In this episode of "What’s A Good Guy," we dive into the nuanced world of social media and relationships, sparked by the recent passing of Rich Homie Quan. As we reflect on the outpouring of tributes and remembrances, we explore the feelings that arise when women post about someone who has a significant other, and what it means to honor someone’s memory in the digital age.
Join us as we discuss:
- Social Media and Grief: Analyzing the appropriateness of posting tributes to public figures and the emotional implications for their loved ones. - Reflections on Past Relationships: How many people from our past would post about us if we were to pass away? What does this reveal about our connections? - Navigating Jealousy and Insecurity: How would we feel being on the receiving end of such tributes? Exploring feelings of jealousy and comparison in current relationships. - The Reality of Past vs. Present: Do previous relationships hold better moments than our current ones? Discussing the tendency to romanticize the past and how it affects our present happiness. - Crafting Meaningful Connections: Strategies for fostering deeper, more authentic relationships in a world dominated by social media highlights.
- How do you feel about women posting tributes to Rich Homie Quan considering he had a significant other? Is it respectful or inappropriate? - If you were to pass away, who from your past do you think would post about you? Why do you think that is? - How would you feel if someone you were currently with posted about an ex after their passing? - Do you find yourself comparing past relationships with your current one? How does that impact your happiness? - What steps can we take to appreciate our present relationships without being distracted by the past?
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[00:00:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Listen, I don't wish bad on nobody.
[00:00:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I hope she prevails in the slayin'
[00:00:04] [SPEAKER_05]: You don't wish bad on people?
[00:00:06] [SPEAKER_05]: I been wishing bad on people all the time.
[00:00:07] [SPEAKER_05]: Yeah, me too.
[00:00:08] [SPEAKER_05]: Nah, I be watching people fail sometimes.
[00:00:11] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm like, yeah, finally.
[00:00:13] [SPEAKER_05]: Nigga, so you was doing good for too long.
[00:00:15] [SPEAKER_05]: Nah, I'm waiting for niggas to find out you suck.
[00:00:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, scrubs? Yeah.
[00:00:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Me, in particular, is one nigga when he die,
[00:00:22] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm in there.
[00:00:24] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm at my biggest hated funeral.
[00:00:25] [SPEAKER_06]: You gonna wave a flag at the funeral?
[00:00:27] [SPEAKER_06]: Nigga, niggas gonna know me and know I'm on my time.
[00:00:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo, bro. Welcome to Germany.
[00:00:31] [SPEAKER_06]: I'ma tell you, I'ma come, I'ma go to the funeral.
[00:00:33] [SPEAKER_06]: They gonna be like, yo, L.A., chill, bro.
[00:00:35] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm dead ass gone like.
[00:00:36] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm just here for the family.
[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_06]: I mean, his pops ain't gon' be there.
[00:00:41] [SPEAKER_06]: His pops don't fuck with him.
[00:00:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Alright, yo, okay, y'all, Peasley.
[00:00:44] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm done here.
[00:00:46] [SPEAKER_07]: You're right over this, ladies and gentlemen.
[00:00:48] [SPEAKER_07]: Your most favorite lover has always died on a field.
[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Alongside of LaShawn.
[00:00:51] [SPEAKER_07]: Another beautiful day here in the compound of New Jersey.
[00:00:53] [SPEAKER_07]: Um, bro, just hanging out.
[00:00:55] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't say something about New Jersey.
[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_06]: If I, if I, if I...
[00:01:01] [SPEAKER_07]: We ain't gonna start the episode like that.
[00:01:02] [SPEAKER_06]: If I moved to Jersey, I would come to Jersey to pop?
[00:01:05] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.
[00:01:06] [SPEAKER_07]: We went to Connecticut to hang out with the New Jersey.
[00:01:11] [SPEAKER_06]: You know, funny, you know.
[00:01:13] [SPEAKER_06]: That was a quick response.
[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_06]: You see, this is why I don't like, right?
[00:01:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't even be thinking half this shit.
[00:01:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Y'all bring it to my attention and then be like, LaShawn, chill.
[00:01:24] [SPEAKER_06]: I didn't even think of that.
[00:01:25] I didn't even think of that.
[00:01:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, bro.
[00:01:26] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what it is? We started thinking how you think.
[00:01:28] [SPEAKER_07]: That's the problem.
[00:01:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Okay. I'm funny.
[00:01:31] [SPEAKER_07]: I have mad New Jersey jokes just now. So many.
[00:01:33] [SPEAKER_07]: Me too, man.
[00:01:35] [SPEAKER_07]: Well, what's going on, folks?
[00:01:36] [SPEAKER_07]: Hey, we got a special guest in the building.
[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Actually, we got two of them in the building.
[00:01:39] [SPEAKER_07]: One just finished taking care of his family.
[00:01:41] [SPEAKER_07]: The other one is...
[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_07]: What was Cyrus doing?
[00:01:45] [SPEAKER_07]: What family I got?
[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Well, when you did miss the pod, you had a family of my own.
[00:01:50] [SPEAKER_07]: How many episodes did he miss?
[00:01:52] [SPEAKER_06]: He missed in total...
[00:01:54] [SPEAKER_06]: Seven.
[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Two recordings, seven episodes.
[00:01:57] [SPEAKER_05]: I wish you guys had the welcome back music.
[00:01:59] [SPEAKER_05]: We got you.
[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_05]: It's going to be up now.
[00:02:02] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't even think Skrillz got a lower third.
[00:02:05] [SPEAKER_06]: That's how long he's been here.
[00:02:07] [SPEAKER_06]: Skrillz don't have a lower third.
[00:02:09] [SPEAKER_06]: So yeah, Skrillz's first lower third will be inserted today.
[00:02:13] [SPEAKER_06]: What's going on, brother?
[00:02:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Fuck, it's all in the pod.
[00:02:17] [SPEAKER_06]: First and foremost,
[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I actually want to say rest in peace.
[00:02:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Rest in peace to Rich Homie Kwon.
[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_06]: We really don't do current events,
[00:02:27] [SPEAKER_06]: but I want to experiment.
[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_06]: And I'm sorry, Don.
[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_06]: This is going to be an experimental episode
[00:02:34] [SPEAKER_06]: of us doing current events.
[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Right, cool.
[00:02:40] [SPEAKER_06]: So over the weekend,
[00:02:42] [SPEAKER_06]: the passing of Rich Homie Kwon...
[00:02:45] [SPEAKER_06]: He passed.
[00:02:46] [SPEAKER_06]: So unfortunate,
[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_06]: but he's still here.
[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_06]: It is what it is.
[00:02:50] [SPEAKER_06]: But that's not what I really
[00:02:52] [SPEAKER_06]: want to talk to you about.
[00:02:54] [SPEAKER_06]: When he passed,
[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_06]: there was a woman
[00:03:00] [SPEAKER_06]: who posted a video
[00:03:01] [SPEAKER_06]: of them being intimate,
[00:03:06] [SPEAKER_06]: but that wasn't his girl.
[00:03:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Right?
[00:03:09] [SPEAKER_06]: And then later on,
[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_06]: another woman did the same thing.
[00:03:12] [SPEAKER_06]: So I want to ask the room,
[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_06]: if y'all were to die...
[00:03:18] [SPEAKER_05]: First off,
[00:03:19] [SPEAKER_05]: they were going band for band.
[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_05]: No, why fuck me better?
[00:03:25] [SPEAKER_05]: He used his tongue life.
[00:03:28] [SPEAKER_05]: If you were to perish
[00:03:31] [SPEAKER_06]: earlier...
[00:03:35] [SPEAKER_06]: How many...
[00:03:36] [SPEAKER_06]: Let's just play spades right now.
[00:03:37] [SPEAKER_06]: Real quick.
[00:03:38] [SPEAKER_06]: How many books do you think you guys would have?
[00:03:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Hang on, I'm about to say something else.
[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_06]: How many women do you think
[00:03:45] [SPEAKER_06]: are posting their most intimate moments with you?
[00:03:50] [SPEAKER_05]: Like two.
[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_05]: Like two?
[00:03:52] [SPEAKER_05]: Yeah, everybody hates me.
[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_05]: They're not action women.
[00:03:56] [SPEAKER_05]: These women, they suck.
[00:03:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay, all right.
[00:04:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:04:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I be team loving hate.
[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't think any...
[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_07]: I think one, bro.
[00:04:08] [SPEAKER_07]: The rest of them is just like that.
[00:04:10] [SPEAKER_07]: They're not doing that.
[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_07]: They're not embarrassing themselves that much.
[00:04:13] [SPEAKER_07]: You were never that important.
[00:04:15] [SPEAKER_07]: Intimately, right?
[00:04:18] [SPEAKER_05]: You see the video?
[00:04:20] [SPEAKER_05]: Like a freaky video or something?
[00:04:22] [SPEAKER_05]: No, like them hanging a picture together.
[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, I don't even like to take pictures like that.
[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_07]: That's weird.
[00:04:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know. That's a great question.
[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:04:33] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:04:35] [SPEAKER_07]: That's posting that intimate me and laying it up.
[00:04:37] [SPEAKER_07]: All right, let me show you an example.
[00:04:38] [SPEAKER_07]: Let me show you an example of the video.
[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_07]: Because I'm thinking like a romping shot.
[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_07]: No, no, no.
[00:04:44] [SPEAKER_06]: Not a sex tape.
[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_06]: They were supposed to down pounce.
[00:04:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Stop!
[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_03]: A sex tape is crazy.
[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Down pounce is crazy.
[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_04]: Okay.
[00:04:59] [SPEAKER_04]: That's not his girl.
[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_04]: Isn't she rapping or something?
[00:05:02] [SPEAKER_05]: Who was that? Erica Banks?
[00:05:05] [SPEAKER_04]: Can I see the video?
[00:05:06] [SPEAKER_07]: What are they doing?
[00:05:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Damn.
[00:05:09] [SPEAKER_07]: It's going to have to be some old ass videos of me though.
[00:05:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I see something like that happen.
[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_05]: Oh, shit like this?
[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm going up.
[00:05:17] [SPEAKER_06]: It's like 3,000 posts like that, bro.
[00:05:19] [SPEAKER_06]: All right, cool.
[00:05:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Let me add more context to it.
[00:05:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Damn, that got me thinking.
[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_06]: You have a girl.
[00:05:27] [SPEAKER_07]: You have a baby mother.
[00:05:29] [SPEAKER_07]: I would never have a baby mother.
[00:05:30] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't have a wife.
[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_07]: I mean hypothetically.
[00:05:33] [SPEAKER_07]: Come on, relax.
[00:05:35] [SPEAKER_03]: The mother of your child.
[00:05:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Miss the morality.
[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_06]: The woman you go home to every night.
[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_06]: That comes to my home, yeah.
[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_06]: You're just listening to what he's saying.
[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm sorry.
[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_06]: Fucking Virgo shit, man.
[00:05:49] [SPEAKER_06]: So, yeah.
[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_06]: She...
[00:05:53] [SPEAKER_06]: You have somebody.
[00:05:55] [SPEAKER_06]: She posts what she posts.
[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_06]: But other women are posting.
[00:05:59] [SPEAKER_06]: Huh?
[00:06:01] [SPEAKER_06]: Once again, how many
[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_06]: do you think I would experience?
[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Out of being petty?
[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_07]: I think a few joints and poles.
[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, that's some petty shit.
[00:06:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Okay. Cyrus?
[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_03]: If I would hold
[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_03]: a handful...
[00:06:19] [SPEAKER_07]: You're talking about the last two years.
[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_07]: In the last two years?
[00:06:24] [SPEAKER_05]: Are these story posts or feed posts?
[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_07]: Yo, bro, it doesn't matter.
[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_07]: Stop being so fucking technical, man.
[00:06:30] [SPEAKER_05]: Story? I'm going crazy.
[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_07]: They're not going to post on Instagram
[00:06:33] [SPEAKER_07]: because they're not going to post on their actual Instagram.
[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, I'm more of an
[00:06:38] [SPEAKER_03]: in the moment person, so you got to sneak
[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_03]: a video of me type of situation, unless I'm really with you.
[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_03]: But if we dated...
[00:06:43] [SPEAKER_03]: If women that I got dated and we were
[00:06:45] [SPEAKER_03]: serious and intimate, maybe a handful.
[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_03]: What's a handful, bro?
[00:06:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Five, six.
[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_03]: But then you got to factor in
[00:06:53] [SPEAKER_03]: are these women in relationships?
[00:06:55] [SPEAKER_03]: They're in relationships and they respect their men.
[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_03]: I think the only one that'll get me
[00:06:59] [SPEAKER_06]: the fuck out of here, she got a man.
[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_06]: So I think I'm all right.
[00:07:02] [SPEAKER_05]: That would be five. She told you then
[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_05]: she's in a serious relationship.
[00:07:06] [SPEAKER_05]: Yeah, fuck up your relationship now.
[00:07:08] [SPEAKER_05]: What?
[00:07:10] [SPEAKER_05]: Argue about me after death.
[00:07:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Now you can not have a question with that now.
[00:07:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Is she wrong...
[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_03]: You passed now.
[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Is she wrong for crying because you died?
[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_03]: That actually comes out in the next episode.
[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_03]: That's the next episode?
[00:07:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we got an episode about this.
[00:07:25] [SPEAKER_06]: I am so sorry.
[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_06]: It's cool.
[00:07:30] [SPEAKER_06]: So I think if I'm single...
[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_06]: If I die single, right?
[00:07:36] [SPEAKER_06]: And I'm not dating,
[00:07:37] [SPEAKER_06]: I think a calm
[00:07:40] [SPEAKER_06]: five.
[00:07:41] [SPEAKER_07]: This one posted?
[00:07:42] [SPEAKER_07]: If I'm single though, I ain't gonna fronting like 30 to post it.
[00:07:46] Write that shit up.
[00:07:48] [SPEAKER_07]: But if I'm in a relationship,
[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_07]: I just want to show you that I'm in a relationship with the person.
[00:07:55] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't think that's...
[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't even think it's...
[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_06]: See, is it really petty though?
[00:08:01] If...
[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_07]: Are you in your emotions, you're hurting?
[00:08:03] [SPEAKER_07]: It's understandable, but it's like, yo bro, you know he got a girl.
[00:08:05] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like, yo, you know he's gonna get around.
[00:08:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Like, oh, why are you posting this?
[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_03]: But I'm dead. What am I supposed to do about that?
[00:08:09] [SPEAKER_03]: You can't argue with my death.
[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_07]: Nah, okay.
[00:08:13] [SPEAKER_07]: At that point, it's not even about you no more though.
[00:08:16] [SPEAKER_06]: I just need to know
[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_06]: if...
[00:08:20] [SPEAKER_06]: If I had a moment,
[00:08:21] [SPEAKER_06]: if I have something special with a woman
[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_06]: and we
[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_06]: vibing, we on dates.
[00:08:27] [SPEAKER_06]: We vibing.
[00:08:29] [SPEAKER_06]: We hunching, and she pass.
[00:08:32] [SPEAKER_06]: And she got a man.
[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_06]: I can't grieve?
[00:08:35] [SPEAKER_05]: Why you gotta grieve on social media though?
[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_05]: That's the way I grieve.
[00:08:39] [SPEAKER_05]: That's not performative.
[00:08:41] [SPEAKER_05]: Hey guys, look at me being sad over this girl I used to date.
[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, she held value
[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_03]: in your life.
[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_03]: I want to show that appreciation of the case might be.
[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_03]: How many other niggas is posting this shit?
[00:08:53] [SPEAKER_03]: That's enough.
[00:08:55] [SPEAKER_06]: We put it in reverse.
[00:08:57] [SPEAKER_05]: What if she's like a favorite date spot?
[00:08:59] [SPEAKER_06]: What if your girl dies?
[00:09:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, what a blood clot.
[00:09:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Your girl dies.
[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_03]: My girl die and mad niggas is posting shit for her?
[00:09:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm killing everybody.
[00:09:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm crashing out.
[00:09:10] [SPEAKER_06]: The same handful
[00:09:13] [SPEAKER_06]: that you got.
[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_06]: She got the same handful.
[00:09:16] [SPEAKER_06]: Kiss my ass.
[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_03]: You didn't appreciate her when she was alive.
[00:09:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm the one that's digging her motherfucking guts now.
[00:09:23] [SPEAKER_03]: So why do you care now?
[00:09:24] [SPEAKER_05]: And they're digging her grave.
[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_05]: Niggas said recipes is my best eater.
[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_05]: Oh, yes.
[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_07]: I ain't gonna front niggas and get shot at.
[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_07]: That's crazy, my nigga.
[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_07]: I know she treated you the way she treated me.
[00:09:36] [SPEAKER_07]: It's crazy.
[00:09:38] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm killing somebody.
[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_03]: You was a lucky man when she was alive, brother.
[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_03]: She was an angel.
[00:09:43] [SPEAKER_03]: She did a thing that I didn't even know she could do.
[00:09:46] [SPEAKER_07]: Baby gotta do what a baby gotta do.
[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_03]: A baby gotta do what a baby gotta do.
[00:09:52] [SPEAKER_03]: If it was a handful of niggas post, oh my God.
[00:09:55] [SPEAKER_06]: I appreciate our time together.
[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_06]: It was so precious.
[00:09:58] [SPEAKER_06]: You meant the world to me.
[00:09:59] [SPEAKER_06]: You're the love of my life.
[00:10:01] [SPEAKER_06]: Another nigga saying another nigga saying.
[00:10:03] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm getting mad.
[00:10:05] [SPEAKER_06]: Hold on.
[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_06]: Damn.
[00:10:08] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm gonna put myself in these shoes.
[00:10:10] [SPEAKER_06]: I got furious.
[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_03]: The love of my life is crazy.
[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Hold on.
[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_06]: If Elizabeth passed away
[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_06]: and she was married,
[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_06]: I can't get my shit off?
[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_05]: I can't get my shit off?
[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_05]: Why can't you do it in therapy?
[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_05]: Therapy?
[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_07]: My way of expressing
[00:10:36] [SPEAKER_07]: that I'm grieving
[00:10:38] [SPEAKER_07]: is me posting on social media.
[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_06]: Before we get to the next statement.
[00:10:41] [SPEAKER_07]: You gotta remember that people literally
[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_07]: grieve on social media, bro.
[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_07]: We've seen pictures of people crying and going live on Instagram
[00:10:47] [SPEAKER_07]: and fucking crying.
[00:10:49] [SPEAKER_06]: We are talking about in the context
[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_06]: of the Rich Homie Quant situation.
[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_06]: We are not really talking about us.
[00:10:55] [SPEAKER_06]: Can you get your shit off?
[00:10:57] [SPEAKER_06]: That's what I'm saying.
[00:10:58] [SPEAKER_06]: I was there first.
[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_06]: You were there first.
[00:11:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Five years.
[00:11:02] [SPEAKER_07]: We grew up together.
[00:11:05] [SPEAKER_07]: I hate all of that.
[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_07]: You being fed in the husband, though.
[00:11:10] [SPEAKER_07]: Fuck that nigga.
[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_06]: He's only the husband
[00:11:13] [SPEAKER_06]: because I didn't want to marry him.
[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_05]: But you don't owe the nigga nothing.
[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_07]: I ain't gonna throw somebody's...
[00:11:19] [SPEAKER_07]: I ain't gonna throw somebody's stuff.
[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I got some cojo with it, bro.
[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_07]: What?
[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_07]: So you posting that
[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_07]: and he feels the way...
[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_07]: If you do that, I'm leaving.
[00:11:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Now my thing is, though,
[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_07]: if he hits you up and says,
[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_07]: bro, I feel disrespected why you posting like this,
[00:11:39] [SPEAKER_07]: blah, blah, blah, what is your response?
[00:11:43] [SPEAKER_07]: What is he gonna do about it?
[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_07]: Exactly.
[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_07]: The same way we just say,
[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_07]: yo, niggas ain't posting my shorty like that.
[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_06]: How would you know
[00:11:52] [SPEAKER_06]: unless you're tagged?
[00:11:54] [SPEAKER_06]: Niggas, niggas, niggas.
[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_06]: So boom.
[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_06]: A popular person like yourself,
[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_06]: you die.
[00:12:02] [SPEAKER_06]: You die.
[00:12:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Your girl posts you.
[00:12:05] [SPEAKER_06]: We may only...
[00:12:07] [SPEAKER_06]: Because we know your girl,
[00:12:08] [SPEAKER_06]: we may see it.
[00:12:10] [SPEAKER_06]: But there may be a lingering
[00:12:12] [SPEAKER_06]: of somebody else
[00:12:14] [SPEAKER_06]: and that may go crazy
[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_06]: and then that takes a life of its own
[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_06]: because nobody knew about
[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_06]: these other women
[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_06]: that he's...
[00:12:24] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what's crazy?
[00:12:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Imagine if...
[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_07]: Imagine if Hastings posted something
[00:12:29] [SPEAKER_07]: then Glasses posted something.
[00:12:31] [SPEAKER_07]: What's gonna happen then?
[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_05]: Well, I'll be dead so I'm gonna fuck.
[00:12:37] [SPEAKER_03]: But doesn't that show
[00:12:38] [SPEAKER_03]: like, I guess, character on his end
[00:12:40] [SPEAKER_03]: because nobody knew
[00:12:42] [SPEAKER_03]: he was doing it.
[00:12:43] [SPEAKER_07]: Is that character or are you just being secretive?
[00:12:46] [SPEAKER_06]: Alright, so say you find out.
[00:12:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Say you find out
[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_06]: your girl dies
[00:12:53] [SPEAKER_06]: and then another nigga
[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_06]: posts her but the timeline of
[00:12:59] [SPEAKER_06]: his post...
[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_06]: We wasn't on no break or nothing.
[00:13:01] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.
[00:13:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Is it then like,
[00:13:03] [SPEAKER_06]: fuck, I know you dead but fuck you?
[00:13:07] [SPEAKER_06]: What's the difference to that?
[00:13:07] [SPEAKER_06]: Now I found out you cheated on me.
[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_06]: Now you're grieving even more.
[00:13:11] [SPEAKER_05]: Imagine you at work.
[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_05]: I would really prefer she handle life insurance
[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_05]: and I'm coming out of pocket for this funeral.
[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm gonna start asking everybody that posts.
[00:13:20] [SPEAKER_07]: Out of pocket for what?
[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm like, yo, they're kicking a band.
[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_05]: Niggas ain't gonna fuck me in the funeral.
[00:13:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas ain't gonna get a band.
[00:13:29] [SPEAKER_07]: They're kicking a band on a funeral.
[00:13:31] [SPEAKER_07]: That is tough though.
[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_06]: Imagine you're grieving and then you figure out...
[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, because the way the timeline
[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_06]: of Erica's post
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_06]: coincide with...
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_06]: He had a current girlfriend though.
[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, it's child's mother.
[00:13:47] [SPEAKER_06]: She's the one, yeah.
[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_06]: She found him.
[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_06]: Who found him?
[00:13:52] [SPEAKER_06]: The baby mother.
[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_06]: He was sleeping on the couch.
[00:13:57] [SPEAKER_06]: That's why you brought me in trouble.
[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_06]: She thought he was just sleeping
[00:14:04] [SPEAKER_06]: so she put a cover over him.
[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_06]: Sweet shit.
[00:14:07] [SPEAKER_06]: But came back, he's still sleeping so that's when she realized
[00:14:09] [SPEAKER_06]: he wasn't grieving.
[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_06]: So when she left to take the child to school
[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_06]: he was already gone.
[00:14:15] [SPEAKER_06]: She covered him up.
[00:14:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Anything a nice woman would do.
[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_06]: She'd see you sleeping, blah, blah, blah.
[00:14:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Cover you up, make sure you warm.
[00:14:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Very classy.
[00:14:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Great, Demir.
[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_06]: Very mindful.
[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_06]: But now you do the science
[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_06]: and you're like, damn.
[00:14:32] [SPEAKER_06]: You cheated on me.
[00:14:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Or you was cheating on me.
[00:14:37] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not gonna lie.
[00:14:38] [SPEAKER_07]: First thought in my head, I should've kicked you off that fucking couch.
[00:14:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Just saying wild shit in my head like, yo, bro.
[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_07]: I cared for you.
[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_07]: You did some foul shit.
[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_03]: And you're gone so I came in. Why are you out?
[00:14:48] [SPEAKER_03]: See, this is why I had the perfect title.
[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_03]: Love Don't Make No Sense.
[00:14:52] [SPEAKER_07]: This nigga think he a creative director.
[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Listen, love don't make no sense. For real, bro.
[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_07]: So what is your thought process after that though?
[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_07]: After you find out the truth?
[00:15:01] [SPEAKER_06]: Good riddance.
[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, rest in peace.
[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_07]: Talk about forgiveness.
[00:15:11] [SPEAKER_06]: How am I supposed to forgive?
[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_06]: You probably on the lawn.
[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Waiting on the lawn to see if you're gonna get in them gates.
[00:15:18] [SPEAKER_06]: You worried about how your forgiveness is with the man up there right now.
[00:15:22] [SPEAKER_05]: You gotta forgive yourself before the day is over.
[00:15:25] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm aggrieved because the person I love is dead, but
[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_06]: you weren't the person I thought you were.
[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_06]: So it's good.
[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, facts.
[00:15:33] [SPEAKER_06]: I gotta find out you.
[00:15:35] [SPEAKER_06]: I gotta go to the clinic to make sure I'm clean while crying.
[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_03]: That is a lot.
[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, that's a lot.
[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_03]: When you put it like that, you didn't definitely like,
[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_06]: I didn't think of it.
[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_06]: You gotta remember,
[00:15:50] [SPEAKER_06]: multiple people,
[00:15:51] [SPEAKER_06]: at least two
[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_06]: other women
[00:15:54] [SPEAKER_06]: is posting him.
[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Niggas ain't rubbering up.
[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_03]: So, well, this is from the male perspective.
[00:16:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Are we in a relationship or are we dating?
[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_07]: That's your baby mama.
[00:16:04] [SPEAKER_03]: This is your girl.
[00:16:05] [SPEAKER_03]: This is my girl.
[00:16:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I asked her to be my girlfriend.
[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I'ma be with you, yada, yada.
[00:16:10] [SPEAKER_03]: And then she died.
[00:16:12] [SPEAKER_03]: And another man posted the same timeline.
[00:16:17] [SPEAKER_06]: So in the Misty-Y relationship,
[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_06]: she gets a tattoo on her neck.
[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_06]: And in the video with the nigga,
[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_06]: so it's not an old video.
[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not going to the funeral.
[00:16:28] [SPEAKER_07]: You're not going at all?
[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_06]: My child not going either.
[00:16:32] [SPEAKER_06]: You know.
[00:16:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Your mom's a hoe.
[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_05]: Maybe you should check his job
[00:16:38] [SPEAKER_05]: and make sure it's yours.
[00:16:40] [SPEAKER_02]: 10 days?
[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_02]: If I was an officer in the golf club,
[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_02]: you'd lock your ass up.
[00:16:46] [SPEAKER_02]: What are you talking about?
[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo.
[00:16:51] [SPEAKER_06]: Crazy.
[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not going.
[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_07]: You're not making the kids go evil though?
[00:16:55] [SPEAKER_07]: No.
[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_06]: Your mother cheated on the family.
[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm going to check if that's my kid.
[00:17:03] [SPEAKER_02]: And that's another thing too.
[00:17:05] [SPEAKER_07]: That puts a lot of doubt in your head
[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_07]: at that point.
[00:17:08] [SPEAKER_06]: I mean, if the kid flat out looked like me,
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_06]: it's undeniable.
[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_07]: You hanging around the kid all the time.
[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_07]: You think the nigga's like...
[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Girls are looking at you after a while.
[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_07]: This nigga do got my chin.
[00:17:21] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't know, my nigga.
[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_07]: That puts a lot of doubt at that.
[00:17:25] [SPEAKER_07]: I didn't think about the clinical.
[00:17:27] [SPEAKER_07]: I didn't think about the clinic.
[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_03]: You might become an ancient father.
[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think I'm talking about that.
[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_07]: And you look at your kid every time like,
[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_07]: yo, bro, yo.
[00:17:36] [SPEAKER_07]: Now if the kid look like the mom...
[00:17:39] [SPEAKER_03]: This some bullshit.
[00:17:41] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what's so funny?
[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_03]: I think the only way to really
[00:17:46] [SPEAKER_03]: mend that whole situation,
[00:17:47] [SPEAKER_03]: you just got to look at it like...
[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn.
[00:17:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't even look at that shit.
[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_07]: I was literally about to go,
[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_07]: bro, you weren't the person I was actually in love with.
[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_07]: Imagine...
[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_07]: You not the person I thought you were.
[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_06]: You already dealt with...
[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like some of us have dealt with
[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_06]: dating people
[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_06]: and coming to the realization.
[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_06]: Imagine, and you know, y'all go on.
[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_06]: Because there is something of grieving a person
[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_06]: who's still living.
[00:18:14] [SPEAKER_06]: That's tough.
[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_07]: You're grieving your double grieving, my nigga.
[00:18:18] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what you said.
[00:18:20] [SPEAKER_07]: That's just like, bro, what the fuck?
[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_03]: You can fall in love with the idea
[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_03]: of somebody and then not them.
[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_03]: That's where that line...
[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I fell in love with the idea
[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_03]: of you and not really know who you are.
[00:18:32] [SPEAKER_06]: The idea of what this is.
[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Because in the person's fault,
[00:18:37] [SPEAKER_06]: let's take it off of
[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_06]: the mother
[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_06]: because she's
[00:18:42] [SPEAKER_06]: actually real life grieving.
[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_06]: Let's just keep it on us.
[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_06]: If we have this mindset
[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_06]: of like,
[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_06]: oh, this is my girl.
[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_06]: I love her.
[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_06]: That's not a false...
[00:18:55] [SPEAKER_06]: That's not a false idea of somebody.
[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_06]: In the moment you're receiving
[00:18:58] [SPEAKER_06]: whatever they're giving you.
[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_06]: Then you find out it's fraudulent.
[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_06]: That to me,
[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_06]: there is one thing to be,
[00:19:06] [SPEAKER_06]: you know,
[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_06]: I guess misguided
[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_06]: but to be deceived.
[00:19:13] [SPEAKER_07]: Now, thinking about
[00:19:14] [SPEAKER_07]: the other women as well.
[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_07]: It's like, yo, bro, what are you telling them?
[00:19:18] [SPEAKER_07]: That they're comfortable doing this.
[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_07]: What if those are your girlfriends as well? It's kind of crazy.
[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_06]: That's true too.
[00:19:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Because you know one thing I never get
[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_06]: upset about?
[00:19:27] [SPEAKER_06]: The women that do
[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_06]: explode over their emotions.
[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_06]: There's women that
[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_06]: one, you know you're a side chick
[00:19:38] [SPEAKER_06]: and then there's other women that flat out
[00:19:40] [SPEAKER_06]: think they're the girlfriend.
[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_06]: So, if they wild out...
[00:19:45] [SPEAKER_06]: Man, I wish I could call
[00:19:46] [SPEAKER_06]: my mans right now.
[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_05]: You got to tell like,
[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_05]: so hey,
[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm doing my...
[00:19:53] [SPEAKER_06]: But that's not the situation.
[00:19:54] [SPEAKER_05]: I don't find that work in every scenario though.
[00:19:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Nobody's... A bunch of people are like, oh, I want transparency.
[00:19:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm trying to be honest with me.
[00:20:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Nobody's taking news like that.
[00:20:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Nobody wants transparency like that. Like you can be like,
[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_03]: oh, well, you know, I'm dating her, I'm dating her.
[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_03]: If a girl tell you like I'm dating you and him and him,
[00:20:09] [SPEAKER_03]: you're going to look at her like, you a lunatic.
[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not doing this to you. Are you crazy?
[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Like a nigga can compete because that's your natural
[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_03]: nature, but you're not going to stay here
[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_03]: and put the same effort...
[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_05]: Wait, wait, wait. When you say compete,
[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_05]: what do you mean by that?
[00:20:22] [SPEAKER_05]: Niggas going to ban for ban on flowers and dates?
[00:20:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, I think,
[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_06]: well in this new age
[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_06]: of mine, if a woman told me
[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_06]: she's dating somebody else or she's
[00:20:33] [SPEAKER_06]: dating, I'll bow out.
[00:20:35] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not doing that.
[00:20:38] [SPEAKER_03]: There's the...
[00:20:39] [SPEAKER_03]: This is not a bidding war.
[00:20:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Well, yeah. No, for a fact, I'm not going to stay here and
[00:20:43] [SPEAKER_03]: date you five of the niggas.
[00:20:44] [SPEAKER_03]: You're crazy.
[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_07]: But are you dating five other women?
[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_03]: I got my options. Anyways.
[00:20:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll say it like that.
[00:20:52] [SPEAKER_03]: But...
[00:20:53] [SPEAKER_07]: The bachelor is crazy.
[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_03]: There's like that blur line where it's like
[00:20:58] [SPEAKER_03]: you're dating somebody and it's phasing out,
[00:21:00] [SPEAKER_03]: then you start dating a new person.
[00:21:02] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I'm talking about as far as the competing.
[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Not the, well, I'm dating this nigga.
[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_03]: This nigga did bring me to SDK the other day.
[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Then it's like, you know, you did bring me to
[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_03]: fuck with a child. You know what I'm saying? It's that
[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I was about to show my...
[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_06]: I was just about to show my
[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_06]: elitism.
[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_06]: You think that's an L, SDK?
[00:21:19] [SPEAKER_06]: No, see, we're just talking...
[00:21:22] [SPEAKER_06]: We're just talking...
[00:21:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Thank you, sir.
[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_05]: We don't use that word here.
[00:21:27] [SPEAKER_05]: Please. Oh my. You're a basic person.
[00:21:31] [SPEAKER_03]: So, I'm
[00:21:31] [SPEAKER_03]: just speaking in the realm...
[00:21:33] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm just speaking
[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_03]: in the realm of people
[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_03]: courting women.
[00:21:39] [SPEAKER_03]: So, if you and another man is dating
[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_03]: the same girl at the same time, it then
[00:21:43] [SPEAKER_03]: becomes a courting battle. You might pull up
[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_03]: with her and bring her to whatever steakhouse
[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_03]: now. I don't say no names because now...
[00:21:49] [SPEAKER_03]: You said catches something. Catches is fine.
[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Catches for the special
[00:21:53] [SPEAKER_03]: girls. Special girlies.
[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_05]: Shout out to Flowers.
[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_05]: Take it to some more entry level.
[00:21:59] [SPEAKER_05]: Shout out to Flowers out there.
[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_03]: So,
[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_03]: you know what I'm saying?
[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_03]: And then you got the... You might pull up with the Flowers.
[00:22:07] [SPEAKER_03]: But then you gotta understand who the fuck you dating.
[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_03]: You can buy a girl jewelry.
[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_03]: You can bring her this, that, and the third.
[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_03]: But maybe she just want a nigga
[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_03]: that she could just talk to on the phone.
[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_03]: She don't want shit.
[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_03]: She don't want shit from a nigga.
[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool, cool, cool. So,
[00:22:22] [SPEAKER_06]: she passes away. The nigga don't post
[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_06]: no video. But he posts
[00:22:27] [SPEAKER_06]: the call log and it says six hours.
[00:22:29] [SPEAKER_06]: He was like, yo, I just spoke to you last night.
[00:22:31] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh my God.
[00:22:33] [SPEAKER_06]: You said you was sleeping.
[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh my God.
[00:22:36] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm gonna crash out about that.
[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_02]: You been on the phone with niggas for six hours?
[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Six hours?
[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_07]: You don't want to talk to me. What we talking about here?
[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_07]: That's what you find slow?
[00:22:46] [SPEAKER_07]: You gotta be shitting me.
[00:22:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Nigga, she told you she's sleeping. Sleeping?
[00:22:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Nigga, six hours ain't no reply. You working your overnight shit.
[00:22:53] [SPEAKER_06]: She talking overnight.
[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm gonna tell the cops he murdered her.
[00:23:01] [SPEAKER_05]: That's crazy.
[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_07]: Why you ill, bro?
[00:23:07] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what's so funny?
[00:23:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I had an incident like this.
[00:23:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Story time.
[00:23:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I was dating a said girl.
[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_03]: We was cool and shit like that.
[00:23:17] [SPEAKER_03]: I used to go see her.
[00:23:18] [SPEAKER_03]: She used to go to the way of college.
[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_03]: We used to be on FaceTime all the time.
[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Every night, yada, yada.
[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_03]: We used to go to the way of college.
[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_03]: One particular night,
[00:23:25] [SPEAKER_03]: she's like, yo, I'm kinda tired.
[00:23:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm going to bed early.
[00:23:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like, girl, you usually have class at 6 o'clock in the morning.
[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_03]: We be on the phone until 5 o'clock in the morning.
[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_03]: You still get to class? You tired tonight?
[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Yada, yada, yada. Time passed now.
[00:23:39] [SPEAKER_03]: This situation is then revisited because
[00:23:41] [SPEAKER_03]: a whole phone situation went on
[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_03]: and backtracking and stuff like that.
[00:23:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I then put two and two together.
[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_03]: She was like,
[00:23:52] [SPEAKER_03]: it's really embarrassing to say,
[00:23:53] [SPEAKER_03]: but I don't give a fuck.
[00:23:54] [SPEAKER_03]: I end up finding she linked a nigga that night.
[00:23:57] [SPEAKER_03]: She's going to bed early.
[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_03]: They end up doing a grown thing.
[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like, so this is what we doing now?
[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_03]: We just fucking niggas?
[00:24:06] [SPEAKER_03]: You know you ask dumbass questions
[00:24:08] [SPEAKER_03]: when you hurt like, why would you do this?
[00:24:09] [SPEAKER_03]: You know she's going to say to me?
[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I just wanted to fuck.
[00:24:15] [SPEAKER_05]: She had needs, bro.
[00:24:17] [SPEAKER_05]: She had a history to be scratched.
[00:24:20] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga, it's always someone you're not going to be.
[00:24:21] [SPEAKER_02]: You was too far.
[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_05]: You was too far.
[00:24:23] [SPEAKER_03]: This is why and this is exactly why
[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_03]: you got to know what I'm saying.
[00:24:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't even know what to say
[00:24:30] [SPEAKER_03]: because that's why my phone is all over again now.
[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Well,
[00:24:35] [SPEAKER_06]: I think
[00:24:37] [SPEAKER_06]: that's not something
[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I would want to wish on anybody.
[00:24:40] [SPEAKER_06]: But it is becoming a common thing.
[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_06]: That's why I was worried tomorrow.
[00:24:46] [SPEAKER_06]: When somebody passes?
[00:24:47] [SPEAKER_06]: And then a lot of people,
[00:24:48] [SPEAKER_06]: I ain't in front.
[00:24:51] [SPEAKER_06]: You might have to sit out of this one.
[00:24:54] [SPEAKER_06]: What I'm about to ask.
[00:24:55] [SPEAKER_07]: Damn, I can't just leave.
[00:24:56] [SPEAKER_06]: I want you to sit out because
[00:24:59] [SPEAKER_06]: the question that I have,
[00:25:01] [SPEAKER_06]: do you think
[00:25:04] [SPEAKER_06]: the woman you're with now
[00:25:07] [SPEAKER_06]: or whoever you're dealing with
[00:25:08] [SPEAKER_06]: even if you're single, whatever,
[00:25:10] [SPEAKER_06]: has the best content?
[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_06]: All right.
[00:25:16] [SPEAKER_04]: I can talk though.
[00:25:18] [SPEAKER_04]: I thought she had the best content.
[00:25:20] [SPEAKER_07]: Milan, Paris?
[00:25:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, she's good.
[00:25:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Content and what?
[00:25:26] [SPEAKER_05]: You guys have good relationship pictures.
[00:25:28] [SPEAKER_05]: You guys went to good places. Cuddly, lovey, all that shit.
[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_06]: Right.
[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Do you think your person
[00:25:34] [SPEAKER_06]: in that moment,
[00:25:36] [SPEAKER_06]: let's say I'm dating somebody right now.
[00:25:39] [SPEAKER_07]: That lady is a sick nigga, bro.
[00:25:40] [SPEAKER_03]: No. Me right now.
[00:25:43] [SPEAKER_03]: At this very moment, no.
[00:25:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Absolutely not. I might cry.
[00:25:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I might cry if the person
[00:25:48] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm dating now
[00:25:50] [SPEAKER_03]: and the niggas you used to do it before.
[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_03]: He got all the fuck.
[00:25:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm just new to the game.
[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, oh.
[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_06]: That's a different type of hurt.
[00:26:03] [SPEAKER_06]: I didn't get this from you.
[00:26:05] [SPEAKER_05]: I got to log off.
[00:26:06] [SPEAKER_06]: You didn't get the premiers
[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_06]: when she was averaging 38, 72.
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_05]: That's two blocks.
[00:26:12] [SPEAKER_06]: She had to write for about 20 minutes.
[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_06]: My God. Jesus Christ.
[00:26:16] [SPEAKER_06]: Knees was fresh.
[00:26:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Throw a...
[00:26:22] [SPEAKER_06]: When she love the game.
[00:26:25] [SPEAKER_05]: She show up from practice every day.
[00:26:26] [SPEAKER_05]: Ready to die about you.
[00:26:29] [SPEAKER_03]: That's tough.
[00:26:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Nigga might lose it.
[00:26:32] [SPEAKER_06]: You might really have to be like...
[00:26:33] [SPEAKER_06]: I was thinking about it.
[00:26:35] [SPEAKER_06]: I was literally thinking about it.
[00:26:36] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm like, yo.
[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_06]: If I was in a relationship
[00:26:39] [SPEAKER_06]: right now and I die,
[00:26:45] [SPEAKER_06]: my current girl
[00:26:46] [SPEAKER_06]: would not have the better content
[00:26:49] [SPEAKER_06]: or the better memories.
[00:26:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Are you talking about the sex?
[00:26:52] [SPEAKER_06]: No, I'm not talking about the sex.
[00:26:54] [SPEAKER_06]: You see how the same type of videos
[00:26:55] [SPEAKER_06]: that I just showed you?
[00:26:57] [SPEAKER_06]: She would not have that.
[00:26:59] [SPEAKER_05]: My thing is though,
[00:27:01] [SPEAKER_07]: because you were more alive.
[00:27:04] [SPEAKER_07]: I was alive at that age, but you were more like...
[00:27:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Exactly. She got the better me.
[00:27:07] [SPEAKER_07]: She got the chill. You chilling.
[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm more relaxed.
[00:27:10] [SPEAKER_06]: Before he was walking.
[00:27:12] [SPEAKER_07]: Nigga, LA outside with a six-pack.
[00:27:17] [SPEAKER_06]: That's tough too.
[00:27:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Say they doing a collage, right?
[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_06]: You talking about the memorial set?
[00:27:29] [SPEAKER_07]: Nigga, if I was to see that shit in the square,
[00:27:30] [SPEAKER_07]: I'd be like, cut it off.
[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Cut LA show, please.
[00:27:36] [SPEAKER_07]: They got generative AI.
[00:27:38] [SPEAKER_06]: So she really validated, you can fix it.
[00:27:40] [SPEAKER_06]: Listen, listen, listen.
[00:27:44] [SPEAKER_06]: You pass, right?
[00:27:46] [SPEAKER_06]: And everybody posted.
[00:27:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Same thing, if we pass, we all post
[00:27:50] [SPEAKER_06]: in our favorite moments with each other.
[00:27:52] [SPEAKER_06]: The jokes, the laughs, the good times.
[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_06]: Some may have more than others.
[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_06]: I could post Delta stuff,
[00:27:58] [SPEAKER_06]: Pod stuff, I may have
[00:28:00] [SPEAKER_06]: more stuff than a new friend of yours.
[00:28:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool.
[00:28:04] [SPEAKER_06]: Same way with a woman.
[00:28:06] [SPEAKER_06]: Your new girl, posting your first
[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_06]: date, this, that and the third.
[00:28:10] [SPEAKER_06]: But somebody else could post
[00:28:12] [SPEAKER_06]: you in Milan, could post you
[00:28:14] [SPEAKER_06]: in Paris, could post you
[00:28:16] [SPEAKER_06]: when you first started photography
[00:28:18] [SPEAKER_06]: with your first photos.
[00:28:20] [SPEAKER_06]: That's a tough night, bro.
[00:28:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Whenever you think about this...
[00:28:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Because in
[00:28:26] [SPEAKER_06]: defense of
[00:28:29] [SPEAKER_06]: anybody in your past,
[00:28:30] [SPEAKER_06]: they're grieving you the same way everybody else is.
[00:28:32] [SPEAKER_07]: But they just didn't get that.
[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_06]: The only difference... What's the difference?
[00:28:36] [SPEAKER_06]: Because Skrills made a point
[00:28:38] [SPEAKER_06]: of why we're grieving on social media, right?
[00:28:41] [SPEAKER_06]: What's the difference between
[00:28:42] [SPEAKER_06]: her post and my post?
[00:28:45] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm your man.
[00:28:47] [SPEAKER_07]: We're both grieving the same.
[00:28:48] [SPEAKER_06]: We're both grieving the same.
[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Your ex may be even grieving harder than me.
[00:28:53] [SPEAKER_07]: Because you ain't never hit this.
[00:28:54] [SPEAKER_07]: You see, I was going to say the adult thing
[00:28:57] [SPEAKER_07]: and y'all was never really that young.
[00:28:58] [SPEAKER_07]: I was going to say the adult thing, right?
[00:29:00] [SPEAKER_07]: I was going to say the adult thing. We weren't intimate.
[00:29:02] [SPEAKER_07]: But you never hit this.
[00:29:05] [SPEAKER_02]: He's a freaky dude.
[00:29:07] [SPEAKER_02]: He's a freaky dude.
[00:29:09] [SPEAKER_06]: No more.
[00:29:10] [SPEAKER_06]: So I could post
[00:29:14] [SPEAKER_06]: mad videos
[00:29:14] [SPEAKER_06]: with us and Skrills
[00:29:16] [SPEAKER_06]: having the time of our lives, right?
[00:29:18] [SPEAKER_06]: When we was in Woodland going crazy.
[00:29:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Fuck Woodland, nigga. We was at NWP parties.
[00:29:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Going crazy, right?
[00:29:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool.
[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_07]: And you could post that. I could post fucking trads.
[00:29:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Right.
[00:29:28] [SPEAKER_06]: So your history with Skrills is longer.
[00:29:31] [SPEAKER_06]: So imagine, same woman type.
[00:29:34] [SPEAKER_06]: So I may have like
[00:29:36] [SPEAKER_06]: six years with Skrills.
[00:29:38] [SPEAKER_06]: You got ten.
[00:29:41] [SPEAKER_06]: We all grieving the same. She can't grieve.
[00:29:44] [SPEAKER_07]: But grieving, the thing about the shit
[00:29:45] [SPEAKER_07]: that's fucked, we could all grieve.
[00:29:47] [SPEAKER_07]: But the in between?
[00:29:49] [SPEAKER_07]: That in between is the whole deal.
[00:29:52] [SPEAKER_07]: As you said,
[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_07]: I ain't grieving no more, nigga.
[00:29:54] [SPEAKER_07]: Now I'm angry.
[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm angry that you're gone.
[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_07]: But now I'm angry that I can't
[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_07]: wow you out, my nigga.
[00:30:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't have a conversation.
[00:30:04] [SPEAKER_03]: That plays with your ego.
[00:30:06] [SPEAKER_06]: First of all,
[00:30:09] [SPEAKER_06]: I won't say never
[00:30:10] [SPEAKER_06]: because never is...
[00:30:13] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like when I say
[00:30:14] [SPEAKER_06]: I would never, life says,
[00:30:16] [SPEAKER_06]: let me show you.
[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_02]: Nah, try to never say never.
[00:30:18] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, so I'm not going to do that.
[00:30:21] [SPEAKER_06]: But in my current mind state
[00:30:23] [SPEAKER_06]: right now, I would
[00:30:25] [SPEAKER_06]: not
[00:30:27] [SPEAKER_06]: approach a man
[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_06]: man to man about no woman.
[00:30:31] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm damn sure not doing it about a dead one.
[00:30:35] [SPEAKER_06]: Because ain't nobody hitting that...
[00:30:37] [SPEAKER_06]: Ain't nobody...
[00:30:39] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm sorry, I messed up.
[00:30:40] [SPEAKER_06]: I almost did it.
[00:30:42] [SPEAKER_06]: So
[00:30:45] [SPEAKER_06]: seeing is enough.
[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_06]: First of all, I don't even believe in the man to man
[00:30:48] [SPEAKER_06]: or woman to woman conversation because you see it.
[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_00]: You know it.
[00:30:51] [SPEAKER_00]: What is there to ask about?
[00:30:53] [SPEAKER_06]: You want a time there?
[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_06]: You want to know what time I did it?
[00:30:56] [SPEAKER_06]: You see it.
[00:30:57] [SPEAKER_06]: You know I did it.
[00:30:58] [SPEAKER_06]: You know me.
[00:31:01] [SPEAKER_06]: You saw what I did to you.
[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_06]: She more fire than you.
[00:31:05] [SPEAKER_03]: It's kind of fucked up when you're both firing.
[00:31:08] [SPEAKER_05]: It just shows you got a good resume.
[00:31:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, facts.
[00:31:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Twinsling?
[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_05]: Everybody look at the back of your skin, bro.
[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_05]: Si had them once.
[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh!
[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Is there anybody you wouldn't want to post to you?
[00:31:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, for sure.
[00:31:23] [SPEAKER_07]: Please go to hell.
[00:31:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, yeah, don't post me.
[00:31:26] [SPEAKER_07]: We're not friends.
[00:31:29] [SPEAKER_03]: If Haitian wasn't posting you, how would you feel?
[00:31:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think I'd post that shit, dog.
[00:31:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Don't post that shit, dog.
[00:31:37] [SPEAKER_07]: Glasses post you, but how would you feel?
[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_07]: I'd be dead, nigga.
[00:31:40] [SPEAKER_07]: Come on, man.
[00:31:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Stop being so...
[00:31:44] [SPEAKER_07]: My nigga, imagine you watching your funeral,
[00:31:46] [SPEAKER_07]: you watch that niggas on Instagram posting and shit.
[00:31:48] [SPEAKER_07]: You're like, what the fuck? Why you posting that for?
[00:31:49] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't do that.
[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what would hurt me the most?
[00:31:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Somebody posting something knowing that we weren't even like that.
[00:31:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, for sure.
[00:31:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas will dick-ride you to death.
[00:32:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Are we talking a woman or are we talking a man?
[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_03]: That's two different things.
[00:32:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Both.
[00:32:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean, both.
[00:32:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't chill with a bunch of niggas.
[00:32:08] [SPEAKER_03]: There wouldn't be niggas posting me.
[00:32:10] [SPEAKER_03]: There might be niggas in the whole city.
[00:32:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like, nigga, me and you in the city ain't do nothing.
[00:32:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't live in the city with you at all.
[00:32:16] [SPEAKER_02]: So the city ain't fucking about posting me.
[00:32:20] [SPEAKER_02]: Huh? What the fuck are you talking about?
[00:32:22] [SPEAKER_05]: I know what it is because I experienced something like that recently.
[00:32:24] [SPEAKER_05]: You know my birthday just passed.
[00:32:26] [SPEAKER_05]: And somebody wrote me a birthday post.
[00:32:28] [SPEAKER_05]: I'm like, yo, we're not even friends.
[00:32:30] [SPEAKER_05]: This is a long-ass paragraph.
[00:32:32] [SPEAKER_05]: What if he sees this?
[00:32:35] [SPEAKER_05]: We're not friends.
[00:32:37] [SPEAKER_07]: I keep telling you, I'm looking at the post and I'm like, yo, bro, like...
[00:32:42] [SPEAKER_06]: People just appreciate you.
[00:32:44] [SPEAKER_06]: You know it's fucked up.
[00:32:46] [SPEAKER_06]: Was the post on the page or was it to you?
[00:32:50] [SPEAKER_05]: It was a story.
[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_05]: And I'm just looking at it and I'm like...
[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_05]: So what was your response? Thanks, bro.
[00:32:56] [SPEAKER_05]: Yeah, I said everybody the same shit.
[00:32:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, that's a freaky move.
[00:32:58] [SPEAKER_05]: Everybody got the same...
[00:32:59] [SPEAKER_05]: Even girls I used to talk to.
[00:33:01] [SPEAKER_05]: I was like, thank you.
[00:33:04] [SPEAKER_05]: I wish I could've just ignored this.
[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_05]: There's no money attached to this.
[00:33:08] [SPEAKER_05]: There's nothing attached to this.
[00:33:09] [SPEAKER_05]: It's a paragraph of words I don't know the fuck about.
[00:33:13] [SPEAKER_07]: You know what?
[00:33:13] [SPEAKER_05]: We can stop telling this like a happy birthday.
[00:33:15] [SPEAKER_05]: No, you good.
[00:33:17] [SPEAKER_05]: But some people...
[00:33:18] [SPEAKER_05]: I was like, yo, bro, why do you even wish me a happy birthday?
[00:33:21] [SPEAKER_03]: What about the people that don't got no videos of you but post conversations?
[00:33:26] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, that's even worse.
[00:33:28] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, that's worse.
[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_06]: That's worse.
[00:33:30] [SPEAKER_06]: We loved each other.
[00:33:32] [SPEAKER_06]: Well, hold on. I don't tell everybody this.
[00:33:35] [SPEAKER_06]: See, that's why...
[00:33:36] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what? As crazy as it sounds,
[00:33:39] [SPEAKER_06]: that's why I'm always conscious
[00:33:40] [SPEAKER_06]: of what I say to people.
[00:33:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Because you not going to...
[00:33:44] [SPEAKER_06]: You know me. I don't delete messages.
[00:33:46] [SPEAKER_06]: I got messages from 2008 on my phone.
[00:33:49] [SPEAKER_06]: Because you ain't never going to say...
[00:33:51] [SPEAKER_06]: You ain't say that.
[00:33:53] [SPEAKER_06]: They got receipts, bro.
[00:33:55] [SPEAKER_06]: So, imagine me just talking to a girl,
[00:33:58] [SPEAKER_06]: a woman, and I just let the I love you fly loosely.
[00:34:01] [SPEAKER_06]: And I pass away.
[00:34:02] [SPEAKER_06]: And she's like, yo, we just told each other we...
[00:34:05] [SPEAKER_00]: That's...
[00:34:09] [SPEAKER_03]: You know, you got to...
[00:34:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Sometimes...
[00:34:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, you let that fly?
[00:34:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Whoa, I love you fly is kind of crazy.
[00:34:16] [SPEAKER_07]: You never used to do that? I used to do that.
[00:34:17] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll be honest about it. I used to do that.
[00:34:18] [SPEAKER_07]: You used to let the I love you fly?
[00:34:20] [SPEAKER_07]: No, no, no.
[00:34:20] [SPEAKER_07]: You got to go to the beginning and pause, bro.
[00:34:22] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, you used to say that shit.
[00:34:24] [SPEAKER_07]: I was like...
[00:34:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Only one woman got that. She deserves that
[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_07]: because I really did love her though.
[00:34:30] [SPEAKER_03]: You can say things in the context of
[00:34:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I got love for you.
[00:34:33] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I mean?
[00:34:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I adore you.
[00:34:37] [SPEAKER_07]: I got love for you.
[00:34:39] [SPEAKER_03]: There's women I date and I'm like,
[00:34:40] [SPEAKER_03]: I got love for you.
[00:34:42] [SPEAKER_03]: And there's women I'm like,
[00:34:43] [SPEAKER_03]: nah, I think I dead ass love you.
[00:34:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Then there's like, I think I'm in love with you.
[00:34:46] [SPEAKER_03]: And those are three different feelings.
[00:34:48] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:34:50] [SPEAKER_07]: Talk your shit, bro.
[00:34:52] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga, stop watching.
[00:34:54] [SPEAKER_02]: The difference on this side.
[00:34:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't think you're going to let it fly.
[00:34:59] [SPEAKER_03]: It's those three different feelings.
[00:35:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Somebody posted a shit like,
[00:35:01] [SPEAKER_03]: oh, you know, recently we love you.
[00:35:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I was like, whoa, that nigga said he got love for you.
[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Then it's like, you know what I confront?
[00:35:07] [SPEAKER_03]: I love you.
[00:35:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Then it's like, damn, I lose you.
[00:35:08] [SPEAKER_03]: My heart might fall out of my chest.
[00:35:11] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:35:13] [SPEAKER_06]: Imagine your heart
[00:35:15] [SPEAKER_06]: and Matt's other hearts fall out at the same time
[00:35:16] [SPEAKER_06]: because she gone.
[00:35:18] [SPEAKER_05]: She was a public figure.
[00:35:23] [SPEAKER_05]: Our hearts turned if you would.
[00:35:26] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't trying to cry in real life.
[00:35:29] [SPEAKER_03]: But it's a fucked up situation.
[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_03]: It is.
[00:35:32] [SPEAKER_03]: We also in an unfortunate generation
[00:35:34] [SPEAKER_03]: where we just let shit fly.
[00:35:36] [SPEAKER_07]: What if Shorty's a nurse?
[00:35:41] [SPEAKER_05]: She's a save man.
[00:35:43] [SPEAKER_05]: She's mad people's hearts.
[00:35:45] [SPEAKER_05]: That's crazy.
[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_05]: Look at how many people adore your woman
[00:35:49] [SPEAKER_05]: that you have.
[00:35:51] [SPEAKER_05]: That you got to experience in a way
[00:35:52] [SPEAKER_05]: that no one else got to experience.
[00:35:54] [SPEAKER_05]: You got to have her in your life
[00:35:55] [SPEAKER_05]: in a way that these other people,
[00:35:57] [SPEAKER_05]: they had a fraction of that.
[00:36:00] [SPEAKER_05]: Look how they adore her
[00:36:01] [SPEAKER_05]: and I got the full package.
[00:36:03] [SPEAKER_06]: That too, but also in a sense
[00:36:05] [SPEAKER_06]: where you get up.
[00:36:07] [SPEAKER_06]: There's an episode I want to do
[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_06]: later on today where we talk about
[00:36:11] [SPEAKER_06]: that concept where-
[00:36:13] [SPEAKER_05]: You mean next week, not today.
[00:36:14] [SPEAKER_06]: Where you don't
[00:36:18] [SPEAKER_06]: realize how small
[00:36:19] [SPEAKER_06]: you are in other people's lives.
[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_06]: I am dating you currently
[00:36:27] [SPEAKER_06]: but I'm not your first.
[00:36:29] [SPEAKER_06]: I probably wasn't your second.
[00:36:31] [SPEAKER_06]: I wasn't your third.
[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not going to extend that line.
[00:36:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Once I said third, I was starting to get gross.
[00:36:40] [SPEAKER_06]: Multiple people have experienced this person
[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_06]: in multiple factors of their lives.
[00:36:45] [SPEAKER_06]: To think
[00:36:46] [SPEAKER_06]: that they can't grieve
[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_06]: just because at the time of her
[00:36:50] [SPEAKER_06]: death, y'all were together.
[00:36:53] [SPEAKER_06]: That's kind of...
[00:36:56] [SPEAKER_06]: You got to take an ego out of it in a sense.
[00:36:59] [SPEAKER_06]: Now, I don't know
[00:37:01] [SPEAKER_06]: if you should be posting-
[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_07]: You don't post no intimate shit.
[00:37:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Keep it cute, man.
[00:37:06] [SPEAKER_07]: Keep it plain for sure.
[00:37:08] [SPEAKER_06]: You wasn't doing that when she was alive.
[00:37:09] [SPEAKER_07]: Chill out, man.
[00:37:10] [SPEAKER_07]: It doesn't become about her anymore. Now I feel disrespected.
[00:37:14] [SPEAKER_07]: Don't do that, bro.
[00:37:15] [SPEAKER_06]: If your mans die...
[00:37:19] [SPEAKER_07]: Y'all mans.
[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_06]: That would fuck me up.
[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_06]: I went on D though. I don't even think I would post it.
[00:37:29] [SPEAKER_06]: That would fuck me up.
[00:37:30] [SPEAKER_07]: I think at moments like that,
[00:37:32] [SPEAKER_07]: it's like, yo, bro, I'll just watch the videos.
[00:37:34] [SPEAKER_07]: By myself.
[00:37:37] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm done.
[00:37:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not here anymore.
[00:37:45] [SPEAKER_04]: You know what's weird though?
[00:37:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Usually when you're done dating somebody or dealing with them,
[00:37:49] [SPEAKER_03]: you usually delete pictures. People keep them shit?
[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Me personally, when I'm done dating, y'all delete everything.
[00:37:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Really? What if y'all get back together?
[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_07]: Create new ones.
[00:37:57] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know.
[00:37:59] [SPEAKER_03]: That's when you're holding on to feelings.
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_03]: You're harboring onto what we used to have.
[00:38:02] [SPEAKER_03]: You're reminiscing.
[00:38:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm trying to move forward in my life.
[00:38:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Depending on how we broke it all...
[00:38:06] [SPEAKER_06]: Upload them on Dropbox with their name on it?
[00:38:08] [SPEAKER_06]: No.
[00:38:10] [SPEAKER_07]: I used to do that.
[00:38:11] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not going to lie to you.
[00:38:12] [SPEAKER_07]: He said, don't delete this shit.
[00:38:17] [SPEAKER_03]: It's not because I don't hate these women.
[00:38:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't have anything against them.
[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_03]: How fast you delete it?
[00:38:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Y'all break up today.
[00:38:25] [SPEAKER_06]: How fast you delete it?
[00:38:27] [SPEAKER_06]: You got a thousand photos.
[00:38:29] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll delete shit the next day.
[00:38:30] [SPEAKER_07]: The last one you deleted the next day?
[00:38:32] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm talking about the last, last one.
[00:38:35] [SPEAKER_07]: The one that you actually related to.
[00:38:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, that took me...
[00:38:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm on him for like a year and some change.
[00:38:42] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I'm saying.
[00:38:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I was in a relationship.
[00:38:46] [SPEAKER_03]: We shared memories and moments and intimacy.
[00:38:49] [SPEAKER_03]: There's things that I shared with her
[00:38:50] [SPEAKER_03]: that I didn't share with other people.
[00:38:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm holding on to that.
[00:38:54] [SPEAKER_03]: There's that small spigot of you
[00:38:56] [SPEAKER_03]: that's like, yo, I hope she hit me up.
[00:38:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe you can work this out.
[00:38:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Or you reach out and see what she's saying.
[00:39:02] [SPEAKER_03]: That's hope.
[00:39:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Sometimes it never plays out like that.
[00:39:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I told this girl,
[00:39:07] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know what the fuck she doing.
[00:39:09] [SPEAKER_05]: They're part of your process.
[00:39:10] [SPEAKER_05]: They help you build into a better person.
[00:39:12] [SPEAKER_03]: For sure.
[00:39:14] [SPEAKER_05]: Memories can last.
[00:39:16] [SPEAKER_03]: I always say,
[00:39:18] [SPEAKER_03]: old women I've ever dated,
[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't saying I made me the man I am today.
[00:39:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I always took things from them.
[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_03]: When I dated this person,
[00:39:27] [SPEAKER_03]: how was I with them when I was dating with them?
[00:39:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Now I'm not carrying on to my next relationship.
[00:39:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not going to do that.
[00:39:32] [SPEAKER_03]: This person like that, this person like that.
[00:39:34] [SPEAKER_03]: It made me a better lover.
[00:39:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Made me a better friend.
[00:39:38] [SPEAKER_03]: But I started working on myself as a man.
[00:39:40] [SPEAKER_03]: These are the things I had to figure out.
[00:39:42] [SPEAKER_03]: I will be adamant on my thing
[00:39:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I say all the time,
[00:39:46] [SPEAKER_03]: therapy is the worst thing after the black community.
[00:39:48] [SPEAKER_03]: If we can fight about that another day, not today.
[00:39:49] [SPEAKER_03]: People are going to attack me for that.
[00:39:51] [SPEAKER_03]: If you want to heal and be a better person,
[00:39:53] [SPEAKER_03]: you have to do that within, within yourself.
[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_03]: There's trauma shit you're going to have to face regardless.
[00:39:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Shit you got going on at home,
[00:39:59] [SPEAKER_03]: friends, family, yada yada.
[00:40:00] [SPEAKER_03]: That's something you have to do better for yourself.
[00:40:03] [SPEAKER_03]: If you know a nigga is going to come to you all the time,
[00:40:05] [SPEAKER_03]: ask you for something, you're going to be like,
[00:40:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I got my own shit I got to do.
[00:40:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Set that boundary.
[00:40:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Change the narrative.
[00:40:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Make that change.
[00:40:12] [SPEAKER_03]: People look at it like, oh nah, you know I don't want to do that.
[00:40:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah, you can't say you know how to do it nigga, you did it before.
[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Do it again.
[00:40:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Back to my original, I don't even say that.
[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_03]: They say you got to say it.
[00:40:21] [SPEAKER_05]: I was making comments Superman.
[00:40:25] [SPEAKER_03]: That's another thing too.
[00:40:26] [SPEAKER_03]: We had a conversation off air about it.
[00:40:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm always trying to be Superman.
[00:40:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't be Superman because I'm a self-destruct
[00:40:32] [SPEAKER_03]: trying to save everybody.
[00:40:34] [SPEAKER_05]: Save yourself first.
[00:40:36] [SPEAKER_03]: If you're a natural person
[00:40:39] [SPEAKER_03]: and you want to make sure people is good,
[00:40:41] [SPEAKER_03]: it's hard to set that boundary.
[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_03]: It's kind of hard.
[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Then you're going to sit down like,
[00:40:45] [SPEAKER_03]: damn, it starts playing in your mind like,
[00:40:46] [SPEAKER_03]: yo, I'm so used to making sure everybody's good.
[00:40:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Me not doing it, you're going to feel horrible.
[00:40:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't help this person.
[00:40:52] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:40:56] [SPEAKER_06]: You find out in the midst of the grieving
[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_06]: that they were not as faithful as you were.
[00:41:06] [SPEAKER_06]: Does the good overpower the bad?
[00:41:08] I don't know.
[00:41:12] [SPEAKER_07]: It does.
[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_07]: At the same time,
[00:41:14] [SPEAKER_07]: I still...
[00:41:15] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm not saying I won't forgive that,
[00:41:17] [SPEAKER_07]: but at the moment I can't forget that.
[00:41:19] [SPEAKER_07]: That is heartbroken.
[00:41:22] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm heartbroken that you're not here
[00:41:23] [SPEAKER_07]: and I'm heartbroken that you violated my...
[00:41:25] [SPEAKER_07]: You were playing on my face.
[00:41:26] [SPEAKER_07]: Like I said earlier,
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_07]: that's a double whammy.
[00:41:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah.
[00:41:33] [SPEAKER_03]: It comes down to you either just being like,
[00:41:35] [SPEAKER_03]: yo, listen, you going to hover it
[00:41:37] [SPEAKER_03]: and let it go or you going to...
[00:41:39] [SPEAKER_07]: My thing is what's worse, you passing away or you doing that?
[00:41:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Getting...
[00:41:45] [SPEAKER_07]: You cheating or you not being here?
[00:41:47] [SPEAKER_07]: What's worse?
[00:41:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, oh, oh.
[00:41:51] [SPEAKER_06]: Kids not involved at that moment.
[00:41:53] [SPEAKER_06]: We got no kids?
[00:41:55] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, then you cheating.
[00:41:58] [SPEAKER_06]: You cheating.
[00:41:59] [SPEAKER_06]: Because if you got kids...
[00:42:01] [SPEAKER_07]: That's definitely...
[00:42:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, you got to...
[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_06]: And then you got to also remember,
[00:42:08] [SPEAKER_06]: hmm, all right,
[00:42:09] [SPEAKER_06]: that's interesting. Let me ask you your opinion.
[00:42:11] [SPEAKER_06]: You have a wife.
[00:42:14] [SPEAKER_06]: Your wife cheats.
[00:42:15] [SPEAKER_06]: You think she cheated on her kids too?
[00:42:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, she cheated on her family.
[00:42:19] [SPEAKER_07]: I think she cheated on her family because...
[00:42:20] [SPEAKER_07]: I find out what's like yo, and I can't
[00:42:23] [SPEAKER_07]: forgive that. It's like yo, all right.
[00:42:25] [SPEAKER_06]: So, with that being said,
[00:42:28] [SPEAKER_06]: we believe that if a woman
[00:42:29] [SPEAKER_06]: or man cheats in their
[00:42:32] [SPEAKER_06]: relationship and they have a family
[00:42:33] [SPEAKER_06]: they cheated on the family as well.
[00:42:35] [SPEAKER_06]: You tell the kids?
[00:42:37] [SPEAKER_07]: I think when they get older, I wouldn't tell them immediately.
[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't think I would ever do that.
[00:42:41] [SPEAKER_07]: But at some point,
[00:42:43] [SPEAKER_07]: they're going to be like, what happened though?
[00:42:45] [SPEAKER_07]: Like how we got older, we saw our
[00:42:47] [SPEAKER_07]: parents as just humans.
[00:42:49] [SPEAKER_06]: That's what I'm saying.
[00:42:51] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't know if
[00:42:53] [SPEAKER_06]: I want to destroy...
[00:42:54] [SPEAKER_06]: The image of their...
[00:42:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Because technically, all right, well, that will go to...
[00:43:00] [SPEAKER_06]: If you tell them,
[00:43:01] [SPEAKER_06]: obviously, then you're
[00:43:02] [SPEAKER_06]: in the belief that they cheated on the family.
[00:43:06] [SPEAKER_06]: But if I feel like you cheated
[00:43:07] [SPEAKER_06]: on me, then I don't need to tell the kids.
[00:43:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Well, I mean, you need to tell
[00:43:11] [SPEAKER_03]: them regardless because it's going to be a broken home regardless.
[00:43:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh yeah.
[00:43:16] [SPEAKER_07]: Not to sound like I'm
[00:43:17] [SPEAKER_07]: contradicting myself, but it's more of like
[00:43:20] [SPEAKER_07]: if the shit's already broken, why
[00:43:21] [SPEAKER_07]: make it even...
[00:43:22] [SPEAKER_07]: The table's already broken, why break it even more?
[00:43:25] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah. Why shatter it?
[00:43:27] [SPEAKER_03]: When your kid is asking, why am I
[00:43:29] [SPEAKER_03]: going to my dad's house when I'm not going to mommy and daddy's house?
[00:43:32] [SPEAKER_07]: Oh, we broke up.
[00:43:34] [SPEAKER_07]: Then even it turns into the movie,
[00:43:36] [SPEAKER_07]: that white kid movie or just movies
[00:43:37] [SPEAKER_07]: in general where it's like, oh, did we do
[00:43:39] [SPEAKER_06]: something wrong? No, you ain't doing anything wrong,
[00:43:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Billy.
[00:43:44] [SPEAKER_06]: I just don't like mommy no more.
[00:43:47] [SPEAKER_06]: I just didn't carry you anymore.
[00:43:48] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like... I mean, I would say when I become a father,
[00:43:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm going to be very open to transgender
[00:43:53] [SPEAKER_03]: in my children. You know what I'm saying? You're going to let them know the slut
[00:43:55] [SPEAKER_03]: you were? I don't want to get daddy's
[00:43:57] [SPEAKER_03]: ass on the show. Really?
[00:44:00] [SPEAKER_03]: But I'm going to
[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_03]: speak to them as, I'm like, listen,
[00:44:04] [SPEAKER_03]: you have to...
[00:44:06] [SPEAKER_03]: It's probably going to sound fucked up, but the viewers
[00:44:07] [SPEAKER_03]: are looking at me crazy. You have to live your life.
[00:44:09] [SPEAKER_03]: You have to get these experiences and urges out
[00:44:12] [SPEAKER_03]: from whatever age
[00:44:13] [SPEAKER_03]: you got to do, bro. Who the fuck wants to be
[00:44:15] [SPEAKER_03]: 35 fucking like 50? I don't want to be doing that, bro.
[00:44:17] [SPEAKER_03]: That's a lot of energy and time, bro.
[00:44:19] [SPEAKER_03]: You telling that to your daughter?
[00:44:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I would say if I have a daughter, bro, I'm keeping it 100.
[00:44:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm going to sit down and listen. I know you're getting to the age where you're going to start liking
[00:44:25] [SPEAKER_03]: boys. I know you're going to start going out with your friends, yada, yada, yada,
[00:44:28] [SPEAKER_03]: and stuff like that. I'm breaking down
[00:44:29] [SPEAKER_03]: like, yo, listen, sex,
[00:44:31] [SPEAKER_03]: protection, things like that. I need you
[00:44:33] [SPEAKER_07]: to ask him a question about the condom thing. I got to see if
[00:44:35] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm the one that's not with the
[00:44:37] [SPEAKER_07]: whole teaching your daughter how to actually... Oh,
[00:44:39] [SPEAKER_06]: you will teach your daughter how to put a condom on?
[00:44:43] [SPEAKER_07]: That is crazy.
[00:44:45] [SPEAKER_07]: I'll let Skrillex handle the episode. Nah, Skrillex don't come to the moment.
[00:44:48] [SPEAKER_05]: Leave that to the moment.
[00:44:51] [SPEAKER_05]: I may be able to pass that pair of the joints
[00:44:53] [SPEAKER_05]: to my wife.
[00:44:56] [SPEAKER_05]: My son? My son with a female
[00:44:59] [SPEAKER_05]: condom, like you know...
[00:45:02] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm a person. I'll be honest.
[00:45:05] [SPEAKER_07]: Why they got me in the game for a while?
[00:45:08] [SPEAKER_07]: I said that shit in the drama before. I said, what the fuck is this?
[00:45:11] [SPEAKER_03]: A female condom is crazy. You might lose your
[00:45:13] [SPEAKER_03]: mind since it's shit like that.
[00:45:15] [SPEAKER_03]: The gist of my statement is...
[00:45:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Any of y'all ever had sex with a woman with a female
[00:45:19] [SPEAKER_03]: condom on? Yo, never. No.
[00:45:23] [SPEAKER_03]: That's just an urban myth.
[00:45:30] [SPEAKER_07]: You put it over the lady?
[00:45:31] [SPEAKER_07]: Nigga, I was in high school. I seen this shit in the nurse.
[00:45:33] [SPEAKER_07]: I said, what the fuck? That nigga's got a gun.
[00:45:37] [SPEAKER_07]: They said some women condomize the niggas.
[00:45:38] [SPEAKER_07]: They teach niggas that.
[00:45:41] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, but it's like, yo, my nigga...
[00:45:45] [SPEAKER_05]: He said, we got a...
[00:45:46] [SPEAKER_05]: We got a share of responsibility.
[00:45:49] [SPEAKER_03]: A woman condom might freak me out.
[00:45:51] [SPEAKER_03]: That's nasty shit.
[00:45:52] [SPEAKER_03]: That was nasty.
[00:45:54] [SPEAKER_03]: A woman condom? Where do you put it?
[00:45:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Inside the pussy?
[00:45:58] [SPEAKER_07]: I feel like we do have to figure out the thing.
[00:46:00] [SPEAKER_03]: That's like, you know, younger and a girl is like...
[00:46:02] [SPEAKER_03]: You trying to finger her. You going over the hole of that.
[00:46:04] [SPEAKER_03]: That's where you might be like, oh, I don't know what to do again.
[00:46:06] [SPEAKER_03]: You're gonna be mad confused.
[00:46:07] [SPEAKER_05]: Hey, listen, bro. Guess what Google?
[00:46:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Man, I'm not Googling how to do that shit.
[00:46:15] [SPEAKER_07]: I told you. I've seen this shit before, bro.
[00:46:17] [SPEAKER_07]: It's a finger?
[00:46:19] [SPEAKER_07]: It's a finger?
[00:46:21] [SPEAKER_07]: What's this for fingering?
[00:46:22] [SPEAKER_05]: They have the tongue one, too.
[00:46:25] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't think my nigga ever...
[00:46:26] [SPEAKER_07]: You ever watch something? You ever watch something? What's it called? Booty call?
[00:46:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I seen him at the Saran Wrap.
[00:46:32] [SPEAKER_06]: Alright, let's get out of here.
[00:46:35] [SPEAKER_07]: So next time, man, you already know what's your most favorite love.
[00:46:38] [SPEAKER_07]: As always, Dr. P is the doctor camera guy.
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[00:46:42] [SPEAKER_07]: Yeah, whatever. Let's get out of here.
[00:46:46] [SPEAKER_07]: Squirrels.
[00:46:47] [SPEAKER_07]: Stylus.
[00:46:47] [SPEAKER_07]: And Coach is in the building enjoying us all that game.
[00:46:49] [SPEAKER_07]: So next time.