[00:00:00] [SPEAKER_09]: So we have questions guys, we're back, we have questions guys, let's start with the easiest one and that is from Corey, shoutouts to Corey, congratulations, congratulations bro, are you guys going to do a live show in the future, I'll leave that to y'all, you're damn right, share them with it, if it makes sense, if it makes sense,
[00:00:29] [SPEAKER_03]: If it's a great venue as well, if it's a great deal, I'll be honest with y'all, all the things are in play for it, we just got to hit the button, so, it's definitely something that we want to do, I mean y'all, we could do this shit bad one ago honestly, y'all will have to, huh, vote below, you think people show out, shit, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know a couple people that I've been in, front and center, you know what's very random, I usually watch that video of us when we did, shoutout to Chloe, we did Chloe shit, oh y'all got footage from that, nah, yeah,
[00:00:59] [SPEAKER_03]: We sold Chloe shit out, yeah, yeah, that was very impressive, great work, I was there, something like that probably, start small, mad intimate, what's the point of starting small when y'all been doing this for seven plus, so you created the man, the man is here bro, it's being axed on Axe of Good God, bro, it's here, it's been axed, it ain't the first person to ask, live show, how many people y'all want on y'all plus ones, let's go hard, let's go home, or go home, how many people y'all want on y'all plus ones,
[00:01:28] [SPEAKER_05]: if you do a live show, I don't do plus ones, everybody gotta pay, okay, how many people my plus ones, I got one plus one, that's it, just one, I only got one there too, Mill's gonna pay, Mill's gonna pay, Mill's gonna pay,
[00:01:38] [SPEAKER_05]: I don't know, anybody else wanna come here, support ain't free, put some money up, come on, word, this pod ain't free either, yeah, shit costs, you wanna support, you have anybody that can't come,
[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_05]: mad people, mad people, mad people, but if they actually listen to the pod, all my friends can come, if you come and you don't like me, just bring some tomatoes, oh, you try to take a tear, if that should hit me, for now it's not a $20 tomato though, $20 tomato, $20 tomato, $20 tomato, he can't come, he not on the can, he don't can come, that's crazy, so we gotta know who's hosting it, but no, to answer your question, why P got a host?
[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, why P, why P, why P looked at you, why can't host?
[00:02:14] [SPEAKER_08]: He's, you're on the pod.
[00:02:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh no, no, yeah, no, why P, why P, I was thinking about that your whole time.
[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_03]: It makes sense for why P to host because he's, he's been on the show, and he's a fan, like, he's a supporter.
[00:02:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Should we call it why P, let's see if he pick up.
[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah, he probably, he probably recovering from, uh, his, uh, his evening, you know, he had something.
[00:02:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna call, I'm gonna call, why P, see if he pick up.
[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Yo, if we do a lot of fun, would you?
[00:02:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Let's see.
[00:02:38] [SPEAKER_03]: My brother.
[00:02:39] [SPEAKER_03]: You gotta give him the, uh, the preference?
[00:02:41] [SPEAKER_03]: I hope he picks up.
[00:02:41] [SPEAKER_05]: Why don't you speak American first?
[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_05]: The fact, the fact, the fact that a millionaire is calling you.
[00:02:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Chill out.
[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_09]: We, we, we live on the pod, please.
[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm just letting you know, we live on the pod.
[00:02:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Man, here comes, millionaire convos.
[00:02:55] [SPEAKER_00]: That's a good, good, wild, P.
[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_00]: This is a great moment right here, man.
[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_00]: This is a great moment.
[00:03:00] [SPEAKER_09]: So they, uh, we're doing, we're doing, um,
[00:03:03] [SPEAKER_09]: Axe, Axe, a good guy.
[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_09]: And somebody asked, when are we doing a live show?
[00:03:07] [SPEAKER_09]: If we do a live show, you will host it?
[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely.
[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_00]: What are we doing?
[00:03:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Let me know when, where.
[00:03:13] [SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
[00:03:13] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm there.
[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_00]: It's screaming.
[00:03:16] [SPEAKER_00]: I told you, man.
[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah.
[00:03:18] [SPEAKER_09]: So.
[00:03:19] [SPEAKER_09]: My time is now.
[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_09]: We, we talking about, uh.
[00:03:23] [SPEAKER_00]: First of all, first of all, pardon the interruption.
[00:03:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like I haven't been a guest since, like, the Obama administration.
[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Were we part of your Obama administration?
[00:03:32] [SPEAKER_00]: We were.
[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_00]: That was?
[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[00:03:35] [SPEAKER_03]: The tail end of his, uh.
[00:03:36] [SPEAKER_00]: I got, I got things to, I got things to say.
[00:03:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Perspectives to me.
[00:03:39] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah.
[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah.
[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah.
[00:03:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh.
[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_05]: Nah.
[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_05]: Nah.
[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_05]: Nah.
[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_05]: I can be Trump.
[00:03:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah, we didn't pod or no Obama.
[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah, what's up?
[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_09]: What's up?
[00:03:48] [SPEAKER_09]: What's up?
[00:03:48] [SPEAKER_09]: What's up?
[00:03:48] [SPEAKER_09]: It was Trump.
[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_09]: What's up?
[00:03:50] [SPEAKER_09]: What's up?
[00:03:50] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah, don't, don't, don't mind.
[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Don't mind me.
[00:03:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just, I'm just being, I'm just being annoying.
[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_00]: What's up, bro?
[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_00]: What's up?
[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_00]: What we doing?
[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah, we, we, we discussing what a live show would look like.
[00:03:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, bro.
[00:04:00] [SPEAKER_00]: That's, I think, I think that would actually go crazy.
[00:04:02] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm, I'm terrible.
[00:04:03] [SPEAKER_00]: You know, that's like, that's, that's like a more, you know, the, the Twitter events that
[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_00]: be, you know, everybody pop out to.
[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I think this would be one of those type of vibes is less alcohol infused.
[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe, maybe, maybe a little bit of alcohol infused, but not as, not as crazy as, as the other
[00:04:21] [SPEAKER_00]: events.
[00:04:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I think, I think that would be a really good idea.
[00:04:26] [SPEAKER_09]: All right.
[00:04:26] [SPEAKER_09]: So we going, we going to try to put this into motion.
[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_09]: But we just needed to know if we, uh, if we, if MSG, uh, what it came, came to, uh,
[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_09]: you know, a little hole in the wall.
[00:04:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah, listen, man.
[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_00]: As long, as long as it's on the Sean's chat, I'm good.
[00:04:44] [SPEAKER_00]: You good though?
[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, bro, I'm in Toronto right now.
[00:04:49] [SPEAKER_09]: What?
[00:04:49] [SPEAKER_08]: You see what I mean?
[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_09]: You see what I mean, bro?
[00:04:53] [SPEAKER_09]: So wait, this is international minutes, bro.
[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, no, I'm unlimited.
[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_00]: We good.
[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_00]: We good.
[00:04:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Yo, this nigga was just here.
[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't got to call y'all after.
[00:05:02] [SPEAKER_00]: No, we good.
[00:05:02] [SPEAKER_09]: Weren't you just outside last night?
[00:05:07] [SPEAKER_00]: I did a...
[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_00]: We don't know.
[00:05:09] [SPEAKER_00]: We had a fashion week event with my son, Amon, and my son, Shiree.
[00:05:14] [SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, just did something for my men's collection that's dropping in November.
[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_00]: And, you know what I mean?
[00:05:19] [SPEAKER_00]: I want to go.
[00:05:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Got to get to it.
[00:05:21] [SPEAKER_04]: What time was your flight this morning?
[00:05:26] [SPEAKER_00]: 10...
[00:05:27] [SPEAKER_00]: 10...
[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_00]: 1025.
[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_00]: And I got home at like 4 in the morning.
[00:05:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Sheesh.
[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Sheesh.
[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Got home 4 in the morning.
[00:05:33] [SPEAKER_09]: Did they put the...
[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_09]: Did you put the jet in the rider?
[00:05:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Nah, so...
[00:05:37] [SPEAKER_00]: The jet is in the shop right now.
[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_00]: You feel me?
[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_00]: So, unfortunately, I had to...
[00:05:40] [SPEAKER_09]: You had to call a drink.
[00:05:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I had to fly with the common folk.
[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm in the shop right now.
[00:05:48] [SPEAKER_00]: So, next trip, the private jet will be...
[00:05:52] [SPEAKER_00]: You know what I mean?
[00:05:53] [SPEAKER_00]: All right.
[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_09]: All right, bro.
[00:05:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Well, have a good one.
[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_09]: Be safe.
[00:05:57] [SPEAKER_09]: You know?
[00:05:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Appreciate you.
[00:05:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Don't wear no Top Dog Internet merch.
[00:06:01] [SPEAKER_09]: You know?
[00:06:02] [SPEAKER_09]: Keep it all OVO.
[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Wait, what'd you say?
[00:06:04] [SPEAKER_09]: I said don't wear no TDE merch.
[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Man, listen.
[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm good everywhere.
[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_00]: All right, Brody.
[00:06:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Love, man.
[00:06:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Appreciate y'all.
[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_00]: All right.
[00:06:15] [SPEAKER_09]: All right.
[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_09]: So, we got YP to host it.
[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_09]: Skrillz will handle all the analytics.
[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_09]: Right?
[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_09]: The back end.
[00:06:23] [SPEAKER_09]: The venues.
[00:06:24] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah, I guess.
[00:06:25] [SPEAKER_06]: The ROAs and all that other stuff.
[00:06:28] [SPEAKER_06]: ROAs.
[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_06]: ROAs.
[00:06:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Return on.
[00:06:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Return on.
[00:06:31] [SPEAKER_06]: Return on.
[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_06]: Return on.
[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_06]: Return on.
[00:06:33] [SPEAKER_06]: So, yeah.
[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_06]: Ad sales.
[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_09]: I mean, if the live show was to happen,
[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_09]: y'all would have to do it.
[00:06:43] [SPEAKER_09]: I just want to show up.
[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh, so we can pick a topic that day?
[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Sure.
[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Sure.
[00:06:48] Shit.
[00:06:49] [SPEAKER_09]: And if y'all bomb on stage,
[00:06:50] [SPEAKER_09]: we just going to let everybody know it's y'all.
[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_09]: How we?
[00:06:53] [SPEAKER_09]: We don't bomb in here,
[00:06:54] [SPEAKER_09]: so we ain't bombing on stage.
[00:06:55] [SPEAKER_07]: The laser ones.
[00:06:59] [SPEAKER_09]: I just can't.
[00:06:59] [SPEAKER_09]: If we do a live show,
[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_09]: y'all can't pussyfoot.
[00:07:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Ain't no editing there.
[00:07:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:07:05] [SPEAKER_09]: Kwan, you ain't no editing on that one, bro.
[00:07:07] [SPEAKER_09]: See what you mean?
[00:07:09] [SPEAKER_05]: Put your gaslighting voice on.
[00:07:10] [SPEAKER_09]: Yup.
[00:07:11] [SPEAKER_09]: Ain't no texting LaShawn in the morning.
[00:07:13] [SPEAKER_09]: Can you take that out?
[00:07:14] [SPEAKER_09]: So, you know,
[00:07:17] [SPEAKER_09]: I just don't want to,
[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_09]: we would have to find like the,
[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_09]: a good entertaining topic.
[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_09]: What are we going to do?
[00:07:23] [SPEAKER_09]: We going to do guests?
[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_09]: That'll be fire.
[00:07:25] [SPEAKER_09]: We would have to.
[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_09]: We got to make it a real show.
[00:07:28] [SPEAKER_09]: I would probably hit up,
[00:07:29] [SPEAKER_09]: um,
[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_09]: Cav.
[00:07:33] [SPEAKER_09]: And incorporate,
[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:07:35] [SPEAKER_09]: Samples and Friends.
[00:07:36] [SPEAKER_07]: That'll be lit.
[00:07:37] [SPEAKER_09]: You know,
[00:07:39] [SPEAKER_09]: YP host.
[00:07:40] [SPEAKER_09]: Find a decent DJ.
[00:07:43] [SPEAKER_09]: See,
[00:07:43] [SPEAKER_09]: he had the vision all along.
[00:07:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:07:46] [SPEAKER_03]: It's just execution.
[00:07:47] [SPEAKER_03]: That's all it is.
[00:07:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Imagine we do a live show
[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_09]: and nobody show up.
[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_09]: I'll be tight.
[00:07:51] [SPEAKER_09]: I can't even imagine that.
[00:07:53] [SPEAKER_09]: Don't look for niggas on Monday.
[00:07:54] [SPEAKER_09]: I just said,
[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_09]: okay,
[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm on the.
[00:07:57] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah.
[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:07:59] [SPEAKER_09]: nah,
[00:07:59] [SPEAKER_09]: we'll,
[00:07:59] [SPEAKER_09]: we'll figure that out.
[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_09]: We'll figure that out
[00:08:03] [SPEAKER_09]: when the time comes.
[00:08:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Thanks for the question,
[00:08:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Corey.
[00:08:06] [SPEAKER_09]: shout out to Corey.
[00:08:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Make sure my phone's on
[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_07]: trying to save a show like that.
[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_07]: yes,
[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_07]: it was going to be my phone.
[00:08:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't you press it?
[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_09]: Alrighty.
[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_09]: That's nasty.
[00:08:26] [SPEAKER_09]: I had to clean my throat.
[00:08:29] [SPEAKER_09]: Disgusting.
[00:08:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_07]: man.
[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_07]: My brain is like,
[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_03]: this episode coming out like December?
[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Probably a little bit,
[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_09]: but
[00:08:40] [SPEAKER_04]: Thanksgiving.
[00:08:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Literally,
[00:08:42] [SPEAKER_07]: I have a brain for it.
[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_07]: All right.
[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_07]: Three,
[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_07]: two,
[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_07]: one.
[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_07]: You already know this motherfucker.
[00:08:46] [SPEAKER_07]: Most of your love is always Donald Peasley.
[00:08:48] [SPEAKER_09]: With LaShawn.
[00:08:50] [SPEAKER_07]: It's another day in New York City.
[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_09]: I got corrected.
[00:08:53] [SPEAKER_09]: How am I alongside of LaShawn
[00:08:55] [SPEAKER_09]: if I'm LaShawn?
[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Nigga,
[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_03]: we've been doing this.
[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_07]: Nigga's correct.
[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Your man's correcting me.
[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I was about to ask you something,
[00:09:02] [SPEAKER_07]: but I let that one go.
[00:09:03] [SPEAKER_07]: It's another day here in New York City.
[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_07]: Your sis corrected me.
[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Jesus,
[00:09:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Mary,
[00:09:06] [SPEAKER_07]: and Joseph.
[00:09:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Now?
[00:09:07] [SPEAKER_07]: All the time.
[00:09:09] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[00:09:09] [SPEAKER_07]: man.
[00:09:11] [SPEAKER_07]: Got to pay the toll,
[00:09:12] [SPEAKER_07]: man.
[00:09:13] [SPEAKER_07]: What's going on,
[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_07]: fellas?
[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_07]: How y'all feeling?
[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Dang shit,
[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_07]: Shit.
[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Just working.
[00:09:18] [SPEAKER_07]: You good,
[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_07]: Joe?
[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_07]: You trying to think of how you feel?
[00:09:20] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what?
[00:09:20] [SPEAKER_07]: What?
[00:09:21] [SPEAKER_03]: It's not wrong,
[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_03]: but it's also not right.
[00:09:24] [SPEAKER_07]: Alongside LA.
[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_03]: It's just,
[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_03]: you're finishing the statement.
[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_03]: you're finishing his statement.
[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:09:30] [SPEAKER_07]: pretty much.
[00:09:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Donald Peasley alongside LaShawn.
[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_01]: That's it.
[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm sorry.
[00:09:35] [SPEAKER_09]: That's him was going to leave me for a little bit.
[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Fucking politically correct and shit.
[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_09]: don't come around and start changing.
[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_09]: Word,
[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_09]: word,
[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_09]: word,
[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_09]: word.
[00:09:43] [SPEAKER_01]: If they ain't broken,
[00:09:44] [SPEAKER_01]: don't even break it.
[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_07]: What's up,
[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_07]: fellas?
[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_07]: How was y'all?
[00:09:50] [SPEAKER_07]: How was last week for y'all?
[00:09:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.
[00:09:53] [SPEAKER_09]: Last week,
[00:09:53] [SPEAKER_09]: but shit,
[00:09:54] [SPEAKER_09]: it's work.
[00:09:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Ain't nothing to it.
[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_09]: It's just work.
[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_09]: I ain't do anything but work.
[00:09:59] [SPEAKER_09]: I got dinner reservations tonight,
[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_09]: though.
[00:10:01] [SPEAKER_07]: Where you going?
[00:10:01] [SPEAKER_09]: Noble.
[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_07]: come on,
[00:10:04] [SPEAKER_07]: man.
[00:10:04] [SPEAKER_03]: This guy don't chill.
[00:10:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Let me tell y'all something about this man right here,
[00:10:09] [SPEAKER_03]: bro.
[00:10:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh,
[00:10:10] [SPEAKER_03]: God.
[00:10:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Without saying too much,
[00:10:11] [SPEAKER_03]: man,
[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_03]: this guy,
[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_03]: he the wizard,
[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_03]: bro.
[00:10:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:10:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know how else to,
[00:10:16] [SPEAKER_03]: how else to describe it,
[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_03]: man.
[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_03]: when he sets his eyes to something,
[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_03]: and when that's something,
[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean,
[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_03]: uh-uh.
[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_03]: It's probably gonna get it,
[00:10:23] [SPEAKER_03]: man.
[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_03]: That's the thing,
[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_03]: he just gotta focus up.
[00:10:26] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not gonna make you elaborate on that.
[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm just let you go with that one.
[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_03]: What do you mean?
[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to,
[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_03]: and I'm glad,
[00:10:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm glad I could've,
[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_03]: you know.
[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah,
[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_09]: you don't get credit for this one.
[00:10:34] [SPEAKER_09]: You fucked that shit.
[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_09]: Bro,
[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_03]: if it wasn't for,
[00:10:38] [SPEAKER_03]: if it wasn't for,
[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_03]: uh,
[00:10:41] [SPEAKER_09]: that ain't got nothing to do with that.
[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_09]: My event,
[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_09]: my phone.
[00:10:45] [SPEAKER_01]: I came to support.
[00:10:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Respect,
[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_01]: man.
[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Respect.
[00:10:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out to tier.
[00:10:54] [SPEAKER_06]: He's an asshole.
[00:10:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out to tier men's wear.
[00:10:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out to tier women's wear.
[00:10:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Back.
[00:10:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out to tier kids.
[00:11:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo.
[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Sorry,
[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_01]: dog.
[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_01]: No,
[00:11:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just,
[00:11:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I know enough.
[00:11:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just chilling here.
[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm just hanging out.
[00:11:13] [SPEAKER_07]: I got a few,
[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_07]: uh,
[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_07]: you know what?
[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not going.
[00:11:16] [SPEAKER_07]: It's all right.
[00:11:17] [SPEAKER_07]: What's going on today,
[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_07]: fellas?
[00:11:19] [SPEAKER_07]: What's up LA?
[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_09]: Hey shit.
[00:11:21] [SPEAKER_09]: Um,
[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_09]: let's see where I want to start.
[00:11:24] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:11:26] [SPEAKER_09]: you want to hear a message that I got?
[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_09]: Uh,
[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_07]: yeah.
[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_07]: It doesn't come with it.
[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what?
[00:11:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Never mind.
[00:11:31] [SPEAKER_09]: Ain't nothing crazy.
[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_09]: Ain't nothing spicy.
[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_09]: Hold on.
[00:11:36] [SPEAKER_09]: You listening?
[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.
[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_09]: I've been checking on you for weeks,
[00:11:39] [SPEAKER_09]: but I get the picture.
[00:11:40] [SPEAKER_09]: Just checking on you since I'm the only one who does.
[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:11:45] [SPEAKER_01]: that's not fair.
[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_09]: Can't tell the last time you've actually hit me up to see how I was doing with myself and her child.
[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_09]: I won't say the child's name.
[00:11:54] [SPEAKER_09]: Wish you well.
[00:11:55] [SPEAKER_09]: And I'm going to refrain from reaching out since this is a one-sided friendship.
[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh my God,
[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_03]: man.
[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_03]: that condescending,
[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_03]: passive aggressive kind of message is not a good message.
[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Well,
[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm glad she got whatever she needs to get off her chest.
[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Hang on,
[00:12:07] [SPEAKER_07]: that shit was bothering her.
[00:12:08] [SPEAKER_09]: Huh?
[00:12:08] [SPEAKER_07]: That shit must have been really bothering her.
[00:12:09] [SPEAKER_07]: But see,
[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_09]: here's the thing.
[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_09]: Every time she had call,
[00:12:12] [SPEAKER_09]: every time she calls.
[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_07]: You on,
[00:12:13] [SPEAKER_07]: you on the flight?
[00:12:14] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm on the,
[00:12:15] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm working.
[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_07]: my thing is,
[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_07]: do you reply and say,
[00:12:17] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm working?
[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_09]: No.
[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_09]: I just don't reply.
[00:12:20] [SPEAKER_09]: These days I don't be feeling like talking,
[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_09]: So that's one thing.
[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_09]: But see,
[00:12:24] [SPEAKER_09]: I ain't even mad at that.
[00:12:25] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm not even mad at the message.
[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_09]: The only thing that kind of blew minds was,
[00:12:28] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm the only one who check on you.
[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_09]: How you know?
[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_09]: How you know that?
[00:12:31] [SPEAKER_09]: What made you so bold to feel like you're the only,
[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_09]: I talk to Don every day.
[00:12:36] [SPEAKER_09]: I speak to Kojo every day.
[00:12:38] [SPEAKER_09]: I speak to my niggas every day.
[00:12:40] [SPEAKER_09]: But what I will say,
[00:12:42] [SPEAKER_09]: for a man,
[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_09]: maintaining platonic friendships with women,
[00:12:48] [SPEAKER_09]: is a task at times.
[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_09]: it is.
[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't feel like with my,
[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_09]: with my boys,
[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_09]: we need to do check-ins every day.
[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_09]: It's kind of like,
[00:12:59] [SPEAKER_09]: we can sense it.
[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_09]: You know?
[00:13:01] [SPEAKER_09]: With women,
[00:13:02] [SPEAKER_09]: I feel like there's a lot of maintenance to that,
[00:13:04] [SPEAKER_09]: man.
[00:13:05] [SPEAKER_07]: For some of them.
[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_07]: For some of them.
[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_07]: As a person with a lot of women friends,
[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like,
[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_07]: some of them I don't talk to at,
[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_07]: probably like for like two weeks.
[00:13:12] [SPEAKER_07]: Like Edie,
[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_07]: me and Edie will chop it up like every other week.
[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_07]: I saw Edie this morning.
[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_07]: While I was in my fucking lift on my way here.
[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_04]: Shot to Edie.
[00:13:19] [SPEAKER_07]: I called her.
[00:13:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I seen the niggas on her phone,
[00:13:21] [SPEAKER_07]: but she ain't answer.
[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_07]: I was like,
[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_07]: you motherfucker.
[00:13:23] [SPEAKER_07]: I want to kick you.
[00:13:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Kick you and take knives,
[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_07]: my nigga.
[00:13:27] [SPEAKER_07]: But yeah,
[00:13:28] [SPEAKER_07]: like people like that.
[00:13:29] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_07]: like some people are very like needy.
[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Some people aren't.
[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_07]: So it depends on the people.
[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_07]: It depends on the person.
[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Cause even like some of my male friends,
[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like,
[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:13:38] [SPEAKER_07]: niggas ain't call me the minute.
[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_07]: What's up?
[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_09]: You got needy male friends.
[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_07]: Hey,
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_07]: boy,
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_07]: you didn't throw,
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_07]: I got some fun for them.
[00:13:43] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't be getting it.
[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_07]: Yo,
[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_07]: what's up,
[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_07]: bro?
[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_07]: You ain't call me?
[00:13:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Like my nigga.
[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going through life.
[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:13:50] [SPEAKER_07]: What do you want me to do?
[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_07]: That's another thing.
[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Damn.
[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_09]: How can I,
[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_09]: I want to keep this respectful.
[00:13:57] [SPEAKER_09]: There are certain conversations.
[00:13:59] [SPEAKER_09]: No,
[00:13:59] [SPEAKER_09]: there's certain,
[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah,
[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_09]: there's certain conversations that you know you about to have,
[00:14:02] [SPEAKER_09]: or you see certain people call you and you just don't be in the space for that.
[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_09]: And my thing is everything don't have to be on the phone.
[00:14:10] [SPEAKER_09]: You know,
[00:14:12] [SPEAKER_09]: just send a text.
[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_09]: Yo,
[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_09]: I respond faster now on Texas than,
[00:14:18] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:14:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I fly literally Monday through Friday.
[00:14:21] [SPEAKER_09]: And depending on the flight,
[00:14:22] [SPEAKER_09]: I may be landing Saturday morning.
[00:14:24] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't got time to sit on.
[00:14:26] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm not going to lie.
[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_09]: Let me not say that.
[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause I,
[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm not,
[00:14:30] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not going to lie to you.
[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Listen to me.
[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know if that's honest.
[00:14:33] [SPEAKER_07]: Listen to me.
[00:14:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Listen to me.
[00:14:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Listen to me.
[00:14:36] [SPEAKER_07]: There's one thing that annoys me.
[00:14:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.
[00:14:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Texting me or you texting me and then you end up calling me.
[00:14:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Cool.
[00:14:41] [SPEAKER_07]: My nigga,
[00:14:41] [SPEAKER_07]: don't send me no long audio.
[00:14:43] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm going to get so mad.
[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what?
[00:14:45] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what?
[00:14:45] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to get so mad.
[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_09]: I'll even take that over a long phone call.
[00:14:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause Ruben Goodfrey said it a two hour,
[00:14:52] [SPEAKER_09]: 42 hour,
[00:14:53] [SPEAKER_09]: two minute and 43 minute.
[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_09]: No.
[00:14:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Voice.
[00:14:55] [SPEAKER_09]: No.
[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_07]: No,
[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_07]: 23 seconds.
[00:15:00] [SPEAKER_09]: No.
[00:15:01] [SPEAKER_09]: He'll break,
[00:15:01] [SPEAKER_09]: he'll,
[00:15:01] [SPEAKER_09]: he'll,
[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_09]: he'll break his story time into voice notes.
[00:15:04] [SPEAKER_03]: That's helpful.
[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:15:06] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause when I get to it,
[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_09]: I get to it.
[00:15:08] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:15:10] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_03]: You gotta learn it.
[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_03]: You gotta learn the difference between.
[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Well,
[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I learned the difference between,
[00:15:14] [SPEAKER_03]: uh,
[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_03]: low maintenance and high maintenance friendships.
[00:15:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Uh,
[00:15:18] [SPEAKER_03]: wait a little way back.
[00:15:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Like a friend of mine who is a low maintenance friend mentioned it to me.
[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I was like,
[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_03]: damn,
[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_03]: that's what I am too.
[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Like we don't have to talk every day for me to understand our bond.
[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't have,
[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't need to read that reassurance every,
[00:15:36] [SPEAKER_03]: every week to know that you care about me.
[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_03]: And I also know,
[00:15:40] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't need to give that to you for,
[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_03]: we're in the same.
[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_03]: So I learned that there's a difference between low maintenance and high maintenance,
[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_03]: but then you do got high maintenance friends that you,
[00:15:46] [SPEAKER_03]: you kind of like,
[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_03]: if you go a month or a month and a half without like reaching out to them,
[00:15:52] [SPEAKER_03]: they are,
[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_03]: they taking that shit personal.
[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_03]: And they like you,
[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_03]: the next time you do speak to them,
[00:15:57] [SPEAKER_03]: they,
[00:15:57] [SPEAKER_03]: they snappy and they,
[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_03]: they being petty.
[00:16:00] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what?
[00:16:01] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause in the group chat for a while,
[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_09]: we,
[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:16:05] [SPEAKER_09]: we was like putting out ABPs for,
[00:16:07] [SPEAKER_09]: for Will.
[00:16:08] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause we haven't heard from him.
[00:16:10] [SPEAKER_09]: And then I kind of got to the realization like,
[00:16:12] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:16:14] [SPEAKER_09]: he know where to get,
[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_09]: he know where the reach is at.
[00:16:16] [SPEAKER_09]: Whenever he ready,
[00:16:18] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_09]: it don't make no sense going up,
[00:16:20] [SPEAKER_09]: not above and beyond,
[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_09]: but constantly trying to find a way to get in contact with him.
[00:16:24] [SPEAKER_07]: If he don't want to talk,
[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_07]: he don't want to talk.
[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_07]: You can't force him.
[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_09]: So I figured,
[00:16:28] [SPEAKER_09]: we figured,
[00:16:28] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_09]: and whenever he ready to come around,
[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_09]: we gonna be like,
[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_09]: what's up?
[00:16:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I haven't heard from Brian,
[00:16:34] [SPEAKER_03]: like on a text message,
[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_03]: phone call in,
[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_03]: like,
[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_03]: unless we go to like his,
[00:16:39] [SPEAKER_03]: his Godson's birthday party,
[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't seeing him,
[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_03]: but like,
[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not going to be offended by like,
[00:16:46] [SPEAKER_03]: oh,
[00:16:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Brian's not writing back in the chat.
[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh,
[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Brian's not in,
[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_03]: put no input.
[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_03]: Dave on another hand,
[00:16:51] [SPEAKER_03]: he gonna be like,
[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_03]: like,
[00:16:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I know,
[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_03]: but I think I know him.
[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_03]: That's the important part,
[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_07]: knowing your friends.
[00:16:59] [SPEAKER_03]: He's been that way.
[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_03]: He's an only child.
[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_03]: He's always going to isolate.
[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_03]: That's just how he is.
[00:17:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't ever take that shit personal.
[00:17:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Some people don't see it that way.
[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_07]: That's the same,
[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_07]: that's the same way with Cyrus.
[00:17:08] [SPEAKER_07]: When I see Cyrus isolating,
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_07]: I hit him up like,
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_07]: you good?
[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_07]: Thanks,
[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_07]: man.
[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_07]: You don't want to hit me up.
[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Like,
[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_07]: shut the fuck up,
[00:17:14] [SPEAKER_07]: nigga.
[00:17:15] [SPEAKER_07]: You isolate all the time.
[00:17:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Cyrus can't do that.
[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Cyrus can't do that.
[00:17:17] [SPEAKER_07]: He'll isolate so much.
[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_07]: he can't sit there and say,
[00:17:20] [SPEAKER_09]: you're the only one who hit me up.
[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_09]: If you choose,
[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_09]: if we understand when you in that headspace,
[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_09]: you want to be alone,
[00:17:27] [SPEAKER_09]: and when somebody leave you alone,
[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_09]: that's what you wanted,
[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_07]: I told him he got to stop doing it.
[00:17:32] [SPEAKER_07]: It's funny now,
[00:17:32] [SPEAKER_07]: I talk to Ro more,
[00:17:33] [SPEAKER_07]: I talk to Cyrus sometimes.
[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_09]: nah,
[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_09]: I might be jealous of that.
[00:17:38] [SPEAKER_07]: That's when Ro was like,
[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_07]: niggas,
[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_07]: they hit me up to go,
[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_07]: my friends that hit me up to go to happy hour.
[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_07]: I saw it.
[00:17:43] [SPEAKER_09]: I was about to put it in the chat,
[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_09]: what do y'all go to leave,
[00:17:46] [SPEAKER_09]: bro?
[00:17:46] [SPEAKER_07]: I told him,
[00:17:47] [SPEAKER_07]: he said,
[00:17:47] [SPEAKER_07]: he want to go to 32 North.
[00:17:48] [SPEAKER_07]: I was like,
[00:17:48] [SPEAKER_07]: my nigga,
[00:17:49] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know where the fuck that's at,
[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_07]: but I'm not,
[00:17:51] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not on that side right now.
[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_03]: But Don brought up something a little,
[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_03]: when he said it earlier,
[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_03]: it's just like,
[00:17:56] [SPEAKER_03]: when we are going through our own little personal things
[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_03]: and stuff like that,
[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_03]: and we're not,
[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:18:02] [SPEAKER_03]: reaching out to people,
[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_03]: connect that before they react.
[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?
[00:18:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:18:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I remember speaking of a friend who I hadn't spoke to in a while
[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_03]: and,
[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_03]: they obviously decided that it was a good time to express their grievances
[00:18:15] [SPEAKER_03]: about how I haven't checked in or whatever the case may be,
[00:18:18] [SPEAKER_03]: but it was also during a period of time where I was deteriorating.
[00:18:22] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?
[00:18:23] [SPEAKER_03]: So in my head,
[00:18:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like,
[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_03]: you want me to reach out to you?
[00:18:26] [SPEAKER_03]: My pop's in the hospital.
[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm going through this,
[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_03]: this,
[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_03]: that,
[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_03]: and the third.
[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah,
[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I may not be making it public about what I'm going through,
[00:18:31] [SPEAKER_03]: but damn,
[00:18:32] [SPEAKER_03]: like that should not be your response to me when I'm healing off.
[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_03]: For that.
[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Know what I'm saying?
[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm just getting through that.
[00:18:38] [SPEAKER_03]: And the first thing I'm being dealt with is,
[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_03]: oh,
[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_03]: why you wasn't,
[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_03]: why you wasn't?
[00:18:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Hey,
[00:18:41] [SPEAKER_03]: like I was going through some shit.
[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.
[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_03]: We should talk about that now before we move forward.
[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.
[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_07]: No,
[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_07]: but yeah.
[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Some people,
[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_07]: it's crazy though.
[00:18:49] [SPEAKER_07]: Some people aren't,
[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_07]: you see how we've come to a point where we,
[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_07]: we could be vulnerable with our friends.
[00:18:55] [SPEAKER_07]: We could be,
[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_07]: we just talk through shit.
[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_07]: Some people haven't gotten to that point yet.
[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_07]: They haven't gotten to a point where you could be vulnerable with your friends.
[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_07]: Like your niggas always got to be macho.
[00:19:03] [SPEAKER_07]: We go,
[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_07]: we got to be this.
[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_07]: yo bro,
[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_07]: it took me so long to figure out,
[00:19:07] [SPEAKER_07]: like,
[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to use my brother as an example.
[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_07]: It took the nigga mad.
[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't want to tell me what's going on with him.
[00:19:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:19:12] [SPEAKER_07]: yo bro,
[00:19:12] [SPEAKER_07]: what the fuck?
[00:19:13] [SPEAKER_07]: You was going through this?
[00:19:14] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_07]: This was like three months ago though.
[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_07]: nigga,
[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_07]: what the fuck?
[00:19:17] [SPEAKER_07]: So it's like,
[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_07]: like I said,
[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_07]: know your friends.
[00:19:21] [SPEAKER_09]: So that brought me to today's episode.
[00:19:24] [SPEAKER_09]: It's an interesting topic that I think,
[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_09]: I had written down for a while,
[00:19:28] [SPEAKER_09]: but getting that message kind of was like,
[00:19:30] [SPEAKER_09]: oh yeah,
[00:19:30] [SPEAKER_09]: I have this episode written down.
[00:19:31] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:19:31] [SPEAKER_09]: that was in the topic?
[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_09]: It's called,
[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah,
[00:19:34] [SPEAKER_09]: this one.
[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_09]: Well,
[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_09]: this was one of those episodes when I was going through a challenging time with a woman.
[00:19:40] [SPEAKER_09]: And I was like,
[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_09]: that,
[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_09]: that whole,
[00:19:43] [SPEAKER_09]: there's a speak,
[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_09]: like a whole album of songs.
[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Which album is this?
[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_09]: This album is called Dinner at Little Alley.
[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_09]: Now this is,
[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_09]: it's not a real album.
[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_03]: it's a playlist you made.
[00:19:59] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:20:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay.
[00:20:00] [SPEAKER_09]: But if I was,
[00:20:01] [SPEAKER_09]: that combined with the podcast episodes that I had going through that time,
[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_09]: my thing is I don't like to pod when I'm going through shit.
[00:20:09] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause then it seems a little too.
[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_09]: So this episode was called Two Way Street.
[00:20:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to my homegirl,
[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Jamie Shea.
[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_03]: She got a song called Two Way Street.
[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Okay.
[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Shout out to her.
[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_09]: Right.
[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_09]: And a couple of things that I wrote down were,
[00:20:22] [SPEAKER_09]: and then I all want to,
[00:20:24] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:20:25] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:20:26] [SPEAKER_09]: talk through it.
[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_09]: Wow.
[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_09]: Ladies and gentlemen.
[00:20:32] [SPEAKER_09]: You're right there.
[00:20:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Come on.
[00:20:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh man.
[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_09]: My talking points,
[00:20:35] [SPEAKER_09]: right?
[00:20:36] [SPEAKER_09]: Uh,
[00:20:36] [SPEAKER_09]: tit for tat tendencies,
[00:20:39] [SPEAKER_09]: identify one-sided friendships,
[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_09]: emotional impact,
[00:20:43] [SPEAKER_09]: communication is key,
[00:20:46] [SPEAKER_09]: navigating the,
[00:20:47] [SPEAKER_09]: imbalances,
[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_09]: and,
[00:20:49] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:20:49] [SPEAKER_09]: a healthy connection.
[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm surprised I hear like reciprocation.
[00:20:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Okay,
[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_09]: cool.
[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_09]: Let's start there.
[00:20:57] [SPEAKER_09]: Let's start with reciprocation.
[00:21:00] [SPEAKER_09]: Do you feel like what you require,
[00:21:02] [SPEAKER_09]: you always need?
[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_09]: No.
[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_09]: I mean,
[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_09]: what they require,
[00:21:05] [SPEAKER_09]: require you always need?
[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_09]: No.
[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_09]: So how do you reciprocate?
[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_09]: What,
[00:21:08] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_09]: how do you identify true reciprocation in a,
[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_09]: in a two way street?
[00:21:16] [SPEAKER_07]: You have to understand.
[00:21:16] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm gonna do the best I can,
[00:21:18] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:21:19] [SPEAKER_09]: What if your best is nothing?
[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_09]: Literally nothing.
[00:21:21] [SPEAKER_09]: I got nothing for you,
[00:21:22] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:21:22] [SPEAKER_07]: I got no more.
[00:21:23] [SPEAKER_07]: I can't,
[00:21:23] [SPEAKER_07]: I can't always have nothing for you though.
[00:21:25] [SPEAKER_07]: That's crazy.
[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_07]: That is crazy.
[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_09]: Yo,
[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_09]: All right.
[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_09]: So like Coach O was saying at that time when like his pops was in the hospital and God,
[00:21:33] [SPEAKER_09]: thank God he's okay.
[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_09]: Right.
[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_09]: He didn't have nothing for nobody,
[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_09]: So it's kind of like,
[00:21:39] [SPEAKER_09]: you can't be that demanding.
[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_09]: Right.
[00:21:42] [SPEAKER_07]: But he's not like that all the time though.
[00:21:44] [SPEAKER_09]: True.
[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_09]: But God forbid,
[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_09]: well,
[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_09]: he's doing well.
[00:21:49] [SPEAKER_09]: What if that was Coach O's last time seeing his dad?
[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_09]: Who knows when he'll be okay.
[00:21:54] [SPEAKER_09]: With the Coach O we got now.
[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.
[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Right.
[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_09]: So it's kind of like,
[00:21:58] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:21:59] [SPEAKER_09]: when life be life it for people and granted,
[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_09]: like he said,
[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_09]: he didn't publicly say his dad was going through it.
[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_09]: You know,
[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_09]: he wasn't soliciting prayers and shit like that.
[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_09]: So.
[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Only the close friends.
[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to my close friends.
[00:22:12] [SPEAKER_09]: You,
[00:22:12] [SPEAKER_09]: you,
[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_09]: you wouldn't generally know what a person's going through.
[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_09]: So for me,
[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_09]: it's like,
[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't be taking things personal.
[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_09]: That's why when she said what she said in the message about,
[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_09]: um,
[00:22:26] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:22:26] [SPEAKER_09]: that she felt like this friendship has become one-sided because she was
[00:22:29] [SPEAKER_09]: constantly reaching out.
[00:22:32] [SPEAKER_09]: And I ain't take it personal.
[00:22:34] [SPEAKER_09]: Her feelings are validated if that's how she feel.
[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_09]: And if that's,
[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_09]: cause I told her to do what's best for you.
[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_09]: Like if you feel like,
[00:22:41] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:22:41] [SPEAKER_09]: you no longer want to reach out because this friendship has become one-sided for
[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_09]: you.
[00:22:46] [SPEAKER_09]: I respect that.
[00:22:47] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm not gonna argue with that.
[00:22:48] [SPEAKER_09]: But for you to say the only,
[00:22:49] [SPEAKER_09]: like I said,
[00:22:50] [SPEAKER_09]: the only thing that kind of,
[00:22:51] [SPEAKER_09]: the only thing that I rebutted was like,
[00:22:54] [SPEAKER_09]: um,
[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_09]: you the only one who check on me.
[00:22:57] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:22:58] [SPEAKER_09]: that's kind of bold.
[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_09]: don't,
[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_09]: don't get too crazy.
[00:23:01] [SPEAKER_09]: Don't be so full of yourself that you think,
[00:23:03] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm the only friend.
[00:23:05] [SPEAKER_09]: Why do you have to go that far?
[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_09]: You're the only friend that I have that's concerned about me.
[00:23:09] [SPEAKER_09]: You know,
[00:23:10] [SPEAKER_09]: you ever saw that message where,
[00:23:12] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:23:13] [SPEAKER_09]: this girl was going off on this nigga.
[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_09]: And she was like,
[00:23:17] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:23:18] [SPEAKER_09]: job habits,
[00:23:19] [SPEAKER_09]: small dick,
[00:23:20] [SPEAKER_09]: ugly,
[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_09]: damn.
[00:23:22] [SPEAKER_09]: Broke motherfucker.
[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_09]: And his only response was broke.
[00:23:27] [SPEAKER_09]: Niggas said everything else.
[00:23:28] [SPEAKER_09]: He said,
[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_07]: hold on now.
[00:23:30] [SPEAKER_07]: She was like,
[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_07]: we're broke.
[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_09]: That's how I felt.
[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_09]: go over.
[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause that's not subjective though.
[00:23:37] [SPEAKER_01]: That's the only thing that's not subjective in that whole shit,
[00:23:39] [SPEAKER_01]: bro.
[00:23:39] [SPEAKER_09]: So now you're talking,
[00:23:42] [SPEAKER_09]: now you're talking about,
[00:23:44] [SPEAKER_09]: um,
[00:23:45] [SPEAKER_09]: how you're the only person who check in on me.
[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_09]: That's just not true.
[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_09]: And,
[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_09]: and at the,
[00:23:50] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:23:52] [SPEAKER_09]: I kind of,
[00:23:53] [SPEAKER_09]: I kind of get it,
[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_09]: you know?
[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause I,
[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_09]: I felt like I've been in one sided friendships where I'm giving more,
[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_09]: but when you really take yourself out of the picture,
[00:24:04] [SPEAKER_09]: I mean,
[00:24:05] [SPEAKER_09]: out of the like,
[00:24:05] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:24:06] [SPEAKER_09]: take yourself out of it.
[00:24:07] [SPEAKER_09]: And you realize maybe they don't have much to give.
[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_09]: So that could be it too.
[00:24:12] [SPEAKER_09]: I got it.
[00:24:13] [SPEAKER_09]: So there are days where you don't feel like talking.
[00:24:15] [SPEAKER_09]: And I naturally know that I could tell we're in four different group chats.
[00:24:19] [SPEAKER_09]: You haven't spoken all week.
[00:24:21] [SPEAKER_09]: So I'm like,
[00:24:21] [SPEAKER_09]: Don is not present.
[00:24:23] [SPEAKER_09]: He's not present.
[00:24:24] [SPEAKER_09]: It doesn't sit there.
[00:24:25] [SPEAKER_09]: Then to be like,
[00:24:26] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:24:26] [SPEAKER_09]: Don,
[00:24:26] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't feel like you,
[00:24:27] [SPEAKER_09]: you vote.
[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_09]: How do you take that person away?
[00:24:30] [SPEAKER_09]: It's collectively,
[00:24:31] [SPEAKER_03]: it's like,
[00:24:32] [SPEAKER_03]: it's 11,
[00:24:32] [SPEAKER_03]: 12 different people that he's not speaking to.
[00:24:35] [SPEAKER_03]: And it's crazy.
[00:24:36] [SPEAKER_07]: We just talked about this shit the other day.
[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_07]: It makes it even more funny.
[00:24:39] [SPEAKER_07]: We talked about how we don't text Kojo on a certain day.
[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh yeah.
[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_07]: I literally wrote Kojo.
[00:24:44] [SPEAKER_09]: I leave Kojo alone on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
[00:24:47] [SPEAKER_07]: I wrote Kojo at like in the morning.
[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_07]: That was like,
[00:24:51] [SPEAKER_07]: me text Kojo.
[00:24:52] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:24:52] [SPEAKER_07]: I love you,
[00:24:52] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:24:53] [SPEAKER_07]: And I said something else.
[00:24:54] [SPEAKER_07]: I told him something about a protein.
[00:24:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Some protein yogurt.
[00:24:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:24:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I looked at it days later.
[00:24:57] [SPEAKER_03]: And then,
[00:24:58] [SPEAKER_07]: then I wrote Sha too.
[00:25:00] [SPEAKER_07]: Sha's gonna reply.
[00:25:01] [SPEAKER_07]: But I looked at Kojo and nigga,
[00:25:02] [SPEAKER_07]: liked the fucking yogurt message.
[00:25:04] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:25:04] [SPEAKER_07]: you motherfucker.
[00:25:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Then I told you about it.
[00:25:06] [SPEAKER_09]: But the first thing I asked him what day of the week was it?
[00:25:08] [SPEAKER_09]: I looked at that.
[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_09]: it was.
[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_07]: okay.
[00:25:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo,
[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_03]: man,
[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_03]: y'all nigga dopey,
[00:25:12] [SPEAKER_03]: man.
[00:25:12] [SPEAKER_03]: After six o'clock.
[00:25:13] [SPEAKER_03]: That's when I text Kojo on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
[00:25:15] [SPEAKER_03]: When I decompressed a little bit.
[00:25:17] [SPEAKER_03]: But I was going to ask,
[00:25:18] [SPEAKER_03]: right?
[00:25:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Based off the message from that person.
[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.
[00:25:22] [SPEAKER_03]: What if it then creates a feeling in you to be like,
[00:25:27] [SPEAKER_03]: all right,
[00:25:27] [SPEAKER_03]: let me,
[00:25:27] [SPEAKER_03]: let me now reach out to this person more or whatever.
[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Should they be receptive to that?
[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Or is there,
[00:25:34] [SPEAKER_03]: because they're feeling,
[00:25:34] [SPEAKER_03]: they have,
[00:25:35] [SPEAKER_03]: they have established their feelings,
[00:25:36] [SPEAKER_03]: how they feel like it's one sided and you decide to do something about it.
[00:25:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Is it no,
[00:25:39] [SPEAKER_03]: is it no longer valid?
[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_03]: She didn't leave room for that.
[00:25:42] [SPEAKER_03]: She already.
[00:25:43] [SPEAKER_03]: So she just picked a side.
[00:25:44] [SPEAKER_03]: She said,
[00:25:44] [SPEAKER_03]: well,
[00:25:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm saying this and this is it.
[00:25:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:25:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't do anything about it.
[00:25:47] [SPEAKER_09]: No,
[00:25:48] [SPEAKER_09]: no.
[00:25:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause you could have said,
[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_09]: it would have been nice if to hear from you more,
[00:25:54] [SPEAKER_09]: or you kind of let it be known that you're done with the friendship.
[00:25:59] [SPEAKER_09]: Now,
[00:26:01] [SPEAKER_09]: here's where I,
[00:26:02] [SPEAKER_09]: here's where the ball is in my court.
[00:26:04] [SPEAKER_09]: Right.
[00:26:05] [SPEAKER_09]: I could have fought harder for the friendship.
[00:26:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Why not though?
[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_07]: Why not?
[00:26:09] [SPEAKER_09]: It is what it is,
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I mean,
[00:26:12] [SPEAKER_07]: it goes back to the tweet I even made the other day.
[00:26:13] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't really care if anybody stays or leaves at this point.
[00:26:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:26:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Like that's,
[00:26:17] [SPEAKER_07]: that's funny that you were talking about that.
[00:26:19] [SPEAKER_07]: And I wrote that shit last night.
[00:26:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:26:21] [SPEAKER_07]: yeah,
[00:26:21] [SPEAKER_09]: it's,
[00:26:22] [SPEAKER_09]: it is what it is,
[00:26:23] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:26:23] [SPEAKER_09]: It's,
[00:26:23] [SPEAKER_09]: it's not personal.
[00:26:24] [SPEAKER_07]: Like that Mount Rushmore or fucking,
[00:26:28] [SPEAKER_07]: it is what it is.
[00:26:29] [SPEAKER_07]: It's real shit.
[00:26:29] [SPEAKER_07]: That's a pretty picture too.
[00:26:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Ball up top.
[00:26:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Ball up top.
[00:26:33] [SPEAKER_03]: How do you,
[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_03]: how do you,
[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_03]: how do you figure out which friendship is worth that?
[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Cause I,
[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't imagine if I sat there and said it to you,
[00:26:41] [SPEAKER_03]: be like,
[00:26:42] [SPEAKER_03]: it is what it is.
[00:26:43] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't imagine that dog came to you like,
[00:26:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Hey,
[00:26:46] [SPEAKER_03]: nigger.
[00:26:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Here's,
[00:26:48] [SPEAKER_09]: here's what I would say.
[00:26:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Uh,
[00:26:51] [SPEAKER_09]: it's crazy.
[00:26:52] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't want it to sound like this,
[00:26:54] [SPEAKER_09]: but I can't find another way to fluff it.
[00:26:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Does it serve me?
[00:26:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Does that friendship serve you?
[00:27:02] [SPEAKER_09]: Like after a while you realize you cool with people because of the longevity,
[00:27:06] [SPEAKER_09]: but does the friendship really serve me?
[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_09]: are we,
[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_09]: do you,
[00:27:10] [SPEAKER_09]: do I still feel poured into when we speak,
[00:27:14] [SPEAKER_09]: when we hang out,
[00:27:15] [SPEAKER_09]: when we,
[00:27:16] [SPEAKER_09]: when we,
[00:27:17] [SPEAKER_09]: the things we talk about?
[00:27:19] [SPEAKER_09]: If not,
[00:27:20] [SPEAKER_09]: then you know it ran its course,
[00:27:22] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay.
[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Now friendships running their course is,
[00:27:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I guess normal.
[00:27:26] [SPEAKER_03]: It's,
[00:27:26] [SPEAKER_03]: it's consistent.
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_03]: It happens.
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_03]: We get older,
[00:27:28] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:27:28] [SPEAKER_03]: my friends that I've had in elementary school,
[00:27:31] [SPEAKER_03]: they're not saying things.
[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean,
[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_03]: but does that mean that there had to be animosity there?
[00:27:36] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause you know what's funny?
[00:27:40] [SPEAKER_09]: The,
[00:27:40] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:27:41] [SPEAKER_09]: the,
[00:27:41] [SPEAKER_09]: the,
[00:27:41] [SPEAKER_09]: the,
[00:27:41] [SPEAKER_09]: the last thing she said is no beef.
[00:27:44] [SPEAKER_09]: I just peaked the one sided part and I called out and I said,
[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_09]: okay.
[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_09]: No beef.
[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_09]: All right.
[00:27:48] [SPEAKER_09]: So that means,
[00:27:49] [SPEAKER_03]: LA.
[00:27:50] [SPEAKER_03]: So that means there is space and opportunity for,
[00:27:55] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah,
[00:27:55] [SPEAKER_03]: but that's,
[00:27:55] [SPEAKER_03]: you just don't care.
[00:27:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_03]: You don't care.
[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah,
[00:27:58] [SPEAKER_09]: not really.
[00:27:59] [SPEAKER_09]: So in a sense,
[00:28:00] [SPEAKER_07]: it's shorty wrong.
[00:28:02] [SPEAKER_07]: But my,
[00:28:02] [SPEAKER_07]: but my thing is though,
[00:28:04] [SPEAKER_07]: my thing is though,
[00:28:06] [SPEAKER_07]: if you had the time to text us,
[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_07]: why can't you tell,
[00:28:09] [SPEAKER_07]: why couldn't you text her back?
[00:28:10] [SPEAKER_06]: Huh?
[00:28:10] [SPEAKER_07]: If you had the time to text us during the,
[00:28:12] [SPEAKER_07]: during when you,
[00:28:13] [SPEAKER_07]: whenever you fly and why couldn't you text her back?
[00:28:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Whenever she called.
[00:28:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:28:17] [SPEAKER_03]: that's what I'm saying.
[00:28:17] [SPEAKER_03]: She might be right.
[00:28:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo,
[00:28:19] [SPEAKER_03]: bro,
[00:28:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I will be on the cart.
[00:28:22] [SPEAKER_03]: He getting phone calls though.
[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_03]: He said,
[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah.
[00:28:24] [SPEAKER_09]: And you calling me.
[00:28:26] [SPEAKER_09]: And it's like,
[00:28:27] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:28:27] [SPEAKER_09]: you are,
[00:28:28] [SPEAKER_09]: you know what the crazy thing about it?
[00:28:30] [SPEAKER_09]: She is in the same field.
[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_09]: so you know what my day to day is like.
[00:28:36] [SPEAKER_09]: You calling me 12 o'clock on a Thursday,
[00:28:39] [SPEAKER_09]: nine times out of 10,
[00:28:40] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm at work.
[00:28:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Hold on.
[00:28:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Is this?
[00:28:42] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:28:43] [SPEAKER_09]: Wait,
[00:28:44] [SPEAKER_09]: now say the name.
[00:28:45] Yeah.
[00:28:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I figured that.
[00:28:47] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know why I figured that.
[00:28:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:28:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn,
[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_03]: bro.
[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_09]: You,
[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_09]: you in the same field.
[00:28:52] [SPEAKER_03]: She a vet too.
[00:28:53] [SPEAKER_03]: She figured it out.
[00:28:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Wow.
[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I go damn,
[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_03]: huh nigga.
[00:28:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Wow.
[00:28:57] [SPEAKER_09]: So it's kind of like,
[00:28:58] [SPEAKER_09]: it's like,
[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_09]: come on bro.
[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:29:00] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:29:00] [SPEAKER_09]: you know what's up at this point.
[00:29:02] [SPEAKER_09]: And,
[00:29:02] [SPEAKER_09]: and when she,
[00:29:04] [SPEAKER_09]: when she would,
[00:29:05] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:29:06] [SPEAKER_09]: Lola,
[00:29:06] [SPEAKER_09]: let me tell you.
[00:29:07] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what?
[00:29:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Whatever.
[00:29:09] [SPEAKER_09]: When she called me,
[00:29:10] [SPEAKER_09]: when she would call me,
[00:29:11] [SPEAKER_09]: it'd be like,
[00:29:12] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:29:13] [SPEAKER_09]: I'd be like,
[00:29:14] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm flying.
[00:29:15] [SPEAKER_09]: Or,
[00:29:15] [SPEAKER_09]: I'd be in the sky.
[00:29:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Or,
[00:29:17] [SPEAKER_09]: I would send her a picture.
[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_09]: Or clouds.
[00:29:20] [SPEAKER_09]: Of me in my,
[00:29:21] [SPEAKER_09]: me in my jump seat,
[00:29:22] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:29:23] [SPEAKER_09]: working.
[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:29:25] [SPEAKER_07]: My thing is though,
[00:29:26] [SPEAKER_07]: how do you feel about
[00:29:28] [SPEAKER_07]: people that
[00:29:29] [SPEAKER_07]: you always have an ear for them,
[00:29:31] [SPEAKER_07]: but they don't have an ear for you?
[00:29:35] [SPEAKER_09]: She can never say that in this situation.
[00:29:38] [SPEAKER_09]: She probably will.
[00:29:38] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause I've,
[00:29:39] [SPEAKER_09]: I've been in the car,
[00:29:41] [SPEAKER_09]: I've been in the car
[00:29:41] [SPEAKER_09]: when niggas is calling you.
[00:29:43] [SPEAKER_09]: And you hear what they did to,
[00:29:44] [SPEAKER_09]: yo bro,
[00:29:45] [SPEAKER_09]: and that's what I'm saying,
[00:29:46] [SPEAKER_09]: sometimes I just don't got it in me,
[00:29:49] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:29:49] [SPEAKER_07]: I hear you though.
[00:29:50] [SPEAKER_07]: I hear you though.
[00:29:50] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't got it in me,
[00:29:51] [SPEAKER_07]: Certain people calling you,
[00:29:52] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like,
[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_07]: my nigga,
[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_07]: I know this is not gonna be,
[00:29:54] [SPEAKER_07]: this is not gonna do it.
[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Not today,
[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_09]: exactly.
[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_09]: It's just like,
[00:29:57] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:29:57] [SPEAKER_09]: bro,
[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_09]: after a long day of flying,
[00:29:59] [SPEAKER_09]: working three flights,
[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't,
[00:30:01] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't want to hear nothing.
[00:30:16] [SPEAKER_09]: Yo,
[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_09]: first of all,
[00:30:18] [SPEAKER_07]: Now on that couch,
[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm going straight in that bed,
[00:30:22] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:30:22] [SPEAKER_09]: You don't want no drill stains on your shit.
[00:30:24] [SPEAKER_09]: It's no reason,
[00:30:26] [SPEAKER_09]: it's no,
[00:30:27] [SPEAKER_07]: you can't get no stains on that shit though.
[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_07]: It's no reason,
[00:30:30] [SPEAKER_09]: No stains LA.
[00:30:32] [SPEAKER_09]: not in that couch.
[00:30:34] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah.
[00:30:34] [SPEAKER_09]: But,
[00:30:36] [SPEAKER_09]: there's no reason for me to hit anything,
[00:30:38] [SPEAKER_09]: but my bed,
[00:30:39] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:30:40] [SPEAKER_07]: But my thing is though,
[00:30:42] [SPEAKER_07]: for kendallin' friendships,
[00:30:44] [SPEAKER_07]: how y'all feel about that?
[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_07]: If they didn't end up on,
[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_07]: I mean,
[00:30:47] [SPEAKER_09]: if we get into a different space in life,
[00:30:49] [SPEAKER_09]: you know what I'm saying?
[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_09]: There's,
[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_09]: there's people that I've been,
[00:30:52] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:30:53] [SPEAKER_09]: we had a falling off,
[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_09]: and it wasn't no,
[00:30:56] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:30:57] [SPEAKER_09]: beef or anything,
[00:30:58] [SPEAKER_09]: and then we both get into different spaces,
[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_09]: and then,
[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:31:02] [SPEAKER_09]: you know?
[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_09]: It's kind of like,
[00:31:04] [SPEAKER_09]: certain,
[00:31:04] [SPEAKER_09]: certain,
[00:31:05] [SPEAKER_09]: things you,
[00:31:05] [SPEAKER_09]: you,
[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_09]: you don't use,
[00:31:07] [SPEAKER_09]: right away,
[00:31:08] [SPEAKER_09]: or you wait,
[00:31:09] [SPEAKER_09]: it goes,
[00:31:09] [SPEAKER_09]: it spoils.
[00:31:11] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_09]: You can't keep milk in the fridge forever.
[00:31:13] [SPEAKER_09]: You can't keep,
[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_09]: shit,
[00:31:15] [SPEAKER_09]: you see fruits these days,
[00:31:16] [SPEAKER_09]: you don't eat your strawberries,
[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_09]: right away,
[00:31:18] [SPEAKER_09]: that shit growing gray hair.
[00:31:20] [SPEAKER_09]: You gotta,
[00:31:20] [SPEAKER_09]: throw them shits out.
[00:31:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Based on what Don said,
[00:31:26] [SPEAKER_03]: I,
[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_03]: this,
[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_03]: for me,
[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't really have much experience,
[00:31:30] [SPEAKER_03]: rekindling friendships,
[00:31:31] [SPEAKER_03]: because,
[00:31:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I always say this,
[00:31:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I really don't have,
[00:31:37] [SPEAKER_03]: many issues.
[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't walk around the streets with my head on a swivel,
[00:31:40] [SPEAKER_03]: like,
[00:31:40] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't got no beef.
[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_03]: it's not many people that I can say have,
[00:31:43] [SPEAKER_03]: like,
[00:31:44] [SPEAKER_03]: have clear and,
[00:31:45] [SPEAKER_03]: clear issues with me that are made present,
[00:31:47] [SPEAKER_03]: where I be like,
[00:31:48] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[00:31:48] [SPEAKER_03]: we can't,
[00:31:48] [SPEAKER_03]: we can't go here because of this,
[00:31:50] [SPEAKER_03]: or,
[00:31:50] [SPEAKER_03]: this person here,
[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't,
[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't fuck with them.
[00:31:52] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't really have that.
[00:31:53] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:31:53] [SPEAKER_03]: rekindling,
[00:31:54] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think there's much for me to rekindle.
[00:31:56] [SPEAKER_03]: There are friendships that I feel like,
[00:31:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I haven't poured into for a minute,
[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_03]: and I would hope that there is no,
[00:32:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll say this,
[00:32:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I was,
[00:32:05] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:32:06] [SPEAKER_03]: a couple weeks ago,
[00:32:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I was doing the Max Games,
[00:32:08] [SPEAKER_03]: um,
[00:32:09] [SPEAKER_03]: for Culture Con.
[00:32:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Because of that smoke?
[00:32:12] [SPEAKER_07]: We came in second place.
[00:32:14] [SPEAKER_03]: We came in second place.
[00:32:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I was the first person to lose.
[00:32:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Who,
[00:32:17] [SPEAKER_07]: who,
[00:32:17] [SPEAKER_07]: who came in first?
[00:32:18] [SPEAKER_03]: The white team?
[00:32:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Team white.
[00:32:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Ray Monte,
[00:32:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Ray Monte and them.
[00:32:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't gonna say that,
[00:32:21] [SPEAKER_03]: yo.
[00:32:22] [SPEAKER_03]: Ray Monte.
[00:32:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Hey,
[00:32:25] [SPEAKER_01]: listen,
[00:32:26] [SPEAKER_01]: we knew,
[00:32:27] [SPEAKER_01]: we knew,
[00:32:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll say this,
[00:32:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't care,
[00:32:29] [SPEAKER_01]: we knew.
[00:32:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to them,
[00:32:30] [SPEAKER_03]: shout out to them people.
[00:32:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to my queer homies.
[00:32:32] [SPEAKER_03]: We knew,
[00:32:34] [SPEAKER_03]: we knew.
[00:32:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't gonna fuck.
[00:32:36] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not gonna lie,
[00:32:36] [SPEAKER_07]: these niggas are still men.
[00:32:38] [SPEAKER_07]: They still men.
[00:32:39] [SPEAKER_07]: We knew,
[00:32:39] [SPEAKER_03]: but we knew,
[00:32:40] [SPEAKER_03]: socially,
[00:32:41] [SPEAKER_03]: we,
[00:32:42] [SPEAKER_03]: us five men,
[00:32:43] [SPEAKER_03]: couldn't lose against those five men,
[00:32:44] [SPEAKER_03]: because we would've had a long day.
[00:32:45] [SPEAKER_03]: I would've been like,
[00:32:46] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[00:32:46] [SPEAKER_03]: how y'all lose to the gay guys?
[00:32:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Them niggas is strong.
[00:32:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas still strong.
[00:32:49] [SPEAKER_03]: They won the whole shit.
[00:32:50] [SPEAKER_03]: They got,
[00:32:50] [SPEAKER_03]: they black,
[00:32:51] [SPEAKER_03]: they gotta fight back.
[00:32:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:32:51] [SPEAKER_03]: exactly.
[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_03]: So shout out to them.
[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_03]: But,
[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_03]: at that event,
[00:32:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I had seen a friend.
[00:32:56] [SPEAKER_03]: That show's still funny to watch though.
[00:32:57] [SPEAKER_03]: I had seen a friend.
[00:32:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I know that's wrong.
[00:32:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Keep the camera on me.
[00:33:00] [SPEAKER_01]: I know that's wrong.
[00:33:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:33:02] [SPEAKER_01]: that did y'all thing though.
[00:33:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck it.
[00:33:04] [SPEAKER_01]: LA,
[00:33:04] [SPEAKER_03]: when you were editing,
[00:33:05] [SPEAKER_01]: keep the camera on me,
[00:33:05] [SPEAKER_03]: right?
[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_03]: But look,
[00:33:07] [SPEAKER_03]: look,
[00:33:07] [SPEAKER_03]: so,
[00:33:08] [SPEAKER_03]: at that event,
[00:33:09] [SPEAKER_03]: a friend of mine,
[00:33:10] [SPEAKER_03]: who I'm still ever,
[00:33:11] [SPEAKER_03]: always gonna consider a friend,
[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_03]: at this very record,
[00:33:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I haven't spoken to her,
[00:33:15] [SPEAKER_03]: but I will,
[00:33:15] [SPEAKER_03]: she came to the event,
[00:33:16] [SPEAKER_03]: and at that point,
[00:33:17] [SPEAKER_03]: we and her hadn't spoken
[00:33:18] [SPEAKER_03]: in about a year.
[00:33:21] [SPEAKER_03]: She had an issue
[00:33:22] [SPEAKER_03]: with something that I had done,
[00:33:23] [SPEAKER_03]: and I tried,
[00:33:24] [SPEAKER_03]: and I apologize for that issue
[00:33:25] [SPEAKER_03]: in the time being,
[00:33:26] [SPEAKER_03]: but I feel like,
[00:33:28] [SPEAKER_03]: since my apology,
[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I think I know who you're talking about.
[00:33:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Her and I haven't spoken.
[00:33:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Wreck-a-label.
[00:33:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:33:33] [SPEAKER_03]: that's my dog,
[00:33:34] [SPEAKER_03]: that's my dog.
[00:33:35] [SPEAKER_03]: And she,
[00:33:36] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:33:37] [SPEAKER_03]: we hadn't spoken,
[00:33:38] [SPEAKER_03]: and I was like,
[00:33:39] [SPEAKER_03]: all right,
[00:33:39] [SPEAKER_03]: it was eating me up a little bit,
[00:33:40] [SPEAKER_03]: because this is somebody
[00:33:41] [SPEAKER_03]: I've considered a really,
[00:33:42] [SPEAKER_03]: really dear friend,
[00:33:43] [SPEAKER_03]: and I still do.
[00:33:45] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:33:45] [SPEAKER_03]: I saw her,
[00:33:47] [SPEAKER_03]: and,
[00:33:47] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:33:48] [SPEAKER_03]: the greeting was regular,
[00:33:50] [SPEAKER_03]: it felt regular,
[00:33:51] [SPEAKER_03]: it was,
[00:33:51] [SPEAKER_03]: she smiled when I saw her,
[00:33:52] [SPEAKER_03]: I smiled when I saw her,
[00:33:53] [SPEAKER_03]: we waved to her,
[00:33:53] [SPEAKER_03]: gave a hug,
[00:33:54] [SPEAKER_03]: and it was good.
[00:33:56] [SPEAKER_03]: And in my head,
[00:33:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I said,
[00:33:57] [SPEAKER_03]: all right,
[00:33:57] [SPEAKER_03]: that's enough for me to know that,
[00:34:00] [SPEAKER_03]: if I reach out,
[00:34:02] [SPEAKER_03]: we can still,
[00:34:03] [SPEAKER_03]: rekindle our friendship.
[00:34:05] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:34:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Because it's still something that I want.
[00:34:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:34:07] [SPEAKER_03]: it's still,
[00:34:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't have an issue with her,
[00:34:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I hope she doesn't have an issue with me,
[00:34:11] [SPEAKER_03]: and based off of what I did,
[00:34:12] [SPEAKER_03]: that bothered her.
[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I think it's worth it.
[00:34:14] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:34:15] [SPEAKER_03]: And maybe we might not be as close,
[00:34:17] [SPEAKER_03]: like we were before,
[00:34:18] [SPEAKER_03]: but at least I know that,
[00:34:20] [SPEAKER_03]: if I wanted to reach out,
[00:34:21] [SPEAKER_03]: or I wanted to send her a funny video,
[00:34:23] [SPEAKER_03]: or something like that,
[00:34:23] [SPEAKER_03]: if I wanted to congratulate her,
[00:34:25] [SPEAKER_03]: or something,
[00:34:25] [SPEAKER_03]: and I could,
[00:34:25] [SPEAKER_03]: and it wouldn't be an issue.
[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_03]: that's how I feel about rekindling stuff.
[00:34:30] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:34:31] [SPEAKER_09]: we got to that.
[00:34:32] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:34:32] [SPEAKER_09]: that's kind of,
[00:34:33] [SPEAKER_09]: I guess,
[00:34:34] [SPEAKER_09]: building a healthy connection,
[00:34:35] [SPEAKER_09]: right?
[00:34:37] [SPEAKER_09]: How do you navigate the imbalances of,
[00:34:41] [SPEAKER_09]: I guess,
[00:34:41] [SPEAKER_09]: a one-sided friendship?
[00:34:44] [SPEAKER_09]: How do I navigate them?
[00:34:46] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:34:47] [SPEAKER_07]: How am I navigating?
[00:34:48] [SPEAKER_09]: I just feel like,
[00:34:50] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't put too much expectations on,
[00:34:55] [SPEAKER_09]: said person.
[00:34:56] [SPEAKER_09]: Now,
[00:34:56] [SPEAKER_09]: you can restart it.
[00:34:57] [SPEAKER_09]: You might as well restart it.
[00:34:58] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't put too much expectations.
[00:35:00] [SPEAKER_09]: Once I realize,
[00:35:01] [SPEAKER_09]: this is an imbalance,
[00:35:03] [SPEAKER_09]: I either take it off the scale,
[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_09]: or pull back a little.
[00:35:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Like I said,
[00:35:07] [SPEAKER_07]: you know who you're dealing with.
[00:35:09] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:35:09] [SPEAKER_07]: If I know it's going to be a one-way street,
[00:35:11] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like,
[00:35:11] [SPEAKER_07]: all right,
[00:35:11] [SPEAKER_07]: cool.
[00:35:12] [SPEAKER_07]: It's up to me to,
[00:35:14] [SPEAKER_07]: if I'm going to drive down this shit or not,
[00:35:17] [SPEAKER_07]: it's up to me,
[00:35:17] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:35:18] [SPEAKER_07]: Go down a different block,
[00:35:19] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:35:19] [SPEAKER_07]: Like,
[00:35:20] [SPEAKER_07]: if I'm going to fuck with you,
[00:35:21] [SPEAKER_07]: if I'm not going to fuck with you.
[00:35:23] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't really see myself,
[00:35:25] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't expect myself out of somebody else.
[00:35:27] [SPEAKER_07]: If I'm doing all of the checking on you,
[00:35:29] [SPEAKER_07]: doing all of this shit,
[00:35:30] [SPEAKER_07]: you don't have to.
[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah,
[00:35:32] [SPEAKER_09]: I just,
[00:35:32] [SPEAKER_09]: you just stop.
[00:35:33] [SPEAKER_09]: For me,
[00:35:34] [SPEAKER_09]: I just personally stop.
[00:35:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:35:35] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like,
[00:35:36] [SPEAKER_07]: all right.
[00:35:36] [SPEAKER_07]: I know it's a one-way street.
[00:35:37] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not going to complain to you.
[00:35:37] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:35:38] [SPEAKER_07]: all right,
[00:35:38] [SPEAKER_07]: cool.
[00:35:40] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:35:40] [SPEAKER_07]: you're going to hit me up and be like,
[00:35:41] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:35:41] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:35:41] [SPEAKER_07]: I know she didn't hit me up in a minute.
[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_07]: My fault.
[00:35:43] [SPEAKER_07]: If you don't,
[00:35:43] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like,
[00:35:44] [SPEAKER_07]: all right.
[00:35:45] [SPEAKER_07]: That's where we stand.
[00:35:46] [SPEAKER_07]: That's where we stand.
[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Fuck,
[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to do,
[00:35:48] [SPEAKER_07]: pout about it.
[00:35:52] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:35:53] [SPEAKER_09]: okay.
[00:35:53] [SPEAKER_09]: What about the,
[00:35:54] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:35:56] [SPEAKER_09]: the emotional impact?
[00:35:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause see,
[00:35:59] [SPEAKER_09]: for me,
[00:36:01] [SPEAKER_09]: in the friendship scale,
[00:36:04] [SPEAKER_09]: it's,
[00:36:05] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't,
[00:36:05] [SPEAKER_09]: I think it probably will way different if it's coming from
[00:36:10] [SPEAKER_09]: a person that I do speak to every day
[00:36:12] [SPEAKER_09]: versus a person where I speak to those,
[00:36:15] [SPEAKER_09]: when I quote unquote,
[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_09]: when I have time to,
[00:36:18] [SPEAKER_09]: or when I'm in the space to.
[00:36:20] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:36:22] [SPEAKER_09]: there are certain friendships where,
[00:36:24] [SPEAKER_09]: where,
[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_09]: oh,
[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_09]: I can put it to you like this way.
[00:36:27] [SPEAKER_09]: My,
[00:36:27] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:36:28] [SPEAKER_09]: there's a friend of mine that I've been cool with since elementary,
[00:36:33] [SPEAKER_09]: no,
[00:36:34] [SPEAKER_09]: middle school,
[00:36:35] [SPEAKER_09]: since my 11th.
[00:36:36] [SPEAKER_09]: And,
[00:36:36] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:36:38] [SPEAKER_09]: this year,
[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_09]: I know he,
[00:36:40] [SPEAKER_09]: he was,
[00:36:40] [SPEAKER_09]: he was entering the,
[00:36:42] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:36:44] [SPEAKER_09]: what's that?
[00:36:44] [SPEAKER_09]: Uh,
[00:36:45] [SPEAKER_09]: the fire department.
[00:36:46] [SPEAKER_09]: And prior to him,
[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_09]: entering the fire department,
[00:36:49] [SPEAKER_09]: every time he came to New York,
[00:36:50] [SPEAKER_09]: we would link,
[00:36:51] [SPEAKER_09]: or I would go check him.
[00:36:53] [SPEAKER_09]: And then after a while,
[00:36:54] [SPEAKER_09]: I realized,
[00:36:55] [SPEAKER_09]: you ever look at a message,
[00:36:56] [SPEAKER_09]: message threader,
[00:36:57] [SPEAKER_09]: you realize you're the only one initiated it?
[00:37:01] [SPEAKER_09]: That was like,
[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_09]: damn,
[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_09]: son,
[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm like,
[00:37:04] [SPEAKER_09]: I,
[00:37:04] [SPEAKER_09]: now I feel like I'm a bomber.
[00:37:06] [SPEAKER_09]: You know,
[00:37:06] [SPEAKER_09]: so,
[00:37:08] [SPEAKER_09]: but that,
[00:37:09] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:37:10] [SPEAKER_09]: at first it was like,
[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:37:15] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm treating me like a bitch or something.
[00:37:17] [SPEAKER_09]: What you doing?
[00:37:17] [SPEAKER_09]: But then,
[00:37:17] [SPEAKER_09]: but then it's like,
[00:37:19] [SPEAKER_09]: man,
[00:37:20] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:37:20] [SPEAKER_09]: life,
[00:37:21] [SPEAKER_09]: as,
[00:37:21] [SPEAKER_09]: I think as we get older,
[00:37:22] [SPEAKER_09]: we understand,
[00:37:23] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:37:23] [SPEAKER_09]: life is a real thing.
[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_09]: He's a father.
[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_07]: I think that's what it is.
[00:37:27] [SPEAKER_07]: Like,
[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_07]: people with kids,
[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_07]: they'd be like,
[00:37:29] [SPEAKER_07]: all right,
[00:37:29] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:37:30] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah,
[00:37:31] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah,
[00:37:32] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah.
[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_07]: I have a friend,
[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_07]: um,
[00:37:34] [SPEAKER_07]: my son,
[00:37:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Kenneth,
[00:37:34] [SPEAKER_07]: um,
[00:37:35] [SPEAKER_07]: I think you've met Kenneth before.
[00:37:36] [SPEAKER_07]: He usually writes on a YouTube page,
[00:37:38] [SPEAKER_07]: Kenny Doley,
[00:37:39] [SPEAKER_07]: whatever fuck his Instagram is,
[00:37:40] [SPEAKER_07]: YouTube is.
[00:37:41] [SPEAKER_07]: I hit him up so much,
[00:37:42] [SPEAKER_07]: and I know somebody,
[00:37:43] [SPEAKER_07]: damn,
[00:37:44] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:37:44] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm writing you more than you write me,
[00:37:45] [SPEAKER_07]: but I'm like,
[00:37:45] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:37:46] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:37:47] [SPEAKER_07]: you like,
[00:37:48] [SPEAKER_07]: two years old,
[00:37:49] [SPEAKER_07]: a year older than me?
[00:37:50] [SPEAKER_07]: He got like four kids.
[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_07]: hey,
[00:37:52] [SPEAKER_07]: fuckish.
[00:37:54] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:37:55] [SPEAKER_07]: shout out to my man,
[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Kenneth,
[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_07]: I know he watching.
[00:37:57] [SPEAKER_07]: Shout out,
[00:37:57] [SPEAKER_07]: love you,
[00:37:58] [SPEAKER_07]: my brother.
[00:37:58] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:37:59] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:37:59] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:38:01] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:38:01] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll hit him up.
[00:38:03] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll hit him up.
[00:38:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll hit him up Monday,
[00:38:06] [SPEAKER_07]: hit him up Tuesday,
[00:38:06] [SPEAKER_07]: hit him up Wednesday,
[00:38:06] [SPEAKER_07]: hit him Thursday,
[00:38:07] [SPEAKER_07]: hit him up Friday.
[00:38:09] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:38:09] [SPEAKER_07]: I ain't gonna hit you up next week.
[00:38:10] [SPEAKER_07]: Then he'll hit me up Monday,
[00:38:11] [SPEAKER_07]: like,
[00:38:11] [SPEAKER_07]: don't be in the gym.
[00:38:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:38:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll,
[00:38:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll bet.
[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_07]: So it's like,
[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_07]: you gotta know what you're doing.
[00:38:16] [SPEAKER_07]: So with the,
[00:38:16] [SPEAKER_09]: with the imbalances,
[00:38:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I think you just wait till people come around.
[00:38:21] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:38:21] [SPEAKER_07]: everybody has their own shit going on.
[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Everybody,
[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_09]: I pull they weight.
[00:38:23] [SPEAKER_09]: Or you adjust the weight.
[00:38:25] [SPEAKER_09]: if I realize,
[00:38:26] [SPEAKER_09]: shit too heavy.
[00:38:28] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:38:28] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm doing most of the carrying.
[00:38:30] [SPEAKER_09]: I just pull back.
[00:38:31] [SPEAKER_09]: If it's really no smoke,
[00:38:32] [SPEAKER_09]: I just pull back.
[00:38:33] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:38:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:38:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like
[00:38:36] [SPEAKER_03]: if,
[00:38:37] [SPEAKER_03]: if there are any relationships in my life
[00:38:38] [SPEAKER_03]: that I'm always initiating,
[00:38:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I probably don't even notice.
[00:38:41] [SPEAKER_03]: And I don't think it does anything to me.
[00:38:43] [SPEAKER_09]: That's not true.
[00:38:44] [SPEAKER_09]: I can name one right now.
[00:38:46] [SPEAKER_03]: A relationship that I'm always initiating.
[00:38:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Not really initiated,
[00:38:49] [SPEAKER_09]: but if anything,
[00:38:51] [SPEAKER_09]: y'all are not as close as you used to be.
[00:38:53] [SPEAKER_09]: And you just don't take it as personal.
[00:38:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Marcus.
[00:38:56] [SPEAKER_09]: True.
[00:38:57] [SPEAKER_09]: That's my dog.
[00:38:57] [SPEAKER_03]: I had a dream about him.
[00:38:58] [SPEAKER_03]: See?
[00:38:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:38:59] [SPEAKER_07]: You call him?
[00:39:00] [SPEAKER_07]: You text him after that?
[00:39:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I,
[00:39:02] [SPEAKER_03]: that's,
[00:39:03] [SPEAKER_03]: and that's on me.
[00:39:04] [SPEAKER_03]: The minute I said I was,
[00:39:05] [SPEAKER_03]: I got busy and I fucking forgot.
[00:39:06] [SPEAKER_03]: That's easy.
[00:39:07] [SPEAKER_03]: It's life though.
[00:39:07] [SPEAKER_03]: That's life.
[00:39:08] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I'm saying.
[00:39:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, shit beat.
[00:39:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, life beat.
[00:39:10] [SPEAKER_03]: I always got to say,
[00:39:11] [SPEAKER_03]: without Marcus,
[00:39:12] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know none of y'all.
[00:39:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Mm-hmm.
[00:39:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?
[00:39:14] [SPEAKER_03]: True that.
[00:39:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Marcus brought me into
[00:39:16] [SPEAKER_03]: a world
[00:39:18] [SPEAKER_03]: where I've now met
[00:39:19] [SPEAKER_03]: some of my best friends.
[00:39:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro,
[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_03]: you,
[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Don,
[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_03]: you,
[00:39:22] [SPEAKER_03]: Don,
[00:39:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Cheyenne,
[00:39:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Naya,
[00:39:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Birdo.
[00:39:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_03]: y'all follow?
[00:39:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Without Marcus,
[00:39:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't meet y'all.
[00:39:29] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:39:30] [SPEAKER_03]: it's like,
[00:39:31] [SPEAKER_03]: he's a very important part,
[00:39:32] [SPEAKER_03]: part of my life,
[00:39:33] [SPEAKER_03]: and my journey.
[00:39:35] [SPEAKER_03]: And obviously,
[00:39:35] [SPEAKER_03]: he's gone his way.
[00:39:37] [SPEAKER_03]: We've gone our way.
[00:39:38] [SPEAKER_03]: But that's still my dog.
[00:39:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't.
[00:39:40] [SPEAKER_09]: And that,
[00:39:40] [SPEAKER_09]: you know what?
[00:39:41] [SPEAKER_09]: That's important too.
[00:39:42] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:39:44] [SPEAKER_09]: the roles that people play.
[00:39:45] [SPEAKER_09]: It don't ever have to be
[00:39:47] [SPEAKER_09]: forever.
[00:39:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:39:48] [SPEAKER_03]: I would hope that if I hit him,
[00:39:49] [SPEAKER_03]: he's like,
[00:39:50] [SPEAKER_03]: he don't feel like,
[00:39:51] [SPEAKER_03]: oh,
[00:39:51] [SPEAKER_03]: y'all niggas don't talk to me anymore.
[00:39:52] [SPEAKER_03]: But you gotta understand that.
[00:39:54] [SPEAKER_03]: But he can't say that.
[00:39:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:39:54] [SPEAKER_09]: he gotta understand that.
[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah,
[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think he could say that.
[00:39:56] [SPEAKER_03]: He's the one who fell back.
[00:39:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:39:58] [SPEAKER_03]: he really went,
[00:39:58] [SPEAKER_03]: but he's always been that way.
[00:39:59] [SPEAKER_03]: When I started this conversation
[00:40:01] [SPEAKER_03]: about low maintenance,
[00:40:01] [SPEAKER_03]: that was the nigga I was talking about.
[00:40:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Marcus introduced that to me.
[00:40:05] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like,
[00:40:06] [SPEAKER_03]: damn,
[00:40:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Mark,
[00:40:06] [SPEAKER_03]: you're right.
[00:40:07] [SPEAKER_03]: We low maintenance.
[00:40:08] [SPEAKER_03]: We don't need that.
[00:40:10] [SPEAKER_03]: When Mark used to pop up,
[00:40:11] [SPEAKER_03]: we used to be happy,
[00:40:12] [SPEAKER_03]: smiling,
[00:40:12] [SPEAKER_03]: and then he'll go his way.
[00:40:14] [SPEAKER_03]: We go away.
[00:40:14] [SPEAKER_03]: It was like,
[00:40:14] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[00:40:15] [SPEAKER_03]: that's my brother,
[00:40:15] [SPEAKER_03]: always.
[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_03]: But he's the one who introduced that to me.
[00:40:18] [SPEAKER_07]: Even seeing him that day
[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_07]: when we went to that brunch,
[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_07]: I was like,
[00:40:20] [SPEAKER_07]: what the fuck?
[00:40:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I haven't seen this.
[00:40:21] [SPEAKER_07]: I didn't do a great job.
[00:40:21] [SPEAKER_07]: I surprised him.
[00:40:22] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:40:23] [SPEAKER_07]: what the fuck?
[00:40:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I was so happy.
[00:40:24] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:40:24] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:40:35] [SPEAKER_03]: some one-sided shit.
[00:40:36] [SPEAKER_03]: We both haven't said anything
[00:40:37] [SPEAKER_03]: to each other.
[00:40:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know if he's reached out to y'all
[00:40:39] [SPEAKER_03]: or y'all reached out to him.
[00:40:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Same shit.
[00:40:41] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like,
[00:40:42] [SPEAKER_03]: but that's my dog forever.
[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_07]: I check on my low maintenance friends
[00:40:45] [SPEAKER_07]: a lot more,
[00:40:46] [SPEAKER_07]: honestly.
[00:40:47] [SPEAKER_09]: Why is that?
[00:40:49] [SPEAKER_07]: I feel like they just go through shit.
[00:40:51] [SPEAKER_07]: They just love to self-isolate.
[00:40:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Even you, bro.
[00:40:54] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:40:55] [SPEAKER_07]: we in like four group chats.
[00:40:55] [SPEAKER_07]: That's why I usually text you.
[00:40:56] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll probably text you on a Monday.
[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_07]: Like,
[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_07]: you good?
[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_07]: Good morning.
[00:40:59] [SPEAKER_07]: Have a good travel week
[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_07]: or some weird shit.
[00:41:03] [SPEAKER_07]: Niggas don't ask for nothing.
[00:41:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Who's your most high maintenance friend?
[00:41:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Most high maintenance friend?
[00:41:09] [SPEAKER_03]: and we're,
[00:41:10] [SPEAKER_03]: we're going to,
[00:41:10] [SPEAKER_03]: we're probably going to say this
[00:41:11] [SPEAKER_03]: without any,
[00:41:11] [SPEAKER_03]: any,
[00:41:12] [SPEAKER_03]: without being offensive.
[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I just want to know.
[00:41:14] [SPEAKER_03]: High maintenance friend.
[00:41:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Who's our friends that need that?
[00:41:17] [SPEAKER_07]: High,
[00:41:17] [SPEAKER_07]: that need to be checked on?
[00:41:18] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[00:41:19] [SPEAKER_03]: or just need.
[00:41:19] [SPEAKER_07]: Bro,
[00:41:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I feel like we all got the same friend.
[00:41:21] [SPEAKER_03]: That constant reassurance.
[00:41:22] [SPEAKER_07]: We have that one friend, bro.
[00:41:24] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:41:25] [SPEAKER_07]: He called me this week too.
[00:41:26] [SPEAKER_07]: He called me this week too.
[00:41:27] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't got it right now.
[00:41:29] [SPEAKER_07]: Nah.
[00:41:29] [SPEAKER_07]: How about he noticed?
[00:41:31] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:41:31] [SPEAKER_07]: he noticed.
[00:41:31] [SPEAKER_07]: He's like,
[00:41:32] [SPEAKER_07]: are you good,
[00:41:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Don?
[00:41:34] [SPEAKER_09]: that's the thing,
[00:41:35] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:41:35] [SPEAKER_09]: if you call me,
[00:41:36] [SPEAKER_09]: let me say,
[00:41:37] [SPEAKER_09]: let me put this out to all my friends.
[00:41:39] [SPEAKER_09]: If you call me and I don't answer,
[00:41:41] [SPEAKER_09]: text me.
[00:41:41] [SPEAKER_09]: I'll probably get back to you faster.
[00:41:43] [SPEAKER_07]: I have to say one thing,
[00:41:44] [SPEAKER_07]: because I was thinking about this on the car right here,
[00:41:45] [SPEAKER_07]: which is fucking hilarious.
[00:41:47] [SPEAKER_07]: The people that have my location,
[00:41:50] [SPEAKER_07]: if you see that I'm in the gym,
[00:41:51] [SPEAKER_07]: do not call.
[00:41:52] [SPEAKER_07]: My phone's on D&D,
[00:41:53] [SPEAKER_07]: do not call.
[00:41:54] [SPEAKER_07]: If you see me run,
[00:41:55] [SPEAKER_07]: if you see me,
[00:41:56] [SPEAKER_07]: like my location is moving very slow,
[00:41:58] [SPEAKER_07]: that means I'm going to run.
[00:41:59] [SPEAKER_07]: Do not fucking call.
[00:42:01] [SPEAKER_07]: After I'm done,
[00:42:02] [SPEAKER_07]: we can talk.
[00:42:04] [SPEAKER_07]: LA had texted me.
[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I was like,
[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:42:06] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to text LA once I'm done with this walk.
[00:42:09] [SPEAKER_07]: And then he calls,
[00:42:09] [SPEAKER_07]: LA texts me.
[00:42:10] [SPEAKER_07]: He was like,
[00:42:10] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:42:11] [SPEAKER_07]: you sound like,
[00:42:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I sent him an audio message.
[00:42:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like,
[00:42:12] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:42:12] [SPEAKER_07]: he's like,
[00:42:13] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:42:13] [SPEAKER_07]: it sounds like you just finished working out.
[00:42:14] [SPEAKER_07]: I was like,
[00:42:14] [SPEAKER_07]: yeah,
[00:42:15] [SPEAKER_07]: that's where I replied.
[00:42:17] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm the friend.
[00:42:18] [SPEAKER_07]: If you see me on do not disturb,
[00:42:20] [SPEAKER_07]: do not fucking disturb.
[00:42:23] [SPEAKER_07]: I will get to you.
[00:42:24] [SPEAKER_09]: I do have all y'all in my bypass though.
[00:42:31] [SPEAKER_09]: So like if,
[00:42:35] [SPEAKER_09]: so like if you have,
[00:42:36] [SPEAKER_09]: if I have my phone on do not disturb
[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_09]: and y'all call me,
[00:42:39] [SPEAKER_09]: it's going to go through.
[00:42:40] [SPEAKER_09]: Especially Kojo.
[00:42:41] [SPEAKER_09]: Kojo used to complain about that.
[00:42:42] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm fucking calling you.
[00:42:44] [SPEAKER_09]: Him and Kwani.
[00:42:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Kwani's the worst.
[00:42:47] [SPEAKER_09]: Kwani's the worst.
[00:42:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Really?
[00:42:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Kwani would triple text me
[00:42:51] [SPEAKER_09]: and be like,
[00:42:52] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:42:52] [SPEAKER_09]: you must have the ultimate
[00:42:53] [SPEAKER_09]: do not disturb
[00:42:54] [SPEAKER_09]: because I can't get through you.
[00:42:56] [SPEAKER_09]: You know,
[00:42:56] [SPEAKER_09]: because it's supposed to be twice
[00:42:58] [SPEAKER_09]: and you is like,
[00:42:59] [SPEAKER_09]: you wasn't.
[00:43:00] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah,
[00:43:00] [SPEAKER_09]: I know how,
[00:43:00] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah,
[00:43:01] [SPEAKER_09]: so I had to.
[00:43:02] [SPEAKER_07]: You could customize that
[00:43:03] [SPEAKER_07]: and do not disturb shit
[00:43:04] [SPEAKER_07]: where else with the tab
[00:43:05] [SPEAKER_09]: in your phone.
[00:43:05] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:43:06] [SPEAKER_09]: But,
[00:43:08] [SPEAKER_09]: but my high maintenance friends,
[00:43:09] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:43:10] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm in a space right now
[00:43:11] [SPEAKER_09]: where I don't think
[00:43:12] [SPEAKER_09]: I can manage high maintenance friends.
[00:43:14] [SPEAKER_09]: You got the only shit to deal with.
[00:43:16] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah,
[00:43:16] [SPEAKER_09]: I got,
[00:43:17] [SPEAKER_09]: I got enough on my plate right now
[00:43:18] [SPEAKER_09]: with.
[00:43:20] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't have a child.
[00:43:22] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:43:23] [SPEAKER_09]: Respectfully.
[00:43:23] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah,
[00:43:23] [SPEAKER_09]: my high maintenance friends
[00:43:24] [SPEAKER_09]: where it's like,
[00:43:26] [SPEAKER_09]: the cars always need to be in a shop.
[00:43:29] [SPEAKER_09]: Always need to repair something.
[00:43:31] [SPEAKER_09]: nah,
[00:43:31] [SPEAKER_09]: I kind of need something that,
[00:43:33] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:43:33] [SPEAKER_09]: we understand where we're at
[00:43:35] [SPEAKER_09]: in this phase of life
[00:43:36] [SPEAKER_09]: where,
[00:43:37] [SPEAKER_09]: nigga say you need
[00:43:38] [SPEAKER_09]: a good old Honda Civic.
[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_09]: A reliable,
[00:43:41] [SPEAKER_09]: a 99 Max.
[00:43:43] [SPEAKER_09]: That doesn't guzzle up gas,
[00:43:45] [SPEAKER_09]: you know what I'm saying?
[00:43:47] [SPEAKER_09]: That's down for the long ride, bro.
[00:43:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:43:50] [SPEAKER_09]: and it still gonna get you
[00:43:51] [SPEAKER_09]: to point A to point B.
[00:43:52] [SPEAKER_09]: I know my car.
[00:43:53] [SPEAKER_09]: I know my car.
[00:43:54] [SPEAKER_09]: And I know my friends.
[00:43:56] [SPEAKER_09]: That's what I kind of need.
[00:43:59] [SPEAKER_09]: That's why we got to cherish
[00:44:00] [SPEAKER_07]: our low maintenance friends, bro.
[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_07]: Yo.
[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like,
[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_07]: you don't add so much.
[00:44:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay,
[00:44:04] [SPEAKER_03]: so what about this element, right?
[00:44:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Because I was thinking about this
[00:44:06] [SPEAKER_03]: during the convo.
[00:44:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't you,
[00:44:09] [SPEAKER_03]: you don't have any God children, right?
[00:44:10] [SPEAKER_07]: No.
[00:44:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I have a niece.
[00:44:12] [SPEAKER_07]: Nieces and nephews.
[00:44:13] [SPEAKER_07]: I have a niece.
[00:44:13] [SPEAKER_03]: That you have to really be there for?
[00:44:15] [SPEAKER_07]: My niece is literally
[00:44:16] [SPEAKER_07]: in a difference.
[00:44:17] [SPEAKER_07]: She's in Orlando.
[00:44:17] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.
[00:44:18] [SPEAKER_07]: No, she's.
[00:44:18] [SPEAKER_03]: I know for me,
[00:44:19] [SPEAKER_03]: I have,
[00:44:20] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:44:21] [SPEAKER_03]: two God daughters that are here
[00:44:22] [SPEAKER_03]: and my niece who's in town
[00:44:24] [SPEAKER_03]: as we record this,
[00:44:25] [SPEAKER_03]: but lives in Virginia.
[00:44:28] [SPEAKER_03]: But those are,
[00:44:30] [SPEAKER_03]: those French,
[00:44:30] [SPEAKER_03]: those relationships
[00:44:31] [SPEAKER_03]: in our lives
[00:44:32] [SPEAKER_03]: because you have Manny as well.
[00:44:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:44:34] [SPEAKER_03]: He's getting older,
[00:44:35] [SPEAKER_03]: but are those,
[00:44:37] [SPEAKER_03]: what about those,
[00:44:38] [SPEAKER_03]: the maintenance of those relationships?
[00:44:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Of the ones who,
[00:44:42] [SPEAKER_09]: whose brains aren't fully developed
[00:44:43] [SPEAKER_09]: and understanding that.
[00:44:44] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what's funny?
[00:44:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Me and Manny friendship
[00:44:47] [SPEAKER_09]: or relationship
[00:44:48] [SPEAKER_09]: is bad one-sided.
[00:44:50] [SPEAKER_09]: And that shit used to bother me
[00:44:51] [SPEAKER_09]: because he only,
[00:44:52] [SPEAKER_09]: he would hit me up
[00:44:53] [SPEAKER_09]: only when he want something.
[00:44:54] [SPEAKER_09]: But then I'd be like,
[00:44:55] [SPEAKER_09]: yo, he's just a kid.
[00:44:56] [SPEAKER_09]: He's a kid.
[00:44:57] [SPEAKER_09]: He's a kid.
[00:44:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:44:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:44:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't expect Giselle to call me
[00:45:01] [SPEAKER_03]: to see how my day went.
[00:45:03] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:45:03] [SPEAKER_09]: And I'd be hitting him up
[00:45:04] [SPEAKER_09]: like, gang, you good.
[00:45:06] [SPEAKER_09]: He's still there.
[00:45:07] [SPEAKER_09]: Like, yo, Manny will leave me on,
[00:45:08] [SPEAKER_09]: you know how I got thicker skin?
[00:45:10] [SPEAKER_09]: Dealing with that little boy.
[00:45:11] [SPEAKER_09]: That boy will leave me on red
[00:45:15] [SPEAKER_09]: and just,
[00:45:20] [SPEAKER_09]: never respond until he wants something.
[00:45:22] [SPEAKER_09]: He went to John.
[00:45:26] [SPEAKER_09]: So, yeah.
[00:45:27] [SPEAKER_09]: So, dealing with Betty is,
[00:45:29] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:45:30] [SPEAKER_09]: I would love a closer bond with him.
[00:45:32] [SPEAKER_09]: You know?
[00:45:32] [SPEAKER_09]: It's gonna get closer
[00:45:33] [SPEAKER_03]: just off what you've established, right?
[00:45:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel the same way.
[00:45:36] [SPEAKER_03]: But like,
[00:45:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I think about,
[00:45:37] [SPEAKER_03]: like Violet's never gonna call,
[00:45:38] [SPEAKER_03]: like,
[00:45:39] [SPEAKER_03]: they want to call me
[00:45:40] [SPEAKER_03]: and I know sometimes
[00:45:41] [SPEAKER_03]: when he's calling me,
[00:45:42] [SPEAKER_03]: I know it's Violet
[00:45:43] [SPEAKER_03]: that wants to talk to me.
[00:45:45] [SPEAKER_03]: But she's also two years old.
[00:45:47] [SPEAKER_03]: So, it's like,
[00:45:48] [SPEAKER_03]: so much of a conversation
[00:45:49] [SPEAKER_03]: you wouldn't have.
[00:45:50] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I mean?
[00:45:50] [SPEAKER_03]: As long as you can see my face
[00:45:52] [SPEAKER_03]: and understand,
[00:45:52] [SPEAKER_03]: oh, my,
[00:45:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Kojo, Kojo, Kojo.
[00:45:55] [SPEAKER_03]: That's fine with me.
[00:45:56] [SPEAKER_03]: When she gets to 10 years old,
[00:45:58] [SPEAKER_03]: I want to be able to,
[00:46:00] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:46:02] [SPEAKER_03]: be able to talk to her.
[00:46:03] [SPEAKER_03]: You know,
[00:46:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Giselle's turning seven next year.
[00:46:06] [SPEAKER_03]: That's a big age.
[00:46:08] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:46:08] [SPEAKER_03]: You want to be able to talk to her.
[00:46:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:46:10] [SPEAKER_03]: it's not just,
[00:46:10] [SPEAKER_03]: oh,
[00:46:11] [SPEAKER_03]: here's a gift.
[00:46:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Congratulations on this.
[00:46:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:46:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't want to just be gifting,
[00:46:14] [SPEAKER_03]: gifting, gifting, gifting, gifting.
[00:46:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I want to be able to sit down,
[00:46:16] [SPEAKER_03]: have like,
[00:46:17] [SPEAKER_03]: established conversations
[00:46:18] [SPEAKER_03]: with my godchild.
[00:46:19] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:46:19] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:46:20] [SPEAKER_03]: but that's something
[00:46:20] [SPEAKER_03]: that you got to understand.
[00:46:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Kids definitely don't give a damn
[00:46:23] [SPEAKER_03]: about what we're going through
[00:46:26] [SPEAKER_03]: ever, bro.
[00:46:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Not kids.
[00:46:28] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:46:28] [SPEAKER_03]: But,
[00:46:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I think that's a good balance
[00:46:30] [SPEAKER_03]: because you know
[00:46:31] [SPEAKER_03]: that's something
[00:46:32] [SPEAKER_03]: that's gonna sober you.
[00:46:33] [SPEAKER_10]: Like,
[00:46:34] [SPEAKER_03]: that's somebody you still
[00:46:34] [SPEAKER_03]: gotta care about
[00:46:35] [SPEAKER_03]: at all times.
[00:46:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:46:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Because you gotta take care
[00:46:37] [SPEAKER_03]: of them in some capacity.
[00:46:39] [SPEAKER_03]: And,
[00:46:40] [SPEAKER_03]: they love you,
[00:46:40] [SPEAKER_03]: but they just,
[00:46:41] [SPEAKER_03]: not at that point
[00:46:41] [SPEAKER_03]: where they gonna call you
[00:46:43] [SPEAKER_03]: and check you on you.
[00:46:44] [SPEAKER_07]: I start about you.
[00:46:45] [SPEAKER_03]: If that's a real experience
[00:46:46] [SPEAKER_03]: that you're dealing with
[00:46:46] [SPEAKER_03]: every day,
[00:46:47] [SPEAKER_03]: you could kind of,
[00:46:47] [SPEAKER_03]: kind of translate that
[00:46:48] [SPEAKER_03]: into like an adult friendship
[00:46:49] [SPEAKER_03]: where,
[00:46:50] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah,
[00:46:50] [SPEAKER_03]: they know better,
[00:46:51] [SPEAKER_03]: but it's still some real life shit.
[00:46:52] [SPEAKER_07]: I always,
[00:46:53] [SPEAKER_07]: always wish my niece was closer.
[00:46:55] [SPEAKER_09]: What,
[00:46:56] [SPEAKER_09]: so we talked about friendships
[00:46:58] [SPEAKER_09]: and we were talking about children.
[00:46:59] [SPEAKER_09]: What about relationships?
[00:47:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:47:01] [SPEAKER_03]: that's where it gets,
[00:47:02] [SPEAKER_03]: that's where the pod starts.
[00:47:04] [SPEAKER_03]: There's less wiggle room
[00:47:05] [SPEAKER_03]: for that.
[00:47:06] [SPEAKER_09]: Why is that?
[00:47:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Because like,
[00:47:08] [SPEAKER_09]: why is that?
[00:47:09] [SPEAKER_09]: Why is it less wiggle room
[00:47:10] [SPEAKER_09]: for a one-sided,
[00:47:14] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:47:15] [SPEAKER_09]: how do,
[00:47:15] [SPEAKER_09]: how do we give grace to,
[00:47:16] [SPEAKER_09]: we ain't even gonna say the kids,
[00:47:18] [SPEAKER_09]: but how do we give grace
[00:47:19] [SPEAKER_09]: to our friends,
[00:47:20] [SPEAKER_09]: but the relationship is where,
[00:47:22] [SPEAKER_09]: we draw it a lot at?
[00:47:23] [SPEAKER_09]: We draw it a lot at.
[00:47:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Probably,
[00:47:25] [SPEAKER_03]: probably because you put a title on it
[00:47:26] [SPEAKER_03]: and the title becomes
[00:47:28] [SPEAKER_03]: the expectation.
[00:47:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:47:30] [SPEAKER_03]: it's way higher than a friendship.
[00:47:32] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm gonna ask a tricky question.
[00:47:34] [SPEAKER_09]: Just because you give a woman
[00:47:35] [SPEAKER_09]: the title,
[00:47:36] [SPEAKER_09]: does that surpass her
[00:47:37] [SPEAKER_09]: higher than your friends?
[00:47:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:47:40] [SPEAKER_03]: in a sense,
[00:47:41] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah.
[00:47:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Really?
[00:47:43] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:47:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think he's Wile,
[00:47:45] [SPEAKER_03]: not right away.
[00:47:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Not for me.
[00:47:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Not right away.
[00:47:49] [SPEAKER_07]: If we,
[00:47:49] [SPEAKER_07]: if I think that you're,
[00:47:51] [SPEAKER_07]: we're ready for that moment,
[00:47:52] [SPEAKER_07]: for that title,
[00:47:54] [SPEAKER_07]: I automatically,
[00:47:55] [SPEAKER_07]: automatically,
[00:47:55] [SPEAKER_07]: my friends,
[00:47:56] [SPEAKER_07]: my friends go in the back burner.
[00:47:57] [SPEAKER_07]: Not really.
[00:47:58] [SPEAKER_07]: It's not,
[00:47:58] [SPEAKER_07]: that's not really that though.
[00:48:00] [SPEAKER_07]: It's not really that.
[00:48:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo,
[00:48:01] [SPEAKER_03]: you,
[00:48:01] [SPEAKER_03]: you,
[00:48:02] [SPEAKER_03]: you pull up on your car.
[00:48:03] [SPEAKER_03]: We all standing on the corner.
[00:48:04] [SPEAKER_07]: And they got your shorty going,
[00:48:06] [SPEAKER_03]: who's sitting in the front seat,
[00:48:07] [SPEAKER_03]: LA?
[00:48:08] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what's funny?
[00:48:09] [SPEAKER_01]: That is life right there.
[00:48:10] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what's funny?
[00:48:11] [SPEAKER_09]: Deshawn,
[00:48:12] [SPEAKER_09]: Deshawn,
[00:48:13] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:48:14] [SPEAKER_09]: damn.
[00:48:15] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah,
[00:48:15] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:48:15] [SPEAKER_09]: go sit back,
[00:48:15] [SPEAKER_09]: in the back with that nigga.
[00:48:17] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh damn,
[00:48:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I hope Deshawn don't play this at home.
[00:48:20] [SPEAKER_09]: Deshawn did that before.
[00:48:21] [SPEAKER_07]: He did?
[00:48:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:48:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Laugh?
[00:48:23] [SPEAKER_07]: He did what?
[00:48:23] [SPEAKER_07]: Put it in the,
[00:48:24] [SPEAKER_07]: he had it on the TV.
[00:48:25] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah,
[00:48:26] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:48:26] [SPEAKER_09]: nah,
[00:48:26] [SPEAKER_09]: he put,
[00:48:26] [SPEAKER_09]: nah,
[00:48:28] [SPEAKER_09]: what episode was it?
[00:48:29] [SPEAKER_09]: You remember the episode where,
[00:48:30] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:48:30] [SPEAKER_09]: I talked about,
[00:48:31] [SPEAKER_09]: um,
[00:48:33] [SPEAKER_03]: I remember you telling me this.
[00:48:33] [SPEAKER_03]: I forgot what episode.
[00:48:34] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't,
[00:48:34] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't,
[00:48:35] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:48:36] [SPEAKER_09]: the,
[00:48:37] [SPEAKER_09]: the baby mama episode.
[00:48:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:48:39] [SPEAKER_09]: he was,
[00:48:39] [SPEAKER_09]: oh yeah,
[00:48:41] [SPEAKER_09]: watching that.
[00:48:44] [SPEAKER_09]: No,
[00:48:45] [SPEAKER_09]: matter of fact,
[00:48:45] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't think he was home watching it.
[00:48:47] [SPEAKER_09]: I think he was on TikTok.
[00:48:48] [SPEAKER_09]: He was laid up on TikTok.
[00:48:50] So,
[00:48:53] [SPEAKER_09]: but nah,
[00:48:53] [SPEAKER_09]: there was a situation once where I,
[00:48:58] [SPEAKER_09]: fuck,
[00:48:58] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm gonna just skip that story.
[00:49:00] [SPEAKER_09]: I can't tell that story.
[00:49:01] [SPEAKER_09]: I can't.
[00:49:01] [SPEAKER_09]: Pussy.
[00:49:03] [SPEAKER_09]: Niggas,
[00:49:03] [SPEAKER_07]: they can't try to hear that shit though.
[00:49:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Pussy.
[00:49:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Nah,
[00:49:06] [SPEAKER_07]: don't do that.
[00:49:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't do that.
[00:49:07] [SPEAKER_07]: I gaslight him.
[00:49:08] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't do that.
[00:49:08] [SPEAKER_07]: I can't OD.
[00:49:10] [SPEAKER_07]: That's not happening.
[00:49:10] [SPEAKER_07]: All right,
[00:49:11] [SPEAKER_07]: all right.
[00:49:11] [SPEAKER_07]: No,
[00:49:11] [SPEAKER_07]: no,
[00:49:11] [SPEAKER_07]: no,
[00:49:12] [SPEAKER_07]: no,
[00:49:12] [SPEAKER_07]: don't let that thing go over it.
[00:49:13] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't,
[00:49:14] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't put a time frame on it.
[00:49:15] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't put a time frame on it.
[00:49:16] [SPEAKER_09]: But me,
[00:49:17] [SPEAKER_09]: I think it was me and Deshawn,
[00:49:19] [SPEAKER_09]: and we went to like a Halloween party.
[00:49:23] [SPEAKER_09]: And the girl he was talking to at the time,
[00:49:27] [SPEAKER_09]: he picked,
[00:49:28] [SPEAKER_09]: he,
[00:49:28] [SPEAKER_09]: I was already in the car with him.
[00:49:31] [SPEAKER_09]: So he had picked shorty up.
[00:49:34] [SPEAKER_09]: And,
[00:49:34] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:49:36] [SPEAKER_09]: when she,
[00:49:36] [SPEAKER_09]: when she,
[00:49:37] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:49:37] [SPEAKER_09]: when she got in the car,
[00:49:39] [SPEAKER_09]: she was kind of looking at me like,
[00:49:41] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:49:42] [SPEAKER_09]: get to the back.
[00:49:44] [SPEAKER_09]: Can you ride my seat?
[00:49:45] [SPEAKER_09]: And in the back of my mind,
[00:49:46] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm like,
[00:49:48] [SPEAKER_09]: I know,
[00:49:49] [SPEAKER_09]: I know,
[00:49:49] [SPEAKER_09]: I know you,
[00:49:50] [SPEAKER_09]: I know you and my man's kind of arrangement.
[00:49:53] [SPEAKER_09]: You ain't even worth me.
[00:49:58] [SPEAKER_09]: So she got,
[00:49:59] [SPEAKER_09]: she,
[00:49:59] [SPEAKER_09]: she got back in the back.
[00:50:00] [SPEAKER_09]: She got in the back seat.
[00:50:01] [SPEAKER_09]: And she was,
[00:50:03] [SPEAKER_09]: she didn't express nothing to me,
[00:50:05] [SPEAKER_09]: but,
[00:50:06] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:50:06] [SPEAKER_09]: he gave,
[00:50:06] [SPEAKER_09]: she gave him 50.
[00:50:07] [SPEAKER_09]: She gave him 50.
[00:50:08] [SPEAKER_09]: Now it's the end of the night.
[00:50:10] [SPEAKER_09]: When I said,
[00:50:11] [SPEAKER_09]: sure.
[00:50:11] [SPEAKER_09]: He dashed.
[00:50:12] [SPEAKER_05]: Word.
[00:50:14] [SPEAKER_05]: She don't get that seat.
[00:50:16] [SPEAKER_09]: But that's okay.
[00:50:16] [SPEAKER_09]: Cause I got in the back seat.
[00:50:18] [SPEAKER_09]: Went to sleep.
[00:50:20] [SPEAKER_07]: You know,
[00:50:21] [SPEAKER_07]: it's crazy though.
[00:50:21] [SPEAKER_07]: Same shit happened with,
[00:50:22] [SPEAKER_07]: um,
[00:50:22] [SPEAKER_07]: like I said,
[00:50:23] [SPEAKER_07]: brother,
[00:50:23] [SPEAKER_07]: my man's Kenneth.
[00:50:24] [SPEAKER_07]: Meant to go pick up his shorty.
[00:50:26] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:50:26] [SPEAKER_07]: She lived down the block.
[00:50:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.
[00:50:28] [SPEAKER_07]: The bad part about it is the nigga had a coup.
[00:50:31] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh.
[00:50:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Y'all left the shit like,
[00:50:34] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:50:35] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:50:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Kenneth,
[00:50:35] [SPEAKER_07]: when we get in the back?
[00:50:35] [SPEAKER_07]: The nigga said,
[00:50:36] [SPEAKER_07]: nah,
[00:50:36] [SPEAKER_07]: she don't get in the back.
[00:50:36] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:50:37] [SPEAKER_07]: oh my God.
[00:50:39] [SPEAKER_07]: Nigga say,
[00:50:39] [SPEAKER_07]: Fee,
[00:50:40] [SPEAKER_07]: get in the back.
[00:50:40] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:50:40] [SPEAKER_07]: yo,
[00:50:41] [SPEAKER_07]: my nigga.
[00:50:41] [SPEAKER_09]: But you know,
[00:50:42] [SPEAKER_09]: I think as crazy as it sounds,
[00:50:45] [SPEAKER_09]: not every woman tripped over that because,
[00:50:48] [SPEAKER_09]: um,
[00:50:51] [SPEAKER_09]: neighbor did never cared about no shit like that.
[00:50:52] [SPEAKER_09]: She never cared about no shit like that.
[00:50:55] [SPEAKER_09]: So like,
[00:50:55] [SPEAKER_09]: say you was in the car before in the front,
[00:50:58] [SPEAKER_09]: front,
[00:50:59] [SPEAKER_09]: and she sat in the back.
[00:51:00] [SPEAKER_09]: And she told you,
[00:51:01] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:51:01] [SPEAKER_09]: she said,
[00:51:01] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:51:01] [SPEAKER_09]: sit in the front.
[00:51:02] [SPEAKER_09]: He said,
[00:51:02] [SPEAKER_09]: you're in the front.
[00:51:02] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah,
[00:51:02] [SPEAKER_09]: she don't care.
[00:51:03] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:51:03] [SPEAKER_07]: so,
[00:51:04] [SPEAKER_07]: it depends on who it is.
[00:51:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Cause there's one time,
[00:51:08] [SPEAKER_07]: shorty and fucking my mom just,
[00:51:10] [SPEAKER_07]: we walking in the car.
[00:51:12] [SPEAKER_07]: But my mom,
[00:51:12] [SPEAKER_07]: but my mom,
[00:51:13] [SPEAKER_07]: but my mom,
[00:51:13] [SPEAKER_07]: where my mom is,
[00:51:14] [SPEAKER_07]: them two is going back.
[00:51:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Now you sit in the front.
[00:51:15] [SPEAKER_07]: You sit in the front.
[00:51:16] [SPEAKER_07]: I say,
[00:51:16] [SPEAKER_07]: bro,
[00:51:16] [SPEAKER_07]: somebody,
[00:51:17] [SPEAKER_07]: when y'all don't sit in the front,
[00:51:18] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm leaving.
[00:51:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm leaving both of y'all.
[00:51:19] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah,
[00:51:20] [SPEAKER_09]: cause I'm not an Uber driver.
[00:51:21] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh yeah,
[00:51:21] [SPEAKER_07]: we walking right now.
[00:51:23] [SPEAKER_07]: Everybody's saying,
[00:51:23] [SPEAKER_01]: but both of y'all sitting in the back.
[00:51:24] [SPEAKER_07]: My mom,
[00:51:25] [SPEAKER_07]: say nothing because I'm like,
[00:51:26] [SPEAKER_07]: yeah,
[00:51:26] [SPEAKER_07]: you at my crib.
[00:51:27] [SPEAKER_07]: So,
[00:51:28] [SPEAKER_07]: you at my crib now.
[00:51:29] [SPEAKER_07]: You're going to abide by my rules now,
[00:51:31] [SPEAKER_07]: nigga.
[00:51:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Fuck you talking about it,
[00:51:33] [SPEAKER_07]: yeah,
[00:51:33] [SPEAKER_09]: I never,
[00:51:34] [SPEAKER_09]: but for me personally,
[00:51:35] [SPEAKER_09]: like if I get into a relationship right now,
[00:51:38] [SPEAKER_09]: that person doesn't automatically surpass.
[00:51:43] [SPEAKER_09]: I think that's a growing thing.
[00:51:45] [SPEAKER_09]: That you gotta grow into the rankings.
[00:51:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Like you being my girl don't automatically make you.
[00:51:52] [SPEAKER_07]: How do you grow into the rankings?
[00:51:55] [SPEAKER_07]: How do you get to that level?
[00:51:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Is it this experience?
[00:51:57] [SPEAKER_09]: I guess as I bond to continue to grow,
[00:52:00] [SPEAKER_09]: cause obviously you get with a person you're going to spend the most time with.
[00:52:05] [SPEAKER_09]: The most free time that you do have may go to them.
[00:52:08] [SPEAKER_09]: And after a while,
[00:52:08] [SPEAKER_09]: it kind of grows overnight.
[00:52:11] [SPEAKER_09]: But just because you automatically might.
[00:52:12] [SPEAKER_09]: See,
[00:52:12] [SPEAKER_09]: that's the thing.
[00:52:13] [SPEAKER_09]: I may be head ass,
[00:52:15] [SPEAKER_09]: but I ain't stupid.
[00:52:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Definitely head ass though.
[00:52:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Shut up.
[00:52:21] [SPEAKER_09]: I ain't stupid.
[00:52:22] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:52:23] [SPEAKER_09]: My conscience is still there.
[00:52:25] [SPEAKER_09]: I idolize this guy.
[00:52:27] [SPEAKER_09]: It may be a little,
[00:52:28] [SPEAKER_09]: it may be a little pessimistic.
[00:52:30] [SPEAKER_09]: And we going to talk about that the next episode,
[00:52:32] [SPEAKER_09]: but it's like,
[00:52:33] [SPEAKER_09]: if shit hit the fan,
[00:52:35] [SPEAKER_09]: I know my niggas going to be there to catch me.
[00:52:37] [SPEAKER_09]: So I'm not going to automatically put them over them.
[00:52:41] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:52:42] [SPEAKER_09]: So it's kind of like,
[00:52:43] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:52:44] [SPEAKER_09]: so.
[00:52:44] [SPEAKER_09]: I might be head ass and stupid then.
[00:52:46] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:52:47] [SPEAKER_09]: Because,
[00:52:48] [SPEAKER_09]: but see,
[00:52:48] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't take that personal.
[00:52:50] [SPEAKER_09]: See,
[00:52:50] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:52:50] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:52:51] [SPEAKER_09]: you got a,
[00:52:51] [SPEAKER_09]: you got a home girl.
[00:52:53] [SPEAKER_09]: That's like,
[00:52:53] [SPEAKER_09]: they boy crazy.
[00:52:55] [SPEAKER_09]: And once they boy crazy,
[00:52:58] [SPEAKER_09]: like who I referenced,
[00:52:59] [SPEAKER_09]: she's mad boy crazy.
[00:53:01] [SPEAKER_09]: And when she getting hovered,
[00:53:02] [SPEAKER_09]: that's why I really,
[00:53:03] [SPEAKER_07]: she vanished and then come back.
[00:53:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:53:05] [SPEAKER_09]: So all the times I friendship,
[00:53:07] [SPEAKER_09]: that's why I leave it alone.
[00:53:08] [SPEAKER_09]: Because she could say that now,
[00:53:10] [SPEAKER_09]: but she doesn't understand every time that she had a dude,
[00:53:14] [SPEAKER_09]: how absent she was in our friendship.
[00:53:16] [SPEAKER_09]: And I never held it against them.
[00:53:18] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:53:19] [SPEAKER_09]: but because my life got so consumed,
[00:53:21] [SPEAKER_09]: not even with a woman,
[00:53:22] [SPEAKER_09]: just with work.
[00:53:23] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm trying to get some money.
[00:53:25] [SPEAKER_09]: Rent due.
[00:53:26] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:53:27] [SPEAKER_09]: This,
[00:53:27] [SPEAKER_09]: I can't,
[00:53:28] [SPEAKER_09]: I can't be there constantly.
[00:53:30] [SPEAKER_09]: I've been there for her for so many of these niggas,
[00:53:33] [SPEAKER_09]: these trifling niggas.
[00:53:34] [SPEAKER_09]: And I miss our friendship for about three months.
[00:53:37] [SPEAKER_09]: We 10 years deep of niggas just running you through the mouth.
[00:53:43] [SPEAKER_02]: I mean,
[00:53:47] [SPEAKER_09]: you've heard conversations,
[00:53:49] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:53:50] [SPEAKER_09]: So it's kind of like,
[00:53:51] [SPEAKER_09]: all right,
[00:53:51] [SPEAKER_09]: if you feel like the friendship is severed because,
[00:53:54] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:53:54] [SPEAKER_09]: I was going for like three months.
[00:53:56] man,
[00:53:57] [SPEAKER_09]: say that.
[00:53:57] [SPEAKER_07]: I just hope whatever you going through,
[00:53:59] [SPEAKER_07]: you get through it,
[00:54:00] [SPEAKER_07]: man.
[00:54:01] [SPEAKER_07]: And you know what,
[00:54:02] [SPEAKER_09]: you know what kind of triggered my devotion in certain friendships?
[00:54:12] [SPEAKER_09]: I know this sounds petty,
[00:54:14] [SPEAKER_09]: but it's like,
[00:54:15] [SPEAKER_09]: for the last two years,
[00:54:17] [SPEAKER_09]: the amount of people who forgot my birthday,
[00:54:20] [SPEAKER_09]: that really changed my mind.
[00:54:22] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh shit.
[00:54:23] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what's funny?
[00:54:24] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what's funny?
[00:54:27] [SPEAKER_07]: Yo,
[00:54:28] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know why I thought about all of this shit on my way here,
[00:54:30] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:54:30] [SPEAKER_07]: You said I'm out.
[00:54:32] [SPEAKER_07]: I thought about all of this shit on my way.
[00:54:33] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:54:33] [SPEAKER_07]: damn,
[00:54:35] [SPEAKER_07]: did this LA tell this nigga happy birthday?
[00:54:36] [SPEAKER_07]: I know LA's petty sometimes.
[00:54:39] [SPEAKER_07]: LA won't say it.
[00:54:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[00:54:40] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:54:40] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:54:40] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:54:41] [SPEAKER_07]: I hit him 12 o'clock.
[00:54:42] [SPEAKER_07]: He's going to stay.
[00:54:43] [SPEAKER_09]: Kwanee.
[00:54:44] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh.
[00:54:44] [SPEAKER_09]: You talking about Kwanee,
[00:54:45] [SPEAKER_09]: right?
[00:54:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:54:46] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to write,
[00:54:47] [SPEAKER_07]: my nigga,
[00:54:47] [SPEAKER_07]: don't forget this nigga birthday.
[00:54:48] [SPEAKER_07]: When did he start being petty?
[00:54:49] [SPEAKER_07]: I go,
[00:54:50] [SPEAKER_07]: what's going to do?
[00:54:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[00:54:51] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah,
[00:54:51] [SPEAKER_03]: nah.
[00:54:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:54:52] [SPEAKER_03]: I remember LA,
[00:54:53] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah,
[00:54:53] [SPEAKER_03]: he was not fucking with niggas.
[00:54:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Nigga's last one.
[00:54:56] [SPEAKER_03]: The last,
[00:54:56] [SPEAKER_03]: last one?
[00:54:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Not me though.
[00:54:58] [SPEAKER_03]: The last,
[00:54:58] [SPEAKER_03]: last one?
[00:54:59] [SPEAKER_03]: The nigga,
[00:54:59] [SPEAKER_07]: I ain't going to front the last,
[00:55:00] [SPEAKER_07]: last one,
[00:55:00] [SPEAKER_07]: the nigga was so fucking livid,
[00:55:02] [SPEAKER_03]: my nigga,
[00:55:02] [SPEAKER_03]: you said,
[00:55:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I bet.
[00:55:02] [SPEAKER_03]: You know,
[00:55:03] [SPEAKER_03]: and I feel like that had less to do with everybody.
[00:55:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Well,
[00:55:05] [SPEAKER_03]: maybe,
[00:55:05] [SPEAKER_03]: no,
[00:55:05] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't speak for you,
[00:55:06] [SPEAKER_03]: but I think he just was having a bad time.
[00:55:11] [SPEAKER_07]: Nah,
[00:55:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I was like,
[00:55:12] [SPEAKER_07]: oh,
[00:55:12] [SPEAKER_07]: niggas ain't niggas that hit me up.
[00:55:13] [SPEAKER_07]: I said,
[00:55:13] [SPEAKER_07]: I started naming names.
[00:55:14] [SPEAKER_07]: Like,
[00:55:15] [SPEAKER_07]: this person hit you up,
[00:55:15] [SPEAKER_07]: this person hit you up.
[00:55:16] [SPEAKER_07]: He said,
[00:55:16] [SPEAKER_07]: nope,
[00:55:16] [SPEAKER_07]: nope.
[00:55:16] [SPEAKER_09]: But you know what it was for me?
[00:55:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I was shocked.
[00:55:18] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what it was for me?
[00:55:20] [SPEAKER_09]: It was like,
[00:55:22] [SPEAKER_09]: it's like,
[00:55:23] [SPEAKER_09]: I feel like in my friendships,
[00:55:24] [SPEAKER_09]: I go above and beyond.
[00:55:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Is this true?
[00:55:26] [SPEAKER_07]: He does.
[00:55:27] [SPEAKER_07]: So,
[00:55:27] [SPEAKER_07]: so you took that personal?
[00:55:29] [SPEAKER_09]: I took that personal,
[00:55:30] [SPEAKER_09]: but now it's like,
[00:55:31] [SPEAKER_09]: I,
[00:55:33] [SPEAKER_09]: and you know what's also a thing to it?
[00:55:36] [SPEAKER_09]: Niggas don't really be knowing your birthday.
[00:55:38] [SPEAKER_09]: Well,
[00:55:39] [SPEAKER_09]: it's the social media reminder.
[00:55:41] [SPEAKER_09]: See,
[00:55:41] [SPEAKER_09]: I haven't been active for the last two years.
[00:55:44] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:55:45] [SPEAKER_09]: there's nobody to post me in their story because they know LaShawn ain't going to see it anyway,
[00:55:49] [SPEAKER_09]: or he ain't going to repost it anyway.
[00:55:51] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:55:52] [SPEAKER_09]: thank God he's at the same birthday.
[00:55:55] [SPEAKER_09]: if you see,
[00:55:55] [SPEAKER_09]: if you go through,
[00:55:57] [SPEAKER_09]: if you go through my story and see mad people wishing me happy birthday,
[00:56:00] [SPEAKER_09]: it's a simple,
[00:56:00] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:56:01] [SPEAKER_09]: happy birthday.
[00:56:02] [SPEAKER_09]: But then at the same time,
[00:56:03] [SPEAKER_09]: it was like,
[00:56:04] [SPEAKER_09]: even this women friendships,
[00:56:06] [SPEAKER_09]: there was a,
[00:56:06] [SPEAKER_09]: there's a whole girl that I had that I've taken her out the last two births,
[00:56:10] [SPEAKER_09]: her last two birthdays.
[00:56:12] [SPEAKER_09]: Next thing,
[00:56:12] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm not doing that because last two birthdays I had,
[00:56:16] [SPEAKER_09]: you didn't even remember.
[00:56:18] [SPEAKER_09]: it's kind of like,
[00:56:19] [SPEAKER_09]: fuck,
[00:56:19] [SPEAKER_09]: I know this friend too.
[00:56:21] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[00:56:21] [SPEAKER_09]: it's kind of like,
[00:56:21] [SPEAKER_09]: damn,
[00:56:22] [SPEAKER_09]: like,
[00:56:22] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm not,
[00:56:23] [SPEAKER_09]: I,
[00:56:24] [SPEAKER_09]: when it comes to the one side of this,
[00:56:25] [SPEAKER_09]: you just know where you at with it,
[00:56:28] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[00:56:28] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:56:28] [SPEAKER_09]: and I just simply pull back,
[00:56:30] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:56:31] [SPEAKER_09]: but it don't mean that shit change.
[00:56:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:56:33] [SPEAKER_03]: But with that,
[00:56:34] [SPEAKER_03]: you got to understand you operate that way,
[00:56:36] [SPEAKER_03]: right?
[00:56:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Like,
[00:56:37] [SPEAKER_03]: if you tell me,
[00:56:38] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[00:56:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm taking XYZ out for her birthday and you do that two years in a row,
[00:56:40] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like,
[00:56:40] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[00:56:41] [SPEAKER_03]: you have a really good heart or the way you express your friendship and love for
[00:56:44] [SPEAKER_03]: your friends is amazing.
[00:56:46] [SPEAKER_03]: You got to also say,
[00:56:47] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean,
[00:56:48] [SPEAKER_03]: I know in the simplest,
[00:56:49] [SPEAKER_03]: you'd be like,
[00:56:49] [SPEAKER_03]: damn,
[00:56:49] [SPEAKER_03]: at least can I get a text?
[00:56:50] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:56:51] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what,
[00:56:52] [SPEAKER_03]: that's what,
[00:56:52] [SPEAKER_03]: I know your mom like,
[00:56:53] [SPEAKER_03]: damn,
[00:56:53] [SPEAKER_03]: can I get a fucking text?
[00:56:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Some people might not place value on birthdays like that.
[00:57:00] [SPEAKER_03]: And when it comes to like express,
[00:57:03] [SPEAKER_03]: expressiveness and that might be it.
[00:57:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Or,
[00:57:06] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:57:07] [SPEAKER_03]: maybe,
[00:57:08] [SPEAKER_03]: maybe it's one side.
[00:57:09] [SPEAKER_07]: Maybe it's one side.
[00:57:09] [SPEAKER_07]: But it goes back to knowing your friends,
[00:57:10] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:57:10] [SPEAKER_07]: If I know that's what you like,
[00:57:12] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like,
[00:57:12] [SPEAKER_07]: all right,
[00:57:12] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[00:57:13] [SPEAKER_07]: All right.
[00:57:13] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:57:13] [SPEAKER_09]: and also,
[00:57:14] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:57:14] [SPEAKER_09]: I have certain friendships where like,
[00:57:16] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:57:16] [SPEAKER_09]: to be honest with you,
[00:57:17] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't need nothing.
[00:57:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't,
[00:57:18] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't need anything from you or there's nothing you can offer me.
[00:57:23] [SPEAKER_09]: And that's okay.
[00:57:24] [SPEAKER_09]: And those are great friendships,
[00:57:25] [SPEAKER_09]: by the way.
[00:57:26] [SPEAKER_09]: Let's just go have some fun.
[00:57:26] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:57:27] [SPEAKER_09]: that's okay.
[00:57:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Let's go grab some wings or something.
[00:57:29] [SPEAKER_07]: That's okay.
[00:57:30] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:57:31] [SPEAKER_09]: all right,
[00:57:31] [SPEAKER_09]: boo.
[00:57:33] [SPEAKER_09]: Any of y'all got friends in jail?
[00:57:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:57:37] [SPEAKER_09]: There's nothing they can do for me.
[00:57:39] [SPEAKER_09]: But when they call me,
[00:57:40] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm gonna pick up.
[00:57:41] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:57:43] [SPEAKER_09]: Like,
[00:57:43] [SPEAKER_09]: in their situation,
[00:57:45] [SPEAKER_09]: right?
[00:57:45] [SPEAKER_09]: There's no like,
[00:57:47] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:57:47] [SPEAKER_09]: come link me.
[00:57:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[00:57:48] [SPEAKER_09]: let's go have dinner.
[00:57:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Yo,
[00:57:50] [SPEAKER_09]: matter of fact,
[00:57:50] [SPEAKER_09]: if they're calling me nine times out of 10,
[00:57:52] [SPEAKER_09]: they need something.
[00:57:54] [SPEAKER_03]: LA,
[00:57:54] [SPEAKER_03]: can you,
[00:57:55] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[00:57:56] [SPEAKER_03]: please?
[00:57:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I got two friends that's locked right now that I just feel bad that I haven't even like,
[00:57:59] [SPEAKER_03]: wrote a letter or two in a minute.
[00:58:01] [SPEAKER_09]: you should.
[00:58:02] [SPEAKER_09]: You should.
[00:58:02] [SPEAKER_09]: Plus technology change where it don't necessarily have to be a letter.
[00:58:05] [SPEAKER_07]: That's what I mean by writing a letter.
[00:58:06] [SPEAKER_07]: It got to the point where I see my cousin on fucking Instagram every day.
[00:58:08] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, he's all right?
[00:58:08] [SPEAKER_07]: Like,
[00:58:08] [SPEAKER_03]: yeah.
[00:58:09] [SPEAKER_07]: No,
[00:58:09] [SPEAKER_07]: I see him literally every day.
[00:58:11] [SPEAKER_09]: So it's kind of like,
[00:58:12] [SPEAKER_09]: yo,
[00:58:12] [SPEAKER_09]: there's certain things where it's like,
[00:58:14] [SPEAKER_09]: I could,
[00:58:15] [SPEAKER_09]: due to certain circumstances,
[00:58:16] [SPEAKER_09]: you understand like,
[00:58:17] [SPEAKER_09]: there's nothing or anything they could do.
[00:58:21] [SPEAKER_09]: But relationship wise,
[00:58:24] [SPEAKER_09]: romantically,
[00:58:25] [SPEAKER_09]: one side of this is only when I feel like I'm depleting myself.
[00:58:31] [SPEAKER_07]: What are you doing?
[00:58:32] [SPEAKER_07]: You putting more effort in another person?
[00:58:33] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah.
[00:58:34] [SPEAKER_09]: That's when it kind of,
[00:58:37] [SPEAKER_09]: that's when it becomes an issue.
[00:58:38] [SPEAKER_09]: But you got to understand not every day somebody could give you 50-50 or,
[00:58:44] [SPEAKER_09]: like the 50-50 conversation has changed for me now that I'm in a whole new space in my life.
[00:58:52] [SPEAKER_09]: I was actually having a conversation with your mans.
[00:58:55] [SPEAKER_09]: I think I told you this.
[00:58:57] [SPEAKER_09]: I think I told you the convo.
[00:58:59] [SPEAKER_09]: I was having a conversation.
[00:59:00] [SPEAKER_09]: We was talking about what,
[00:59:01] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:59:02] [SPEAKER_09]: what exactly I'm looking for,
[00:59:03] [SPEAKER_09]: right?
[00:59:03] [SPEAKER_09]: Or what exactly I would need from a partner.
[00:59:06] [SPEAKER_09]: Or we,
[00:59:07] [SPEAKER_09]: we was playing,
[00:59:08] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:59:08] [SPEAKER_09]: the hypotheticals of,
[00:59:11] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:59:12] [SPEAKER_09]: if,
[00:59:12] [SPEAKER_09]: if this was this situation,
[00:59:14] [SPEAKER_09]: and this was this situation,
[00:59:15] [SPEAKER_09]: right?
[00:59:16] [SPEAKER_09]: oh,
[00:59:16] [SPEAKER_09]: I told you,
[00:59:18] [SPEAKER_09]: and I'm like,
[00:59:20] [SPEAKER_09]: well,
[00:59:20] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:59:23] [SPEAKER_09]: I was like,
[00:59:25] [SPEAKER_09]: well,
[00:59:25] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[00:59:26] [SPEAKER_09]: I got my own spot.
[00:59:27] [SPEAKER_09]: So I technically don't need to move in with anybody.
[00:59:30] [SPEAKER_09]: You know,
[00:59:32] [SPEAKER_09]: everything is for me is always paid on time.
[00:59:34] [SPEAKER_09]: So I definitely don't need your money.
[00:59:37] [SPEAKER_09]: Um,
[00:59:38] [SPEAKER_09]: my place is clean.
[00:59:40] [SPEAKER_09]: That's one of the things she,
[00:59:42] [SPEAKER_09]: she's,
[00:59:42] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[00:59:43] [SPEAKER_09]: complimenting me on.
[00:59:44] [SPEAKER_09]: I guess that's telling that she been to my spot.
[00:59:46] [SPEAKER_09]: Um,
[00:59:49] [SPEAKER_09]: and I don't go without,
[00:59:50] [SPEAKER_09]: without a male.
[00:59:51] [SPEAKER_09]: Um,
[00:59:52] [SPEAKER_09]: so technically,
[00:59:54] [SPEAKER_09]: respectfully,
[00:59:56] [SPEAKER_09]: what I need you for.
[00:59:57] [SPEAKER_09]: No,
[00:59:58] [SPEAKER_09]: not need you,
[00:59:59] [SPEAKER_09]: but need a person for,
[01:00:00] [SPEAKER_09]: you know?
[01:00:01] [SPEAKER_09]: So in the sense you,
[01:00:02] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[01:00:02] [SPEAKER_09]: person is a long list.
[01:00:04] [SPEAKER_09]: You just,
[01:00:04] [SPEAKER_09]: you need four things,
[01:00:05] [SPEAKER_09]: bro.
[01:00:07] [SPEAKER_09]: You tell us what you need somebody for.
[01:00:09] [SPEAKER_09]: We can't tell you.
[01:00:09] [SPEAKER_09]: And,
[01:00:10] [SPEAKER_09]: and,
[01:00:10] [SPEAKER_09]: and,
[01:00:11] [SPEAKER_09]: and,
[01:00:11] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[01:00:12] [SPEAKER_07]: want and needs two different things.
[01:00:13] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm ambidestrious.
[01:00:14] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.
[01:00:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah,
[01:00:15] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm ambidestrious.
[01:00:16] [SPEAKER_07]: You see?
[01:00:17] [SPEAKER_07]: You see?
[01:00:18] [SPEAKER_09]: That's your man.
[01:00:19] [SPEAKER_09]: That's your man.
[01:00:20] [SPEAKER_09]: So I can go left.
[01:00:22] [SPEAKER_09]: I can go right with it any night.
[01:00:25] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[01:00:27] [SPEAKER_09]: so,
[01:00:28] [SPEAKER_09]: the,
[01:00:29] [SPEAKER_09]: technically,
[01:00:30] [SPEAKER_09]: what a person needs,
[01:00:31] [SPEAKER_09]: or what,
[01:00:32] [SPEAKER_09]: in a relationship,
[01:00:34] [SPEAKER_09]: can,
[01:00:34] [SPEAKER_09]: can be a little bit one-sided versus,
[01:00:36] [SPEAKER_09]: what she may want.
[01:00:38] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[01:00:40] [SPEAKER_09]: So,
[01:00:42] [SPEAKER_09]: I,
[01:00:42] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't look at it in a sense of,
[01:00:44] [SPEAKER_09]: tit for tat.
[01:00:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Okay,
[01:00:45] [SPEAKER_09]: well,
[01:00:46] [SPEAKER_09]: if you want this,
[01:00:47] [SPEAKER_09]: I want this too.
[01:00:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Because I may not necessarily need it.
[01:00:50] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[01:00:51] [SPEAKER_09]: Because there used to be a,
[01:00:52] [SPEAKER_09]: a point in time where it's like,
[01:00:54] [SPEAKER_09]: I want a girl who can cook.
[01:00:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Shit.
[01:00:59] [SPEAKER_09]: Well,
[01:00:59] [SPEAKER_09]: LaShawn,
[01:01:00] [SPEAKER_09]: you better learn,
[01:01:01] [SPEAKER_09]: you didn't find that.
[01:01:01] [SPEAKER_09]: So you better learn how to cook.
[01:01:03] [SPEAKER_09]: Okay,
[01:01:03] [SPEAKER_09]: now that I know how to cook,
[01:01:04] [SPEAKER_09]: or at least,
[01:01:05] [SPEAKER_09]: prepare a meal,
[01:01:06] [SPEAKER_09]: for myself,
[01:01:08] [SPEAKER_09]: or,
[01:01:08] [SPEAKER_09]: have the funds to go buy a meal.
[01:01:11] [SPEAKER_09]: That may not be a need for me anymore.
[01:01:15] [SPEAKER_09]: Or,
[01:01:16] [SPEAKER_09]: uh,
[01:01:17] [SPEAKER_09]: shit.
[01:01:18] [SPEAKER_09]: Well,
[01:01:19] [SPEAKER_09]: I'll pay the bills.
[01:01:20] [SPEAKER_09]: You clean.
[01:01:21] [SPEAKER_09]: No,
[01:01:22] [SPEAKER_09]: I kind of like,
[01:01:22] [SPEAKER_09]: I enjoy cleaning now.
[01:01:24] [SPEAKER_09]: I enjoy cleaning my own.
[01:01:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Cleaning is therapeutic.
[01:01:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah,
[01:01:27] [SPEAKER_09]: so,
[01:01:27] [SPEAKER_09]: so now,
[01:01:28] [SPEAKER_09]: you know what I'm saying?
[01:01:30] [SPEAKER_09]: I throw on mutt,
[01:01:31] [SPEAKER_02]: and it just,
[01:01:33] [SPEAKER_02]: take your time,
[01:01:34] [SPEAKER_02]: bust it right there.
[01:01:35] [SPEAKER_09]: And I slide it all over the floor.
[01:01:37] [SPEAKER_09]: It's just clean.
[01:01:39] [SPEAKER_09]: So now,
[01:01:40] [SPEAKER_09]: I enjoy that,
[01:01:41] [SPEAKER_09]: right?
[01:01:41] [SPEAKER_09]: Cool.
[01:01:43] [SPEAKER_09]: Doing laundry.
[01:01:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Either I go do it myself,
[01:01:47] [SPEAKER_09]: or I drop it off.
[01:01:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Simple,
[01:01:49] [SPEAKER_03]: man.
[01:01:49] [SPEAKER_09]: Pay for convenience.
[01:01:50] [SPEAKER_09]: So it's kind of like,
[01:01:51] [SPEAKER_09]: I,
[01:01:52] [SPEAKER_09]: the,
[01:01:53] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't even know if,
[01:01:54] [SPEAKER_09]: because it's not really materialistic,
[01:01:56] [SPEAKER_09]: but kind of the,
[01:01:57] [SPEAKER_09]: the status quo,
[01:01:59] [SPEAKER_09]: you know,
[01:01:59] [SPEAKER_09]: all the,
[01:02:00] [SPEAKER_09]: what society told you,
[01:02:01] [SPEAKER_09]: that a woman role is supposed to be.
[01:02:03] [SPEAKER_09]: Once you kind of,
[01:02:04] [SPEAKER_09]: the gender role.
[01:02:05] [SPEAKER_09]: Shout out to preach me again.
[01:02:06] [SPEAKER_09]: Once you conquer those on your own.
[01:02:08] [SPEAKER_09]: Conquer is crazy.
[01:02:09] [SPEAKER_09]: All right,
[01:02:10] [SPEAKER_09]: so what,
[01:02:10] [SPEAKER_03]: what about just the presence of a woman?
[01:02:13] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I told her.
[01:02:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like,
[01:02:15] [SPEAKER_03]: yo,
[01:02:15] [SPEAKER_03]: your presence is enough.
[01:02:17] [SPEAKER_09]: It's enough.
[01:02:18] [SPEAKER_09]: That's all I need.
[01:02:18] [SPEAKER_09]: You know what I'm saying?
[01:02:19] [SPEAKER_09]: I can smell your aroma in the air,
[01:02:21] [SPEAKER_09]: and I'm happy.
[01:02:22] [SPEAKER_09]: To the rustic.
[01:02:27] [SPEAKER_07]: Yo,
[01:02:28] [SPEAKER_07]: what the fuck?
[01:02:30] [SPEAKER_07]: That's some top 10 shit though.
[01:02:32] [SPEAKER_05]: Yo.
[01:02:33] [SPEAKER_07]: That nigga's sick.
[01:02:34] He gave it up his life.
[01:02:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh.
[01:02:37] [SPEAKER_03]: But honestly,
[01:02:38] [SPEAKER_03]: it could just be that.
[01:02:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo,
[01:02:40] [SPEAKER_03]: you,
[01:02:41] [SPEAKER_03]: you've listed out all these things that you kind of,
[01:02:43] [SPEAKER_03]: you know,
[01:02:44] [SPEAKER_03]: take care of because you were a grown ass man who has been living life and you
[01:02:47] [SPEAKER_03]: figured these things out for yourself.
[01:02:49] [SPEAKER_03]: And now there's a woman,
[01:02:50] [SPEAKER_03]: if there's a woman in your life,
[01:02:52] [SPEAKER_03]: okay,
[01:02:53] [SPEAKER_03]: what you,
[01:02:53] [SPEAKER_03]: what you bringing to the table?
[01:02:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?
[01:02:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?
[01:02:56] [SPEAKER_03]: What you bringing to the table?
[01:02:57] [SPEAKER_03]: And I don't really need this.
[01:02:58] [SPEAKER_03]: There's already something,
[01:02:58] [SPEAKER_03]: there's already a turkey here.
[01:02:59] [SPEAKER_03]: There's already rice here.
[01:03:00] [SPEAKER_03]: There's already all this stuff on the table.
[01:03:01] [SPEAKER_03]: What you bringing?
[01:03:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I got utensils.
[01:03:03] [SPEAKER_03]: What you bringing?
[01:03:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Just sit here.
[01:03:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[01:03:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Facts.
[01:03:07] [SPEAKER_07]: I just,
[01:03:07] [SPEAKER_07]: I just want you,
[01:03:08] [SPEAKER_07]: I just want your presence into,
[01:03:09] [SPEAKER_07]: I want you to love with me.
[01:03:10] [SPEAKER_07]: That's it.
[01:03:11] [SPEAKER_07]: We can love each other.
[01:03:11] [SPEAKER_07]: We good.
[01:03:12] [SPEAKER_07]: Matter of fact,
[01:03:12] [SPEAKER_03]: don't take nothing off the table.
[01:03:15] [SPEAKER_03]: True.
[01:03:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't be that person who is fucking this up.
[01:03:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[01:03:19] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[01:03:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[01:03:20] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what it is.
[01:03:21] [SPEAKER_07]: you forgot the napkins,
[01:03:22] [SPEAKER_07]: babe.
[01:03:22] [SPEAKER_07]: You just add a little something.
[01:03:23] [SPEAKER_07]: Add a little splash.
[01:03:24] [SPEAKER_07]: You don't want to add too much.
[01:03:25] [SPEAKER_07]: It's a little word.
[01:03:26] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[01:03:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Matter of fact,
[01:03:28] [SPEAKER_07]: just sit down.
[01:03:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Energy givers versus energy takers.
[01:03:30] [SPEAKER_03]: You coming in this room,
[01:03:32] [SPEAKER_03]: bring the energy,
[01:03:33] [SPEAKER_03]: bring positive energy.
[01:03:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Do not remove any of the positive energy from this room when you come in here.
[01:03:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Save that thought.
[01:03:40] [SPEAKER_09]: We're going to go,
[01:03:40] [SPEAKER_09]: we're going to wrap that,
[01:03:41] [SPEAKER_09]: wrap this up.
[01:03:42] [SPEAKER_09]: It's saved.
[01:03:43] [SPEAKER_09]: And bring that into the next episode.
[01:03:44] [SPEAKER_09]: It's the only thing we're wrapping up,
[01:03:45] [SPEAKER_07]: but,
[01:03:45] [SPEAKER_09]: that.
[01:03:46] [SPEAKER_09]: Huh?
[01:03:47] [SPEAKER_07]: It's just the only thing we're wrapping up.
[01:03:48] [SPEAKER_09]: Not me.
[01:03:51] [SPEAKER_07]: That's just the only thing we're wrapping up,
[01:03:52] [SPEAKER_07]: brothers.
[01:03:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh,
[01:03:52] [SPEAKER_07]: yeah,
[01:03:53] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah,
[01:03:53] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah.
[01:03:53] [SPEAKER_09]: I don't.
[01:03:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Be close to me.
[01:03:57] [SPEAKER_07]: These niggas,
[01:03:57] [SPEAKER_07]: bro.
[01:03:58] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh.
[01:03:59] [SPEAKER_09]: LA,
[01:03:59] [SPEAKER_07]: LA,
[01:03:59] [SPEAKER_07]: do your outro.
[01:04:01] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh,
[01:04:03] [SPEAKER_09]: yeah,
[01:04:04] [SPEAKER_09]: Monday.
[01:04:06] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah,
[01:04:07] [SPEAKER_09]: you can listen to What's A Good Guy coming out every Monday at 8 a.m.
[01:04:11] [SPEAKER_09]: or whatstagoodguy.com,
[01:04:12] [SPEAKER_09]: YouTube backslash What's A Good Guy.
[01:04:15] [SPEAKER_09]: of course,
[01:04:16] [SPEAKER_09]: the local DSPs.
[01:04:19] [SPEAKER_09]: You can follow me at StayFocusLA
[01:04:22] [SPEAKER_09]: or Instagram and Twitter.
[01:04:24] [SPEAKER_09]: Don't forget to like,
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[01:04:26] [SPEAKER_07]: I think What's A Good Guy,
[01:04:27] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm on.
[01:04:27] [SPEAKER_07]: I think my Instagram is Don Peasley
[01:04:29] [SPEAKER_07]: and also Don the Camera Guy.
[01:04:30] [SPEAKER_07]: Nigga always stinking.
[01:04:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Joe Godgame,
[01:04:32] [SPEAKER_03]: J-O underscore Godgame.
[01:04:34] [SPEAKER_03]: You know the vibes.
[01:04:34] [SPEAKER_07]: And we're going to pick off...
[01:04:36] [SPEAKER_07]: Am I supposed to think?
[01:04:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Huh?
[01:04:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Am I supposed to think or something?
[01:04:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I think my Instagram...
[01:04:40] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know it anymore.
[01:04:41] [SPEAKER_07]: It's been the same IG since the...
[01:04:43] [SPEAKER_07]: Boy,
[01:04:43] [SPEAKER_07]: if you want to watch me,
[01:04:45] [SPEAKER_09]: see me run
[01:04:45] [SPEAKER_03]: every day.
[01:04:47] [SPEAKER_03]: What was your Instagram before Don Peasley?
[01:04:52] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't fucking remember.
[01:04:53] [SPEAKER_07]: Probably some queen shit.
[01:04:54] [SPEAKER_07]: It's probably some queen shit.
[01:04:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Was it Don,
[01:04:57] [SPEAKER_09]: what,
[01:04:58] [SPEAKER_09]: QGTM?
[01:04:58] [SPEAKER_09]: It wasn't.
[01:05:01] [SPEAKER_07]: It wasn't.
[01:05:02] [SPEAKER_07]: But thanks, guys.
[01:05:04] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't remember it, though.
[01:05:06] [SPEAKER_07]: I think it was Don Perignon.
[01:05:09] [SPEAKER_09]: Oh, that's not bad.
[01:05:10] [SPEAKER_09]: That's not bad.
[01:05:11] [SPEAKER_09]: Mine was...
[01:05:12] [SPEAKER_09]: Corrignon.
[01:05:14] [SPEAKER_09]: In LA News.
[01:05:17] [SPEAKER_09]: I forgot...
[01:05:18] [SPEAKER_09]: Damn.
[01:05:20] [SPEAKER_09]: There was a record,
[01:05:21] [SPEAKER_09]: there was a record Ho did.
[01:05:22] [SPEAKER_09]: And he said...
[01:05:24] [SPEAKER_09]: LA News.
[01:05:25] [SPEAKER_09]: I know who that is.
[01:05:25] [SPEAKER_09]: He said something,
[01:05:26] [SPEAKER_09]: Jay-Z News.
[01:05:27] [SPEAKER_09]: Jay-Z News.
[01:05:28] [SPEAKER_09]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[01:05:29] [SPEAKER_09]: I forgot.
[01:05:29] [SPEAKER_09]: He started off with
[01:05:30] [SPEAKER_09]: Jay-Z News.
[01:05:31] [SPEAKER_09]: And I was like,
[01:05:32] [SPEAKER_09]: oh, that's tough.
[01:05:32] [SPEAKER_09]: I'm going to switch my eyes to LA.
[01:05:34] [SPEAKER_09]: Maybe a Kingdom Come Bar.
[01:05:35] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah.
[01:05:36] [SPEAKER_09]: It was definitely
[01:05:37] [SPEAKER_09]: like a blueprint.
[01:05:38] [SPEAKER_09]: It was earlier.
[01:05:40] [SPEAKER_09]: And before that,
[01:05:41] [SPEAKER_09]: when I was on
[01:05:42] [SPEAKER_09]: heavy on my
[01:05:43] [SPEAKER_09]: Christian shit.
[01:05:44] [SPEAKER_09]: Damn,
[01:05:44] [SPEAKER_09]: that sounds bad.
[01:05:45] [SPEAKER_09]: Christian?
[01:05:46] [SPEAKER_09]: Heavy on my Christian shit.
[01:05:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Shout out to Preach in the Buildings.
[01:05:48] [SPEAKER_09]: I think King Solomon's up there.
[01:05:50] [SPEAKER_09]: Because I liked it.
[01:05:51] [SPEAKER_09]: I liked his story.
[01:05:52] [SPEAKER_09]: He got the best story in the Bible.
[01:05:53] [SPEAKER_03]: You was on the Graham Sinning.
[01:05:54] [SPEAKER_09]: That's crazy.
[01:05:54] [SPEAKER_09]: Nah, I was definitely
[01:05:57] [SPEAKER_09]: celibate for sure.
[01:05:58] [SPEAKER_09]: That was my two and a half year celibacy.
[01:06:02] [SPEAKER_07]: Going to do that again?
[01:06:02] [SPEAKER_07]: I had no left.
[01:06:03] [SPEAKER_07]: I had no right.
[01:06:04] [SPEAKER_07]: All right.
[01:06:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Till next time.
[01:06:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Y'all stay frozen, people love it.
[01:06:06] [SPEAKER_09]: I couldn't dribble.
[01:06:07] [SPEAKER_09]: I was like,
[01:06:08] [SPEAKER_09]: Jaylen Brown.
[01:06:08] [SPEAKER_09]: God is good.