Episode 309: The "With You" Is Silent

[00:00:00] You can keep wanting it in Signal of a receptionist Alright, let's start it off Oh, you're right on this motherfuckers, we're on the same level as always Donald Peasley Alongside of LaShawn, hey we live daddy Stop doing that Yeah, bro, I just hate that shit so much You don't understand man, so, what are they years? Let's get eight long years, good years though

[00:00:29] Good years Yeah, it's 90 Nose or something, tearing up But um, shit, we starting to, went through like eight different fucking studios Facts And we ended up in LA's pad man, great to have everybody here It's been a long journey, it's a beautiful journey And um, yeah, how's everybody feeling today? It's pretty quiet in the building Everybody did, so what's he bro Yo Kojo, how was your week man? Let's talk about Kojo's week first

[00:00:57] Let's talk about Kojo's, first let's switch to Kojo Yeah Let's talk about Kojo's week Oh, I had probably one of the best weeks of my life Yes sir Yo, speaking of that Right? Sorry to cut Kojo off It was like yo, Saquon Barkley won the Super Bowl on his birthday And now he gotta lie, say his best day of his life was his child's baby boy Oh yeah That's tough Now you got a front like yo, this is the best This guy's a lot

[00:01:26] Bro, I'm a professional athlete Yeah, that's why he probably worked his whole life for Whole life for One on the biggest stage Best day of my life Now when my kids, now I got a front like yo, my wedding day was the best day of my life How many kids, you got like two kids though? Mm-hmm So now he gotta lie about which kid was the best He gotta drop it to four Damn My kids being born, marrying my wife, then the Super Bowl Hell no He gotta take that to the grade Why you can't just be honest? I don't know What?

[00:01:56] He got a... I don't know I don't know

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[00:02:29] But yeah 32 32 Finally got a fucking job man No, you got a career You ain't got a job You got a career No No I was just saying this yesterday Like this isn't to me just like a job Like I really I feel like this is the what I've been waiting for Like to turn this into what I be called I'm not going into it like Oh, I just got a job to pass some time Or just get some money in my pocket Like I wanna...

[00:02:59] Every person I talk to during this process has told me about how long they've been there And you know, what they do there And to me it doesn't seem like just a pit stop And just somewhere like, you know, get my money up and then go find the next thing Like and I'm okay with that too But I'm really taking this as, you know, like a serious ass grown ass adorn ass stepped in life So... Yes! So I'll... Big salary boys Big salary boys A lot of perks

[00:03:27] And I work hard for this man Really, really hard for it A year ago It was... It was will be different a year ago I told y'all on the phone Like I thought I was gonna have another job somewhere else In kinda like the same thing I was thinking the same... Same way But it didn't happen And it fucked me up the whole fucking year Uh... But... God's timing He got me right A year later He kept you too Yeah, kept you So... That's most important, he kept you This is my last couple weeks of being broke though

[00:03:56] Back up in the kind of earth Back up Don't ask him for nothing Niggas said price of brick going up I gotta get out of debt A little bit Nah, facts Pay off some debt Uh... And just like restructure My uh... My budget And just... I'm not thinking about what I wanna spend my money on I just wanna... I just wanna build my bank Yo, did you hit on the ones? Nah, my brother did though Wow He hit the tap 3 this morning I told him I was gonna wear mine But the one that I have Just to feel like I'm included, right? But uh...

[00:04:25] He definitely... I hit this morning Yeah It came out this morning? Yeah, you talking about the black toe ones? Oh Oh Or the band? Yeah Oh no, I didn't even try it Oh I didn't try it I wanted the fives But I couldn't try either You know Now that I got some money I didn't want to re- Niggas said Oh niggas, we selling that? Oh whatever I think We'll see how that goes But yeah man Uh... I let out a lot of emotions I know I was telling niggas

[00:04:54] I hadn't had a good cry in a minute I was crying up on the album I couldn't stop I could not stop, so But it felt good It felt mad good Like actually Like once I was... The initial tears started flowing I was like I didn't know I called my dad I could barely even speak on the phone He was... He couldn't even... He said you are Before I even started I'd get emotional I'd let them know I had good news So... My sister didn't understand And I said the same thing I got bad news She was like What happened? I'm like

[00:05:25] No man You know what I mean? She came home She's celebrating my home And she was a little jealous At my Saturday Anybody else think you had Like different good news? Yeah, yeah I don't know what anybody was expecting I'm just making sure I'm sorry We thought I'm... Okay You go like The thing about poppike girls Don't tell them I was like Having a child Like you know Get married That's tough That's not good news Coach would have no job And be like

[00:05:54] I'm about to have a kid It's not gonna happen She's very responsible Thank you I'm gonna deal with your hands Oh shit Punch that shit Shout out to New York bro I'm thinking of the bottle girl dance today I went It'd been outside that building Shut up Yeah I feel like my mom Fully grasped the magnitude of it

[00:06:25] She just had She just Oh I'm happy for you Yeah nah she went right into monthly mode Same thing you know I'm saying oh you gotta make sure you're there on time What's that? Bro you wake up at fucking twelve I'm not a late person Like You're not a late person We just meant like you have a new schedule You have to have a schedule in a while You will We're proud of you Yeah we I know you'll be fine but we want you to get into the habit I offered to take Coach Hill to work on his first day Oh that's nice Oh my god Couldn't be like a pricey The arm was unnecessary

[00:06:53] Make sure he get there on time His Your chariot has arrived Shaya you sure What's up? How was your week? My week was great guys Oh yeah now Yeah Yeah Come on Come on Yeah yeah yeah What are you talking about here bro? Got an employed friend group Come on Nigga that changed a name with a group chat We employed y'all Yeah I was already employed but you know I had a new job It's great I'm excited What if I don't

[00:07:22] I haven't started yet So I don't really want to say so much What do you mean? You started the papers or what was it? I did I did You had a spot where you wasn't the happiest I did And that changed It did You had a little bit out of your You could run the phone with everything Like you said last week What did I say? You said You said You got a job opportunity But you waiting for another one Oh yeah yeah So I got the one I really You got the one that you wanted You got what your heart desired Look at that was a two I did yeah Oh shit that was a game winner That ain't gonna find the last minute

[00:07:52] It's a change The other company's not too happy with me But I had to decide what was best for myself They definitely not I had to just do what was best for me So And I'm proud of how you handled you know Yeah You was a little scared on how you was gonna Yeah no I don't like conflict But it's fine They be alright Proud of you You're proud of you man I will be alright because somebody else wanted that job I mean As much as I spent two months in that recruitment process Someone else was probably right behind me I wasn't the only candidate so

[00:08:20] So yeah somebody probably needed it more Yeah it did Yeah But yeah start first week of March which is fine Say what's all There we go Look at that the year's starting good for everybody It's hard too Come on Alright we're done Alright we're done What happened we're done I'm not a full time lawyer You know what I'm saying Just waiting for them to um Just give me that Paperwork? Yeah that's what I Yeah let me sign on the dotted line Niggas keep talking about Oh next year you had to do Phoenix

[00:08:49] When we're doing the shoots What do you hear something like that? Hold on Cause we don't have Phoenix Oh no no I'm good I'm good I'm good I'm good I'm good If anything I stick to the nigga in the hotel again I think you can be out You get to enjoy so You know what I'm saying? That's good that's good I'm happy for everybody man It's been a cool week man Yeah cool Goodbye ain't go friends When I got that over letter bro That's when it was like real real But I read through that shit We contract I'm like y'all I mean I act like Like this is some play play Like I read it You read the whole there? I read as much as I could

[00:09:18] You had uploaded to chat cheap It's a little bit I put in a little I took some parts and put it in chat Just to see if I was understanding it correctly Was I just wanted to make sure that I was still an individual at the end of the day No that's real You already told us The one that I ended up You didn't want to get to black hole 2-inch? It's the audio program The one that I ended up declining ultimately I couldn't freelance on the side I couldn't What? They had a clause I couldn't Was it no

[00:09:48] You got a non-compete? Non-compete Yeah I had I don't have one Yeah I was involved in words Cause I'm still an individual at the end of the day And I feel like I got hired because I pulled my hand Yeah And ironically in my first first interview She kind of said like What do we have to pay you to You know Get you to come on a boulder Like And stop freelancer I said like she said stop freelancer Stop freelancer? But I can't stop freelancer Wait you wouldn't? You wouldn't give up your freelancer for your full time career? No man

[00:10:17] I'm a man of the people bro Oh fuck You're first of all I tell you something The people was They were like The biggest No well I don't I don't think he should though I think you should always have a just in case pivot That you work on When you're in a good position in your job Because if God forbid He has to move on He never dropped all his clients Like you know then he's like scrambling Like oh I'm back in the market And people like nah I mean there's probably gonna be adjustments I'm talking about this thing anyway So they came right back There's gonna be adjustments I'm sure there's certain clients You probably shouldn't take for like You know

[00:10:47] Competition sake But other than that Like you should be alright That for sure That for sure Yeah man You're blessed man How about you brother? I worked I worked my job Yeah that came home Yeah thank God I'm still an employee So don't take that for granted The plane went up Came back down Amen You know what I'm saying I have no complaints man The plane went up And it Yeah I was hard to say And it came down Facts Facts Yeah honestly I cannot wait till we

[00:11:16] Steak back into how it's supposed to be They already People are thinking people already started With the plane shit? Oh yeah People are back misbehaving Like the day after You know that week That it happened Everybody's listening to the Do you know? Now you gotta hey Can you take out your headphones Are you willing and able to He's kissing their teeth? Oh word? Get off Misbehaving is crazy Yeah that's insane Get on a plane and just So which way do you like it? You like it like the Howl Howl Howl Howl

[00:11:48] Howl You a freak Howl Well if she nasty Let's make sure you call me Shoney Um That's crazy cause how do I like it? Um Safe bro Nah as far as the plane and my work life There Yeah I like a safe flight bro That's that's all that matters bro Everybody get up Excuse me Oh that's even perfect That's even perfect That's even perfect Yeah That's perfect A silent ass flight Solid flight bro

[00:12:18] On a silent night Or early morning So like light turbulence So you don't have to go through the No I love turbulence Really? You don't got a servant no way Can't sit down We all sit down That's how you know That you want everybody to pay attention Let that Let the captain come on and say Do the suit of turbulence Seatbelt signs on please I feel like on plane season The pilot he or she is the most respected boy Oh for sure Oh for sure Like what y'all say is Hey big homie?

[00:12:47] Sometimes you gotta yo Let that announcement flop real quick Okay they let it be You know You love you love a good supportive pilot bro This is your captain speaking This is your captain speaking fact I'm telling like When I have a kid I'm yo You going to pilot school bro Really Make that money Hell yeah Hell yeah By the time they graduate Let's say 22 And they get straight in Hopefully they get into a major airline They be straight by 27 And if you get profit sharing too Yeah

[00:13:17] I just watched Interstellar bro You think a real talk of on that? Every movie Changed my fucking like perspective I will I'll hire a little edible So you know it's a different experience Hope you didn't get pissed at Yeah I was just about to say Are you allowed to say that? What? You a little druggie? Poor thing I can't see No I can't see Speak on the federal level one in New York He's fine Okay I'm just making sure I know he's still piss testing people and shit like that Just Oh wait Don't worry they got you right

[00:13:48] They didn't get you They didn't get you They didn't get you right Nigga said both of them niggas going down now I mean Niggas minding his business in the corner is crazy It's a movie it really changed my perspective Just the way The likely living it might be Like Is there somebody in space right now that's like Trying to communicate with us? Yeah the two The two astronauts Who are stuck The people trying to communicate The two niggas up there stuck Waiting for us to go get them Yeah bro

[00:14:17] And the free The tank bed thing Hey he said hyperbolic shameless crazy Whatever that shit is bro Dope ass movie though I might watch that shit a couple more times What's on the docket today brother? Come on Y'all seen what happened with Anthony Edwards? Buggy in? Buggy in? That boy is hot He hot in a pants He is hot in a pants But I wanna have the conversation

[00:14:46] I think I have a different take I feel like everybody is on the woman Calling her a predator and stuff like that Yeah Two things can be true He's disgusting and she's weird He gotta be all that You really sat there knowing When you have sex with somebody raw You know we're taking that risk And then you say And you telling her like You gonna bring a kid in this world with no dad You're literally the dad He was trying to back her into a corner Like that's crazy So yeah two things can be true She's gross

[00:15:16] He's wildy gross Cause she's 38 There's After we glorify her Okay no listen No no wait Age gap relations are okay Depending on when you start them He's what? 20? 23 Damn That's not even a cooked frontal lobe yet Granted yes like he has a different circumstance He has a lot of money But like that isn't That's weird And that's not the first time she's done that too So she has a history of it She got a little baby He was Yeah She got a little baby when he was a little baby She was what? She was 28 He was maybe 20, 21 That's weird

[00:15:46] I don't have nothing in common with a 21 year old 22 year old 23, 23 She out here giving fun to my ass This is her Nonetheless I think If you look at Drea and Jalen Greenspan Which is also disgusting As like How could they do that? Or how could she do that? Or how could she do that to him? Cause she so much Well she didn't do it to him That's the one thing I'm not gonna ever take out his agency But Anybody could be manipulated I could be manipulated by someone who's 32 It happens

[00:16:14] But when someone has 15 years on you They've lived a little more life That's a little weird Like I wouldn't say she did it to him But she She's weird for that being her preference Like that's I heard It seems like it is a preference But we You know people use that preference shit as a crush Yeah Especially though this is what I like But yeah you nasty for that Cause how do you even approach Like Being 40 I'm not even I'm not even I'm not even I'm not even Me being in my 30s I don't even know how a 21 year old approaches me

[00:16:43] And I'm really seriously having the conversation He got He just He just He just rizz you up He on you for He flew sailing You don't even know he 21 until you asked Like he's smooth He charismatic And then he got money But I feel like as soon as I hit the 21 That changes everything about that conversation to me Yeah you know I can't If you care how old he is I do care You ask some niggas that off the Off the The initial Like you just fall into a social setting You're not really asking the ages of the people No no I'm saying like Even if we have a really good conversation afterward And I find out

[00:17:13] I'm like oh Like that We're early enough that I could be like oh The rizz wasn't that serious for me to be like Okay I'ma just I'ma just take all my morals and everything I thought about What I care about Out the window Cause he's cool So? A lot of cool people What if he make you feel something you never felt before? At 20 If I feel like he's 21 I am gonna feel something I never felt before Sick Nah she's not strict ass Speaking of strict Hey Quad What's going on? You just lost her? Yeah Hey You know that

[00:17:44] Yo All he mean No more No more No more No more What happened What happened You I'm not here nigga I'm not here nigga You're like I'm not here nigga I'm in the I'm in the I'm like I'm here nigga And the And the What do you mean Well anyway I'm here

[00:18:13] What's my dude? I looked at my phone 42 minutes Nigga texting me You hear right now? You usually communicate early in the day, yo, bro, I ain't coming, or at least the night before, yo, I'm not coming. It's 12 o'clock, and we didn't hear from you, so we was waiting. Last pod, on camera, I said, yo, Kwani, you usually call out for your romantic advances. Are you coming? You said yes. No, Kwani said... I didn't say he wasn't still. Kwani said, am I?

[00:18:42] Not he said yes because he play in the crib Friday. No, he said he might. I think he said he might. I don't remember saying it. I don't remember saying it. I'm going to insert the audio. On post-edit. Nah, Kwani came in hot. I told you to come in and smack him with them, bro.

[00:19:07] My only thing with Ant saying, like, because everybody was like, well, I saw the common thing. Oh, if a man say he don't want a baby, why would I keep it? Shorty 38. Yeah, but if she do that, and then she do find a man at a respectful age, she's at an age, she's at a high risk. So you can't just, like, let's not be so inconsiderate to that part. And I was on the side of, yo, you, you wouldn't pull out.

[00:19:37] I think us as men, we all know our timing. We all know our timing. So you can't just... You can't have too much fun. Come on. Would you thought you, you was going to risk her out of... Yeah, it's not... ...packing the kid up? No. You got paper? Yeah. He had a problem. This would be his third situation. Third one already? No, I mean, he has a child. Yeah. I think it's like third in a year. Wait, yo, yo. Is that the same woman from the Netflix? The Netflix one is the main one. It's his main thing. The fact that we having this conversation like that is insane. He's wild.

[00:20:07] So this is a different woman. This is a different woman from the one that he had to tell us at the video. Oh, so he got her pregnant again. No, no, no. He's gotten more than... He has a relationship, and he has, I think, two outside children. This would be his second outside baby, but he has a child with his... The second one got... Oh. Is that the three different women pregnant in the last year? Yeah. So he can get her pregnant. Yes. He can afford it. But that'll give me you should. Care to afford it if she's not getting it?

[00:20:37] How can you afford it? You can't afford it. You can't afford it. You can't afford it. But you can't afford the children because time is a limited resource. Like, money is not the only thing can be, though. I'm speaking from the perspective. I can afford it. This is... Wow, 10 mil this way, y'all. Nah, bro. Taffy ain't no four niggas throwing out 10 mil. It's crazy, though, bro. Look at what his contract is. That's why she not aborting it. Look at here. I'm trying to make a paper. Okay. So now what it is. Yeah. I mean, yeah, if you're not pulling out, bro, you know what you're making. I'm like, you know what... Oh, nah, I'm bugging out.

[00:21:06] He's telling you, I want to be a deadbeat, and that's fine because you're going to cut the track? Yeah. Me per... I'm not keeping a child if someone doesn't want it. I'm not... I don't want motherhood that bad that I'm going to sign up for single motherhood. Granted, you don't guarantee not being a single mother even if you're in a relationship. Like, things happen. Somebody will step up. But I'm... Yo, speak into that. But I'm not signing up for it off rip. Let's not... I'm not doing that. I gotta... I gotta... This will transition into the episode that... I heard Cheyenne say this to Skrills once off mic.

[00:21:36] But when she said it to him, like, the episode idea came into my head. So without divulging too much of Skrills shit because we live, Cheyenne said to him, so the whiff you is silent. Right? You remember? Oh, yeah. Okay, cool. So... So listen, listen, listen. Y'all know my stance for a while on dating children with... I mean, dating mothers with kids. Right? That's my slogan. That's your slogan?

[00:22:07] That's a battle rap song. Shout out to DNA. Man, we nice, bro. Maybe we should take this rap thing. Get rain out of here to kill me. Where are you fucking...

[00:22:30] Okay, so say hypothetically I start speaking to somebody new and I find out she has a child. Do I then go back? Am I wrong for all the women that I told, yo, I can't do this with you because you got a kid? Is he allowed to change his mind? I'm going to judge him. I'm going to be like... I'm going to be the top nigga on the judge list. But he's in... But like... Is he talking to change his mind? But also, if he did that at 20... Let's say 26 was the last time. He dubs somebody.

[00:23:00] Shut up. You're not helping... What? They're supposed to start with a bitch, yo. Okay, but I'm saying like at 26, he's like, I'm never dealing with more kids. And then at 30, he said, I'm never dealing with a woman with kids. And then now he's like, I'm in a different place. My life looks a little different. Like, there are certain concessions I can make. He's allowed to change his mind. Like, I don't think people have to stay like staunchly in one way. I agree. You just got to know the other joints that you've dug are going to give you hell. But the game is the game. Why are you...

[00:23:30] But see, that's the one thing. They didn't want to play. It wasn't a game that I was playing. It was a real... It was a real deadass thing. Like, I can't front. It was a real deadass thing for me where, you know, I wanted my first child to be her first child. What did you do? One. Oh, fine. Me sticking to the scenario. Me sticking to the plot. Let's not lose the plot. Right?

[00:23:57] So, but let's say I meet somebody new. Everything clicks. She checks all the boxes except that one box. Somebody checked it already. Somebody checked to see if it was good already. Now, should I be like... Because a part of me will be like, damn, but the other girl, she was great too. She was excellent. But I couldn't go further because... Oh, I think this is going to be like, I hear Kojo.

[00:24:28] It's the last thing I want to hear. So, now, I feel you, but you can't really think about... Because China's right. The way you thought 10 years ago, it don't got to be the way you think now. And everybody... If it was 10 weeks, though, Joe. 10 weeks. I'm a new person every... Yeah, bro. Every quarter? You've got a new life every day, bro. You've got a new life every day, bro. Why you not allowed to change your mind? That's a fact. That's a fact. Now, I would be conscious of that, though. I ain't gonna fraud.

[00:24:58] So, you would stick to that script even if you changed your mind like, nah, fuck, I already said it. I got to do it now. Let me process that. Yeah, you would stop yourself from changing because of things that you had said before or like the people that had affected before? Like, these are my old thing as a hypocrite. Nah. He is. Like, but imagine... Imagine... Okay. Imagine the heartbreak you put somebody through because of your hard no. Hmm. Right? Your hard no.

[00:25:28] And then this hard no... Turns into a yes for somebody else. Turns into a yes for somebody else. Maybe he wasn't that person that is... So? That is tough. Yeah. Like, that yes turned into... That no turned into a yes for somebody else. Like, oh, maybe he wasn't... Maybe he wasn't... And then you think of the after effect, right? So, say the women who saw me saying no to them because they had a kid. Or whatever my no was, right? Also, boom. I won't even use the kid. Age. Age. Age. Age, yeah. I declined the offer from a nice potential person because she was too young. I wasn't trying to be...

[00:25:57] You know, I ain't even trying to have y'all cook me on the timeline. Like, yo, L.A. dating somebody eight years younger than him. See? Eight years is kind of... What are you saying about that? But, um... But, nah, like, you say I do that, right? And then I find a girl who I make that exception for. I don't want it to be like, oh, so the with me was solid. But it is. But it's not, though. But you...

[00:26:23] Once you end something with somebody or you face rejection, like, their reason doesn't really matter. You just have to deal with that on your end. Like, what does that do for that person being like, oh, it was just me? Yeah, it was. Now what? No, but... But it was. Now what? She's not... Like, because you're not saying... You're not making your heart know solely based on the person at the front of you. But you're like... You're doing it because that's what you decided. Somebody else changed it. You're not foreseeing the change, though. Your heart knows your heart know.

[00:26:53] Life made the change happen. Does it go back to... Was it survivor's remorse? I wouldn't call it... But I would feel guilty because it's like, why... This person in front of me, I overlook her being a mom. The last person, the last two, I couldn't overlook them being a mother. What's in front of me that I was able to overlook? I mean, I... But her motherhood situation might be different. Very true. That...

[00:27:21] The person that you said no to might have a really awkward situation with her co-partner. You might... Then this person might have a really smooth situation. There's no drama. The kid is old. Now what if their situation is the same? Then maybe she just looked better. I don't know. Or maybe he just gets along better and he's willing to see it through with this next person. Niggas said the front hand is true. All right. I don't know what the front is like. Shawnee and Sadom, Sadom, Sadom. I'm not Sadom. We just thought I'd say men. Maybe you couldn't see a future with her and that child. That's it. That is true because I do look ahead.

[00:27:51] You know what I'm saying? Once I match the last name and see if they link. Uh, Haley. I do, bro. You get that? Hell yeah. You think you me so bad. Like, the last name don't even sound nice. My last name don't match with her first. Men really do that? Yeah. I do it. That is so funny. You know why I can't do that? Because, you know, the new A-formin, they're like, I'm not kidding my last name. But over here. Come on. Like, my name is hyphenated. Already? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I ain't gonna say that all live.

[00:28:20] That's why I don't care if I say my last name because you've been looking up on that, like, O'Fabi. But my last name is double hyphenated. I was dating a girl once upon a time. Her last name was double hyphenated. That was up. That's the same last name. But most people drop the second name. Like, it's not. You drop the second name. We dropping all of it. But why? I saw a couple that got married and they changed the whole last name. That's right. They created a whole new last name for each other. That's right. That's literally a whole new family. That is kind of fire. I mean, he's starting a new family. So, it's like.

[00:28:50] Yeah, yeah, yeah. New legacy. That kind of fire. I'm cool with not hyphenating kids' names, but I don't think I'm changing my last name. I don't want a new passport. Wait, what? Wait, wait, wait, wait. Sure, yeah. Take this mother you married for a long time. That should take less than a year to do. But why? But I don't understand, like, what's the big deal? If something happens, you ain't calling your dad. You calling me first. Why, nigga, I'm not with you? But I don't understand. But, like, what? I gotta get a new passport. I'm not changing my. I don't think I'm changing my last name because professionally, like, all the things I wanted to be my last name. You got it already.

[00:29:20] Exactly. All right. So, change your last name. The nigga said Beyonce did like I was going to change her mind. It's insane. And she hyphenated. Okay. So, you won't hyphenate or change? I don't mind hyphenating. I wouldn't change completely. That's what I say. Yo, y'all's talking about y'all want more women like Shia-Shan Han. But I don't think it's that big. But see, I don't. But the thing is that I wouldn't even deal with somebody who thinks that's that big of a deal because it's not that serious. Yes, it is. It's really not. Yes, it is. We talking about marriage. That's marriage. Marriage is serious. We're getting married. It's a union.

[00:29:49] Hey, Harry, Harry. I'm telling you, this is the mentality of somebody who is not in love. I guarantee you. Shia-Han- I'm telling you. Me, buddy. I'm telling you this about y'all, too. When I love all the shit that was hard-nosed and all that shit. All right. So, since you fathered. Since you know it's a carry-gun damn thing. I'm serious. Tell us about being in love and your hard-nosed action change. I think there are so many things that, you know, people make definitive statements about

[00:30:17] when they're not in love about what they would do when they are in it. And then you get in love and you realize, like, this person that I'm in love with is changing my mentality or my ideology on certain things. It was something that, I guess we see it as simple as a last name change. You don't see it that way. You fall in love with a man, bro, and he's everything you ever dreamed of. He might change the mentality. That's how you know God is real. Shia-Han found somebody that's everything she dreamed of. Only God could create some shit.

[00:30:47] He did create it. We just wait, we wait. He got a friend. Wait, didn't he find you? I know you're not going to look at it. You know what I'm doing? You know what I'm doing? We wait here. My brother, wherever you at. Yeah, nah, I genuinely think that. Like, for me, like, I don't even think in love so much God did it. But it's just more so like. Life. You just want to keep everything cool aesthetic. You know what I'm saying? That's dangerous. But we love. Then you see the fun in it. Like, you see the fun in the things that you was like, oh, this. I believe.

[00:31:18] I believe in sacrifices to make a relationship work. But I don't believe in, like, deflecting my morals or the things I stand on. To keep things copacetic. I can't walk on eggshells like that anymore. If your morals are in danger, I wouldn't support that. But if it's nothing of morals. Ain't no morals. It's not, like, super important. Yeah. Is your last name a bit?

[00:31:48] I. If you were to say a little Jim. Yeah, I would. Like, yeah, you got it. You're good. No, I don't have my dad's last name. That's so sweet, too. Right? Facts, right? That's a good man. If that was the scenario. It's a good one. So what if he take your last name? You okay with that? Because he want a unified front. That's what he wants to do. You serious?

[00:32:18] I wouldn't think anything of it. What if he asked you something like that, though? Would you judge? Would you say what? Your man's getting married. He takes your last name. I think my man's getting married. Oh, for real? I mean, if she could do that, then she might as well get on the knee and propose. If I'm taking her last name. But that's something that he offered. It's not like I'm saying, oh, and you have to take my last name. But if someone's like, oh, okay, you know what? You don't want to change your last name, but I really don't like that we all going to have a different last name. I'll change mine. I'd be like, oh, that's really big of you. Shout out to you. That's really big. I don't get nothing from that.

[00:32:48] I don't know, Jack. I don't know. But I really don't. But I'm not one of those people who's like, I'll never change mine. I just don't want to. It's not like I have a really super hard. I just don't want to. Shout out to the guy who's going to come in and spook Cheyenne off her feet and all of that. And all of that. She's going out the window. I just love him. That's my man. What do you think, y'all? It's all right. I will report that. It's like, nah, that's not my man. She kidnapped. You know how people be like. Blink twice. Blink twice.

[00:33:18] If I say something, you know I'm in danger. If Cheyenne go, my man, my man, my man. No, I won't. No, I made it right. That's how I know something's wrong. That's how I know something's wrong. Well, we got her on audio saying that. You agree with men. I have it on audio. I need the full context. Yeah, I built the case. It don't matter. The way it's going to come out is it's going to be a drop. But yeah, so I was just thinking about all the times where I've had a hard note, met

[00:33:48] somebody, and then be like, ah, you know. Yeah, hard note was the fucking Christmas photo shit. And then the pajama shit. That was a negative. That was a negative. See, but I thought there's some hard nose that are just things that you think you don't want or like, that was like a little toxic masculinity that you were like, all right, this is silly. Because what is a pajama picture doing? Yeah. It's too much. What is it? For what? Nobody even sees it. You don't even post. Yeah, I don't post stuff like that. But that's something for y'all to have.

[00:34:16] If y'all want to build picture albums or whatever, like, it's not that serious. I just lose these. Nose. I don't think I have any like extreme hard nose. No, yeah, hard nose before dating somebody. Not like the little ones. The hard nose that you think can possibly up. Possibly? Yeah. Huh? The way they dress is crazy. The way you dress? No, but that's not in your control, honey. I'm like, it's not, it's hard nose. For no.

[00:34:45] I mean this with all the respect. She can be like. That's a good word. The point is, you go up a step and say, I don't know. That's a hard nose. Hard nose was like no women with kids, right? So that could, what possibly could be altered if you meet somebody, right? So the plump one is this philosophical guy that I don't know. Thank you for the joke.

[00:35:17] Shout out to my boy, man. He was like, yo, you love them before they plump. You love them when they plump. Because when they lose that weight, they remember who was there first. And he has never. That nigga batting a hundred. He is batting a hundred. The only thing is, what if they don't want to ever be? And that's it. Plump doesn't mean unhealthy. No, I'm just saying, what if they don't ever do with them? You comfortable in your body, that's good. So then you got to, so then that's not something you like. You don't even bother with somebody like that.

[00:35:46] You can't be used overweight because in European standards, most of us in this room. I was about to say, my scale told me I'm obese. Except for culture. Culture's anorexic. All right. See, you can't do it the other way either, y'all. So y'all already know what she got to be in the gym. I'm not in the gym, but it's like you have to understand like your bro. Like you, like you, like you, you, like you five, you five two and you 200. Lifestyles are parallel. That's not, that's not, it's insane though. Lifestyles are parallel.

[00:36:16] So like, you see how you take fashion seriously? You wouldn't take a woman who can't dress because that, that's something parallel to you. That's what I mean. What is the way you're dressed? Yeah. But you, you, you, you tell it. Well, no, you're happily married. So I won't, I won't say that. What's a hard note for you, Shar? Besides ankles, ankles out. Hey, you have a hard note. What's a hard note for a man, like off rate? If you don't go to the gym, that's a hard note. But you, yeah, she said that. I don't like that one. You just developed it. But that is it. But that doesn't, that doesn't matter when I just started.

[00:36:46] My thing is that like things like that, when people are like, oh, that's small or you just started, small things carry over. So let's say like we go all the way, we have kids. Let's say I like to have an active lifestyle. I like to do, I like to do SoulCycle with people that I'm like close to. And now you never want to do that. Now that's a big part of my life that I just can't include you in because that's not your lifestyle. They're friends. Yeah, but there's sometimes you, what if life gets busy? We have kids. I don't have time to hang out with my friends, but we have like an hour. Go by yourself. You need some me time. Yes, but what I'm saying is. I'll do with my partner.

[00:37:15] Like there's sometimes you just like, yo, we both have one hour. You want to stay in the house, but I want to go out. Now we never got that hour. It's like there's certain things where I'm just like. Like, it's a perfect ideology to add for your partner. But you know, is it like, is it. What if your partner hates basketball? Like hates that shit? No, I'm saying like, cause she can be the man who is fit in shape when he just don't be in the gym as much as she is. But that's not what I said. I said a man who does not go.

[00:37:45] No, that's what I'm saying. Y'all be trying to find like ways around things. What if he stopped going? And you already in love. What if he don't go? Like you had the kid and he ends up being like a dad body. Dad body. Yeah, facts. That's not even what I'm saying. I'm not saying like, no, that's when, cause LA like kind of shifted the question a little bit. Like what if he fell out of love with him? Go to the gym, but he's not opposed to like being active. Like he's not a gym guy, but like, I hate when men do this.

[00:38:15] They be trying to find like all these mental gymnastics around when I said what I said. I don't care. You know, the real sentence is the first three words that you say. I hate men. Yeah. Cause you say he's active. How is he active then, Kojo? Let's, let's, let's, let's expound on the theory. How is he active? How is he active if he's not going to do it? Oh, this is what it's like to, oh yeah. Now he gave me a sack. He's naked.

[00:38:45] Thank you. Just y'all be trying to poke holes in the theory and then don't expound to back it up. If his active, his activity is, um, basketball on Sundays at the park with the older man. So once a week. Once a week. Okay. That's not enough. Not enough. No. That's what I was talking about. But it's the, it's not about the aesthetic or what you do. Like, and Don, you know this. Like when you have a practice that you do several times a week, it's a discipline thing. Like it carries over to your life. So like, yeah, it may seem trivial.

[00:39:15] Like, oh, he doesn't go to the gym. But even me, like when I think back to when I wasn't consistent, there was a disconnect in like my discipline and things I was willing to do for myself or like things I was willing to do when I said I wanted something. Cause everything you want is on the other side of how disciplined you are. If you telling me you only going on Sundays and it might not be for your fitness cause you hang out with your friends. That's great. But then what's, what's going on Monday through Saturday? Okay. So it's a character trait. No, I don't judge anybody cause I was there too.

[00:39:42] I'm only a year in, but what I'm saying is like, no, the thing about it's mental bro. That shit is all mental. I truly believe that quote that everything you want is on the other side of the system. It is. But my thing is like, when I say it is, oh, but what if you go to the gym once a week? Quanti said he don't want somebody that can't dress. It's like, hi, you don't go and ask Quanti. But what if she only wears Fashion Nova on Saturdays? Like, y'all don't do that. I don't know if this is a lot of shocking.

[00:40:13] Nobody bothered Quanti. But you, nobody asked Quanti. I said I wanted somebody in the gym. You're like, what if he plays basketball? Me and Quanti are the same person damn near. He don't get half the flag I get. That's not true, man. This is probably in the HR. Nah, that's definitely not true. Discrimination. Hold on. No, no, no. They're going over. Okay. So, so yeah, that was just one of my thought processes because I was like, damn, it's the

[00:40:38] with you silent on like my hard nose because you find somebody and be like, oh, okay. Or the exception to the rule. This is a hypothetical, brother. You leaning in too hard. Mr. Niggas, I can't wait. I can't wait till you introduce me to your next queen who got a child. You don't want me to be a father? Well, there's not one way to fatherhood. So... No, no, no, no.

[00:41:07] We not going to do that. Fuck out of here. No, but what I'm saying is... You said daddy's son is crazy. No, but that's real though. Some people are step parents. Like let's say if the roles were reversed and you had a kid and you're with somebody, would you not want them to... No, if I had a kid, I wouldn't date a mother... I mean, I wouldn't date a woman without a kid. That's unfair to her. Okay, that's fair. But I'm saying like there's not one path to fatherhood or motherhood. I wouldn't do that. I would... I think it would... It would probably be easier and more understand...

[00:41:37] All right. So the reason... The real reason is... Or I'm being considerate. No, because the person didn't say they didn't want that. Oh, I thought... I thought what we want is what we want. Well, she was... I'm only saying because you said that you're being considered other people. That's what I'm saying. That's what we're saying. She get awful niggas with kids. That's crazy. But she's tied. So there you go. She's just like... All right. Let's move on. I'm not even doing this with him.

[00:42:07] But yeah. So that's mainly what I was considering. Like... I got to make sure I'm okay with that. Because I don't want... I'm mindful of like anybody that I've told no to and then said yes to somebody else. And they see it. Like, wait. Hold up. I don't want them to feel insecure about that. What if you said no? What if you said no? That's... I'm not sure you're really their fault. That's all I wanted to say first. You care? Yes. I wouldn't mention it if I did it. I don't be parted just to part.

[00:42:36] What you thought I put in my notes? Yo, it would make me sound really nice. You know what I'm saying? I just don't know. So if you care about, you know, a few other gentlemen... Nah, maybe. So when you... I don't know yet. So if you see somebody who told you no because of something and they move on to something Absolutely not. So you feel the way about that. So is it coming from the way you feel versus like you really feeling bad for them was like that impacted me. So I'm going to assume they also feel impacted by it. Yeah, it might. Okay. What do you tell the person you're with? That has nothing to do with none of that.

[00:43:06] They don't have nothing... They don't need to know about that part. What? You don't think they're going to be moving over here? No. We're not posting and shit like that? Eternal battle? Just because? Shit. But it's not a just for costing. So you think I should tell... Yo, yo, I'm really digging you, but like this girl I was dating from in the past, she had a kid too. I'm crazy. But I'm with you now. Yeah. Why would I even mention that?

[00:43:31] Like the only time I feel bad about something in the past, if I know that like I hurt them by my actions. But me rejecting you or me walking away from something, that... That's some action. Huh? But there's... But I'm talking about like while we're in the situation, if I did something like mess up to you. But if I decided like this no longer works for me, and I move on and I find somebody that is kind of similar, but now that works, that has nothing to do with me. You shouldn't have. Now, you ever felt like y'all had a hard note for somebody I thought would have been the person for you?

[00:44:03] And I... And I... Ignoring my hard note? That's the... No, you just said that hard note was like... Oh, like you missed out on your person for the hard note. Yeah. I don't think so. That's a good one. Actually, I'll one more time. No, I'm not for real, for real. Actually, I'll explain it because... No, no, no. I want to hear from you. Yeah, yo. Please. You ever had a hard note for someone? Yeah. And they were perfect, but that one box ticked. It was like, oh, I'm good. And now you... And that person might have been the one thing. You like, I know what you said? Yeah.

[00:44:33] Yeah. That's so... But you told me I should just move on. Nah, but that's... That's the same consideration, no? Oh, it's your fault. No, we're talking about something being your fault. Yeah, that shit paid a little different. Yeah, my hard note is the reason why I'm not with whoever. Yeah. You gave up this hard note. And now you're sitting there thinking that was my queen.

[00:45:03] Is it because you don't want to be at fault, though? Yeah, I don't like being at fault. I'd rather them fuck up and I'll leave. So basically, accountability. You don't like accountability? That's not what I said. What are you at fault of? You made a decision for you. Like, what are you at fault of? That's the thing. Yeah, you can hurt feelings, of course. I'm not saying that it absolves you... It doesn't absolve you of hurting feelings. I understand. But like... You care.

[00:45:32] Like, I try to move in a way that I don't hurt people. That's not the intention. But people's feelings are going to get hurt. Like, you can... If you live a life where no one's feelings ever got hurt by anything you ever did... First of all, man. You're going to be miserable or you're lying to yourself. I care enough that I didn't want to do it on purpose, but I'm not going to care enough that's going to stop me from being with who I want or doing what I want. That's how you bow out of Cheyenne. Yo, you got it, Chris. It's easy when she's right, though. It's true.

[00:46:00] It's easy when she's wrong and you tell her she's right, too. Isn't that old? Nigga, laughing. But nah, the issue of your question, bro, that shit... Oh, my God. I wish you could have asked me that again. You saw a circle with a dreaded bitch all the while. I was like, all right, fuck. Actually, I say that all the time now. That's like when you see a parking spot and be like, nah. I know it's going to be one of the bad shit. Let me go further down.

[00:46:30] Nigga, you're trying to go back. It's gone. Damn, son. My forehead? Fuck. I think so. Maybe. Maybe. Possibly. I will say it has potential to turn out that way if I don't make the right decision in life. I can say that. Yeah, bro. Yeah. But sometimes you take a bet on life. You take a bet on yourself.

[00:46:56] I think I'm okay with accepting that I took the bet on myself and I lost. Like, I don't try to make impulsive or indecisive decisions. I try to sit on shit for a long pause. I'm not going to lie. That was ridiculous. I came from you. It ain't nothing. I know that. I'm going to let it rot. I did. I said full breath. The mouth was crazy. All right. I try to process my thoughts long enough to make a conscious decision.

[00:47:26] Or what I'm doing. Maybe. Do you ever think of, like, the more time you give it to think about it, now you're overthinking? And if you made that decision a little earlier, you probably made the right one. Tom, stop. Why? Um. Not necessarily. Not necessarily. Because my overthinking, for me, would be, like, adding unnecessary scenarios in the equation.

[00:47:49] If I keep the main thing, the main thing, and focus on my decision on the main thing instead of, like, damn, but what if this? Sorry, add a hypothetical. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. When I add hypotheticals to my thought process, that's when I know I'm overthinking. But if I'm just focused on, yo, doing this, will this impact this? How I feel about that impacting that? Okay, if I walk away from it, how you feel? If you don't walk away from it, how you feel? Yeah.

[00:48:16] But to answer your first question, I don't think so, but it is something to think about. It is something to think about, because there's a particular girl out there that was, like, she would give me the world. Like, the world. And I know she would give me the world. And I walked away from that, because, ironically, based on this episode, she's a mom, and her parenting style, I don't know if I align with it.

[00:48:43] I told you I walked away from a relationship because I didn't want that girl's mom to be my mother-in-law. So, I'm very conscious on the family I enter, and entering her family with... Yeah. I wasn't, I don't know if, I didn't see myself fitting well with that. Like, individually, we would make a great couple. Spoiled. Spoiled. But, entering that family unit, and how she was raising her child?

[00:49:13] Where do I, how do I step in? Do I collaborate with you in this parenting thing? Because you probably already started the whole thing. Hypothetical scenario I wanted to implement in that. All right, go ahead. Go ahead, go home, right? You're with this woman, you got date in. Mm-hmm. You know, you got, get to this point where this is now a serious conversation, and you realize that, yo, you can't enter into this because of this.

[00:49:34] If she, the person, makes the decision to disband from her mom and her family and focus solely on y'all too, so that that does not affect the growth that y'all may have to get, how do we look at her? I will tell you that wasn't a hypothetical. Oh, shit. Right? Did I hit it there? No, no, no, no. That wasn't even a hypothetical. That was said, right? Oh, shit. We still, we still would have kids, and then you have to factor in the, the, the grandparent.

[00:50:04] Do I then say I don't want my child to, I don't know my grandparents, and I'm, I won't say I'm jealous, but you know, there are people who got great connections with their grandparents and their grandparents, and you actually get that extra help, that support. So, will I say, I didn't feel okay saying, yo, yeah, cool, you can separate, you don't fuck with your moms, cool, but what happens when we have a kid, and they want to know what their grandparents are like, or they only see my side of the grandparent. You know what I'm saying? It's just, it was just too much.

[00:50:34] It was just too much, but that wasn't a hypothetical. That really happened. Okay, now, what about a change in behavior in the grandparent? Once the, once the, uh. Oh, respectfully, it's fucked them forever. Hypothetically. Oh, no, no, no. Yeah, I'm not filtering that. It's fucked them forever. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Do you ever change your mind when you, like, have, have, because we talked about forgiveness?

[00:51:03] I'm struggling with that really badly, bro. Like, badly. I got tested on my forgiveness this week, too. It didn't pass? No. But what I was saying was basically, because something that drives the guy, yo, I'm not fucking with you no more and all, will make, will make a mother be like, okay, I need to look at her. No, no, no, no, no. Not every mother. No. We're not even talking about, wait, hold on. I don't hope you don't, I'm not talking about my own mother. No. I'm talking about their mother. Right. Yeah. So they don't even have, I'm not their child.

[00:51:31] Why would they even care if I say, yo, it's fucked them forever? Because then you won't allow the relationship of your child to grow with their grandparent on the other side. But that puts your significant other in a pickle with their mom. So you have to, they would have to choose their relationship with their mom versus their relationship. I wanted to insert, I wanted to insert when that decision is made from your partner that they're separating to appease you, right? Mm. And that causes the grandparent to say, damn, my daughter just chose her partner over me.

[00:51:59] As she should, because she took my last name. What am I doing that is not benefiting this relationship that they have? Oh, we're going to have to do the change so that I can fix this role so that we can be a... Is she West Indian? Is she not budging? Now I see what y'all mean by Kojo's optimism. I'm like, you are assuming that people becoming parents and grandparents absolves them of all the issues they have as humans. At a base level, people are humans. You don't get a divine sense of maturity when you become a parent or a grandparent. Some people get better, but for the most part...

[00:52:28] Some people change because of the same time. And I love that, that you have that optimism that people can change. I've seen people grow. I see it. Yeah, but you're assuming... But if this person did not have the wherewithal to change and be better for their children, patterns typically repeat themselves, it really might... They might not suddenly become this brand new person for the grandchildren. Granted, they might make concessions and try to do things to appease a LaShawn or appease a partner that isn't getting along with them.

[00:52:55] But that's too much ifs, ands, and buts when you're already in the relationship that you can't bet on. If it doesn't work now... Do we all view life from that sense? No, because you don't. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. But should there be more of me? No. We need people in the real world. That's what I'm saying. So, we don't want more Joes. You don't want more Cheyenne. Definitely don't want more Quanys. Honestly, me, Quanys, and Joe might really change the world for the better. Oh, for real? Yeah.

[00:53:25] You just go wherever Kim Jong-un is at. Maybe so, then they're the biggest for you. That sounds like Quanys and Cheyenne right there. Oh, you like skinny jeans? Well, as long as you've got skinny jeans. That should be skinny, so all your jeans are skinny jeans. It's just... All right. I can't do the Kendrick Flair pants. I would really be so mad if I saw you so quick. Those Celine joints? It don't matter if they're tall, honey. I can't do it. Even though you're tall and slim, so technically they are kind of made for you, but... He's short. He made it work.

[00:53:55] Yeah. All right. Well, you know, let's get out of here. Oh, until next time, man. It was great having everybody here, man. I mean, stick around. You're going to see us for the next recording. Oh, we're live for both of them. Yeah. Oh, wow. For the whole day. Oh, my gosh. What? I'm about to mad shit. What is this? I think we should definitely un-live ourselves. That was sick. I didn't use A. You didn't use A. You didn't use A. You didn't use A.

[00:54:25] For the BTS. You're going to... I mean... Yeah, I mean... No. It's too late now. We're wrapping up. You should have said something earlier. My thing is, is if I would have talked to Dean like that... I am. You have an answer, but LaShawn talked to Dean. Yo, bro. It's 12-something. You never stated you wasn't coming. You know niggas is waiting for it. I thought that I said yes. You're the only... Yo, when did you say throughout this whole week you were not coming? He definitely said I don't know last week. Okay.

[00:54:54] I don't know and I'm not coming is not the same thing. It's not. Yeah. That means I tried. You said you tried when we were already here. Right. So that's why I said you could have stayed. Oh, it's nigga crazy. You didn't have to go. God, it's still love weekend. You were already comfortable. How was your Valentine's Day? We didn't ask about that. Y'all made great love last night? Everybody? Yeah. No, I didn't. You want to have sex last night? What? Come on, guys. Can y'all be out of his business?

[00:55:24] We mix losses up? His body, his choice. My sister was the main gift that we were supposed to get. All right. Not as adults, man. Not as adults? What you got from Valentine's Day? I got some gym stuff. Nice. Accessories from our house. And I got a cooking knife, which I really actually didn't want. Nice. Go here. Girlfriend thinks I'm a slave, so. Good. Dane, anything? You got gifted anything? I was working. Did you gift anybody anything? Flowers. No, pun intended, actually.

[00:55:54] Oh, my money. Quanny, come on. Oh, no, I'm not too much. No, you don't have to watch our job. Preach said, do not cut the feet. Preach said, talk. We want to hear everything. Come into the mic. Show you on IG, bro. Come into the mic. Come into the mic. Yeah. Yeah, what you did? Let us know why you was late. You didn't hear me in pocket like you going to a fucking brick. I'm just a chill guy.

[00:56:29] Wait, what are we doing? What are we doing? What's that? You want the glass? Why do I want my glass? You're not putting cake in my glass, bro. I put cake in my glass. Oh, okay. You don't see a chip, bro. Go ahead. Stop interrupting. Like a digital photo album thing. I forgot the name of it, but it's pretty cool. I got to open it up. That sheet. Talk closer into the mic, please. Money towards something that I want. Oh, investing. Okay. Yes, sir. I was going to say something.

[00:56:57] Oh, she cooked? Nice. Love it. He stayed in this year. Okay. Okay. We'll let's not go on. Okay. Okay. All right, Joe. Tell us your Valentine's Day. Come into the mic, please. Yeah, you do that. We'll do that later. Jesus Christ. My place. It's like this shit. It's a preacher with a turntown. I didn't know he had it. I did a pasta made in class. Nice. Nice chef bar B.

[00:57:27] Yeah, you know what I'm saying? And it worked. Perfection. I'm a chef now. You're not a cracker egg on one hand? When you just... What are you saying? Not a cracker egg on one hand. Oh, I... I mean, I... Eat African, so... I'll get a breakfast gone. Yeah, that was fun, because I never did nothing like that for a while. I love a new experience, so I think that was nice. I learned, and I think I might implement the, you know, the cooking thing a little bit more. You know what I'm saying? What's up? Yeah, I was a really big fan.

[00:57:57] It was great. You had steak? Of course. Nice. It's a diet. Nice. It's a good protein, you know? You're gonna push it out, nigga. You gonna hurt yourself. And for me, I worked. I got my bonus check. Hey. You're gonna forget me, man. Yeah, yeah. Never forget. Prophet Sherry. Yeah, I would never forget. Yeah, fat take it right for the whole year, y'all. Come on now. Well, man, you been there for... Damn, you been there for a while. Yeah, it is. It's a fat one.

[00:58:25] Oh, it was a plump check, boy. That was a plump check. Thank you. Thank you, boss. Appreciate it. Oh, also, y'all got me flowers, which is really nice. We got Cheyenne flowers, but she don't like them. I do. Can you put them in frame? Let's see. I'll take a selfie. They're not by me. I'll take a selfie. Oh, yeah. They did good. They're so pretty. There you go. Oh, thank you. We got Cheyenne flowers, you know? You gonna post them? Sure. Can you imagine?

[00:58:55] I love this. Cheyenne should post it, right? And let us know. No, just post it, right? And let us know what you niggas say. Wow. That's crazy. I thought you were interested. I thought you wasn't dating. I thought you were focusing on yourself. I don't think anybody. Let me see. Let's prove the theory. Let it fly. You know what it is? You know what it is? The petty one? Don't even say it. Like, post it and see what a nigga like it.

[00:59:26] You like a nigga liking flowers? And you know you ain't give it to her? A nigga on folly. Don't worry about it. A nigga on folly. Don't worry about it. Nah, this is interesting. There you go. Dane is on camera. Oh, no, he's not. Yeah, now he is. Cheyenne gonna post the flowers, right? And she gonna show us. Get the icebox so we know a man are like, what? No one is gonna comment on this.

[00:59:55] Nah, you gonna just see a... That's a hold in. You gotta take a picture. I got it. I'll be in. How do it isn't you? Yo, make sure Cheyenne Bag is in it, too. So she know you. Like, you know this nigga cribbed it. Put the flash on, too. Or just somebody. Yeah. No one's gonna say anything. I can't really hear anything. Man, you're not good at the pictures no more? Damn, yo. Throw the nigga right here. Throw the nigga right here. Coin right there. Yo. How many years? Eight years, man. Yeah. You've been potty for eight years.

[01:00:25] And he curved to the side. That's infinity. Shit, mate. Like that. Damn. I was gonna say y'all should hear our first Valentine's Day episode. It was really romantic. It was really romantic. Damn, I told you about Pum Pum. You should attack the Pum Pum. You should the last thing. You was last to say, but I didn't say the words, all right? No. Being cautious. Dane, you wanna lead us in the toast? Not real. Now, pull up, yo. All right. I'm still gonna be the toast. I would like to have y'all be all robbing. I'll be in there, boss. You don't be there.

[01:00:55] Why don't you two? All right. You got a cake for real? Yeah. I didn't know that. That's so sweet of you. What kind of cake? So what's the burger got cake? It definitely says happy anniversary. It got frosting on it? Chocolate. I don't know. You got me a chocolate cake? I thought you got chocolate cake. I'm the only chocolate. All right. And this is why we wanted to cut the feed. Oh, boy. Cut it. Let's see the cake. Let's see the cake. Shout out to Dame. He set it up. Preach said, do not cut the feed. I didn't know Preach was listening. Preach don't even have Patreon,

[01:01:24] so that means he rolled into my shit. Oh, man. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe. All things. Monday at 8 a.m. And tell your friends to... Wait, Dane, is this the cider? Yes. Thank you. Oh, you got Cheyenne a non-alcoholic cider. And I'm going to... You're not drinking? I'm not drinking. Oh, because we all are? Yeah. I told you I was 50 courses today. You don't have like radio. Oh, that's a... Oh, I like that. Oh, you got the red on it, too? Yeah, I like that.

[01:01:54] Who made the cake? Should we shout out the person who made the cake? It's a bakery. Oh, it's a bakery? Shout out to the bakeries all over the world. Shout out to all the peers. I was just about to say that. Clean. Shout out to butter cookie. We got to stop doing that for a cold joke, man. What did I say? Preach, you are not subscribed to the Patreon. I can look at the audience members. Yo, Preach, I'll see you this week. Stay studio. If you live, if you live, I'll see you soon, man. Oh, Deshawn just subscribed. Shout out to Deshawn.

[01:02:24] Hey! Deshawn... Shout out to A.D. Deshawn's account name is... The Mads Really Chained. It hurt whatever, bro. Shout out to Kayla. Kayla just subscribed. Shout out to Kayla. Oh, Preach did subscribe. Stop freaking. That is disgusting. We got the... We got the... We got the... I think we're sitting all over the whole...

[01:02:54] Pause the second one, bro. I've been walling. I've been walling. I have no idea what I do with that notch. Oh, it's right here. Damn, nigga. Is anybody for it? Let me know. Happy birthday. You got to see. Nothing. You know, I've got a woman around. It's a waste.

[01:03:24] See how they really act? Cut the feed, bro. That's how they really act. That's that good guy thing, bro. I want y'all to... Remember, just keep looking right here every time I keep talking. Just remember that shit loud, all right? I know that shit burned, dude. I abandoned you. Sorry, sorry. I have abandonment issues myself. I'm done. I'm leaving. I'm leaving. I'm leaving. We almost didn't have this moment, but we here. By the grace of God, and yeah,

[01:03:54] let's continue to be amazing. Let's continue to work together. Love you guys. Great friends. Great community. So many more. Time. Cheers. To eight more. Money better come with it, all right?