In this enlightening episode of WhatsAGoodGuy, we unpack the power of conscious effort and how a single choice can transform our relationships and daily lives. Inspired by a personal revelation about wanting to be a kinder coworker, we explore the small but impactful steps we can take to become better versions of ourselves.
Join us as we discuss practical ways to bring kindness and positivity into our interactions, the challenges of staying intentional, and how these efforts create a ripple effect that can uplift everyone around us. From inspiring stories to actionable tips, this episode is a reminder that even small changes can make a big difference.
Tune in for an honest conversation on growth, reflection, and the conscious choices that lead to a more fulfilling life!
[00:00:01] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm ready to fight.
[00:00:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Niggas took like three weeks to tell me that shit.
[00:00:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, I'm ready to fight.
[00:00:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, Are we recording?
[00:00:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Yeah, on cameras, yeah.
[00:00:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Niggas been on for like nine minutes.
[00:00:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Niggas over here in the week.
[00:00:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Niggas, You ready?
[00:00:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, You already know where it is ladies and gents.
[00:00:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Am I in focus?
[00:00:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, I think you might be in focus.
[00:00:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Okay.
[00:00:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Let me do it one more time.
[00:00:22] [SPEAKER_00]: 3, 2, 1.
[00:00:24] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, You already know where it is ladies and gents.
[00:00:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, It's your mother's favorite runner, Don Peasley.
[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, Next to him is me, LaShawn.
[00:00:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, Hold on brother.
[00:00:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Come on now.
[00:00:34] [SPEAKER_00]: You know how I'm not gonna say it.
[00:00:37] [SPEAKER_00]: It's another beautiful day here at NYC man.
[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Shout out to all y'all for listening this whatever time you're listening.
[00:00:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Blessed to be here.
[00:00:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Blessed to have you here.
[00:00:45] [SPEAKER_00]: And we got the fellas in the building.
[00:00:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey Joe.
[00:00:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey LA.
[00:00:49] [SPEAKER_00]: And what's your name over there sir?
[00:00:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, New Face, New Face, New Face.
[00:00:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, Yeah, love the streets.
[00:00:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Preach Gold.
[00:00:56] [SPEAKER_01]: 3, 2, 1.
[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, In this illustrious set with my beautiful brothers.
[00:01:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Appreciate you.
[00:01:01] [SPEAKER_01]: The golden one is here.
[00:01:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Mr. Conker himself.
[00:01:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Like how men used to be.
[00:01:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, you're a traditional man there brother.
[00:01:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I hear you.
[00:01:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Chris and my Columbus over there.
[00:01:10] [SPEAKER_01]: You're a traditional man.
[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I hear that bro.
[00:01:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Ah, yes.
[00:01:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Good to be here.
[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_01]: I love you guys.
[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_01]: We love you too.
[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Finally, right?
[00:01:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's been a while.
[00:01:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Finally.
[00:01:18] [SPEAKER_00]: When was the last time Preacher's on an episode?
[00:01:20] [SPEAKER_00]: When we was in Brooklyn?
[00:01:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Red Autumn?
[00:01:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Probably Red Autumn.
[00:01:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:01:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Red Autumn.
[00:01:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn.
[00:01:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:01:26] [SPEAKER_01]: But Preacher was also one of the guys who spearheaded the return of What's A Good Guy.
[00:01:32] [SPEAKER_01]: He even promised to show up on episodes.
[00:01:36] So...
[00:01:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Man, it took nigga almost a year to get in.
[00:01:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Almost a year.
[00:01:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, hang on.
[00:01:40] [SPEAKER_01]: What do you think about shit?
[00:01:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Almost a year.
[00:01:42] [SPEAKER_01]: He's got dead.
[00:01:43] [SPEAKER_01]: He's babies man.
[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Having kids.
[00:01:45] [SPEAKER_00]: He might...
[00:01:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Me too.
[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_00]: You know what?
[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Shout out to you.
[00:01:49] [SPEAKER_00]: You got a beautiful child, man.
[00:01:50] [SPEAKER_00]: You got beautiful children, man.
[00:01:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out to both of y'all, man.
[00:01:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out to your last one.
[00:01:53] [SPEAKER_01]: I got more photos with him than your first one.
[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_01]: The first one.
[00:01:57] [SPEAKER_01]: 15.
[00:01:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I saw Caleb.
[00:01:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, damn.
[00:01:59] [SPEAKER_00]: I saw Caleb.
[00:02:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I saw Caleb at church.
[00:02:03] [SPEAKER_00]: At church?
[00:02:03] [SPEAKER_00]: I saw Caleb at...
[00:02:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I saw Caleb at...
[00:02:05] [SPEAKER_00]: He was just...
[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_00]: He was just here.
[00:02:07] [SPEAKER_00]: The last time I really remember seeing him is when you had some...
[00:02:09] [SPEAKER_00]: You had like a barbecue at your crib or something.
[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh yeah, when we moved and I...
[00:02:13] [SPEAKER_01]: That was a...
[00:02:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:02:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah.
[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_01]: He was 10 years old then.
[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_01]: That's not the last time you saw him Caleb was at church.
[00:02:21] [SPEAKER_01]: He was there.
[00:02:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I remember seeing him, but I was like, that's the last time I like my brain put into it.
[00:02:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that was a good one.
[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_01]: We had everybody.
[00:02:27] [SPEAKER_01]: We were sitting on my head.
[00:02:28] [SPEAKER_01]: That was a good spot you had too.
[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_01]: We was outside for a minute.
[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Sine was there.
[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_01]: It was a good vibe.
[00:02:33] [SPEAKER_00]: He was up there for a minute.
[00:02:34] [SPEAKER_00]: What's going on today, Mr. Adelaide?
[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, we're going to start it off where we left off.
[00:02:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Joe, when you was talking about energy suckers and energy givers.
[00:02:42] [SPEAKER_01]: No money.
[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't say fuckers, bro.
[00:02:44] [SPEAKER_02]: What you said, I'm sorry.
[00:02:45] [SPEAKER_02]: Takers and givers.
[00:02:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Same shit.
[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Same shit.
[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Tomato, tomato.
[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.
[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_01]: So continue with that point before we get into this episode that I got written down.
[00:02:55] [SPEAKER_02]: Okay, well, so I'll just get to the root of where I learned it.
[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_02]: When I was playing college basketball, my college assistant coach, Coach Tony, he used to say, when you're on this team or in this gym or when you come into the weight room, whatever the case may be, it's all about your energy.
[00:03:11] [SPEAKER_02]: And there's two types of players in this world.
[00:03:13] [SPEAKER_02]: And there's the players who come into the gym, come into the weight room, come into the classroom, who are giving positive energy and pouring energy into this room that will elevate everybody.
[00:03:21] [SPEAKER_02]: And then there's people who come into the gym, who come to take energy out of the room and have negative energy that pull everything away.
[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_02]: And those that you have to have discernment with who you let into your spaces in that way.
[00:03:37] [SPEAKER_02]: And because he said it in a basketball sense, obviously I took it as a basketball player, but then I started to apply it in all my phases of life.
[00:03:45] [SPEAKER_02]: And I didn't see that it's helped me to pick and choose who I let into the room.
[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_01]: What about for yourself?
[00:03:52] [SPEAKER_01]: What you mean?
[00:03:53] [SPEAKER_01]: How did it help you determine who you wanted to be outside of who you wanted to let in?
[00:03:59] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, no. Yeah. So yeah, I like it's funny because immediately once he said that I picked the side.
[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm like, yeah, I'm always going to be the person who's coming in here giving positive energy, even if I was doing that shit before.
[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. Like him saying that and making that analogy to us.
[00:04:14] [SPEAKER_02]: I took it so personally.
[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, I'm always going to be the person. I'm in the hair to give energy.
[00:04:18] [SPEAKER_02]: If I, you know, even if I, if I can't give any energy, I'm not taking anything from me.
[00:04:22] [SPEAKER_02]: At least I'm going to be a sponge.
[00:04:24] [SPEAKER_02]: Like I was always going to say, I'm not going to be that person that he was saying to not be.
[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah. That's how I was operating.
[00:04:29] [SPEAKER_01]: So the reason why that inspired me picking to do this episode, because I had already written it down.
[00:04:35] [SPEAKER_01]: There was a, I would never say I'm an energy taker.
[00:04:42] [SPEAKER_01]: You were about to go with this.
[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Right. But I understand how my mood could alter the environment.
[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_01]: The whole room?
[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_01]: And so the way I come into work, I've said it before.
[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm really no nonsense.
[00:04:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm here for the bag and that's it.
[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I'm, I don't really want to kick it with y'all.
[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to do nothing like that.
[00:05:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't know what happened, but it was just one day I woke up and I, and I made a conscious effort.
[00:05:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, I'm going to be mad nice today.
[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to just, I'm going to just, I'm going to come in, I'm going to walk in, I'm going to say hi, good morning, what's good?
[00:05:23] [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm going to see how it goes.
[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_01]: So I went to work.
[00:05:27] [SPEAKER_01]: I woke up on time.
[00:05:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I had breakfast.
[00:05:31] [SPEAKER_01]: I was able to, and it was an early report.
[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_01]: It was a 6 AM report.
[00:05:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn.
[00:05:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:05:36] [SPEAKER_01]: And I usually don't do that.
[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_01]: This is flying.
[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_01]: This is flying.
[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_01]: So I get on, you know, I walked down the jet bridge.
[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_01]: You know, I'm like, good morning.
[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Good morning.
[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_01]: How you doing?
[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_01]: And, um,
[00:05:48] [SPEAKER_01]: No energy?
[00:05:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, nah.
[00:05:50] [SPEAKER_01]: That's funny because the first time I did it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it, it,
[00:05:55] [SPEAKER_01]: it went really well.
[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_01]: You know?
[00:05:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause they, cause we, we introduce ourselves right there and then because nine times out
[00:06:01] [SPEAKER_01]: of 10, uh,
[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_00]: You don't know each other?
[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_01]: We all know each other.
[00:06:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Um, nine times out of 10, we don't know each other.
[00:06:10] [SPEAKER_01]: And, you know, so it'd be like, you know, how I'm preach, how I'm dad, how I'm cold,
[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Joe, how I'm, and I'll be like, yo, what's good?
[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_01]: My name is LaShawn.
[00:06:17] [SPEAKER_01]: And then I'll just walk to the back cause I know my spot.
[00:06:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I, we usually bid for, uh, for locations on the plane based on seniority.
[00:06:25] [SPEAKER_01]: I only work flights where I'm the most senior.
[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Mm-hmm.
[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_01]: So we never have to ask where I'm going.
[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to the back.
[00:06:31] [SPEAKER_01]: So, but nah, you know, I sat, stayed for briefing, do my thing, you know, talk, you know, they,
[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_01]: like anybody got special talents made a little funny joke, you know?
[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_01]: What?
[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_02]: I think I was being charming.
[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Charming.
[00:06:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't get an HR.
[00:06:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't get an HR case though, brother.
[00:06:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, see, I won't go that far.
[00:06:47] [SPEAKER_00]: You got any special talents.
[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Why you asking me the questions, lady?
[00:06:50] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll be careful with that.
[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_01]: But, um, but nah, you know?
[00:06:54] [SPEAKER_01]: So, so for me, it was like, I don't know what happened.
[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know what happened the night before, but I just made a conscious effort on, you
[00:07:02] [SPEAKER_01]: know, let me just change the mood and spirit that I, that I bring to work and see what happened.
[00:07:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Now the next, next flight, the next crew that I worked with, I did that and niggas wasn't
[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_01]: really receptive to it.
[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_01]: So I was like, in the back of my mind, I'm like, see, that's why I don't fuck with y'all
[00:07:21] [SPEAKER_01]: niggas to be careful.
[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_01]: But it worked the first time though.
[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_01]: You're right.
[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_01]: So...
[00:07:25] [SPEAKER_01]: You can't base your energy off of how other people respond.
[00:07:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but see, I don't know.
[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_01]: For me, as far as like my job goes, I just want to get back home.
[00:07:37] [SPEAKER_00]: But you ain't got to see the motherfuckers again.
[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_00]: You could be...
[00:07:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but see that, but you know what the, also one of the things that I factored in, if
[00:07:47] [SPEAKER_01]: shit hits the fan, we all we got, or we got to work together to make this, to make sure
[00:07:54] [SPEAKER_01]: we land safely or do whatever.
[00:07:57] [SPEAKER_01]: So if I come off, I guess to myself, they may feel like, oh, I can't depend on this.
[00:08:04] [SPEAKER_01]: But nine times under 10, I'm probably the one y'all should depend on because I'm the one
[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_01]: who keeps like the stoic energy.
[00:08:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't really clam up.
[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_01]: We've had two emergencies recently.
[00:08:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And while everybody frantic, I'm like, yo, it's only one way out of here.
[00:08:20] [SPEAKER_01]: And nigga, we either going down or make it.
[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's just chill the fuck out.
[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Nothing's going to change.
[00:08:26] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:08:27] [SPEAKER_01]: We either dead or we alive.
[00:08:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Like that's what's in front of us.
[00:08:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't tell me that.
[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_00]: That's a lot of...
[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_01]: But see, for me, courage, bro.
[00:08:35] [SPEAKER_00]: That takes a lot of courage.
[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_00]: The niggas are shaking up.
[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_00]: It's like, huh?
[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause they just like, yo, you like imagine you having a panic attack.
[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_01]: You're a customer and the flight attendant that's supposed to be helping you.
[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my God.
[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Now you're having a panic attack.
[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Everybody's...
[00:08:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Move from this nigga, please.
[00:08:53] [SPEAKER_01]: We trying to save his...
[00:08:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Now we're gonna take care of you though.
[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_01]: You are no help right now.
[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And you're the senior person on the flight.
[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_01]: So you have to be the...
[00:09:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:09:02] [SPEAKER_01]: So, so, so yeah.
[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm like, you know what?
[00:09:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me just make a conscious effort onto...
[00:09:08] [SPEAKER_01]: So which led me to ask, have any of y'all made a conscious effort recently in y'all lives
[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_01]: to change, I guess, whatever mood, direction or phase y'all are in?
[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Preach, you haven't been here for a while.
[00:09:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:09:23] [SPEAKER_01]: So you go first.
[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Actually, yes.
[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not an interview.
[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not an interview.
[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_00]: You're fine.
[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I know.
[00:09:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I know.
[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_01]: But I mean, being who I was before my dad died and who I was after my dad died these
[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_01]: past two years definitely changed my outlook on energy, time, and all of those things.
[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_01]: So when he first died, I...
[00:09:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Of course you recluse, you grieve.
[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm.
[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_01]: And some of the social person that I was before, I'm not.
[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Because, you know, my soul is just different.
[00:10:06] [SPEAKER_01]: My outlook is different.
[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_01]: But now, with my son and seeing him growing, and that energy that he brings is like, yeah,
[00:10:16] [SPEAKER_01]: this is...
[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_01]: You know, it's okay to share again.
[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_01]: It's okay to be who you were as that fun person again.
[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm.
[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_01]: There's no need to always be grieving and have a...
[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_01]: What's it called?
[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_01]: A negative, pessimistic outlook on everything.
[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Ah!
[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Remember that.
[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_01]: That's the next S.
[00:10:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Pestimistic outlook.
[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_01]: That's the next S.
[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Pestimistic.
[00:10:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas said pestic.
[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Whatever it is.
[00:10:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't understand it.
[00:10:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[00:10:41] [SPEAKER_02]: So, yeah.
[00:10:42] [SPEAKER_02]: That's crazy now that I think about it, right?
[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Well, not...
[00:10:45] [SPEAKER_02]: I've thought about it because obviously I've been in your life for all this time, but your
[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_02]: dad did pass and then you had a child, so it's kind of like you lose.
[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Did you do that on purpose?
[00:10:54] [SPEAKER_02]: He didn't have to do it on purpose.
[00:10:56] [SPEAKER_01]: To be honest...
[00:10:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, because most people don't know.
[00:10:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I actually asked you about that.
[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_01]: This is a question.
[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_01]: You know the single life where you lose somebody and most people...
[00:11:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:04] [SPEAKER_01]: So, did the loss of your dad make you want to have another child?
[00:11:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I can give you a crazy story.
[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, shit.
[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_01]: My dad died in August.
[00:11:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_01]: In June, me and her was at my crib.
[00:11:16] [SPEAKER_01]: He said, you deserve to have a big family.
[00:11:19] [SPEAKER_01]: We didn't know then that she was pregnant.
[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Then he dies in August, so now I have the choice of...
[00:11:26] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what you know.
[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I have the choice right now of do we go through with this or do we kill us?
[00:11:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Wow.
[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_01]: And he was like, yo, I know I'm gonna need something to get over my dad dying.
[00:11:40] [SPEAKER_01]: So let's...
[00:11:42] [SPEAKER_01]: All right, go ahead.
[00:11:43] [SPEAKER_01]: And I know how much you want to be a mom.
[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_01]: I've already done this.
[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I know how much you want to be a mom.
[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's do this.
[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_01]: We did it.
[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_01]: But it was just crazy.
[00:11:53] [SPEAKER_01]: He said, I want you to have a big family.
[00:11:55] [SPEAKER_01]: And then that happened.
[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_01]: One, two months later.
[00:11:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Now we find out she's pregnant.
[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_00]: It wasn't on purpose, but it was definitely...
[00:12:02] [SPEAKER_00]: The power of the tongue and God ain't no joke.
[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_00]: The power of the tongue.
[00:12:05] [SPEAKER_00]: The power of the tongue.
[00:12:05] [SPEAKER_01]: He knew.
[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_00]: My daddy knew.
[00:12:07] [SPEAKER_01]: God, your tongue ain't pretty sick.
[00:12:12] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a fact.
[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a fact.
[00:12:14] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a fact.
[00:12:14] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a fact.
[00:12:15] [SPEAKER_00]: That's a fact.
[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Sick niggas, bro.
[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_01]: That wasn't the tongue.
[00:12:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo.
[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo.
[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_00]: That was on me, baby.
[00:12:24] [SPEAKER_00]: That was on me.
[00:12:24] [SPEAKER_01]: That was on me.
[00:12:25] [SPEAKER_01]: That was on me.
[00:12:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Sick, bro.
[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, my God.
[00:12:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, man.
[00:12:33] [SPEAKER_01]: What about you, Da?
[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_01]: The conscious effort that you've been making to do X, Y, Z?
[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_00]: The thought of nobody's gonna save me but me.
[00:12:46] [SPEAKER_00]: So it's me.
[00:12:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like every man...
[00:12:48] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what?
[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_01]: That's that last episode that we never put out.
[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_01]: The Switch.
[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, yeah.
[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_00]: So it's like...
[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Yup.
[00:12:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Just remembering that.
[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_00]: So that's why I woke up this morning.
[00:12:58] [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, yo, I'm doing 10 miles.
[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_00]: That's why people are like, when you started running, I was like, bro, I don't run with
[00:13:03] [SPEAKER_00]: headphones no more?
[00:13:04] [SPEAKER_00]: It's all about quiet and noise and just listening to my surroundings and just figuring shit out.
[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_00]: So that's what, like you said, that switch, that hit.
[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm glad.
[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Can you repeat?
[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_00]: So energy and impersonal.
[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_00]: So...
[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Be very personal.
[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_00]: The conscious...
[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm doing too much listening right now.
[00:13:20] [SPEAKER_01]: The conscious effort of whatever...
[00:13:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Bringing your energy back into the...
[00:13:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Into whatever it is.
[00:13:31] [SPEAKER_01]: So, say there was a drought of...
[00:13:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I got one that I got.
[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Of success or whatever and you get discouraged and it's like, you wake up one morning and be
[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_01]: like, nah, fuck this.
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm getting back on throwing a horse.
[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Whatever that horse may be.
[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_01]: So for me, it was like...
[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Something that helps you bounce back.
[00:13:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I was like a...
[00:13:50] [SPEAKER_01]: I was...
[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know.
[00:13:52] [SPEAKER_01]: I would just come to work just in a workspace mind.
[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_01]: But it's like, you know, part of being, I guess a flight attendant is, you know, the
[00:14:01] [SPEAKER_01]: personality of it because I had to use my personality to get the job.
[00:14:04] [SPEAKER_01]: But then once I felt like I got it, I just was so stoic on, yo, safety is customer service.
[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_01]: The whole personality thing is not really my forte or, y'all know me.
[00:14:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm more of an introvert, which I kind of like because when they did the orientation
[00:14:23] [SPEAKER_01]: of once we got the job, they kind of said, yo, don't think just because you're a flight
[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_01]: attendant, you no longer have to be an introvert.
[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_01]: If you're an introvert, be an introvert.
[00:14:33] [SPEAKER_01]: We want all types of people.
[00:14:36] [SPEAKER_01]: So that was cool to hear because it was like, yo, I don't do well faking it.
[00:14:40] [SPEAKER_01]: My face talks way before my mouth do.
[00:14:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I know the fact that I'm an introvert, but I made a conscious effort.
[00:14:55] [SPEAKER_01]: At least don't be so introverted to the fact where a four man crew now feels like a three
[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_01]: man.
[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's what I'm saying.
[00:15:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Have you ever made a conscious effort to do something, to change something, to want to
[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_01]: be more, to, I don't know, whatever?
[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, Kojo Wiley.
[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I could give Kojo an example of his own.
[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, do me know.
[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Tell me.
[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, well, I mean, of course I talked to Kojo.
[00:15:19] [SPEAKER_01]: So I've seen him when he's been like, man, I don't know what the fuck they did.
[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_01]: And then, yo, I got Red Bull.
[00:15:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Bleep that if anything.
[00:15:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, I got Red Bull.
[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Ah, now I got this.
[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn.
[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Now I got this.
[00:15:33] [SPEAKER_02]: Bleep, so boom.
[00:15:34] [SPEAKER_02]: It's funny you said that because that's what I was thinking about because top of the year,
[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_02]: I thought I had Ebony Magazine in my hands.
[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_02]: I thought I was about to be the creative director at Ebony Magazine.
[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, we all did.
[00:15:45] [SPEAKER_02]: And then it didn't happen and I went into this drought.
[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_02]: And it felt like it lasted for such a long time.
[00:15:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, yeah, that goes off of, we recorded an episode called Hopes Up, right?
[00:15:54] [SPEAKER_01]: So your hopes, you know you got disappointed with that conscious effort of, I'm not going
[00:15:59] [SPEAKER_01]: to live in this disappointment anymore.
[00:16:01] [SPEAKER_02]: Let me, but what caused that was something that was normal to me.
[00:16:05] [SPEAKER_02]: So Dykeman basketball, being in that space and showing my talent and getting that work
[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_02]: out there, which to me wasn't like anything extravagant because that's my job and that's
[00:16:14] [SPEAKER_02]: what I do.
[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_02]: That caused me to then get the biggest solo contract that I have ever received as a art
[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_02]: director.
[00:16:20] [SPEAKER_02]: So yeah, that's a fact.
[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_02]: Like it's just, sometimes for me, it's just staying the course and just trusting my talent,
[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_02]: trusting my work, trusting the things that I've put all this time in, all these YouTube
[00:16:32] [SPEAKER_02]: hours, all of that studying and I've been doing it myself.
[00:16:36] [SPEAKER_02]: It ultimately pays off.
[00:16:38] [SPEAKER_02]: So just not losing faith either.
[00:16:39] [SPEAKER_02]: Right?
[00:16:39] [SPEAKER_02]: Like it's just like that Ebony shit, it still bothers me, but I have not let it consume
[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_02]: me.
[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_02]: Right?
[00:16:45] [SPEAKER_02]: Like it was consuming me.
[00:16:47] [SPEAKER_01]: So you made a conscious effort not to let it consume you.
[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Sure.
[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Once I realized that I, once you realized that I can't control it.
[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a good one.
[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like as creatives though, our energies always shift because of the business landscape.
[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And this is what we make our money from.
[00:17:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's like when, as a creative, when things is going good, everything is good.
[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause it's just feeling like, yo, I figured this entrepreneur shit right out.
[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_01]: And then it just goes dry for six months and you're like, what the fuck am I been doing
[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_01]: this all the time?
[00:17:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I need to figure something else out.
[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Plus the market is shit.
[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_00]: The market.
[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_01]: So that, that, that goes to a good point where I don't want to depress us out, but like
[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I need to take the conscious effort of not letting life consume us and where shit don't
[00:17:36] [SPEAKER_01]: look like it's going to go good anytime soon, where you penny pitching, where, you know,
[00:17:43] [SPEAKER_01]: it's dark and...
[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Facts.
[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_01]: When you say life, I would change that to like business life.
[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause life is us.
[00:17:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, I'm talking about life.
[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_01]: No, I'm talking about life.
[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_01]: You talking about life period?
[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Like altogether?
[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I'm talking about life.
[00:17:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Not in a creative space like life.
[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Like financial.
[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Financial.
[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Shit, we meant.
[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's easy for us.
[00:18:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Financial.
[00:18:03] [SPEAKER_01]: You know?
[00:18:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Where you don't have the amount of money that you want to have or the money you do have,
[00:18:09] [SPEAKER_01]: money's not coming in.
[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_01]: So you see your money drop.
[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Like there was a point in time where I would like to say I had a great savings.
[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Right?
[00:18:17] [SPEAKER_01]: And then I put myself in a pickle.
[00:18:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, I didn't put myself in a pickle.
[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I got placed in a pickle and that savings that I thought was so great was starting like
[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm now being scared like damn.
[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_00]: So I need to replenish.
[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_01]: What the fuck is due to...
[00:18:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Everyday Apple is taking money out of my account for a reason.
[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Make it up for Apple News.
[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Make it up for Apple News.
[00:18:37] [SPEAKER_01]: They want your 999 for Apple News.
[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Like you know?
[00:18:42] [SPEAKER_01]: You just deal with that adversity of like damn son.
[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And then you just don't let life consume you.
[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_00]: You know what's funny?
[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I literally compare...
[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I literally started running for a reason.
[00:18:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I compare everything to running now.
[00:18:58] [SPEAKER_00]: When I'm going through shit in life, it's like I got to put one foot in front of the other.
[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Same way I do with running.
[00:19:01] [SPEAKER_00]: One foot in front of the other.
[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_00]: If I don't do that, I'm staying in one spot.
[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro, what I'm going to do?
[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to figure some shit out.
[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:19:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:19:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:19:09] [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, the conscious effort...
[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I had some notes, but we kind of was flowing so I didn't really want to...
[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn.
[00:19:17] [SPEAKER_01]: The power of being intentional.
[00:19:21] [SPEAKER_01]: We could discuss the impact of setting intentions and having a positive mindset for everyday.
[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_01]: So even if...
[00:19:31] [SPEAKER_01]: You know?
[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Yesterday's pain can sometimes come into today.
[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_01]: But like having the...
[00:19:39] [SPEAKER_01]: At least starting the day with a mindset of, yo, the bullshit is already here.
[00:19:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me try to make the best of the bullshit.
[00:19:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Even if the day doesn't go the way we want it to go, at least starting off the day with
[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_01]: some sort of positivity like, yo, I hope today's better.
[00:20:00] [SPEAKER_01]: I hope a blessing comes out of nowhere.
[00:20:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I hope something comes...
[00:20:04] [SPEAKER_01]: You know that?
[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_01]: I get what you're saying.
[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like I should do more of that.
[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, like I leave it up.
[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I wake up, I pray, and then I just go on about my day.
[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_01]: We just going to get to it, bro.
[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_01]: We just go get to it.
[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_01]: But it's like, I see y'all get up, y'all go to the...
[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sure y'all pray, and then y'all get up, y'all go to the gym and do other things.
[00:20:24] [SPEAKER_01]: So positive, setting good intentions for yourself is something that I want to work on.
[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Especially in this new year.
[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like it's easier said than done.
[00:20:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes our minds will put us in that negative space or life will put us in that negative
[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_00]: space.
[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_00]: It's like, nah, bro.
[00:20:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Like we get that dark cloud over our heads and we just keep moving with it.
[00:20:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Like we put...
[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Even when walking in here like earlier, I wasn't upset.
[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_00]: It was like, bro, I'm drained.
[00:20:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I could tell in your face.
[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I ain't gonna front that 10 miles.
[00:20:50] [SPEAKER_00]: What my fucking ass.
[00:20:52] [SPEAKER_00]: And I don't sleep because the thought of the future kind of keeps me up some nights.
[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Of course.
[00:20:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Like the worry, but I know I'm...
[00:20:59] [SPEAKER_00]: In my head, I set the intentions like, yo, bro, I'm gonna be great.
[00:21:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not gonna be fine.
[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna be great.
[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I just have to keep pushing forward.
[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Figuring it out is just keep going.
[00:21:08] [SPEAKER_00]: You just gotta keep going till that plan comes in your mind.
[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_00]: That secure plan comes in your mind.
[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, do you feel like the pressures of being what we deem as success could be clouding
[00:21:21] [SPEAKER_01]: our viewpoint of what success, life success really is?
[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Waking up every day is success.
[00:21:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Like is Bentley the success or is it...
[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't see it.
[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_00]: I used to see it as that though.
[00:21:36] [SPEAKER_00]: I used to see it as that, oh, getting a nice car, getting a...
[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah, bro.
[00:21:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, go ahead.
[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sorry.
[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I was saying like, even...
[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Nigga, I don't give a fuck if I got a Honda Accord.
[00:21:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I got a V.
[00:21:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I got an apartment.
[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm saying I don't give a fuck how big it is.
[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I got a space.
[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Right.
[00:21:48] [SPEAKER_00]: What'd you say?
[00:21:49] [SPEAKER_00]: I said I don't give a fuck...
[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_00]: What happened?
[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_00]: What'd you call that?
[00:21:53] [SPEAKER_02]: Honda Accord.
[00:21:53] [SPEAKER_02]: No.
[00:21:54] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, apartment.
[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, okay.
[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_00]: I thought he said apartment.
[00:21:59] [SPEAKER_00]: What?
[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm about to get there though.
[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Fat ass is...
[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_00]: That's successful.
[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_00]: That's successful.
[00:22:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Gift things.
[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Gift things.
[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Gift things.
[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_00]: But yeah, you got somebody to love on you.
[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Somebody you can love on you.
[00:22:12] [SPEAKER_00]: My nigga, that's success, bro.
[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_00]: My mind is crazy.
[00:22:14] [SPEAKER_00]: How did I hear?
[00:22:14] [SPEAKER_00]: That is success, bro.
[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I got clothes on my back.
[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I got food in my fridge.
[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh-huh.
[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Facts.
[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm working out.
[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm working on my mental...
[00:22:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm successful, bro.
[00:22:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Facts.
[00:22:23] [SPEAKER_00]: I may not be there, but I'm here and I'm happy to be here.
[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_01]: I think that the only thing that I apply that to is this.
[00:22:29] [SPEAKER_00]: What?
[00:22:29] [SPEAKER_00]: What's the...
[00:22:31] [SPEAKER_01]: What's the...
[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_01]: What's the...
[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_01]: What's the good guy?
[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_01]: What's the good guy?
[00:22:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Where...
[00:22:41] [SPEAKER_01]: How far you want it to go.
[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Versus where we are.
[00:22:44] [SPEAKER_01]: And then be like, damn.
[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause the success level, like we look...
[00:22:47] [SPEAKER_01]: We're always looking at the market.
[00:22:50] [SPEAKER_00]: In the animals.
[00:22:51] [SPEAKER_01]: And the...
[00:22:51] [SPEAKER_01]: When you look at the market, sometimes you only look at the top.
[00:22:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm.
[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Like you don't even scale it down.
[00:22:57] [SPEAKER_01]: You see?
[00:22:58] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't see who's on yet.
[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Who's under you, nigga?
[00:23:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Some niggas is ass.
[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_01]: No more wine.
[00:23:05] [SPEAKER_01]: No more wine.
[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_01]: No more wine.
[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_01]: They're done.
[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_01]: They're done.
[00:23:07] [SPEAKER_01]: They're cut off.
[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Whoever you looking at, they got the full sound stage.
[00:23:24] [SPEAKER_02]: Like Brian Scalabrini said, I'm closer to LeBron than you are to me, nigga.
[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_02]: And if it's real...
[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_00]: That's why niggas can sit, tell me right there.
[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_00]: That's why niggas call you arrogant, my man.
[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm just saying, you closer to whoever at the top than them bum ass niggas, bro.
[00:23:41] [SPEAKER_02]: I just wanted to let you know that, bro.
[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_02]: What is going on, bro?
[00:23:45] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't think y'all hear that enough, bro.
[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_02]: That shit pissed me off when I go to sleep and wake up.
[00:23:50] [SPEAKER_02]: He sent me a text the other day and he said he didn't want to read it.
[00:23:53] [SPEAKER_02]: He just be blowing my mind, bro.
[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_02]: Because I be wanting to snap.
[00:23:56] [SPEAKER_02]: But gotta conserve my energy sometimes.
[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_02]: But I'm gonna get on this mic and tell you what this podcast and show has done
[00:24:05] [SPEAKER_02]: from when it started till this very recording, bro, is masterful, bro.
[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_02]: Fuck who's been on here.
[00:24:12] [SPEAKER_02]: Fuck the screens.
[00:24:14] [SPEAKER_02]: Fuck the views, bro.
[00:24:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Just the fact that we've been able to consistently do it even after a break, bro.
[00:24:21] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't wanna hear none of that shit.
[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_02]: Sorry.
[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah, so...
[00:24:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I received that.
[00:24:25] [SPEAKER_01]: When we talk about success, outside of that, life for me, like, you know, as long as I wake
[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_01]: up to see another day, there's something for me to do.
[00:24:36] [SPEAKER_00]: God ain't done with me yet, bro.
[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm alright, bro.
[00:24:39] [SPEAKER_01]: God's not finished.
[00:24:39] [SPEAKER_01]: What is a successful...
[00:24:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Taking everything from business...
[00:24:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I already know where you're going with.
[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_01]: But what does a successful life look like to y'all?
[00:24:47] [SPEAKER_01]: And it doesn't have to include like marriage, kids.
[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_01]: It can, but I know other people have different viewpoints of it.
[00:24:54] [SPEAKER_01]: I think a successful life for me looks like, as crazy as it sounds, the lowest amount of
[00:25:03] [SPEAKER_01]: debt that I need.
[00:25:05] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what?
[00:25:06] [SPEAKER_01]: That's good.
[00:25:06] [SPEAKER_01]: I like that.
[00:25:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not gonna lie to you, brother.
[00:25:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm with you on now.
[00:25:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I like that.
[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I'm talking about like, if the only thing that's reoccurring charges are con-ed, not
[00:25:17] [SPEAKER_01]: even that con-ed, phone bill, and rent, and everything else is in my pocket.
[00:25:26] [SPEAKER_01]: You know, I saw...
[00:25:28] [SPEAKER_01]: That's impossible though.
[00:25:29] [SPEAKER_01]: No, no, it's not.
[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_01]: It's not.
[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_01]: It's not.
[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't talk about it, man.
[00:25:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me tell you why it's not there.
[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_00]: That's crazy.
[00:25:35] [SPEAKER_01]: The reason why it's not impossible is because one, there's somebody out there that
[00:25:40] [SPEAKER_01]: has it.
[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's been done, right?
[00:25:42] [SPEAKER_01]: And two, I actually saw something on the timeline that made me, that really made me
[00:25:48] [SPEAKER_01]: think, right?
[00:25:49] [SPEAKER_01]: It was like, being broke at 30 started at 20.
[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Mm-hmm.
[00:25:53] [SPEAKER_01]: On what we did with our money or what we thought...
[00:25:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Not for me, but all right.
[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_01]: But...
[00:25:59] [SPEAKER_01]: I could see some of that.
[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Did they elaborate?
[00:26:01] [SPEAKER_01]: How we managed our money, what we thought...
[00:26:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Getting Macy's and credit cards super young, messing up your credit, young affects how you
[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_01]: do it now.
[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I bounce back from that.
[00:26:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:26:10] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I'm saying.
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't know that.
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_01]: So if we had the proper financial education and discipline, imagine never having to bounce
[00:26:18] [SPEAKER_01]: back from that.
[00:26:19] [SPEAKER_01]: And you went the whole 20 without...
[00:26:24] [SPEAKER_01]: 20s with no debt.
[00:26:25] [SPEAKER_01]: And now you're in 30, you're going into your 30s with the best amount of financial
[00:26:30] [SPEAKER_01]: discipline and education you know.
[00:26:33] [SPEAKER_01]: It's education.
[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, yeah.
[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_01]: There's certain things that you necessarily don't have to bounce back from.
[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_01]: So like with...
[00:26:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Being intentional now when you know now.
[00:26:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:26:42] [SPEAKER_01]: So make it...
[00:26:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, so boom.
[00:26:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Make it a conscious effort on what I spend my money on.
[00:26:47] [SPEAKER_01]: You know, there was a point in time when I was living at home and I didn't really have
[00:26:50] [SPEAKER_01]: to worry about rent or none of that.
[00:26:52] [SPEAKER_01]: And I had an extra $2,000 in my pocket.
[00:26:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I might go to marry or I might...
[00:26:58] [SPEAKER_01]: $800 a game.
[00:27:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but I'm not going to talk down on a woman with a $100 bag, bro.
[00:27:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Stop the foolishness, bro.
[00:27:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Stop.
[00:27:07] [SPEAKER_00]: That fuck's a good bag.
[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Bro, stop that.
[00:27:11] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:27:11] [SPEAKER_01]: But at the same time, it's like, I made a conscious effort on how I'm going to be more
[00:27:16] [SPEAKER_01]: financially responsible.
[00:27:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I made a conscious effort on where I'm going to devote my time to or how I'm going to devote
[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_01]: my time.
[00:27:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I made a conscious effort on...
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck it.
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Even being a better man or what that looks like.
[00:27:31] [SPEAKER_01]: What does...
[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_01]: When you look in the mirror and you self-evaluate yourself as a man and you be like, all right,
[00:27:39] [SPEAKER_01]: this is where I want to be and this is where I am.
[00:27:42] [SPEAKER_01]: How am I going to get there?
[00:27:42] [SPEAKER_01]: What do I need to eliminate?
[00:27:44] [SPEAKER_01]: What do I need to stop partaking in?
[00:27:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Where do I need to stop going?
[00:27:48] [SPEAKER_01]: What do I need to stop consuming?
[00:27:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, damn.
[00:27:50] [SPEAKER_02]: Why everything you just said was about stopping and ending stuff?
[00:27:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Because...
[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_01]: That's so...
[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_01]: It is though.
[00:27:56] [SPEAKER_01]: This birthday, I just said, I'm going to say no more and be more intentional about
[00:28:02] [SPEAKER_01]: what I want to do and whom I want to do it with.
[00:28:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Think about how many times we went out.
[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_00]: We should...
[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I ain't going to front, I need to save this dollar, bro.
[00:28:10] [SPEAKER_00]: We went out anyways.
[00:28:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Rain's birthday.
[00:28:13] [SPEAKER_00]: They killed me.
[00:28:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Then Coach don't hit me, yo, bro.
[00:28:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Then Coach don't hit me, yo, darn you had to send me the bread for the bottle.
[00:28:18] [SPEAKER_00]: I said, fuck.
[00:28:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Fuck.
[00:28:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I never asked nobody for nothing, bro.
[00:28:22] [SPEAKER_00]: We didn't need to do that.
[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, yo, bro.
[00:28:24] [SPEAKER_00]: I literally texted you, I said, nigga, we did not have to do that.
[00:28:26] [SPEAKER_00]: We did not need to do that.
[00:28:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I told you I preached, I said, nigga, we didn't have to do that, bro.
[00:28:28] [SPEAKER_00]: We did not need to do that, bro.
[00:28:28] [SPEAKER_00]: No, I had to text and preach.
[00:28:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I said, bro, why don't we do that?
[00:28:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I love that nigga.
[00:28:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I love him.
[00:28:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I love Maria to death.
[00:28:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I was saying, bro.
[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_00]: He ain't never put money in my...
[00:28:35] [SPEAKER_00]: You know me?
[00:28:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, we didn't need to do that that night.
[00:28:37] [SPEAKER_01]: So what I mean by like, so for example, right?
[00:28:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out Skrillz too.
[00:28:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I was just going to bring Skrillz up.
[00:28:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Like everybody know what I do Sunday morning.
[00:28:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And Skrillz would be like, yo, I got a party tonight.
[00:28:49] [SPEAKER_01]: And I'd really be like, yo, I want to show up for my mans, but I know this is not responsible
[00:28:54] [SPEAKER_01]: for me to go to.
[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, be hurting that church.
[00:28:56] [SPEAKER_01]: And just be hurting.
[00:28:58] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_01]: And working.
[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_01]: And working.
[00:29:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I just...
[00:29:01] [SPEAKER_01]: You got to beat it by now.
[00:29:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I got to make a conscious effort on, it's okay to miss out on this.
[00:29:08] [SPEAKER_01]: My future self is going to thank me for the conscious effort that I made at this very moment.
[00:29:13] [SPEAKER_01]: So the shit that I want now, there are certain things I'm going to have to miss out on.
[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_01]: And there was a point in time where I felt like, damn, I can't miss out on anything.
[00:29:22] [SPEAKER_01]: I got to pop out.
[00:29:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I got to.
[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_01]: This is for a person who's going to pop out and just find a corner.
[00:29:27] [SPEAKER_01]: I know myself.
[00:29:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, So what's the point of popping out?
[00:29:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I ain't gonna show niggas nothing.
[00:29:30] [SPEAKER_01]: You think people want to do that, they know it.
[00:29:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, Exactly.
[00:29:33] [SPEAKER_01]: So what was the point of really going?
[00:29:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Just to show face?
[00:29:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Just so...
[00:29:36] [SPEAKER_01]: I want to see LA in a club.
[00:29:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Social currency.
[00:29:38] [SPEAKER_01]: We put a lot into social currency and not a lot into like life currency.
[00:29:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, Yeah, exactly.
[00:29:43] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's what I mean.
[00:29:45] [SPEAKER_01]: We're going to go grab a hole.
[00:29:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's go.
[00:29:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, I'd rather literally, we go hang out at LA crib, probably get a little bottle
[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_00]: of wine.
[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_00]: That's a little food.
[00:29:54] [SPEAKER_02]: Rob Markman, This might be a bit of a tangent, but I do think that mentality or those tendencies
[00:30:02] [SPEAKER_02]: affect the success that y'all ultimately want for this podcast.
[00:30:07] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, because you always said that.
[00:30:08] [SPEAKER_02]: I've always said that.
[00:30:09] [SPEAKER_02]: Rob Markman, Yeah, but see-
[00:30:09] [SPEAKER_02]: I've always said that.
[00:30:10] [SPEAKER_02]: It's no way home.
[00:30:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Shaking hands and kissing babies.
[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Right.
[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_01]: It's a part of it.
[00:30:13] [SPEAKER_01]: It's where we go that changes the room.
[00:30:18] [SPEAKER_01]: It could be where-
[00:30:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm making a conscious effort.
[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_01]: If I'm going to go outside, the room-
[00:30:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Rob Markman, Has to make sense.
[00:30:24] [SPEAKER_01]: It can't just be burgers and bottles every summer.
[00:30:28] [SPEAKER_02]: It just can't be.
[00:30:30] [SPEAKER_02]: Shout out to them.
[00:30:30] [SPEAKER_02]: We don't do burgers and bottles for the betterment of what's a good guy.
[00:30:33] [SPEAKER_02]: We do that for the betterment of us and our friends.
[00:30:35] [SPEAKER_02]: Rob Markman, And the betterment of us.
[00:30:37] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh wait, I can't-
[00:30:38] [SPEAKER_02]: Rob Markman, Was that a-
[00:30:39] [SPEAKER_02]: Was that a-
[00:30:39] [SPEAKER_02]: Rob Markman, Was that a-
[00:30:40] [SPEAKER_02]: You see that one?
[00:30:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Last summer that was for the betterment of what's a good guy.
[00:30:44] [SPEAKER_01]: I had to let these niggas know.
[00:30:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, fair, fair, fair.
[00:30:48] [SPEAKER_02]: Nah, I respect-
[00:30:48] [SPEAKER_02]: Rob Markman, Like the one that just passed or the one prior?
[00:30:52] [SPEAKER_02]: Nah, the one that just passed.
[00:30:53] [SPEAKER_02]: Rob Markman, Niggas having the brand wars.
[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_02]: In the summertime.
[00:30:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Brand wars, had burgers and bottles.
[00:30:57] [SPEAKER_00]: It's crazy.
[00:30:57] [SPEAKER_00]: That was good.
[00:30:57] [SPEAKER_00]: That was good.
[00:30:58] [SPEAKER_01]: But I just, you know how I feel.
[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_01]: I say it all the time.
[00:31:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, here's the thing.
[00:31:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I said, my conscious efforts of going outside, right?
[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Is now a little bit more direct.
[00:31:10] [SPEAKER_01]: It has a purpose.
[00:31:11] [SPEAKER_01]: So if I'm going outside, yo, let's see who hand I can shake for the betterment of the
[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_01]: power.
[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_02]: Wait, that's why he was coming to the park?
[00:31:18] [SPEAKER_02]: That's crazy.
[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_02]: I thought he was coming to the park.
[00:31:20] [SPEAKER_01]: I actually came to the park on nights where nothing was going on.
[00:31:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, don't do that.
[00:31:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't do that.
[00:31:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_01]: But, but, but, but, there was a point in time y'all know me.
[00:31:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I would see somebody and they'd be like, yo, LA, yo, that's so-and-so.
[00:31:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Go say something.
[00:31:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, I ain't dick riding.
[00:31:35] [SPEAKER_01]: But you did it.
[00:31:36] [SPEAKER_01]: But this summer?
[00:31:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, that's that nigga over there?
[00:31:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck it.
[00:31:39] [SPEAKER_01]: None of y'all coming with me?
[00:31:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to walk over there myself.
[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:31:42] [SPEAKER_02]: You need me to, oh, nah, I did it already.
[00:31:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:31:44] [SPEAKER_01]: So I made, that's what I'm saying.
[00:31:45] [SPEAKER_01]: I made a conscious effort.
[00:31:47] [SPEAKER_01]: The biggest thing that I made a conscious effort on is getting the fuck out of my own
[00:31:50] [SPEAKER_01]: way.
[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Because-
[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_02]: You can do better.
[00:31:52] [SPEAKER_02]: I wanted you to know that.
[00:31:53] [SPEAKER_01]: But I've done better.
[00:31:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.
[00:31:54] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's what I'm saying.
[00:31:55] [SPEAKER_01]: My future self is going to thank my present self-
[00:31:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Absolutely.
[00:31:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I am getting better in that direction.
[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_02]: There we go.
[00:32:03] [SPEAKER_01]: So for me, it's like, alright, stop getting in your own way.
[00:32:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Why are you introverted?
[00:32:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Are you just, are you being, are you an asshole right now?
[00:32:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Are you dead ass?
[00:32:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Your anxiety is fucking kicking your ass and you need to find a safe quarter.
[00:32:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright, I feel like you're being an asshole.
[00:32:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Loosen up, Michelle.
[00:32:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Loosen the fuck up.
[00:32:23] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:32:24] [SPEAKER_02]: So it's even-
[00:32:25] [SPEAKER_02]: Like go talk to the other introvert girl over there.
[00:32:27] [SPEAKER_02]: Go bond over to introverts.
[00:32:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Just think it's wrong.
[00:32:30] [SPEAKER_01]: That, well, true.
[00:32:32] [SPEAKER_01]: That could be a thing.
[00:32:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Or she could be on the panel, so.
[00:32:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, this is enough.
[00:32:37] [SPEAKER_00]: This is enough.
[00:32:39] [SPEAKER_00]: You've had enough.
[00:32:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, shout out to my man's bro.
[00:32:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, shout out to your man's.
[00:32:43] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah, so that's one of the conscious efforts that I feel like I'm doing.
[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_01]: But to reference the episode that never came out on the Switch, we kind of talked about
[00:32:57] [SPEAKER_01]: one of the things that make us make this self-conscious effort to change is adversity.
[00:33:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Markman, you're back against the walls.
[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, alright, nah.
[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_00]: I gotta tighten the fuck up.
[00:33:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Responsibility produces productivity.
[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_02]: My favorite saying is, rock bottom is a trampoline.
[00:33:16] [SPEAKER_02]: Where you got that from?
[00:33:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I saw it on the internet.
[00:33:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Fucking ass.
[00:33:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Alright, so preach, when you first found out, with Kayla, when you first found out you had
[00:33:23] [SPEAKER_00]: a kid, what went through your mind?
[00:33:25] [SPEAKER_00]: When I first had Kayla?
[00:33:27] [SPEAKER_00]: When you heard you were having a kid, what went through your mind?
[00:33:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, at 20, I was more concerned about the hoes.
[00:33:35] [SPEAKER_01]: So, I was like, man, no girl is gonna deal with me.
[00:33:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I already knew I was about to finish college, so I didn't have...
[00:33:43] [SPEAKER_01]: I wasn't scared about finding jobs.
[00:33:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I was just more scared about the look.
[00:33:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm in a good gospel group.
[00:33:51] [SPEAKER_01]: We're traveling.
[00:33:52] [SPEAKER_01]: We're on TV.
[00:33:53] [SPEAKER_01]: It's like, yo, this is really gonna mess a lot up.
[00:33:56] [SPEAKER_01]: But, me having him shifted my hustle into another dimension that I did not have then.
[00:34:06] [SPEAKER_01]: So, like, in college, I was having good grades, but having him made me see, oh, nah, I wanna
[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_01]: be on the things list now.
[00:34:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:34:15] [SPEAKER_01]: And then I did that the rest of college.
[00:34:17] [SPEAKER_01]: And then, just, your kid...
[00:34:22] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, responsibility produces productivity.
[00:34:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_01]: And it just sent me, like...
[00:34:29] [SPEAKER_02]: It should produce that.
[00:34:31] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
[00:34:31] [SPEAKER_02]: LA talks about that to me all the time.
[00:34:33] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
[00:34:33] [SPEAKER_02]: Like, yo, how could you have this responsibility and the switch not go off and you turn up to the max?
[00:34:39] [SPEAKER_02]: Like, yeah.
[00:34:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:34:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:34:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:34:43] [SPEAKER_01]: And then this one, even...
[00:34:45] [SPEAKER_01]: It's like, I even gotta take it up a notch now.
[00:34:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Now I gotta be even more uncomfortable.
[00:34:51] [SPEAKER_01]: I gotta get up at 3am to do some shit I don't wanna do.
[00:34:55] [SPEAKER_01]: But you gotta do.
[00:34:57] [SPEAKER_01]: But I'm doing the Lauren joint the whole summer.
[00:35:00] [SPEAKER_01]: That money didn't even last me a month.
[00:35:04] [SPEAKER_01]: It was like, shit!
[00:35:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Shit!
[00:35:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Shout out to Lauren Hill.
[00:35:07] [SPEAKER_00]: So, where's your mental when you go through all this stuff?
[00:35:10] [SPEAKER_00]: Right.
[00:35:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't even think I sit down and think about it.
[00:35:14] [SPEAKER_01]: I just have to do...
[00:35:16] [SPEAKER_01]: So, you're an autopilot.
[00:35:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Just move on.
[00:35:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I have to do.
[00:35:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't have...
[00:35:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Respect.
[00:35:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Especially as men, we don't have the luxury of not being there for other people.
[00:35:28] [SPEAKER_00]: You are responsible.
[00:35:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like we're...
[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Even for men without kids, I feel like we're allowed just a little bit to do that.
[00:35:35] [SPEAKER_00]: You have a kid.
[00:35:35] [SPEAKER_00]: That's true.
[00:35:36] [SPEAKER_00]: You have no room.
[00:35:37] [SPEAKER_00]: No wiggle room.
[00:35:37] [SPEAKER_01]: There is no room for, yo, I don't know.
[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_01]: I always have to be going and figuring it out.
[00:35:45] [SPEAKER_01]: And when she comes to me like, thank you for always staying ambitious and doing what you need to do.
[00:35:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Who's saying thank you?
[00:35:54] [SPEAKER_01]: And when she comes to me and says, thank you for staying ambitious.
[00:35:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you for staying about your paper and putting one foot in front of the other.
[00:36:04] [SPEAKER_01]: That makes me feel good.
[00:36:07] [SPEAKER_01]: So, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.
[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_01]: We're not going to do this.
[00:36:10] [SPEAKER_01]: You're telling me that you get poured into?
[00:36:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, the group chat is about to change.
[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I like that shit on hand.
[00:36:19] [SPEAKER_01]: We ain't going to talk about it on hand, but the group chat is definitely about to change.
[00:36:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Next time you start that bullshit.
[00:36:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, we going to buy him out.
[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_01]: We going to play this clip every time.
[00:36:27] [SPEAKER_01]: A lot of the times I love to play devil's advocate.
[00:36:30] [SPEAKER_02]: The devil don't need no advocates.
[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_02]: And you know that.
[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_01]: For the sake of conversation, but I'm not dumb.
[00:36:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:36:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I know.
[00:36:36] [SPEAKER_01]: You're not going to leave 80-20 to go get the toilet.
[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm glad you know that.
[00:36:41] [SPEAKER_01]: We definitely clipping this up.
[00:36:42] [SPEAKER_01]: This is not even going down.
[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_01]: It's promo.
[00:36:44] [SPEAKER_01]: This is your standing check.
[00:36:55] [SPEAKER_00]: What are you talking about?
[00:36:56] [SPEAKER_00]: What are you talking about?
[00:36:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but no, that's dope.
[00:37:00] [SPEAKER_01]: That's dope.
[00:37:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Even be poured into it.
[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_00]: That's fine.
[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_01]: It's funny you say that.
[00:37:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Preach made two talking points that's actually in the next episode.
[00:37:10] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's dope.
[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I like when that happens.
[00:37:13] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah, sometimes I feel like a lot of the things we could avoid is if we make the
[00:37:22] [SPEAKER_01]: conscious effort prior to the adversity happening.
[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_01]: So certain things we could fully take the blame of when our back is against the wall because
[00:37:31] [SPEAKER_01]: one, we either procrastinated or two, we have that mentality, oh, that can't happen
[00:37:35] [SPEAKER_01]: to me.
[00:37:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Or three, the sun is shining so much that you don't think rain is in the forecast.
[00:37:42] [SPEAKER_01]: And Don, you know, you could be in Florida and the sun shining and then you blink twice
[00:37:47] [SPEAKER_01]: and it's raining and then your whole day fucked.
[00:37:50] [SPEAKER_01]: You know?
[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_00]: So another thing, another thing is who people, people love to just crash out too.
[00:37:57] [SPEAKER_01]: How y'all feel about crashing out?
[00:37:59] [SPEAKER_00]: For the right thing?
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Do it.
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not gonna lie.
[00:38:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Do it.
[00:38:03] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't like the way they took crashing out, that phrase crashing out.
[00:38:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, cause I feel like it goes.
[00:38:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll crash out for love.
[00:38:11] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll crash out for my people.
[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what's crazy?
[00:38:14] [SPEAKER_01]: That's as much as a lover boy you call me, I don't think I can crash out for love.
[00:38:19] [SPEAKER_01]: You can.
[00:38:20] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think I could.
[00:38:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay.
[00:38:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think I can.
[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_01]: There are times-
[00:38:23] [SPEAKER_01]: You can and you will.
[00:38:24] [SPEAKER_01]: You just haven't yet.
[00:38:25] [SPEAKER_01]: You will.
[00:38:26] [SPEAKER_01]: There are times where maybe I thought about it, but I always think about the end result
[00:38:36] [SPEAKER_01]: of it.
[00:38:36] [SPEAKER_01]: And that always keeps me grounded.
[00:38:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you know?
[00:38:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I think there is a good sense of pride that every man should have.
[00:38:44] [SPEAKER_01]: I think there's a good sense of ego that keeps you safe.
[00:38:49] [SPEAKER_01]: And that prevents me from crashing out.
[00:38:54] [SPEAKER_01]: You remember our LA conversation?
[00:38:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Mm-hmm.
[00:38:57] [SPEAKER_01]: You know how bad I wanted to crash out?
[00:38:59] [SPEAKER_01]: I just did.
[00:39:01] [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, no.
[00:39:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Not right now.
[00:39:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Not right now.
[00:39:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, not right now.
[00:39:06] [SPEAKER_01]: But now, just to give you a talking point, like, you know how passionately I felt?
[00:39:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, yes, yes.
[00:39:10] [SPEAKER_01]: And it was like, damn, son.
[00:39:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, nah.
[00:39:13] [SPEAKER_01]: What is crashing out going to do for?
[00:39:15] [SPEAKER_01]: That would have been a good crash out because it would have opened the barriers for a deeper
[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_01]: connection between you and that person and then you and that person.
[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Because now y'all can have some understanding.
[00:39:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:39:30] [SPEAKER_01]: And then now y'all connect.
[00:39:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:39:32] [SPEAKER_01]: On even a deeper level because you're able to have the hard conversations.
[00:39:36] [SPEAKER_01]: But do you think-
[00:39:37] [SPEAKER_01]: So, I don't think the term crashing out would justify that.
[00:39:44] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:39:44] [SPEAKER_01]: They gotta be a better word.
[00:39:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Because for me-
[00:39:47] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:39:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know.
[00:39:54] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know.
[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_01]: What crashing out now means.
[00:40:17] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I think I'm really good at.
[00:40:20] [SPEAKER_00]: What?
[00:40:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Thinking, not using emotions sometimes?
[00:40:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes.
[00:40:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Over logic.
[00:40:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:40:25] [SPEAKER_01]: I try to be logic over emotions.
[00:40:27] [SPEAKER_01]: And my emotions be heavy as fuck.
[00:40:30] [SPEAKER_01]: So, it takes a lot of logic to whatever that means.
[00:40:36] [SPEAKER_01]: But whatever, whatever, whatever.
[00:40:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I feel my feelings.
[00:40:40] [SPEAKER_01]: And sometimes I feel them too much.
[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_01]: But the conscious effort of don't do nothing stupid in the sake of how you feel.
[00:40:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Darn, you've seen it, bro.
[00:40:51] [SPEAKER_00]: No, you called me.
[00:40:53] [SPEAKER_00]: During the gig, nigga, LA.
[00:40:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro, we on the phone for like 40 minutes.
[00:40:56] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm out the wild.
[00:40:56] [SPEAKER_00]: What's the point?
[00:40:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_01]: So, it's like, yo, bro, like, it takes a lot of strength to contain myself from doing something
[00:41:06] [SPEAKER_01]: that-
[00:41:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And y'all know I'm kind of the numbers guy in probability.
[00:41:11] [SPEAKER_01]: What's the probability of this going my way?
[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:41:14] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:41:15] [SPEAKER_01]: What is it going to result?
[00:41:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Me crashing out does what?
[00:41:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Me driving to DC does what?
[00:41:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes it-
[00:41:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what does that do?
[00:41:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes it just feels good.
[00:41:24] [SPEAKER_01]: It feels better.
[00:41:25] [SPEAKER_01]: You feel better.
[00:41:26] [SPEAKER_00]: You see how Angela Bassett burnt that fucking car?
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_00]: I know she felt good after that.
[00:41:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, you know what's funny?
[00:41:32] [SPEAKER_01]: I was just watching this clip of-
[00:41:35] [SPEAKER_01]: They was trying to say how Lisa Left Eye was like underrated as a rapper.
[00:41:40] [SPEAKER_01]: And one of the songs she was like-
[00:41:42] [SPEAKER_01]: She a little nutty.
[00:41:43] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, you talking about the fireball?
[00:41:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:41:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And I didn't even catch that.
[00:41:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I was like, that was tough.
[00:41:49] [SPEAKER_01]: On ladies night.
[00:41:50] [SPEAKER_02]: On ladies night.
[00:41:51] [SPEAKER_02]: She talked about-
[00:41:52] [SPEAKER_02]: The fire burnin' keep it risin' to the top and it don't stop.
[00:41:56] [SPEAKER_02]: And she flipped risin' and arson.
[00:41:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, the way she enunciate risin' it sound like arson.
[00:42:01] [SPEAKER_01]: She did do that fire shit.
[00:42:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so that was like-
[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_01]: That was like-
[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_01]: But she's a perfect crash out.
[00:42:07] O.D.
[00:42:08] [SPEAKER_01]: A good crash out.
[00:42:33] [SPEAKER_01]: This is going straight into group chat.
[00:42:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Who the fuck is this?
[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_01]: On camera.
[00:42:39] [SPEAKER_01]: This is going-
[00:42:40] [SPEAKER_01]: You know he got that text message, don't embarrass me.
[00:42:43] [SPEAKER_01]: I got a good pep talk.
[00:42:45] [SPEAKER_00]: The way he's performing right now.
[00:42:47] [SPEAKER_00]: All right, ball up top.
[00:42:48] Let's go.
[00:42:49] Ball up top.
[00:42:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, cause it's like, yo, like, I just think for me, I always, the one thing that I kind
[00:43:01] [SPEAKER_01]: of, I'm in the moment to realize how much this is going to alter your life.
[00:43:08] [SPEAKER_01]: That's probably one of the biggest conscious efforts I always do.
[00:43:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Always think about, and maybe this may be the pessimistic side of me.
[00:43:18] [SPEAKER_01]: If I do this, and I fuck my life up-
[00:43:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Was it really worth it?
[00:43:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Is this going to be worth it?
[00:43:26] [SPEAKER_01]: No, I ain't saying crime crash.
[00:43:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Crime crash out is crazy.
[00:43:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Somebody in front of your crib with a little bit of a bull box.
[00:43:34] [SPEAKER_01]: If you gotta drive down to DC, so she knows, yo, don't be playing with me.
[00:43:39] [SPEAKER_01]: You gotta do it.
[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Nigga.
[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm in front of the capital with this, stop playing with me.
[00:43:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Bro, I crashed out with my ex so bad.
[00:43:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I made her call a nigga she was cheating on me, went in the park, and made her leave
[00:43:51] [SPEAKER_01]: that nigga a voicemail.
[00:43:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Tell her, tell her, it's over.
[00:43:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah.
[00:43:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause I love her.
[00:43:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, damn.
[00:43:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I love you.
[00:43:58] [SPEAKER_01]: You-
[00:43:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Do whatever the fuck you guys did.
[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, we in Starrett City going crazy.
[00:44:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Bro.
[00:44:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas in the-
[00:44:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Pull that nigga like-
[00:44:07] [SPEAKER_01]: You gonna do that fuck a lot?
[00:44:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, I'm watching her come home from like parties.
[00:44:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm-
[00:44:14] [SPEAKER_01]: She, like she's in Starrett City.
[00:44:15] [SPEAKER_01]: There's a garage that overlooks her shit.
[00:44:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm standing at the garage watching her go into her building like Batman.
[00:44:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, nah.
[00:44:22] [SPEAKER_01]: This nigga is sick.
[00:44:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, this nigga's a serial killer.
[00:44:25] You more.
[00:44:25] What?
[00:44:26] [SPEAKER_00]: James St. Patrick.
[00:44:27] [SPEAKER_00]: I will crash out from the ones that I love.
[00:44:28] [SPEAKER_00]: That nigga be saying I'm a nut.
[00:44:29] [SPEAKER_02]: This nigga's a nut.
[00:44:30] [SPEAKER_02]: James St. Patrick over there, bro.
[00:44:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Nigga, I'm looking 12.
[00:44:34] [SPEAKER_01]: It was like one in the morning.
[00:44:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sitting in the-
[00:44:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Stealing.
[00:44:37] [SPEAKER_01]: I wish y'all-
[00:44:38] [SPEAKER_01]: The visual-
[00:44:39] [SPEAKER_01]: It's crazy.
[00:44:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sitting at night is the exact visual that it was.
[00:44:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause she can't like, you're literally overlooking her walking into love.
[00:44:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:44:48] [SPEAKER_01]: See what's going on there.
[00:44:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, man.
[00:44:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Crash out for the ones that you love.
[00:44:52] [SPEAKER_01]: And we had a nice three years after that and then we broke up.
[00:44:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright, so with the breakup, right?
[00:44:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Was it worth it?
[00:44:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you, dawg.
[00:45:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Very much worth it.
[00:45:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, yeah.
[00:45:02] [SPEAKER_01]: We spent three years with her.
[00:45:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah.
[00:45:04] [SPEAKER_01]: It's worth it.
[00:45:05] [SPEAKER_01]: No, we spent three years then and then that happened and then we did-
[00:45:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Wait, so you-
[00:45:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Six.
[00:45:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I just wanna understand-
[00:45:11] [SPEAKER_01]: You're trying to be promising.
[00:45:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I've always been in long term relations.
[00:45:13] [SPEAKER_01]: You crashed out over a person who cheated on you?
[00:45:16] [SPEAKER_02]: Yup.
[00:45:17] [SPEAKER_02]: Cause he loved her.
[00:45:18] [SPEAKER_02]: I loved her, bro.
[00:45:18] [SPEAKER_02]: He made it clear, yo, I love this girl and to him it was worth crashing out for.
[00:45:22] [SPEAKER_02]: That's why I have good insurance.
[00:45:23] [SPEAKER_02]: And then you-
[00:45:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause there's certain crashes I'm not getting into.
[00:45:28] [SPEAKER_02]: That's why my rates is low.
[00:45:29] [SPEAKER_02]: You asked him if it was worth it and he said, I spent another three years with this
[00:45:33] [SPEAKER_02]: woman.
[00:45:34] [SPEAKER_02]: It may not be a relationship that he's in now, but he can save.
[00:45:38] [SPEAKER_01]: At that time.
[00:45:39] [SPEAKER_01]: And when we see each other, you know it's love cause you know I really-
[00:45:43] [SPEAKER_01]: That's why I don't have bad relationships with my exes.
[00:45:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe one from super young, but we'll get through that one.
[00:45:51] [SPEAKER_01]: But like all my other ones, yeah.
[00:45:53] [SPEAKER_01]: You know that I loved you.
[00:45:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll crash out for you.
[00:45:58] [SPEAKER_01]: You know that I loved you.
[00:45:59] [SPEAKER_01]: There's no-
[00:46:00] [SPEAKER_01]: That's some East New York chicks, bro.
[00:46:02] [SPEAKER_01]: That's some East New York love, bro.
[00:46:03] [SPEAKER_01]: That's some East New York love, bro.
[00:46:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Static City girls, they'll get you.
[00:46:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Scorb, light skinned girls, Scorpios.
[00:46:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, they'll get you.
[00:46:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Dang, you're giving a lot of details, bro.
[00:46:10] [SPEAKER_01]: You're wild.
[00:46:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Do you know who I've dated?
[00:46:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas-
[00:46:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I think that helps a lot of my crash outs too.
[00:46:18] [SPEAKER_01]: They be like, damn, LA going through it, but you don't know who caused it.
[00:46:23] [SPEAKER_01]: So-
[00:46:25] [SPEAKER_02]: Even at his point, sometimes I don't know who he's stressing over, like when he was stressing
[00:46:30] [SPEAKER_02]: over.
[00:46:31] [SPEAKER_02]: I didn't know who it was sometimes.
[00:46:32] [SPEAKER_02]: I think that's a lot of times.
[00:46:34] [SPEAKER_01]: That's kind of-
[00:46:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Why you gotta pull up the Rose Bar?
[00:46:39] [SPEAKER_02]: DC, nigga said we going to DC.
[00:46:41] [SPEAKER_02]: Sting is a stinking-
[00:46:42] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo, Joe, you trying to take this-
[00:46:43] [SPEAKER_01]: I meet you and he ran that line at 11 AM for brunch.
[00:46:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Why you never call me to go to DC, Dalisa?
[00:46:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I haven't been there myself.
[00:46:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Matter of fact, you know what's funny, I got a trip there next week.
[00:46:53] [SPEAKER_02]: But-
[00:46:54] [SPEAKER_02]: I like Chocolate City though, man.
[00:46:55] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
[00:46:57] [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, that's kind of the gist of this episode, you know, the conscious effort of-
[00:47:03] [SPEAKER_01]: You know, reflection and accountability, you know, the ripple effects of-
[00:47:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Even if you're going through some shit in life, like still be kind to others.
[00:47:17] [SPEAKER_01]: And hopefully the ripple effect of that.
[00:47:21] [SPEAKER_01]: That's kind of what I lost, I think I lost sight of.
[00:47:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I gave up on the faith of humanity.
[00:47:27] [SPEAKER_01]: I think humanity is fucked.
[00:47:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think-
[00:47:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie, there's a lot of humans, but no humanity though.
[00:47:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I don't think-
[00:47:34] [SPEAKER_00]: Niggas will record you fucking passing out before they fucking help you.
[00:47:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Like-
[00:47:39] [SPEAKER_01]: It's fucking weird.
[00:47:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Social currency.
[00:47:41] [SPEAKER_01]: So for me, it's like the conscious effort of, you know, just-
[00:47:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Even if my life ain't the way it's going or every day is something new, you know, that-
[00:47:51] [SPEAKER_01]: That shouldn't change what I give out in life because of the way it's going for me.
[00:47:58] [SPEAKER_00]: That could change your whole day, bro.
[00:47:59] [SPEAKER_00]: If you're going through something-
[00:48:00] [SPEAKER_01]: And you might get it back tenfold, you know?
[00:48:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Just a random-
[00:48:03] [SPEAKER_00]: When the person will hug you, oh, what's going on?
[00:48:05] How you doing?
[00:48:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, don't touch me.
[00:48:06] [SPEAKER_01]: But, uh-
[00:48:09] [SPEAKER_01]: But nah, I do agree with that.
[00:48:11] [SPEAKER_01]: So it was kinda like, damn, like, I know how I come into work.
[00:48:16] [SPEAKER_01]: That may not help be other people coming to work.
[00:48:19] [SPEAKER_01]: So I should just project that onto, you know.
[00:48:23] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's what maybe-
[00:48:25] [SPEAKER_01]: I woke up one morning and was like, yo, I'm gonna make a conscious.
[00:48:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Also, people love being in-
[00:48:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes people love being in that something is wrong.
[00:48:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Everything is always bad.
[00:48:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes everything don't be bad.
[00:48:38] [SPEAKER_01]: You just not where you're at.
[00:48:40] [SPEAKER_01]: That don't mean where you're at is bad.
[00:48:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, how you deal with-
[00:48:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Justify and Be So.
[00:48:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Their life is going to shit.
[00:48:51] [SPEAKER_01]: They're in a bad patch.
[00:48:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, right?
[00:48:56] [SPEAKER_01]: And words of encouragement may not necessarily help.
[00:49:00] [SPEAKER_01]: It's gonna fall on dead ears.
[00:49:01] [SPEAKER_01]: But they're constantly telling you how bad their life is.
[00:49:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel bad when I have moments where it's like, yo, shut the fuck up.
[00:49:12] [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't mean it in the sense of like-
[00:49:18] [SPEAKER_00]: The way you're feeling is not valid.
[00:49:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:49:20] [SPEAKER_01]: It just means like-
[00:49:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Broke.
[00:49:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, we-
[00:49:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright, we fully established that life is shitty for you.
[00:49:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Stop talking about it.
[00:49:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, let's make the conscious effort of-
[00:49:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I won't complain.
[00:49:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I won't complain.
[00:49:33] [SPEAKER_00]: When you first told me, I said, bro, he's right.
[00:49:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, what the fuck is my-
[00:49:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Me complaining is gonna do?
[00:49:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I forgot-
[00:49:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't wanna be mean.
[00:49:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Is it a man or a woman?
[00:49:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright, you wanna get-
[00:49:42] [SPEAKER_01]: You wanna think of the plot?
[00:49:43] [SPEAKER_01]: It's a woman.
[00:49:44] [SPEAKER_01]: It's women.
[00:49:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Women have-
[00:49:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Women have that-
[00:49:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Women and babies have that option of-
[00:49:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright, but you're a man receiving it.
[00:49:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Receiving it from them?
[00:49:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:49:55] [SPEAKER_01]: And they're talking about their life?
[00:49:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:49:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, if she's a receptive person to solutions-
[00:50:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause men are always about solutions.
[00:50:03] [SPEAKER_01]: So, you come with a problem, I'm gonna try to-
[00:50:06] [SPEAKER_01]: If they don't want the solution, then I'm gonna stop listening.
[00:50:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Mmm.
[00:50:09] [SPEAKER_01]: But as a man complaining-
[00:50:10] [SPEAKER_01]: But then you be a meanie.
[00:50:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You're not listening.
[00:50:13] [SPEAKER_00]: You're not listening.
[00:50:14] [SPEAKER_00]: So, that's a problem.
[00:50:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you're not listening to my problems, Matthew.
[00:50:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Well, the world doesn't operate around your feelings.
[00:50:20] [SPEAKER_01]: The world operates-
[00:50:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, they say-
[00:50:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Now this is the group chat.
[00:50:23] [SPEAKER_01]: This is the group chat.
[00:50:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Please talk here.
[00:50:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Now you're about to give me back.
[00:50:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Patreon.
[00:50:27] [SPEAKER_01]: No, for-
[00:50:27] [SPEAKER_01]: The body clock.
[00:50:30] [SPEAKER_01]: As a man though, I'm complaining when you-
[00:50:34] [SPEAKER_01]: When there are other men who can not necessarily help you, but point you in the right-
[00:50:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I don't like when my friends come and ask me for $20.
[00:50:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't ask me for $20.
[00:50:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Can I get $20?
[00:50:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Ask me for $200, $300.
[00:50:47] [SPEAKER_00]: I just want a sandwich.
[00:50:48] [SPEAKER_00]: I get paid tomorrow, nigga.
[00:50:49] [SPEAKER_00]: $20?
[00:50:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Then go do Instacart and make $50.
[00:50:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, there are ways.
[00:50:53] [SPEAKER_01]: You're just not applying yourself to figure it out.
[00:50:57] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's why-
[00:50:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Unless you in the shelter-
[00:51:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I ask $30 and I say, yo, I'm only asking you because I need this shit right now.
[00:51:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Like-
[00:51:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, but I owed you that.
[00:51:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I owed you that.
[00:51:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you just-
[00:51:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, bro.
[00:51:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm down on my luck.
[00:51:14] [SPEAKER_01]: I need $20.
[00:51:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Why, nigga?
[00:51:17] [SPEAKER_01]: There are so many ways to make $20 right now that I need my $20.
[00:51:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Go beat off.
[00:51:23] [SPEAKER_01]: You can jerk off in a cup and donate sperm and make $1,500.
[00:51:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Apply yourself, my nigga.
[00:51:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Apply yourself.
[00:51:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Nigga, stop making $3k, nigga.
[00:51:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck.
[00:51:35] [SPEAKER_01]: $15.
[00:51:36] [SPEAKER_01]: $15.
[00:51:39] $15.
[00:51:40] [SPEAKER_00]: That's another thing that I-
[00:51:41] [SPEAKER_00]: I could never do.
[00:51:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I ain't gonna press one thing I told myself I never do though.
[00:51:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, what?
[00:51:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah, just do that and fucking get paid for my sperm and stuff.
[00:51:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, you ain't been broke enough, bro.
[00:51:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I know.
[00:51:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I'll give thanks.
[00:51:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Give thanks.
[00:51:53] [SPEAKER_01]: You better go donate some plasma or something.
[00:52:00] [SPEAKER_01]: But in so many ways, that's as a man.
[00:52:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:52:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Like how we sit here, we put one foot in front of it.
[00:52:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Some men don't do that unless they're pushed.
[00:52:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:52:09] [SPEAKER_01]: And it's like, bro, you're a man.
[00:52:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Nobody can push you to do it.
[00:52:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, what your aunt used to say about if you carry a man for too long, you cripple him?
[00:52:21] [SPEAKER_01]: She always had a quote.
[00:52:22] [SPEAKER_01]: You know the quote I'm talking about, right?
[00:52:24] [SPEAKER_01]: It's probably on her Facebook.
[00:52:27] [SPEAKER_01]: I wish I could.
[00:52:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I wish I could.
[00:52:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but she used to say like, you better let that man hand go.
[00:52:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Because you carry him too long, he won't ever learn how to walk and you're going to
[00:52:36] [SPEAKER_01]: end up crippling him.
[00:52:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:52:37] [SPEAKER_01]: The only hands you can hold are babies and women.
[00:52:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Other than that, you're men.
[00:52:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Now as men, we owe it to each other to help and give the knowledge and information.
[00:52:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:52:47] [SPEAKER_01]: So if I know something, like I was telling Kojo, Kojo doing graphics, yo, niggas is coming
[00:52:53] [SPEAKER_01]: up off of Instagram, just putting out pre-designed clothing.
[00:52:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:52:57] [SPEAKER_01]: My brother, you missing out on the...
[00:52:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:52:59] [SPEAKER_01]: And you do, you fired.
[00:53:01] [SPEAKER_01]: You missing out on the revenue.
[00:53:02] [SPEAKER_01]: You should do that.
[00:53:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:03] [SPEAKER_01]: If he don't do it, but the information is still shared.
[00:53:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:09] [SPEAKER_01]: He did share this information.
[00:53:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:12] [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, man.
[00:53:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I think that's also a good thing, the conscious effort of sharing shit.
[00:53:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I think we are getting out of the phase of life and mentality where people gatekeep information
[00:53:23] [SPEAKER_01]: and I mean, I guess there's still some crab in the barrel mentality here and there.
[00:53:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Like...
[00:53:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Brand wars.
[00:53:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Brand wars.
[00:53:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:31] [SPEAKER_01]: But at the same time, the information is there.
[00:53:33] [SPEAKER_01]: It's not as secretive or it's not in the depths of a book where people, you know, they say
[00:53:40] [SPEAKER_01]: you want to hide something from a black man, put it in a book.
[00:53:43] [SPEAKER_01]: So...
[00:53:43] [SPEAKER_01]: And read.
[00:53:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas need to read.
[00:53:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Start reading, niggas.
[00:53:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:53:48] [SPEAKER_01]: You can read a bunch.
[00:53:49] [SPEAKER_01]: You can read tweets for eight hours.
[00:53:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Read a fucking book, bro.
[00:53:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, it's not that crazy.
[00:53:55] [SPEAKER_00]: It's wild.
[00:53:56] [SPEAKER_00]: But you're right though.
[00:53:57] [SPEAKER_00]: You're right though.
[00:53:57] [SPEAKER_00]: You're right though.
[00:53:57] [SPEAKER_00]: You're right though.
[00:53:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Applying yourself as a man goes a long way.
[00:54:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[00:54:02] [SPEAKER_01]: And that was the biggest thing overall where it's like, I'm making a conscious effort to
[00:54:09] [SPEAKER_01]: apply myself as a man.
[00:54:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Because the man that I envisioned myself to be, I have this vision for a reason.
[00:54:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I see myself in this space for a reason.
[00:54:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, this isn't on some like, oh, I see another man like this or I want to be this.
[00:54:26] [SPEAKER_01]: No.
[00:54:27] [SPEAKER_01]: I see, I envision myself in this, in a life where the things that I stress about now,
[00:54:36] [SPEAKER_01]: I no longer have to stress about.
[00:54:38] [SPEAKER_01]: So I know it's possible.
[00:54:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I just have to apply myself and the biggest thing that's going to get me there is like,
[00:54:44] [SPEAKER_01]: discipline.
[00:54:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Like for real, for real.
[00:54:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I know I talk about this often, but it was like, yo, like, you got your spot now.
[00:54:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't use this op- you wasn't a hoe back then.
[00:54:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't be a hoe now.
[00:54:56] [SPEAKER_01]: You are bugging.
[00:55:01] [SPEAKER_01]: You are bugging.
[00:55:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't understand why you think because you getting older, you too old for hoes now?
[00:55:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, no.
[00:55:07] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's, here's the thing, right?
[00:55:09] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't fuck around.
[00:55:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me just say-
[00:55:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I've been doing good.
[00:55:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I've been doing good.
[00:55:12] [SPEAKER_01]: He might fuck around and fuck up.
[00:55:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me just say-
[00:55:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Shut up.
[00:55:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to make rookie mistakes in my 10th season.
[00:55:19] [SPEAKER_01]: What would-
[00:55:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, so what would a rookie mistake be?
[00:55:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh, knocking up a woman I don't care about.
[00:55:26] [SPEAKER_01]: You're in your 30s having a kid ain't that crazy.
[00:55:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, but it's who?
[00:55:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Who?
[00:55:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Who?
[00:55:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, the woman you don't care about.
[00:55:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, okay.
[00:55:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, yeah.
[00:55:33] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:55:34] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't put yourself in a pickle?
[00:55:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Still gotta have discernment about good women.
[00:55:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Right.
[00:55:37] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I'm saying.
[00:55:38] [SPEAKER_01]: So, but you know what was a part of some of that discernment?
[00:55:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, for me, at least personally, is I'm bringing somebody in my mother's home.
[00:55:48] [SPEAKER_01]: This person gotta be-
[00:55:50] [SPEAKER_01]: My mother's not one of those mothers where-
[00:55:52] [SPEAKER_01]: She turn her back and like, oh, go ahead.
[00:55:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:55:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Who is this?
[00:55:57] [SPEAKER_01]: This is not even your type.
[00:55:58] [SPEAKER_01]: What you doing?
[00:56:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what?
[00:56:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Sean, what are we doing?
[00:56:03] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what's-
[00:56:05] [SPEAKER_01]: She's gonna call a time out.
[00:56:07] [SPEAKER_01]: He's here, come here.
[00:56:08] [SPEAKER_01]: You remember that Patrick you were talking about?
[00:56:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Have you practiced this move?
[00:56:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I've not seen you do that.
[00:56:14] [SPEAKER_01]: I've not seen you do that.
[00:56:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Where you worked on that show?
[00:56:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Where you worked on this?
[00:56:18] [SPEAKER_01]: LeSean, what are we doing?
[00:56:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:56:20] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's kinda like, alright man, take that same, guess nobody's here to chaperone you
[00:56:26] [SPEAKER_01]: or do whatever, but don't just bring those twiddly-diddly-
[00:56:29] [SPEAKER_00]: Niggas are freestyling.
[00:56:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.
[00:56:31] [SPEAKER_01]: LeSean, bro, what are you doing, bro?
[00:56:34] What are you doing?
[00:56:36] [SPEAKER_00]: What are you doing?
[00:56:37] [SPEAKER_00]: You're on a little front, it's crazy.
[00:56:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so, even that, it's like, yo, you just don't want to make childish mistakes in your
[00:56:44] [SPEAKER_01]: grown years.
[00:56:45] [SPEAKER_01]: So, I mean, and I know that we would-
[00:56:49] [SPEAKER_01]: You guys say, oh, at 40, I'm gonna do this.
[00:56:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Who say that?
[00:56:54] [SPEAKER_01]: You've never seen that in the day.
[00:56:55] [SPEAKER_01]: You definitely don't want the woman that made it to 40 with no kids and no marriage.
[00:57:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Why not?
[00:57:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Why not?
[00:57:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Because she was a hoe.
[00:57:02] [SPEAKER_01]: She was-
[00:57:03] [SPEAKER_01]: What's wrong with experience?
[00:57:05] [SPEAKER_01]: What's wrong with experience?
[00:57:07] [SPEAKER_01]: What's wrong with experience?
[00:57:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Sheldon, the freedom way.
[00:57:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Like what?
[00:57:10] [SPEAKER_01]: What's wrong with experience?
[00:57:10] [SPEAKER_01]: You see, Chris Paul got to start a job for the Spurs, right?
[00:57:13] [SPEAKER_01]: 20 years in.
[00:57:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Ain't give it to that rookie.
[00:57:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Listen.
[00:57:15] [SPEAKER_01]: He ain't got nothing to show.
[00:57:17] [SPEAKER_01]: No ring.
[00:57:18] [SPEAKER_01]: That means she ain't got that far.
[00:57:20] [SPEAKER_01]: No, that's not true!
[00:57:22] [SPEAKER_01]: She made it to 40, no marriage, no kids?
[00:57:24] [SPEAKER_01]: That nigga ain't leave you with a souvenir or nothing.
[00:57:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas say you ain't-
[00:57:28] [SPEAKER_01]: 40, you went through 40 years of life and no get a medal.
[00:57:31] [SPEAKER_01]: We were doing so well back here.
[00:57:32] [SPEAKER_01]: We were doing so well.
[00:57:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Niggas say you didn't get a medal.
[00:57:35] [SPEAKER_00]: I'ma go back.
[00:57:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Let me be Matthew.
[00:57:36] [SPEAKER_00]: I'ma be Matthew.
[00:57:37] We were doing so well.
[00:57:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just saying.
[00:57:40] [SPEAKER_01]: This nigga preaching the world.
[00:57:40] [SPEAKER_01]: No souvenir is crazy.
[00:57:42] [SPEAKER_01]: 40 years.
[00:57:43] [SPEAKER_00]: 40 years!
[00:57:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas are not in life.
[00:57:45] [SPEAKER_01]: 40 years of life.
[00:57:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas are not in life.
[00:57:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas are not in life.
[00:57:47] [SPEAKER_01]: And no man thought you was good enough to have a kid or propose to you?
[00:57:50] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if this is going to be good in the pod, bro.
[00:57:53] [SPEAKER_00]: That's crazy.
[00:57:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Niggas say you ain't gonna lie.
[00:57:55] [SPEAKER_00]: We gotta get up out of here.
[00:57:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, Don, get us out of here.
[00:57:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Yo, you ain't know what it is, motherfuckers.
[00:58:00] [SPEAKER_00]: It's your mother's here, right?
[00:58:01] [SPEAKER_00]: It's always Don Peasley, also known as Donna Cameraguy, also known as...
[00:58:05] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, something else.
[00:58:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Alongside a little short.
[00:58:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Shit.
[00:58:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I hope by 40, I at least get on my knee once so no woman can feel like...
[00:58:13] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:58:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I had a bad joke for that.
[00:58:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I'ma leave that one.
[00:58:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Y'all seen how women...
[00:58:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, you got to 30, no kids.
[00:58:20] [SPEAKER_01]: What's wrong with you?
[00:58:21] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a thing.
[00:58:22] [SPEAKER_01]: I never heard that.
[00:58:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Actually, that's really a thing.
[00:58:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, so what's wrong with you?
[00:58:26] [SPEAKER_01]: If you made it to 40, no woman...
[00:58:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Wait, wait, wait, wait.
[00:58:28] [SPEAKER_01]: You got a little dick?
[00:58:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what's good?
[00:58:31] [SPEAKER_01]: It is.
[00:58:31] [SPEAKER_01]: A little dick get a bit...
[00:58:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I've been breaking out of here.
[00:58:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Cancel this part, yeah.
[00:58:41] [SPEAKER_00]: If that's her mom, I'll say yeah.
[00:58:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Y'all definitely got the shrimp.
[00:58:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm good.
[00:58:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Shrimp.
[00:58:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm good.
[00:58:46] [SPEAKER_00]: God, son.
[00:58:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Shrimp cocktail.
[00:58:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, shit.
[00:58:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Holy shit.
[00:58:53] [SPEAKER_00]: What's a good guy every Monday at 8am.
[00:58:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Yo, every Monday at 8am.
[00:58:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Yo, bro.
[00:58:57] [SPEAKER_00]: If you really a What's a Good Guy supporter, you know what time to come out.
[00:59:04] [SPEAKER_01]: You can watch us on YouTube.
[00:59:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And you definitely, you definitely can hear this on the DSP.
[00:59:11] [SPEAKER_01]: If it made it through this, if you made it through this part and you come back next week,
[00:59:15] [SPEAKER_01]: we really love you.
[00:59:16] [SPEAKER_02]: We fuck with you.
[00:59:17] [SPEAKER_02]: He's talking about the women listeners.
[00:59:18] [SPEAKER_02]: He ain't talking about nobody.
[00:59:20] [SPEAKER_01]: God damn.
[00:59:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I am LaShawn and I do not stand by the...
[00:59:25] [SPEAKER_01]: The words of the priest.
[00:59:26] [SPEAKER_01]: The words of the priest.
[00:59:27] [SPEAKER_01]: The words of the priest.
[00:59:28] [SPEAKER_00]: Listen.
[00:59:28] [SPEAKER_00]: This is why he only hit once a year.
[00:59:31] [SPEAKER_01]: You can't breed on the naivety in the women.
[00:59:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Bro.
[00:59:35] [SPEAKER_01]: By 35.
[00:59:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, Joe Anderson.
[00:59:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Cancel us out.
[00:59:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Get us out of here.
[00:59:41] [SPEAKER_01]: We cancel you.
[00:59:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, till next time.
[00:59:44] [SPEAKER_01]: God is good, baby.
[00:59:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's get out of here.