. And Thorne would be what you disliked about the week. Okay. So Rose would be the WrestleMania. Okay.

[00:07:27] Bud would be what I'm looking forward to with the Run Club. Because I'm shooting some stuff for the Run Club right now. Okay. See how that comes out. Um, Thorne. I think just lack of sleep this week. Okay. It's been a fucking shit show. Alright. So that's me. Alright, Joe. Rosebud, Thorne. Um, I gotta... Can you have multiple roses? Yeah. I ain't a freaky frog.

[00:07:58] Yo, what? I would say my roses for this week. I had a creative session with my homegirl, Dani. We hadn't done that in a minute. Me and her usually, like... We get a lot of shit done together when we lock in. That was a good creative session. We got a lot of work done. And that was fun. Um... My other rose would be... We finally mixed Reigns EP. Finally, finally, finally mixed. So that was a long, long process. But it's sounding good. So that was a good moment.

[00:08:28] So shout out to Preach, too. Um... My bud, what I'm looking forward to... I'm looking forward to, obviously, work starting soon. So... Um... I wasn't trying to use my own joint. Uh... When they give you an M4? I don't know what's coming in. I didn't ask no questions. So they just got my... Now you gotta start inquiring.

[00:08:57] Hey, so is it... You know what I mean? Can I get to 17 inch? Oh, of course. It's a wild place, man. Oh, my thorn. Uh... Thorn would be the fact that... It's the waiting period of it. It's still... It's a bit of a thorn in my side. You know what the real thorn is? When you start working and you're waiting for that first check. Like... See, I don't think that... I don't be too hyped. I don't be too hyped. For the two weeks?

[00:09:27] Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's a two-week wait. Well, technically, you won't have to wait the first 30 days. I don't know what it's gonna be like. Because the... The work that you've done from the first two weeks will be... You will get paid for that for the last week. So you technically gonna go the whole... Whole month. We gonna see. You want lunch money? I would love it. I would love it. But yeah, man. Those are my rose buns and thorns. Okay. My rose... Is dead. It needs to charge.

[00:09:57] Yo. Fucking sick of it. Nah. Got home safe. That's... That's all that... That's all that really matters sometimes. You get home safe. Looking forward to... This vacation that I got coming up. I ain't got nothing planned and I kind of like it that way. Just... Time to myself. Relax. I got a court case on the 5th. I'm gonna spank that shit. But if not... You know? Free me till they free me. So you got a gun.

[00:10:27] You got a gun. Don't just free me. Then hopefully I beat that shit like Rocky did. You know? Um... Hug his family. Double or tantra. All right. Uh... My thorn, man. Damn. Hmm. My thorn... I would say, uh... I questioned myself this week. Like if I'm doing this shit right. No life? Yeah. Cause the game is...

[00:10:57] I was talking to Dane about it. The game is rigged, boy. They tell you to do it a certain type of way. You're supposed to be a certain type of person. Or have a certain type of character. Or do the work. Do the work. So you're a better person. And for better interactions. And it still seemed like that's backfiring. So it had me questioning my worth a little bit. But, you know. After I went to sleep, I kind of felt a little bit better. And I got a haircut. That's all I really needed. I needed to get my hair done. Nigga, so I wasn't depressed. I just needed a haircut.

[00:11:27] Yeah, facts. As soon as I walked out the barbershop, somebody told me I look nice. So I needed that. You handsome, Louie. But yeah. So yeah, that was my rosebud thorn. For real, for real, for real. Okay, glad to have everybody here, man. Yeah, facts. You know, I'm from blessing them. So yeah. Delta Flight. Crazy. Upside Down. Crazy. That was nerve-wracking.

[00:11:56] Yeah, I'm not going to lie. That was nerve-wracking. I didn't even want to text. I didn't want to text. I said, yeah, I ain't going to pray. I'm just going to pray for something. I ain't. People already sent something. About 30 messages already. Yeah, I checked. I said, no. Well, no, we spoke earlier, so I knew. I was speaking to him earlier, so I knew where he was at. Safe travels, my man. Yeah, bro. Yeah, it was Delta Flight 4819, but it was operated by Endeavor. Yeah, what does that mean? So Endeavor is a subsidiary airline under Delta Airlines. So. I never heard of them.

[00:12:26] Yeah, but most of them, like, American Airlines have something called American Eagle. Like, most. Oh. Yeah. I thought that was just like a cool name of the plane. Nah, nah. It's another airline that's under. Oh. So, you know, the record label. You got Universal, but then you got Def Jam. So Endeavor is like a Def Jam tool. Gotcha. They handle all the smaller flights. But nevertheless, you know, training is still the same. Customer service is still the same. The brand is still the same. Damn DCI flights.

[00:12:54] And if you're not really into, like, airline language, you wouldn't even know that, like, operated by Endeavor. You wouldn't really know. So. Remember what I was saying, yo? I don't saw until we got that game. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And that's what we was talking about on the phone. I'm like, yo, it's manifesting everything you said, like, little by little. I'm just like, my nigga, it was just an accident on a thing when they were planes bumping into each other.

[00:13:24] Like, why is everything LA was saying to me coming to, like. Because you, you, you, when you, when you work it, you understand, like, yo, it's not over yet. It's not over until the pilot released the brakes. I never felt that. And even, and even that is not really over because sometimes you could be parked and a plane wing will hit your plane and, you know, you got to deal with that. So it's not over until you actually need the plane. Until you get up. Yeah. Until you get your back. Until you get on the fucking jet bridge. And that's insane. Damn.

[00:13:52] So whatever the landing was, it was a freak accident to say the least. Plane ended up being upside down. That was a wild visual. Wild visual. But, but, you know, as crazy as, I try to find a bright side of this. But injuries, but no death. Yeah. The training works. You got me. Yeah. The training works. You know, you do, you do your six weeks, your seven weeks, your eight weeks.

[00:14:21] And whatever it is that it took for you to become a flight attendant for these situations that, you know, I said, I usually say the best part of my job is not doing the job. Because the main job is, you know, these crazy situations and you got to spring into action. You got to turn into a firefighter. And even that, an accident like that and the plane didn't explode or, you know, it was just great timing by the crew. I commend the crew. I hope they. I heard it was an all-female crew.

[00:14:51] Was that propaganda? Even if it is. I've seen female crews all the time. No, that's fine. I would have loved to salute them if it was. Yeah. Like, that's fine. Yeah. So that's not uncommon, an all-woman crew. And shout outs to them, you know. You spring into action. You try to save as many lives as you can. And that's exactly what they did. They got everybody off that plane and time and safe and home to their families. See what happens when you listen? See what happens when you listen. Facts. People would take their seatbelts off.

[00:15:21] Well, you know, once you land, you take them off. And I think in those conditions, you don't care. You don't care. And something happened after work yesterday that really kind of pissed me off. Let me see how I can explain this. So there's a bus that comes and takes us from the airport to the parking garage or the parking lot. And I guess the buses had mechanical issues, so they bought us like a smaller van.

[00:15:51] And it took about 45 minutes to get there. And obviously, the longer it takes, the more people there. And the pilot was kind of hard on the driver. And I didn't like what the pilot said. So the pilot was like, yo, are you going to call your boss? I want to speak to your boss. The guy was like, yo, I'm not doing that. And the pilot was like, that's why you drive a bus. Oh, my God. Yeah, and I was really disgusted.

[00:16:23] If I didn't already was, I was already in a funk. That just made it worse. Nah, I knew if I spoke, it would have made it worse. He would have upped it on Saturday. Yeah, it would have been really bad. So, but I do feel guilty for not saying anything. When we, as I was getting off the bus, you know, I apologized. I was like, yo, you didn't deserve that. You're just doing your job. And sometimes, you know, you go to work not expecting to deal with certain things.

[00:16:52] And he ain't control all the buses being out of maintenance. Matter of fact, he could have called out and, you know, I'm not dealing with this. But he still took the time and, you know. So, but he ain't deserve that. He ain't deserve that. I actually, I'm still upset about that. Because the pilot didn't have to speak to the guy like that. That was uncalled for. You ever been in a situation like that? Somebody tried to belittle you at work? Yeah, especially as a flight attendant.

[00:17:21] Because they think you, you, you. Yeah, serving. You just serving cookies and shit. So, they don't really take your jobs and. Niggas said I mean. But Coil A is serving his own crib? No. Sometimes, sometimes, yo. But that's the thing. Yo. I remember one time. Somebody was really upset about like. I couldn't give him a can of. Pepsi or some shit. Yeah, a can of. We don't serve Pepsi. We're a Coca-Cola brand.

[00:17:50] Shout out to the sponsors. But he wanted a can of something. And I didn't have one to give. And he was just throwing a fit. And I'm like, yo. Need I remind you? I'm not here for like this. I'm here for like. If something bad happens to you. The same person you give an attitude for. It's the same person who's going to try his best to make sure you get home. And he was like. You know what, man? I'm sorry. That is a wake up call.

[00:18:20] And that was. Nigga, do you feel like turbulence? Yeah. And that was before all this traumatic stuff is going. So sometimes people don't really realize like, you know, the role that you play. And so, yeah. I don't understand people having attitudes in the air at all. Like truthfully, like in my head, you go up there, bro. Your main mission is just to focus on yourself. These are all the people you got right now, bro. Or the people you're with. And that's it. Y'all together for however many hours. That's it, bro. I hear this white noise in the air.

[00:18:49] Yo, just shut the fuck up, bro. Just shut the fuck up. Take a nap if you're upset, bro. Like even if you are upset, up there should be the perfect time for you to find the peace to ease into it. And don't be an asshole to the woman or man that's walking down the aisle trying to make sure you got what you need or whatever. I never understood people that are like, people that work in customer service that customers give them shit. It's like, oh, bro. Yeah. Another person probably just gave me shit five minutes ago. At this point, my nigga, I just want to quit. Like you don't know what type of day another person is having. It's like, oh, bro. Just take it easy, son.

[00:19:18] You probably frustrated or just take it easy on somebody else because they could be having the worst day, my nigga. Yeah. I think giving grace is an important thing and it's an underrated thing that people just aren't doing anymore. But, you know, it is what it is. But while I was on one of my layovers, I was in Florida. Florida. Wednesday night. Mm-hmm. And went to mini.

[00:19:46] So I went from 81 degrees to negative two. That's not nice. In 24 hours. That's not nice. That was cold. That's not nice, bro. It was, oh my God. But nevertheless, I'm in my hotel room. I'm scrolling. That's where you went wrong. I'm scrolling aimlessly on TikTok. And I come across this girl talking about how she flew herself out to Atlanta. So I'm like, all right. Typical flew out story. I like these stories. Damn, I miss this.

[00:20:15] She fly herself to Atlanta for a young boy, though. A YN? A YN. Well, he don't want to be called a YN because he's 25. So. All right. So she flies. It was over Valentine's Day weekend. She shoot her shot. Nah, he shoot his shot. He said, I need that. Hashtag need that. Right?

[00:20:42] And her response was, oh, I've been wanting you to need this. Or something to that extent. I feel like that stuff only work when it works. Yeah. If it would have missed it, it would look bad. This whole story is if it didn't miss, it would have been a love story. But it didn't. So. Cool. They talking. They talking through DM. Now, he says something.

[00:21:08] You know, he casually said, you ever spoke to a woman who don't live in your town? That don't live in my town? Yeah. That don't live in your state. No? Not on you? Yeah. So you know the typical line. It's just a regular line. Nothing too crazy. Oh, I'm in your city? Nah. Not that one. Yo, whenever you in town, you know, just let me know. Uh. It's very rare that they gonna just end up in it. Listen, wait. What the fuck? What you doing here? It's very rare that. So homie was just like. Oh, I see where this is going. Hold on.

[00:21:36] Homie was just like, yo, whenever you in Atlanta, let me know. Yeah, nigga, it was bullshit. Please. Yeah. Is that serious? And she with the shits. So she was like, she said, she said, when am I ever gonna just casually be in Atlanta? Right? Cool. Maybe an hour later, booked it. Sicko. Nah, that's some sicko shit. But I respect the energy though. Shorty said. I respect the energy for sure. That's what I want to talk to you about later. Yeah. Keep that in mind. So Shorty was like, yo, booked it.

[00:22:05] So, but she was on some like, yo, but before I come out there, yo, let me FaceTime you. Whatever, whatever. So she trying to make sure homie not a catfish. Ah. Oh, so this is that kind of fresh. Yeah. Okay. So, so. Damn, it still be happening like that on the internet? Facts. So. I hear this like love and anger. Okay. They FaceTime each other. I'm telling both stories at the same time. Okay. Because at first it was just her side, but then he replied. Oh, so you got both perspectives. Yeah.

[00:22:31] So homie was like, yo, what she looked like on the gram versus what she was on the FaceTime wasn't really matching. So he was trying to like. Curvy. He was trying to give her the cold shoulder without being an asshole. But shorty was very persistent on coming out there. So now. So now she's still booking. She's still going. They get to the airport. He. She's like, yo, I'm trying to get a hotel.

[00:22:59] So he give her a hotel and it's sold out. But she already on the plane. I think that's her first mistake. Why? She ain't got a hotel. She ain't get a hotel before she got on the plane. What? So she. She was expecting homie to pay for it. Oh, okay. He was already. Once he saw her, he was like, he trying to. Yeah. Yeah. This is not happening. Man. So. He hit her with the. He hit her with the. Yo. No matter of fact, her flight was at 11. He said he hit her around four o'clock.

[00:23:29] Yo, I'm going to have my daughter for the weekend. Ah. Use them kids. Use them kids. Use them damn kids. He said, yo, I'm going to have my daughter for the weekend. It's not really looking too promising. So, you know, I don't. You know, I have my daughter for the weekend. So. End of story. He trying to. He was like, yo, I don't really have nobody around my kid. You know, the typical. Real nigga shit. Hang on. How you talking about that? I like your game, my brother. I don't really have nobody around my kid or whatever. Cool. Cool.

[00:23:58] Shorty still get on that plane. She was like, yo, can you find us. Oh, she could have canceled her flight at this point. Because he told her at four. And it was 11 o'clock. Mm-hmm. So. She still. She still went out there. She lands. Right? With no hotel. She said the flight attendant helped her find a hotel. Shout out to the service. Shout out to the service. Still giving service after. I don't know about me. I'm done for the night. That's service of the heart. That's me, brother. I'm not helping you find anything.

[00:24:29] But. So, boom. She gets to the hotel. She thinking he going to compensate it. Now, here's where she get nasty. What's going on? What are we? She starts telling all his business. She's like, yo. At this point, I thought his lifestyle was capped. You know, he this big scammer. Blah, blah, blah. She trying to get homie indicted. Because. Yeah, you could assume how he getting money or whatever. But you don't really know. Why are you telling this man business? No here, no there. Right? So.

[00:24:59] He said. He said. First of all. Me. If that was me. I don't think I'd have went that far. Because I'd have felt like shorty trying to lie on me. Thanks. Right? Right? So. Because she was mad persistent on still seeing him. So. She said this whole message. Like, yo. Yo, I came out and saw you. And you moving funny. Blah, blah, blah. He was like, yo. I already told you I got my daughter. Blah, blah, blah. So he checked on her. He was like, yo. You safe? Are you safe though? So.

[00:25:28] She sends this long message about how she feels. She didn't like how he moved with her. Boom. He didn't respond. He didn't respond. He showed the text thread. She said. A couple hours later. Remember the first time. Yo. Whenever you in Atlanta. How often am I going to be in Atlanta? A couple hours later. Booked it. So a couple hours after that. She was like. You still want to pull up though? Who said that? She said. Yeah. I was feeling settled then. So she wanted to. You know what I mean? I mean. She out there. Word. She flew out there.

[00:25:58] She leaving it with something. She leaving it. She trying to leave it with something. You know what I mean? So this is when. Homie said shit got weird. She. She. She texted him a picture of like. Throat numbing. Hey. And. And this three mouth strips. Wait. What was he insinuating? No. No. No. She said that to him. Oh. So she numbed her throat. Oh. Oh. At that point.

[00:26:28] I don't feel like you about to get laundered. I don't know if that's happening. Yo. No. I mean. I'm mad excited. No. No. No. I did. I did. I see where you're going. My nigga was like. Yo bro. You trying to. You trying to tip me? You shot from half though. That's. That's not. Bro. That's not a lot. That's OG. So listen to the funny part. In a Listerine. She was trying to gobble something bro. Us. Us as an older man. We kind of know what that kind of. What she is saying. He was like. You got a side of this. You not feeling well.

[00:26:57] Talking about you not something. We not a Y-ed nigga. That nigga. You never did a Y-ed. Yo what? He didn't catch what she was trying to. That nigga. I'm going to front drop my eye. I'm going to do a fucking Chick-fil-A or something. Yo. Yo. Now what? So she. She. Yo. She was trying to let him know. Like yo. Like. You know. My throat. My face. Yeah. My throat. My throat ready for you. That nigga. So you got a sinus infection. Now. Joe mentioned earlier. You know.

[00:27:27] You fuck with the energy. I do. That is kind of. You know what I mean? That's too much. How. How fast is too fast for a shorty? Yo bro. Something's off. Yeah. Something's off. Yo. You think she. Up the side. My nigga know. Something's off with the front. Or something's off with the brain. Yo bro. Either one. It's like yo bro. You ever. You ever thought about it. Like one time. I'm sure you throw that. She was like yo. This shit's tweezy. Something's afoot. Something's afoot. You never thought that? You never thought that before? How easy are you? Yeah. You got to look at yourself too. Yeah.

[00:27:57] It's not that easy. Because if she. If she. If she. She. If she. If she. If she. If she clip. Like if she did clip. Right. That means he's just as easy. Yeah. Because sometimes you. I mean I guess in a moment. You would probably think that you're just the smoothest nigga on earth. Like you just got all your game work. Like it worked. Like you charmed her. You know what I'm saying? Mm. That. I don't think that. That doesn't make. That doesn't make you look at the girl like something's. Something's up with her. So is it. Because. I'm telling you this. What if she was paying?

[00:28:27] What if she's paying? If she was paying? If she was paying? If she was paying? He would have threw his daughter out like Jackie Jackie. That's my nigga. Go walk somewhere. That's what I really want to know. If she was paying. He would have had a blast that weekend. He would have had a blast. And you FaceTimed her? When he FaceTimed her. He would have had a blast. If he FaceTimed her. And he saw what he liked. Yeah bro. Bro. Come on. He would have found a sitter for his daughter. He would have brought her. I still wouldn't think it's a setup.

[00:28:57] I feel like oh. Yo bro. They be paying. But it's like yo bro. You think it's a setup in a term. In a term where she. My buddy worked like that though. She got on a plane. Pulled up to another city. You never move fast with a shorty. Like yo. This is. Like when you look back on it. He'd be like yo. I should have had done that. Like I was moving crazy. I did with the. I ever told you. I met the Spanish one. I used to be. Hanging us during the podcast. Yeah. Yeah. I told you I met her on. What's it? Have I done this? What's the date at?

[00:29:28] Hinge. Tinder. I met her on Tinder. Oh okay. Nigga. Started dealing with her or whatever. And then she started hanging around me. I'm like I ain't go in front of my nigga. I don't think she should be here. She a little off in the brain. Like the two. I guess the two easy thing. I don't have that. I'm trying to think. Well I'm talking about like move fast. Like. You speak to her today. You speak to her today. Like. Tomorrow you in love. No no. She trying to pull up on you tomorrow. Oh the same day. Same night. Same flight. I've had the same night.

[00:29:58] Same flight before. Same night. Same flight. Yeah. I've had the same night. But that. That felt like. Just the way of the times. Off the gram. Not the gram. No. Person. Nah. It gotta be with socials. The gram is crazy. That's why I had to ask. If that's really what's still going on. Like I didn't know that was all in the green. Like that was quick. He's still on the green. He DM'd her. You know. I need that. She respond. I need that. I was waiting for you to need that. That I like. I like that. I was waiting for you to need that. I've never tried that. I've never tried to need that.

[00:30:27] You know what I'm saying? I like a story or two. Keep it like that. She's like a story back. Like two stories back. So it's like. I don't have a story. You know. I think you should start. You know. Put some feelings out there. Nah. I ain't no. No. No. Not right now. Not right now. I gotta recover. I gotta recover. No you don't. Apparently. Oh no. Oh no. Oh shit. Apparently you're fine. That's crazy that Joe just did that. That's fucked up. That was nice bro. My feelings are still hard.

[00:30:58] I don't know if she was complimenting you. Or trying to fucking. So what Joe is alluding to. Oh you're going there? I was recently told. That I'm. I don't even know how to say this man. I'll say it now. I'm still trying to recover. Nigga Joey. Yo Joey. Shut your mouth. You need to. You need to unlock your mouth. It's for the entertainment value. It's just. I'll say it for you. It has anything to do with a shot bro.

[00:31:27] He said I got you bro. I'll never read. We share the business together. Don't worry about it. Oh shit. Damn. I'm trying to. I'm trying to. How do I do this? I figured out a way to word it. I'm too healed. Oh you gotta be a little toxic. That's a sick woman. I'm telling you bro. So what. So what. So what is that? You need a little toxic. Like people need a little toxic. Maybe. But maybe. Is that it? Cause it's like. Does it become like. Not calling you bland.

[00:31:57] But like does it become too bland. Like you're not. But no. That's some bullshit right. Because. I think we were discussing this earlier LA. Like. There's this premise that. Oh yeah. Come healed. I'm not trying to deal with none of that trauma. That baggage. That's. All these niggas have right. Now you're in a position where. Okay. Maybe you are healed. Maybe you're not. You know what I'm saying? Maybe you are healed. Maybe you're not. But. You come and you meet somebody. And they tell you. Oh no. This is too good for me. Or like. Oh nah. You got everything together. What you want to fix a nigga. And they complain about it. The fuck is wrong with you? Yeah. I don't know.

[00:32:27] That shit like. You know what I. You know what I need to heal? How long I stay mad. Because that shit had me. Oh. Oh. It bothered you. Yo. Bro. I thought you were laughing at all. What the fuck do you want? Yo bro. I was dwelling on. Yo. You ever got mad that you was mad? Yeah. Like why is this bullshit? That's some bullshit. Yo bro. Yo bro. I wanted to yo. I was in church. I got to church mad early. Nigga prayed on it. And I went to the altar. I said God what the fuck man? Sorry new life. If you watch it. I'm like yo.

[00:32:57] Yo bro. What yo. Yo bro. What is it son? You do the work. You do the work. You don't project. I'm sorry man. You try to. I'm feeling it. You go to therapy. Yo. You go to therapy. You execute what the therapist is telling you. You're doing the work. You're doing the work. All for it to say that. Yo. Hey. You're too good. Wait. What? What? But you know. After. After.

[00:33:27] After. After that. You know. I mean. At that point. I'm on autopilot in the church. I'm just coasting. And. Something in the service. Kind of. Kind of alluded to that. But then you. I kind of think about from like. That person's perspective. Maybe they feel. Or what they were saying was. What they got going on. They don't want to interfere. With. What you got going on? With me being healed. Or whatever the case may be. Okay. Right? Okay.

[00:33:57] And I can kind of get that. But my perspective on life bro. Sorry. My. My perspective on life bro. Life is full of peaks and valleys. Yes it is. Yes it is. So. You may. Whatever. She may feel like she's not healed that. Hmm. Something may happen to me with that. Now I got to heal from it. Okay. Yeah. Okay. You know what I'm saying? And you. Like. I'm here. You're here. Right? Cool. That's something in life. Will probably bring me here.

[00:34:26] And you here. Mm-hmm. And then it'll go like that. Right? But the gap that's between here and here. Is where the partnership will come in. Mm-hmm. Where I pour into you. You pour into me. And then we keep each other here. Yeah. For the most part. So I'm not looking for somebody to come healed. If you're doing the work. If you first can identify that you need healing. That's half the step. Oh that's the first step at least. Then you. Then you do what it takes to. Yeah. And the other truth. That. What?

[00:34:56] She may not have put into perspective. Is that. You may come off or be. You know. May be projecting a healed person right now. But there's still things that you. Yeah. Still should be working on. Yeah. Yeah. There's facts. Like. Like. Get it over shit fast. Like yeah. She did that to you. And then you had to deal with that. And if she was there for the ride. And there was something else that had caused. A certain emotion like that in you. She would have to. And beat it for that. So. We're not perfect. And even doing that. Saying. Oh you're too healed. I'm just gonna go my separate way. It's like. You just caused another problem. Oh if I'm healed you just fucked it up.

[00:35:26] Yeah. Thank you. Thanks. I thought you cared about me. Topical to the ER. Right. You know what I'm saying. Alright. But no. That's a great. That's a great factor. So. Yeah. That was. That's tough. Yeah. That is. And it's a recurrent theme. That I'm hearing. You're too good. Not the too good. But like. The heel. The heel aspect is not. As much of a benefit. As you would think it is. You think good guys actually do finish last then?

[00:35:56] Yeah. What's a good guy? What? Yeah. I don't want it to be mean no more. Fuck this shit bro. Fuck this shit. But do you. Do you change who you are just to get. Get. Happiness. Hell no. I don't know. Because how do you even fake it? Do you act. Do you act toxic? Do you act toxic? No. Not even act. You just got to change your environment. Start hanging around with some. Some real bad people. Hopefully it'll rub off on you. But LA's going to. If LA's around that type of energy. He's going to just sit in the corner of me quiet. No.

[00:36:26] He got to lean into. I got to lean into the toxic shit. Yeah. Maybe scam a little bit. Probably call Ruben. Behind the table. Okay. Okay. All right. I'm going my bad Ruben. I mean this is still Monday. It's still going out. Still going out. It's going out the world. It's still going out to the world. Then they're going to be in the car. Like what the fuck I do? They can go text me. Why you say fuck me for? Hey Ruben. But yeah.

[00:36:53] Going back to that quote unquote moving fast. I am guilty of not even first night, first flight. But like talk to you today. See you tomorrow. First week. First eat. You ever ate on first night? On the first night? I ain't on front night. First meet. First eat. It's crazy. I ain't going to lie. I'm always getting some shit on my lip. Go ahead and shoot on this lip. I'm good. He's pussy on the first link. It's crazy. I'm sorry. It's crazy. I'm not judging you.

[00:37:23] If it's pain. I'm not judging you. But I'm judging you. Well your honor. I'm guilty of charge. I'm guilty of charge. Nah. I think I moved fast before though. I think me moving that landing was a fast move though. Second link I'm okay with. First please have some resistance. Resistance. You can do everything else. I go head first. I'm going to ask a weird question. I ain't going to ask it. Dude she paid. I'm going to ask too. I'm going to ask it.

[00:37:59] I'll co-sign. Hold on. Shit right next to it. I'm going to call my son on camera. Yeah you got to do it. Uh huh. Niggas ain't even flying. Huh? You lying? Cool line. He said you got it. On the first night. Nah he talking about you nigga. On the first night? Yeah nigga. Quani Mike. Mike Mike please. Please. Quani Mike. You wasn't here for the meeting. Yeah we got in trouble. Ass is crazy. You got in trouble? Yeah he wasn't here. Oh yeah oh yeah. Nigga scolded me crazy. Nah I did it. Nah something different.

[00:38:28] We got in trouble for being the peanut. Nigga said what else are we doing? Nigga can't. Nah nah. I'll tell you later. Oh um. Nah I feel like niggas is lying. I think that if you. I agree with you. If you see something and it's pain. Pain. Nigga ain't going to be thinking about first link. Nigga. This is the link. What are you talking about? First link. I'm not thinking about no second link. This is a link. This is make it or break it. Make it or break it. Yeah bro. I have to make the best impression I can. So my thing is you got to. That means you got to give her your full.

[00:38:57] When that time comes. Nigga I try to do that every time. If she pain. Right nigga said if she pain. I ain't have assed enough of bro. She's pain. Yo you tired. You lost your little joint now. You tired. You still going to give her food. Yo. We got something for that. That nigga. Subscribing to Bluetooth. It's crazy. I'm not saying y'all wilder. I just think y'all should like. We said. I mean we're not saying that we do that now. No. Nah. Ass. Ass. I mean. I said me. I'm not saying me.

[00:39:26] Ass is crazy on the first date guys. If you call me bro. Is she pain. What am I calling you for. That's all right now. Niggas I got ass in the breath nigga. This probably won't happen. Because LA won't take any of my recommendations anymore. But if he called me. And be like. Yo. I went out with ah ah. And on the first link. I've never told you anything about bisexual endeavors. No. Not really. Like. So. I'm just saying. You know why. Because you can tell it. I tell a story for you. Nigga will fucking tell it to Rick. Listen. Come on man.

[00:39:57] You a sick nigga though. Sorry. Oh man. But yeah. Now ass is crazy. Niggas never move. Oh. Nah. What's the fastest you've moved? Same boat. Faster than him. Probably. Nigga can't beat my time. My PR. Put me in the run club. Put me in the run club. You know what it is for me. I don't know if this.

[00:40:26] I don't know if this is too freaky. It's not too freaky or anything. I trust my discernment. So first of all. I'm not even trying to get. Next to anything that I don't. No man. That just. We not letting this run. We got an. We got an. We got an. I never said anything. That was all. That was my first time saying so. We not letting this run. I'm sorry. Do the march. Get it off for February. But that's it. Women's History Month. We only doing baddies. No. Let me stop.

[00:40:57] Fact. So. I trust my discernment enough. To know. If I'm moving fast. I'm okay with the outcome. But. But. If she's on timing. I'm always there for that. I'm always there for that. So. So. So you sound like you. Your tune has changed. So she throwing it. First night. And that's all she wants. That and that's it. That's all she wants. She don't want no relationship. Nothing. Just straight. Nah. Nah. You haven't changed your tune yet? Nah. Nah.

[00:41:27] That. That tune is never getting changed. She throwing it first night. I got too much to offer for you to just want that. I don't know. I mean. Maybe. Maybe. Maybe. I mean. I'm getting pissed off. I mean. Yeah. I'm falling for it. What are you talking about? What are you talking about? Quieting the mic. Yo bro. We're inside now. She throw that shit first night. That's all she want? I don't got to do nothing but just put some dick in you? Let's do it. Damn it to her. We're dusting. Nah. We're watching a little TV for about five minutes. Netflix show. Y'all still watching. We're not.

[00:41:57] We get slam dancing. No. What I'm trying to say, Kwonty, is I agree with you. I don't mind the first night slam. But not all the moves though, bro. Not all the moves? Not all the moves, bro. I'll hit you with a rock bottom. You need him a little obsessed though. You need him a little obsessed. If she'll give it up on the first night, that means she'll come back tonight too. You don't know that. That's not the guarantee. You don't know that. It's not a guarantee. You don't know that. I have a bad game. Yeah. I go for it.

[00:42:26] You should hate it. She watch you do it. You don't know how to the butt. Okay. Now imagine you eat it and you don't come back either. You're not eating it. You're not eating it right? You better treat that shit like Jell-O. What's the shit they didn't be using with they hands? You're not fufu. Like I said. I don't even look. Yo. Why you got the technique down? That's how they fuck this wrist up. Yo. Yo. And you're part of this business.

[00:42:58] Nah. The silliest today is OD. We need to. Oh. Shawty's not here, bro. It's a fucking great time, son. Shawty might be HR. Niggas get so serious around Shawty. Shawty might be HR, bro. Yo. Oh, shit. Nah. No. Your technique is elite. I ain't gonna front. This nigga been around too many Africans, bro. That shit is crazy. My nigga made you, man. My nigga made you, man. Oh, shit. Damn. Yeah, so. Overall, that fast shit.

[00:43:28] I don't. I can't say I don't believe in going too fast. But I don't believe overthinking it. Yeah, I genuinely believe if you met a joint on the internet. Like Shawty did. And she gave you that energy off the DM. I feel like you'd help on a flight. I'll throw myself out. I'll throw myself out. With no guarantees? Like off the spirit? Not her. Not like her. No, no, no. Nothing is insane. No, I'm saying.

[00:43:57] I know you will situate yourself. You'll make sure you have somewhere to go or do. Yeah. Make sure I got peoples out there too, though. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. I've flown myself to a city to link somebody. And took care of my own stuff. I won't throw nobody else in the room. I'm not the only one who has done it. Shit. Same city too. Same city, same friends. The fact that I know exactly. Friends. Friends.

[00:44:29] Yo. Yo, boy. Yo, boy. Yo. Yo, boys. I'll tell you, man. Shout out to them hoaxes. But, yeah, facts. But we had a whole date and all of that planned. We had a date planned and all of that. So it wasn't all some, like, come link me type shit. You know this? The Ajo was a good guy story of you doing a first date in whatever country that was. Jamaica. Right?

[00:44:57] Was that be considered fast too fast? Nah. Because I feel like this is your spirit, bro. Nah. Mm-mm. No? That wasn't fast. That wasn't fast? That was our first date. But we didn't just meet each other that day. We knew each other for a while. So it wasn't like a, I just met her and it's like, yo, we going to Jamaica for our first date. I ain't that crazy. How much money did you spend? Damn, this is intrusive. Nah, go ahead. How much money did you spend? I mean, you tell my business all the time. How much money did you spend? All right.

[00:45:26] So how much money did you spend on her during that trip? Because if we calling it a date, I know what a date sound like or is. How long were you there? Four days. I think so. Damn. Yeah, I think so. You spent over a bit. Yeah, I think so. That's over a bit, eh? Yo. Solid. Yeah, I think so. I think it was a lot. A lot? That's fast, eh? At that time. Once the bankroll start going up, that's the speed. That's the speed? Yeah. Do you feel like now? I remember you used to do the Venus for Laura Flyer.

[00:45:56] I used to do all this crazy shit in the beginning. Now, do you feel like that was overkill? Nah, that shit smell too good. Nah, the person I did it for, we were dating. She got those for Valentine's Day, essentially. No, she got the... That's how I asked her to be my girlfriend. Romantic. Um, but we... Our first date was in December, and that happened in February, so no. Nah, I don't think that. Three months. Yeah, three months. You a real lover, nigga.

[00:46:24] Yo, that's my problem. Yeah, you a real lover. Fuck this love shit, bro. Hey. Get money. That's it. Love? What's that? Yeah, what's that, man? I'm taking a break from that, bro. This shit ain't fair. It's gonna come right back. And you know what it is? You know what I also was thinking? Game is real. You know what I was also thinking about, too? So, the fact that I don't have anybody now, right? Or in an actual relationship. As I get older, people are gonna go through more things. They gonna meet more people.

[00:46:54] You know what I'm saying? So, everybody's coming with something. Everybody's gonna be 100% healed. Just make sure it's a Louis bag. You know what I'm saying? Make sure it look good. Everybody got some sort of baggage that they're bringing, you know? So, there is no... That's why I never was caught up in the, like, trying to find somebody who's healed. Because everybody got some shit that they ain't deal with. And then... And how it shows. Like I said, there's gonna be shit that's gonna develop that they gotta heal through. You're gonna have to heal with them.

[00:47:24] Yeah, facts. Like, your life, like, I haven't had any immediate deaths. In the family. In the family. So, I've... Yeah, facts. I'm not gonna find them all right, buddy. Yeah. I'm gonna have to hit myself. But that's to come in my lifetime. You know what I'm saying? Um... Sicknesses. Quote, unquote. Look at the job that I work. You know what I'm saying? Like, so... I'm gonna heal it.

[00:47:54] You wanna talk about healing and shit. Like, I mentally go through it every week when I get on that plane. And, you know... Maybe I mask it well. You know, but... The thing about life, bro, you do it right with somebody, bro. Interesting. You just got that support. But... I don't know if this is on topic, but... I saw a comment. I didn't really dive too deep into it. I should have done some research. But I saw a comment from Aisha Curry. Who said that her relationship and her marriage with Steph Curry will always come before their four kids. Yeah.

[00:48:23] And I saw the reaction to it. And it was actually shocking that more people agreed, like, that's how it should be. Yeah. I actually was talking... Ironically, I was talking to somebody. And I guess during her interview process... My interview process for her, she kind of asked me that same question. Like, yo, are you okay? Or what are your thoughts on putting your wife before the kids? And I'm like, that's how it should go. I think that's how it goes. It should go that way. Yeah.

[00:48:51] And I guess I brought it up because I'm thinking about that part of the healing, too, right? Like, there will be... You know, we always... I think we had a conversation on the pod a couple weeks ago about just, like, babies causing breakups and all that stuff. But then you think about that perspective from that family. It's like, yeah, we're not allowing the birth of a child to cause it because we're prioritizing the marriage first. Mm-hmm. But then I think there's a normalcy where, like, there's so much healing that has to be done once a woman gives birth due to post-traumatic... Not, I said post-traumatic.

[00:49:21] The postpartum. You know, all that stuff. So, once again, you can't expect somebody to come or be... If you expect somebody to be healed and stay healed, there's so many things that are going to come and fuck that up. Yeah, you just got to find them while they still... While they still big-eyed and still believe in the fairy tale of love. I feel like a lot of people lose that going through all the shit, man. That, yeah, their first major breakup or their first big disappointment, they, you know, they probably get scarred.

[00:49:49] But that's the thing that I feel like... You sound like you losing your... That's what... That's what I feel like... That's not my... I just don't know why I attract that. That was one of my main things that I was dwelling on, too. Like, yo... Because, like I said, this is a reoccurring thing. Remember what I told you? I don't know why I keep attracting that. Remember what I told you, though? The spirit you have. I don't like it, bro. You have a healing spirit. Nah. It's sometimes... Clearly not. Because they... Clearly not. Well, if he can't heal them, then... But then the body... But you're making them see something in themselves.

[00:50:19] They're looking at that mirror. Ooh. So it's like, damn, he's... I need to step my shit up. The A... The A in L.A. stand for accountability? Okay, so... You know what it could have stood for? See, that wasn't me. That wasn't me, bro. Damn. It's cold in here, man. That been a nice first name, last name, though. Hey, what up? I'm telling you, man, but... I'm sorry. Can't do it on the past, man. Yeah.

[00:50:48] The way I see it, if... I can't have this so-called healing energy if the person don't want to be here. Or them being around me don't inspire them to heal. Word. Maybe it inspires them, but they just don't want to waste your time while they're going through the process. Nah, waste my time. Or communicate that. Communicate it. Fuck... No. You know what? I'm glad you said that. Stop speaking for what you think I should do.

[00:51:18] I'm a grown-ass man. Let me make my own decision. Let me make my own decision. Don't choose for me. Stop picking for me. Let me pick. If I pick wrong, I can hold it. But don't pick for me. Yes, I know it's hypocritical because I've said it before. You can go back. Come back. Come back. Come back. To the mic. To the mic. To the mic. To Michelle. My fault. Because brother man was really loud and strong about, nah, I'm making a decision for you.

[00:51:47] You're not going to stay over here. I'm this. I'm that. But now... That's different. No, it's not. No, it's not. No, that's different. Give my son grace. Give my son grace. I'm picking for you. Before you even knew it was an option. It don't matter who the girl is. Right. Now that we're in it, the door is open and we have more of an interaction, then it's like, all right, you're choosing for me. You don't know what door.

[00:52:18] Let me choose. But before you know me, I'm already picking. It's slippery. Because in theory, she could have... Because technically, let's say, pause, but let's say I choose for Quanny. Quanny would never know about my choice. Whereas, let's say me and Quanny cool now. And I say, yo, I make a choice for Quanny that Quanny necessarily might not have picked. Me thinking I'm doing the right thing for Quanny. Not let him know. Damn, you making somebody a choice, you could still be hurting them in the process. I don't think they consider that. You know, people...

[00:52:47] I say it all the time. People do what's best for them. You just got to hope that you fall under what's best. So, a person may say, I'm doing what's best for this situation by not dealing with you. That's what's best for them. You just don't fall under that what's best. Copy. That's all that it is, bro. But, you know, it is what it is. I just had to dwell on it. Yeah, I know. The game is broken. The game is broken, bro.

[00:53:17] They told us to do it this way and that way. And, you know, be a good person. And have some morals and integrity. And be intentional. They said be intentional, Dave. Don't put nobody in... You got to lie and trick them. Don't put them in the dark. You know what I'm saying? You got to come off mysterious and shit, you know? Hmm? You got to come off mysterious like a bad guy and shit like that, huh? I don't know, bro. I don't know. Be indifferent. People like that. Indifference. You think God is just testing your patience or you're just like... He doing something.

[00:53:47] Do you have faith because he's bringing some... He's molding somebody for you? I don't know. At this point, I don't know. I don't know. I really... I can't even... I don't know. I was talking to that man yesterday while I was working. I'm like, yo, bro. What... Come on, bro. We got going on. What's the game plan? What's the plot here, bro? What's the plot? Some ask God what's his five-year plan for a second. What's the script on this story, bro? Because shit not looking... I don't like it right now, bro. Get it to the climax.

[00:54:16] That's exactly what I'm trying to do. Listen. It's like a joke. I always want to sing, bro. I'm telling you. We're together and we're all together. Shout out to us, man. Damn. There's so many things I want to ask you right now. I can't ask you. Not ask me. Not certain things I can't ask you. Not ask me. Let me see. I can ask you right now. Let me see how many people watching. Oh, shit.

[00:54:47] You can still ask you. I was not trying to ask you. At any point during the week, did you think about changing your mind? About... Yeah, no, no. I know what you're talking about. I think about it every day. I think about it every day. But see, even that is kind of like, yo, that's the same situation. The same situation. You... My thing is, yo, I... Yo... This time you made the choice for yourself.

[00:55:17] Not even that. Like, my life can't be a revolving door, bro. At some point, I got to put the lock on the door and be like... Please, lock that shit. Yeah, yeah. Like, you can't... You can't people... You can't let people treat you like a revolving door. Cut the shit. Okay. I know I said that with some bullshit. Hey, bullshit. Bullshit? It was your fault. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.

[00:55:46] Nah, you just can't let people treat you like a revolving door. Especially if they claim they value you. Or you bring some sort of importance to them. There we go. Show it. Here we go. Show it. Let the actions... Let the actions... If we're talking about what A stand for, let the A stand for actions. ... Nigga walked off the set. I mean... Actions and accountability, huh? You know what I'm saying? Like...

[00:56:15] So, I just don't want to be in a position where... You can't even enjoy it. Because you worried about it going. Damn. You know what I'm saying? And that's the thing that I realized, like, yo... Like, damn. Is that PTSD? That's deep. You just gotta... Like, I don't even think about the long term. I'm just trying to enjoy the moment. Because everything's so... That might be my last moment. Yeah, everything is so temporary with you. Damn. I ain't gonna front that. Now I'm not gonna lie. He preaching, though. Because it's like, yo... So... Like, yeah... I don't get too intense, boy. Do I fuck you like it's my last every time?

[00:56:45] You got to. That's why you gotta eat me first. Yo, boy. I'm trying to be serious. I'm trying to be serious here. You gotta save every moment, bro. You're leaving a lasting impression. Oh, my God. Damn. That sucks, though. Yeah. I don't wanna live like that, man. Like, we always say every day is your last, but we never... That's the morbid part of it is that, shit... We should be operating like, damn, I really might not make it home or really might not see tomorrow. We should live life like that.

[00:57:15] It's impossible to. Mm-hmm. Yeah, because some days you'll do it, some days you won't. Or some days you take it for granted. Yeah. Somebody called me the other day and said, yo, how you feeling? I said, yo, I feel good to be able to see the sun. Yeah. Like, I just randomly said that, but it was a sunny day. I think the sun hadn't been out for a couple days, but I realized, like, oh, damn, I woke up today. Like, that's good. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, that's good. I feel good. Like, I have nothing else to tell you, but I am very okay with being alive right now. So, you gotta appreciate that shit more. Nah, yeah. You definitely... Sometimes you just take this shit for granted.

[00:57:45] You take moments for granted. That's why I don't treat people disposable, because first of all, you never know if you're going to find another person like that. Like, I know... I'm not going to treat Don or y'all guys like our disposable, because who's to say I'm going to find another core friendship like that? You know what I'm saying? You can't recreate this. Or a relationship, or... Let me. This nigga just feel like so. No home. Shit.

[00:58:11] Or a relationship, you know, you take every moment, whether it was just a chill moment or... Because don't get me wrong, not everybody I link, I smash. That's not always the... You're a prize, of course. You're a prize, of course. I'm breathing heavy. Nah, like... Nah, I'm fucking with y'all. I'm sure I'm sure. You ever... You've never just had company, like great company? And it ain't end in anything? Yeah. I ain't gonna lie. That worked for me once. Like, I... Sleepy Beauty. Sleepy Beauty.

[00:58:40] You hear facts. Now, it was a minute ago, like, there was this girl who actually liked me more, because when I pulled up on her, I didn't try to like do nothing. Yeah. I was like, yo, chilling. Yeah, just chilling. Yeah. So, it was kind of like, yo, you cherish those moments, because then you kind of... You kind of... You... When you don't focus on the sexual aspect, you kind of figure out... You more focused on how they are as a vibe. I feel like what you said. Like, yeah. Yeah, facts. She told her homegirl, and she... Her homegirl's my friend. My friend was like, yo, why you... I was just like, I ain't really want to...

[00:59:09] She was like, yo, that made her lucky war, bro. I'm like, okay. I ain't fine. It's crazy. When I was younger, I never understood that shit. So, I got older. Like, I had my single patch. I was like, yo, hanging out with a shorty? We should watch TV together, sleep. She's like, why you never trying nothing? I was like, because I don't really want to. Funny story, bro. You know how I'm like... I try to play like, on B smooth? Just now, Mariah Carey, this bitch, nigga. So, I try to be on B smooth, you know what I'm saying?

[00:59:38] You know, try to set the nice, calming vibe. I wasn't interested in like, anything intimate. Shorty was like, yo, turn this off. You got soul tape three. No shit, I ain't funny. If I knew you was that type of nigga, I'd have been playing that shit. My cinnamon apple. There's some gems on there, right? I don't know. What's up? Why don't you go straight for that one? Cinnamon apple. Ain't that like the one that lasts on? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, gotcha. Nah, but I think it was soul tape two she wanted to be played. That's a classic. We did that.

[01:00:08] We listened to soul. With soul tape one, with soul tape had Joe Butter in the last one. That's soul tape two. Two, yeah, yeah, yeah. I want you back. One of the greatest verses ever. Damn. So, so we played soul tape two. We're going to play this after this is done. Oh. Right? She did some work. She worked from home. Oh, damn. She got some. Yeah, she got. She got some. She got some work done. We started watching the show, but the plot wasn't really thing. The plot wasn't plotting at that point.

[01:00:38] And then we just ended up talking about life and shit like that. I was like, yo, this is a great. This is. Yo, I could do it. You my son. I fuck with you. When she left, it was like. Nah, I had a. Is that a fact? I'm glad you said that because sometimes doing nothing is just. Something. It's the best shit in the world, bro. Like, I don't want to think. Just let's just chill. Pump some music. We just talk. We just shoot the shit. Oh my God. Talk my ear off. I like that shit.

[01:01:08] Tell me about your dreams. But bro, when she could talk. You know what? Thanks. You learn. You learn. Let them just talk shit. Yo, just. Yeah. Just. Because, you know, they just want to be heard anyway. That's true. That is true. So, yeah, man. I don't know. But like I said, I was. I was dwelling on it. I was like, damn, what? What? What am I doing wrong? Damn. You're not doing the damn thing. Yo, bro. I know. It's like. I got to. At least.

[01:01:38] Let me go back to the playbook. Maybe I'll do. It's not like when you mentioned it, I'm like, damn, LA. But no, I'm like, yo, what? You're doing everything right. Or. As far as I know. I don't know what you're doing. You know, I aspire to be called healed. Like you. Yeah. I like that. Keep setting the example, my brother. You too. Like, not saying you too good for me. Like, I want. I would like a. You know. But that. Even that. Right. Like. Let's take. Let's take the. Let's take the human aspect out of it. Right.

[01:02:08] Mm-hmm. Something good happened to you. You gonna say, yo, this is. I can't believe this happened to me. Like, I. Nigga hit the number. I'll use Joe as an example. We talking on the phone. I'm like, yo. Shoot for that salary, bro. Go for that number. Go for that number, bro. Joe ain't sit there and be like. Nah, that's too good for me. Yeah, man. Yeah, no. Go for it. You know what I'm saying? I'll take half. Nah. I'm like, nah. Say the whole number. Say the whole number. Let's go for it. Let's go for the number. I remember when we.

[01:02:37] We could talk about it now because Joe was employed. But when we was first talking to Ebony, I'm like, nah. Let's go for that 165. We was researching that shit. You got too hot. We was researching that shit. Joe was like. Yo, you think I should really ask? Nigga, we on websites looking up old people with those careers. Glass, glass door. Go for that glass door. It's not unrealistic, bro. So, like, when you try to go for, like, the good things in life, don't sit there and think, are you too good for it? Even if you not. Take it and evolve with it, bro. Yeah, I was taught that. Like, yo, learn. Learn.

[01:03:07] Learn. Learn. Learn the fly. Learn the fucking job, bro. Come on, man. So, if my job offered me a position, yo, we think you would be great for it, right? And I don't have the necessary skill set, fuck it. If you think I'm great for it, let's go. Yeah, that's not my mistake. Yeah, that's your mistake, bro. We're going to figure it out together. Y'all not going to go through this whole thing and vet and hire somebody else. Word, word. No, no, no, no. I got it. I do it. Oh, yeah. The part of the job is learning. Yeah, absolutely. So, when you meet somebody, you be like, don't, don't.

[01:03:40] He's too good to meet you. Fuck that, nigga. Yeah. Then you my dream girl, then. Because if it's not the reality, it's in my dreams. Like, I want something to feel that way. Yeah. So, I'm never going to talk myself out of it like, nah, this is, nah, I'm going to fuck this up. No, the fuck you not. You going to learn on the job, bro. And that's it. That's it. And just try not to get fired. Don't fuck it up. Yeah. Don't burn the building. Nigga said that shit with some emphasis. It's hard, man. The game rigged, dude.

[01:04:09] The game fucking rigged, bro. I think everything just. I text Dane. I'm like, nah, the game fucked up, man. I'm about to sell crack. But yeah, man. It is what it is. That's what you got right now? Yeah. That's, that's kind of. Just giving it to God? Nah, that's kind of like, when I get to the is what it is phase, that means I'm getting over it. I'm getting over it. I give myself two days to like, feel my feels.

[01:04:39] I'm trying not to fuck my wrist up like Dane. And then, you know, I'll be aight. I'll be aight. I'll be aight. I'm with you for a sweetie recovery, bro. Nigga tough, right? Once you deal with these a couple more times, once you deal with them, they be like, they don't take as long as it takes. And that sucks that they all feel the same, though. It is. And that's what I'm saying. Like, yo, I keep revisiting the game plan. Like, yo, if you making the same mistakes, well, not even the same mistakes, but if

[01:05:08] you coming across the same crossroads, it's something on your part that. Maybe it's you choosing. You're not choosing. Nah, I tried. You tried that? You went through that? I tried what you said, bro. I tried. Like, you know, y'all advice was like, yo, stop letting them pick you. You pick them. Run down. Aight, cool. You got to get your rundown practice in, though. You can't run down on everything. I don't. Aight. I don't. You're going to get better, bro. I don't. I don't. I don't.

[01:05:36] Maybe, maybe, I was going to say, maybe I should go for the bed, because the top five is fire. These fire choices. These fucking fashion. They going to be cooking for you, brother. These fucking fashion designers putting me through fucking. Look at my ass. Nigga need a joint with a bad fit. That nigga will be fucking furious. I would never let her beat Quaddie. Nigga Quaddie. She put up in the bank out there. Quaddie, look at that.

[01:06:05] Who's that disgust? You know what I would, you know what the funniest thing I think will ever happen to Quaddie? Somebody with a bad fit, but Sonday is on it. Oh, shit. Like, it's a bad, like, why would you put my clothes with that? Like, a bad Sonday fit. No, the thing is, he can't control that. Somebody's doing that right now, unfortunately, bro. Like, a bad Sonday fit is out there right now. It's happening, bro. It's like, flake really. It's happening, bro.

[01:06:30] Like, they cut the sleeves off the varsity jacket with some shorts on it. I ain't gonna lie. And some sloths. I ain't gonna finesse and say, nigga, where the fuck are you? It's cold and fucking hot, nigga. And cold in fashion. Nah, but we outta here, bro. Man, till next time, man. You already know this is Don the Camera Guy, Don Peasley, Mr. I don't know. Muscleman Hunk, regular shit. You can follow me at StayFocusOle. Ole.

[01:07:01] He not ready for that part. He not ready for that part. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's all right, Dane. It's all right, Dane. Get it on the next one. Get it on the next one. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe. All things What's A Good Guy coming out every Monday on WhatsAGoodGuy.com, YouTube, and all your DSPs. Don't forget to subscribe to the Patreon. If you wanna sit in there, we got this new tier called First Row, where we stream every Saturday. You know what I'm saying? Right here.

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[01:08:54] And it goes towards a good cause. LA rent. Yeah, we ain't seeing it, y'all. Let me tell you, LA whole mess is hostage, nigga. We stopping to hear me. We got a light bill, stay on. If the pod gets to the point where it can pay our rent, I would never yell at y'all again. I'm telling you. Is he late? As long as you hit a pod. Y'all can talk in the back as loud as y'all. They love it, though. Fuck up the whole audio experience for everybody. And the AI.

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[01:09:56] I think we need to leave. You need to go. But look, if you're on the front row tier, you still get to stay for the second episode. You know what I'm saying? It's an all-day thing. You can have it as your background noise as you're cleaning up. Whatever you're doing, you could be... It's Saturday. Yeah, clean that damn house. You could be getting your eyebrows done or your nails done watching the stream, you know? Get your... You know, get a wax or something. Get a face. Listen to what's a good guy doing the waxing. Wax?

[01:10:26] That's why you got to eat it. No, no, no. Silly. We're getting this fucking sillies now. One thing a woman told me, and I've always took it with me everywhere I go, you never let a fresh wax go to waste. So you're eating the same day you get waxed? I think it was 24 hours or something like that with the... Sniggas, sniggatate. Yeah, sniggas, swallow. They got the whole stream. They got the wax. They need to hold on. What's that? Sniggas, sniggas. They pulled the string out.

[01:10:56] Never let a fresh wax go to waste. God is... God is the greatest, baby. How you talking about that? You know what? God created it. So who the fuck about him saying anything else? Meow. Meow. This nigga just meow. Just meow. Yo, boy.