Welcome to our latest episode of What’s A Good Guy! Today, we dive deep into a topic that many couples face but few truly understand: taking a break in a relationship.
What does it really mean to take a break? Does it make sense to take one? And if so, what should you work on during this time apart? Can a break actually help save your relationship, or does it do more harm than good?
In this episode, we explore:
- The concept of taking a break and what it typically looks like. - The pros and cons of taking a break in a relationship. - Key areas to focus on and work on during a break. - Real-life examples and expert insights on whether breaks can truly work.
Whether you're currently considering a break or simply curious about the topic, this episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice to help you navigate this complex aspect of relationships.
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[00:00:00] [SPEAKER_02]: You Know Yeah, I got shot good she should make famous one Rachel and I it goes
[00:00:20] [SPEAKER_03]: This one I think it's good there thing this focus I would say you like all time my face on the screen
[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Ready rolling on that yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
[00:00:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Three two, no, you already know what it is degenerates. She mostly for lovers always Donald
[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_03]: That's just Donald today
[00:00:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Alongside a LeSean. It's another beautiful day now. I really like a podcast earlier today
[00:00:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I was like a real podcast stuff. Damn, damn, we've been doing this since 35
[00:01:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Who what?
[00:01:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know what I'm saying. I'm just talking shit. Damn, well, we've been doing this since 2017 boy
[00:01:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we just had a whole conversation of big guys had a whole conversation about mics and cameras
[00:01:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Giving it was giving advice to people
[00:01:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro, if it was 2015 we would never know what the fuck we was talking about
[00:01:22] [SPEAKER_01]: He asked me so much. I'm a I'm a I'm a set of invoice for consultation
[00:01:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, might as well
[00:01:27] [SPEAKER_03]: You ain't afraid you gonna send your invoice to fix your daughter
[00:01:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know dog
[00:01:32] [SPEAKER_03]: He's gonna tiff a tat, I don't know papa
[00:01:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Lower my rent, please
[00:01:36] [SPEAKER_01]: But um, how you feeling today brother?
[00:01:38] [SPEAKER_01]: I can't complain man. I cut myself gave myself a little boo boo
[00:01:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, but yo, I just I don't know if I'll it's like a crazy story
[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_03]: So LA LA is doing a fat water fast right now
[00:01:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, 86 hours. I am I have 20 hours and 50 minutes left
[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_03]: That's good. He just lost math and that's why he's probably bleeding so much. I just thought about that
[00:02:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Um, probably
[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_03]: But yeah, so LA said yo dong, do me a favor pick up two gallons of water for me
[00:02:05] [SPEAKER_03]: No problem. Let me get a water for myself
[00:02:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to him man. Drink your water. Okay, so I'll pick up the water for him bring it to his crib
[00:02:15] [SPEAKER_03]: LA's doing what you do does what he does. He gets out a lemon
[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_03]: He's cutting a lemon. All I hear is oh shit
[00:02:21] [SPEAKER_03]: What the fuck?
[00:02:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like, bro cuz so LA's crib I could look out the window and the LA's make a joke that I stare out the window like I'm bad
[00:02:27] [SPEAKER_03]: He does
[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_03]: He's overlooking the city of Queens
[00:02:33] [SPEAKER_04]: We gotta fix the crime out here
[00:02:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, he looks out the window
[00:02:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Hands behind the back
[00:02:38] [SPEAKER_01]: He looks at me saying I'll be back
[00:02:44] [SPEAKER_03]: This nigga's a sicko
[00:02:46] [SPEAKER_03]: So this nigga cuts his finger, right?
[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_03]: He puts a
[00:02:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Puts a fucking paper towel around it
[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Cool. I'm like alright, he's fine
[00:02:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Shit's still bleeding. I was like alright
[00:02:55] [SPEAKER_03]: It's getting pretty intense
[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Nigga said they ain't got no band-aids
[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_03]: So LA
[00:02:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know if I told him I don't know if it's a Bayesian thing
[00:03:03] [SPEAKER_03]: This nigga puts a glove on
[00:03:04] [SPEAKER_02]: I say yo boy
[00:03:08] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo, what the fuck?
[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, that shit look nasty
[00:03:12] [SPEAKER_01]: G
[00:03:12] [SPEAKER_01]: It was one of them clear gloves too
[00:03:15] [SPEAKER_03]: So that shit just
[00:03:16] [SPEAKER_03]: I say yo boy
[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_01]: The blood was hair
[00:03:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Bleeding hair
[00:03:19] [SPEAKER_01]: But the whole
[00:03:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Whole hand
[00:03:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I said no
[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I wish I could zoom into my sweats
[00:03:24] [SPEAKER_03]: It's a little piece of fucking blood on my sweats
[00:03:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Is it?
[00:03:27] [SPEAKER_03]: But it's alright, I'll bill you
[00:03:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll fucking bill you
[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll fucking bill you
[00:03:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's find out Dom running red lights
[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, okay
[00:03:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Only if there's no street camera on this
[00:03:40] [SPEAKER_02]: But um
[00:03:42] [SPEAKER_03]: But um
[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_03]: But um
[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_03]: But yeah, that was the funny for today man
[00:03:45] [SPEAKER_03]: But we're grateful to be here
[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_03]: G in the building
[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo
[00:03:50] [SPEAKER_03]: G, I'm gonna apologize on behalf of my friend here
[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_03]: For um
[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_03]: You know
[00:03:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Those allegations
[00:03:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Against you
[00:03:59] Fuck
[00:04:01] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm not gonna lie to you boy
[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_02]: At this point
[00:04:06] [SPEAKER_02]: You live your life
[00:04:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Facts man
[00:04:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I support all the members of the community
[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo boy
[00:04:14] [SPEAKER_01]: You can't say LGBT
[00:04:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Without
[00:04:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo bro
[00:04:18] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo G
[00:04:20] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo boy
[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, but I'm down
[00:04:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm down 10
[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_03]: That's good man
[00:04:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I said
[00:04:27] [SPEAKER_03]: You gotta ease back into it
[00:04:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Ease back into
[00:04:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo boy
[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo
[00:04:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Why you
[00:04:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Son
[00:04:33] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like when it's less people here
[00:04:35] [SPEAKER_03]: They can just start going crazy
[00:04:38] [SPEAKER_03]: He's back into the
[00:04:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Consuming of
[00:04:43] Consuming of
[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Fuck
[00:04:44] [SPEAKER_03]: What would
[00:04:44] [SPEAKER_03]: What would
[00:04:45] [SPEAKER_03]: When I wanna say something
[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I think
[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_03]: What would Ro say
[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:04:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Shouts to Ro
[00:04:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Shout out to my
[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo
[00:04:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Ro might like this episode
[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if he will
[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:04:57] [SPEAKER_01]: What's going on
[00:04:58] [SPEAKER_03]: What you got
[00:04:59] [SPEAKER_03]: What you got on the docket today
[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm glad
[00:05:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Kojo's on his way
[00:05:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Kwani's on his way
[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_03]: This girl's taking care of his family
[00:05:06] [SPEAKER_01]: This girl's taking care of his family again
[00:05:10] [SPEAKER_01]: My last day of work
[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You know the last day of work before vacation
[00:05:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Was it like a drag?
[00:05:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo bro
[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't care
[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I just know like
[00:05:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Once this flight is done
[00:05:21] [SPEAKER_03]: So you wasn't
[00:05:22] [SPEAKER_03]: You wasn't
[00:05:23] [SPEAKER_03]: No CPR nothing
[00:05:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Just
[00:05:30] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:05:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Everybody was pissed off
[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause the last flight home
[00:05:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Was delayed
[00:05:35] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:05:36] [SPEAKER_01]: It was delayed
[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Because
[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_01]: There was a mechanical issue
[00:05:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Or whatever
[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_01]: We were sitting on the plane
[00:05:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Waiting for the
[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Mechanics
[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Maintenance to come
[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Bring the part
[00:05:49] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:05:49] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just in the back
[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_01]: I got my headphones in
[00:05:53] [SPEAKER_01]: And you know
[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Where your headphones
[00:05:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Like it's going to the next song
[00:05:57] [SPEAKER_01]: So that little gap
[00:05:58] [SPEAKER_01]: So I hear my
[00:05:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Co-workers talking
[00:06:00] [SPEAKER_01]: They talking woman to woman
[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:06:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Give me my turn
[00:06:05] [SPEAKER_01]: They talking about
[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Their boyfriend problems
[00:06:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh
[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm about to say
[00:06:08] [SPEAKER_01]: One woman on a flight
[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Is tough
[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:06:10] [SPEAKER_01]: No that was
[00:06:11] From
[00:06:12] Eastrop
[00:06:12] [SPEAKER_01]: But nah
[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_01]: I caught a glimpse of it
[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And they were talking
[00:06:17] [SPEAKER_01]: They were talking about
[00:06:20] [SPEAKER_01]: One of the
[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_01]: One of the women
[00:06:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Told the other woman
[00:06:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo
[00:06:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I think I want to take a break
[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Now
[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Crazy enough
[00:06:28] [SPEAKER_01]: We was on a three day trip
[00:06:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Day one of the trip
[00:06:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Shorty was like
[00:06:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Throwing up
[00:06:34] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_01]: The
[00:06:35] [SPEAKER_01]: The other girl
[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Was like
[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo you might be pregnant
[00:06:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Joking
[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:06:40] [SPEAKER_01]: The next
[00:06:42] [SPEAKER_01]: The next
[00:06:43] [SPEAKER_01]: We get to Atlanta
[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I guess she goes to
[00:06:47] [SPEAKER_01]: One of the
[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_01]: One of the stores
[00:06:49] [SPEAKER_01]: There
[00:06:51] [SPEAKER_01]: And I didn't know
[00:06:52] [SPEAKER_01]: They sell pregnancy
[00:06:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Tests in there
[00:06:53] [SPEAKER_01]: What
[00:06:55] [SPEAKER_01]: So she copped the pregnancy test
[00:06:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Right at the tree
[00:06:58] [SPEAKER_01]: She went to the
[00:06:59] [SPEAKER_01]: She went to the bathroom
[00:07:01] [SPEAKER_01]: And she found out
[00:07:02] [SPEAKER_01]: She was pregnant
[00:07:05] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:07:06] [SPEAKER_01]: She was like
[00:07:07] [SPEAKER_01]: She was like
[00:07:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm so mad
[00:07:08] [SPEAKER_01]: That I just found out
[00:07:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm pregnant
[00:07:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I want a break
[00:07:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I don't
[00:07:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to be with this man
[00:07:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god
[00:07:14] [SPEAKER_01]: So she was like
[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo I might
[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:07:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like it's spilling
[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_03]: His co-workers tea
[00:07:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Is telling
[00:07:21] That fucking
[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Tump
[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:07:28] [SPEAKER_01]: So she was like
[00:07:29] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:07:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I want a break
[00:07:30] [SPEAKER_01]: And then the girl
[00:07:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Was like
[00:07:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Same thing I said
[00:07:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I said it in my head
[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_01]: But I ain't say it out loud
[00:07:36] [SPEAKER_01]: But the co-worker said it
[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_01]: She was like
[00:07:38] [SPEAKER_01]: What the fuck is a break
[00:07:42] [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like
[00:07:47] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:07:47] [SPEAKER_01]: But mind you
[00:07:48] [SPEAKER_01]: What you eavesdropping though
[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_01]: My head poses in
[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_01]: But it doesn't play
[00:07:51] [SPEAKER_01]: No more
[00:07:52] [SPEAKER_01]: This is way more entertaining
[00:07:55] [SPEAKER_01]: So she was like
[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah like
[00:07:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll be just not happy
[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Or whatever
[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Blah blah blah blah blah
[00:07:59] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's where this episode
[00:08:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Comes from right
[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_01]: But I don't want to talk about
[00:08:03] [SPEAKER_01]: The break concept
[00:08:04] [SPEAKER_01]: I want to talk about
[00:08:07] [SPEAKER_01]: What
[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Would
[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_01]: A healthy break
[00:08:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Actually
[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Like
[00:08:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Can a break
[00:08:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Work
[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_01]: And if so
[00:08:16] [SPEAKER_01]: How can it work
[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_01]: That is
[00:08:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Because in my mind
[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think
[00:08:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I've
[00:08:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I've never done
[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Breaks
[00:08:25] [SPEAKER_01]: I've never done
[00:08:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Breaks
[00:08:27] [SPEAKER_01]: And the only time
[00:08:29] [SPEAKER_01]: I ever did a break
[00:08:30] [SPEAKER_01]: We just never
[00:08:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Continued
[00:08:32] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:08:33] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:08:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Can it work
[00:08:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Can there be
[00:08:38] [SPEAKER_01]: A successful
[00:08:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Break
[00:08:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Break
[00:08:41] [SPEAKER_03]: So how would you go
[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_03]: About that
[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Is the question
[00:08:43] [SPEAKER_01]: I wouldn't even
[00:08:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Ask for a break
[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_01]: I either break
[00:08:46] [SPEAKER_01]: There is no break
[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_01]: It's just a breakup
[00:08:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Break up with you
[00:08:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Or
[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Stay together
[00:08:50] [SPEAKER_03]: And figure it out
[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't understand
[00:08:52] [SPEAKER_03]: I never understood
[00:08:53] [SPEAKER_03]: The concept of that though
[00:08:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Like a break
[00:08:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah me neither
[00:08:57] [SPEAKER_03]: It's just
[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think that's
[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know
[00:08:59] [SPEAKER_03]: It's just something
[00:08:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not
[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_03]: You know
[00:09:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah I'm not a
[00:09:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't even think
[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_01]: That I
[00:09:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not a fan
[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_03]: It's just more of like
[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't
[00:09:07] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't see like the
[00:09:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Like there being
[00:09:11] [SPEAKER_03]: A good outcome
[00:09:13] [SPEAKER_01]: My thing is
[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_01]: My thing is
[00:09:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_01]: What
[00:09:18] [SPEAKER_01]: What in a break
[00:09:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Can you do
[00:09:21] [SPEAKER_01]: That you can't do
[00:09:22] [SPEAKER_01]: In the relationship
[00:09:24] [SPEAKER_03]: I guess
[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I guess
[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Just a few
[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Like a
[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_03]: A few minutes to yourself
[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I thought you could ask
[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_03]: For that though
[00:09:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah okay
[00:09:31] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I'm saying
[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Like what
[00:09:33] [SPEAKER_01]: What do you
[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Like so somebody
[00:09:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Was saying
[00:09:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Some of the common things
[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_01]: That I
[00:09:38] [SPEAKER_01]: That you may hear
[00:09:39] [SPEAKER_01]: In breaks is
[00:09:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh this person
[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Needs to work on themselves
[00:09:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Well why can't I
[00:09:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Work on myself
[00:09:45] [SPEAKER_01]: While
[00:09:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Being with you
[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_03]: You know
[00:09:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Which that's not
[00:09:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Going to be priority though
[00:09:50] [SPEAKER_03]: The other person
[00:09:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Ends up being on the back burner
[00:09:52] [SPEAKER_03]: At some point
[00:09:55] [SPEAKER_03]: So
[00:09:55] [SPEAKER_03]: You feel like you can
[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Focus on a lot of things
[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_03]: At once
[00:09:57] [SPEAKER_03]: And you're not
[00:09:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Messing up on one thing
[00:09:59] [SPEAKER_03]: No
[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't
[00:10:01] [SPEAKER_01]: But at the same time
[00:10:05] [SPEAKER_01]: In my
[00:10:06] [SPEAKER_01]: We always have
[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_01]: These conversations
[00:10:10] Solely
[00:10:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Shaped around
[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_01]: A person
[00:10:12] [SPEAKER_01]: We see
[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Long term
[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_01]: This is not
[00:10:14] [SPEAKER_01]: No
[00:10:14] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah
[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah
[00:10:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Little one too
[00:10:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Little one too
[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:10:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I keep telling you
[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Stop talking like that
[00:10:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Hanging around them people
[00:10:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Come on
[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_01]: This is not
[00:10:23] [SPEAKER_01]: A little fling
[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_01]: My bussy
[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_01]: All in the camera
[00:10:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Ain't nobody tell you
[00:10:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Where them Nike trainers
[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Boy
[00:10:31] [SPEAKER_01]: We uh
[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm
[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_01]: If this is a person
[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_01]: That I'm gonna be
[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_01]: If this is a person
[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna be with
[00:10:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Long term
[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:10:40] [SPEAKER_01]: What happens when we get
[00:10:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Married and we
[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Hit these
[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Ain't no breaks
[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_01]: In marriages
[00:10:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Ain't no break
[00:10:46] [SPEAKER_03]: We gonna have to talk
[00:10:47] [SPEAKER_03]: This shit out
[00:10:47] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying
[00:10:48] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:10:49] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like
[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_01]: You
[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_01]: You
[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_01]: You
[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_01]: You take on
[00:10:52] [SPEAKER_01]: You create
[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Those habits
[00:10:57] [SPEAKER_01]: During the dating stage
[00:10:59] [SPEAKER_01]: So when you get to
[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_01]: The big
[00:11:01] [SPEAKER_01]: The grand stage
[00:11:02] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:11:03] [SPEAKER_01]: It makes more sense
[00:11:06] [SPEAKER_01]: When you get there
[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_01]: So I don't
[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I
[00:11:08] [SPEAKER_01]: But I do wanna talk about
[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Things that can
[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:11:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:11:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to
[00:11:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to them people
[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_03]: For um
[00:11:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Being late to
[00:11:16] [SPEAKER_03]: To class
[00:11:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:11:19] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm shaking my boots
[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah nah nah nah
[00:11:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm chillin though
[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm chillin though
[00:11:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay
[00:11:23] [SPEAKER_01]: So let's define
[00:11:25] [SPEAKER_01]: A relationship break
[00:11:26] [SPEAKER_01]: A temporary separation
[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Or time apart
[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_01]: From partners
[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_01]: To reflect
[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Work on themselves
[00:11:31] [SPEAKER_01]: And potentially reconnect
[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:11:33] [SPEAKER_01]: So let's
[00:11:34] [SPEAKER_01]: The word potentially
[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_03]: That's crazy
[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_01]: But let's talk about
[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_01]: The first part
[00:11:38] [SPEAKER_01]: To reflect
[00:11:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Reflecting on
[00:11:43] [SPEAKER_01]: The mistakes you made
[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Or what caused this
[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:11:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Is one thing
[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Putting that reflection
[00:11:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Back on the other person
[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Is another thing
[00:11:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Because they may see
[00:11:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Something totally different
[00:11:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Than what I see
[00:11:57] [SPEAKER_01]: So I can reflect
[00:11:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And be like
[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Well you know
[00:12:01] [SPEAKER_01]: I shouldn't have
[00:12:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Responded in that way
[00:12:03] [SPEAKER_01]: But you know
[00:12:03] [SPEAKER_01]: The way you speak to me
[00:12:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_01]: And then she says
[00:12:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Well how did I speak to you
[00:12:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't feel like
[00:12:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I speak to you
[00:12:11] [SPEAKER_01]: All that reflection
[00:12:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I got out
[00:12:14] [SPEAKER_03]: That's another discussion
[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Right there
[00:12:16] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like
[00:12:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay
[00:12:17] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think
[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Our communication
[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Is on point
[00:12:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's go to
[00:12:20] [SPEAKER_01]: See that's what I'm saying
[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know
[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Why we gotta go to
[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Our separate corners
[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_01]: And even
[00:12:25] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_01]: And even that
[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Like you think about
[00:12:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Going to your
[00:12:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Separate corners
[00:12:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:12:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Most people
[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Overthinking that
[00:12:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Separate corner
[00:12:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Honestly
[00:12:33] [SPEAKER_01]: That
[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Facts
[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause I know
[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_01]: The first thing
[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna think
[00:12:36] [SPEAKER_01]: She getting dicked
[00:12:37] [SPEAKER_01]: From someone else
[00:12:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Talking about break
[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Boy
[00:12:40] [SPEAKER_01]: It's crazy
[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm listening
[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh shit
[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_01]: But even in like
[00:12:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Sports
[00:12:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:12:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Like if
[00:12:47] [SPEAKER_01]: If a team
[00:12:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Is going through
[00:12:48] [SPEAKER_01]: A hard time
[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Or a hard challenge
[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what they do
[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_01]: They call a timeout
[00:12:53] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a break
[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a break
[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_01]: From the game
[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_01]: But the difference is
[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_01]: They still go back
[00:12:58] [SPEAKER_01]: To that huddle
[00:12:59] [SPEAKER_01]: And talk to the team
[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Together as a team
[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying
[00:13:02] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:13:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I understand the concept
[00:13:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Of calling a timeout
[00:13:05] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:13:07] [SPEAKER_01]: The team
[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Still goes back
[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_01]: In the corner
[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Even if they mad
[00:13:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Like yo
[00:13:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You missed the cut
[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Or you know
[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_01]: There you go
[00:13:16] [SPEAKER_01]: So you can have
[00:13:18] [SPEAKER_01]: A timeout
[00:13:19] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:13:20] [SPEAKER_01]: When you go back
[00:13:21] [SPEAKER_01]: To the corner
[00:13:23] [SPEAKER_01]: You still discussing
[00:13:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo
[00:13:24] [SPEAKER_01]: What went wrong
[00:13:25] [SPEAKER_01]: How can we get this right
[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_01]: We losing momentum
[00:13:27] [SPEAKER_01]: And so on and so forth
[00:13:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Like there's women
[00:13:29] [SPEAKER_03]: That's talking to the camera
[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Talking to the fucking cameras
[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Right now
[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_03]: And then
[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Like they're wild
[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_01]: And then regroup
[00:13:36] [SPEAKER_01]: How are we supposed
[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_01]: To do that
[00:13:38] [SPEAKER_01]: If you want a break
[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_01]: From the relationship
[00:13:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Because what if
[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_03]: What if we come back
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_03]: To talking to each other
[00:13:43] [SPEAKER_03]: And it's literally
[00:13:43] [SPEAKER_03]: The same problem
[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_03]: We didn't
[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_03]: We didn't really discuss it
[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what happens
[00:13:47] [SPEAKER_01]: After the game
[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_01]: We go to practice
[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_01]: And we work on
[00:13:50] [SPEAKER_01]: The play
[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Until we master it
[00:13:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Then the next game
[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_01]: We do it again
[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_01]: To see if we
[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_01]: On point
[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:13:57] [SPEAKER_01]: It's not an overnight thing
[00:13:59] [SPEAKER_01]: You may
[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_01]: You may take a couple
[00:14:01] [SPEAKER_01]: L's
[00:14:01] [SPEAKER_01]: As you figure it out
[00:14:02] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:14:03] [SPEAKER_01]: The team chemistry
[00:14:04] [SPEAKER_01]: The team unit
[00:14:05] [SPEAKER_01]: You gotta
[00:14:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Buy into the coach
[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_01]: You gotta buy into
[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_01]: The relationship
[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_01]: You gotta buy into
[00:14:09] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:14:10] [SPEAKER_01]: This is bigger than me
[00:14:11] [SPEAKER_03]: So
[00:14:12] [SPEAKER_03]: So the
[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_03]: The woman of your dreams
[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_03]: The love of your life
[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Tells you
[00:14:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I just need a break
[00:14:15] [SPEAKER_03]: For a few days
[00:14:17] [SPEAKER_03]: What is your response
[00:14:18] [SPEAKER_03]: This is the person
[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_03]: You see yourself with
[00:14:20] [SPEAKER_03]: For the rest of your life
[00:14:22] [SPEAKER_01]: We need a break
[00:14:23] [SPEAKER_01]: From New York
[00:14:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's get on the fly
[00:14:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's
[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's
[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's work this out
[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_01]: In Jamaica
[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_03]: You're not taking me serious
[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Tom
[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Stop
[00:14:34] Oh
[00:14:35] [SPEAKER_01]: What you saying
[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I caused her
[00:14:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Her reason for the break
[00:14:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe she needs to
[00:14:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Find herself or something
[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_03]: You never know
[00:14:47] [SPEAKER_04]: I gotta help you
[00:14:48] [SPEAKER_03]: She lost
[00:14:49] [SPEAKER_03]: She got
[00:14:49] [SPEAKER_03]: She got lost in a relationship
[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_03]: She forgot herself
[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo boy
[00:14:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo
[00:14:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Move them shit
[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Before I take them
[00:14:55] [SPEAKER_03]: And put my prescription
[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh
[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_01]: That is true
[00:14:58] [SPEAKER_01]: People do lose themselves
[00:14:59] [SPEAKER_01]: In relationships
[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Like it's not you
[00:15:04] [SPEAKER_03]: But it's like yo
[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_01]: It's not me
[00:15:06] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like cliche
[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_03]: But it's like you know
[00:15:08] [SPEAKER_03]: It's not you
[00:15:09] [SPEAKER_03]: It's me
[00:15:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Here's something that I think
[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Can be successful in a break
[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I like this
[00:15:14] [SPEAKER_01]: I like this
[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_01]: What are the guidelines
[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_01]: In this break
[00:15:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Do you know how much time
[00:15:20] [SPEAKER_01]: You need
[00:15:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Am I allowed
[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_01]: To check on you
[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Am I allowed to say
[00:15:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh
[00:15:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Can I check on you
[00:15:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Do you
[00:15:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Do I not have to text you
[00:15:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Do you
[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Do you need space
[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Like you need
[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_03]: No communication
[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_01]: What are the guidelines
[00:15:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Of our break
[00:15:35] [SPEAKER_01]: And at the end
[00:15:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Of the guideline
[00:15:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Is this something
[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_01]: You want to continue
[00:15:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause I would need
[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Something to look forward to
[00:15:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay
[00:15:43] [SPEAKER_03]: If I'm not looking
[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah cause if you
[00:15:45] [SPEAKER_01]: If every answer is
[00:15:46] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know
[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know
[00:15:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know
[00:15:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know
[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know
[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_01]: You know how
[00:15:50] Stop
[00:15:52] [SPEAKER_02]: Stop
[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga must lose
[00:15:54] [SPEAKER_02]: Bad views
[00:15:57] [SPEAKER_02]: You know
[00:16:02] [SPEAKER_01]: This ain't
[00:16:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know
[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_01]: This ain't
[00:16:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Say it again
[00:16:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah that
[00:16:28] [SPEAKER_01]: That one's a little tricky
[00:16:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Only because
[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_01]: I wouldn't
[00:16:34] [SPEAKER_01]: I wouldn't
[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_01]: There's too much
[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Uncertainty
[00:16:36] [SPEAKER_01]: At the end
[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Of the
[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_01]: But if she had
[00:16:39] [SPEAKER_01]: If there were guidelines
[00:16:40] [SPEAKER_01]: To the break
[00:16:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Of yo
[00:16:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Just give me
[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_01]: I need maybe
[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Two
[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_01]: A month
[00:16:46] [SPEAKER_03]: No communication
[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Of no communication
[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_03]: How would
[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_03]: How would that
[00:16:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Make you feel though
[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Like you can't talk
[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_03]: To your lady
[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_03]: For a month
[00:16:55] [SPEAKER_01]: That's not my lady
[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah it's over
[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah it's not my lady
[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_01]: She's from the streets
[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_01]: It's over
[00:16:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Well I am
[00:17:03] [SPEAKER_01]: That's another thing
[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Am I allowed to date
[00:17:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_03]: That break
[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_03]: That is
[00:17:08] [SPEAKER_03]: There's a lot of
[00:17:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Things that go into that
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I'm saying
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_01]: So most people
[00:17:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Ask for breaks
[00:17:12] [SPEAKER_01]: And there's no
[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Guideline
[00:17:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Or clear plan
[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Of what
[00:17:17] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Needs to fix
[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_01]: What needs to be fixed
[00:17:21] [SPEAKER_01]: You know so
[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah that
[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_01]: That
[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah that is
[00:17:25] [SPEAKER_03]: It just
[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_03]: I think
[00:17:27] [SPEAKER_03]: If I'm the person
[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_03]: That it's being said to
[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_03]: And I'm not getting
[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Any guidance
[00:17:30] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like
[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm in a limbo
[00:17:33] [SPEAKER_03]: So it's like
[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Wait do I go outside
[00:17:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Or do I stay inside
[00:17:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Do I
[00:17:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Am I still loyal to you
[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_01]: That's true
[00:17:41] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's like
[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_01]: That's true yeah
[00:17:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause I don't call
[00:17:44] [SPEAKER_01]: For a break
[00:17:44] [SPEAKER_01]: If there's a nigga
[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_01]: You want to break you off
[00:17:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't do that
[00:17:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I'm pretty sure
[00:17:49] [SPEAKER_01]: There's a woman
[00:17:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Who wants me
[00:17:50] [SPEAKER_01]: To break her off
[00:17:51] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:17:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Like let's not
[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's not pretend
[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_01]: This is a one way street
[00:17:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:17:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's
[00:17:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's not do that
[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_01]: They throwing
[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_01]: They throwing a cat
[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_04]: Meow
[00:18:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo G
[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Next time
[00:18:04] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm bringing Rambo
[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks
[00:18:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_01]: But okay
[00:18:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:18:09] [SPEAKER_01]: You discussed
[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Common reasons
[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Why couples may decide
[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_01]: To take a break
[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Communication
[00:18:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Trust
[00:18:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:18:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Trust problems
[00:18:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Or growing apart
[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Now if we growing apart
[00:18:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't see how a break helps
[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like
[00:18:21] [SPEAKER_03]: If we're not gonna
[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Rekindle
[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_03]: We might as well
[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Break up
[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_01]: How you feel about
[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_01]: What's the thing
[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Something make the heart
[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Grow fonder
[00:18:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:18:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Tom
[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Tom
[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Separation
[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Something
[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Something in that vein
[00:18:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:18:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Do you feel like
[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:18:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Tom
[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Make the heart
[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Grow fonder
[00:18:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me
[00:18:44] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think
[00:18:45] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what it is
[00:18:46] [SPEAKER_03]: That is insane
[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_03]: That is insane
[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:18:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright cool
[00:18:49] [SPEAKER_01]: I knew I was
[00:18:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Absence
[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Absence
[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Absence
[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Make the heart
[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks
[00:18:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I only think
[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_01]: If you love a person
[00:18:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I found myself
[00:19:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Loving somebody more
[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_01]: When they were gone
[00:19:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:19:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_03]: So is that
[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Is it that
[00:19:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Or is you just missing
[00:19:11] [SPEAKER_03]: What you had though
[00:19:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Not really
[00:19:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I think it was also
[00:19:14] [SPEAKER_01]: See with the
[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_01]: With the break
[00:19:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Here's the thing
[00:19:18] [SPEAKER_01]: You reflect
[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_01]: And you
[00:19:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I can admit this
[00:19:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Like damn
[00:19:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I took it
[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_01]: I took advantage
[00:19:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Of
[00:19:25] [SPEAKER_01]: What they meant
[00:19:26] [SPEAKER_01]: In the time
[00:19:28] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a good light
[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause you
[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause you living in it
[00:19:30] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying
[00:19:31] [SPEAKER_01]: You living in it
[00:19:32] [SPEAKER_01]: It feel like it's yours
[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying
[00:19:34] [SPEAKER_01]: It's your turn
[00:19:37] [SPEAKER_01]: And the moments
[00:19:38] [SPEAKER_01]: The moments
[00:19:39] [SPEAKER_01]: The moments are grandiose
[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_01]: And you
[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_01]: You caught up in it
[00:19:43] [SPEAKER_01]: So you take it
[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_01]: For advantage
[00:19:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Because it's an everyday thing
[00:19:47] [SPEAKER_01]: It's a part of your routine
[00:19:48] [SPEAKER_01]: But you know
[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_01]: The same way you wake up
[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_01]: And you give thanks
[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_01]: For another day
[00:19:52] [SPEAKER_03]: You should give thanks
[00:19:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh damn
[00:19:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Because
[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Essentially
[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_01]: You like this
[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And now that it's gone
[00:20:00] [SPEAKER_01]: You realize
[00:20:00] [SPEAKER_01]: How much value
[00:20:02] [SPEAKER_01]: This
[00:20:02] [SPEAKER_03]: You didn't like it
[00:20:03] [SPEAKER_03]: You loved it
[00:20:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly
[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah
[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_01]: That
[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_01]: That
[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_01]: That
[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_01]: That plays a
[00:20:09] [SPEAKER_01]: A factor too
[00:20:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:20:10] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:20:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Does a break
[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Make sense
[00:20:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I be writing
[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Mad notes
[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I be trying to
[00:20:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Break this down
[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_01]: You did this
[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_01]: You did this
[00:20:17] [SPEAKER_01]: As you
[00:20:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I was doing this
[00:20:18] [SPEAKER_01]: While I was chatting
[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_01]: While you chatting
[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I was like
[00:20:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Eureka
[00:20:25] [SPEAKER_01]: I love when podcast ideas
[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Come to me bro
[00:20:28] [SPEAKER_01]: That's fucking crazy
[00:20:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I love when podcast ideas
[00:20:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Come to me
[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:20:32] [SPEAKER_01]: They were talking
[00:20:33] [SPEAKER_01]: But as they were talking
[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_01]: I was kind of
[00:20:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Categorizing the topics
[00:20:36] [SPEAKER_01]: That they were talking about
[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:20:38] [SPEAKER_01]: So for example
[00:20:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Examine the potential benefits
[00:20:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Of a relationship break
[00:20:43] [SPEAKER_01]: And we talked about
[00:20:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Some of that
[00:20:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Time to reflect
[00:20:45] [SPEAKER_01]: And personal growth
[00:20:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Space to gain clarity
[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_01]: On the relationship
[00:20:49] [SPEAKER_01]: So let's use my example
[00:20:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Just now
[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:20:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's say me and that woman
[00:20:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Went on a break
[00:20:54] [SPEAKER_01]: And within that break
[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I realized
[00:20:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah this person means
[00:20:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Way more to me
[00:21:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Than even I let on
[00:21:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Let me get my shit together
[00:21:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I don't like this
[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Now
[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_01]: If within that break
[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_01]: It was enough time
[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_01]: That she didn't go anywhere
[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_01]: She was reflecting to
[00:21:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I could then initiate
[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Hey you know
[00:21:15] [SPEAKER_01]: This break did benefit me
[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I realized
[00:21:18] [SPEAKER_01]: This, that and a third
[00:21:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I apologize for acting
[00:21:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Or letting my actions
[00:21:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Display that you
[00:21:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Aren't as important
[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_01]: That you really are
[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm gonna do better
[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_01]: On not letting that happen
[00:21:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I can reassure you
[00:21:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Once we rekindle
[00:21:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Cool
[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Definitely getting some
[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Box after that
[00:21:36] [SPEAKER_01]: I would hope so
[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_01]: I was about to
[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Give myself a box
[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Space
[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I said that
[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Opportunity to work
[00:21:42] [SPEAKER_01]: On underlining issues
[00:21:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Discuss the potential
[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Risk and downside
[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:21:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Possibly
[00:21:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Of a break
[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Leading to a permanent
[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Breakup
[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Getting back together
[00:21:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:21:56] [SPEAKER_01]: With unresolved tension
[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Or resentment
[00:21:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Building up
[00:21:59] [SPEAKER_01]: And the only reason
[00:22:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Why I said that
[00:22:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Is because she was
[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Contemplating getting
[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Back with him
[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Because she pregnant
[00:22:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn so you're not
[00:22:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Even going there for
[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not saying
[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_03]: A kid not a good reason
[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah but she
[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_03]: But it's not
[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah you kind of
[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Change your mind
[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Prior
[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Prior
[00:22:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Two days prior
[00:22:12] [SPEAKER_01]: She just found out
[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_01]: She was ready to go
[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_01]: But she found out
[00:22:16] [SPEAKER_01]: She was pregnant
[00:22:16] [SPEAKER_01]: So was she ready to go
[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Was she ready for a break
[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_01]: You right
[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm using the room
[00:22:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm projecting
[00:22:22] [SPEAKER_01]: She was ready for a break
[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_01]: But she found out
[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_01]: She pregnant
[00:22:27] [SPEAKER_01]: She not even gonna
[00:22:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Mention the break
[00:22:28] [SPEAKER_01]: So this underlining
[00:22:30] [SPEAKER_01]: He
[00:22:30] [SPEAKER_01]: She gonna come back
[00:22:31] [SPEAKER_01]: We came back Friday
[00:22:34] [SPEAKER_01]: She gonna go to bed
[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Go to lay up with him
[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_01]: He ain't even gonna know
[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_03]: No she's had all those thoughts
[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_03]: It's crazy
[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_03]: But my thing is though
[00:22:40] [SPEAKER_03]: My forefather missed it
[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_03]: I kind of like
[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Blinked out
[00:22:43] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know if I did
[00:22:43] [SPEAKER_03]: But did you say
[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Did she say
[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Why she wanted a break
[00:22:47] [SPEAKER_03]: She said she not happy
[00:22:49] [SPEAKER_01]: She said she not happy
[00:22:50] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:22:51] What
[00:22:53] [SPEAKER_01]: We've all heard that
[00:22:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Through other people
[00:22:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Not us
[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Because we don't go through
[00:22:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Those things
[00:22:57] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:23:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I had a good joke
[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm glad everybody late
[00:23:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:23:06] [SPEAKER_03]: This shit would've been
[00:23:07] [SPEAKER_03]: This shit would've been
[00:23:08] [SPEAKER_03]: On fire in here
[00:23:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:23:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah but that is just
[00:23:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Like
[00:23:12] [SPEAKER_03]: And to go lay up
[00:23:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I hope she didn't go lay
[00:23:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I hope she like
[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Kept it a bug
[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_03]: But imagine she just
[00:23:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Lay up with him
[00:23:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Like
[00:23:17] [SPEAKER_03]: She from Baltimore
[00:23:18] [SPEAKER_01]: She had one of her
[00:23:19] [SPEAKER_01]: And she said
[00:23:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Two
[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Two
[00:23:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:23:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_01]: She from Baltimore
[00:23:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:23:26] [SPEAKER_01]: The way they say
[00:23:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Miss Scalp
[00:23:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not even gonna
[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Try to imitate
[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_01]: That shit
[00:23:30] [SPEAKER_01]: It's crazy
[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah but I'm
[00:23:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Trying to think of it
[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_03]: From his perspective
[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like yo
[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_03]: What perspective
[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_03]: He don't know
[00:23:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean
[00:23:37] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like you don't know
[00:23:38] [SPEAKER_03]: You literally don't know
[00:23:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Like yo bro
[00:23:40] [SPEAKER_03]: You almost lost your lady bro
[00:23:42] [SPEAKER_03]: She only back
[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Because of the kid
[00:23:44] [SPEAKER_03]: The thing in her
[00:23:44] [SPEAKER_03]: The button in her oven
[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_01]: What if the break
[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_01]: And you know
[00:23:48] [SPEAKER_01]: What's crazy
[00:23:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Who's to say
[00:23:51] [SPEAKER_01]: She told him that night
[00:23:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Or told him
[00:23:52] [SPEAKER_01]: During those three days
[00:23:53] [SPEAKER_01]: That yo I just found out
[00:23:54] [SPEAKER_01]: In prayer
[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_01]: So he like
[00:23:56] [SPEAKER_01]: He could have been
[00:23:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Possibly laying up
[00:23:57] [SPEAKER_01]: With shorty
[00:23:58] [SPEAKER_03]: But God
[00:23:58] [SPEAKER_03]: But I can't say
[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_03]: God forbid
[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Because it's her life
[00:24:00] [SPEAKER_03]: But what if she went
[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_03]: To the chopping blog
[00:24:02] [SPEAKER_03]: And was like
[00:24:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo bro we gotta take a break
[00:24:04] [SPEAKER_03]: And then tell him
[00:24:05] [SPEAKER_01]: There's so many
[00:24:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Fucking scenarios
[00:24:07] [SPEAKER_01]: What I will say is
[00:24:09] [SPEAKER_01]: A part of the context
[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_01]: That she said was
[00:24:13] [SPEAKER_01]: She already has a kid
[00:24:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:24:17] [SPEAKER_01]: I could be wrong
[00:24:19] [SPEAKER_01]: But I don't think
[00:24:20] [SPEAKER_01]: The kid is with him
[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_01]: So she was like
[00:24:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't
[00:24:25] [SPEAKER_01]: The idea of having
[00:24:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Two baby fathers
[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_01]: For her
[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Was just like
[00:24:29] [SPEAKER_01]: No
[00:24:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:24:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:24:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Double up
[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_03]: So give it to the next person
[00:24:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah go back
[00:24:37] [SPEAKER_03]: No but like
[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_03]: That shit just kinda
[00:24:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Fucked my head up though
[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_01]: So uh
[00:24:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:24:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Boom
[00:24:45] [SPEAKER_01]: So unresolved tension
[00:24:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And resentment
[00:24:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Uncertainty and anxiety
[00:24:49] [SPEAKER_01]: About the future
[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Of the relationship
[00:24:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Where is this going
[00:24:52] [SPEAKER_01]: How do I know
[00:24:53] [SPEAKER_01]: If I give you another chance
[00:24:55] [SPEAKER_03]: You won't
[00:24:57] [SPEAKER_03]: We won't
[00:24:58] [SPEAKER_03]: How you know
[00:24:58] [SPEAKER_01]: You're just not whispering
[00:24:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Sweet nothing
[00:25:00] [SPEAKER_03]: But how do I know
[00:25:02] [SPEAKER_03]: This
[00:25:02] [SPEAKER_03]: For the person that
[00:25:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Hears you
[00:25:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I wanna break
[00:25:04] [SPEAKER_03]: How do I not
[00:25:05] [SPEAKER_03]: How do I know
[00:25:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna hear this again
[00:25:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah we can't take a break
[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Every year bro
[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna
[00:25:12] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna
[00:25:12] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna
[00:25:12] [SPEAKER_03]: One of those things
[00:25:12] [SPEAKER_03]: I have to break up
[00:25:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Get back to
[00:25:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Break up
[00:25:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Break up
[00:25:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Break up
[00:25:14] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like
[00:25:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo bro
[00:25:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm fucking tired
[00:25:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Man I guess
[00:25:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Call of duty
[00:25:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Break a breaker
[00:25:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't got time
[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I got your six
[00:25:22] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what they say
[00:25:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I got your six
[00:25:24] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't got time
[00:25:25] [SPEAKER_03]: To be going to the fucking
[00:25:26] [SPEAKER_03]: What's the shit called again
[00:25:27] [SPEAKER_03]: What's the shit called
[00:25:28] [SPEAKER_03]: In Wall Zone G
[00:25:29] [SPEAKER_03]: The Gulag
[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_03]: The Gulag
[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't got time
[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_03]: To go to the Gulag
[00:25:32] [SPEAKER_03]: And then fucking
[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Skydive back in
[00:25:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't do that bro
[00:25:36] [SPEAKER_03]: He's dropping it
[00:25:37] [SPEAKER_03]: He's dropping it
[00:25:37] [SPEAKER_03]: He's dropping it
[00:25:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not doing that bro
[00:25:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel that
[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel that
[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_03]: My nigga
[00:25:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas already got
[00:25:42] [SPEAKER_03]: That load out
[00:25:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro I'm tired
[00:25:45] [SPEAKER_01]: That's true
[00:25:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah I can't
[00:25:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I can't do a break
[00:25:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:25:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly yeah
[00:25:50] [SPEAKER_01]: And then you
[00:25:51] [SPEAKER_01]: You create
[00:25:53] [SPEAKER_01]: An eggshell relationship
[00:25:54] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm walking on eggshells
[00:25:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I don't want to
[00:25:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Like yo I'm
[00:25:56] [SPEAKER_03]: It's not that
[00:25:57] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm scared of my show
[00:25:57] [SPEAKER_01]: But I'm scared to upset her bro
[00:25:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:25:59] [SPEAKER_01]: One false move
[00:26:01] [SPEAKER_01]: You were gonna
[00:26:09] [SPEAKER_03]: But real shit though
[00:26:10] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like yo
[00:26:10] [SPEAKER_03]: You don't
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_03]: You don't want to
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Say the wrong thing
[00:26:12] [SPEAKER_03]: So now
[00:26:12] [SPEAKER_03]: She probably pissed you off
[00:26:13] [SPEAKER_03]: You don't want to
[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Say nothing
[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_03]: You scared to speak
[00:26:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Your mind
[00:26:15] [SPEAKER_01]: And that creates
[00:26:16] [SPEAKER_01]: More underlined
[00:26:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Attention
[00:26:19] [SPEAKER_01]: You now suppressing
[00:26:20] [SPEAKER_01]: How you truly feel
[00:26:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause you don't want
[00:26:21] [SPEAKER_01]: To hear her mouth
[00:26:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Charger
[00:26:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I gotta say this right now
[00:26:24] [SPEAKER_03]: This ain't my life
[00:26:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh yeah
[00:26:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:26:26] [SPEAKER_03]: This ain't what I need
[00:26:27] [SPEAKER_01]: The
[00:26:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Hands up
[00:26:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't shoot that
[00:26:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't scissor
[00:26:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh boy
[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Somebody do something
[00:26:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll fight for my life
[00:26:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh shit
[00:26:44] [SPEAKER_01]: But um
[00:26:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh yeah
[00:26:48] [SPEAKER_01]: The only reason why
[00:26:50] [SPEAKER_01]: I said that
[00:26:51] [SPEAKER_01]: The other girl was gay
[00:26:53] [SPEAKER_01]: So she
[00:26:54] [SPEAKER_01]: So that's
[00:26:55] [SPEAKER_01]: They like
[00:26:58] [SPEAKER_03]: TDE
[00:26:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't say that shit
[00:27:01] [SPEAKER_03]: My head just
[00:27:01] [SPEAKER_01]: But um
[00:27:03] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah
[00:27:04] [SPEAKER_01]: So um
[00:27:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah so you
[00:27:06] [SPEAKER_01]: The
[00:27:07] [SPEAKER_01]: The relationship
[00:27:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Now has
[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_01]: An eggshell environment
[00:27:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Where you
[00:27:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn can I say
[00:27:13] [SPEAKER_01]: How I feel
[00:27:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Are you really
[00:27:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Gonna hear me
[00:27:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Do you hear me
[00:27:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And that may even
[00:27:17] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what it is
[00:27:18] [SPEAKER_01]: That eggshell relationship
[00:27:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes
[00:27:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Also creates
[00:27:21] [SPEAKER_01]: The
[00:27:22] [SPEAKER_01]: The pussy out of you too
[00:27:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh okay
[00:27:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay
[00:27:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Pussy as in like
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Fear
[00:27:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:27:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Where like
[00:27:30] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't even want to
[00:27:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Say what you want to say
[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause you don't want
[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_01]: To hear her mouth
[00:27:33] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't want to do this
[00:27:34] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't want to
[00:27:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Advocate
[00:27:35] [SPEAKER_01]: For yourself
[00:27:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Now you a punk
[00:27:37] [SPEAKER_01]: In your own relationship
[00:27:37] [SPEAKER_01]: You lost your voice
[00:27:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:27:39] [SPEAKER_01]: So you lost yourself
[00:27:41] [SPEAKER_01]: In this relationship
[00:27:42] [SPEAKER_01]: And now I lose myself
[00:27:44] [SPEAKER_01]: In the relationship
[00:27:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Mmm
[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:27:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:27:50] [SPEAKER_01]: You got that part
[00:27:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:27:52] [SPEAKER_01]: God damn
[00:27:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas really be hostages
[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_03]: In their own relationships
[00:27:55] [SPEAKER_01]: All the time
[00:27:56] [SPEAKER_01]: All the time
[00:27:56] [SPEAKER_01]: And when I say it
[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm the villain
[00:27:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to start
[00:27:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Saying shit
[00:27:59] [SPEAKER_01]: With a low pitch tone
[00:28:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe
[00:28:01] [SPEAKER_01]: No
[00:28:03] [SPEAKER_01]: That's condescending
[00:28:05] [SPEAKER_01]: I just gonna
[00:28:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Lower my vocals
[00:28:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And make it sound nice
[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh you know
[00:28:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna say
[00:28:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna start saying it
[00:28:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I just came to a realization
[00:28:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Like you do
[00:28:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh
[00:28:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh
[00:28:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Ha ha
[00:28:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Broham
[00:28:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Broham
[00:28:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Broham
[00:28:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:28:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't put me in the hot seat
[00:28:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Story time
[00:28:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Not story time
[00:28:46] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what people
[00:28:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Usually say to prevent a break
[00:28:49] [SPEAKER_01]: What
[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna go to therapy
[00:28:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Bro
[00:28:54] [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I told you
[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_01]: This thing
[00:28:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna go to therapy
[00:28:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And then you be like
[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright bet
[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_01]: You gonna go to therapy
[00:29:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Work on yourself
[00:29:01] [SPEAKER_01]: And in
[00:29:02] [SPEAKER_01]: In hopes of
[00:29:04] [SPEAKER_01]: That person
[00:29:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Going to therapy
[00:29:07] [SPEAKER_01]: You then say
[00:29:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay bet
[00:29:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Because that's a positive sign
[00:29:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Of
[00:29:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Are they both going
[00:29:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Couples therapy
[00:29:15] [SPEAKER_03]: No I'm not saying
[00:29:16] [SPEAKER_03]: It's couples therapy
[00:29:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh
[00:29:18] [SPEAKER_03]: So one person's
[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Working on themselves
[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_03]: The other person isn't
[00:29:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Well it depends
[00:29:21] [SPEAKER_01]: So like say
[00:29:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's say
[00:29:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:29:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's say
[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I asked for the break
[00:29:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't really see
[00:29:27] [SPEAKER_01]: The incentive
[00:29:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Of the woman
[00:29:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Saying I'm gonna go to therapy
[00:29:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Because I'm the one
[00:29:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Who's asking for the break
[00:29:33] [SPEAKER_01]: And in the example
[00:29:34] [SPEAKER_01]: That you gave earlier
[00:29:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Is
[00:29:36] [SPEAKER_01]: The person wanna work
[00:29:37] [SPEAKER_01]: On themselves
[00:29:37] [SPEAKER_01]: They feel like
[00:29:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay so cool
[00:29:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna go to therapy
[00:29:40] [SPEAKER_01]: To help
[00:29:40] [SPEAKER_01]: So the therapist
[00:29:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Can help me work on myself
[00:29:47] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a powerful tactic
[00:29:48] [SPEAKER_01]: To buy time
[00:29:51] [SPEAKER_01]: But if it's genuine
[00:29:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Then you'll benefit
[00:29:54] [SPEAKER_01]: From that
[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Your person improving
[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I can appreciate
[00:29:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Your self
[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Reflection
[00:29:59] [SPEAKER_01]: To want to
[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_01]: To know that
[00:30:01] [SPEAKER_01]: There's something
[00:30:02] [SPEAKER_01]: That you need to work on
[00:30:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Seek the help
[00:30:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Do the work
[00:30:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And then
[00:30:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Show the improvement
[00:30:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Now what if she says
[00:30:10] [SPEAKER_03]: She doesn't
[00:30:10] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think that's
[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think
[00:30:13] [SPEAKER_03]: That's fair to me
[00:30:15] [SPEAKER_03]: But she brought up
[00:30:16] [SPEAKER_03]: The person brought up
[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Going to therapy
[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_03]: You asked for the break
[00:30:19] [SPEAKER_03]: But she says
[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I think that's unfair to me
[00:30:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Now you leave me by myself
[00:30:23] [SPEAKER_03]: So you can work on yourself
[00:30:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah so I can be
[00:30:25] [SPEAKER_03]: A better man for you
[00:30:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe
[00:30:26] [SPEAKER_03]: You think that's gonna work
[00:30:27] [SPEAKER_03]: At the time
[00:30:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I will hope so
[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Run it out of the tree
[00:30:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I can say
[00:30:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn
[00:30:34] [SPEAKER_03]: What if she says that
[00:30:36] [SPEAKER_03]: I just feel like
[00:30:37] [SPEAKER_03]: That's unfair to me
[00:30:37] [SPEAKER_01]: I think now
[00:30:38] [SPEAKER_01]: The space that I'm in
[00:30:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm cool with people
[00:30:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Doing what's best for them
[00:30:42] [SPEAKER_01]: I just hope that
[00:30:43] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm a part of that best
[00:30:44] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:30:44] [SPEAKER_01]: So if
[00:30:45] [SPEAKER_01]: If you saying
[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo I don't think
[00:30:47] [SPEAKER_01]: That's fair to me
[00:30:48] [SPEAKER_01]: I understand
[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Cool
[00:30:51] [SPEAKER_01]: All you can do
[00:30:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Is offer
[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_01]: One of the
[00:30:56] [SPEAKER_01]: A solution
[00:30:57] [SPEAKER_01]: That of course
[00:30:58] [SPEAKER_01]: You're gonna benefit from
[00:30:59] [SPEAKER_01]: But hopefully
[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_01]: They see the benefit
[00:31:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Of that solution as well
[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_03]: So what would you call that
[00:31:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Is that compromising
[00:31:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Or just changing your mind
[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Like what would you say
[00:31:07] [SPEAKER_03]: That is
[00:31:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Once they bring up
[00:31:09] [SPEAKER_03]: The therapy
[00:31:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Once they bring up
[00:31:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Like how you said
[00:31:11] [SPEAKER_03]: She says
[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh
[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_03]: You said you'll accept that
[00:31:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay
[00:31:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I know this would benefit me
[00:31:15] [SPEAKER_03]: But I didn't take into
[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Consideration
[00:31:17] [SPEAKER_01]: It wouldn't be a compromise
[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Because
[00:31:20] [SPEAKER_01]: If they are genuine
[00:31:21] [SPEAKER_01]: About going to therapy
[00:31:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I'ma benefit from it
[00:31:24] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's not a compromise
[00:31:25] [SPEAKER_01]: You just gotta display
[00:31:26] [SPEAKER_01]: A level of patience
[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay
[00:31:28] [SPEAKER_01]: And you gotta hope
[00:31:29] [SPEAKER_01]: They not bullshit
[00:31:30] [SPEAKER_01]: How patient can we be though
[00:31:32] [SPEAKER_01]: See that's the thing though
[00:31:33] [SPEAKER_01]: My time is
[00:31:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Not even because
[00:31:35] [SPEAKER_01]: We've been in therapy
[00:31:37] [SPEAKER_01]: We all know that
[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_01]: You're not gonna see
[00:31:39] [SPEAKER_01]: The
[00:31:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Results in a day
[00:31:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah the results
[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_01]: And after the first session
[00:31:42] [SPEAKER_01]: The first
[00:31:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:31:43] [SPEAKER_01]: After the intake
[00:31:45] [SPEAKER_01]: You know this
[00:31:45] [SPEAKER_01]: This
[00:31:46] [SPEAKER_01]: This
[00:31:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I
[00:31:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Start peeling
[00:31:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Pulling back layers
[00:31:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Of trauma
[00:31:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah and then you don't know
[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_01]: If
[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes it get a little worse
[00:31:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Before it get better
[00:31:54] [SPEAKER_01]: You know so
[00:31:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Somebody
[00:31:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Somebody could go to therapy
[00:31:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And you feel like
[00:31:59] [SPEAKER_01]: They getting worse
[00:32:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Like yo
[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_01]: You need to fire that person
[00:32:04] [SPEAKER_01]: It may not be
[00:32:05] [SPEAKER_01]: That may not be the case
[00:32:06] [SPEAKER_01]: They just peeling back layers
[00:32:08] [SPEAKER_01]: That they
[00:32:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Blocked out
[00:32:09] [SPEAKER_01]: And now they gotta deal with that
[00:32:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Along with dealing
[00:32:12] [SPEAKER_01]: With whatever they felt
[00:32:13] [SPEAKER_01]: They were dealing
[00:32:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Before they even got there
[00:32:15] [SPEAKER_01]: So you gotta know that
[00:32:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Already
[00:32:17] [SPEAKER_01]: And give them that grace
[00:32:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like yo
[00:32:20] [SPEAKER_01]: I hope you generally
[00:32:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Working on yourself
[00:32:22] [SPEAKER_01]: And if it's a break
[00:32:25] [SPEAKER_01]: With the intentions
[00:32:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Of getting back together
[00:32:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Then that kinda falls in
[00:32:30] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:32:32] [SPEAKER_01]: So there's that
[00:32:34] [SPEAKER_01]: On that part
[00:32:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:32:35] [SPEAKER_01]: And then you have
[00:32:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Identifying and addressing
[00:32:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Individual issues
[00:32:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Of areas of growth
[00:32:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Cool
[00:32:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Developing
[00:32:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Better coping mechanisms
[00:32:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Because like you said
[00:32:49] [SPEAKER_01]: We can't keep taking a break
[00:32:51] [SPEAKER_01]: So okay
[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_01]: So you gonna cope
[00:32:53] [SPEAKER_01]: With this pain
[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_01]: By every time
[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Like we
[00:32:55] [SPEAKER_01]: This can't become redundant
[00:32:56] [SPEAKER_01]: We can't keep saying
[00:32:58] [SPEAKER_01]: We fighting for a couple days
[00:33:00] [SPEAKER_01]: I need a break
[00:33:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah
[00:33:01] [SPEAKER_03]: That can't be your big joker
[00:33:03] [SPEAKER_03]: So you have
[00:33:03] [SPEAKER_03]: You have to literally
[00:33:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Learn how to communicate
[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Through therapy
[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Or through
[00:33:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Through whatever
[00:33:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Issue you say you did
[00:33:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Through whatever
[00:33:11] [SPEAKER_01]: The issue it is
[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Me
[00:33:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm a person where
[00:33:15] [SPEAKER_01]: If I value this
[00:33:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not gonna walk away
[00:33:18] [SPEAKER_01]: So fast
[00:33:18] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what I'm saying
[00:33:19] [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm going to
[00:33:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean
[00:33:23] [SPEAKER_01]: If it's getting heated
[00:33:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Hey I need a break
[00:33:26] [SPEAKER_01]: But I know
[00:33:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I need a time out
[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:33:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Not a break
[00:33:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I need a few minutes
[00:33:31] [SPEAKER_01]: A few minutes
[00:33:32] [SPEAKER_01]: But you know
[00:33:34] [SPEAKER_01]: That I'm gonna come back
[00:33:35] [SPEAKER_01]: And then we're gonna address this
[00:33:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:33:39] [SPEAKER_01]: But sometimes
[00:33:40] [SPEAKER_01]: You have to meet
[00:33:41] [SPEAKER_01]: The right person
[00:33:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Because there are some people
[00:33:42] [SPEAKER_01]: When you come back
[00:33:43] [SPEAKER_01]: They not ready
[00:33:44] [SPEAKER_01]: They don't care to talk about it
[00:33:45] [SPEAKER_01]: They moved on
[00:33:46] [SPEAKER_03]: What's a bad coping mechanism
[00:33:48] [SPEAKER_03]: You ever dealt with?
[00:33:50] [SPEAKER_01]: That I ever dealt with?
[00:33:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Wow
[00:33:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like we dealt with
[00:33:57] [SPEAKER_03]: The same one
[00:33:58] [SPEAKER_03]: It's not
[00:33:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Nope
[00:33:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna say it's my last thing
[00:34:01] [SPEAKER_03]: But
[00:34:04] [SPEAKER_01]: The bad
[00:34:05] [SPEAKER_01]: The worst coping mechanism
[00:34:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Coping
[00:34:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's
[00:34:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Fright or flight
[00:34:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Flight
[00:34:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Flight
[00:34:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:34:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Like stop leaving
[00:34:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't gotta leave
[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_01]: That's like a lot of people
[00:34:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't
[00:34:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Not hold themselves accountable
[00:34:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Kind of sucks
[00:34:17] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I also
[00:34:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Let's call him the bitch in here
[00:34:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Now we both
[00:34:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Hold on
[00:34:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Cojo say
[00:34:24] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like
[00:34:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Eight minutes
[00:34:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Through the door
[00:34:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Tell Cojo
[00:34:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Tell Cojo
[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah
[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_03]: He should be valid
[00:34:29] [SPEAKER_03]: He don't gotta talk anyways
[00:34:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think he wanna
[00:34:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Um
[00:34:34] [SPEAKER_01]: The fright or flight
[00:34:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Dealing with that
[00:34:40] [SPEAKER_01]: When I was
[00:34:42] [SPEAKER_01]: I wanna say a victim
[00:34:43] [SPEAKER_01]: But when I was on the other side of that
[00:34:45] [SPEAKER_04]: Right?
[00:34:46] [SPEAKER_01]: One of the things that my therapist
[00:34:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Told me
[00:34:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Was
[00:34:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Even though it hurts
[00:34:54] [SPEAKER_01]: You didn't cause the fright or flight
[00:34:56] [SPEAKER_01]: If that's how
[00:34:58] [SPEAKER_01]: They choose to protect themselves
[00:35:03] [SPEAKER_01]: You just gotta deal with it
[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_01]: And um
[00:35:08] [SPEAKER_01]: That's a lot of things
[00:35:09] [SPEAKER_01]: That they don't tell you in therapy
[00:35:11] [SPEAKER_01]: You won't hear a lot of shit
[00:35:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You didn't wanna hear
[00:35:12] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:35:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Like if you got a real therapist
[00:35:15] [SPEAKER_01]: They not gonna coddle you
[00:35:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:35:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Or tell you
[00:35:18] [SPEAKER_01]: What you want to hear
[00:35:20] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:35:21] [SPEAKER_01]: And nigga Joe got
[00:35:22] [SPEAKER_01]: He bust you out too
[00:35:25] [SPEAKER_01]: And he standing up
[00:35:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Niggas staring at us
[00:35:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Like
[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_01]: What the fuck
[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_01]: So uh
[00:35:34] [SPEAKER_01]: We was talking about your bussy
[00:35:37] [SPEAKER_01]: But um
[00:35:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Your therapist is gonna
[00:35:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Tell you like
[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Straight up
[00:35:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Like yo
[00:35:46] [SPEAKER_01]: People
[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_01]: You
[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_01]: You
[00:35:48] [SPEAKER_01]: You will meet a person
[00:35:49] [SPEAKER_01]: And they already got their own shit
[00:35:51] [SPEAKER_01]: That they had way before you
[00:35:53] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:35:54] [SPEAKER_01]: It may
[00:35:55] [SPEAKER_01]: You may see it
[00:35:58] [SPEAKER_01]: But it's not to you
[00:35:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:36:00] [SPEAKER_01]: And that goes to
[00:36:01] [SPEAKER_01]: One of the episodes
[00:36:03] [SPEAKER_01]: That I wanna talk about
[00:36:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Right after this
[00:36:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Is called
[00:36:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Punching Bag
[00:36:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Because
[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_01]: If you don't properly
[00:36:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Assess
[00:36:13] [SPEAKER_01]: What's deeply bothering you
[00:36:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Whoever you dealing with
[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_03]: It's gonna feel like
[00:36:19] [SPEAKER_03]: But um
[00:36:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Another
[00:36:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Another thing is
[00:36:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Actually
[00:36:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I've dealt with it
[00:36:24] [SPEAKER_03]: And I've been that person
[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_03]: That did the flight
[00:36:28] [SPEAKER_03]: You've been
[00:36:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Fright of flight
[00:36:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:36:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I think it was more of like
[00:36:31] [SPEAKER_03]: My mindset at the time
[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Was like
[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm just
[00:36:34] [SPEAKER_03]: It's not that I don't wanna
[00:36:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Hold myself accountable
[00:36:36] [SPEAKER_03]: It's more of like
[00:36:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I just didn't know
[00:36:38] [SPEAKER_03]: What to do at the time
[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what
[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Another
[00:36:41] [SPEAKER_01]: Another thing
[00:36:41] [SPEAKER_01]: That my therapist
[00:36:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Had told me about
[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Dealing with somebody
[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_01]: With a
[00:36:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Fright of flight mentality
[00:36:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Hey guys
[00:36:46] [SPEAKER_01]: We're parting over here
[00:36:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Can you guys stop talking
[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Can you stop talking
[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_03]: To Coach
[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Do I have shirts off
[00:36:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Thanks
[00:36:50] [SPEAKER_03]: Thanks G
[00:36:52] [SPEAKER_01]: They uh
[00:36:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Always distracting over there
[00:36:54] [SPEAKER_01]: They basically
[00:36:54] [SPEAKER_01]: She basically told me that
[00:36:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:36:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes people may leave
[00:37:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Early
[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Because
[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_01]: They wanna avoid
[00:37:04] [SPEAKER_01]: The car crash
[00:37:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Even if it never crashes
[00:37:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes you gotta be Trey
[00:37:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah
[00:37:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I was on the side though
[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_01]: It's like
[00:37:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You gotta get out the car sometimes
[00:37:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I don't know
[00:37:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Like
[00:37:14] [SPEAKER_01]: But see
[00:37:15] [SPEAKER_01]: The thing that they'll never know
[00:37:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Is yo
[00:37:17] [SPEAKER_01]: What if I stay
[00:37:18] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:37:19] [SPEAKER_01]: But she was like
[00:37:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Because you feeling it
[00:37:23] [SPEAKER_01]: You also feel like
[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_01]: What if you stay
[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:37:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn
[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_01]: So that Fright of flight thing
[00:37:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Is kinda dangerous
[00:37:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:37:32] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Working on a better coping mechanism
[00:37:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:37:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Mutual
[00:37:38] [SPEAKER_01]: A mutual commitment
[00:37:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh
[00:37:40] [SPEAKER_01]: We're talking about
[00:37:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Can a break actually work
[00:37:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:37:44] [SPEAKER_01]: A mutual commitment
[00:37:46] [SPEAKER_01]: To the relationship
[00:37:47] [SPEAKER_01]: And willingness
[00:37:48] [SPEAKER_01]: For it to work
[00:37:49] [SPEAKER_01]: We both have to
[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_01]: If we go on a break
[00:37:52] [SPEAKER_01]: We both have to know
[00:37:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo
[00:37:54] [SPEAKER_01]: We both have a mutual commitment
[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_01]: To
[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Us
[00:37:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Doing whatever we doing
[00:37:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh huh
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_01]: To become better
[00:38:01] [SPEAKER_01]: That it can work
[00:38:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Uh huh
[00:38:02] [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah
[00:38:03] [SPEAKER_01]: You got that
[00:38:04] [SPEAKER_01]: I said this earlier
[00:38:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Establishing a timeline
[00:38:07] [SPEAKER_01]: For the break
[00:38:07] [SPEAKER_01]: And planning for reconnecting
[00:38:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Exploring real life examples
[00:38:11] [SPEAKER_01]: In case studies
[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Of breaks
[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_01]: That led to
[00:38:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Stronger and more
[00:38:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Fulfilling relationships
[00:38:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Me personally
[00:38:18] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't
[00:38:18] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't gonna
[00:38:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Nobody's
[00:38:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Relationship is like yours
[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah but I don't
[00:38:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't
[00:38:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know anybody
[00:38:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Who ever took a break
[00:38:26] [SPEAKER_01]: And they actually
[00:38:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Worked
[00:38:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't
[00:38:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I don't have
[00:38:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah I got
[00:38:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Breaks
[00:38:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:38:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Uh uh
[00:38:33] [SPEAKER_03]: So they get back together
[00:38:34] [SPEAKER_03]: But they break up again
[00:38:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah facts
[00:38:36] [SPEAKER_01]: And who got time for that
[00:38:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Discuss possibilities
[00:38:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Of a break not working
[00:38:40] [SPEAKER_01]: And when it's time
[00:38:41] [SPEAKER_01]: To consider a permanent separation
[00:38:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Facts
[00:38:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't let the break just
[00:38:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Us going on a break
[00:38:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And then
[00:38:47] [SPEAKER_01]: I guess we mutually decide
[00:38:51] [SPEAKER_01]: It's time for us to move on
[00:38:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Without communicating that
[00:38:54] [SPEAKER_01]: If you
[00:38:54] [SPEAKER_03]: You're a nigga
[00:38:55] [SPEAKER_03]: So we
[00:38:55] [SPEAKER_03]: What
[00:38:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah don't
[00:38:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't keep me in free
[00:38:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't keep me in free agency
[00:38:59] [SPEAKER_01]: While you
[00:39:00] [SPEAKER_01]: While you signed another contract
[00:39:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Catching contact
[00:39:04] [SPEAKER_01]: That was a good ball
[00:39:06] [SPEAKER_01]: I was thinking
[00:39:07] [SPEAKER_01]: If it was the tape rock
[00:39:08] [SPEAKER_01]: That's not what the fuck
[00:39:09] [SPEAKER_01]: That was about
[00:39:09] [SPEAKER_01]: I say yo
[00:39:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:39:13] [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah
[00:39:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Um
[00:39:15] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah for me
[00:39:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I just think that
[00:39:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Listening to my coworkers
[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Go through their spat
[00:39:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Well one coworker
[00:39:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Go through their spat
[00:39:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I'll have to just
[00:39:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Vend to the other one
[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_01]: And the other one
[00:39:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Uh basically saying like
[00:39:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause
[00:39:29] [SPEAKER_01]: The coworker was
[00:39:30] [SPEAKER_01]: The one
[00:39:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Who was giving the advice
[00:39:34] [SPEAKER_01]: Was basically saying
[00:39:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Well if you don't wanna
[00:39:36] [SPEAKER_01]: And that's another thing
[00:39:38] [SPEAKER_01]: I forgot
[00:39:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Within these breaks
[00:39:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Be careful who you letting in
[00:39:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Be careful who you getting advice from
[00:39:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause holy shit
[00:39:47] [SPEAKER_01]: That will fuck you up
[00:39:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah cause she was
[00:39:48] [SPEAKER_01]: She was
[00:39:49] [SPEAKER_01]: It was day one
[00:39:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Of them talking
[00:39:52] [SPEAKER_01]: And she was already talking about
[00:39:54] [SPEAKER_01]: If you don't want to be in this relationship
[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Just leave
[00:39:57] [SPEAKER_01]: With like no real full context
[00:39:58] [SPEAKER_01]: None of that
[00:39:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Like so be careful
[00:40:00] [SPEAKER_01]: So you're trying to
[00:40:02] [SPEAKER_01]: You're trying to
[00:40:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe she's trying to convert her
[00:40:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Like a USB-C to a
[00:40:09] [SPEAKER_01]: She was trying to
[00:40:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Like a round
[00:40:13] [SPEAKER_02]: She been black
[00:40:14] [SPEAKER_02]: She been black
[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_02]: Shout out to round
[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah
[00:40:20] [SPEAKER_01]: But like
[00:40:20] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:40:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I feel like
[00:40:24] [SPEAKER_01]: When you have
[00:40:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Relationship issues
[00:40:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Right
[00:40:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Obviously
[00:40:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Your friends
[00:40:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Are your friends
[00:40:32] [SPEAKER_01]: But
[00:40:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Seek the counsel
[00:40:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Of
[00:40:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Somebody that got sense
[00:40:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:40:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Somebody that's knowledgeable
[00:40:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro
[00:40:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Or
[00:40:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Or you already know
[00:40:41] [SPEAKER_01]: This friend has a history
[00:40:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Of telling me
[00:40:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Like it is
[00:40:45] [SPEAKER_01]: I can't go to a friend
[00:40:47] [SPEAKER_01]: That's always gonna be like
[00:40:48] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:40:49] [SPEAKER_01]: Not coddle my decision
[00:40:51] [SPEAKER_01]: But just support
[00:40:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Whatever I wanna do
[00:40:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Even me going through my things
[00:40:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas is like
[00:40:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo yeah get back in the streets
[00:40:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm like
[00:40:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah nah
[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Are you listening to what the fuck
[00:40:59] [SPEAKER_03]: I just said
[00:40:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah yeah yeah
[00:41:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah nah nah
[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Thinking with your dick bro
[00:41:02] [SPEAKER_03]: What the fuck
[00:41:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah you think
[00:41:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah so
[00:41:04] [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah
[00:41:05] [SPEAKER_01]: You
[00:41:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Be careful
[00:41:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Be mindful
[00:41:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Mindful
[00:41:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause you're vulnerable
[00:41:08] [SPEAKER_03]: What they say now
[00:41:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Be mindful in what
[00:41:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Demure
[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Fucking
[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Fucking be fools
[00:41:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Did you see somebody
[00:41:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Photoshopped
[00:41:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Demure means
[00:41:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Getting a train ran
[00:41:20] [SPEAKER_01]: On you
[00:41:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas
[00:41:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas said
[00:41:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Being very demure
[00:41:26] [SPEAKER_03]: And mindful
[00:41:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Fuck it
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_03]: What the fuck
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Lowkey Ma said
[00:41:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh yeah
[00:41:30] [SPEAKER_03]: D-dump
[00:41:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Y'all getting finessed
[00:41:32] [SPEAKER_03]: By niggas
[00:41:32] [SPEAKER_03]: And you got a
[00:41:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Suck a psychology major
[00:41:34] [SPEAKER_03]: That's funny
[00:41:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:41:36] [SPEAKER_01]: You're D-dump
[00:41:37] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah
[00:41:38] [SPEAKER_01]: But yeah
[00:41:38] [SPEAKER_01]: So when you
[00:41:39] [SPEAKER_01]: When you
[00:41:41] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:41:41] [SPEAKER_01]: You're vulnerable
[00:41:42] [SPEAKER_01]: So anything
[00:41:44] [SPEAKER_01]: You can
[00:41:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Hear
[00:41:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Or you may be
[00:41:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Looking for a sign
[00:41:50] [SPEAKER_01]: And you go to a person
[00:41:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Who is gonna
[00:41:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Generically
[00:41:53] [SPEAKER_01]: Give you
[00:41:54] [SPEAKER_01]: A false sign
[00:41:55] [SPEAKER_01]: So
[00:41:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Be careful
[00:41:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Who you vent to
[00:41:58] [SPEAKER_01]: And who you let
[00:41:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Into your relationship
[00:42:00] [SPEAKER_01]: During those vulnerable times
[00:42:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Talk to the therapist man
[00:42:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:42:03] [SPEAKER_01]: And if you don't have one
[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Speak to people
[00:42:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Who have successful
[00:42:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Relationships
[00:42:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Yes
[00:42:09] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:42:10] [SPEAKER_01]: What I'm saying
[00:42:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Don't
[00:42:11] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:42:12] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't want
[00:42:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Misery
[00:42:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Misery loves company
[00:42:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
[00:42:14] [SPEAKER_01]: You don't want the company
[00:42:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Of a miserable person
[00:42:16] [SPEAKER_01]: So anybody
[00:42:17] [SPEAKER_01]: In a successful relationship
[00:42:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Preferably a married couple
[00:42:22] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:42:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Try to speak to them
[00:42:23] [SPEAKER_01]: And say
[00:42:24] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:42:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going through this
[00:42:25] [SPEAKER_01]: And we're on a break
[00:42:27] [SPEAKER_01]: And
[00:42:27] [SPEAKER_01]: What should I do
[00:42:27] [SPEAKER_01]: What should I do
[00:42:28] [SPEAKER_01]: You know
[00:42:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Because
[00:42:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Hearing it
[00:42:32] [SPEAKER_01]: From somebody
[00:42:32] [SPEAKER_01]: Who has done it
[00:42:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Uh
[00:42:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Opposed to somebody
[00:42:37] [SPEAKER_03]: That's been single
[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_03]: For 15 years
[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_03]: It's kind of like
[00:42:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:42:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah
[00:42:40] [SPEAKER_03]: What can you really tell me
[00:42:42] [SPEAKER_02]: You know
[00:42:42] [SPEAKER_03]: So yeah
[00:42:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Um
[00:42:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Communicate
[00:42:46] [SPEAKER_03]: There you go
[00:42:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Fucking communicate
[00:42:49] [SPEAKER_03]: There you go
[00:42:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Fucking
[00:42:50] [SPEAKER_03]: Communicate
[00:42:51] [SPEAKER_03]: There you go
[00:42:52] [SPEAKER_03]: But
[00:42:52] [SPEAKER_03]: You already noticed this
[00:42:53] [SPEAKER_03]: This is Don the
[00:42:55] [SPEAKER_03]: What am I today
[00:42:55] [SPEAKER_03]: The camera guy
[00:42:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay
[00:42:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Don the camera guy today
[00:42:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Business is business
[00:43:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Also known as Don Peasy
[00:43:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Also known as Donald
[00:43:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Also known as Donovan
[00:43:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Also known as Dante
[00:43:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Also known as
[00:43:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Fucking 85 other things
[00:43:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah
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[00:43:28] [SPEAKER_01]: What's up
[00:43:29] [SPEAKER_01]: There's out there
[00:43:30] [SPEAKER_01]: But we pay for distribution
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[00:43:38] [SPEAKER_03]: And I just got one more word
[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Before we get out of here
[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_03]: What is that?
[00:43:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to the
[00:43:43] [SPEAKER_03]: The video that was received
[00:43:45] [SPEAKER_03]: In the group chat
[00:43:49] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm out of here man
[00:43:50] [SPEAKER_03]: It's top tier Don Peasy
[00:43:53] [SPEAKER_03]: God is great

