Episode 286: Delusion of Grandeur
What's A Good Guy?September 30, 2024
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Episode 286: Delusion of Grandeur

Welcome to our latest episode of ​⁠, where we dive into the intriguing topic of "Delusion of Grandeur." This week, we kick things off with a hilarious yet relatable story from Cyrus, who shares the moment he stumbled upon a message on his girlfriend’s phone, revealing how much she misses her ex’s... ahem, "large attributes." This unexpected discovery sparks a lively discussion on the concept of delusion and how social media can distort our perceptions of self-worth and relationships.

As we transition into defining "delusion of grandeur," we explore how social media influence plays a critical role in amplifying our self-perceptions and creating unrealistic expectations. Kojo joins the conversation, sharing if he has ever found himself caught up in his own hype.

In this episode, we cover essential talking points, including:

- Recognizing Our Limitations: The importance of acknowledging our flaws and areas for personal growth. - Practicing Humility: Strategies for remaining grounded and appreciating the journey, not just the destination. - Real-Life Examples: Personal stories of times we’ve felt inflated by our accomplishments and how we recalibrated our perspectives. - The Balance Between Confidence and Humility: How to be confident in our abilities without falling into the trap of arrogance.

Join us for an engaging conversation filled with laughter, insights, and practical advice on how to navigate the fine line between confidence and humility. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below!

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[00:00:05] [SPEAKER_08]: It's a little windy

[00:00:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Talking all last year, go suckin' naked dick with a new truck fit

[00:00:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I heard that you thought it all fan you doing the exam you're lovin' it now

[00:00:28] [SPEAKER_01]: You got a broken bed at it!

[00:00:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh wow, that's that's the end

[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh my god, this is a squise!

[00:00:44] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, that voice is not that gay

[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't fret any of you start your own fucking conversation with that fucker

[00:01:00] [SPEAKER_06]: You're a little bit of a chat bro

[00:01:01] [SPEAKER_07]: No, no, do I start that voice though?

[00:01:04] [SPEAKER_06]: I ain't gonna front that. If that group trailer took you to lead girl with overbro.

[00:01:08] [SPEAKER_07]: You said he said that.

[00:01:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, I got a question.

[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Bro, we start the part. Sorry, sorry, sorry.

[00:01:19] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know. You're significant out of the go see your phone.

[00:01:25] [SPEAKER_07]: She goes through the group chat. She goes through your messages.

[00:01:29] [SPEAKER_07]: She finds nothing. You break a law for it. Go do your phone.

[00:01:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, you don't trust me.

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm my lead. Break a break up with her, though.

[00:01:40] [SPEAKER_06]: But yeah, you go through my phone as kind of as I am. Yeah, I'm my lead because

[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_04]: you went through my phone and then lose weight. I might go to your phone and I might lose weight.

[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_06]: You feel guilty about something.

[00:01:49] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, you went through my phone because I didn't get your phone.

[00:01:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I'm going to lose weight.

[00:01:55] [SPEAKER_06]: I want some time to talk to myself. I said it's the same thing.

[00:01:57] [SPEAKER_06]: Anyway, you want lose weight. Go through almost phone and get COVID.

[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_06]: That's it, do you want us?

[00:02:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Shout out to Managet.

[00:02:04] [SPEAKER_07]: You got a what to phone?

[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Yep, versus a surgeon.

[00:02:07] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm good. I'm not doing it.

[00:02:08] [SPEAKER_04]: Worst of surgeon ever.

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_07]: Are you fowse or are you looking for a phone?

[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_04]: I was looking for Jackie, but I was looking for a phone.

[00:02:13] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, yeah, I'm good. I'm not good.

[00:02:15] [SPEAKER_04]: Hi, you think I'm skinny now?

[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_06]: You're rather, you're rather go to and not see nothing.

[00:02:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll go through it and see something.

[00:02:23] [SPEAKER_04]: I rather go through it and see something.

[00:02:25] [SPEAKER_04]: If I go through it, they find nothing.

[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_04]: They don't feel like no.

[00:02:28] [SPEAKER_04]: Bro, because I rather than not.

[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_06]: No, no, no, no, I said I don't.

[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't want, I'm not doing this.

[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_04]: And that's how women your phone over the next day.

[00:02:34] [SPEAKER_04]: So that should be on these days.

[00:02:35] [SPEAKER_04]: I passed my phone and I was like, what are you talking about?

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't touch them in front of me.

[00:02:39] [SPEAKER_08]: I hate it, bro.

[00:02:40] [SPEAKER_08]: I think, because I had, I had, I never gone through a phone

[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_08]: like purposely, but I'm told.

[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_08]: But accident, not going, not going.

[00:02:49] [SPEAKER_08]: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_08]: We're not going to go through it.

[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_08]: But like, you know, I'm told.

[00:02:52] [SPEAKER_08]: So I kind of like overlooked.

[00:02:54] [SPEAKER_06]: So people, you will feel people.

[00:02:56] [SPEAKER_08]: But accident though, but accident.

[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_06]: And it was like, sorry.

[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_06]: This is how Sarah said it.

[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_06]: And the thing is, and the thing is,

[00:03:01] [SPEAKER_08]: now you do that too.

[00:03:02] [SPEAKER_06]: The thing is,

[00:03:03] [SPEAKER_06]: I mean, if I'm, I'm the accident.

[00:03:04] [SPEAKER_08]: It was a message from,

[00:03:06] [SPEAKER_06]: so you would bed look in my phone.

[00:03:07] [SPEAKER_06]: You know, I learned from him though.

[00:03:09] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.

[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_06]: So let me go and do everything.

[00:03:12] [SPEAKER_06]: Nick is going to tell him, so get the fuck off.

[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm trying to see.

[00:03:15] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm going to say him in my life.

[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_08]: No, I was saying it was a message from somebody else

[00:03:20] [SPEAKER_08]: that said something about me.

[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_08]: And I couldn't necessarily like see what it was.

[00:03:24] [SPEAKER_08]: The message, but all I saw was boyfriend.

[00:03:26] [SPEAKER_08]: And I actually was eating me up.

[00:03:28] [SPEAKER_08]: Like for months.

[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_08]: I didn't go through.

[00:03:31] [SPEAKER_08]: I just asked like, yo, what was that?

[00:03:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Like months later?

[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_08]: Months later.

[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, sure.

[00:03:35] [SPEAKER_08]: Let me see.

[00:03:35] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not sure if I don't do the same thing.

[00:03:38] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm telling this story.

[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_04]: So they didn't said person and go through the,

[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't know how to handle it.

[00:03:45] [SPEAKER_04]: I told you to find a way to fix it.

[00:03:48] [SPEAKER_04]: I'll fix it.

[00:03:48] [SPEAKER_04]: I actually see her.

[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_04]: She was taking a boy friend.

[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Tough.

[00:03:52] [SPEAKER_04]: At the time we started dating tough.

[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_04]: And what she said to him, maybe,

[00:03:57] [SPEAKER_04]: she was like, don't worry.

[00:04:00] [SPEAKER_04]: She'll never be you.

[00:04:02] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, no.

[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_04]: No.

[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_04]: It's a long time she was,

[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_04]: oh, man, I'm gonna say this.

[00:04:06] [SPEAKER_04]: That's it.

[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_04]: She was like, she called your friend.

[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_04]: No, she was like, she was like, God,

[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_04]: damn, like a friend.

[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_04]: I missed that big, big, big.

[00:04:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, no.

[00:04:14] [SPEAKER_04]: No.

[00:04:14] [SPEAKER_04]: That's all.

[00:04:15] [SPEAKER_04]: You missed that big one?

[00:04:19] [SPEAKER_04]: Nega, I'm looking at her phone.

[00:04:20] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm looking at her phone.

[00:04:22] [SPEAKER_04]: No, that's not this big thing.

[00:04:27] Yeah.

[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_04]: Now, you have a, I'm not,

[00:04:29] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm gonna do it.

[00:04:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's see.

[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm lit.

[00:04:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Somla.

[00:04:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo.

[00:04:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Wait, so she's driving.

[00:04:35] [SPEAKER_04]: No, I'm driving.

[00:04:36] [SPEAKER_07]: So I put up a phone and drive.

[00:04:38] [SPEAKER_04]: We just finished rumping in the car,

[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_04]: which he did.

[00:04:40] [SPEAKER_04]: That was for the second.

[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, no.

[00:04:42] [SPEAKER_04]: I can't get in the car.

[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_04]: What are you with?

[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_04]: No, so we're like, this is, this is the year after

[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm seeing this message.

[00:04:52] [SPEAKER_04]: Why?

[00:04:52] [SPEAKER_04]: This is what it's got.

[00:04:53] [SPEAKER_04]: We started dating October to take the next.

[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_04]: October, this is maybe next year.

[00:04:59] [SPEAKER_04]: October, I'm seeing these messages.

[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_04]: What was she saying when you say that you?

[00:05:02] [SPEAKER_07]: Trying to fix it.

[00:05:03] [SPEAKER_07]: So, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

[00:05:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I want to run, I just want to get into your state of mind.

[00:05:09] [SPEAKER_07]: So you finished rumping shorty every and you want to call

[00:05:11] [SPEAKER_07]: you and the car, you can say.

[00:05:13] [SPEAKER_07]: So how long did you get in here?

[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_04]: I want to say, I want to say, I want to,

[00:05:20] [SPEAKER_04]: I want to show me something or she was like,

[00:05:23] [SPEAKER_04]: she was like, you, oh my, cool.

[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_04]: Hi, so that's all I got in my mind.

[00:05:27] [SPEAKER_04]: She got my, what's, what's your message?

[00:05:29] [SPEAKER_07]: What made you go to his name?

[00:05:31] [SPEAKER_04]: I didn't go to the name.

[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_04]: I went to, it was, it wasn't his name.

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_04]: It was unsafe number.

[00:05:36] [SPEAKER_04]: So the unsafe number text of recently?

[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_04]: No, it was like, I guess, so where did you find it?

[00:05:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Because I'm trying to figure out your speed of scrolling.

[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_04]: Like, I'm like this, you know what it was?

[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_04]: No, I had to phone my hand out and think

[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_04]: how she was going to ox.

[00:05:50] [SPEAKER_04]: And I was like, you're in play a song real quick.

[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_04]: And then up, you know, you do that?

[00:05:53] [SPEAKER_07]: You want to share to the message?

[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_04]: And then go to the message, I went to the,

[00:05:55] [SPEAKER_04]: I went to the music ship.

[00:05:57] [SPEAKER_04]: And I would like, wait, I don't know the text in you.

[00:06:01] [SPEAKER_04]: But it was like, just, you know,

[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_04]: like something else text there.

[00:06:04] [SPEAKER_04]: She was like, what are you talking about?

[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, like, yo, no one in his phone.

[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_04]: So that's on the end of film me.

[00:06:10] [SPEAKER_04]: She'll both be in, you know, I was like,

[00:06:12] [SPEAKER_04]: hold on, I'm like, wait.

[00:06:13] [SPEAKER_04]: So how do I say, scroll?

[00:06:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Look at this, look at this, look at this.

[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll lay this one over how it got, look at this.

[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll be something, we're all about it.

[00:06:19] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm just going to the next.

[00:06:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm just going here out.

[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_07]: So if he was in 2008.

[00:06:23] [SPEAKER_07]: And then the year is 2009.

[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_07]: How you get to, oh, eight so fast?

[00:06:28] [SPEAKER_04]: That means she, I guess,

[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_04]: do it at that period of whatever she was in.

[00:06:31] [SPEAKER_06]: It's not talking about she's not talking to people.

[00:06:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Because unless she didn't leave a lot of messages,

[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_06]: that's kind of weird.

[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_04]: Or even not, you know what I'm saying?

[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_04]: So I'm looking at, no, you know what I've seen.

[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_04]: I've seen it with like yo, I'm sorry for everything.

[00:06:41] [SPEAKER_04]: I did not but like, what does it look like?

[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, say, I've texted a few days before.

[00:06:43] [SPEAKER_06]: We're just probably, yeah.

[00:06:44] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, he text, like, it text, they're apologizing,

[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_04]: but no, he like, a ye, like maybe like in December,

[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_04]: like you, I'm sorry, everything.

[00:06:49] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not having y'all to y'all to y'all to sign a line.

[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_04]: Why is that good texting?

[00:06:54] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:06:55] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm doing, I'm doing the timeline now.

[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_04]: Like this is December.

[00:06:58] [SPEAKER_04]: I think actually do my girlfriend in December.

[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_04]: Like, let's go and know why I think it takes

[00:07:02] [SPEAKER_04]: on you, you said we locked it on the counter.

[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_06]: No, no.

[00:07:05] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what?

[00:07:06] [SPEAKER_06]: What is your mindset when she read that message

[00:07:08] [SPEAKER_06]: that she, yeah, she missed that thing.

[00:07:12] [SPEAKER_06]: I was like, oh, you looked at George.

[00:07:15] [SPEAKER_06]: I was like, I was like,

[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_04]: no, I got me because he's laughing on you.

[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm fraud.

[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm looking at my shit on the mirror.

[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_04]: He's laughing on the power.

[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, I don't have a big day tonight.

[00:07:29] [SPEAKER_04]: I think it goes on.

[00:07:30] [SPEAKER_04]: She's like, no, it's not.

[00:07:31] [SPEAKER_04]: I think that's, I don't know what's going on.

[00:07:33] [SPEAKER_04]: I was feeling to do, you might be happy about the sex

[00:07:36] [SPEAKER_04]: that I was like, oh, I got, yeah.

[00:07:40] [SPEAKER_06]: She told you, yeah, you were happy about the sex.

[00:07:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, I told you.

[00:07:43] [SPEAKER_07]: You think you think what the hell?

[00:07:44] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't know how to tell them.

[00:07:46] Okay.

[00:07:47] [SPEAKER_04]: Just don't see it, okay?

[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's get into this little cars.

[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, what on?

[00:07:53] [SPEAKER_04]: This will be no big dicks.

[00:07:55] [SPEAKER_04]: I was kidding.

[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, what was this right?

[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_04]: Something, my big mouth.

[00:07:59] [SPEAKER_04]: I was going, oh, no.

[00:08:00] [SPEAKER_04]: She was like, no, just,

[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_04]: wait for that the time, you know?

[00:08:04] [SPEAKER_04]: We each have a stroke as ego,

[00:08:05] [SPEAKER_04]: take a stroke as ego, take a stroke as ego.

[00:08:07] [SPEAKER_04]: Be sure about a stroke, take a stroke.

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_04]: Take a stroke, take a stroke.

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_04]: She's finished.

[00:08:10] [SPEAKER_04]: Exactly.

[00:08:10] [SPEAKER_04]: He's just running and monkey too.

[00:08:12] [SPEAKER_04]: It's what I had to see.

[00:08:13] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm jabbing like this a whole time.

[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, no, it's not going to put a music.

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_04]: I can't even wait till I get you home.

[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_04]: It's like, get your teos.

[00:08:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Like a wild job to off.

[00:08:22] [SPEAKER_06]: She may be having me in the crash, I wonder.

[00:08:24] [SPEAKER_04]: Exactly.

[00:08:24] [SPEAKER_04]: And that's what I was talking about.

[00:08:26] [SPEAKER_04]: And I think I'm bad.

[00:08:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, she does.

[00:08:28] [SPEAKER_04]: And I do a worse.

[00:08:29] [SPEAKER_04]: How did that go?

[00:08:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Do, do, do, do.

[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Drop the hole, I'll do it.

[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll do it.

[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll do it.

[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll do it.

[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_04]: That was cool.

[00:08:36] [SPEAKER_04]: She's like, no, that's what I was like, no.

[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_04]: If you want to do big dicks.

[00:08:42] [SPEAKER_04]: That's just wrong.

[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_04]: That's just wrong.

[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_04]: And you want to do big dicks?

[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_04]: You do the big dicks.

[00:08:46] [SPEAKER_04]: You're a big.

[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_04]: I got what I have here.

[00:08:50] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't know what I have.

[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_04]: That's what I can.

[00:08:54] [SPEAKER_04]: Lee, me and your big dicks have a gas.

[00:08:57] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo.

[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_04]: A lot.

[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo.

[00:08:59] [SPEAKER_06]: No, this is the girl.

[00:09:01] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo, man, no, this is my fucking, she wants to have a love.

[00:09:03] [SPEAKER_06]: There's always down piece of the low side of the show.

[00:09:06] [SPEAKER_06]: Never be the good day, hand of your city.

[00:09:08] [SPEAKER_01]: The way I get into it.

[00:09:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to interrupt.

[00:09:10] [SPEAKER_01]: What the, what an intro.

[00:09:13] [SPEAKER_05]: That's crazy.

[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_05]: She fucked the old body.

[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_05]: Um, yeah.

[00:09:17] [SPEAKER_05]: Come back to this kickstand baby.

[00:09:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like, hold on now.

[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Tried part.com.

[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_06]: 3 legs.

[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_06]: 3 legs.

[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_06]: It means we didn't get this at Ben's Bobby.

[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_06]: We got this to add a rhyme on baby.

[00:09:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, shit.

[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_04]: You dig me, baby.

[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Come on, baby.

[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_04]: I ain't groove yet.

[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_04]: Fuck that.

[00:09:36] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm so high.

[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel a minute.

[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_04]: I feel a minute.

[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_04]: I feel a minute.

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_04]: I feel a minute.

[00:09:43] [SPEAKER_04]: I feel a minute.

[00:09:45] [SPEAKER_04]: Like this.

[00:09:46] [SPEAKER_04]: Look at that mushroom.

[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_08]: I don't feel like shrimpy.

[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm just saying to get up, don't leave this crazy.

[00:09:54] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, I'm like, yeah.

[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm like, yeah.

[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, I'm like, then they go in and out of the one and no video on the tub and

[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_04]: shit or soaking wet and shit my clothes on.

[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_04]: Like, oh, there's some bullshit doing dick ups and shit with the right eye.

[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_04]: She crazy, huh?

[00:10:09] [SPEAKER_04]: Man.

[00:10:09] [SPEAKER_05]: He goes with the right.

[00:10:11] [SPEAKER_05]: He goes with the right.

[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_05]: He goes with the right.

[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo, Cyrus is on a million right now.

[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_04]: Listen man.

[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_07]: Yo.

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_04]: That's how you got things like.

[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_04]: You don't want to think about it.

[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_04]: I got something that one book in for Dave Boogie.

[00:10:23] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, they're going to make it.

[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm pivoting episodes.

[00:10:26] [SPEAKER_07]: Because now, now, oh, no.

[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Nick is getting drunk.

[00:10:31] [SPEAKER_07]: No, no, no, no.

[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_07]: You still don't get it.

[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_07]: But Cyrus's opening story is is a good segue to this episode that I had.

[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_07]: Called delusion of grandeur.

[00:10:41] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.

[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_07]: Man, so the definition of delusion of grandeur is because you know, you know, I like to find

[00:10:52] [SPEAKER_07]: things and being literal delusion of grandeur is also known as grandiose delusion.

[00:10:59] [SPEAKER_07]: It's a false belief that someone has special power wealth or other traits that are not true.

[00:11:04] [SPEAKER_07]: I, e, having a big dick.

[00:11:06] [SPEAKER_07]: People with delusion of grandeur may believe they are famous in mortal or have the ability to end

[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_07]: more is delusion of grandeur.

[00:11:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Uh, can be a symptom of mental health or disorders such as schizophrenia, bipolar disorder

[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_07]: or dementia or also can be caused by other illnesses.

[00:11:24] [SPEAKER_07]: In other words, you think you're bigger than you really are.

[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_08]: Is that point intended or not?

[00:11:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Well, it wasn't until now, but he gave the great episode.

[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_07]: So it's like a false belief in one's superiority identity or which country next reality.

[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_07]: So I'll give you a brief example.

[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_07]: Well, no example better than what Cyrus just did.

[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_07]: But um, I was working a flight and there are certain, there are certain things that you could lock.

[00:11:57] [SPEAKER_07]: So I put my bag in the bin and I locked it because sometimes when people are rushing off the plane,

[00:12:05] [SPEAKER_07]: they grab and don't realize they accidentally grab and they roll back.

[00:12:11] [SPEAKER_07]: So I was working with a co-worker and I guess she tried to, I wasn't even going to try to say gender.

[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_07]: The person tried to open up the bin and she noticed it was locked.

[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_07]: And she goes on this whole like, I don't know who the fuck like in the bin's blah blah blah.

[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_07]: Like it's so in my mind, stay here in the place.

[00:12:31] [SPEAKER_07]: I was about to say oh, it's not that deep.

[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Like we all got keys and open it up but I'm like, you mean, you mean, you tested?

[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you mean, you made yourself so much.

[00:12:42] [SPEAKER_07]: But fuck, in my mind, I'm like yo, you really thought that you mattered so much that I locked this bin

[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_07]: and make sure you don't put your bag up here.

[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_07]: I do this on every flight, you know what I'm saying?

[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_07]: But I'm proud of myself because I didn't react.

[00:12:58] [SPEAKER_07]: But um, people sometimes you feel like you matter more than you really do.

[00:13:05] [SPEAKER_07]: So that's what came to my, sorry, I was trying to say that intro.

[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_07]: That was, I didn't expect that.

[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_07]: I didn't write that down but um, boom.

[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_07]: His one example of that.

[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_07]: How platforms can amplify our senses of self-apportence and the dangers of comparison.

[00:13:25] [SPEAKER_07]: So, so the role of social media.

[00:13:29] [SPEAKER_04]: The worst thing to happen to the community.

[00:13:31] [SPEAKER_04]: Actually, that might be second words in there.

[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_07]: I actually had an episode written down um, the internet was a mistake but we could kind of incorporate.

[00:13:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Can you flip that over screen?

[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_07]: So I can see it.

[00:13:43] [SPEAKER_07]: Thank you buddy.

[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_04]: Um, well, not.

[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_07]: Uh, social media.

[00:13:50] [SPEAKER_07]: You are the only thing that's tired.

[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_07]: So I wanted to do an episode.

[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_07]: I had it written down but we could incorporate that into this.

[00:13:59] [SPEAKER_07]: That social media, no, not social media per se.

[00:14:03] [SPEAKER_07]: The internet was a mistake.

[00:14:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I think in theory, you know, it's a good thing.

[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_07]: But to have that much access to everybody's thoughts and thoughts to everybody's view of things.

[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_07]: What was that movie?

[00:14:21] [SPEAKER_07]: Um, squirrels by now.

[00:14:22] [SPEAKER_07]: You are a movie buff where there is this guy that uh,

[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_07]: his brain was gonna explode because he was getting so much information.

[00:14:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Um, it's like an android movie with like, you know how they say you only supposed to use like,

[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_07]: we only use it.

[00:14:41] [SPEAKER_07]: I think so.

[00:14:43] [SPEAKER_07]: Like we only supposed to use six percent of our brain or whatever percentage.

[00:14:47] [SPEAKER_07]: And he was able to use a hundred percent.

[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, that was the one.

[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, that was the one.

[00:14:53] [SPEAKER_07]: I feel like the internet sometimes can over stimulate our minds because you're constantly seeing

[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_07]: so many thoughts, so many opinions and not enough fat checking that you're incorporating your logic go

[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_07]: believe if you're weak minded to what the masses is a lot of group thinking.

[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Right?

[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Or even if we know the truth of the situation, you don't want to speak out on it because you'll be

[00:15:22] [SPEAKER_07]: out lighter.

[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_07]: For example, what we know personally, but if we come out and say, you know,

[00:15:28] [SPEAKER_07]: that thing right, the dangers of being right can also get you crucified.

[00:15:35] [SPEAKER_08]: Absolutely.

[00:15:36] [SPEAKER_08]: So because a lot of people on the internet don't like to admit that they jumped out the window

[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_08]: to the sun and our own.

[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Mm-hmm.

[00:15:43] [SPEAKER_07]: So but also social media also gives like a quote unquote, uh, a number to your importance.

[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_07]: For example, a following count.

[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_07]: You have X amount of people following you versus you following and you've seen it in the earliest

[00:16:04] [SPEAKER_07]: stages of how that got to people says, what keep it as simplest plain as my space?

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_07]: We all meet each other.

[00:16:13] [SPEAKER_07]: We're all in our new, we're doing a top eight.

[00:16:16] [SPEAKER_07]: The next week or we go to different schools.

[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm in school for a little bit.

[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_07]: You're now instead of you being three, you're now six.

[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Damn, I moved down three places in Los Angeles life.

[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not, I'm not number three.

[00:16:30] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not his three.

[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_08]: I didn't forget who was in my top.

[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_07]: No, I know everybody, I know everybody in the exact order to this day.

[00:16:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:16:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I didn't get a memory of another family.

[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_07]: To this day, I remember my top eight.

[00:16:43] [SPEAKER_07]: But even then when you move for your move a person,

[00:16:46] [SPEAKER_07]: you may feel like damn or you move up or you move down.

[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_07]: You even see people who do like balloons when they get like a honey cane or whatever.

[00:16:54] [SPEAKER_07]: They, you know, they do this whole thing.

[00:16:55] [SPEAKER_08]: Celebrate those those round numbers.

[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_07]: You know, so that social media could also play a role in people thinking they're bigger than they are.

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_07]: You have a notice where certain celebrities get arrested and the first thing they say is that occupation?

[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_08]: Like, yeah, I'm a rapper.

[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_06]: Even, even because they're like, I've seen people as a school's party.

[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_06]: That's the first thing they say.

[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_06]: You don't know who I am.

[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_06]: It's like, Nick, I don't.

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Who are you?

[00:17:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Even that when we did the Africa, we did an NLPP event.

[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_06]: And we used that to do it.

[00:17:25] [SPEAKER_06]: I think it was like, yo, this is why I think it's like, your name's on the list, bro.

[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, that works.

[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_07]: That doesn't work for me because I don't know who people are about their belly.

[00:17:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, I don't think I think it's don't care about that.

[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_08]: I mean, I remember it was one of the last days that we were running out that we were going to the park this summer.

[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_08]: And this new security guard was there.

[00:17:43] [SPEAKER_08]: She didn't know who I was.

[00:17:44] [SPEAKER_08]: And I walked in, obviously, all the other security guards know me and she tried to stop me and search me.

[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_08]: So I froze and I was like, oh, I work here.

[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_08]: Instead of saying instead of just like letting me go, she's like, who you work for?

[00:17:56] [SPEAKER_08]: Like, she challenged that.

[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_07]: But she doing her job.

[00:17:59] [SPEAKER_08]: Which I respect it.

[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_08]: But I had to let, instead of getting offended, I just laughed because I'm like, damn, you really don't know me.

[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_08]: Cool, I ain't who I think I am or whatever the case is.

[00:18:06] [SPEAKER_06]: But it's a one and a very humble one.

[00:18:09] [SPEAKER_08]: It's humbling.

[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_08]: But then the security guard right behind her was like, oh no, that's Joe.

[00:18:13] [SPEAKER_08]: He good.

[00:18:13] [SPEAKER_08]: Like, okay.

[00:18:15] [SPEAKER_08]: And then she apologized.

[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_08]: But I'm like, no, it's okay.

[00:18:17] [SPEAKER_08]: You're doing your job.

[00:18:17] [SPEAKER_08]: She searched the label.

[00:18:18] [SPEAKER_08]: It's like, I remember having that moment.

[00:18:22] [SPEAKER_08]: Do you mean person?

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah.

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_07]: I feel like you have a delusion of grandeur.

[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_08]: No.

[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm not delusion.

[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_08]: I work for everything I got, brother.

[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_07]: Best not with the question is, Coach.

[00:18:33] [SPEAKER_07]: Now we defy the question.

[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_08]: Can you put it in the, in the, in the, replace the, the term with the definition and the question.

[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.

[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_08]: Because that should distract.

[00:18:41] [SPEAKER_07]: Coach, do you have a false belief in your superiority or identity which contradicts

[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_07]: your reality?

[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_08]: No, I don't.

[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_08]: I don't.

[00:18:49] [SPEAKER_06]: I think Coach was big enough who he is.

[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_06]: Do you think he is?

[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_08]: Do you think I think I bigger than who I am?

[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_06]: What's the part of time?

[00:18:54] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like I used to.

[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, the ignorant, the ignorant coach.

[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_06]: What's the part of time?

[00:18:59] [SPEAKER_08]: Can, can you, can you expand on that and what, what, what, what was it that I was doing?

[00:19:06] [SPEAKER_08]: That's made you feel that way.

[00:19:07] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what, the coach does, you know, is everything like that?

[00:19:09] [SPEAKER_07]: No, no, no, no, no, no.

[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_07]: I have really, no, that's way before.

[00:19:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I think, um, first of all, no, not even that.

[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Keep that face on that.

[00:19:17] [SPEAKER_06]: I think you literally say you, you know a book like, yeah, I know books.

[00:19:21] [SPEAKER_08]: I just take it.

[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_08]: I never said that because I got the line about that.

[00:19:25] [SPEAKER_08]: You called books.

[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_08]: Books is clear.

[00:19:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Um, hmm.

[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't want to pinpoint the error.

[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.

[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_07]: But there was a point of time where you was the go-to man for everything, and I

[00:19:42] [SPEAKER_07]: feel like you, you, you, you constantly kept your dick on the table, right?

[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Uh, you know, you're the one who told me.

[00:19:54] [SPEAKER_07]: I did something, I did everything I did.

[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_04]: I knew it was compun up on the far, far, far, far, far.

[00:20:01] [SPEAKER_04]: I was talking about, yeah, I knew it was, I knew it was a Jackie put.

[00:20:03] [SPEAKER_07]: You were playing Nut hand.

[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to have a bunch of generals.

[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_07]: We could have, we could have, we could have cave off the impression that it was a

[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_07]: cocky arrogant African.

[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_07]: That's about cocky, you know.

[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, I'm not saying that.

[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I was like, I'm telling you, you said, yo, yeah, I know, I know, ain't you?

[00:20:26] [SPEAKER_06]: I used to say you know, I know, I used to tell you.

[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_08]: I don't believe you.

[00:20:28] [SPEAKER_06]: That's the first thing we met you, browser, you know, you know, that's like, you're

[00:20:32] [SPEAKER_08]: like, you're like, ah, I don't have a, yeah, I don't have a, I don't have a, I don't have a

[00:21:01] [SPEAKER_08]: I don't know what to do.

[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_08]: I don't say, but I don't think I'm catching a spray cousin.

[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_08]: Because I can't catch one.

[00:21:12] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm a friend of mine.

[00:21:12] [SPEAKER_08]: I wouldn't even sit down.

[00:21:14] [SPEAKER_08]: Remember that?

[00:21:14] [SPEAKER_08]: I stood up all the time.

[00:21:15] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, because you were shot over look up.

[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_07]: That's how I assert dominance.

[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_08]: I.

[00:21:21] [SPEAKER_07]: The African giant.

[00:21:24] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm hoping to check out.

[00:21:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Even until the fuck out.

[00:21:27] [SPEAKER_07]: But.

[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_07]: But.

[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, I feel like I've a.

[00:21:31] [SPEAKER_08]: Except for from that man.

[00:21:33] [SPEAKER_07]: Delusion of granted no, I probably I probably got too small.

[00:21:38] Yeah.

[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.

[00:21:39] [SPEAKER_06]: I got the strip.

[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm sure.

[00:21:43] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't think so.

[00:21:44] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't think so.

[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_06]: I can see.

[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_06]: Grounded and humble.

[00:21:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.

[00:21:49] [SPEAKER_06]: Very modest even if somebody says, oh my god, I love that you do this.

[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, thank you.

[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.

[00:21:54] [SPEAKER_07]: Sometimes you think you more than you really are.

[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_08]: And.

[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_08]: Is it a thought or is it?

[00:21:58] [SPEAKER_08]: I think.

[00:21:59] [SPEAKER_08]: And I'm pretty excited so we talked about having belief in yourself.

[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_06]: But what's what what was there.

[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_06]: It's there.

[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_06]: It's too much belief.

[00:22:05] [SPEAKER_06]: What was there between a lot of belief in yourself and cocking it.

[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Hold on.

[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Right.

[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll explain it.

[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm using these freaky ass words.

[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

[00:22:14] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to ask the last part of it, right?

[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_07]: Which contradicts.

[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_07]: Realyn.

[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh.

[00:22:21] [SPEAKER_07]: So you could think you this hot shit.

[00:22:23] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, you want.

[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_07]: But that's a cop.

[00:22:26] [SPEAKER_07]: You're, you're this confidence.

[00:22:27] [SPEAKER_07]: Or you're believed is a contradiction to your reality.

[00:22:32] [SPEAKER_07]: So you really need to see it.

[00:22:34] [SPEAKER_08]: You're not who you think you've got to meet when I was swinging my.

[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, yeah.

[00:22:40] Yeah.

[00:22:40] [SPEAKER_08]: You're right.

[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_08]: That's what we're going to do.

[00:22:43] [SPEAKER_08]: But I think it was so much.

[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_08]: And that's in that same breath.

[00:22:46] [SPEAKER_08]: I think I had a lot of proof to back up my claims.

[00:22:51] [SPEAKER_06]: You.

[00:22:52] [SPEAKER_08]: I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean,

[00:22:57] [SPEAKER_08]: if it was, if I was talking to how all this shit and I was not actually doing it.

[00:23:03] [SPEAKER_07]: Well, it depends on the the.

[00:23:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Hmm, the view of the reality, right?

[00:23:10] [SPEAKER_07]: There's no reality.

[00:23:12] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay, cool.

[00:23:14] [SPEAKER_07]: Cool.

[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, Joe don't do that.

[00:23:16] [SPEAKER_08]: Wow, this could turn into a debate.

[00:23:18] [SPEAKER_08]: Because I, because a client didn't like what I did.

[00:23:20] [SPEAKER_08]: No, probably.

[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm going to talk about that.

[00:23:24] [SPEAKER_07]: Um, somebody could say for a person who breaks like this why don't you have this.

[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Why aren't you here?

[00:23:32] [SPEAKER_07]: You talk all this hot shit, but you still live here.

[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_07]: That's what's in that.

[00:23:37] [SPEAKER_07]: That's like talking about you.

[00:23:40] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm just talking about you.

[00:23:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Not like you, you talked as hot shit.

[00:23:42] [SPEAKER_06]: You just have these miles.

[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_06]: You should have the hit.

[00:23:44] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll take this off you there.

[00:23:46] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't want to sorry you.

[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't want to say.

[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_07]: And they didn't talk about money, right?

[00:23:51] [SPEAKER_07]: Cool.

[00:23:51] [SPEAKER_07]: And they like, like what's it?

[00:23:54] [SPEAKER_07]: Right?

[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_07]: That or they talk all this hot shit.

[00:23:58] [SPEAKER_07]: This doesn't matter.

[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_07]: And they're trapping out the amount of added good.

[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_07]: They trapping out the amount of basement or they sleeping on a couch and they talk all the way.

[00:24:07] [SPEAKER_07]: You, you see people who talk hot shit and it, and it's easy.

[00:24:10] [SPEAKER_06]: And it doesn't equivalent to what they got going on for.

[00:24:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, the reality of how they like, my pops always said you never know how they obtained this.

[00:24:18] [SPEAKER_07]: So who's allowed to talk hot shit then?

[00:24:20] [SPEAKER_06]: The person, that is a person that has it though.

[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_07]: See, it's not, it's not CC.

[00:24:23] [SPEAKER_07]: That's why I was saying it's perception is not even who's allowed.

[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Is your gender, the reality or you just trying to put on to make it seen?

[00:24:35] [SPEAKER_07]: So for example, there was a point of time where you could have bought followers.

[00:24:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Remember that error?

[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_07]: I think you're still can't.

[00:24:46] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm in the blue check.

[00:24:47] [SPEAKER_07]: So oh, no, I'm in.

[00:24:48] [SPEAKER_07]: And so Instagram came out with that thing that showed where you clicked it and told you how they obtained it.

[00:24:55] [SPEAKER_07]: That shit got a lot of people.

[00:24:58] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, right?

[00:24:59] [SPEAKER_07]: Right.

[00:25:01] [SPEAKER_07]: The cool, even not because you used that, the blue check verification symbolized the status of you a verifinal.

[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_07]: Somebody, you're important.

[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_07]: You're important.

[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_07]: Somebody wants to be like you, so they have to make sure that's your info.

[00:25:14] [SPEAKER_07]: There were certain people that wouldn't deal with you if you weren't having it.

[00:25:18] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, verify.

[00:25:20] [SPEAKER_07]: That's true.

[00:25:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Okay, so that's the case too.

[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Friends, I'll give you a few questions.

[00:25:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Until they kind of pulled the curtain back.

[00:25:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, this person purchased their verification in 2018.

[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_07]: Or, let's do this a lot of that.

[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_07]: That's a good way, a lot of power.

[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_07]: So the belief in that you, there is something to let also that letting things get to your head.

[00:25:43] [SPEAKER_07]: You know, for me, I feel like I've experienced enough ups and downs where I never get too big headed all my ups.

[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Because I know what the downs feel like.

[00:25:54] [SPEAKER_07]: I've had to scrap something together that make make things shit.

[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:25:59] [SPEAKER_07]: But I've also been in a place where I've done with a surplus amount.

[00:26:03] [SPEAKER_07]: You know, so I know what it's like.

[00:26:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Can I put a bit of perspective?

[00:26:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, sure.

[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_08]: I, because I remember, you know, that time.

[00:26:13] [SPEAKER_08]: But also remember the times where I didn't even know how to do what I was good at.

[00:26:17] [SPEAKER_08]: And I remember who taught me and I remember who was spending, I remember me being alone watching YouTube every night trying to get my skills up and practicing and failing and trying and doing all this.

[00:26:27] [SPEAKER_08]: I remember charging $20 a load with, I remember charging that, that I remember to come up in the tough days.

[00:26:31] [SPEAKER_08]: So I remember, I also, I also appreciate that journey enough to, to that when I got to the point where it was much different.

[00:26:39] [SPEAKER_08]: I wanted to speak about it and be loud about it and let people know.

[00:26:43] [SPEAKER_08]: But there's also times we had to kind of force me to put my name out there and stuff like that.

[00:26:46] [SPEAKER_08]: I'll never forget a friend of mine really told me that I had to remove something that was my pinned tweet because it didn't showcase any of my art.

[00:26:54] [SPEAKER_08]: And I was like, oh, I didn't really want it to be.

[00:26:56] [SPEAKER_08]: I didn't want to showcase that.

[00:26:57] [SPEAKER_08]: Like, there was times in that period where people had to push me.

[00:27:03] [SPEAKER_08]: People like that were giving me the confidence to dense step into my reality at that time.

[00:27:08] [SPEAKER_08]: No, I'm saying.

[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_06]: And still, I'm not sure if you're interested in it.

[00:27:11] [SPEAKER_06]: If you're always to obtain that crazy amount of money, say 10 mil.

[00:27:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Would you change as a person?

[00:27:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Not would your habits change? Would you change as a person?

[00:27:21] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm showing my ass, not playing.

[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_08]: What are you got? What does change as a person?

[00:27:26] [SPEAKER_06]: I can't even really, I'm in prison myself changing.

[00:27:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Um, talking.

[00:27:30] [SPEAKER_06]: It's more you talk down to people who don't know.

[00:27:33] [SPEAKER_06]: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

[00:27:35] [SPEAKER_06]: People get that money so like I can do.

[00:27:37] [SPEAKER_06]: People start doing that money in different.

[00:27:40] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm telling you, I'm telling you it's broke.

[00:27:42] [SPEAKER_06]: So how far?

[00:27:43] [SPEAKER_06]: Yes.

[00:27:44] [SPEAKER_06]: Not you per se.

[00:27:45] [SPEAKER_07]: Yes, that is what people do, right?

[00:27:48] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, so for example, like,

[00:27:51] [SPEAKER_07]: this goes into the episode I really wanted to do.

[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_07]: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

[00:27:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Not school school.

[00:27:56] [SPEAKER_07]: I could always remember.

[00:27:59] [SPEAKER_07]: No, not even a school.

[00:28:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll elaborate further on the pot, right?

[00:28:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I have a place on my own, right?

[00:28:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Congrats.

[00:28:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Thanks.

[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_07]: Congrats again.

[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_07]: I would never talk down on a person who don't have it.

[00:28:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Just because I had it.

[00:28:14] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, that's disgusting.

[00:28:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, oh, my, oh, my criteria on what I'm looking for in a person.

[00:28:27] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm just going to say that.

[00:28:28] [SPEAKER_07]: I mean, I just told you today, do not leave your credit.

[00:28:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay, facts.

[00:28:31] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not going to go.

[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Don't leave.

[00:28:34] [SPEAKER_06]: But you know it's crazy.

[00:28:35] [SPEAKER_06]: My father's country people have been saying that people

[00:28:37] [SPEAKER_06]: don't have their own crib or your brain on front.

[00:28:38] [SPEAKER_06]: You live with just you and your parents.

[00:28:40] [SPEAKER_06]: Just stack up bro.

[00:28:41] [SPEAKER_06]: They should say that.

[00:28:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Make sure you give the pops of the money.

[00:28:43] [SPEAKER_06]: I say it.

[00:28:44] [SPEAKER_06]: When the time.

[00:28:45] [SPEAKER_06]: I told you do.

[00:28:45] [SPEAKER_06]: I told you.

[00:28:46] [SPEAKER_07]: When you was like the two.

[00:28:47] [SPEAKER_07]: You were like, you got it.

[00:28:49] [SPEAKER_07]: But if you have to leave right away.

[00:28:53] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm going to discuss that on my first episode of what's

[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_08]: a good guy with Marcus and Berton or where but I felt like I need to get a car

[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_08]: because at the time women was like, oh, if a nigga don't got a car,

[00:29:03] [SPEAKER_04]: then we're going to be like, how was social media?

[00:29:05] [SPEAKER_04]: So she made that to me.

[00:29:05] [SPEAKER_04]: That's why I'm going to go into that.

[00:29:06] [SPEAKER_04]: That's so sweet.

[00:29:07] [SPEAKER_04]: So she made that money thoughts in.

[00:29:10] [SPEAKER_04]: But if someone has to ask for people not because of that,

[00:29:12] [SPEAKER_04]: if people live in that post reality and everybody comes into the illusion of bread.

[00:29:15] [SPEAKER_04]: Exactly.

[00:29:16] [SPEAKER_04]: If a man don't got that.

[00:29:18] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I hate the rest of the money.

[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_04]: That's what I want to get.

[00:29:20] [SPEAKER_06]: That's what I want to get.

[00:29:20] [SPEAKER_06]: 100K first.

[00:29:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Can you throw it?

[00:29:22] [SPEAKER_06]: It doesn't mean that.

[00:29:23] [SPEAKER_06]: It doesn't mean that.

[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, what the fuck?

[00:29:26] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm going to get it.

[00:29:26] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm going to get it.

[00:29:27] [SPEAKER_06]: You're going to have to throw mine.

[00:29:28] [SPEAKER_06]: But it's a new you up though.

[00:29:30] [SPEAKER_06]: 100K.

[00:29:31] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.

[00:29:31] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm going to get it.

[00:29:32] [SPEAKER_06]: That's what I got.

[00:29:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Give me a six.

[00:29:34] [SPEAKER_04]: See what it's.

[00:29:35] [SPEAKER_04]: 100K talk.

[00:29:36] [SPEAKER_04]: They do whatever it comes up.

[00:29:38] [SPEAKER_04]: People say that 100K is not a lot of money.

[00:29:40] [SPEAKER_04]: Think about having 100,000 dollars.

[00:29:43] [SPEAKER_04]: Stop thinking about the taxes.

[00:29:44] [SPEAKER_04]: Thinking about you looking at your tax in the year and say 100,000 dollars.

[00:29:48] [SPEAKER_04]: If you are a person that knows how to budget and financial responsibility, you can live the life you want to live.

[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_08]: I agree.

[00:29:54] [SPEAKER_08]: I believe that.

[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_04]: So people say that's going to be less.

[00:29:57] [SPEAKER_04]: Exactly.

[00:29:57] [SPEAKER_04]: So you say, okay.

[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_04]: That's not a lot of money.

[00:29:59] [SPEAKER_04]: Because of where you live?

[00:30:01] [SPEAKER_04]: Bro.

[00:30:02] [SPEAKER_04]: If you're making 100,000 dollars, whatever you have to do,

[00:30:05] [SPEAKER_04]: the human, the tax, and should like that, you find decent place.

[00:30:08] [SPEAKER_04]: And I don't know.

[00:30:08] [SPEAKER_04]: I say Jersey, whatever.

[00:30:09] [SPEAKER_04]: You're running like 1600.

[00:30:10] [SPEAKER_04]: And you're like that.

[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_04]: After you miss anything.

[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_04]: You're going to have money.

[00:30:13] [SPEAKER_06]: Depending on your responsibilities, that's what that is.

[00:30:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, facts.

[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_07]: That's that.

[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_07]: And you know, that's why we kind of want to have, you know,

[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_07]: Rashad from Ernie Liesha and Troy.

[00:30:23] [SPEAKER_07]: So we can talk about the value of a dollar.

[00:30:25] [SPEAKER_07]: You know, put that out there.

[00:30:26] [SPEAKER_07]: But that's what I'm saying.

[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_07]: Social media has an impact on the group thinking and the group responsibility.

[00:30:37] [SPEAKER_07]: And the group is going to be a group of set people.

[00:30:41] [SPEAKER_07]: And they put that on a gender.

[00:30:42] [SPEAKER_07]: He him, they she whatever you identify.

[00:30:45] [SPEAKER_04]: Ain't also funny.

[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't know.

[00:30:47] [SPEAKER_04]: And it's a very trigger word.

[00:30:48] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not this way.

[00:30:49] [SPEAKER_04]: Don't use it.

[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_04]: Submissive.

[00:30:51] [SPEAKER_04]: I do not use that word.

[00:30:53] [SPEAKER_04]: And any type of context.

[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_04]: So I can know women because that is a trick of word.

[00:30:56] [SPEAKER_04]: And people get some misad misad stuff which you being a slave to.

[00:30:59] [SPEAKER_04]: And that's not the case.

[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_04]: But this girl said, you need to understand a type of, like I said, the word.

[00:31:05] [SPEAKER_04]: She said, the B word.

[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_04]: It's your dating.

[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I'm saying it was there.

[00:31:09] [SPEAKER_04]: She said there's a 20K.

[00:31:10] [SPEAKER_04]: There's a 50K.

[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay, the 20K.

[00:31:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Yes, I remember that.

[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_04]: Yes.

[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_04]: 75, 100K.

[00:31:15] [SPEAKER_04]: You got no kind of really talking to.

[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_04]: And it made me mean down sitting down.

[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm sitting down.

[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm like, honey, K girl.

[00:31:21] [SPEAKER_04]: Like what does that mean?

[00:31:23] [SPEAKER_04]: Why, why does, why I have to make 100,000 dollars a total of you?

[00:31:29] [SPEAKER_04]: Where, where is this, where is this narrative come from?

[00:31:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Who built this box?

[00:31:33] [SPEAKER_04]: That's a because I don't make 100,000 dollars a year.

[00:31:36] [SPEAKER_04]: I cannot talk to you.

[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_08]: Because you can't take pictures of the pictures that you want.

[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Why do you, why do I have to then uphold the social media presence you came and

[00:31:45] [SPEAKER_04]: uphold yourself for me to fit into your own?

[00:31:48] [SPEAKER_06]: I guess it means like you're financially stable but not knowing how the market is and

[00:31:52] [SPEAKER_06]: make a goffabid, you can lose your job today, bro.

[00:31:54] [SPEAKER_06]: And you won't find a job for X-Mondon time.

[00:31:58] [SPEAKER_06]: We're not in a stable fucking society right now.

[00:32:01] [SPEAKER_04]: Definitely not.

[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_04]: So then it comes out to why do we, why, why is this such this, this goes into people living

[00:32:08] [SPEAKER_04]: in this like, you know, the, falls reality like why are you on social media?

[00:32:12] [SPEAKER_04]: You're this person when it real life you're actually that person.

[00:32:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, I'm done with this twice in dating.

[00:32:19] [SPEAKER_07]: Talk about this in chat.

[00:32:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I kind of wanted to stay away from them but since we talk about social media,

[00:32:27] [SPEAKER_07]: I've accidentally dated women on their at name and not their real name.

[00:32:35] [SPEAKER_07]: If that makes sense.

[00:32:36] [SPEAKER_06]: Yes, yes.

[00:32:37] [SPEAKER_06]: So who do you want to social media?

[00:32:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Yes.

[00:32:40] [SPEAKER_07]: So it's like, I know your real name.

[00:32:43] [SPEAKER_07]: I know your government name.

[00:32:44] [SPEAKER_07]: I fucking go, I have your middle name saved in my phone, right?

[00:32:48] [SPEAKER_07]: But online, your joke I gave.

[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Okay.

[00:32:53] [SPEAKER_07]: But I know you in real life.

[00:32:55] [SPEAKER_07]: But you rather be joke I gained than Kojo.

[00:32:59] [SPEAKER_07]: Now imagine that.

[00:33:00] [SPEAKER_06]: I just thought it was a dating concept.

[00:33:02] [SPEAKER_06]: That's the one you're talking about.

[00:33:04] [SPEAKER_06]: That is tough.

[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_06]: When the reality hits you was like, oh, we've been in the name on it.

[00:33:09] [SPEAKER_07]: No, no, no, no, no, no.

[00:33:11] [SPEAKER_08]: Imagine that dating wise where they're, are you saying you're dating their at name?

[00:33:18] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:33:20] [SPEAKER_08]: Yeah, yeah.

[00:33:21] [SPEAKER_06]: You're not people just persona, you think it's a business?

[00:33:25] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:33:26] [SPEAKER_06]: That's because you know what I'm talking about.

[00:33:28] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, yeah, that's me.

[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Let me get something back.

[00:33:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Because it's like, oh, you're lying to everybody in your life yourself.

[00:33:34] [SPEAKER_04]: And not a lot of me in.

[00:33:36] [SPEAKER_04]: It's such a draining thing because after you guys are done, you had to look at this person

[00:33:40] [SPEAKER_04]: like damn, you're still going to keep up this facade of the person that you are.

[00:33:43] [SPEAKER_04]: And you're not.

[00:33:44] [SPEAKER_06]: Because I got you, so it they got you.

[00:33:46] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what, so fucked up about it.

[00:33:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Their real life is better when you peel back the lives of your, like, your bro, you're going to have to do

[00:33:55] [SPEAKER_07]: you are.

[00:33:58] [SPEAKER_07]: You're sweety.

[00:33:59] [SPEAKER_07]: I love you.

[00:34:01] [SPEAKER_07]: But you're happy to be this.

[00:34:03] [SPEAKER_04]: Come on, bro, life ain't all about that bro.

[00:34:06] [SPEAKER_04]: What about when they're not that?

[00:34:09] [SPEAKER_04]: Which means what if they're not in speed, it's just like, yeah, this always

[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_06]: is not like they're not that.

[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_06]: They're not that bad.

[00:34:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, no, no, no, no, no, the social media there's sweetheart.

[00:34:19] [SPEAKER_06]: But it really is.

[00:34:21] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.

[00:34:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.

[00:34:22] [SPEAKER_06]: I think that's where she's a man.

[00:34:26] [SPEAKER_06]: I think that's where stuff.

[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_06]: I really mean a sweetheart of offline.

[00:34:30] [SPEAKER_06]: If you're an asshole of, online and you're a sweetie on, I make a hell, no, bro.

[00:34:35] [SPEAKER_07]: There are girls, girls.

[00:34:38] [SPEAKER_06]: And they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they, they,

[00:34:42] [SPEAKER_07]: they're a girl's girl, but in the bedroom, they, they use your Wi-Fi to talk shit about other

[00:34:47] [SPEAKER_07]: girls.

[00:34:49] [SPEAKER_06]: Things are, you might see it that.

[00:34:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, it's like it's telling.

[00:34:52] [SPEAKER_06]: That, I suppose, I, I don't know if that knows.

[00:34:56] [SPEAKER_06]: I've been taking this some time.

[00:34:59] [SPEAKER_07]: It's, it's a very, very, very, very, very, very, very something that you need to do.

[00:35:03] [SPEAKER_07]: So that, that goes to the next point.

[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_07]: The importance of acknowledging our flaws or an areas of growth, recognizing our limitations.

[00:35:11] [SPEAKER_07]: So, if you notice that like, yo, I'm consumer so many people thought that I, I, I, I'm not, you can hear me.

[00:35:20] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what I mean?

[00:35:20] [SPEAKER_03]: You know yourself.

[00:35:21] [SPEAKER_07]: Just disconnect.

[00:35:23] [SPEAKER_07]: That, you know your limitations like, oh, this is, this is becoming overwhelming.

[00:35:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Let me, let me, let me get away from this.

[00:35:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Well, I go all the time just connecting them from, from that, that cyber world and that real life world.

[00:35:37] [SPEAKER_04]: People feel like, without that cyber personality, you are quite to nothing in the world.

[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_04]: Because people don't have anything.

[00:35:44] [SPEAKER_04]: People, people, this, and this goes into then a whole not the bro top again itself, hustle culture.

[00:35:50] [SPEAKER_04]: People feel like every single hobby you have have to turn it to a hustle.

[00:35:53] [SPEAKER_04]: People, people can't even build fucking legos now without trying to make money from me.

[00:35:57] [SPEAKER_07]: Nick, you will build some legos just that have fun.

[00:35:58] [SPEAKER_07]: I will say though, Lego and Nike just collapsed.

[00:36:01] [SPEAKER_07]: They make it.

[00:36:02] [SPEAKER_07]: Please.

[00:36:03] [SPEAKER_07]: Anybody who wants to give me the Jordan ones, when that releases or the Jordan force.

[00:36:07] [SPEAKER_07]: That's a nice gift.

[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_06]: I was going to tell them before you get it to them.

[00:36:11] [SPEAKER_07]: No.

[00:36:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm a task grab it though, so I might even build that.

[00:36:13] [SPEAKER_07]: I just want to finish product.

[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_04]: That's actually very smart.

[00:36:19] [SPEAKER_06]: You can pay Nick, this is not.

[00:36:22] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what?

[00:36:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, this is a tough shit.

[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_04]: I mean, there's a couple of those apps that you know you don't know what to show it to.

[00:36:28] [SPEAKER_06]: Well, that's another thing, you know, turning it, but, I think about it at a book like,

[00:36:31] [SPEAKER_06]: I mean, people got to eat bro.

[00:36:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Who got to eat?

[00:36:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Who we were trying to do.

[00:36:35] [SPEAKER_06]: As hustle hustle hustle hustle.

[00:36:36] [SPEAKER_06]: No, the coach of the coach of the start of the record is on the probably just to do it.

[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_06]: I want to get after the watch.

[00:36:40] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not going to say that.

[00:36:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Well, all right, so but yeah, I don't know how to do it.

[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_04]: But then how, but how does that, but then how does that, then you got people who don't understand being entrepreneur,

[00:36:51] [SPEAKER_04]: bro, it's not easy, but you know, it's mentally draining nights you have bro.

[00:36:55] [SPEAKER_04]: You know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know,

[00:36:56] [SPEAKER_04]: you know, it's not about money money, money, money, you know, it's good money.

[00:36:59] [SPEAKER_04]: Anything that you do you take, you take the bus every day.

[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_04]: You take everything.

[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Everything, everything.

[00:37:04] [SPEAKER_06]: Everything, if I was bus driver for empty, and it was red, you know, too.

[00:37:07] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't pay for guys until until until you until you marry your own person, you get to be a person.

[00:37:13] [SPEAKER_04]: I can't.

[00:37:13] [SPEAKER_04]: I can't.

[00:37:14] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not saying I'm not saying I'm just saying, but I'm just saying, you, you,

[00:37:18] [SPEAKER_04]: they might even fuck I was saying that.

[00:37:20] [SPEAKER_04]: Sorry, what do you say?

[00:37:21] [SPEAKER_07]: Now, you said he was basically saying how entrepreneur life is.

[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, entrepreneur is not easy, bro.

[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_04]: There's so many, there's so many sleepers.

[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_04]: Nice, there's some mentally, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically draining, bro.

[00:37:32] [SPEAKER_04]: You got what I'm saying?

[00:37:34] [SPEAKER_04]: And people feel like you have to devote yourself to that.

[00:37:35] [SPEAKER_04]: What is wrong?

[00:37:38] [SPEAKER_04]: I hate using his word, but being a normal person.

[00:37:41] [SPEAKER_04]: What the, there is nothing wrong with that.

[00:37:43] [SPEAKER_07]: But see, we look at the word normal in the same sense of like mediocre.

[00:37:49] [SPEAKER_07]: Or average.

[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_07]: Or average.

[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_07]: Or average.

[00:37:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, it's a great way of equating to sometimes even subtly.

[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_04]: So, I'm not sure, question right?

[00:37:58] [SPEAKER_07]: Because I even felt like for me to obtain certain things,

[00:38:04] [SPEAKER_07]: I had to be grander than I was in that moment.

[00:38:08] [SPEAKER_07]: But I realized, you know, this is not me.

[00:38:10] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not going to fall.

[00:38:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I quote myself early.

[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Really early.

[00:38:14] [SPEAKER_07]: And I'm like, nah, that's not true, bro.

[00:38:17] [SPEAKER_07]: We're not even going for a tent to do that.

[00:38:21] [SPEAKER_04]: So, you say, because I am a regular guy.

[00:38:24] [SPEAKER_04]: It is stuff for wrong with that.

[00:38:25] [SPEAKER_04]: You're not the one.

[00:38:26] [SPEAKER_04]: What people are?

[00:38:27] [SPEAKER_04]: All right.

[00:38:28] [SPEAKER_04]: So, if you were present opportunity, let's say you took the sanitation test five years ago, right?

[00:38:34] [SPEAKER_04]: And they finally call you back and he said, well, Ellie, you know what I'm saying?

[00:38:37] [SPEAKER_04]: We're going to pay you, I don't know what the fuck sanitation is paying.

[00:38:40] [SPEAKER_04]: And I'm making random number of $140,000 a year.

[00:38:43] [SPEAKER_04]: So, $44.

[00:38:44] [SPEAKER_04]: You're going to pay me.

[00:38:46] [SPEAKER_06]: Now go ahead, go ahead.

[00:38:47] [SPEAKER_06]: My father doesn't.

[00:38:47] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm so sorry.

[00:38:49] [SPEAKER_04]: So, and you're a time, I get, I don't know if this is the retirement age is 30 and 50 or 20 and 50.

[00:38:55] [SPEAKER_04]: Well, the fuck you gotta give them, right?

[00:38:57] [SPEAKER_04]: So, for the next 20 years, you gotta give them the, you know, your eight hours a day.

[00:39:02] [SPEAKER_04]: You do over time with the case might be even your guaranteed 140 hours.

[00:39:06] [SPEAKER_04]: But because that does not align what people perceive as success or as, you know, you can do over the

[00:39:14] [SPEAKER_04]: fucking one fly we want, do this on 30.

[00:39:16] [SPEAKER_04]: Yacht parties and shit like that does that then change the narrative on that money.

[00:39:22] [SPEAKER_04]: And mind you, you do get raises in promotion so that one, okay, so now, so, so then we take

[00:39:30] [SPEAKER_07]: the delusion of grandeur from yourself to the delusion of grandeur of success and what that looks like.

[00:39:39] [SPEAKER_07]: So, I can, oh, I don't want to throw my mom on the bus.

[00:39:47] [SPEAKER_07]: But she thought, when I was doing construction, she ain't like that.

[00:39:52] [SPEAKER_07]: You know why?

[00:39:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Because I came home dirty.

[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Hmm.

[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Also, it looked like, you know, it looked like a, it looked boots, but dirty.

[00:39:59] [SPEAKER_07]: But the bags there.

[00:40:00] [SPEAKER_07]: Bag is there.

[00:40:02] [SPEAKER_07]: But if I had a job in a soup that paid me less, she would have thought I was so successful in life.

[00:40:06] [SPEAKER_07]: People, you pulled those things out.

[00:40:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Because I come home from work with the, with the time, all exactly with a brief case.

[00:40:11] [SPEAKER_07]: So, the delusion of what that looks like.

[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_07]: It's what can cause want to fill more and put it.

[00:40:21] [SPEAKER_07]: So boom, we could be on a train, right?

[00:40:23] [SPEAKER_07]: Same way, we could both be on the train.

[00:40:26] [SPEAKER_07]: You could be, you could be at your job that requires you to wear soup.

[00:40:30] [SPEAKER_07]: And it pays you less than me.

[00:40:34] [SPEAKER_07]: But I'm on the train.

[00:40:36] [SPEAKER_07]: There you go.

[00:40:36] [SPEAKER_07]: Hard hat, dirty green shirt headphones on your headphones.

[00:40:40] [SPEAKER_07]: So, look, dusty.

[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_07]: Somebody may approach you because you look well put together.

[00:40:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Not knowing I'm going home shower change.

[00:40:49] [SPEAKER_07]: Put some chin on.

[00:40:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Half in my way.

[00:40:52] [SPEAKER_06]: You're not saying so.

[00:40:54] [SPEAKER_06]: It's the process.

[00:40:54] [SPEAKER_06]: It's a white collar, blue collar.

[00:40:56] [SPEAKER_04]: There you go.

[00:40:57] [SPEAKER_04]: White collar versus blue.

[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_04]: So boom, that's it.

[00:40:59] [SPEAKER_04]: This now goes into dating now, right?

[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_04]: Okay.

[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_04]: I woman would now, depending on, you know, I guess, the spectrum of the woman.

[00:41:06] [SPEAKER_04]: She would rather prefer that and, I guess, the man in the,

[00:41:09] [SPEAKER_04]: she would do in the time versus the man.

[00:41:11] [SPEAKER_04]: That's in the boots and the far.

[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_04]: And that's fine because you know why?

[00:41:15] [SPEAKER_07]: But then they could have a delusional reality.

[00:41:19] [SPEAKER_07]: They're, they can both be so delusional that it makes for perfect marriage.

[00:41:26] [SPEAKER_07]: Where as me, I'm glad you got to be thankful for the people that you don't attract.

[00:41:33] [SPEAKER_07]: Right?

[00:41:34] [SPEAKER_07]: No matter how, how f-sh-sh-cuss.

[00:41:36] [SPEAKER_07]: This woman we talk about more than like we should fight.

[00:41:39] [SPEAKER_07]: Right.

[00:41:40] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, that's how time goes.

[00:41:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Because she looked at the wrong things in me though.

[00:41:43] [SPEAKER_07]: So she, she looks at me.

[00:41:46] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, Derby may have come in from work.

[00:41:48] [SPEAKER_07]: Clean man from going work.

[00:41:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Cool.

[00:41:50] [SPEAKER_07]: So she goes to him.

[00:41:52] [SPEAKER_07]: You gotta be happy that they didn't come your way.

[00:41:55] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, literally looking for you for the wrong fucking purpose.

[00:41:58] [SPEAKER_07]: You already pre-cused.

[00:41:59] [SPEAKER_07]: You already judge me.

[00:41:59] [SPEAKER_07]: You didn't even get to know me.

[00:42:02] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:42:03] [SPEAKER_07]: So what if she just don't know no better though?

[00:42:04] [SPEAKER_07]: That's fine.

[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_07]: That's that's not how she does.

[00:42:07] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:42:08] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:42:08] [SPEAKER_07]: How much I'm making?

[00:42:10] [SPEAKER_07]: Me.

[00:42:10] [SPEAKER_07]: That's true.

[00:42:11] [SPEAKER_07]: She just don't know me.

[00:42:13] [SPEAKER_07]: And you gotta be-you gotta-and that's another thing.

[00:42:15] [SPEAKER_07]: You're not on a joke in the group chat like, no, this is really high-fill.

[00:42:22] [SPEAKER_07]: The internet is-I don't think we supposed to know how many fire will be based.

[00:42:26] [SPEAKER_07]: I think it will be.

[00:42:27] [SPEAKER_07]: I think we're not supposed to know that.

[00:42:29] [SPEAKER_07]: We're not supposed to know that.

[00:42:30] [SPEAKER_07]: We're not supposed to know that.

[00:42:30] [SPEAKER_07]: I love you.

[00:42:32] [SPEAKER_06]: I love you.

[00:42:35] [SPEAKER_06]: We know that it's good for him and that they're saying it bro.

[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_06]: We're not supposed to know how to change from one of them.

[00:42:40] [SPEAKER_06]: We're not supposed to know who's saying that.

[00:42:41] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm saying it.

[00:42:42] [SPEAKER_05]: That's always sexy.

[00:42:44] [SPEAKER_05]: That's always sexy.

[00:42:46] [SPEAKER_05]: That was my second, that was the second.

[00:42:47] [SPEAKER_05]: That was my second.

[00:42:47] [SPEAKER_05]: It was like f***ing.

[00:42:49] [SPEAKER_07]: What is this woman on Twitter?

[00:42:53] [SPEAKER_07]: F***ing out of her.

[00:42:54] [SPEAKER_07]: Her at name is was good, jeez.

[00:42:57] [SPEAKER_07]: Whenever she says it was good, I guess.

[00:42:58] [SPEAKER_07]: F***ing out of her.

[00:43:02] [SPEAKER_07]: Why do you look bad?

[00:43:03] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not supposed to know what you look like.

[00:43:06] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm in New York City.

[00:43:07] [SPEAKER_07]: I think the internet was a mistake.

[00:43:10] [SPEAKER_07]: It was a mess though.

[00:43:11] [SPEAKER_07]: We should start with A, A was a mess.

[00:43:14] [SPEAKER_04]: And that's also was wrong with the dating game as well too

[00:43:17] [SPEAKER_04]: because people think they have so many fucking options.

[00:43:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Yes!

[00:43:21] [SPEAKER_06]: And that's what I knew from my best.

[00:43:22] [SPEAKER_06]: For me, that's Mary who's like your brain,

[00:43:24] [SPEAKER_06]: if I delete the social media, that's like,

[00:43:25] [SPEAKER_06]: like, it's a girl, bro.

[00:43:27] [SPEAKER_06]: Now, I find this too much temptation out there.

[00:43:29] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm good, bro.

[00:43:30] [SPEAKER_06]: And then, through what I'm mad, it's like your bro.

[00:43:31] [SPEAKER_06]: You see something, I'm actually fired.

[00:43:33] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm like, no, no.

[00:43:34] [SPEAKER_06]: She got a bag of cheese, she got going on.

[00:43:35] [SPEAKER_06]: She can be burning!

[00:43:37] [SPEAKER_04]: And that's the sad part about it, bro.

[00:43:39] [SPEAKER_04]: You can have, nobody's perfect.

[00:43:41] [SPEAKER_04]: You can have the greatest woman at home

[00:43:43] [SPEAKER_04]: that's going to make sure you, you know,

[00:43:45] [SPEAKER_04]: something for me.

[00:43:47] [SPEAKER_04]: Just leave that there.

[00:43:48] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, man.

[00:43:48] [SPEAKER_04]: Did you make sure she made sure she made sure you made sure.

[00:43:50] [SPEAKER_04]: You make sure you make sure you make sure you make sure you

[00:43:52] [SPEAKER_04]: She can't get her home.

[00:43:53] [SPEAKER_04]: She can't get her home.

[00:43:53] [SPEAKER_04]: You can't get her home.

[00:43:54] [SPEAKER_04]: Whatever woman in line with catering is,

[00:43:56] [SPEAKER_04]: because I don't want to come up with a mum like that.

[00:43:58] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:43:59] [SPEAKER_04]: Whatever they feel like that is.

[00:44:01] [SPEAKER_04]: But because you see this girl that got the fat as I,

[00:44:04] [SPEAKER_04]: the perky is, titties and nice and stumbles.

[00:44:09] [SPEAKER_04]: You were like, no, I gotta see what that's about.

[00:44:11] [SPEAKER_04]: But she can do something, she should let your show down on me to do it.

[00:44:14] [SPEAKER_04]: And I thought always say, if you, if you get a girl

[00:44:18] [SPEAKER_04]: and you know what I'm saying, she fits her standards,

[00:44:21] [SPEAKER_04]: you can always, I want to use a woman.

[00:44:24] [SPEAKER_04]: You can always, you can always up her.

[00:44:26] [SPEAKER_04]: So what you want in your eyes when the relationship works.

[00:44:29] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, that's your words. You learn it.

[00:44:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, you're thinking I don't want to think of it.

[00:44:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Like a lot of that guys.

[00:44:34] [SPEAKER_04]: Get a little shuddy guy out here.

[00:44:35] [SPEAKER_04]: Get a little bit, you know what I don't need that right now.

[00:44:37] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:44:38] [SPEAKER_04]: But you can always say, you can always, that's why you're

[00:44:40] [SPEAKER_07]: lady combined the world.

[00:44:43] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:44:44] [SPEAKER_07]: So, for example, I hope you're not picking on a woman being

[00:44:48] [SPEAKER_07]: fly.

[00:44:49] [SPEAKER_07]: What do you mean?

[00:44:51] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm like, you, you, you are the one,

[00:44:53] [SPEAKER_07]: what's going on in this one is that?

[00:44:54] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know.

[00:44:54] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll check it.

[00:44:55] [SPEAKER_07]: I hope you're not picking about a woman being fly because that's

[00:44:57] [SPEAKER_07]: flexible.

[00:45:00] [SPEAKER_07]: Wow.

[00:45:01] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm so sorry, Nick.

[00:45:02] [SPEAKER_06]: I thought you put on a dress with buggy,

[00:45:03] [SPEAKER_06]: you're fucking shoes on one.

[00:45:05] [SPEAKER_06]: What's your book?

[00:45:06] [SPEAKER_04]: You're supposed to be scared and S.B. is crazy.

[00:45:08] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm asking.

[00:45:09] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm asking.

[00:45:09] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm asking.

[00:45:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you're from pregnant.

[00:45:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[00:45:15] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:45:16] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:45:17] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what?

[00:45:17] [SPEAKER_04]: This is vodka.

[00:45:17] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't know.

[00:45:18] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what?

[00:45:18] [SPEAKER_04]: It's like my black ass.

[00:45:19] [SPEAKER_04]: That was a bad fucking fake.

[00:45:22] [SPEAKER_04]: You knew better than that.

[00:45:23] [SPEAKER_04]: And you knew better than that.

[00:45:25] [SPEAKER_07]: But let's just say,

[00:45:28] [SPEAKER_07]: hypothetically, you get to know her.

[00:45:30] [SPEAKER_07]: She's a quality woman.

[00:45:31] [SPEAKER_07]: I mean, her social media personality,

[00:45:33] [SPEAKER_07]: that's another thing.

[00:45:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Too much preconceived judgment.

[00:45:36] [SPEAKER_07]: But that's okay.

[00:45:38] [SPEAKER_07]: Her social media personality may stay your way.

[00:45:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Stay away from that.

[00:45:43] [SPEAKER_07]: But you meet her in real life.

[00:45:45] [SPEAKER_07]: Get your knowledge other.

[00:45:46] [SPEAKER_07]: Great person.

[00:45:48] [SPEAKER_07]: Right?

[00:45:50] [SPEAKER_07]: You get to know her.

[00:45:51] [SPEAKER_07]: I can see you in my life.

[00:45:54] [SPEAKER_07]: You incorporate her in her life.

[00:45:55] [SPEAKER_07]: But she then puts on that fit again.

[00:46:00] [SPEAKER_07]: Why would you do that?

[00:46:03] [SPEAKER_07]: You're killing me.

[00:46:04] [SPEAKER_07]: You can then say,

[00:46:08] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't do that.

[00:46:09] [SPEAKER_07]: Do this.

[00:46:11] [SPEAKER_07]: So I hope you don't charge because you like fashion.

[00:46:15] [SPEAKER_07]: You're judging people based off of the fits they put together.

[00:46:19] [SPEAKER_08]: Because whatever she woke out that crib in the agency, her good dress.

[00:46:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, I should have said no.

[00:46:23] [SPEAKER_03]: No, we don't.

[00:46:24] [SPEAKER_04]: That's what I was like that.

[00:46:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Why won't you do that?

[00:46:29] [SPEAKER_04]: Listen, I'll be a hypocrite to tell you that I've haven't.

[00:46:35] [SPEAKER_04]: No, I know you have.

[00:46:37] [SPEAKER_04]: I've definitely stopped talking to women because they...

[00:46:40] [SPEAKER_04]: They're going to put together.

[00:46:41] [SPEAKER_04]: They cannot put it together saying they like,

[00:46:43] [SPEAKER_07]: You know, it was crazy.

[00:46:44] [SPEAKER_07]: That shit, some of the things that I feel like...

[00:46:51] [SPEAKER_07]: People take seriously.

[00:46:53] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know if I give a fuck about that, bro.

[00:46:57] [SPEAKER_07]: I just want to be treated well.

[00:46:59] [SPEAKER_04]: You're...

[00:46:59] [SPEAKER_04]: And is it the wrong thing?

[00:47:00] [SPEAKER_08]: You're being no bad dressing girl, bro.

[00:47:02] [SPEAKER_04]: Listen, and you know, so fun is not it, listen,

[00:47:04] [SPEAKER_04]: I should be on the...

[00:47:05] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm going to be on the...

[00:47:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Now, not it.

[00:47:07] [SPEAKER_04]: So should I do fashion to see?

[00:47:08] [SPEAKER_04]: Yes, yes, yes.

[00:47:09] [SPEAKER_04]: Yes, yes.

[00:47:10] [SPEAKER_04]: You should.

[00:47:11] [SPEAKER_04]: You should taste the body in fashion, bro.

[00:47:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Now, not it.

[00:47:14] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm older and...

[00:47:18] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm...

[00:47:20] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sorry, sir.

[00:47:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Not a nice one, man.

[00:47:23] [SPEAKER_04]: You're good.

[00:47:24] [SPEAKER_04]: You're good.

[00:47:25] [SPEAKER_04]: Not an older and you don't actually, you know,

[00:47:27] [SPEAKER_04]: you have to take dating more seriously to stuff like that.

[00:47:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Her not knowing how to dress is not going to bother me as much because...

[00:47:33] [SPEAKER_04]: It should have grown.

[00:47:34] [SPEAKER_07]: That's because you do.

[00:47:36] [SPEAKER_07]: Purchase clothes.

[00:47:37] [SPEAKER_07]: You can't stop.

[00:47:38] [SPEAKER_07]: You can't stop.

[00:47:39] [SPEAKER_04]: You're right until people...

[00:47:42] [SPEAKER_04]: Listen.

[00:47:42] [SPEAKER_06]: These are frees down.

[00:47:43] [SPEAKER_04]: People start frees up.

[00:47:44] [SPEAKER_04]: And I thought,

[00:47:45] [SPEAKER_04]: I know the way I dress.

[00:47:47] [SPEAKER_04]: I know what I'm saying, money, or...

[00:47:48] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm eating both, and I'm eating two,

[00:47:49] [SPEAKER_04]: and I'm eating two.

[00:47:50] [SPEAKER_04]: So little, little, little, little, little.

[00:47:52] [SPEAKER_07]: I mean, technically you did right that at the chat.

[00:47:55] [SPEAKER_07]: That you wanted to buy a teddy jacket.

[00:47:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Full girl.

[00:47:58] [SPEAKER_07]: Yes, sir.

[00:47:59] [SPEAKER_07]: You're cute.

[00:48:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm a cop, Bob.

[00:48:01] [SPEAKER_07]: I've got...

[00:48:01] [SPEAKER_07]: You got mad, guinea, body.

[00:48:03] [SPEAKER_07]: So don't add all your brand new.

[00:48:06] [SPEAKER_07]: But sometimes you got to think about things like that.

[00:48:08] [SPEAKER_07]: Listen.

[00:48:10] [SPEAKER_07]: How do we make confidence in our abilities?

[00:48:12] [SPEAKER_07]: without falling into the trap of arrogance.

[00:48:17] [SPEAKER_08]: That's what I'd be asking all the time.

[00:48:19] [SPEAKER_08]: What am I supposed to do? Am I not supposed to walk around with my-

[00:48:23] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm like, you gotta be-

[00:48:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Sometimes you gotta be just modest sometimes.

[00:48:26] [SPEAKER_06]: Well, until you're pushed to it.

[00:48:28] [SPEAKER_08]: Modesty don't gotta be done publicly.

[00:48:31] [SPEAKER_07]: So why is your confidence about that?

[00:48:32] [SPEAKER_08]: I remember natural.

[00:48:34] [SPEAKER_08]: No, I'm just not. It's fine. Even if it is me.

[00:48:36] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm just saying, I remember doing modest things offline

[00:48:42] [SPEAKER_08]: and just in me, real life situations

[00:48:45] [SPEAKER_08]: that represent who I am as a totality.

[00:48:48] [SPEAKER_08]: Yes, they'll think I am the shit.

[00:48:51] [SPEAKER_08]: But that's not taking away from me

[00:48:53] [SPEAKER_08]: from helping other people, asking for help,

[00:48:57] [SPEAKER_08]: putting other people in a position to win,

[00:48:59] [SPEAKER_08]: and all those great things that come with being a modest person,

[00:49:02] [SPEAKER_08]: as well, which is just not making people feel like they

[00:49:04] [SPEAKER_08]: less than you.

[00:49:06] [SPEAKER_08]: I don't even have a dad in my life.

[00:49:08] [SPEAKER_08]: Now, it's people who are-

[00:49:09] [SPEAKER_08]: I know I'm like, okay, I'm not supposed to have.

[00:49:12] [SPEAKER_08]: Okay, because I was gonna say,

[00:49:13] [SPEAKER_07]: what about the graphic designer who thinks they're just as good

[00:49:15] [SPEAKER_07]: as better, but they sit and watch who talk about how

[00:49:18] [SPEAKER_07]: you're better than everybody.

[00:49:20] [SPEAKER_08]: That makes that- that mean, they should do some work

[00:49:23] [SPEAKER_08]: on their confidence.

[00:49:25] [SPEAKER_08]: No.

[00:49:26] [SPEAKER_08]: If I played ball my whole life, bro.

[00:49:30] [SPEAKER_08]: I would go to any court in this city and say,

[00:49:33] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm the nigga today.

[00:49:35] [SPEAKER_08]: And it's spice in my inner, like no, I know I'm the nigga.

[00:49:37] [SPEAKER_08]: And you just got to see who's the top dog at the end of the day.

[00:49:40] [SPEAKER_08]: That's all it is.

[00:49:41] [SPEAKER_08]: Let me leave you, dad, Piano, good game.

[00:49:42] [SPEAKER_08]: We walk about it there.

[00:49:43] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm not gonna leave you there.

[00:49:44] [SPEAKER_06]: That's not that good of a sport though.

[00:49:45] [SPEAKER_08]: Well, well, well, well, well, everybody's not that good of a sport.

[00:49:48] [SPEAKER_08]: That's not- that's not my job to fix.

[00:49:50] [SPEAKER_08]: I didn't come in here on some, oh, y'all ain't shit.

[00:49:54] [SPEAKER_08]: I came in here on some.

[00:49:56] [SPEAKER_08]: I'm the shit.

[00:49:56] [SPEAKER_08]: Oh, what if that's how they take it?

[00:49:58] [SPEAKER_08]: That's just on you.

[00:49:59] [SPEAKER_08]: I cannot do nothing about that.

[00:50:01] [SPEAKER_08]: I throw what you can control.

[00:50:02] [SPEAKER_08]: All I can control is my confidence.

[00:50:04] [SPEAKER_04]: I mean, I mean, I mean, I guess what's speaking on my end of things.

[00:50:08] [SPEAKER_04]: You know, I hate talking about money and financial stuff like that.

[00:50:12] [SPEAKER_04]: I get to do my- am I in my financials?

[00:50:14] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I'm talking about money.

[00:50:16] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm saying, and what I've done for myself to become the person I am and my financial status

[00:50:21] [SPEAKER_04]: stuff like that, y'all and I'm saying, I don't talk about money, I don't talk about nothing.

[00:50:26] [SPEAKER_04]: You're gonna muscle some media, I don't talk about it.

[00:50:28] [SPEAKER_04]: No, no, that's shit about who make more money.

[00:50:30] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't make money, I make, I don't talk about what to flush it about because it's just

[00:50:33] [SPEAKER_04]: like, you're worried about rummits of either wrong way?

[00:50:36] [SPEAKER_04]: No, it's my about that.

[00:50:37] [SPEAKER_04]: You see what I do in real life.

[00:50:38] [SPEAKER_04]: Okay, you see how can myself.

[00:50:39] [SPEAKER_07]: You see it for yourself.

[00:50:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Like, I'm on sale.

[00:50:42] [SPEAKER_08]: So, I don't know where the problem is always that bad or like, yo, okay, yeah, this

[00:50:45] [SPEAKER_08]: is really happening and if I say it, it dilutes that.

[00:50:48] [SPEAKER_08]: Like, I- but I'm saying, me saying it does- I don't think it dilutes that shit.

[00:50:52] [SPEAKER_04]: It doesn't.

[00:50:53] [SPEAKER_04]: It, all right, so for example, right, we all are sorry, right?

[00:50:57] [SPEAKER_04]: And maybe, maybe, maybe something felt like that.

[00:50:59] [SPEAKER_04]: They not too fond of us, right?

[00:51:01] [SPEAKER_04]: And I could be like, you know what I'm saying?

[00:51:03] [SPEAKER_04]: But we'll be, we know what them guys is not really like that.

[00:51:05] [SPEAKER_04]: I could be like, well, like, oh my, hey, my watch is 7K.

[00:51:08] [SPEAKER_04]: What's up, like it?

[00:51:08] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:51:10] [SPEAKER_04]: What are I gonna prove?

[00:51:11] [SPEAKER_04]: Nigger, you know how to get down.

[00:51:13] [SPEAKER_04]: You know how to be buggy.

[00:51:13] [SPEAKER_04]: But nothing to prove to you.

[00:51:14] [SPEAKER_04]: You won't be a salty nigger.

[00:51:17] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what's going on.

[00:51:18] [SPEAKER_07]: You don't say it's our role as-

[00:51:20] [SPEAKER_07]: And I'm gonna say, Nigger, you know what's coming to the mic.

[00:51:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't do that from all the way from there.

[00:51:23] [SPEAKER_07]: He just woke up like that, I think I sleep.

[00:51:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, he rest.

[00:51:28] [SPEAKER_04]: He don't have it.

[00:51:30] [SPEAKER_07]: But that's, that's, that's goes,

[00:51:33] [SPEAKER_07]: which girl said that louder.

[00:51:35] [SPEAKER_07]: But,

[00:51:36] [SPEAKER_07]: girl said he ain't gonna say it's not a role like that.

[00:51:39] [SPEAKER_07]: Cool, right?

[00:51:39] [SPEAKER_07]: But at that, did I actually back out?

[00:51:41] [SPEAKER_07]: No, I didn't.

[00:51:43] [SPEAKER_07]: How to be confident in our abilities without falling

[00:51:45] [SPEAKER_07]: in the trap of arrogance, right?

[00:51:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Ooh, here.

[00:51:48] [SPEAKER_07]: For me, it's always knowing,

[00:51:51] [SPEAKER_07]: and this is a good call back.

[00:51:53] [SPEAKER_07]: There's always something bigger.

[00:51:54] [SPEAKER_07]: Mm-hmm.

[00:51:57] [SPEAKER_07]: So, you know-

[00:52:00] [SPEAKER_07]: So, you always,

[00:52:01] [SPEAKER_07]: always something bigger.

[00:52:03] [SPEAKER_07]: So, you could have a 7K watch.

[00:52:07] [SPEAKER_07]: But then you, you set your eyes on the 33.

[00:52:10] [SPEAKER_07]: The 40, the 100, the million.

[00:52:13] [SPEAKER_07]: We just seen Jay pull out a watch that was like 5.8.

[00:52:16] [SPEAKER_08]: Who had the 5.8?

[00:52:17] [SPEAKER_08]: 10, it was something-

[00:52:18] [SPEAKER_08]: It was 3.2 or something like that.

[00:52:19] [SPEAKER_08]: I don't know how to do it.

[00:52:20] [SPEAKER_08]: But it was a one-on-one.

[00:52:21] [SPEAKER_07]: So, that means between now and tomorrow,

[00:52:26] [SPEAKER_07]: it's gonna be 3.8.

[00:52:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Then 4.2 or whatever the case.

[00:52:32] [SPEAKER_07]: The way I don't fall into the trap of arrogance

[00:52:35] [SPEAKER_07]: is to know one, there's always something better.

[00:52:42] [SPEAKER_07]: And I leave room for myself to grow.

[00:52:45] [SPEAKER_07]: To know that, I shouldn't even be bright

[00:52:48] [SPEAKER_07]: in my wearing it now because I know I'm getting better.

[00:52:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Exactly.

[00:52:51] [SPEAKER_07]: So, I would continuously be constantly bragging

[00:52:55] [SPEAKER_07]: every sign of improvement.

[00:52:57] [SPEAKER_07]: That's why everything don't need a major announcement.

[00:52:59] [SPEAKER_07]: So, if I do something this,

[00:53:02] [SPEAKER_07]: that means every time I reach a milestone,

[00:53:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I gotta make an announcement about it.

[00:53:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Or I did this.

[00:53:09] [SPEAKER_08]: But that's a good difference.

[00:53:10] [SPEAKER_08]: I'd be struggling with that, bro.

[00:53:11] [SPEAKER_08]: Because if I said all the things that I was,

[00:53:14] [SPEAKER_08]: a part of or was responsible for,

[00:53:15] [SPEAKER_08]: I think Nick is a Amy.

[00:53:16] [SPEAKER_08]: No bullshit.

[00:53:17] [SPEAKER_08]: No, no, you talk too much about everything you do.

[00:53:20] [SPEAKER_08]: I keep a lot of shit on the rafts for that reason.

[00:53:23] [SPEAKER_04]: But then I concentrate your fast statement.

[00:53:25] [SPEAKER_04]: What did I do with them?

[00:53:26] [SPEAKER_08]: Not, bro.

[00:53:27] [SPEAKER_08]: That becomes the self-analyzation.

[00:53:30] [SPEAKER_08]: You continue to do it the more you act as of like why?

[00:53:34] [SPEAKER_04]: But, so if you post not to catch up.

[00:53:36] [SPEAKER_04]: So, you graphic design, you do, let's say you do,

[00:53:39] [SPEAKER_04]: let's see, do something like that.

[00:53:40] [SPEAKER_08]: It's not only the graphics shit, too.

[00:53:41] [SPEAKER_04]: It's not, I'm just speaking from,

[00:53:44] [SPEAKER_04]: just this is a general example at same point.

[00:53:46] [SPEAKER_04]: You get to say you do something out of them

[00:53:48] [SPEAKER_04]: to cover today, then you do a billboard in time square.

[00:53:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Then somebody's fly you out to LA to do this in a third.

[00:53:53] [SPEAKER_04]: You have to showcase your work because that's your resume, right?

[00:53:55] [SPEAKER_04]: How about that bragging, that's what you do?

[00:53:58] [SPEAKER_08]: I might post about one or three of them shit.

[00:54:02] [SPEAKER_08]: One out of three of them shit.

[00:54:03] [SPEAKER_04]: But, so you're not sure whether that's what you make it breading your butter.

[00:54:06] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm saying, that's not bragging, that's what you do.

[00:54:09] [SPEAKER_07]: That's my job.

[00:54:10] [SPEAKER_07]: So, squirrels just do this to me.

[00:54:12] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm sorry, the biggest secret man who

[00:54:14] [SPEAKER_07]: hyper-successful in business and great with women have,

[00:54:19] [SPEAKER_07]: they are much more arrogant behind closed doors than what they showed the world.

[00:54:24] [SPEAKER_07]: Charisma and confidence are very dark traits

[00:54:27] [SPEAKER_07]: in the sense that only men who see themselves as the best thing of

[00:54:31] [SPEAKER_07]: that they got himself can truly have these traits.

[00:54:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Charisma is basically a very intense self-confidence downplayed into a calm,

[00:54:38] [SPEAKER_07]: like state.

[00:54:40] [SPEAKER_07]: The men who possesses charisma who are when they are alone,

[00:54:43] [SPEAKER_07]: they see themselves as divine royalty.

[00:54:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Just like a pretty girl has to hide her darker sexual thoughts,

[00:54:49] [SPEAKER_07]: don't hide them with me.

[00:54:52] [SPEAKER_07]: A successful man hides his narcissism.

[00:54:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Scrares you be like someone in the face, stop it.

[00:55:00] [SPEAKER_07]: He can still be very humble and generous, but there will always be a duality of

[00:55:04] [SPEAKER_07]: his personality where he could flip the switch and see himself as a dog ready to eat

[00:55:09] [SPEAKER_07]: and run everything over in his path.

[00:55:11] [SPEAKER_07]: This is more a primal side of a man and it's necessary for success.

[00:55:16] [SPEAKER_07]: He has to hide this side of himself because it is so strong that I'll make everyone around him

[00:55:21] [SPEAKER_07]: feel insecure, weak, or intimidating.

[00:55:24] [SPEAKER_07]: When people look at him, they are reminded that what they don't have,

[00:55:28] [SPEAKER_07]: they're aura, they're success, or really a tough side.

[00:55:31] [SPEAKER_07]: So they usually start to subconsciously attack these men because he is seen as an enemy to their sense of self.

[00:55:38] [SPEAKER_07]: At the end of the day, these men are successful because they believe that they are

[00:55:42] [SPEAKER_07]: better, smarter and faster than everyone else.

[00:55:44] [SPEAKER_07]: It's superficial, but you'll never go into winning life unless you see yourself as a monster.

[00:55:49] [SPEAKER_07]: Look at the athlete when they score, they let their competitors know.

[00:55:53] [SPEAKER_07]: They roar, they beat their chest.

[00:55:55] [SPEAKER_07]: They assert their dominance on their competitors and the business and dating

[00:56:00] [SPEAKER_07]: world is no different.

[00:56:01] [SPEAKER_07]: It is incredibly vain to say, but this is a winner.

[00:56:04] [SPEAKER_07]: But this, but winner, oh I'm sorry, it is incredibly vain to say,

[00:56:10] [SPEAKER_07]: but this is winner's winning because they're an estate a delusion where they don't see

[00:56:16] [SPEAKER_07]: themselves losing as an option.

[00:56:18] [SPEAKER_07]: They literally brainwashed themselves to see a God when they look in the mirror.

[00:56:24] [SPEAKER_07]: Of course, this can lead to downfalls, but overall being delusionaly confident allows you to take

[00:56:29] [SPEAKER_07]: a risk. The man will approach the girl 10 times out of 10, expecting her to want him.

[00:56:37] [SPEAKER_07]: He will start a business, expecting to become an empire and he will stay confident during

[00:56:43] [SPEAKER_07]: the highs and lows because he wants to show the world this is his greatness.

[00:56:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Some will say this is vain but all men have the urge to flex.

[00:56:52] [SPEAKER_07]: Even when I write this post, a part of me writes it to help others, but a large part of me writes it.

[00:56:58] [SPEAKER_07]: So all my competitors and friends from my past who used to hate on me can see me lapping them.

[00:57:04] [SPEAKER_07]: Scrazzled, did you write this?

[00:57:06] [SPEAKER_07]: I gained a lot of motivation from stepping on the next of the enemies. All masculine men have

[00:57:12] [SPEAKER_07]: this inner peace in them and men who let it out win in life. It's a brutal reality, but this

[00:57:18] [SPEAKER_07]: shows how the world's work. The most confident man wins. This is by Chase Austin and I think we should end

[00:57:28] [SPEAKER_07]: that note whether you agree or not. There is a delusional reality, but I also want us to know

[00:57:39] [SPEAKER_07]: and life sometimes we go through things. If you think about the grand scheme of it all,

[00:57:46] [SPEAKER_07]: just take yourself out of the situation and realize, is this about me or is this bigger than me?

[00:57:52] [SPEAKER_07]: And I think that will help you attack every situation with the right mindset.

[00:57:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Once you kind of realize, is this happening or is this happening to me? Is this worth the reaction?

[00:58:06] [SPEAKER_06]: I just don't get to ahead of myself. I feel like life has f***ing humbled me enough for me to be like okay.

[00:58:14] [SPEAKER_07]: That's like humble such interesting work. I'm like you want the mic?

[00:58:17] [SPEAKER_07]: I want to say it looks like this. Yeah, there we go.

[00:58:21] [SPEAKER_00]: No, I'm not bad. I just woke up guys and saw it. You shouldn't say that on a podcast.

[00:58:25] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not bad. Like mentally, spiritually. My third eye as they were saying. Okay.

[00:58:32] [SPEAKER_00]: But I've got some really good advice from a peer recently.

[00:58:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Just to look at social media as a resume, it's not bragging to posts, you know,

[00:58:41] [SPEAKER_00]: your recent work or your accomplishments. It's all about the tone of what you do post it as well.

[00:58:47] [SPEAKER_00]: You don't have to post it like you're better than anybody. You're just working on a bigger goal,

[00:58:52] [SPEAKER_00]: big at task. You know, there's some praise that you got going on and don't be shy to show the world you don't.

[00:58:58] [SPEAKER_00]: What you're doing? There's always room for growth and it's nice to document your growth.

[00:59:03] [SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, it's not arrogance. It's, you know, you're working on being a better person and being a best.

[00:59:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Or is yourself in so-and-world. But you got going on. And that's that.

[00:59:13] [SPEAKER_06]: You're sure that's gross. I know the one.

[00:59:16] [SPEAKER_06]: My name. You've already known it is my focus.

[00:59:18] [SPEAKER_06]: Small three of the lovers always down on PZ aka down the camera guy alongside the Lashon.

[00:59:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Alongside Joe on the school guy game, alongside Sarah's a stars and alongside squirrels.

[00:59:28] [SPEAKER_06]: One shout to you out for popping out. Don't think the light comes ascribe.

[00:59:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Don't forget it.

[00:59:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Facts. All things. What's a good guy coming out? Every Monday at 8am or what's a good guy.

[00:59:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Dot com. YouTube backslash was a good guy and of course all your DSPs. Shout out to our distributor.

[00:59:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, yeah, I did. I love bug.

[00:59:49] [SPEAKER_07]: Shout out to your love bug? Okay. I said, and get out of them. Love bug.

[00:59:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, this guy. Yeah.

[00:59:53] [SPEAKER_07]: Just make sure you have the big one.

[00:59:56] [SPEAKER_07]: God is go baby.