Episode 306: I Statement

[00:00:00] I Don't See Why Do you have a treat, Duffy? My bad I'm sorry, Dane. I'm in a silly, goofy mood this morning. I love being a dirty joke. I'm ripping me fall with it. Oh. Cojo not going to take a joke? Take a joke. Yeah. Cojo can't take a joke. Yes, he can. Yes, he can. Yeah, alright. Cojo, stand behind me because they already started. Listen, when niggas started talking about white, when niggas, Cojo started bugging out. Niggas started phoing at the mouth of Pulse. Niggas started wiling.

[00:00:28] I said this nigga's going to fight somebody. I'm going to stop talking. Only reason. Niggas not going to side rock me when I have him walking to the bathroom. That's not happening, bro. Nah, because y'all wasn't joking. Y'all was making a scene. Niggas said nah, nah, nah. You're not going to argue with my girl because they say I'm fucking white with her. Nobody want to hear that, my brother. Niggas, I got defamation right now. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That wasn't a joke. Fight for your life, brother. You do your thing. I feel like y'all playing. Niggas called me autistic on the pod. That was, that was sad. Wait, did I go? So I said you're on the spectrum.

[00:00:58] Niggas said big word for- Niggas said I would lean into that shit. Cheyenne said stay in Bahamie and get through the bullet. Yeah, she was lying. Hey, niggas said come back in Bahamie, Joe. Pow. Niggas said that happened. I started swinging the nigga. He was the one who said you would be like the greatest autistic. Yeah. You won. This is quality conscious of the white. It's recording. It's actually recording. I think, here it is. That's the shit. Oh, my shoulder. Why just-

[00:01:27] You should have nothing to do. Oh, you should have nothing to do. Sorry. Oh, I speak to you. I don't got nobody in my life. Yo, speaking of that, you know she deleted the playlist. She did? Ohhhh. Well, technically she ain't deleted. She removed herself from it. Oh, okay. Yeah. And then I was mad at- How dare you? You see the people that listen to it? No, it show you when they update it. Uh-huh. So I'm like, oh, it got a new song?

[00:01:57] Nope. What if it was I'm missing you? Now imagine if she would have added deuces on there and then remove herself. That would have been crazy. Yeah. Cause there's a little bit of thing on there. Blackboard on there. That's how I put it when she needed the chair. You see it, sir? Huh? I see a little bit of- Can I wipe it? I see a little bit of heat on that. Wait, nobody's acknowledging your pain. My bad, Dave. Who deleted the shared album? Tell me more. Who deleted the shared album? All my ass. There you go. Fuck my ass. I can't believe she did that, bro! Wait, but there were photos that you have-

[00:02:27] that you wanted to keep? I'll rest that trimmer. Um. I'll delete those. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait! How long ago was this? You deleted all the photos? Hmm? No, he didn't. He's holding onto them. You don't seem like Gary Deleese, though. I'm not. I'm like LA. I don't think you're gonna get LA. I delayed that shit from 2013, so. I'm not that bad. I delete everything. I think that- Like, when I break up, y'all, you deleted right away? You no longer exist in my life. Yeah, I don't- We broke up at 12.08.

[00:02:55] By 12.15, the Fed did a sweep. I did. I deleted her. I deleted her. Delete. When I say, yo, bro, I blocked everybody that she know, bro. We talking about the same person, Gabe? See? Yeah, I deleted everything. Why don't you put it in a private folder? Now there's a few things that I kept, because it was in my hard drive. But the rest of the shit on my phone, I don't wanna see this shit. Hello? I ain't gonna check that shit on my hard drive. I said, this shit's called, files do not delete, but don't open. Don't open.

[00:03:24] Apple makes those little montage videos. So I'm never gonna get caught slipping by one of those. One day, they made me think I died. That shit. They played some music behind it, and there was pictures of me. I'm like, nigga, am I dead? My nigga- So I never wanna see my ex again. That shit popped up one time. That shit popped up one time. You know when Apple, they got the little corner with the- Yeah. And they show random photos? Yeah. Mm-hmm. They sitting in the corner, and niggas talking to them like this. Like, the fuck? I don't wanna see this shit. Let me tell you, I had company. Oh, no.

[00:03:52] And for some strange reason, that shit was never there. I don't know. I updated the computer. All you see is just me and Darissi in Italy. And shit's coming across the sky. Oh, wow. You sure you said who this, or you just- Yo, bro! Yo- I probably just- Apple photos? The devil. The devil. Which is why you delete them when y'all break up. I- You delete them when they're in the clouds. Yeah! In the clouds! My question- I know y'all wholesome men in here. You ever, like-

[00:04:22] The baby. Sure you just- Chill out. You ever show on show you something, or you just like, bro, I hope nothing random shit pop up right now. Yeah, everyday. That's why I- No, no, no. Like, I'm just- Yo! I'm just like, every the one time! Bro, I'm talking about- I'm talking about a Texas pop-up like- A Texas? No, I'm not- When I say- I think I'm super faithful. Hmm? But the anxiety that I get- I just- When you cuddle up, and you just on your phone- You should do something, man. I pray to God, nobody from any- Big Ben. Just call- You miss me? Yeah, you miss me? Yeah, yo-

[00:04:52] I don't remember- I remember one time Elizabeth did that dumb shit, bro. Well, it wasn't dumb, cause it was- It was genuine on her behalf, but like- Why now, though, man? We ain't talking in the wild stuff? We didn't speak in a year of a half, bro. Hey, big head. Like, literally- Oh my God. Hey, big head. Let me tell you something. You know my full name. You better call me by it. Don't nickname me up. Fucking bugging out, bro. No, but you know, I think about that sometimes when I text like y'all, cause I'll be like, Hey, sunshine. And I'm like, oh, that could really be misconstrued, but I really do be like, oh, you're

[00:05:22] an angel baby. Like, hey, angel baby. And I'm like, oh, I talk to all my friends like this. The thing about it is- But y'all are genderless. You could do it. You're good. You're good. At this point, yes. You're good. No, you're good. I had to make sure niggas, you good. But that's the thing. I always have to be like solidified before I'm good. Man for effect though. Yeah, right. Back seat. Second floor. Back seat. My upper pain is in there. Oh, you're getting hot? Oh yeah, you're hot. Wow. You want to take a- I'm about to say you can take one of these fins and put them on the- Nah, nah, nah. I also want the fins on the camera.

[00:05:57] Nah. Nah, I don't want the fins on. Hmm? Plus Fanny's going to leave with me too there. Fanny be a'ight. He's like getting a guy buying them socks with the finger toes for Christmas. Oh, excuse me. I don't want you to be talking about your toes, Cole. Make sure you're right. Yeah, I'm on. I think I said don't buy me socks for Christmas. But um, let me know everybody's ready. I'm ready. Cole Joe got his knees out. I don't think Cheyenne approves. But um-

[00:06:26] I have to accept him as he is at this point. Let's go. You already know this motherfucker. She must feel mechanic Donald Peasley. A long time to the short. It's not a beautiful day here. I'm yeah, I'm yeah. I'm your local mechanic. Um, hit me up. I changed belts, brakes. I threw it all at this point. I changed taillights, headlights. Fuck. My dad don't want to fix shit. I'm not gonna be mad about that. But um, we here. We blessed to be here hanging out with my friends. Um, shit. Got tricked into doing seven miles this morning.

[00:06:56] But I'm alright. How's everybody else doing here? How was your week? My week? It's pretty cool. Um, it was long as shit though. Um, did like four collections this week at work. Um, getting ready to go to Miami, shoot some more shit. Um, it was pretty, I'm chilling man. Um, despite me driving and my steering wheel locking as I'm going to the gym. Yeah. Any steering wheel for more? I thought it did but the belt popped.

[00:07:25] Oh, that's why you're saying you know how to change the belt. That's why I was a mechanic. That's it. Ah, I see how you connect with me. Yeah. So, um, so yeah. You did it yourself? Yeah. That's fire. I love men and men's business. I'm proud of you. Yeah, I ain't gonna front. I'm really, yo. Nah. After I did that shit, I was on a thousand. I said y'all gotta fix something else in this crib. I can't front. If it was summertime, I'd have took my shirt off, pulled over. I see you holler. Man, I don't keep my block there. I might try to make no way I get a heart attack out here, brother.

[00:07:53] Nah, I saw a dog say he did that and I felt less of a man because I don't think I could do that for myself. Oh, so you one of those people I was better than. My fault. Yeah, yeah. You look better than me. But you can all change a tire, right? Yeah. But he said the belt, I said, what? The belt. Actually, I ain't gonna front. The thing about it is though, like you have to, it's literally a diagram. You have to fold it and then fold it to another side. I'm like, oh bro, this shit. I'm out there. You niggas know how this week was. It was cold as fuck. Yeah. It got so bad that I just had a sweater on by itself. I said, yo bro, it's too hot. It's too hot. Nah, I'm too hot.

[00:08:21] Would you have felt any of the professionals to get it done? I mean, it's a belt. So it was like, I got the equipment in the crib. My father's a mechanic. It's like, you gonna take it to another person? Your father's a mechanic? Yeah. My cousin looked at me and he was like, you doing it yourself? He started laughing. He's like, good luck. Good luck is crazy. What am I, pussy? That's all wrong with that. I was like, all right, bet. Yeah, that might have made you more determined to get a job too. Yeah, I did that shit. Did that shit. I was like, yo, I ain't gonna fall off. I deserve a glass of wine. That's what I did. So I'm here.

[00:08:50] Coach, how was your week? I had a really solid week. Started the week, my parents... Went back to Africa. Free crib! We lit! We lit! We at Coach, how was your week? Game night tonight. We lit. My crib is always free, whether they there or not. Nah, it's a little bit more respectful. I got way more responsibilities, so I don't know why y'all are just joyous and laughing. So what? We don't ever think about the biggest responsibility. Yeah, that shit is... I got it. I didn't want to...

[00:09:19] But yeah, no, it was a good week. Good week. Productive. You shot. I got a lot of things done. What? You shot this week, didn't you? Did I shoot this week? Yeah. The Yaya campaign. No, that wasn't this week. That's all old stuff that we did. It's finally coming out. We had so much stuff for her that's backed up. Yeah, we did last year. That's finally coming out now. But yeah, she putting that stuff out now. Got a lot of clients this week. Shout out to the people. Come on, man. Some money coming in?

[00:09:47] Yeah, I got some money coming in, but you know, there could be more money coming in. Always. Might be some good opportunities on our way too, so... Give things, give things, give things. Excited for that, so yeah. Damn, that was it? Okay. What about you, Sha? My week was miserable, but we moved. Why was it so miserable? You don't want to talk about it? Yeah. I'm in a good space right now. I don't want to revisit, but... Okay, okay, okay. It was miserable with a mix of like really positive news, so I had to really keep thinking about the good.

[00:10:16] The balance, yep, Lex. So, all in all, my week was alright. Once you did like the net positive, but... How's the gym been treating you this week? It's been good. I'm studying for my personal trainer, sir. Come on now. Are you serious? Yeah. I officially started. I literally started yesterday. Why? Kill it. Kill it, you got it. I don't know where I'm taking it, but this is my new thing. Wow. This thing is really a gym girly. Wow. Like... I'm proud of you, man. Thank you. You want to gym more than some people.

[00:10:45] I'm not going to say their names, but you know who I'm talking about. He's talking about me, guys. Yeah, pretty much. Kojo will be my first guinea pig when I finally pass. I wanted to actually do that workout with Kojo, but... It's either Kojo or my dad. So, I heard... Because they're two extremes. I heard like women trainers are tougher than men. Because it's like, yo, bro, she could pick it up, nigga, so can you. Yeah. That wouldn't be my issue though. It's just consistency and being motivated. That's really all it is. If y'all start doing muscle ups, they ain't got an issue. Yo. Tomorrow's pull up day. I'm literally only practicing pull ups all day.

[00:11:15] What number you at now for the pull ups? I can do like the close grip. I can probably do like three. Okay. I can't do a wide grip at all. You don't get there. Yeah. Start off with more lat pull rounds. Yeah. I just added those back in. I didn't have them in the rotation. Always have them in the rotation. I will say... Warm up with the pulls. It doesn't matter what you're doing. Even if... When you're doing legs, don't do them, but... Not to make this a fitness pop, but I will say no matter how long I go without doing them, I could still do 10 pull ups. No matter what. That's solid. Warm up, five sets of 10. You know how it go. Yeah. How was your week up?

[00:11:46] You was in the Caribbean though. I was in St. Martin. For all up an hour and 45 minutes. I looked at your location. I said, damn. Yeah. You were somewhere else too. I looked. I don't use that enough. I was in Atlanta. Atlanta. Yeah. Before I text him or call him, I usually check his location. Yeah. As you should. I like that. That's important. I mean, if I text him, I saw that he's where he needs to be, but I don't look in the app. It just shows his contact name. I go straight to the shit. The sim check. Yeah. Yeah.

[00:12:16] So work, work with, and that was a smooth work week. It was a smooth work week. Um, that's it. Nothing really crazy outside of work. Finally got a haircut. Felt like a new man. And that was desperately- Shit me? Yeah. That was desperately needed. After the playlist got deleted? Yeah. Oh yeah. I needed a haircut. Now I went to Target for no reason. Wait, actually- Speaking of haircuts, y'all know what I do for a living? I work with a lot of like queer folk. And they were talking about straight men, how straight men don't get haircuts. And I was like, huh?

[00:12:46] And then I realized, I was like, oh, I don't, I don't date white men. Cause like, I clearly knew they must have been talking about white men. Cause they were like, yeah, straight men never get haircuts. And I'm like, I don't know a single man who does not take his haircut appointment very serious. So I learned something new at work this year. I mean, I didn't get a cut in a month. I walked in the shop yesterday and my barber just like, was looking at me like, yo, what? Like what? Like you were crossing the street, bro. Trey was like, yo, bro, where you been? I'm like, yo, bro. But yeah, it hasn't started off the best, but we back. I'm trying to get back to my weekly haircuts, bro.

[00:13:16] That bi-weekly shit. I'm scared of doing a week though. I need my hair to keep growing up. Yeah. My hair to grow, gotta grow a little bit. I think cause of my job, I like to stay groomed. Oh yeah. You right? So you work white? I wish at this point. You know, nah, cause he's seeing, he's seeing different types of, like a huge amount of people would like different pages. My son's seeing some pain out there. Yeah. You might be seeing some pain on the planes. Nah, you know what's crazy in the world? Ain't a lot of pretty people in the world like that, you know? What the fuck? What a crazy statement.

[00:13:46] I tend to not, I don't believe that. I feel like you getting on them planes. This thing is really optimistic though. I really love that. Oh, I'm mad, I'm mad. I'm mad. I'm mad. I'm mad. I'm mad. I'm mad. Nigga, somebody, boy, you're a pro. After you just see you show you twerking, get her ass on. Oh, come on, boy. Can't. Why not? Well, no, that was her fault.

[00:14:14] She wanted to twerk on a plane. It's crazy though. But I wasn't sure. Like, I didn't know which way it would go. Like, I didn't know if they would fire her. Bro, she- You're not supposed to do that. She's on their job. She's on the job and in the uniform. What you thought was going to happen? And you're on the plane. That's even fucking wrestling. Is it because of what she was doing or that she recorded something? Because I've seen content from- No, no, it was what she was doing for sure. Okay, got it. Okay. You're not going to sexualize a billion dollar company, bro.

[00:14:42] Well, that would make people assume that dancing is inherently sexual. Nah, Cheyenne, we're not doing that, bro. She was just twerking in her- I'm not going to be honest with that. It's just twerking. If she's shaking her back- It's not like she was showing ass. Well, she's shaking her back though. Yo, what we doing, bro? I don't know. I'm really being- You told me. If a girl's shaking her back in front of you, like she literally turn around and look at you, shaking her back and say, yo, bro. My thing is, was she very slim or not? Because I bet you if she was super slim- I'm asking. I don't know. Was she super slim? No, she was on the plane. Yeah, no, but I'm saying how does her- Her body type, right? Yes.

[00:15:11] Yeah, nah, nah. I'm not even, like I'm not pro company. Bro, like yo, bro, you wildin' bro. But I would just assume that stealing company time is the main issue. Yes, there is like a conduct- No, no, no, no, no. But I would inherently think twerking is sexual. Once you done twerking, she could chill for a bit. No, because people record content on the plane all the time, which technically we're not supposed to. Okay. But it's like, okay- That's a company policy. All right. We're not supposed to do that. So what made the twerking the- The twerking. The twerking. The twerking.

[00:15:40] But twerking is not always, I don't think it's sexual. That's what me and Joe are saying. So if she was Millie Rockin'. Mmm. Like that? She was fucking that shit. She thought I'd get crazy with the Millie Rock. Like, is it the same thing or is it because twerking is seen a certain way? It's seen as- I don't think it's seen as sexual. That's what makes it the problem. Because I don't think people have a problem with a flight attendant dancing in uniform. They have a problem with the fact of the dance that she was doing. Let's be clear. I'm strict. If you Millie Rockin', you're getting fired too. What I'm saying is that you said we're not going to sexualize the space.

[00:16:10] I just don't think it's sexual. Now, whether they wanted to let her go because of conduct unbecoming, because of their policy, that's fine. Maybe they think it's sexual though. I mean, I see it as like a sexual thing though. I wish I remembered her response. I don't know if it was real or not. I don't know if you saw it. Do you remember what she said or something like that? No. No. That's not fun. And she was trying to, but she was also selling a product too. She was selling a product. So she had a- That's a joke there that I'm going to leave right on the table. My fault. That was too easy to- What product was she selling? That joke was too easy to hit in there.

[00:16:40] No, I thought that- The product- My fault. What she sell it? Now, she has a side business. Somebody got to explain to me fast, bro. Yeah. She does. No better, bro. She's selling a product, we got to figure it. No better. I'm not gonna shake her butt. It's crazy. No. She might've been selling leggings. No, she was. She was, bro. I think selling briskos is crazy. The airline stockings. Yeah, I know. But, nah, I- It's just certain things you just-

[00:17:09] Yo, just do your job and go home. You know what I mean? Do your job and go home, bro. I think people get too comfortable at their job. Nah, you know what it is? Especially in my field of work, that become people lifestyle. I mean, yeah. Which is why my company came out with a new thing like, yo, do you, but don't- There are certain like, so for example, say we know you got a lot of followers, right? But it's because of your flight attendant page. Okay.

[00:17:39] Pepsi might holla at you like, yo, make sure- I think you mentioned this before, yeah. Yeah. Pepsi may be like, yo, keep a can in the corner while you do your content work. That's not allowed. Like you can't use the company to help bring in other revenue. Which I understand, you know what I'm saying? So, listen, you ain't never going to see me. I don't even take pictures. Like when flight attendants be taking group photos or like if they got kids and the kids want to take a picture with all the crew, I'm not in that picture.

[00:18:09] That would be in the corner like this. No, I'm not in the picture at all. He's taking the photo. I don't want to- He's taking the photo. Oh, I'll take it. Yeah, facts. I'll do that. Or the parent might want to do it. Like, not to be a hard ass, but like when they do the make the wish thing, I'm not a part of the wish, bro. Damn. Grumpy, grumpy. Do you have fun at work at all? Yeah, hell yeah. I got paid on Friday. I got paid on Friday. My rent is covered to you. Hell yeah. That's the fun I have. Yeah, bro. You don't crack no jokes to nobody. Nah, nah, nah, nah.

[00:18:36] I'm not that uptight, but nah, let's keep the main thing. The main thing, please. Yeah, I feel you. That's safety and service. That's it. Like all the other shit. Like there was a flight attendant that just got killed in Denver. I bet you're fine. Oh, she went out. She just went to the store and somebody just randomly like, that wasn't even plotted, bro. So now you taking the fun out of trap, your layover. Yeah, damn. I can't do nothing. And Denver's one of my favorite cities, especially where we stay.

[00:19:06] It's right in the center of everything. How'd that make you feel? It made me feel- Is it like a- I know it wasn't your airline, right? Mm-mm. But do you feel like it's a fraternity amongst all of y'all? When shit like that happens, yeah. Mm-hmm. When shit like that happens. Yeah. That's cold, man. Yeah. That's cold. Well, rest in peace to- Yeah, facts. Yeah, facts. And then when you see other dangers happen at other airlines, you be like, see? That's why you should listen to the safety videos. We're not just giving out cookies, bro.

[00:19:36] Rest in peace to Selinda. That was her name. Selinda. Selinda? Yeah. Rest in peace. Yeah. And Denver's one of my favorite cities, but like, that shit happened with us. Well, nah, I ain't gonna divorce that. That may be breaking company policy. But yeah, just do your job and go home. Salud. I wish that was a thing in corporate. They want you to do your job, go to happy hour, go to dinner, and then go home. Bro. The fun is forced. You can be on Microsoft Teams in the morning. Yo, bro.

[00:20:03] I've never in my 10 years at that company. Not one holiday party. Not one happy hour. No. No, no, no, no. When they had the barbecue, you'd go grab food and then you'd go back. Yeah, but that's on the job. Yeah, facts. When they bring a little ice cream truck through us. Nigga said, I'm pulling up. I'm still coming to town right now. Yeah, yeah. Facts. Facts. When they bring an ice cream truck, hell yeah, but- Nigga, no, no, no. I ain't going to front. Bro, even going to the company party for Christmas, I'm just like, yo, bro, these white people talk a lot. They giving me-

[00:20:33] It's one of them times. They giving me the tea, like, yeah, what do you feel about this? Did they say my real name? I'm like, yeah. Oh, they smell you by your real name. They smell me down now. I would love to be the plus one. You know, my girl have a company party, a holiday party, you show up for that. Yeah, I'll go to that. But my own? No, sir. I'm just there to literally just pick everybody's brain and just be a fly just to listen to everybody. Okay. That's what's going on. But even my job now, like, they just, like, I really be wanting to call HR. They always talk about dicks. They talk about dicks and pussies a lot. We don't have HR at my job. Yo.

[00:21:02] At all? No. Your job needs one. Is that legal? Like, one of the guys at my job was like, he just kept calling like this white girl that he's like, Yeah, you like male. I said, yo, bro, what the fuck? Oh, this is funny. Nigga said, yeah, the other one, he said, yeah, you definitely got no flavor. I said, yo, bro, what the fuck? Niggas looked at me. I said, don't look at me. Don't look at me. Don't look at me. Don't look at me, dog. He was like, okay, look at the black guy. Don't look at me, bro. They was like, they said something. They was like, yo.

[00:21:30] Nah, my job, I'm very prone to saying, yo, you're making me uncomfortable. Bro, they be what they said. I protect myself. So we doing a shoot for Pluto. If you don't know who Disney is, you don't know who Disney is, Pluto is Mickey's dog. Mickey's dog. Yeah, Goofy's dog. They're not Mickey's dog. Whatever. When I Google it, it says Mickey, but that's cool. So, so niggas, so I came up with an idea. I said, yo, bro, I bet I'm going to hold the leash with my hand and somebody act like I'm pulling them. And they said, how about you just go on the floor and just pull? I said, let me tell you something. Yo, yo.

[00:22:00] This nigga here ain't doing that. This nigga here ain't doing that. Not this guy. What? It's not even the Spanish guy saying it's the, like, he's like Turkish or something. I'm just like, sheesh. I don't think I'm fucking with that one. I ain't fucking with that idea right there, but shit like that is just like, yo, I just got to adjust to that. Like, I'm used to white companies, but they like just to themselves. It's very relaxed. It's not fair. I ain't got no coworkers, so this tea y'all giving me is really, really a pain.

[00:22:29] You miss the workforce? Outside of the income, I know you want the money because the money could come other ways. Like, you could get like 10 emails, 100 emails today and you be like, I don't know. I ain't worried. Like, I know. Yeah, I do miss the workforce. I kind of miss structure. I miss having like, you know. What workforce is structure? I like structure. I don't know. Certain places ain't got no goddamn structure. When I say structure, I mean in terms of like- Having somewhere to be at a certain time. Schedule. Okay, scheduling.

[00:22:56] Right now, yeah, I love waking up whenever I want to, but I like to like, okay, I'm waking up, getting on the train, dealing with Michael. I kind of like that a little bit. I want you, I always want you, my poor culture, I always want you to do this. I want you to create your own schedule for yourself though. I don't like that you wake up at 11 o'clock or 12. You need to wake up early. The day is fucking done. Once it's noon, I ain't gonna front, everybody that's up early. Well, I don't sleep. Which is crazy, bro. I got to talk to the people that are up early. By 12 o'clock, are y'all tired? I'm exhausted. Bro, by 7 PM? 7 PM? Yeah.

[00:23:25] 7 PM, I'm done for. There's nothing else for me to talk about. I can't front. I'm not staying home today. I was on the board. I think I found a flight. Found a flight to work. And I was like, yo, by 2 o'clock, I was done. I was like, bro, what the fuck? Yo, you was at JFK on Monday? At any point?

[00:23:55] Was I? No. They told my sister's car when we dropped off my parents. Oh, they did? Yeah. How long was she sitting there for? So it was an issue with my mom's ticket. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, he was there for a while. I had the car. She had the car. So it was two cars. It was them in the cold. And we just kept doing this back and forth thing, trying to move the cars and then run back to where they was at. And I'm trying to talk to these agents like, yo, we dealing with an issue. My parents are elderly. Let's handle that. And they calling.

[00:24:25] Let me give you a gem. What's up? Depending on what tournament you're at, right? Like, yo, I'm- Yeah, they flew dope. So you flew the airline. Daddy D. Whatever airline you at, terminal you at. Like, yo, I'm an employee. I'm an agent for this airline. I'm going in to talk to my supervisor, my red coat or whatever. Oh, yeah, yeah. I should've done that. I'll probably use that shit. I ain't gonna front. Since I left that airport. Since I left that shit, I'll use that shit every time. I'll be right back. Next time, I'm gonna hit y'all like, yo, what should I say? Because I don't want to deal with this shit. I got to talk to my GM right quick. I'll be back in five minutes. Just hold it down for five minutes. I'll be right back.

[00:24:54] I feel like it was excessive though. Dang on, Frank. I was there for about 30 minutes. How much was the tow? 160. Woo! Actually, that's not as bad as I thought it would be. It's not bad though, but it's annoying to pay 160. It's annoying, but I thought the airport would tax like 300. I'm gonna pay my sister back for that. Like, it's not my fault, but actually, we don't want to have- That's a good man, Savannah. So- You taking a responsibility to me, so- Yeah, no, it was just unnecessary. And I know she didn't want to pay that and didn't have to, so, you know, I'll figure it out. But yeah, that was annoying.

[00:25:21] But I also, I didn't let that day, that moment like down the day. Like I made sure- You know what's crazy? I'm really getting good at that. Yeah. I had some bad moments, not this week, the week before. And I'm like, I'll just take a couple of hours to myself. Don't speak. Turn my phone off. Don't know what to talk. I'll be all right. Like as much as I wanted to yell at my sister for her responsibility and not, because I told her, go move your car and she didn't want to.

[00:25:50] Instead of yelling at her like, I told her you to go, I just, I drove her to the joint. I made sure she had all the things and I waited for her and then, you know, let her calm down. And then, you know, we proceeded with the- That's a good brother. Yeah, man. Shout out to you being a good brother. Try my best. Yeah, we started freestyle until I work and shit. What's on the docket? Uh, nothing crazy happened this week. I checked the notes, see if anybody put any updates. Nothing's there, so- You know why nothing crazy happened this week? Because this whole January been crazy. We got a new president.

[00:26:20] Oh my God, Zach. You know what I'm saying? I hear clapping in the room. That was insane. On MLK Day at that, that was the wildest shit in the world. But yeah, I mean, that's the craziness of it is that- Hold on. What's up? Did y'all see that, um, I didn't get a chance to see it, but they were talking about it at work. The Elon Musk shit, I didn't get to see that. Oh yeah. Like that's what I was doing. Yeah. They said he did the- You said I stopped right here brother. I stopped right there. Come on. Um, yeah. Yeah. How y'all felt about that? Excited.

[00:26:49] Yo, Dean, you still got a Cybertruck? Yo. You still have a Cybertruck? This nigga's a coon. This nigga's a coon. I'm learning so much about you. Yo! That nigga coon-ing like a motherfucker. Cause they're not even cool looking. Whatever. Um, that shit is nuts. Um, I felt, I was just tired. I'm annoyed. I'm tired. Like I don't like looking at unattractive people. So I didn't watch the actual thing, but I did see the clips and I was just like, you're just looking stupid and ugly. Yeah. And just like, whatever. Yeah.

[00:27:19] It, it, I don't know if I have like a feeling, like I don't think it struck anything into me emotionally to see that. Mm-hmm. It's just more, watching more stupidity be promoted on the, on the TV screens, on our news outlets. And that, that's, that's enough for me. Like. I didn't, I didn't feel anything cause I, I wasn't surprised. Yeah. I'm not surprised by anything white, that, that Caucasians do anymore, bro. Like. No, I'm not surprised by this country. Matter of fact, I've lost faith in humanity a very long time. I have no faith in humanity.

[00:27:49] I don't think, uh, not to be a Debbie Downer, but to help your fellow man and all of that stuff, all the shit that we could do to save each other. We don't do like the money they spent on. What's some dumb, what's the dumb shit they just spent on recently, but could have went to end home, like the, like the ability to end homelessness is simple. It really is. It really is.

[00:28:17] As far as funding wise, cause we got the bread for it. Yeah. But what we spend the money on as a country. Wars. I mean, those ice raves. Yeah. That was, that's, that's. Yeah. Things in the subways. Cause I guess it's really a thing now. Like, yeah, like that shit, it wasn't for play play. Like they running down on people in the street, packing people up. If you don't have the proper documentation. Who carries the documents with them? They are, I guess they're allowed to profile. Yeah. And they said, they said they're giving people what? 750 or something like that? To snitch? To snitch? That's insane.

[00:28:47] That's not even a lot of, yo, whatever. I mean, but you see a bunch of people who were like, yeah, we gonna vote him back in. He gave us the stimmy and their price was what? 1200 or 2400? So. It's not funny. 750, they starving. Dane said, I jinxed it. Cause he said a Republican house member introduced a resolution to amend the constitution, allowing Trump and future presidents to serve a third term. You remember a couple years ago I was like- Yeah. He's like, he's never gonna, and he's trying to stay permanently. He will literally finesse that shit, bro. That's what I was joking about a couple weeks ago.

[00:29:16] The scrum shaking his head like, yeah, big Queens. What are you doing? Fuck. Get him off. Yeah, but Obama not coming back, so you don't gotta worry about him. Yo, this niggas though. You're never cool enough. Shit's cool and going on ahead of him. Cool and in a relationship is crazy. You got to sign, you got to sign. Oh, you missed race. I got it. Oh, you missed race. You missed race. Yeah. His podcast ticket is expensive. Who? Uh, Uma? Mm-hmm. You would, would you have him? You did not hit him up. 4500? Nah, I don't got 4500.

[00:29:46] 4500? Also, a broken clock is right twice a day. He's been a lot of BS. Y'all don't want to be. You don't want him away at college. I probably would enjoy that though. I can't lie to y'all would enjoy it though. Okay, but what- That's a whole different channel. Yeah, boy. That is, that is. That's going in. So Cheyenne says that he, you know, broken clock right to the right time today. Mm-hmm. Would you challenge him on the part of- People like that, you can't take part in good faith arguments with people who do not want to hear your point of view. So it would just be- You'll be talking to a- Yeah, like he's just going to try to find ways to either speak over me

[00:30:16] or be like patronize me like- Sister. Sister. Your hair is straight. You don't love yourself. Now we're talking about behaving myself. Child, please. No. We were talking about that earlier. When somebody at Cheyenne walked out and walked in, I was like, oh, you got your hair blown out. Right? Yeah. And then how that could turn into a toxic argument in a relationship. Don't you- Like how do you know that? You know too much. Why do you know that? Yeah, you know too much. You know too much, brother. Y'all had that problem as well? Yes. I told y'all earlier about- Yeah, I spoke y'all comments. I think I had like-

[00:30:45] I had a lot of female friends, so it's like, uh. Yeah. My knowledge, I know a lot and then I don't know a lot either. So it's like, I don't- There's certain things I should know. Maybe, not should know, but like there's things I know. That niggas know makeup shit. I don't know makeup shit like that. See- I remember one time I was talking to somebody, I was like, yeah, she got nice little contouring her shit, she looking nice. They can say, yo, bro, wait, what? I said, yo, bro, can I not figure out what women got going on? You know, but if I say it, I don't ever say it in confidence. Like, I might say it and- I might be wrong. I'ma speak a little lower. Like, I don't know if that shit-

[00:31:14] I had two examples. The one I said earlier, I'll repeat it for the pod, but the second one was like, yo, did you put on a setting spray before you give me this hug? I want this shit on my shirt. Shit! She looked- She looked- She looked- Did it show you there? Not that show you. No, not that show you. No, not that show you. But it's like, yo, like- No, I want to tell you. Before you give me this hug, did you use the proper setting spray? Wow, the shirt we put in. That don't matter. That don't matter. That don't matter. It's less about the setting spray, more about the technique. What do you mean? What'd that mean?

[00:31:44] Like, there's really expensive setting sprays, but if you don't really layer your products properly, the setting spray is not going to help you. Like me, I don't know what I'm doing. I get in the bathroom, I just start putting stuff together. You might get makeup on your shirt, which I tell y'all. I got makeup on. That information, that setting spray information, I know personally where I learned it from. And it wasn't from like, oh, a past woman or whatever. It was literally complaining about, yo, I'm not hugging nobody because of my shirt and just a woman letting me know, oh, it might be a setting spray issue. I retain that information. Now I know it.

[00:32:10] So if I regurgitate that, I don't want nobody accusing me of being a slut. Here's how I got accused of being a slut. I was on FaceTime, shorty was trying to figure out what she was doing. She already had her fit on, which is, I get it. You know, put the fit on first, then the makeup. Cool. When she had the clothes on? She had the clothes on. She was wearing all black. That must be crazy. It's makeup first. She put makeup first, put the bag over your face and then you... Listen. I'm a photographer. I've seen you before. I've seen you before. Listen, listen.

[00:32:40] So, you know, I didn't want to prejudge that. But I was like, yo, you're supposed to put your makeup on. I mean, you know, then put the bag. Oh, you was mansplaining how the order... I didn't want to do that. I didn't want to do that. So, but she was trying to figure out, you know, I guess she... I still want to know what you asked me for, but that's no head on there. She was like, you know, what should I do? And I said, yo, you should do a soft beat with a smokey eye. Yo, is that wicked Scott? I'm afraid you wanted for the smokey eye for. You went a little too hard.

[00:33:10] Soft beat is out. You know what I was about. That was overtime. The smokey eye? This nigga watching tutorials. It's a nice contrast with the black dress she has. I'm not going to lie. Don't say contrast. That was insane. Smokey eye is me and think that we going to be cool after. That was insane. Okay, educate me. Is smokey eye like gray? Smokey eye has a technique, but usually it's like with blacks and browns. But you can do a smokey eye with different colors. It's just the way you apply it. So what I didn't say earlier, I like the little on the eye shape. The cat thing?

[00:33:40] The wing tip. The wing tip. The wing tip. Ah, yeah. I said, do that. You know what I'm saying? I said cat eye. Wing tip. I know you and rich me. I don't fucking know what that shit's called to. So- You killed this nigga's girls. Yes. That's a smokey eye. You got to put that on. That's a smokey eye. Bad, bad, bad, bad, bad. Yeah. So, so, and now you got to think about it. Black dress. You know she going to an all black event. With the smokey eyes. Nice. She a brown skinned woman. So, it would have really went well. So I'm like, yo.

[00:34:11] I'm thinking I'm about to score mad points. Wrong. I lost her. Turnover. Oh yeah, we going back down the court. She was like, ref called a foul. Wait, that's the ball up top? Yeah, that was definitely- No, no, no. Well, that was way before the ball up top thing became a thing. But it was just like, she was like, yo, why do you know that? My answer didn't help. What was your answer?

[00:34:40] Wait, what was your answer? I date beautiful women. That's a good answer. That's a good answer. It sound good. Yeah, but in the moment- Received in the brain. That also just wasn't even relevant because you don't have to be beautiful to know how to do a smokey eye. I started, I'm like, what you trying to be, Mr. Bitches? I would have really got annoyed. See? I would have hung up because now you're pissing me off. You call themselves a gal, that's why I hung up. Yeah, basically what you said. And I wasn't- Hold on. Quanti calling me. That would have upset me. So as the resident woman in the room- Because I speak for all women. Yeah, you have to right now. Yeah, you have to right now. Listen-

[00:35:10] Holy gals, that shit good. Do you, if you were dating a man and he gave you that kind of like- Details. Intricate detailed advice on what you should do with your makeup, or even your outfit, your shoes, your nail polish, all that stuff. How would you ever see that? I don't know how I would take that because I don't see me asking a man what I should do for my makeup. What if you- Remember you wanted that perfect date and he know how you like your makeup- Yeah, because last week we was talking about a nigga got a-

[00:35:38] Yeah, but the perfect date, he hired the makeup artist and he- That's being handled. He's not like, make sure you bring the NARS foundation. That would upset me. Because why- I pay attention. Unless you know that I use- I pay attention. Okay, but if you don't know that I use that, now I'm just like, what are you suggesting stuff for me? You watching Jackie Aina? Like what- I can just say Fenty because everybody uses that, right? I don't like Fenty foundation actually. See, he would have to know that. Well, there goes the Fenty deal. He know you like NARS. He know you like NARS. He know you like NARS. Take that off the table. He definitely wrote that one. I don't.

[00:36:08] He know you like NARS though. Okay. I probably wouldn't make it a thing, but I would probably fill a little bit of a way. But I wouldn't make it a thing because it does sound ridiculous to say. Do you think I'm your first- Yeah. You're not my first baddie, bro. I guess that's the conversation that it should- I don't know, you don't have to have it with that lady, but that should be the conversation. It's like, does the woman you're currently dealing with not think that you've ever pulled a maddie before? I had a conversation with my man. You won't say my man's name. Shout out to your man.

[00:36:35] I was telling him like, yo, just because you got a new girl, don't mean that your new girl's the love of your life. Yo, bro, we been in the field. Outside. So, the man that I am today is because I'm experienced. I took some losses. I've improved on it. That's why she here. Facts. You wouldn't appreciate me more if you knew who I was before you. Yo, that's in a rap song somewhere. Is it?

[00:37:05] Joe Budden has said it, I think. I just don't remember the line. Oh, for real? No, but I'm gonna ask. I think you would appreciate me more if you knew what it took for me to get here. Like the work that I put in. You don't know it because you got the final product or the most improved product because we're forever growing as humans, right? In recovery. Yeah. But at the same time, you can't just straight up like, I was like, and I'm not even a person who be outside like that.

[00:37:32] So, she tried to paint me as like, no offense, but like a Ruben-esque person. Oh, God. I know what's going to his name soon later. I like that, bro. I don't know what that means. Ruben, we love you, bro. I need some context. Yeah, Ruben, I love you, bro. We're talking about O5. Yeah, but like- Okay. Well, to update you, we'll tell you I'm fine. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But those who listen know what I meant. It's like me and my past. I ain't want to throw you under the bus. No, it's all right. You can say it. It's all right. Change man. Yeah, change man.

[00:38:01] Like down before his relationship. Don't paint me like that, bro. That was- That actually sounds bad. Keep it- LA, I know you to be somebody who is very detail oriented. Like you take care of yourself. Yeah. You care about your well-being and all of that stuff. Like we walked in here, you had the mask on. Right? Do you think- Oh! Even that. What, your mask, your skincare and all that? Because you have an extensive collection. They be like, yo, where you learned that from? Right. Who put you on a spray?

[00:38:31] But no woman ever put me onto that. Right. Ever. Because nobody got- They don't got the patience to teach you, right? That and my skin- Better than most women. Bad bitch. No brother. No. Not even that, but like even that, when I had company and they went in the bathroom, and they were like, wait. What you know about that? Now my thing is though, they walk in your bathroom and they see the towel wound. What is- Yo, why- Why keep saying names? Like he just- Like he just- Like he just-

[00:39:01] No, we're being inclusive because Trump said it's only- Through gender. Yeah, so now we made sure- We made it up. Come on. Let's be respectful here. Come on. That is- Now I'm just talking about that. They ain't always laughing at stuff at Gizmo. But yeah. What do they say when they see that? The towel wound wound? That's a little freaky if you ask me. New definition to a warm rag. Yeah. You just got to know what it is though. That's how crazy you use. You just want me and you walk into a man bathroom and you say, yo, sitting on a towel wound or something?

[00:39:30] I wouldn't think anything until he said something like that and I would want to kick it over. Like, yo, bro, you know- A lot of times- The response is like some smart aleck answer. But she said like, yeah, but like, why wouldn't you have a towel wound? Why do you need one? I've never owned one. I've actually never seen one until I met- Like, until I came to your room. My thing is though, why do you need one? It'd be cold. Nah, fresh out the shower's a warm hug, bro. I need somebody home. You can say you need that stuff. My own fuck is crazy, bro. That's okay.

[00:40:08] I love the fact that like, I know this is off topic, but I love the fact that Blue Sky isn't developed as an app yet. Nobody has moved from Twitter to over there. I be over there getting my shit on. What's your account name? Same thing as everything else. That's a whole different world. You can be over there freestyle or more. Bro, I be over there chatting with nobody. Are you ever going to tweet again? Probably eventually, yeah. I haven't tweeted since like November. Yeah, eventually, but like- We look back on it.

[00:40:36] I tweet like, once a week. You were never a big tweeter though. I lazy to Twitter got on Instagram though. Yeah, Blue Sky's my shit. I be dropping names on there, everything. Why? I'm trying to everybody to follow this. You're about to download it right now. Yeah. Everybody down last year when we did it. I only have one follower on there, so. Oh, you on Blue Sky too? I'm about to follow you. Y'all was really down with the- So we started this with talking about Elon. So y'all was about to jump ship? That's why I haven't tweeted.

[00:41:04] Because I don't like the new terms of service. When it said that he can use our tweets to train AI, I'm not with that. So I haven't tweeted since then and my Twitter is private now. This is the type of shit that- So I haven't decided what I'm going to do with that account, but I like my- I keep my handles consistent, so I'm probably going to keep it for my handle. So no threads? I have threads now. Threads is not in my ass. But it's just because it shares my fitness threads. So I meet a bunch of fitness girlies on there. Okay. Mm-hmm. I like AI. You can catch? Yeah.

[00:41:34] Damn, nigga. In theory we all like AI, so it's not good for the planet. You know. I don't French. Like I said, ChadGBT could help you with- Yeah, ChadGBT. I be on threads. Bro, that shit gave you a male plan. Male plan. You looking at threads? You never see threads before? Nah. Yeah, you wild threads. This is the blue sky, Jordan. Oh, that'd be good. I be chatting on- Jesus, bro. Nah, this shit twitch. What? Where's that reference to- So, no.

[00:42:04] I'm a favorite. Damn, yo. Nigga, why don't like that? Nobody there, bro. Nobody there. Until that block get hot, then we clear out. We remove all drugs off the block. Bro, okay. But until now, I'm serving crack on it. Shit, man. That was crazy. Harold and everything, bro. All type of shit. Everything for sale. I lost my train of thought saying that. My fault. You see how y'all treat me just cause I'm the only girl? No one show me. Nah, you wouldn't- I mean, it wouldn't even hit you the same. Like-

[00:42:34] Oh, I wouldn't get it. Yeah, it just wouldn't. Oh. Just too much of a girl to get the joke. No. Just- you just don't know- I'ma just follow you on- Oh, yeah. Y'all can- she could be your one friend on there? Nah, me and Ta-Kee be on there. He did tell me down with that shit too when I was at the gym. Yeah, sure. Yeah, facts. But, um, let's get into this. We have 43 minutes. Yeah, that's what I said. Let's get into the conference. Let's get into- This episode, the Yapathon. Yeah. That's literally all we did. Um, I was in, uh, therapy.

[00:43:02] Matter of fact, the first week of therapy, we talked about something called the I statement. The I statement is when a person feels that they're being blamed, whether right or wrong, it's common when they respond with defensiveness. The I statement is a simple way of speaking that will help you avoid this trap by reducing the feeling of being blamed. Now- So give us an example. Oh, I'm glad you asked. Blaming.

[00:43:31] You can, you can't keep coming home so late. It's so inconsiderate. The I statement is I feel worried when you come home late. I can't even sleep. I sound like my mother. I sound like my mother. Caribbean parents, right? Yeah, I can't do that. The blaming. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And it would make more sense if mom was like, yo, I am worried about you. No, she mixes it. I said that because she be mixing it in.

[00:43:58] Like she'll start with the blame, but then she will be like, you guys know I can't sleep. I had a dream last week and now I'm scared. Nah, I don't want my mom having no more dreams. My mom hit me with that the other day. She was like, you know, Sean, I had a dream about fish. She went, mom, I ain't getting no. So yeah. You said that to her? Yup. Oh my God. So I think I always told his parents as the craziest shit in the world, bro. Oh, I ain't clapping nothing, bro. Niggas said no front running over here is crazy.

[00:44:26] Because she be trying, she be like, you know, now that you live on your own, you know, I'm sure you be having company. I said, no, mom. Not until Saturday, bro. Not really. Until Saturday's not. It really be going on. I'm like, nah, she be trying to date. Another example is, uh, you never call me. I guess we won't talk anymore. Oh my God. That's triggering. That's another parent one.

[00:44:52] Wait, so the I statement is, I guess we won't talk anymore? Or? The I statement is, I feel hurt when you go so long without calling. I'm afraid that you don't care. Got you. So essentially the I statement is really identifying your feelings. Yeah. Instead of telling somebody like what you did is wrong. Right. Instead of just being like, oh, I'm sad. Right. And is that seen as a better way to converse with somebody? Yes. Over the- Yes. Instead of pointing-

[00:45:21] Because you may get upset. You might be rightfully upset. But blaming them is essentially not really communicating. In a sense. Because I- Because truthfully, you don't know what a person is really going through. And it's even in a relationship. We just don't know why they're so occupied. Like the time thing. Yo, I feel like you don't- Yo, you never call me. I guess you don't care. Then I'm a responding defensive. My defensive- Your defensiveness is going to match mine.

[00:45:51] While I work. While you're home all day. You ladybump. You know what? That actually reminds me of a little- I didn't have a fallout, but me and a friend stopped talking for a minute. And I definitely did the you thing. I was just like, you're not being a good friend to me. Versus me being like, yo, this hurt my feelings. So that's why I stopped speaking. But when we like made up, I used the I statement and it was received way differently. The first time when I was like, you're not really acting like my friend. They were like- Look at the growth on that woman, man. Come on, man.

[00:46:20] And you did that work on your own. Yeah. Look at that. This is like literally a month ago. Oh, so this is recent. Oh, for real? She's still working on herself, y'all. Yeah, I quit therapy though like six months ago. Damn. Yo, don't make it sound like that. I quit on home. I chose the gym. All right. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I can see that. I had to pick one. But so yeah, I be trying to work on my I statements now instead of blaming.

[00:46:48] Sometimes it's, you know, it don't work because you still feel the person still feel like they've getting blamed. So, but it is a better approach. I can see that. So I've been practicing my I statements. I don't think I've ever been the blamer. Like the first part. Correct me if I'm wrong. You just never been the blamer? I'm not thinking of an instance, but I'm like, that was... No, no, no. I would be lying if I said I ain't ever... Yeah. But I think more times than not, I think that's a better way to say it. When's the last time you blamed somebody for anything that you can't share?

[00:47:18] The shoe. I was thinking about the... Oh! It depends if you don't talk about that. That's what's going to get heated. I think you... Yeah, yeah, yeah. You talking about the shoe? Yeah, yeah, yeah. What? The shoe. I think that's the last time you really blamed somebody for something. You don't have to indulge them. Oh wait! Come on, come on, come on, come on. I think there's a safer way to approach this. All four of us are going to do this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's see if we can figure this out in real time. Yeah, I like this. Good shit. Good shit, good shit. I might get some more laugh with you.

[00:47:46] You think that shit is wild today? It's crazy. Let's see if we can figure this out. Okay. In that situation, did you ever say, yo, X, Y, and Z? I feel like... Who's X, Y, and Z? Damn, bro! What the fuck is wrong with you? Who the fuck else? Who the fuck else? Who the fuck else? Nah. Nah. I never spoke to him after that. Okay, cool.

[00:48:16] Do you think you could have gotten a better result if you would have spoken to him? Yep. No. He does for some weird reason, he does. He told me if you spoke to me. That don't... For a nigga that's dishonest, why are you holding that to any fucking... JoJo be here on the pilot. No, cause girls keep saying that like it means something. I'm sorry. JoJo is the most easy going guy ever, but... I'm not healed. I'm not healed. I'm not healed. I'm sorry. Thank you, bro.

[00:48:48] Do I think... I don't think that. Okay. You're the kind of person that that person is. Okay, okay, okay, okay. But... But... Unfortunately, I'm not saying you're wrong, but unfortunately, that's just still an assumption. Because you never did it. For sure. You know? So, I be trying to be in a space in my life where I don't want to go that deep end or on just assumptions. You know?

[00:49:14] So I'd rather try, yo, I feel this way. Or, this is how I feel, this is how this made me feel, instead of blaming them for making me feel this way. Cause it's not their intent. Or it could possibly be not their intent. Now what if they received that in the wrong way? Cause it can happen. Yeah. It can happen. I've been on that side. I've felt... I've felt accused and attacked even with an eye statement. Have you ever had somebody flip it on you?

[00:49:44] What? I use an eye statement. That made you feel like you're the one, you're the fucking problem. I date women. Huh? How do you even hear it? I didn't hear it. I did their own purpose. But I'm asking behind, I date women. Um, yeah, yeah. Yeah. I'm not gonna flip that together. Why we do that together? But yeah, yeah. I think that comes with the territory. I'm not saying I'm... Women. I think it comes with it. And um, it's... But I think I've been guilty of it too, as well. Like the flip...

[00:50:14] I've been... I think I use that as a defense mechanism too sometimes. To flip? What? To blame? You gotta flip it sometimes. Like... All right, tell me more. So you admitted to manipulating people? That's really manipulation. Y'all gonna ask you, Shia. Tell me more. Tell me more. No, no, no. Tell me more. After you done Sean, I'm gonna get your... It could be manipulative, for sure. It could... No, it is just... It is. There's no ifs and buts about it. That's manipulative. How can I not be honest in this statement? But that's why I want him to tell me more because his intent behind it may mean like, you know, we don't want Joe to use the wrong word.

[00:50:45] What wrong word? That's what I'm saying. Manipulate. Yeah, so... No, I think that's the right word. So you are trying to manipulate the system. I'm trying to manipulate, but it is a manipulative tactic. Okay. Okay. And what outcome are you doing? So what are you trying to do on purpose? The outcome is not to regain full control, but to bring it back to center. To even playing ground. I don't want to feel like I'm being stepped on. So let me... If I try to flip it... Maybe I don't want to get on top, but... But you want to even it out. Let's bring it back here. And you feel like being...

[00:51:13] Well, starting with a straightforward I statement won't get you that same result? No, I think it's better than the initial. For sure. Okay. So give me an example with me on how you would flip a situation to even it out. So say I did something. What have you done to even it out? I don't know if Joe could say this on all his tricks of the trade. He's going to be glad I heard about this. Jack and Paul. It could be... I heard on your little podcast. You say, I send the audio late.

[00:51:43] Yeah, yeah. Okay, yeah. That's why I said use me. Yeah. So your I statement would be... No, your I... So you would try to even this out. Oh, oh, I'm blaming you. Let me see. Let me see if I think... Yo, Joe, you know my weekends are short. You met... You're sitting there Sunday night. You're talking to me like that, though. Like, yo, Joe. Yeah, like, yeah. Like, bro. So every day you know you're wrong. Like, yo, bro, you know I go to work mad early on Monday. I... You said the audio Sunday night.

[00:52:12] You said the audio like you affected my sleep. And listen to this. Yo, bro, you couldn't find another way to say that to me. Wait, I'm not going to lie. Hold on.

[00:52:47] True. This week I was late. You shouldn't take it like I'm doing this as a malicious tactic. You should more be concerned that why isn't this happening? Is everything okay over there? Well, you know what's crazy? Wait, wait, wait. You really got a lot of things over there. This is a bit of a little... You know what's crazy? You don't care about my well-being. You know, as manipulative as Joe is in that situation, I would rebuttal like, yo, I've checked on you three times since then and you never responded.

[00:53:17] Yeah, I was going through something, bro. And then my rebuttal after this... You're not responsible for everything. Did you check on me? Do you know how tired I am? Did you check on me, though? Then now comes... I do check on you, but do you check on me? Nah, my question... Because I can't because of... My question to you, Joe. Now we have an intense tennis match on manipulation. What I'm thinking to you, Joe? How do you feel about being at fault? Yo, I don't mind it. So why are you manipulating? I think you learn more in a way. I think you learn more...

[00:53:45] To be defensive is like, yo, I don't like this feeling of... You don't like being low. Nah, I think... See, yeah, that was more than just now. But I think you can learn more... That was fun. Yeah, nah. That being is fun sometimes. You can learn more by being wrong. And I've also... I guess I have a track record of saying it on the internet. If you search it, you see me at multiple times saying, I don't mind ever being wrong. Yeah. But I also feel like there's a perception that I don't... It's the opposite.

[00:54:14] Like, I always want to be right. Mm-hmm. But in reality, I know that I've learned more about myself and about other people when I've been in the wrong. Mm-hmm. On this pod, I've spoken about a situation that me and Cheyenne had in the past. Mm-hmm. About something that I did that I was in the wrong. And I learned from it. I would have never had thought about her feelings towards me about that shit. I learned and I believe that I've grown from that. And I think it has affected everybody that I... I don't want to use Cheyenne... You and Cheyenne's situation, but is it...

[00:54:42] Is there something that you just don't know versus being wrong? Because I don't want to be told I'm wrong if I never knew. It could be both. It could be both. It could be both. Because if I didn't know something bothered you, that don't mean I was wrong. Yeah. Because if it didn't bother you, did it mean I was right? Good question. So with the I statement, it's like, I think the I statement shows a level of vulnerability and transparency. Mm-hmm. Like, I think even with like talking to a particular person, they don't want to come off too soft. Mm-hmm.

[00:55:12] So they won't say I, but they'll blame. Mm-hmm. Nah, just say, yo, I'm hurt by this. Okay, cool. That's a moment of being vulnerable though. It's kind of like... What's an I statement without acknowledgement though? Like... The I is acknowledging. What is it self-acknowledgement? It's self-acknowledgement. Yeah, because when you say I, you first look in the mirror first. You're addressing how you feel. Mm-hmm. Because then you took the time to take in whatever happened to you.

[00:55:41] So if you did something and it's like, I, this made me feel, Joe, I feel like now I'm telling you how I emotionally feel versus trying to paint you with a broad stroke of blaming you of doing something. Another scenario, right? Let's say I'm broke. Okay. I like this. Right? Well, not that you're broke. Let's say I'm broke. I don't like that. Let's say what? Let's say I'm broke. Now you got up on me? Let's say I've been broke for...

[00:56:08] I've fallen on hard times for the last three months. Okay. And my girl uses an I statement that says, I hate the fact that we haven't gone on dates. Oh, I love this. Let's do this. Let's do this. I love this. I love this. I love doing this. Does that save... No! The I statement, does it save... That's what I mean by the acknowledgement. You respond with a nice statement. I am broke.

[00:56:35] I am part of the broken. This nigga's a sicko. That's a fact though. It's like yo bro, like I'm not financially in a space to help to do that right now. Because if we gonna be transparent, the minute we go broke, we don't tell our significant other right away. We try to figure it out first. Figure it out. If I can't figure it out right now. Mask it as fast as we can. You know what I'm saying? Like something... Alright, so I have a regular job.

[00:57:04] I have a regular job that pays me. And I have a side hustle. Right? Sometimes that side hustle late. Like it don't come when it's supposed to come. So for example... He leave it up to God y'all. I get it. No shit! No shit! No shit! That shit supposed to come on the 15th. This week it didn't come till the 22nd. What if I had a date on the weekend? On that 17th? Yeah! Sorry, Tuesdays, Patrick.

[00:57:30] What if I had a Tatiana date and I'm thinking, alright, I booked it because I know I got it. I know I got it. You know what I'm saying? So instead of just, yo, I can't make it this weekend, I'll tell the person, yo, I have a job that's supposed to pay me on the 15th. I was anticipating that it came in. You honest. There you go. It leaves the space. Now hopefully she's nice enough to understand that nigga quality wave deal. That's not a thing though.

[00:58:00] What is Kojo's flip? Why you broke ass ain't taking out a date in three months? That's real, but now we gotta pack Kojo off. Kojo and nigga taking each other on dates for us. It's always on me. Kojo that's crazy. That would be so crazy. Why is it always on me? Damn. You know what makes me feel the way? I ain't got a nickname yet. That's so crazy. That's so crazy. That's so crazy. You know, I like chicken. I said it on the podcast. You ain't bring me chicken yet.

[00:58:24] So why I brought it up was how can, when we talk about acknowledgement, with the I statement, the receiver of the statement doesn't feel acknowledged that they are in that situation. I'm talking about if this person is in the know. Okay. Like if my girl knows that I'm struggling financially and then their I statement is still I hate the fact that we haven't been on dates. You still respond with an I statement. You don't match them with blaming.

[00:58:51] Cause blaming them would be like, you know, I'm in this tough time and your demand of me is unreasonable. Yeah. You're making my hard time even harder. So I can say I am broke in response. Yeah. Like I'm not in the position to show my love for you in this fashion of dates, but I am showing up for you in other ways. You think that you think that's, is that working? No, I need you. I need you. I'm just asking. You're not bro. I need you. That's manipulative for me.

[00:59:20] Cause now I'm a revealing character. Cause I tell you that. Oh, you ain't here when I'm out. That's a hit. Oh, you all. Don't be here when I'm out. I don't worry about the bad coming. Don't worry about the bad coming. Now, if we talk about Joe Buda statements, if you're not here for the drive, don't be here when I'm home. Yeah. Facts. Shaw, how would you receive that? So one, if I, if I'm with someone and they're down for three months, six.

[00:59:51] 18. 18. 18. 18. Because three months I was going to say, I would be supplementing the things that I want to do. Cause we're partners. Like we're together. Like why am I going to look at you knowing you don't have it? And you're being honest. I'm like, I really hate that. We're not going on dates. Now month six, you're still down. We need to zoom out and figure out what's going on. Are you not working hard enough? I wasn't working for a year. So I can't really sit here and be like, Oh yeah. Lately.

[01:00:20] But like, what is going on? That you're still down? Is it like you telling me you want to do something and you ain't open up the laptop and open Photoshop in six months? Now it's a problem. I didn't know that you was looking at me. I was just saying, damn, I can't drift out. I don't think I ain't do shit out. I'm just saying, all my graphic designers get behind me. I'm just saying, I'm just saying, damn, I can't drift out. But I was just trying to, you know, people work for themselves. But yeah, so I feel like I wouldn't really. So there's a probation period. Yeah. Cause we're partners. I want to be with you.

[01:00:50] Why can't I just treat us? So what's the, I can't be mad at you if you don't have it. What's the timeframe? If he's actually working towards something, it's like, all right, enough is enough. How much, how, how long are we going to get out? How serious is this? How serious? No, you, you, you talked about rings. You talked about kids and shit like that. Oh yeah. No, I think like that's six months to a year. We might have to work together and figure out how we don't. If it passes that it's like, Oh no, no, no. Now you need to go get a trade. Now we got to start looking into like practical things. Nigga told I nigga get a CDO.

[01:01:20] But there's nothing wrong with that. We're respecting you though. I respect that though. That's a solid time. We get benefits. We won't make that joke though, but. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. No. That's cool. That shit, I ain't get that off. Joe, you was the receiver of that information. How would you handle that? This is after, what's the period of time? Six? No. Six months for you, yeah? Yeah, six months for you. And you said we have a family. No, no, no, no. She wants a family. Yeah. I'm the receiver. Yeah, you're the receiver of that. If we got to do something, you got to find a trade. We got to pivot.

[01:01:50] Nah, you know what? If we talking about me, I would personally look at myself first and go turn my hustle up. No lie. Like whatever I was doing in the first three months, I got to crank that. God forbid, what if none of that is working? Shit. I've been there. Now your girl's putting pressure on you. You got to get a trade, my nigga. Like you, I don't need this. You got to go fix the belt on the car. I don't need your life going. You got to go fix the belt on the car. Now she start hitting you with the clock. Like, yo, my clock ticking. I need you to get the shit right. That's not like blame. See, now that's not like blame. Yeah, you take it to fall. I don't think that's blame for saying.

[01:02:19] Cause where you going? To go be alone? Yeah, actually. Respectfully like- That's bad. That was bad. I'll be like, yeah. Holy shit. Nigga, Courtney said, yo, this thing is wild. Like, yo, you about to be singsy. You're not going to find another nigga right away. Nigga, who won't want you? Nigga, who won't want you? Nigga, who won't want you? Nigga, who won't want you? I'm like- I put up with you. Nigga, they go, what's in? You're fucking sick. And then she goes, yeah, I actually am going to be alone. Cause I'm paying for everything for your broke ass. And I can really go up it. You don't want to do stuff like that. That's why the blame game don't work.

[01:02:49] It's fucking nasty. It'll be tough. I don't think that's something you can recover from, bro. And start getting that nasty. But that threat won't land well for most people. It won't land well at all. Like, I'm going to leave you. Yeah, it won't land well. But it's not a threat. I'm going to leave you. It's more so like, I got to move on. Like, we're stuck in a certain time. You're not progressing. You don't want to pivot from what you want to do. I'm glad that's your dream. I love that for you. But now it's starting to weigh on me. Cause I'm either, let's say I'm paying for everything we do.

[01:03:17] Or if we live together, I'm picking up your half of the bills. Now you just have an extra amount of to feed. You know what the eye statement is? The eye statement is, I love you. No, you're spiked by this nigga is sick. Don't get it. Yeah, don't get it. If you say, I love you. This nigga Barney Wallace. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you.

[01:03:47] You want to marry me, right? You want us to get married for better or for worse? This is the worst time right now. Yeah. I wouldn't marry somebody without us going through a worse time on both ends. Shit, that's fair. Like on both ends. I want to see how it goes. So when you down and out, you should see how I hold you down or how I treat you in those times. And when I'm down and out, I would like to see how you treat me in those- That builds reassurance. That builds security and safety. Facts. Facts. Men are just historically mean when they don't have it though.

[01:04:15] So even if I was willing to extend past that year- I hate those names. Yo, come on, Quanny. Quanny, Quanny, Quanny. Quanny, Quanny, Quanny. Who's nice when they don't got it? No, who's nice when they don't got it? No, no, no. Who's nice when they don't got it? That's not true. That's not true. But girls need to when they grow. No, no. Anybody's broke when they don't have it. But if I'm trying to make it work for both of us- Can we, can we, can we? We got to get a big ass fucking kid. Bro, words mean things, right? What do we mean by broke? Unemployed. If you don't- Unemployed? Because people-

[01:04:45] For me, for me, I feel like I'm broke. Right? Because I won't say I'm check to check, but I can't go- Don't look around, Joe. I'm sorry. Yeah, broke is broke. So for- N***a said he broke. But for me, for me, I can't go a month without working. And chill. Yeah, everything is paid already. He paid it already, guys. Yeah, my rent is- My rent is- My rent is- They ain't broke, bro.

[01:05:15] Not broke. Yeah. For some people, haven't taken care of- If I needed some help right now, you'd help me, right? With your broke ass. Get the fuck out of here, nigga. You can't help me with your broke ass, man. No, P.S. People are not the nicest when they're not up. But- But who is? I've noticed that it's rare. A lot of women, when they deal with men and they're like, either holding them down or dealing with those situations- You don't quite- You don't quite jump in. It's crazy. It never ends up that the man is grateful. They usually end up resenting you.

[01:05:44] Or it's like, when people are- People, period. Either side. If you're not happy with your career, your money, you start to resent that person. I'm not here to be no one's punch a bag, month six through 12. If we're trying and I'm trying to make it work, okay. But if I'm telling you like, okay, these are the options. I've exhausted all the support I can give you, financially and emotionally. What are you gonna do? Are you gonna pivot? And you're like, nah, I'm still taking pictures. And I haven't seen you pick up that camera. Now you have a problem. What the fuck did I do? What did I do?

[01:06:13] I ain't do nothing to nobody. In the beginning of the episode, I usually put our tags. But right there, we'll put dog shit. The camera guy, please put it. Actually, but I was really talking to Qwani, because I just saw him holding the camera. But I was just kidding. But I was just saying that- Qwani got eight jobs. That nigga Jamaican is fucked. Exactly. Which is why I'm saying, I'm using people who have jobs, so it does not matter. But that's what I'm saying. Like- Yeah, Qwani run the show. My statement wasn't pertaining to guys that are just like, not doing it or something. I'm talking about people who are really trying to figure it out.

[01:06:43] So imagine you figuring it out. You trying to figure it out. You trying to figure it out. And here you got this woman. Yo! XYZ. Of course. Because you're not, I guess the guy is expected to have it. And then when you don't have it, the pressure of not having it is supposed to have it. Yeah. You already feel it within yourself. So- Add a fuel to the fire. Y'all nobody asking you nothing or like expecting something. You're hiding on fire? Yeah. Like- You think it's like, you're not gonna do that shit too.

[01:07:12] Imagine, all right, imagine this. It's about to be Valentine's Day. You don't got it. You got a girl. You mad at your situation. You mad that you can't get her shit. You mad at so much shit before you even get to her. And then she's expecting something. So you're not really mad at her. You mad at the situation. But she's- That's the I statement. That's the I statement. You know, I'm upset that I couldn't show up for you the way I planned to. Now what if she doesn't receive that properly though? I say this to me, I wish you mad at her. That's my thing though.

[01:07:44] That's what I was saying earlier. You kind of want to see those situations happen so you can see somebody's true colors. Now what if she says- Cause if she show her ass, you gon' work all this way up to get back and spoil a person who showed their ass to you when you was down? Now what if she hit you with that? I've been dealing with this shit for six months to a year. I'm tired of it. Tell me what she got for it. She got, all right, boom. I wish you were more patient. I wish you were too late. That's my thing. That's my thing.

[01:08:14] You never had a photo. I'm not allowed to you! I know- No, no, no! Here's the thing though. Here's the thing though, right? I'm sorry. I love this topic though. I'm gonna fly in the way. Awesome. That shit, you better pray you never lose your job. Cause the- Cause the table- One thing about these tables- This shit will turn, you know what I'm saying? Have you paid someone's bills for them before?

[01:08:43] You trying to figure out what type of trick I am? That's a great trick I am. And which bill was it? I paid college tuition before. Oh my God! He's up- He in the upper tier. I almost just wasn't sitting. I'm watching work right now! Was it fresh cost? What's your interest? Semester or- Was she three years in? I paid a full semester before. You paid the interest? And I've taken out a salary loan for somebody. God damn it! This ain't a trick. The front was immaculate, I'm assuming.

[01:09:13] Nigga wasn't good as crazy. It's all said the same shit. Yo, LA that is a wild thing to do. It was a relationship, so yeah. I've had a person- Okay, okay. Yeah. Yeah, I was hoping- What'd she do for you? She's like, yo. Skrulls wanted to know what she did in the reciprocation to the tuition. That's not irrelevant. It's not relevant. He said it's not relevant is what Lil Sean- But sometimes you don't do- You don't do it for something bad. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Especially in-

[01:09:42] But in hindsight, I know when y'all men- I know that wouldn't have been reciprocated. Oh no, hell no. She's out of here. Yeah, so I'm out of here. I'd have been out of here. You know what I'm saying? So that's what I mean. But the I statement in that is like, yo, I'm on hard times right now. Where I am now is not where I plan on being when I'm back up. I would appreciate if you have a little bit more patience with me. Cause that's how you level the playing field in your response.

[01:10:11] Now, if they show they ass, that's a clear sign that you shouldn't be with that person anyway. What's the I statement there? I am broke. I am broke. I am broke. What foundation did you lay down? Like, were you- Did you guys take time to pay for day time or anything? Or was this all your pockets? Whatchamance? You talking about whatchamance? I got some- Alright, so even- Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it was kind of a thing, but now she don't have it. So it was just you. Yeah, so it was just me. And I'm cool with that.

[01:10:38] Yeah, cause I believe in your work, your resume, that you will find a job and it's gonna take time. Like I was telling G yesterday, the workforce is trash, bro. Like, it's not your fault, bro. Like- In the moment, it feels like it though. You know what I used to tell her? Cause she had a high taste herself. So she wasn't able to do the things that she wanted to do.

[01:11:07] So I was like, yo, think about it this way. We go out to eat, right? So when we out to eat, we put in our order. We still gotta wait. Even if they take it long, we can't just get up and go back there and see what the fuck is going on, right? So I'm like, yo, think about it the same way, yo. You told God, you prayed, you told him what you wanted. You just gotta wait for it to be delivered. You can't go up there and be like, yo, God, what's taking you so long? Even if he not gonna respond, we can't go back there. It's not fast food. It's not fast food. What you want is not fast food. If that's the case, you would go work at a fast food restaurant.

[01:11:37] That's not what you want. So what you want is gonna take time. So be patient with what you want. Yeah, that's a social clip if you ask me. But yeah, I used to tell her that. Yo, be patient with what you're preying on. Because the same way we go to a restaurant, especially like, especially a restaurant that we really like, like Tatiana. Like Tatiana, huh? Like Tatiana, we used to go there a lot. I don't know. And it's like, yo, you just don't, you know how good the quality is.

[01:12:07] So you're never gonna rush them. You know what I'm saying? So you know what you want. Be patient. So I wasn't bucking for saying that. No. I think you should be patient. No. Or not, I think I would like it. I would like it if you were more patient. Yeah, cause you're still giving blame in your eye. Don't give blame in your eye. I'm going through a hard time. Can you please be patient with me? Yeah. I would appreciate some patience. I would appreciate some patience. That can go left.

[01:12:34] But is there patience with a plan or just like one patience? Okay. That is, you're right. If you guys don't play in this, like you playing the field. Wait, is this six months? If I'm broke for six months? No, this is six months broke. Not six months in the relationship. Oh, six months broke. Yeah. So like for example, Quanee. So six months broke. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Let's say for example, let's say for example, your multiple streams of income, it varies, right?

[01:13:00] But like say, New York had the first week of no gun violence. Five days, not a week. Five days, nobody got spanked. Until 30 minutes after that. Niggas are wilding out. Somebody saw that and said, oh, word? We going to spank this nigga up the line. Let's see if the statistics are true. Fucking lit shit up. But let's just say for whatever reason, nobody has an insurance claim for a month. Everything went well.

[01:13:28] Right now, Sonday, you still working on behind the scenes. So technically nothing came in and now you're hearing, oh, well, you know, and it happened between this period of birthday and Valentine's Day. That's crazy. That is- How is that crazy? This is a bad circumstance. That's literally life. That's literally life. I don't have to tell. Let's see. No, I'm saying that's crazy to be upset. Oh no, she's saying it. I'm saying like, cause we just came off Christmas, like- Oh, damn. I like that. Like being a valentine's day- That's what I'm talking about.

[01:13:58] And Quani's relationship is in the trifecta. Christmas, birthday, Valentine's Day. Hold on. When's your birthday again, Quani? Damn, my nigga. That's exactly- She got all the- Summertime has ended. I was having a ball, my nigga. You get one month off in November, maybe. That's what I'm saying. You better jump in Jehovah Witness, nigga. I don't celebrate holidays. Shout out to JB.

[01:14:25] But nah, on some G shit, like what if you just go through a hard time, nothing came in for the last three months, and that person decides to show they ass. Nah, you can't fuck- I think that's a clear indication not to fuck with you. If you not understand this, like yo, bro, we had all these months, this years of me just going all the way, all out, and this few months, wait. Yeah, like you know what I'm capable of at my peak. Matter of fact, if I made some shit shake while unemployed, you should shut your mouth. I think you should shut up. I think you should shut up.

[01:14:55] I haven't been employed in six months, you got a Christmas gift, right? Oh, okay. My biggest check, I bust that down for you, right? Shut up! I think you should shut up. I think you're being ungrateful. I think you're being ungrateful. What have you done for me lately? Oh my God. That's Gojo shit, that's the manipulation. What have you done for me lately? What have you done to change my circumstances? You're helping with my resume? That is crazy. You told your friends that I do this, I do that?

[01:15:25] Like, you can literally go left. Shout out my homies who haven't been sending out my resume and shit like that. Oh shit. Love that, love that, love that. Oh shit. There's some good things on the horizon for me, just speaking about. I might be the only unemployed. Well, you got it. I might be the only unemployed nigga here. So yeah, nah, I got some- You're not unemployed bro. Ask Dane if you want to be a, you know, go work with Dane. Yeah, you're not unemployed. I don't think- That's not unemployed bro. You gotta- You gotta find some contracts. Yeah, that's not unemployed bro. There are real people outside suffering.

[01:15:56] You may go ask Chris or some of his connections up. I think you need a reality check. Yeah, you have a tangible skill that can change your financial situation. I didn't check all right. Like you have a tangible skill that can change your financial situation in a week's worth of time. That's not completely- That's not unemployed. You gotta be a slow period. You gotta remember the market is shit right now. I had a good week. I didn't wanna- Yeah, so yeah bro. So stop, stop projecting that over yourself. Please, for the grace of God, I'll be better. I think we're gonna end it right there. I think we're out of here. I think we're outta here. I think we're outta here. I will be going home.

[01:16:25] You already know what it is man. It's Don Peezy, Don the camera guy, AKA your mother's favorite mechanic. Alongside of LaShawn. I would like for that playlist to come back. Oh shit, my fault. My fault. We could share one if you want to- Yo bro, you don't want no fun from you bro. He been throwing it for weeks. That ain't help someone count. You trying to get close to my bed and this makes me uncomfortable brother. I wanna answer her to it. Shout out to the Apple products.

[01:16:55] Shout out to the Apple products. Shout out, thank you bro. I appreciate it, boy. I'm learning how to use my iPad and my Apple pencil. Oh my God. What are you? My favorite gym girlie? I'm your favorite gym girlie. I'm your favorite gym girlie. That's who I am. I am Joe Gagin. Oh, we got wavy in the building squirrels, underscore, underscore, underscore, underscore, underscore. And DBC, underscore, underscore, underscore. Dane got the most underscore. Yeah, I don't fucking understand. I think him and this girl got the same amount. I too. I too. Yeah, they got the same amount. Seems like eight, but it's alright. Nah, Dane seems really long.

[01:17:25] Yo, till next time man. I don't got anything on this thing. God is good, ain't he? I think God is the greatest. I wish you knew two were to goop.