Welcome to ! In this thought-provoking episode titled "0-100," we explore the intriguing dynamics of whether it's better to give someone 100% from the start or to gradually build up to it. We also delve into the phenomenon of going from 0 to 100 in emotional reactions, particularly anger.
In this episode, we cover:
### 0-100 in Relationships: - The pros and cons of giving 100% from the start vs. gradually increasing your investment. - How to gauge when and how much to invest in a relationship. - Personal stories and insights on managing relationship dynamics.
### 0-100 in Emotional Reactions: - Understanding rapid emotional escalation and its triggers. - Strategies for managing and controlling emotional responses. - Real-life examples of dealing with anger and other intense emotions.
### Balancing Act: - Finding the right balance between giving too much and holding back. - The importance of self-awareness and emotional intelligence. - Effective communication about needs and boundaries.
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[00:00:00] [SPEAKER_05]: What we charged? I charged a plot of hours.
[00:00:02] [SPEAKER_05]: So, just a point of the?
[00:00:07] [SPEAKER_06]: I guess we gotta figure out our consumers right?
[00:00:09] [SPEAKER_06]: They can even afford it.
[00:00:10] [SPEAKER_02]: Have you ever asked?
[00:00:12] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what?
[00:00:13] [SPEAKER_06]: I want women to only listen to the bars.
[00:00:16] [SPEAKER_02]: You want what?
[00:00:17] [SPEAKER_05]: I feel like women only spend money.
[00:00:19] [SPEAKER_02]: They don't want that pay.
[00:00:20] [SPEAKER_05]: Yeah exactly.
[00:00:21] [SPEAKER_05]: I hope so.
[00:00:30] [SPEAKER_05]: Where's my notes?
[00:00:32] [SPEAKER_05]: Alright cool.
[00:00:40] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm gonna get the rain.
[00:00:51] [SPEAKER_05]: Fuck.
[00:00:51] [SPEAKER_05]: I got it.
[00:00:54] [SPEAKER_05]: I almost forgot about the next episode.
[00:00:55] [SPEAKER_05]: I forgot about what the next episode was going to be,
[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_05]: but I just remembered it.
[00:00:59] [SPEAKER_05]: But let me focus on the here and now.
[00:01:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Sneak that fucking Biscoff,
[00:01:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Crumbs on his fucking beard.
[00:01:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Sneak is a degenerate bro.
[00:01:12] [SPEAKER_03]: All alone in this world.
[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_03]: So thats not the only thing in this bed.
[00:01:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh okay.
[00:01:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Here and now.
[00:01:28] [SPEAKER_07]: Thump thump thump all up.
[00:01:31] [SPEAKER_07]: I'm ready.
[00:01:33] [SPEAKER_07]: Alright, stop asking me if I'm single.
[00:01:34] [SPEAKER_07]: I don't give a fuck.
[00:01:36] [SPEAKER_07]: Let me see something.
[00:01:38] [SPEAKER_07]: Alright.
[00:01:39] [SPEAKER_07]: 3, 2, off.
[00:01:42] [SPEAKER_03]: You already know where this podcast is.
[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_03]: She must have a lover as always.
[00:01:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Donald Peasley.
[00:01:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Alongside of LeSean.
[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_03]: It's another beautiful day here in Staten Island.
[00:01:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I know I said Brooklyn last time,
[00:01:52] [SPEAKER_03]: but you make it be my dawn I guess.
[00:01:55] [SPEAKER_03]: It's great to be here with the fellas,
[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_03]: parties in the building,
[00:01:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Joe's in the building,
[00:01:58] [SPEAKER_03]: ladies in the building of course.
[00:01:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to all of y'all for like,
[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_03]: comment, subscribe and doing everything I do every week.
[00:02:02] [SPEAKER_03]: We do appreciate y'all.
[00:02:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Hopefully you woke up with loving your heart.
[00:02:07] [SPEAKER_03]: And young lady watching us,
[00:02:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't know what's going on.
[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Hey how you doing sister?
[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_03]: You got viewers in the building.
[00:02:13] [SPEAKER_03]: How you feeling today?
[00:02:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Well, I finally realized why I'm so tired.
[00:02:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Where is she going?
[00:02:19] [SPEAKER_06]: I finally realized why I'm so tired.
[00:02:22] [SPEAKER_06]: She probably trying to figure out how she could get it out.
[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_06]: She about to go sunbathe.
[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Shout out to this building.
[00:02:36] [SPEAKER_06]: What I was gonna say.
[00:02:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I finally figured out why I'm so tired.
[00:02:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Went to go see a sleep doctor,
[00:02:42] [SPEAKER_06]: sleep specialist.
[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_06]: I forgot the correct term that he went to school for.
[00:02:46] [SPEAKER_06]: So I'm sorry.
[00:02:47] [SPEAKER_06]: I forgot, but you know,
[00:02:49] [SPEAKER_06]: discovered I have sleep apnea.
[00:02:53] [SPEAKER_06]: And what is that?
[00:02:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Something bad.
[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_06]: Like terrible?
[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_06]: Well, the first thing I thought when it was like,
[00:03:01] [SPEAKER_06]: oh, you got to sleep with a breathing machine.
[00:03:04] [SPEAKER_06]: I was like, damn,
[00:03:05] [SPEAKER_06]: who gonna fuck me with this all?
[00:03:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Take a dead text and we'll get to the point.
[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_03]: This nigga is sicko.
[00:03:11] [SPEAKER_03]: First thing.
[00:03:13] [SPEAKER_06]: But now I have breathing issues when I sleep.
[00:03:18] [SPEAKER_06]: So it's a wake up.
[00:03:20] [SPEAKER_06]: No, I wake up because the Lord allows me to see another day.
[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I think you appreciate that.
[00:03:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Um, but uh,
[00:03:27] [SPEAKER_06]: it's why I wake up feeling like I just ran a mile.
[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_06]: This is why I get better sleep in the middle of the day
[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_06]: opposed to at night.
[00:03:37] [SPEAKER_06]: My just my sleepiness just all out of whack.
[00:03:39] [SPEAKER_06]: So it's cold.
[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_06]: We gonna figure it out.
[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_06]: So I had two options.
[00:03:45] [SPEAKER_06]: Sleep with a breathing machine or get the surgery to open up my
[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_06]: nasal path while I sleep.
[00:03:52] [SPEAKER_06]: Surgery is not happening.
[00:03:53] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not doing that.
[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_06]: So we're going to sleep with this machine and I'm a little
[00:03:56] [SPEAKER_06]: like an elephant.
[00:03:56] [SPEAKER_06]: So maybe I might fuck around and get a Delta or something.
[00:04:03] [SPEAKER_06]: I just knew who's going there though.
[00:04:05] [SPEAKER_06]: I know he was going there though.
[00:04:07] [SPEAKER_06]: I just seen it.
[00:04:08] [SPEAKER_06]: So, you know,
[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_06]: I hope you get a nice little devastating deeper.
[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_06]: You know,
[00:04:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo boy, everybody all right today.
[00:04:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Come on in thinking from being just solid.
[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_03]: I appreciate that.
[00:04:17] [SPEAKER_03]: You are a traditional man.
[00:04:19] [SPEAKER_03]: You are a traditional man and I appreciate you brother.
[00:04:22] [SPEAKER_03]: Thank you.
[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh yeah.
[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I forgot you.
[00:04:24] [SPEAKER_03]: So you're not talking to him for like,
[00:04:26] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, but yeah.
[00:04:27] [SPEAKER_06]: So, uh, yeah, I'm just trying to figure it out and that
[00:04:30] [SPEAKER_06]: kind of makes sense on a lot of things.
[00:04:33] [SPEAKER_06]: My mood and you know,
[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_06]: So I look forward to, uh, to getting some good rest
[00:04:38] [SPEAKER_06]: eventually.
[00:04:39] [SPEAKER_06]: Um, I'm trying.
[00:04:40] [SPEAKER_06]: I've been looking up the coolest looking one.
[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_04]: They all look.
[00:04:45] [SPEAKER_04]: Let me ask bro.
[00:04:48] [SPEAKER_04]: More times than not how many times are you sleeping in that
[00:04:49] [SPEAKER_04]: bed alone?
[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Every night.
[00:04:52] [SPEAKER_04]: So what you needed to look cool?
[00:04:54] [SPEAKER_04]: You never know who's going to pop a little pop.
[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh,
[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_04]: When the John comes,
[00:05:02] [SPEAKER_04]: You putting that machine on.
[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_03]: You're going to have to worst sleep.
[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_04]: Sacrifice.
[00:05:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm a guy.
[00:05:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Once he leaves.
[00:05:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm going to be honest again.
[00:05:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Back to being.
[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_06]: You know how it actually look?
[00:05:21] [SPEAKER_06]: You remember that picture of.
[00:05:23] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like a Vegeta,
[00:05:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Vegeta in the fucking type of time.
[00:05:26] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, that's how it actually look.
[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_06]: Like it's a full mask.
[00:05:30] [SPEAKER_06]: That helps you break.
[00:05:31] [SPEAKER_06]: Now my sleep test,
[00:05:33] [SPEAKER_06]: When this episode come out by now,
[00:05:35] [SPEAKER_06]: I've already taken it.
[00:05:37] [SPEAKER_06]: So they're going to this.
[00:05:39] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm supposed to go there.
[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Around eight o'clock and they're going to monitor my sleep
[00:05:45] [SPEAKER_06]: the whole time.
[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_06]: They're putting in a sleep.
[00:05:46] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.
[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_06]: Well no, they want me to sleep naturally.
[00:05:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Right?
[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_06]: Am I going to bed?
[00:05:52] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, I'm asleep there.
[00:05:53] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm asleep there.
[00:05:54] [SPEAKER_06]: And they're going to monitor it.
[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_06]: And then they're going to in the midst of when they
[00:05:59] [SPEAKER_06]: notice they're going to see where I'm struggling to breathe at.
[00:06:02] [SPEAKER_06]: And then the machine is going to help me.
[00:06:04] [SPEAKER_06]: And they're going to see like the avat at and the Apple watch
[00:06:09] [SPEAKER_06]: also shows how you sleep and tells you how long do you stay in a deep sleep?
[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_06]: Are you snoring during your sleep?
[00:06:16] [SPEAKER_06]: Are you struggling to breathe?
[00:06:18] [SPEAKER_06]: If I'm a die, I do want to die my sleep.
[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I ain't going to find I ain't going to feel it.
[00:06:23] [SPEAKER_06]: But God, dad, not at this young of a age.
[00:06:26] [SPEAKER_06]: So you know, I read on.
[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_06]: So yeah, I'm trying to that's all the things that I'm working on this in
[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_06]: in this year.
[00:06:32] [SPEAKER_06]: I wanted to make sure that I go into my next year.
[00:06:36] [SPEAKER_06]: My teeth are fixed.
[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_06]: Are they getting there?
[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm like by the time this come out, I'm already 10 weeks in fix my sleep.
[00:06:44] [SPEAKER_06]: You know, there's a lot of things I want to fix it by myself.
[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_06]: And how did you deal?
[00:06:51] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, yeah, that might be next year though.
[00:06:54] [SPEAKER_06]: And maybe next year.
[00:06:55] [SPEAKER_06]: I got to see if insurance cover that.
[00:06:58] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm pretty sure it doesn't.
[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't know.
[00:07:01] [SPEAKER_06]: It's covering a lot these days that I ain't think it will cover.
[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_06]: So, you know, maybe if I say, you know, I'm, if I get mentally evaluated
[00:07:09] [SPEAKER_06]: and say that, you know, having a small penis is affecting the way I
[00:07:13] [SPEAKER_06]: operate, they may prescribe me something.
[00:07:15] [SPEAKER_06]: So, you know, so what's this thing on a kickstand is crazy.
[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, don't don't don't.
[00:07:23] [SPEAKER_06]: But um, I want to ask you all.
[00:07:27] [SPEAKER_06]: Well, basically let's follow up from what last episode with Quani acts the question.
[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_06]: You remember the question my brother?
[00:07:36] [SPEAKER_06]: No, he don't.
[00:07:37] [SPEAKER_06]: Okay.
[00:07:39] [SPEAKER_02]: Let's go.
[00:07:39] [SPEAKER_02]: I was saying, so what if you feel as though you're a set.
[00:07:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Well, basically we were talking about settling in how it pertains to that in a long term
[00:07:49] [SPEAKER_02]: relationship.
[00:07:50] [SPEAKER_02]: So I was asking, what if one year you feel as though you're settling and then that next
[00:07:56] [SPEAKER_02]: year could be the year that everything changes and things all get better.
[00:08:00] [SPEAKER_02]: We're looking at, you know, long term situations.
[00:08:02] [SPEAKER_02]: So I know I've been in a situation where maybe one month it felt like, you know,
[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_02]: this is like though this is how our next week is like, oh, we got it back together.
[00:08:14] [SPEAKER_02]: Like this was like, we're better.
[00:08:15] [SPEAKER_02]: We're better because of whatever just happened.
[00:08:18] [SPEAKER_02]: So, okay.
[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_06]: So that brings me to today's episode called zero to 100 and how I assess or react to
[00:08:32] [SPEAKER_06]: certain situations now going from zero to 100 is extreme.
[00:08:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Uh, I won't lose in that situation where we're talking about this is the person that
[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_06]: I think I'm spending the rest of my life with.
[00:08:50] [SPEAKER_06]: I am going to display more patience.
[00:08:52] [SPEAKER_06]: So I don't think I'm going to get to 100, but I realize in life whoever can get me
[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_06]: to 100 I remove myself from if that makes sense.
[00:09:05] [SPEAKER_06]: But in this situation, I've also said what's a what's a total of bad of
[00:09:12] [SPEAKER_06]: total of bad five years to a lifetime with a person.
[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_06]: So if I look at the grand scheme of things, if I'm spending the rest of my life with you
[00:09:21] [SPEAKER_06]: and let's say, let's say they're saying the average life of a man is 77.
[00:09:26] [SPEAKER_06]: That sucks to hear.
[00:09:28] [SPEAKER_06]: But let's say, okay, I find a woman tomorrow.
[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll be 33.
[00:09:34] [SPEAKER_06]: So that's 44 years that I'm gonna be yeah, 44 years.
[00:09:37] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm gonna be with a person before I croak.
[00:09:41] [SPEAKER_03]: If I'm in there, you know, I'm saying,
[00:09:45] [SPEAKER_06]: so if let's say out of those 44 years, six of them was rough.
[00:09:51] [SPEAKER_06]: That means what I had a good if my math is correct 38 good years with them.
[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll take that, you know, but because that when I feel like I found my life partner,
[00:10:02] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like the trials and tribulations is going to come with it.
[00:10:08] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not going to be quick to bounce now though.
[00:10:10] [SPEAKER_06]: But for me, I'm a little bit different with how fast I leave now.
[00:10:19] [SPEAKER_06]: I think my last situation got me jaded or in a sense of like, yo, don't ever stay too long or whatever.
[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_06]: So I don't know.
[00:10:30] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like I'm still trying to figure that out because now I'm like one, one things for sure that I learned in my lifetime.
[00:10:39] [SPEAKER_06]: You ain't never gonna win arguing with a woman.
[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_06]: So I don't even argue.
[00:10:46] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't even argue no more like you got it.
[00:10:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Like you really, you really got it.
[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_06]: And I know that's not how it's supposed to go.
[00:10:52] [SPEAKER_06]: Trust me, I know.
[00:10:54] [SPEAKER_06]: But if I feel like it's one thing to argue and then it's another thing to be disagree.
[00:11:03] [SPEAKER_06]: You guys are not on the same page.
[00:11:06] [SPEAKER_06]: But I think the thing that kind of tips the scale of the zero to 100 is the respect factor.
[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_03]: That can never go out the window, no matter what's going on.
[00:11:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_06]: If I feel like the respect goes out the window.
[00:11:23] [SPEAKER_06]: So we're getting to a little rough patch.
[00:11:25] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, especially early, especially early.
[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Like if we now...
[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_03]: What does that mean to you?
[00:11:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Like that person does that that early.
[00:11:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, then...
[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_03]: You just don't know how to verbalize how you feel.
[00:11:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't care what it means.
[00:11:40] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm out.
[00:11:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, that's kind of where I'm at with it, bro.
[00:11:43] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't care what it means.
[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_06]: It just...
[00:11:45] [SPEAKER_06]: If I'm all the sweet things in the beginning, right?
[00:11:50] [SPEAKER_06]: And then the minute we beef in, I'm out.
[00:11:55] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm out because that means your view of me is very...
[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_03]: It changes how you feel.
[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, and I can't purposely state it.
[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_06]: So now I'm out.
[00:12:07] [SPEAKER_06]: On the other hand, romantically, I don't know if...
[00:12:12] [SPEAKER_06]: I want to talk to y'all about do y'all give 100 and then scale back
[00:12:17] [SPEAKER_06]: or y'all start at zero and then go up?
[00:12:20] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm in love with boys.
[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_04]: I thought that I started at 100.
[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_04]: You started at 100?
[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't even think I started at zero.
[00:12:25] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't think I started at 100 either.
[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm probably in the middle somewhere.
[00:12:28] [SPEAKER_04]: Middle? And then you go...
[00:12:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Nah, I don't think I have a plan on going backwards.
[00:12:33] [SPEAKER_04]: It's always gonna go forward.
[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_04]: What about you, Kwani?
[00:12:35] [SPEAKER_02]: 75.
[00:12:36] [SPEAKER_06]: You started at 75?
[00:12:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Pretty good.
[00:12:38] [SPEAKER_03]: That's actually pretty good though.
[00:12:39] [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, if I'm trying to talk to you, I already planned it in my head
[00:12:43] [SPEAKER_02]: that I want to talk to you tonight.
[00:12:45] [SPEAKER_02]: I want to see him, but I want to give my money up as crazy.
[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_02]: Do you want to see me?
[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh yeah, I mean...
[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm a classic man.
[00:12:52] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, if I'm approaching you then I want to do all the stuff
[00:12:55] [SPEAKER_02]: that I'm about to do.
[00:12:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I want to see you every day.
[00:12:59] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't want to attack you.
[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_06]: When you start at 100, right?
[00:13:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Do you feel like that's love bombing?
[00:13:05] [SPEAKER_03]: It is.
[00:13:07] [SPEAKER_03]: You can start overshading.
[00:13:08] [SPEAKER_04]: Now you're overshading as well.
[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_06]: Okay, what about...
[00:13:11] [SPEAKER_04]: At 50? No, I feel like 50 is a good balance.
[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_04]: You know, you still like...
[00:13:14] [SPEAKER_06]: What's 50 for you?
[00:13:15] [SPEAKER_04]: 50 is like finding out who this person is,
[00:13:19] [SPEAKER_04]: letting them know what your capabilities are.
[00:13:21] [SPEAKER_04]: That's like a little mysterious.
[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, you have to because...
[00:13:24] [SPEAKER_04]: People change.
[00:13:25] [SPEAKER_04]: Right? You come out the gate.
[00:13:26] [SPEAKER_04]: Giving all this always?
[00:13:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Isn't that scary though?
[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Because it could be the other way around.
[00:13:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Are you giving 50?
[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like, alright, who's the other 50?
[00:13:36] [SPEAKER_03]: What does the other 50 look like though?
[00:13:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Now you hold different parts in them.
[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_04]: I think that needs to be earned though.
[00:13:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Am I awful now?
[00:13:42] [SPEAKER_04]: I think earning your all,
[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_04]: if 100 is seen as your all,
[00:13:48] [SPEAKER_04]: that needs to be earned.
[00:13:50] [SPEAKER_04]: Everybody don't just deserve your all
[00:13:52] [SPEAKER_04]: out the gate, bro.
[00:13:54] [SPEAKER_04]: No way.
[00:13:55] [SPEAKER_04]: Kwonhee.
[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_04]: What 75 look like?
[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_02]: So this is...
[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_02]: Alright, 75 looks...
[00:14:02] [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, it's whatever I could do at the time,
[00:14:03] [SPEAKER_02]: to be honest with you.
[00:14:05] [SPEAKER_02]: I get what Kojo's saying,
[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_02]: but I think how I look at it is,
[00:14:09] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm approaching you.
[00:14:10] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm trying to talk to you.
[00:14:12] [SPEAKER_02]: You don't know me.
[00:14:14] [SPEAKER_02]: You live in your life.
[00:14:15] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm the one that's trying to be a part of your life
[00:14:16] [SPEAKER_02]: and trying to let you measure it to mine.
[00:14:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Why 40 cut you off?
[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_03]: What if it's the other way around?
[00:14:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Because this is day and age.
[00:14:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Women are doing, pushing up on people now.
[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_02]: So...
[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_06]: Kwonhee, you should just shout every time.
[00:14:26] [SPEAKER_06]: No, right?
[00:14:27] [SPEAKER_02]: No, not every time.
[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Or it looks like in reverse.
[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Are you giving 75 or are you giving like 50?
[00:14:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I mean...
[00:14:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh yeah, she found you.
[00:14:36] [SPEAKER_02]: It all depends on how they pull up,
[00:14:37] [SPEAKER_02]: to be honest.
[00:14:38] [SPEAKER_02]: It depends on the approach.
[00:14:39] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, the car?
[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh my God, I love your clothes.
[00:14:43] [SPEAKER_03]: I love your clothes.
[00:14:45] [SPEAKER_03]: I love your clothes.
[00:14:45] [SPEAKER_03]: I love what you're doing.
[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_03]: You already open.
[00:14:48] [SPEAKER_02]: It draws up already.
[00:14:49] [SPEAKER_02]: It's a door's open.
[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_02]: I mean, if someone approaches...
[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, you're modeling my...
[00:14:52] [SPEAKER_02]: You're modeling my...
[00:14:55] [SPEAKER_03]: You want to be a Swan baby?
[00:14:57] [SPEAKER_00]: I think it's crazy.
[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_02]: But I think it would depend on...
[00:15:05] [SPEAKER_02]: Because you know when someone's on bullshit,
[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_02]: or you can kind of gauge when someone's on bullshit.
[00:15:10] [SPEAKER_02]: So it would really depend on what they pull up with
[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_02]: and return to another level I give.
[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Okay.
[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_02]: So...
[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Watch your left.
[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_03]: You didn't say your...
[00:15:20] [SPEAKER_03]: In this day and age, it's you now.
[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Not LA, high school, 100.
[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Nah, I still did 100 off-rit.
[00:15:25] [SPEAKER_06]: Off-rit?
[00:15:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Even with your past...
[00:15:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Are we surprised?
[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_03]: How do you...
[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_03]: How do you stay like...
[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_03]: No, I'm surprised because it's like...
[00:15:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I've been with him through a few things.
[00:15:36] [SPEAKER_03]: There's life's love.
[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_02]: You love love.
[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_03]: But I love myself more though.
[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Nah, I give 100 but I...
[00:15:45] [SPEAKER_03]: You start scaling back.
[00:15:46] [SPEAKER_06]: I think I scale back faster.
[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_03]: So you start scaling back when they start doing things?
[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_06]: You see how we said 0 or 100 is really fast?
[00:15:57] [SPEAKER_06]: My 100 is 0 is faster.
[00:16:00] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, you won't even hear from me.
[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_06]: That's where I think I got to.
[00:16:04] [SPEAKER_06]: Is that like...
[00:16:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Is it like you detach?
[00:16:08] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like the detach window.
[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, probably.
[00:16:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Probably.
[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_03]: That's not that wrong with that.
[00:16:12] [SPEAKER_04]: No, that's why I don't start out on it.
[00:16:14] [SPEAKER_04]: Because it's possible that you can start to decline.
[00:16:19] [SPEAKER_04]: Declining feels worse there.
[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_04]: It feels worse than going like...
[00:16:24] [SPEAKER_04]: That's why I want to give myself rain to say,
[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_04]: Well, I ain't doing it.
[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_04]: That's not like I ain't doing shit.
[00:16:28] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm here, I'm giving you some of me.
[00:16:29] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm giving you a taste.
[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_04]: And I'm seeing if we even work.
[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Your face is being shown in that camera?
[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_06]: What's up?
[00:16:36] [SPEAKER_02]: The decline?
[00:16:37] [SPEAKER_02]: I don't feel like crazy about what you're saying.
[00:16:40] [SPEAKER_02]: I feel like you know what it is that you bring.
[00:16:42] [SPEAKER_02]: And what the 100% is.
[00:16:44] [SPEAKER_02]: So if it's not being reciprocated or it's not being appreciated
[00:16:48] [SPEAKER_02]: or whatever it is, it don't take...
[00:16:50] [SPEAKER_02]: It's like this.
[00:16:51] [SPEAKER_02]: It could just go away.
[00:16:52] [SPEAKER_04]: If it starts out of 100, is it ultimately going to end up at zero?
[00:16:56] [SPEAKER_02]: I think that's the case by case.
[00:16:58] [SPEAKER_02]: So even if it doesn't decline,
[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_04]: does it stop somewhere?
[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Or I may put it on pause.
[00:17:05] [SPEAKER_06]: May slow down.
[00:17:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Is it the same person?
[00:17:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Can it go back up?
[00:17:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.
[00:17:08] [SPEAKER_04]: Okay, maybe that's what I'm thinking.
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.
[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_06]: Like you'll never start off with 100
[00:17:16] [SPEAKER_06]: and then realize, damn, I'm only getting 82%.
[00:17:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I used to get 100.
[00:17:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Like you won't feel the 18% missing.
[00:17:23] [SPEAKER_06]: Or maybe you will, but it might...
[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_06]: You might have to help me feel more confident
[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_06]: about what we're doing for me to get back to 100.
[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Because I kind of see it as the confidence level
[00:17:37] [SPEAKER_06]: of the relationship or me courting you.
[00:17:40] [SPEAKER_06]: So I may see you and I may be attentive to all your things
[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_06]: and show up in those ways, right?
[00:17:49] [SPEAKER_06]: And then you say or do some bullshit where I feel like,
[00:17:53] [SPEAKER_06]: I bet I can't get you...
[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_06]: You're not deserving of this.
[00:17:57] [SPEAKER_06]: So I'm a pullback.
[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_06]: I might pull back at all.
[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:18:01] [SPEAKER_06]: Go down to zero.
[00:18:02] [SPEAKER_06]: And go down to zero.
[00:18:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Once I'm...
[00:18:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Is anything from zero like zero?
[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_06]: Zero is no conversation though.
[00:18:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Is anything functional?
[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_04]: No, I'm done.
[00:18:08] [SPEAKER_04]: So once you hit zero, you're done?
[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.
[00:18:10] [SPEAKER_04]: What if you had one?
[00:18:11] [SPEAKER_06]: What is it to give at that point?
[00:18:13] [SPEAKER_06]: There's nothing to give at one.
[00:18:14] [SPEAKER_06]: If I'm at 1%, y'all, I must really love that person.
[00:18:16] [SPEAKER_06]: I've been at 1% before.
[00:18:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't know what...
[00:18:19] [SPEAKER_03]: What does 1% look like?
[00:18:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Because I figured just you're not there at that point.
[00:18:23] [SPEAKER_06]: You're not dead, but it's just hope.
[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_06]: It's a little bit of hope.
[00:18:25] [SPEAKER_03]: It's just all hope.
[00:18:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Well, what are you waiting for?
[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Like a change or something?
[00:18:29] [SPEAKER_06]: God, go in her sleep and say,
[00:18:31] [SPEAKER_06]: girl, get it together.
[00:18:32] [SPEAKER_06]: That nigga love you.
[00:18:33] [SPEAKER_06]: That is 1% for me.
[00:18:35] [SPEAKER_06]: Where is it?
[00:18:36] [SPEAKER_06]: Like, yo, that nigga love you.
[00:18:37] [SPEAKER_06]: You might fuck around and lose this nigga.
[00:18:40] [SPEAKER_06]: I ain't much out there.
[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_06]: That's 1% for me.
[00:18:44] [SPEAKER_06]: Where is it?
[00:18:44] [SPEAKER_06]: Like, yo, I'm letting this go.
[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm one foot in, none other toes out.
[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_06]: And like, it's just like, yo, like,
[00:18:56] [SPEAKER_06]: it's the last bit of love and hope that I got.
[00:18:58] [SPEAKER_06]: That's my 1%.
[00:18:59] [SPEAKER_06]: That's what I'm...
[00:19:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm scared to get to 1%, though.
[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't think...
[00:19:03] [SPEAKER_06]: I've been at 1%.
[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Why did you say 100% is love bombing?
[00:19:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I just feel like I'm literally giving you everything.
[00:19:10] [SPEAKER_03]: I was probably wanting to give somebody else.
[00:19:12] [SPEAKER_02]: Damn, that's different.
[00:19:13] [SPEAKER_02]: Why you don't just like that person and up to want to do that?
[00:19:15] [SPEAKER_06]: See, no, the only reason why I said love bombing,
[00:19:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I said it in a funny way because, you know,
[00:19:23] [SPEAKER_06]: when you...
[00:19:24] [SPEAKER_06]: I think love bombing in a sense is, you know,
[00:19:27] [SPEAKER_06]: you just kind of giving the person everything
[00:19:30] [SPEAKER_06]: that they say they want to kind of make you look like...
[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_06]: But this is...
[00:19:33] [SPEAKER_02]: All right, I don't want to cut you.
[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_02]: Nah, go ahead.
[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_02]: Have you ever asked two part question?
[00:19:39] [SPEAKER_02]: One, have you ever been accused of love bombing
[00:19:41] [SPEAKER_02]: when you literally were just doing your regular business?
[00:19:44] [SPEAKER_02]: Two, have you ever been doing the bear...
[00:19:47] [SPEAKER_02]: Not bare minimum, but have you ever been doing
[00:19:49] [SPEAKER_02]: like just some uh...
[00:19:50] [SPEAKER_02]: And then they look at it like it's the biggest thing
[00:19:52] [SPEAKER_02]: in the world?
[00:19:53] [SPEAKER_06]: Yes, yes, yes.
[00:19:54] [SPEAKER_06]: Your man's accused me of love bombing.
[00:19:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, man's.
[00:19:57] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, your man's.
[00:19:58] [SPEAKER_06]: You and Don man's.
[00:19:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, okay.
[00:20:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:20:04] [SPEAKER_06]: But she did it after the fact.
[00:20:06] [SPEAKER_06]: She didn't do it while it was happening.
[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_03]: She was enjoying it at the moment, wasn't she?
[00:20:10] [SPEAKER_06]: I think it became a thing when we were split.
[00:20:14] [SPEAKER_06]: Like it was the new catch word
[00:20:15] [SPEAKER_06]: and you try to attach me to it.
[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_06]: But I don't think I was love bombing her at all
[00:20:21] [SPEAKER_06]: because she never received that Birkenbag so...
[00:20:27] [SPEAKER_02]: You feel like you're just gonna kill her for love bombing
[00:20:29] [SPEAKER_02]: or been accused of love bombing?
[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_06]: Um, no.
[00:20:33] [SPEAKER_06]: I think I've been accused...
[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_06]: I haven't been accused of that before.
[00:20:36] [SPEAKER_06]: No, she wasn't...
[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm talking about somebody else now.
[00:20:39] [SPEAKER_06]: She wasn't sure if what I was doing was love bombing
[00:20:44] [SPEAKER_06]: but that was just naturally me.
[00:20:46] [SPEAKER_06]: Like, I'm gonna say that was bare minimum
[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_06]: but it's kind of like...
[00:20:50] [SPEAKER_02]: It's just you.
[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_06]: If you say you uh...
[00:20:53] [SPEAKER_06]: If you say something as simple as yo, I like this.
[00:20:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Right?
[00:20:57] [SPEAKER_06]: And I get it for you.
[00:20:59] [SPEAKER_06]: That's just me being attentive.
[00:21:01] [SPEAKER_06]: No matter how small it is, say you could have said like yo...
[00:21:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Like a bag of chips.
[00:21:05] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah!
[00:21:05] [SPEAKER_06]: And I picked you up a bag of chips.
[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_06]: I love bombing you up like...
[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm literally just giving you a bag of chips.
[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah!
[00:21:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Because you said you wanted it.
[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_06]: Something simple like small shit so...
[00:21:16] [SPEAKER_06]: That...
[00:21:17] [SPEAKER_02]: That's what you call another bombing?
[00:21:18] [SPEAKER_02]: That could be seen.
[00:21:19] [SPEAKER_06]: It can be seen.
[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, I saw that's what I'm saying.
[00:21:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
[00:21:24] [SPEAKER_03]: I've never been told that to my face but...
[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_03]: I do that though.
[00:21:26] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like oh you like this thing?
[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I get it for you.
[00:21:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, kind of.
[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_02]: I guess if you do it from the start
[00:21:30] [SPEAKER_02]: like you start out the gate like that
[00:21:32] [SPEAKER_02]: it could be viewed as love bombing like day one.
[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_06]: But see here's what I...
[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't want to give too much of my sauce.
[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_06]: But um...
[00:21:42] [SPEAKER_02]: You gotta help them.
[00:21:44] [SPEAKER_02]: These things I don't know what the fuck they doing.
[00:21:45] [SPEAKER_02]: They don't.
[00:21:46] [SPEAKER_02]: You gotta help them man.
[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_06]: So if a woman...
[00:21:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Like say I'm getting an old woman
[00:21:50] [SPEAKER_06]: there's a section in your phone
[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_06]: under their contact
[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_06]: and it has notes.
[00:21:54] [SPEAKER_06]: So if we in the midst of getting to know each other
[00:21:57] [SPEAKER_06]: and you mention you like this...
[00:22:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Like this kind of roses.
[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_03]: You like this kind of wine.
[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_06]: You like sunflowers for that wine.
[00:22:05] [SPEAKER_06]: Whatever, whatever, whatever.
[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm gonna put that in there.
[00:22:08] [SPEAKER_06]: And if I ever...
[00:22:10] [SPEAKER_06]: You know you in a moment where you feel like you know
[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_06]: the relationship stand.
[00:22:15] [SPEAKER_06]: No no joke.
[00:22:16] [SPEAKER_06]: Go to my nose.
[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_03]: What's your wife?
[00:22:18] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Like you know I'm not...
[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_06]: But see for me
[00:22:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I think...
[00:22:23] [SPEAKER_06]: You can't even...
[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_06]: The sauce just...
[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_06]: You can't even...
[00:22:25] [SPEAKER_06]: You know it's tough
[00:22:29] [SPEAKER_06]: being accused of something because technically
[00:22:33] [SPEAKER_06]: this also goes into my zero to a hundred thing.
[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_06]: It's the level of intent.
[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_06]: So if I'm doing this
[00:22:41] [SPEAKER_06]: to intentionally manipulate you
[00:22:44] [SPEAKER_06]: so you can fuck with me
[00:22:45] [SPEAKER_06]: then yes that's love bombing nasty.
[00:22:47] [SPEAKER_06]: But if I'm doing it just to show you
[00:22:49] [SPEAKER_06]: you know this is the quality of God you're getting.
[00:22:52] [SPEAKER_06]: I can maintain what I'm doing.
[00:22:55] [SPEAKER_06]: You're not getting love bombed.
[00:22:56] [SPEAKER_06]: You're getting love done.
[00:22:58] [SPEAKER_06]: That's the difference.
[00:23:00] [SPEAKER_03]: That was a bad...
[00:23:02] [SPEAKER_03]: And you look at me like he was missing by a little bit.
[00:23:04] [SPEAKER_06]: That's the difference.
[00:23:05] [SPEAKER_06]: That's the difference with intent.
[00:23:08] [SPEAKER_06]: I think but for them
[00:23:10] [SPEAKER_06]: and this is where it gets tricky for me
[00:23:13] [SPEAKER_06]: will you question my intent?
[00:23:16] [SPEAKER_06]: That made...
[00:23:16] [SPEAKER_02]: What you doing this for?
[00:23:17] [SPEAKER_02]: That hundred!
[00:23:19] [SPEAKER_02]: That happened.
[00:23:20] [SPEAKER_02]: That exact thing happened to me before.
[00:23:22] [SPEAKER_02]: I was at...
[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_02]: What else do you call it about 80?
[00:23:25] [SPEAKER_02]: I was at...
[00:23:26] [SPEAKER_02]: You can call it about 80.
[00:23:27] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah.
[00:23:28] [SPEAKER_02]: And then maybe like
[00:23:29] [SPEAKER_02]: two weeks into it
[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_02]: she literally asked me to my face.
[00:23:33] [SPEAKER_02]: We were together.
[00:23:34] [SPEAKER_02]: She actually asked me,
[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_02]: what's wrong with you?
[00:23:36] [SPEAKER_02]: I feel like you're love bombing me.
[00:23:38] [SPEAKER_02]: You're right.
[00:23:39] [SPEAKER_02]: In that moment...
[00:23:42] [SPEAKER_02]: Bro...
[00:23:42] [SPEAKER_02]: It's like
[00:23:44] [SPEAKER_02]: I felt...
[00:23:45] [SPEAKER_02]: She talking herself out the dick.
[00:23:46] [SPEAKER_02]: I felt the...
[00:23:48] [SPEAKER_02]: Bro, I felt the 80.
[00:23:52] [SPEAKER_02]: You're a failure!
[00:23:53] [SPEAKER_02]: I see it.
[00:23:54] [SPEAKER_02]: Was it 8040?
[00:23:54] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm looking at her face
[00:23:55] [SPEAKER_02]: but I just see the thing going down.
[00:23:58] [SPEAKER_02]: Like I'm looking at her
[00:23:59] [SPEAKER_02]: but all I see is...
[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_02]: She spoke to...
[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_02]: Like you're ruining it.
[00:24:03] [SPEAKER_02]: You're ruining it.
[00:24:04] [SPEAKER_02]: I was like what you mean?
[00:24:07] [SPEAKER_02]: She's like
[00:24:07] [SPEAKER_02]: you're doing this and that.
[00:24:08] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm looking at her like
[00:24:09] [SPEAKER_02]: you're not used to nice things.
[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_02]: You're not used to...
[00:24:12] [SPEAKER_02]: You know what's crazy?
[00:24:14] [SPEAKER_02]: My bad.
[00:24:14] [SPEAKER_02]: You ever seen that thing where it says
[00:24:16] [SPEAKER_02]: the hardest challenge is being
[00:24:18] [SPEAKER_02]: a woman's first good guy?
[00:24:20] [SPEAKER_02]: I've seen that before.
[00:24:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah.
[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Same thing in reverse.
[00:24:23] [SPEAKER_06]: I've seen a lot of dudes from
[00:24:24] [SPEAKER_06]: their first baddie.
[00:24:26] [SPEAKER_04]: Wait, what's a baddie, bro?
[00:24:27] [SPEAKER_04]: What's a baddie?
[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_04]: What's a baddie?
[00:24:29] [SPEAKER_04]: What's a baddie?
[00:24:30] [SPEAKER_04]: We're not going to say it.
[00:24:31] [SPEAKER_06]: We're not going to say it.
[00:24:32] [SPEAKER_06]: We're not going to say it.
[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_06]: We're not going to say it.
[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_06]: What's a baddie, bro?
[00:24:34] [SPEAKER_06]: If I say names,
[00:24:35] [SPEAKER_06]: you're going to tell me to take it out.
[00:24:36] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm going to say it.
[00:24:37] [SPEAKER_06]: I guess we can cut it out
[00:24:39] [SPEAKER_06]: and then just go right back to it.
[00:24:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's cut it out.
[00:24:42] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's say it.
[00:24:43] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's cut it out.
[00:24:44] [SPEAKER_04]: What quality is that in comparison to what LA said?
[00:24:46] [SPEAKER_04]: He said the term about
[00:24:48] [SPEAKER_04]: you ever been a woman's first good guy.
[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, he said it.
[00:24:51] [SPEAKER_04]: I would reverse it.
[00:24:52] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, that is a baddie.
[00:24:53] [SPEAKER_04]: That is a baddie.
[00:24:54] [SPEAKER_04]: Okay, so no, no, no, no.
[00:24:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Let me explain that then, right?
[00:24:59] [SPEAKER_06]: When...
[00:25:00] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't want to say
[00:25:01] [SPEAKER_06]: Niggas is walking around with mid.
[00:25:03] [SPEAKER_06]: But...
[00:25:04] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, shit.
[00:25:05] [SPEAKER_06]: But if you had mid all for a while
[00:25:10] [SPEAKER_06]: and for some reason
[00:25:11] [SPEAKER_06]: this woman,
[00:25:14] [SPEAKER_06]: that's way better than mid, right?
[00:25:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Shoulda.
[00:25:18] [SPEAKER_06]: You have to be so secure in yourself
[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_06]: to know that, yes, everybody wants it.
[00:25:26] [SPEAKER_04]: Dude, if they somebody that everybody wants it,
[00:25:28] [SPEAKER_04]: it's a tough job.
[00:25:28] [SPEAKER_06]: That's all I mean.
[00:25:29] [SPEAKER_06]: That's all I mean.
[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_06]: That's all I mean.
[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_06]: That triggered me because
[00:25:32] [SPEAKER_04]: I think women...
[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_04]: It triggered me because I think women
[00:25:36] [SPEAKER_04]: move in this way of like
[00:25:38] [SPEAKER_04]: being a baddie is enough.
[00:25:40] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, yeah.
[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_06]: It's not enough.
[00:25:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, that's not what I mean.
[00:25:43] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm talking about from the man security
[00:25:46] [SPEAKER_06]: of himself knowing that like,
[00:25:48] [SPEAKER_06]: yo, everybody...
[00:25:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Nobody's passing on the opportunity
[00:25:52] [SPEAKER_06]: to bend my girl over.
[00:25:54] [SPEAKER_06]: Nobody.
[00:25:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Zero, two hundred, right there.
[00:25:56] [SPEAKER_06]: That was zero, two hundred.
[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_06]: But I'm secure in myself
[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_06]: and I love and I trust her enough
[00:26:02] [SPEAKER_06]: to know that
[00:26:04] [SPEAKER_06]: and you think these women know
[00:26:05] [SPEAKER_06]: they pulling niggas?
[00:26:07] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, you know.
[00:26:07] [SPEAKER_04]: My baddie knows that she's a baddie.
[00:26:09] [SPEAKER_06]: So if she know that, you know,
[00:26:11] [SPEAKER_06]: if this don't work out,
[00:26:13] [SPEAKER_06]: my line is available
[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_06]: and she don't care about that.
[00:26:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Don't ruin it with your insecurity.
[00:26:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Ruin it, bro.
[00:26:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, please hold it.
[00:26:22] [SPEAKER_06]: And when you're a man's first one of those,
[00:26:25] [SPEAKER_06]: you not being used to this grand stage,
[00:26:27] [SPEAKER_06]: the lights a little bit bigger.
[00:26:29] [SPEAKER_03]: David O'Grady?
[00:26:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Thank you, y'all.
[00:26:32] [SPEAKER_06]: The lights is a little bit bigger.
[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Chachang is hosted.
[00:26:35] [SPEAKER_06]: He calling you out every time you miss a shot.
[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:26:39] [SPEAKER_06]: You got to be able to still
[00:26:41] [SPEAKER_06]: dribble up the court with your head held high
[00:26:43] [SPEAKER_06]: and know you will make the next one.
[00:26:45] [SPEAKER_03]: You got to be the niggas with the bandana on.
[00:26:49] [SPEAKER_06]: Don't fold, you can't fold.
[00:26:52] [SPEAKER_06]: So yes, having your first baddie
[00:26:54] [SPEAKER_06]: is like having the prime time game at night
[00:26:57] [SPEAKER_06]: on a Friday night.
[00:26:59] [SPEAKER_06]: You could use that on.
[00:27:01] [SPEAKER_06]: But yeah, but yeah.
[00:27:03] [SPEAKER_06]: But that also goes to the flip side, right?
[00:27:06] [SPEAKER_06]: When I was talking about intent,
[00:27:10] [SPEAKER_06]: the same way a woman or same way,
[00:27:13] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not even going to make it a gender thing.
[00:27:15] [SPEAKER_06]: The same way your partner could notice,
[00:27:19] [SPEAKER_06]: yo, my man pays attention to the things that he,
[00:27:23] [SPEAKER_06]: that I like and he do it.
[00:27:25] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like that same level of attention
[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_06]: should go into the things that a person don't like.
[00:27:31] [SPEAKER_06]: And the same way somebody could compliment you,
[00:27:35] [SPEAKER_06]: oh, Don, you know, you mentioned the bag of chips
[00:27:37] [SPEAKER_06]: and you got it for me. No questions asked.
[00:27:40] [SPEAKER_06]: It's the same way I feel like if they mention something
[00:27:43] [SPEAKER_06]: they don't like, you give that same attention to it.
[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_06]: Here is where the problem lies.
[00:27:50] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like people do shit knowing
[00:27:52] [SPEAKER_06]: that that's something you don't like
[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_06]: and still do it. That's enough to make me leave.
[00:27:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, that's that's that hundreds going down the fucking far.
[00:27:58] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm done.
[00:27:59] [SPEAKER_06]: That hundred now makes me go to zero.
[00:28:01] [SPEAKER_06]: And I don't know I'm here to talk to y'all
[00:28:04] [SPEAKER_06]: because y'all my niggas y'all my brothers.
[00:28:06] [SPEAKER_06]: So I don't mind talking to y'all about it.
[00:28:07] [SPEAKER_06]: Shit like that.
[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_06]: But I don't know if my I'm developing fight or flight.
[00:28:15] [SPEAKER_06]: My fighting days is kind of, I don't know.
[00:28:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't know.
[00:28:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Look at skin.
[00:28:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't want you to adopt people's bad habits.
[00:28:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Shit. She went into life.
[00:28:35] [SPEAKER_06]: All right.
[00:28:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm going to say something as minuscule as y'all know how I feel about the thumbs up thing.
[00:28:44] [SPEAKER_06]: Right on the message.
[00:28:46] [SPEAKER_06]: Now let me be very clear.
[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_06]: For me, it's not like so say you say, say I say down.
[00:28:54] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm on my way and you thumbs it up.
[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_06]: You may be grabbing something.
[00:28:56] [SPEAKER_06]: You're trying to let me know that I'm aware.
[00:28:58] [SPEAKER_06]: Boom.
[00:28:59] [SPEAKER_06]: But say we having a dialogue and we having a conversation and then you just thumbs it up.
[00:29:06] [SPEAKER_06]: Are you being a child?
[00:29:08] [SPEAKER_06]: You being a child.
[00:29:10] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't like that shit.
[00:29:11] [SPEAKER_06]: We grown use your words.
[00:29:14] [SPEAKER_06]: So say that says something somebody so we having words and she do that to me.
[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm out and I've told you I don't like it.
[00:29:23] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't like that.
[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_06]: The first time you did it, they really make a big deal out of it because you didn't know.
[00:29:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Can be hard on you on something you don't know about except you know.
[00:29:37] [SPEAKER_06]: But but say I bring it up to you after the thing is already passed and that's another thing.
[00:29:43] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not going to bring up something I don't like in the midst of the battle because you may not even be attentive to that.
[00:29:47] [SPEAKER_06]: But say all this past we moved on and we Bob and I'll be like, yo, hey babe, you know, this is something that kind of
[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_06]: And I would like if you don't do that.
[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't care if it's big or small.
[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool.
[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_06]: Now you well aware and the moment you choose to do it again is in the heat of the ship.
[00:30:06] [SPEAKER_03]: How far after that?
[00:30:08] [SPEAKER_03]: The next let's say the next time we get into that.
[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, the next back because you can't you can't expect something to be fixed overnight.
[00:30:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Like some people literally if it's small, if it's small, it depends.
[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Now say if it's a.
[00:30:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Hmm.
[00:30:24] [SPEAKER_06]: What's extreme?
[00:30:27] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't even know.
[00:30:28] [SPEAKER_06]: See, that's where I'm at with my life.
[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't even think I have a big or small.
[00:30:32] [SPEAKER_06]: That's all in the DDL.
[00:30:34] [SPEAKER_03]: But if you say something like, oh, you don't tell me when you get home or something like that.
[00:30:43] [SPEAKER_06]: That's a good one.
[00:30:43] [SPEAKER_06]: That's big.
[00:30:44] [SPEAKER_03]: That's a good one.
[00:30:45] [SPEAKER_03]: That's safe.
[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_03]: It's in the closet.
[00:30:47] [SPEAKER_06]: That's big for people.
[00:30:48] [SPEAKER_06]: Matter of fact, I can tell you y'all mans hated the way I hung up the phone.
[00:30:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Was like a quick.
[00:30:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.
[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_06]: And she felt like I was banging it on her and in my mind.
[00:30:59] [SPEAKER_06]: I wasn't.
[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_06]: It was like, I goodbye goodbye.
[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not going to wait five, four, three, two, one.
[00:31:05] [SPEAKER_06]: Okay, let me hang up now.
[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_06]: But in there.
[00:31:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Right.
[00:31:09] [SPEAKER_06]: But I don't know.
[00:31:10] [SPEAKER_06]: Now boom, P game.
[00:31:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Maybe I should have been here.
[00:31:13] [SPEAKER_04]: I don't.
[00:31:14] [SPEAKER_06]: I was going to say.
[00:31:18] [SPEAKER_06]: All right.
[00:31:19] [SPEAKER_06]: Fuck.
[00:31:20] [SPEAKER_06]: Joe, you funny.
[00:31:20] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm sorry.
[00:31:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Say cool.
[00:31:25] [SPEAKER_06]: She expressed to me that, yo, I don't like how you hang up so fast.
[00:31:28] [SPEAKER_06]: It sound like you're banging out on me.
[00:31:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Right.
[00:31:30] [SPEAKER_06]: And the next argument we get into it.
[00:31:33] [SPEAKER_06]: I do the same shit.
[00:31:36] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo, you trying to, you trying to, I can see her saying, there you go.
[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Even if it was a slip up on my part where it is like, damn, like how fast.
[00:31:47] [SPEAKER_06]: I can still see her point of, yo, I just expressed to you this one thing and you do it the very next time.
[00:31:53] [SPEAKER_06]: You know, it's funny.
[00:31:54] [SPEAKER_03]: I did the same thing before my old show used to play your brown like waiting for my eye.
[00:31:58] [SPEAKER_03]: But I did it to the point was like, Oh, I'll hang up.
[00:32:00] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll play.
[00:32:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, right back.
[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I try to hit this shit.
[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Right back.
[00:32:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, I'll let you down later.
[00:32:07] [SPEAKER_04]: That's great work.
[00:32:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Because it's like, I don't want to hear.
[00:32:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't like arguing bro.
[00:32:12] [SPEAKER_03]: So I don't want to hear that shit.
[00:32:14] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo, for me, for me, I really mean it, bro.
[00:32:16] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't.
[00:32:18] [SPEAKER_06]: It's not that I don't think, yo, for me, arguing is not about winning or losing.
[00:32:22] [SPEAKER_06]: It's about the solution.
[00:32:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Like we have to find a solution to where a problem happened.
[00:32:25] [SPEAKER_06]: But before we find a solution, let's find an understanding.
[00:32:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Because what are we solving if we don't understand the problem?
[00:32:32] [SPEAKER_06]: And I feel like there's a lot of times where we get into these romantical situations where we try to solve something.
[00:32:38] [SPEAKER_06]: But we dead ass don't know what your where's the stemming from?
[00:32:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Tell the truth.
[00:32:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Where is the stemming from?
[00:32:43] [SPEAKER_06]: Don't be so embarrassed or ashamed that you may feel like a small part, you letting this small, my new problem develop into this large circumstance.
[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_06]: There's a problem.
[00:32:52] [SPEAKER_06]: Let's get back to the loving.
[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool, right?
[00:32:55] [SPEAKER_06]: Boom.
[00:32:56] [SPEAKER_06]: So that's why I speak up early.
[00:32:58] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo, this bothers me.
[00:33:01] [SPEAKER_06]: The next time you choose to do it.
[00:33:03] [SPEAKER_06]: It's in the same style where I told you that happened before.
[00:33:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Granted now, I could see what you're saying like, yo, maybe they slipped up.
[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_06]: Maybe it's a moment.
[00:33:13] [SPEAKER_06]: But you know I don't like it.
[00:33:15] [SPEAKER_06]: So the same way you can have the idea of like, yo, let me call her back and say, yo, I'm bugging my phone.
[00:33:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I know how that look.
[00:33:23] [SPEAKER_06]: That's not how it seems.
[00:33:24] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool.
[00:33:25] [SPEAKER_06]: That's the intent.
[00:33:26] [SPEAKER_06]: That's clarifying the intent.
[00:33:28] [SPEAKER_06]: You could still be mad that it happened, but at least I know you didn't intentionally see.
[00:33:31] [SPEAKER_06]: That's why I think premeditated murder is more time than a average murder.
[00:33:39] [SPEAKER_06]: Now murder and murder is murder, right?
[00:33:42] [SPEAKER_06]: But we may accidentally do something that say, we may accidentally do something that may cause the death.
[00:33:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Say, what's an accidental murder?
[00:33:55] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, not even an accidental murder.
[00:33:56] [SPEAKER_06]: The intent is not there.
[00:33:57] [SPEAKER_06]: Say, okay, we ran the red light.
[00:33:59] [SPEAKER_06]: We didn't intend to run over anybody but say somebody had a child on the stroller and they let it go.
[00:34:06] [SPEAKER_06]: And because we ran the red light, we ran that kid over and committed a murder.
[00:34:09] [SPEAKER_06]: We still got to do jail time.
[00:34:11] [SPEAKER_06]: Right?
[00:34:11] [SPEAKER_06]: God forbid, right?
[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_06]: Or we didn't wear a seatbelt.
[00:34:15] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:34:16] [SPEAKER_06]: And we got into a car accident.
[00:34:18] [SPEAKER_06]: We killed ourselves.
[00:34:19] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like that young brother with the truck.
[00:34:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Right.
[00:34:22] [SPEAKER_06]: The intent wasn't there.
[00:34:23] [SPEAKER_06]: It was an unforeseen circumstances that had some very consequences versus us coming home, angry.
[00:34:31] [SPEAKER_06]: We know we about to do something wrong.
[00:34:33] [SPEAKER_06]: We loaded up, planned it.
[00:34:36] [SPEAKER_06]: We had plenty of options to change our mind and just kept going with it.
[00:34:40] [SPEAKER_06]: You still did it.
[00:34:43] [SPEAKER_06]: That's why premeditated murder is a more heavier charge than the average murder because you had time to change.
[00:34:51] [SPEAKER_06]: Right?
[00:34:52] [SPEAKER_03]: And if that's your train of thought.
[00:34:54] [SPEAKER_06]: If that was your intent and you still followed through with it, then by all means, yo, you deserve what you deserve.
[00:35:01] [SPEAKER_06]: So if somebody had the intent of provoking me, I don't care if it was the smallest thing.
[00:35:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Like if I say, yo, after the dishes dry, just put them away.
[00:35:15] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't want to come home to a rack full of dishes.
[00:35:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Do you want me to start telling you, send me all the half?
[00:35:24] [SPEAKER_06]: You're not paying right here.
[00:35:25] [SPEAKER_06]: I pay right here.
[00:35:26] [SPEAKER_06]: Right?
[00:35:27] [SPEAKER_06]: Or as simple as you'll turn the light off.
[00:35:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Now me and you arguing you leave the house and all the lights on.
[00:35:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, that's some, that's some ass-o shit.
[00:35:35] [SPEAKER_06]: The intent is the intent for me.
[00:35:38] [SPEAKER_06]: It's not the shit you did because somebody be like, yo, I like you could have turned it off yourself.
[00:35:41] [SPEAKER_06]: You right.
[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_06]: But the intent behind it.
[00:35:43] [SPEAKER_03]: So you know I dislike that.
[00:35:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Why do I keep doing it?
[00:35:45] [SPEAKER_06]: So cool.
[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_06]: That's where I feel like that's where I feel like people lose me at because you think all
[00:35:51] [SPEAKER_02]: of these, um, actually do you think everything is intentional?
[00:35:55] [SPEAKER_06]: No, but you have to figure out the intent.
[00:35:58] [SPEAKER_02]: But Pete, I feel like we're, I feel like you're more on money.
[00:36:03] [SPEAKER_06]: If you tell me you don't like something, right?
[00:36:05] [SPEAKER_06]: You, you express to me, oh bro, I don't like that you do this.
[00:36:08] [SPEAKER_02]: No, I'm in full agreements with you.
[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm saying you're more mentally elevated than an average person.
[00:36:14] [SPEAKER_02]: So maybe it's the way I look at people.
[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_02]: I think more people are on autopilot and they're not thinking as much.
[00:36:21] [SPEAKER_02]: So maybe there is a benefit of that was what you're saying.
[00:36:23] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, maybe there isn't even any intent behind any situation.
[00:36:26] [SPEAKER_02]: It just happens.
[00:36:27] [SPEAKER_02]: But that's why how long, but how long can you do to benefit that?
[00:36:30] [SPEAKER_02]: That was the next thing.
[00:36:31] [SPEAKER_02]: Um, then the next thing I was going to ask is after you then say what you don't
[00:36:35] [SPEAKER_02]: like, do you give them time to fix what it is and give them time to make a mistake
[00:36:40] [SPEAKER_02]: one or two times because it's not going to be that easy.
[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_06]: You know, but you know what it is.
[00:36:45] [SPEAKER_06]: You also want to give the opportunity for people to retroactively fix it as well.
[00:36:51] [SPEAKER_06]: So the same way down would hang up and then be like, yo, my bad.
[00:36:56] [SPEAKER_06]: I didn't do that.
[00:36:57] [SPEAKER_06]: You could still be mad, but then you realize okay, he's where of it.
[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_06]: Maybe you see a slow change in the pace of how you hang up.
[00:37:06] [SPEAKER_06]: But if I say, yo, me you talking this, this, this, this
[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_06]: thumbs up thing seems a little passive aggressive.
[00:37:14] [SPEAKER_06]: There should be no passive aggression with us.
[00:37:16] [SPEAKER_06]: Let's talk it out.
[00:37:18] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, and another thing if all of a sudden you cursing, you may not,
[00:37:22] [SPEAKER_06]: there's a difference between somebody cursing at you or cursing.
[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_06]: Ain't no reason for that.
[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_06]: You using all these types of fucks in this stat in the third.
[00:37:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo bro, you not going to get a reaction out of me.
[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_06]: That's another thing you not zero to 100.
[00:37:36] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm realizing the real consequence comes when you react.
[00:37:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Facts.
[00:37:41] [SPEAKER_06]: So you could do whatever you want, right?
[00:37:44] [SPEAKER_06]: But the way I choose to react will determine the faith of all of this.
[00:37:48] [SPEAKER_03]: You not fucking listening?
[00:37:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Huh?
[00:37:50] [SPEAKER_06]: We having a regular conversation, you know, I'm expressing what you don't like.
[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_06]: I mean, what you don't like, you telling me what you don't like boom.
[00:38:00] [SPEAKER_06]: But now all of a sudden you equipped in your fucking ego.
[00:38:04] [SPEAKER_06]: Whoa, whoa.
[00:38:05] [SPEAKER_06]: I bet no ego for you.
[00:38:07] [SPEAKER_03]: This, this, no, this conversation is over.
[00:38:08] [SPEAKER_06]: It's over.
[00:38:09] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not, yo bro, you not even going to get a reaction out of me.
[00:38:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Because it on the opposite side is like now we're,
[00:38:15] [SPEAKER_03]: because it's all that off.
[00:38:17] [SPEAKER_06]: Now we're at fucking where the fuck you talking to?
[00:38:20] [SPEAKER_06]: You know what I'm saying?
[00:38:21] [SPEAKER_06]: There's no winning.
[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_06]: It's not that that's when I choose to leave where I realized like,
[00:38:25] [SPEAKER_06]: yo, this conversation is no longer about understanding each other.
[00:38:30] [SPEAKER_06]: You now took it to a place where this is about who wins and loses.
[00:38:34] [SPEAKER_06]: When it comes to women, bro.
[00:38:36] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not.
[00:38:37] [SPEAKER_06]: You got it.
[00:38:38] [SPEAKER_03]: You got it.
[00:38:40] [SPEAKER_03]: You got it.
[00:38:41] [SPEAKER_03]: You got it, sister.
[00:38:43] [SPEAKER_06]: You've seen an Olympics for shorty got punched in her mouth.
[00:38:46] [SPEAKER_06]: What time is like that?
[00:38:49] [SPEAKER_06]: She got hit so hard she thought it was a man.
[00:38:52] [SPEAKER_06]: She was like, fuck though.
[00:38:54] [SPEAKER_06]: That is me, bro.
[00:38:55] [SPEAKER_06]: When it comes to women and we get to a point where I feel like
[00:38:58] [SPEAKER_06]: the argument is now along about let's understand each other.
[00:39:01] [SPEAKER_06]: We don't even have to agree.
[00:39:02] [SPEAKER_06]: I could say, I may not agree with your point,
[00:39:05] [SPEAKER_06]: but I can understand where you coming from.
[00:39:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool.
[00:39:08] [SPEAKER_06]: I feel like that's healthy.
[00:39:10] [SPEAKER_06]: I get why you think like that.
[00:39:11] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't like that you think like that, but I get it.
[00:39:13] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool.
[00:39:14] [SPEAKER_06]: We could agree on that.
[00:39:15] [SPEAKER_06]: But now if it's on some like, oh, you just want to get your
[00:39:18] [SPEAKER_06]: shit off.
[00:39:18] [SPEAKER_06]: I ain't getting so you got it.
[00:39:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Just don't expect me to have a conversation with you.
[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm never going to respond, bro.
[00:39:23] [SPEAKER_06]: I literally had somebody, you know what sucks and I
[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_06]: ain't know how to feel about it.
[00:39:27] [SPEAKER_06]: But this happened to me twice in my lifetime.
[00:39:30] [SPEAKER_06]: Somebody told me they love me for the first time in the
[00:39:32] [SPEAKER_06]: argument.
[00:39:35] [SPEAKER_06]: To me in my mind, that's man.
[00:39:37] [SPEAKER_06]: Manipulative.
[00:39:39] [SPEAKER_06]: What you want me to buy pass for me?
[00:39:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Now here's the thing.
[00:39:42] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm the type of person.
[00:39:44] [SPEAKER_06]: If somebody tell me they love me whether I'm mad at them
[00:39:47] [SPEAKER_06]: or not, I'ma say it back because life is fragile.
[00:39:51] [SPEAKER_06]: So I would be, I would, it was suck for a person to
[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_06]: tell me they don't love me.
[00:39:56] [SPEAKER_06]: I mean they tell me they love me.
[00:39:58] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't say it back and something tragic happens to
[00:40:00] [SPEAKER_06]: them and I'm like, damn.
[00:40:01] [SPEAKER_03]: During an argument?
[00:40:02] [SPEAKER_06]: I love you too, but like nah.
[00:40:04] [SPEAKER_06]: Nah, but for the first time, it's the first time I'm hearing
[00:40:07] [SPEAKER_06]: this.
[00:40:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, I feel like you got to buy pass that, bro.
[00:40:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like that's just an easy-
[00:40:10] [SPEAKER_06]: I can't respond to that.
[00:40:12] [SPEAKER_06]: Like even if you-
[00:40:13] [SPEAKER_03]: That's a counter.
[00:40:14] [SPEAKER_06]: That's you do a counter.
[00:40:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, like we playing Yu-Gi-Oh.
[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_03]: You do a counter card or something.
[00:40:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Like there's a counter.
[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_02]: Was it in an actual manipulative way?
[00:40:22] [SPEAKER_02]: I can see where it's not.
[00:40:23] [SPEAKER_02]: That's all-
[00:40:24] [SPEAKER_02]: But that's, yeah, it's-
[00:40:25] [SPEAKER_06]: 93 Jordan right now.
[00:40:28] [SPEAKER_06]: That's all up for my interpretation.
[00:40:31] [SPEAKER_06]: And that's how I think sometimes my-
[00:40:36] [SPEAKER_06]: The way I choose to go about life is I realize at a kind of
[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_06]: late in life that like, yo, your life alters based off
[00:40:46] [SPEAKER_06]: of the reaction you make.
[00:40:48] [SPEAKER_06]: So I'm gonna scale this off of, yo, this was man manipulative
[00:40:53] [SPEAKER_06]: because where do I find the romance in us potentially never
[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_06]: speaking again, but the last thing you will tell me is
[00:41:04] [SPEAKER_06]: you love me?
[00:41:05] [SPEAKER_06]: Yo, you could have kept that to yourself, gay.
[00:41:08] [SPEAKER_06]: Because what am I-
[00:41:09] [SPEAKER_06]: What am I gonna do with it?
[00:41:09] [SPEAKER_06]: What am I doing with it?
[00:41:10] [SPEAKER_06]: We already kind of feel the vibe of this going this way.
[00:41:14] [SPEAKER_03]: What are you supposed to do with that?
[00:41:15] [SPEAKER_06]: Am I supposed to pull it back in while you still go
[00:41:18] [SPEAKER_06]: this way?
[00:41:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro, I already moved from a jet bridge, bro.
[00:41:21] [SPEAKER_03]: It's over.
[00:41:21] [SPEAKER_06]: Come on.
[00:41:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm gonna go.
[00:41:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro, they closed 15 minutes before the departure.
[00:41:26] [SPEAKER_03]: They always say it's a plane out of Uber.
[00:41:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, bro.
[00:41:29] [SPEAKER_06]: I just- I definitely didn't know how to-
[00:41:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Twice though?
[00:41:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah, that happened to me twice.
[00:41:36] [SPEAKER_06]: Neighbor was the first person to do that.
[00:41:38] [SPEAKER_06]: She called me girl with that.
[00:41:39] [SPEAKER_06]: I was like, oh, you too?
[00:41:40] [SPEAKER_06]: I should have left.
[00:41:42] [SPEAKER_06]: Fucked up everything.
[00:41:43] [SPEAKER_06]: Fucked up everything.
[00:41:44] [SPEAKER_03]: That's- that's- that's manipulative, bro.
[00:41:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm sorry, I can't not during the argument, bro.
[00:41:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Not during the argument.
[00:41:48] [SPEAKER_03]: It depends.
[00:41:50] [SPEAKER_03]: It depends how you say it though.
[00:41:52] [SPEAKER_03]: For the very first time, that's C.W.A.
[00:41:54] [SPEAKER_02]: That's something to say there.
[00:41:55] [SPEAKER_02]: For the first time?
[00:41:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Tell me, tell me, Kwani.
[00:41:57] [SPEAKER_02]: I think that, um...
[00:42:00] [SPEAKER_02]: I feel- well, I can speak for myself.
[00:42:02] [SPEAKER_02]: I've definitely felt-
[00:42:03] [SPEAKER_02]: You did that?
[00:42:04] [SPEAKER_02]: I haven't done it, but I'm saying I can see it.
[00:42:06] [SPEAKER_02]: Um, shit, it would just-
[00:42:07] [SPEAKER_02]: I think about the other side of things
[00:42:09] [SPEAKER_02]: because shit don't really be that bad
[00:42:11] [SPEAKER_02]: or maybe the way people say it.
[00:42:13] [SPEAKER_02]: What is this thing that you're saying is bad?
[00:42:14] [SPEAKER_02]: Tell me this thing is the best part.
[00:42:15] [SPEAKER_06]: So if I search- if I search and find it-
[00:42:17] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm not saying that-
[00:42:20] [SPEAKER_02]: I'ma ask.
[00:42:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I'ma leave it up to you.
[00:42:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Let me search for it.
[00:42:23] [SPEAKER_06]: My thing is, right?
[00:42:24] [SPEAKER_02]: Like, if we're getting into it
[00:42:26] [SPEAKER_02]: and we have an argument
[00:42:26] [SPEAKER_02]: and it's getting to the point where
[00:42:28] [SPEAKER_02]: we really might not talk
[00:42:29] [SPEAKER_02]: and I'm really thinking of my life
[00:42:31] [SPEAKER_02]: without you in it
[00:42:32] [SPEAKER_02]: and I'm like, nah,
[00:42:33] [SPEAKER_02]: actually do love you.
[00:42:34] [SPEAKER_02]: Like this is-
[00:42:35] [SPEAKER_02]: what we're arguing about,
[00:42:36] [SPEAKER_02]: it don't even matter.
[00:42:37] [SPEAKER_02]: Like this is dumb,
[00:42:38] [SPEAKER_02]: I would have whatever.
[00:42:39] [SPEAKER_02]: I could be-
[00:42:40] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh, I'm not saying that happened.
[00:42:41] [SPEAKER_02]: I'm just saying.
[00:42:41] [SPEAKER_02]: So if it's like that,
[00:42:43] [SPEAKER_02]: that's different though.
[00:42:43] [SPEAKER_02]: But it's more like,
[00:42:44] [SPEAKER_03]: yo, I feel like that's like
[00:42:46] [SPEAKER_03]: me having my hands up
[00:42:47] [SPEAKER_03]: and then you say,
[00:42:48] [SPEAKER_03]: yo, I love you.
[00:42:48] [SPEAKER_03]: It's like-
[00:42:49] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah, that's me.
[00:42:50] [SPEAKER_02]: I can see it.
[00:42:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Like, you hear it?
[00:42:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Like what we arguing about?
[00:42:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Let's fuck.
[00:42:56] [SPEAKER_03]: It's also baby boy shit like,
[00:42:58] [SPEAKER_03]: yo, what?
[00:42:58] [SPEAKER_06]: I love you, Jody.
[00:43:00] [SPEAKER_03]: I love you too.
[00:43:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not gonna watch BT Man Long.
[00:43:05] [SPEAKER_06]: But, uh,
[00:43:06] [SPEAKER_06]: but yeah,
[00:43:07] [SPEAKER_06]: so, oh damn,
[00:43:08] [SPEAKER_06]: another thing about-
[00:43:09] [SPEAKER_06]: fuck, I lost my train of thought.
[00:43:12] [SPEAKER_06]: Fuck.
[00:43:13] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm lucky, but-
[00:43:14] [SPEAKER_06]: zero, um,
[00:43:16] [SPEAKER_06]: but yeah,
[00:43:17] [SPEAKER_06]: I was saying that our life alters
[00:43:20] [SPEAKER_06]: based off of the decisions we make
[00:43:22] [SPEAKER_06]: and
[00:43:24] [SPEAKER_06]: you can't control what happens to you,
[00:43:27] [SPEAKER_06]: obviously,
[00:43:28] [SPEAKER_06]: but you could control how you react.
[00:43:31] [SPEAKER_03]: And that's the biggest thing.
[00:43:32] [SPEAKER_06]: And for me,
[00:43:34] [SPEAKER_06]: I kinda-
[00:43:35] [SPEAKER_06]: where I'm at in my life,
[00:43:38] [SPEAKER_06]: I'd rather keep it to a bare minimum
[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_06]: of my reaction,
[00:43:41] [SPEAKER_06]: not going anywhere past a quarter.
[00:43:44] [SPEAKER_03]: No.
[00:43:45] [SPEAKER_03]: My thing is like-
[00:43:46] [SPEAKER_06]: Oh, I remember what I was saying.
[00:43:48] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
[00:43:49] [SPEAKER_03]: I found it.
[00:43:51] [SPEAKER_06]: So,
[00:43:52] [SPEAKER_06]: and I'll tell you,
[00:43:52] [SPEAKER_06]: and I'll tell you one of the best things
[00:43:55] [SPEAKER_06]: to help with your reaction
[00:43:58] [SPEAKER_06]: is giving yourself time.
[00:44:00] [SPEAKER_06]: Because
[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_06]: if we were recorded last weekend,
[00:44:04] [SPEAKER_06]: the shit I was gonna say
[00:44:05] [SPEAKER_06]: was going to be
[00:44:09] [SPEAKER_03]: crazy.
[00:44:10] [SPEAKER_03]: You told my siblings
[00:44:10] [SPEAKER_03]: when you were on your way to Dijkley.
[00:44:12] [SPEAKER_06]: Yeah,
[00:44:12] [SPEAKER_06]: what I was gonna-
[00:44:13] [SPEAKER_06]: I'll tell you for that.
[00:44:15] [SPEAKER_06]: What I wanted to address
[00:44:19] [SPEAKER_06]: so badly
[00:44:20] [SPEAKER_06]: in the way I was gonna say it,
[00:44:23] [SPEAKER_03]: a week-
[00:44:24] [SPEAKER_03]: It wasn't you.
[00:44:25] [SPEAKER_06]: A week late, no, it's me.
[00:44:27] [SPEAKER_06]: A week later,
[00:44:29] [SPEAKER_06]: not every recording a week
[00:44:31] [SPEAKER_06]: after that,
[00:44:32] [SPEAKER_06]: the way I felt,
[00:44:34] [SPEAKER_06]: I was able to cool down
[00:44:35] [SPEAKER_06]: and see if I could say this another way.
[00:44:38] [SPEAKER_06]: And I did.
[00:44:39] [SPEAKER_06]: So, I'ma say it now.
[00:44:43] [SPEAKER_06]: Good job.
[00:44:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I need to scale in on this.
[00:44:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Good, Zulm.
[00:44:49] [SPEAKER_06]: When we pod
[00:44:51] [SPEAKER_06]: and we pod from
[00:44:53] [SPEAKER_06]: the standpoint of
[00:44:55] [SPEAKER_06]: what we've been through,
[00:44:57] [SPEAKER_06]: it's our perspective
[00:44:59] [SPEAKER_06]: or our situation that we speak on.
[00:45:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Or it may be other people
[00:45:05] [SPEAKER_06]: and we're just speaking
[00:45:06] [SPEAKER_06]: as if it was us
[00:45:08] [SPEAKER_06]: to protect their identity
[00:45:10] [SPEAKER_06]: in their situation.
[00:45:12] [SPEAKER_06]: But I say that to say this.
[00:45:15] [SPEAKER_06]: If you are not sure
[00:45:17] [SPEAKER_06]: who we are talking about,
[00:45:19] [SPEAKER_06]: please do not send
[00:45:21] [SPEAKER_06]: any clips of
[00:45:22] [SPEAKER_06]: what's a good guy
[00:45:23] [SPEAKER_06]: to our exes
[00:45:25] [SPEAKER_06]: and start trouble.
[00:45:28] [SPEAKER_06]: That is corny,
[00:45:30] [SPEAKER_06]: empathetic
[00:45:31] [SPEAKER_06]: and you need a life
[00:45:34] [SPEAKER_06]: over at one.
[00:45:35] [SPEAKER_06]: Almost.
[00:45:36] [SPEAKER_06]: You all-
[00:45:38] [SPEAKER_03]: That's the answer.
[00:45:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll take that one.
[00:45:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay.
[00:45:40] [SPEAKER_03]: All right.
[00:45:41] [SPEAKER_06]: Send in the clip.
[00:45:45] [SPEAKER_06]: Send in the clip
[00:45:46] [SPEAKER_06]: and being like,
[00:45:47] [SPEAKER_06]: Don is talking about you.
[00:45:49] [SPEAKER_06]: Kodjo is talking about you.
[00:45:50] [SPEAKER_06]: Kwanee is talking about you.
[00:45:51] [SPEAKER_06]: L.A. is talking about you.
[00:45:53] [SPEAKER_06]: And to be wrong
[00:45:55] [SPEAKER_03]: wrong is wrong.
[00:45:56] [SPEAKER_06]: Wrong. Like dead wrong.
[00:46:00] [SPEAKER_06]: Cool.
[00:46:02] [SPEAKER_06]: Now
[00:46:03] [SPEAKER_06]: I don't know where y'all stand
[00:46:05] [SPEAKER_06]: on people owning you things
[00:46:08] [SPEAKER_06]: but for me
[00:46:10] [SPEAKER_06]: my frustration comes
[00:46:12] [SPEAKER_06]: when the receiver of the podcast clip
[00:46:16] [SPEAKER_06]: knows that I wasn't-
[00:46:18] [SPEAKER_06]: know that I was not talking about them
[00:46:20] [SPEAKER_06]: and don't shut that down.
[00:46:22] [SPEAKER_06]: Because now you're allowing
[00:46:24] [SPEAKER_06]: this narrative that has
[00:46:26] [SPEAKER_06]: nothing to do about you
[00:46:27] [SPEAKER_06]: to take life.
[00:46:29] [SPEAKER_06]: Some people are influenced
[00:46:30] [SPEAKER_03]: by the people around them so
[00:46:32] [SPEAKER_06]: that makes me go from
[00:46:35] [SPEAKER_06]: 100 to 0.
[00:46:37] [SPEAKER_06]: Real quick.
[00:46:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Like 0 to 100.
[00:46:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Now I'm telling you.
[00:46:41] [SPEAKER_06]: When it was first-
[00:46:42] [SPEAKER_06]: especially the people that it was
[00:46:44] [SPEAKER_06]: the senders
[00:46:47] [SPEAKER_06]: was getting me 0 to 100
[00:46:49] [SPEAKER_06]: because there's so many other things
[00:46:51] [SPEAKER_06]: you could have been doing in your life
[00:46:53] [SPEAKER_06]: and you know what sucks?
[00:46:56] [SPEAKER_06]: When we say-
[00:46:57] [SPEAKER_06]: or I say
[00:46:59] [SPEAKER_06]: yo nobody on this pod
[00:47:01] [SPEAKER_06]: whatever the topic is about
[00:47:03] [SPEAKER_06]: has nothing to do
[00:47:05] [SPEAKER_06]: with anybody on the pod
[00:47:07] [SPEAKER_06]: and the people on the pod receive it.
[00:47:09] [SPEAKER_06]: That's another reason why I don't know
[00:47:11] [SPEAKER_06]: if I'm going past 300
[00:47:12] [SPEAKER_06]: because this is corny
[00:47:15] [SPEAKER_06]: corny to the highest degree
[00:47:17] [SPEAKER_06]: and if I react
[00:47:19] [SPEAKER_06]: the way I want it to react
[00:47:21] [SPEAKER_06]: I would be wrong.
[00:47:23] [SPEAKER_06]: And remember what I said earlier
[00:47:25] [SPEAKER_06]: when it comes to certain arguments
[00:47:27] [SPEAKER_06]: it's no longer about understanding
[00:47:28] [SPEAKER_06]: it's about winning or losing
[00:47:29] [SPEAKER_06]: and if I know I'ma end up
[00:47:31] [SPEAKER_06]: the loser in the situation
[00:47:32] [SPEAKER_06]: I'ma just have to gracefully bow out
[00:47:35] [SPEAKER_06]: but that I don't like because
[00:47:38] [SPEAKER_06]: you causing mad mischief
[00:47:40] [SPEAKER_06]: in your life
[00:47:41] [SPEAKER_06]: where there's so many things to do
[00:47:43] [SPEAKER_06]: like stop doing that bro
[00:47:46] [SPEAKER_06]: like that
[00:47:46] [SPEAKER_06]: but for me
[00:47:47] [SPEAKER_06]: I just
[00:47:49] [SPEAKER_06]: I was really pissed about that because
[00:47:52] [SPEAKER_06]: that should have never hit my doorstep
[00:47:54] [SPEAKER_06]: and that should have never left any doorstep
[00:47:55] [SPEAKER_06]: and I think the way I edit the pod
[00:47:58] [SPEAKER_06]: I go through that shit so much
[00:48:01] [SPEAKER_06]: and I take out some of the hottest shit
[00:48:03] [SPEAKER_06]: that I feel like
[00:48:06] [SPEAKER_06]: niggas gonna love this
[00:48:07] [SPEAKER_06]: but at what cost
[00:48:08] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not gonna fuck up
[00:48:09] [SPEAKER_06]: in any of my niggas relationships
[00:48:11] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm not gonna do anything that I feel like
[00:48:13] [SPEAKER_06]: if maybe something may get under the table
[00:48:16] [SPEAKER_06]: but that's because I overanalyze it
[00:48:18] [SPEAKER_06]: and I be like damn
[00:48:18] [SPEAKER_06]: it can't be that bad
[00:48:20] [SPEAKER_06]: and then it end up being that bad
[00:48:21] [SPEAKER_06]: there's so many
[00:48:22] [SPEAKER_06]: yo bro you think we
[00:48:23] [SPEAKER_06]: not where we supposed to be
[00:48:25] [SPEAKER_06]: you should hear the unedited version of this show
[00:48:29] [SPEAKER_06]: we be out of here
[00:48:30] [SPEAKER_06]: we would be fucking out of here bro
[00:48:33] [SPEAKER_06]: but we
[00:48:34] [SPEAKER_06]: it's a level of
[00:48:35] [SPEAKER_06]: yo
[00:48:36] [SPEAKER_06]: that ain't right
[00:48:37] [SPEAKER_06]: intent
[00:48:38] [SPEAKER_06]: intent
[00:48:39] [SPEAKER_06]: our intentions is not to cause no ruckus
[00:48:41] [SPEAKER_06]: no mayhem to use this platform
[00:48:43] [SPEAKER_06]: except for today
[00:48:44] [SPEAKER_06]: I had to do it
[00:48:45] [SPEAKER_06]: to use this platform to talk down on anyone
[00:48:49] [SPEAKER_06]: but at the same time like yo
[00:48:52] [SPEAKER_06]: I also am a believer don't start no shit
[00:48:55] [SPEAKER_06]: won't be no shit
[00:48:56] [SPEAKER_06]: like yo
[00:48:57] [SPEAKER_06]: there's pills that can make you shit it out
[00:48:59] [SPEAKER_06]: and lose the weight
[00:49:00] [SPEAKER_06]: there's so many other options
[00:49:02] [SPEAKER_06]: people could have done it like then to be sending a clip saying yo
[00:49:06] [SPEAKER_06]: you hear what LeSean talking about
[00:49:08] [SPEAKER_06]: yo
[00:49:09] [SPEAKER_06]: LeSean wasn't even talking
[00:49:11] [SPEAKER_06]: yo bro I can't continue like that bro
[00:49:14] [SPEAKER_06]: I'm sorry
[00:49:16] [SPEAKER_06]: so many other options
[00:49:17] [SPEAKER_06]: they got trainers bro
[00:49:19] [SPEAKER_06]: but yeah
[00:49:20] [SPEAKER_03]: 0-200
[00:49:21] [SPEAKER_03]: real quick
[00:49:23] [SPEAKER_03]: but I
[00:49:24] [SPEAKER_03]: what's going on that note
[00:49:26] [SPEAKER_03]: you already know what it is
[00:49:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Don Peezley
[00:49:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Don the camera guy
[00:49:30] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm also Don Fennis
[00:49:33] [SPEAKER_06]: Donnish yo bro
[00:49:34] [SPEAKER_06]: Donnish yo
[00:49:35] [SPEAKER_06]: there's so many other things
[00:49:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I had to stop, I was just trolling
[00:49:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Mr. Wavy in it
[00:49:40] [SPEAKER_03]: signed in New York
[00:49:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Joe on the school got game
[00:49:44] [SPEAKER_03]: just to create a fellas of the building
[00:49:46] [SPEAKER_06]: yeah you can follow me at StayFocusL.a
[00:49:48] [SPEAKER_06]: on Instagram and Twitter
[00:49:49] [SPEAKER_06]: don't forget to like comment
[00:49:50] [SPEAKER_03]: StayFocusL.a
[00:49:51] [SPEAKER_03]: for this
[00:49:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I mean show us if you say that
[00:49:53] [SPEAKER_03]: I want to
[00:49:54] [SPEAKER_06]: follow all things what's a good guy
[00:49:56] [SPEAKER_06]: or don't follow us bro
[00:49:59] [SPEAKER_03]: don't
[00:49:59] [SPEAKER_03]: follow us
[00:50:00] [SPEAKER_03]: oh what's a good guy
[00:50:01] [SPEAKER_06]: you know what the corny shit was too
[00:50:04] [SPEAKER_06]: the video right
[00:50:05] [SPEAKER_06]: like on Instagram
[00:50:06] [SPEAKER_06]: it'll show you how many shares it has
[00:50:09] [SPEAKER_06]: right
[00:50:09] [SPEAKER_06]: so like that clip had like
[00:50:11] [SPEAKER_06]: let's say 40 shares
[00:50:14] [SPEAKER_06]: and you know you can see the people that shared it
[00:50:17] [SPEAKER_06]: right
[00:50:17] [SPEAKER_06]: if it's the same day
[00:50:19] [SPEAKER_06]: the same 34 hours you can see how many people
[00:50:21] [SPEAKER_06]: so I'm counting, it got 40 shares
[00:50:23] [SPEAKER_06]: I count it's
[00:50:24] [SPEAKER_06]: 36
[00:50:25] [SPEAKER_06]: right
[00:50:25] [SPEAKER_06]: like I
[00:50:27] [SPEAKER_06]: it's those four people
[00:50:28] [SPEAKER_06]: whatever whatever that didn't post it to the story
[00:50:30] [SPEAKER_06]: but they shared it
[00:50:32] [SPEAKER_06]: they got go to the views
[00:50:33] [SPEAKER_06]: you know you go to the views on the story
[00:50:35] [SPEAKER_06]: you go all the way at the bottom
[00:50:36] [SPEAKER_06]: you can see who don't follow you
[00:50:39] [SPEAKER_06]: it's them four stooges
[00:50:45] [SPEAKER_03]: until next week
[00:50:46] [SPEAKER_03]: at the end of the day
[00:50:48] [SPEAKER_03]: everyone at 8 a.m. man
[00:50:50] [SPEAKER_03]: like, comment, subscribe
[00:50:51] [SPEAKER_03]: all things what's a good guy
[00:50:52] [SPEAKER_06]: facts and God is good bro

