Episode 278: Settle Down (I Need My Half)

[00:00:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, Turn The Cameras Around So We Can See What We Looking On

[00:00:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh The Olympic Sixes Drop?

[00:00:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Did They? Shot?

[00:00:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, 2024 Version

[00:00:26] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, Nah I Knew They Was Coming

[00:00:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh Wow

[00:00:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Why Not The Sevens? I Need The Sevens

[00:00:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey Michelle, I Can't believe I Got Stucked Up

[00:00:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Cause I Got Booked For Shit

[00:00:36] [SPEAKER_00]: You Got Robbed?

[00:00:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Not Really Robbed

[00:00:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah

[00:00:39] [SPEAKER_00]: I Left Them With My Sneaker Restorer

[00:00:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh Trey, He Never Gave Them Back?

[00:00:45] [SPEAKER_00]: You Never Bro

[00:00:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Jesus God

[00:00:47] [SPEAKER_03]: And You Let He Walk In Alive Free?

[00:00:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I Don't Know Where That Nigga Is

[00:00:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh Maybe He Went To Jail Or Something

[00:00:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe He Ain't Bokele

[00:00:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Just Disappeared Off The Face Of Earth

[00:00:57] [SPEAKER_00]: My Father Love The Game Ones Too Bro

[00:00:59] [SPEAKER_03]: The One With The Crescent

[00:01:01] [SPEAKER_03]: With The Heart

[00:01:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh I Have Those

[00:01:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh

[00:01:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh Damn

[00:01:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I Try Not To Think About The Mission

[00:01:10] [SPEAKER_03]: They Actually Came Out On My Birthday

[00:01:13] [SPEAKER_03]: They Came Out On My Birthday

[00:01:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Is That August Drop?

[00:01:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I Don't Remember

[00:01:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Mmhmm

[00:01:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey man, I Got Enough Sneakers

[00:01:20] [SPEAKER_00]: Wow

[00:01:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Action Pack

[00:01:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Ready?

[00:01:23] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah

[00:01:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Three, two, one

[00:01:26] [SPEAKER_01]: You already know what it is out there

[00:01:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Podcast land

[00:01:29] [SPEAKER_01]: She Most Ever Lovers As Always Don Peasley

[00:01:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Alongside of LaShawn

[00:01:32] [SPEAKER_01]: It's a Beautiful Day Here In Brooklyn

[00:01:35] [SPEAKER_01]: We're Having A Great Time Here

[00:01:37] [SPEAKER_01]: The Fellows In The Building

[00:01:38] [SPEAKER_01]: I Want To Shout Out To All Y'all For Like, Comment, Subscribe

[00:01:40] [SPEAKER_01]: And Doing Everything I Do Every Week

[00:01:41] [SPEAKER_01]: We Do Appreciate Y'all For Having Listen To That Last Episode

[00:01:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Please Do So

[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Mmhmm

[00:01:44] [SPEAKER_01]: Hopefully You Woke Up This Morning Whatever Time You Listening To This With Love

[00:01:48] [SPEAKER_01]: And Loving Your Heart And A Day Of Peace

[00:01:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Buggin'

[00:01:52] [SPEAKER_03]: I Stand Corrected

[00:01:53] [SPEAKER_03]: They Came Out August 14th

[00:01:55] [SPEAKER_01]: They're Talking About

[00:01:55] [SPEAKER_01]: 2010

[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah

[00:01:56] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Was Able To Get The From My

[00:01:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Love The Peace

[00:01:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Elite Release Right There

[00:02:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah

[00:02:01] [SPEAKER_00]: Damn

[00:02:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Rob Cojo

[00:02:05] [SPEAKER_00]: See How Stories Start?

[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro

[00:02:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Now I'm Pussy

[00:02:08] [SPEAKER_00]: I Got Bulls For My Chain

[00:02:09] [SPEAKER_01]: All That

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I Know

[00:02:10] [SPEAKER_01]: I Know

[00:02:11] [SPEAKER_01]: We Got Kwanster In The Building

[00:02:14] [SPEAKER_01]: We Got Joe Knows Everything In The Building

[00:02:16] [SPEAKER_01]: And We Got My Good Brother Here

[00:02:18] [SPEAKER_01]: That Lay In The Building

[00:02:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo What's Up Y'all How Y'all Doing?

[00:02:21] [SPEAKER_01]: I Like That

[00:02:22] [SPEAKER_01]: You Got Your Smooth Voice On

[00:02:23] [SPEAKER_01]: You Deserve This

[00:02:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I Couldn't Help Myself

[00:02:29] [SPEAKER_01]: What's Going On Man How's Everybody Feeling

[00:02:31] [SPEAKER_01]: What's Everybody's Mental Lookal Like

[00:02:32] [SPEAKER_01]: What's Up You Know

[00:02:34] [SPEAKER_01]: How's Everybody Week

[00:02:35] [SPEAKER_03]: My Week Was Long As Usual

[00:02:38] [SPEAKER_03]: My Week Is Never Gonna Change

[00:02:40] [SPEAKER_03]: I Feel Like Everybody's Tired Of Hearing That

[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_03]: But Yeah

[00:02:43] [SPEAKER_01]: My Week Was Long As Fuck

[00:02:45] [SPEAKER_01]: So I Laid Detached From The Universe For A Few Days

[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo

[00:02:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Text Me From His Burner Phone

[00:02:51] [SPEAKER_01]: You Was Cursing On That Burner Phone Too

[00:02:52] [SPEAKER_01]: I Was Like Let Me Stop Cursing On This Shit

[00:02:55] [SPEAKER_02]: Wait Did You Text His Other Phone And It Turn Green?

[00:02:57] [SPEAKER_02]: Oh He

[00:02:58] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga Probably Blocked

[00:03:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Kojo Text Me Like Yo I'm Blocked

[00:03:03] [SPEAKER_03]: No I Didn't Even Have My Phone For Three Days Bro

[00:03:06] [SPEAKER_03]: So

[00:03:07] [SPEAKER_03]: What Happened

[00:03:10] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Getting Ready For Work

[00:03:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Thursday Morning

[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_03]: And

[00:03:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Right Before I Leave My Apartment

[00:03:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I Always Close All My Doors

[00:03:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Close The Bathroom Door

[00:03:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Close My Bedroom Door

[00:03:19] [SPEAKER_03]: And I Realized I Left My Phone On The Charger

[00:03:22] [SPEAKER_03]: So I Try To Go Back In My Room

[00:03:24] [SPEAKER_03]: My Door Won't Open

[00:03:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Like That Shit Is Not Opening

[00:03:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I Was Trippin'

[00:03:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Like

[00:03:30] [SPEAKER_03]: So I Had A Choice

[00:03:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I Either Go To Work

[00:03:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Without My Phone

[00:03:33] [SPEAKER_03]: For Two And Five Days

[00:03:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Or Call Out

[00:03:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Call Out

[00:03:37] [SPEAKER_03]: The Call Out Window Is Three Hours Before Your Report

[00:03:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Already

[00:03:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Forty Five Minutes

[00:03:43] [SPEAKER_03]: So I'm Like

[00:03:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Fuck It No Phone

[00:03:46] [SPEAKER_00]: That Shit Sound Peaceful

[00:03:47] [SPEAKER_00]: What Are You Talking About?

[00:03:48] [SPEAKER_00]: That Shit Was

[00:03:49] [SPEAKER_03]: It Wasn't

[00:03:50] [SPEAKER_03]: What?

[00:03:51] [SPEAKER_03]: All Them Niggas Talking About We Need To Disconnect With The World

[00:03:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Not Me

[00:03:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Know What The Fuck Was Going On

[00:03:59] [SPEAKER_03]: That Shit Didn't Bring Me No Peace Nigga

[00:04:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I Like My Phone

[00:04:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I Ain't Seen No Baddies For Two Days

[00:04:06] [SPEAKER_03]: You Ain't Seen Nothing At Work?

[00:04:09] [SPEAKER_03]: No

[00:04:10] [SPEAKER_03]: This World Ain't Full Of Beautiful People

[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_03]: That's Cap

[00:04:12] [SPEAKER_03]: It's Just On Twitter

[00:04:15] [SPEAKER_00]: That's Crazy to Say Bro

[00:04:16] [SPEAKER_03]: But On My Way Back

[00:04:19] [SPEAKER_03]: On My Way Back

[00:04:20] [SPEAKER_03]: On My Way Back

[00:04:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?

[00:04:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I Was Like

[00:04:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I Was

[00:04:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I Worked Three Flights That Day

[00:04:26] [SPEAKER_03]: And On My Way Back

[00:04:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Sitting In The Back Of The Plane

[00:04:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Thinking I'm Thinking I'm Thinking

[00:04:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Like When I Get Back In The Crib

[00:04:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I Got Dishes To Wash

[00:04:33] [SPEAKER_03]: I'ma Take A Nice Shower

[00:04:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I'ma Go To Bed

[00:04:36] [SPEAKER_03]: And Something In My Head Hit Me Like

[00:04:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo Imagine If You Had To Go Home

[00:04:41] [SPEAKER_03]: To A Child And I Gotta Go Home

[00:04:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:04:45] [SPEAKER_03]: That's What You Thinking About?

[00:04:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Like Kids

[00:04:47] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Wanna Do This Shit

[00:04:48] [SPEAKER_03]: This Guy Is Crazy

[00:04:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Like A Day Like That

[00:04:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I Just I Came Home

[00:04:52] [SPEAKER_03]: I Showered

[00:04:53] [SPEAKER_03]: You Ain't Gonna Be A Rubber Nobody What You So

[00:04:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I Washed My Dishes

[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Clean

[00:04:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I Cleaned Up

[00:04:58] [SPEAKER_03]: And I Was Butt Ass

[00:05:00] [SPEAKER_03]: And I'm Like Yo

[00:05:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I Like This Shit Man

[00:05:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Know

[00:05:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Know What This

[00:05:06] [SPEAKER_03]: This Version Of

[00:05:08] [SPEAKER_03]: What They Call It Settling Down

[00:05:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Look Like

[00:05:11] [SPEAKER_03]: After A Long Day Like That

[00:05:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Wanna Hit Nobody Mouth

[00:05:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Talking About Daddy

[00:05:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Unless It's Somebody

[00:05:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Daddy Daddy

[00:05:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Like That

[00:05:20] [SPEAKER_03]: But A Little Bit More Softer

[00:05:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I Had A Good Joke

[00:05:24] [SPEAKER_01]: I Had A Good Joke To Add There

[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Not Gonna Go

[00:05:25] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know What I'm Saying

[00:05:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Like That's The Only Daddy

[00:05:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I Wanna Hear

[00:05:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Imagine You Come Home

[00:05:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo

[00:05:32] [SPEAKER_03]: You Shorty Completed

[00:05:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro That's The

[00:05:35] [SPEAKER_03]: You See This Roof

[00:05:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro I Had A Jumped Off That Shit

[00:05:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh Man

[00:05:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Dark As Fuck

[00:05:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Like Yo

[00:05:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Certain Times Where I'm Like Damn

[00:05:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I Don't Know If I Might Have It In Me To Like Actually

[00:05:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Quote On Quote Settle Down At Times Because

[00:05:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I Think I'm Still In Like In A

[00:05:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Not A Selfish Phase

[00:05:53] [SPEAKER_03]: That's About You

[00:05:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah And I'm Just Like Damn

[00:05:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I Don't Know That's A Whole Nother Responsibility

[00:06:00] [SPEAKER_03]: But Last Episode We Talked About Doing This Pod Episode Called Settling Down

[00:06:06] [SPEAKER_03]: So I Want To Dive Into That

[00:06:10] [SPEAKER_03]: So My Notes

[00:06:14] [SPEAKER_03]: What Do You Think Your Personal Take On The Term Settle Down

[00:06:21] [SPEAKER_01]: Actually It Changed After You Said Like I Don't You Don't Like The Phrase Of It

[00:06:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Settling Down Like Nobody Wants To Settle

[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah

[00:06:27] [SPEAKER_01]: So I Just I Don't I Don't Like That

[00:06:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I Just I Just Don't Like It Anymore

[00:06:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah For Me For Me I

[00:06:34] [SPEAKER_03]: As Crazy As It Sound I Feel Like You Could Go Your Whole Life

[00:06:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Searching For Something Or Someone

[00:06:39] [SPEAKER_03]: And Quote On Quote You Always

[00:06:41] [SPEAKER_03]: You Always You Always

[00:06:44] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know How They Say You Can Always Find Somebody Cuter

[00:06:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Whatever Whatever Whatever Whatever

[00:06:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Whatever The Intangibles You Looking For You Can Always Find Somebody Better Than That

[00:06:51] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Never Want To Feel Like I'm Stuck With A Person Or The Person

[00:06:56] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Picking A Person Because I Feel Like My Search Is Over

[00:07:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Not My Search Is Over In The Sense Of

[00:07:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I Found It

[00:07:06] [SPEAKER_03]: More So Of I This Is What I Got

[00:07:08] [SPEAKER_03]: I Probably Can't Do No Better

[00:07:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:07:12] [SPEAKER_01]: That Is That Sounds Like Giving Up At The Same Time

[00:07:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Exactly

[00:07:16] [SPEAKER_01]: I Feel Like

[00:07:17] [SPEAKER_01]: It Is It Sounds Giving Up

[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Like You Giving Up

[00:07:18] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Like Yo Bro You Looking For A Million Dollars

[00:07:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Say Yo Nah I Found A Hundred K I'm Good

[00:07:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah Oh I Feel Like

[00:07:24] [SPEAKER_01]: You Got Half A Ticket

[00:07:25] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Like Nah

[00:07:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Somebody Self Esteem Could Also Play A Part In That

[00:07:28] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know Where People

[00:07:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Quote On Quote Oh

[00:07:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn

[00:07:34] [SPEAKER_03]: I Hope You Don't Feel No Type Of Way

[00:07:35] [SPEAKER_03]: You Might Know What I'm Talking About

[00:07:37] [SPEAKER_03]: But

[00:07:40] [SPEAKER_03]: A Friend Of Ours

[00:07:41] [SPEAKER_03]: She Stayed In A Relationship Long Enough

[00:07:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Until She

[00:07:46] [SPEAKER_03]: She Had Reached Like An Immense Breaking Point

[00:07:48] [SPEAKER_03]: But The Reason Why She Didn't Leave Soon Is Because She Didn't Want To Start Over

[00:07:53] [SPEAKER_03]: But She Settled For Him For Man Long Because She Didn't Want To Start Over

[00:07:58] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know What I'm Saying?

[00:08:00] [SPEAKER_03]: And That Entailed

[00:08:01] [SPEAKER_03]: Came With Her Realizing She Wasted A Bunch Of Time And This That And The Third But

[00:08:06] [SPEAKER_03]: There Gotta Be More People Like That

[00:08:08] [SPEAKER_03]: That Like Don't Want To Start Over

[00:08:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't Want To Search

[00:08:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't Feel Like They Gonna Find Somebody Who Won'T Treat Them Better

[00:08:13] [SPEAKER_01]: I Feel Like We Always Talk About That Like

[00:08:15] [SPEAKER_01]: Nobody Wants To

[00:08:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Getting Back Into That Dane Life

[00:08:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Nobody Wants To

[00:08:18] [SPEAKER_01]: What's Your Favorite Color?

[00:08:19] [SPEAKER_01]: No

[00:08:20] [SPEAKER_01]: I Can't

[00:08:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Start Over Is Beautiful

[00:08:22] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Beautiful But Sometimes We Get Tired Of It

[00:08:24] [SPEAKER_01]: If You In That Dating World Where You Keep Asking What's Your Favorite Color

[00:08:27] [SPEAKER_01]: What Do You Like To Eat

[00:08:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Get Tired Of Fucking Answer That Question

[00:08:30] [SPEAKER_01]: You Want Somebody That You Know All This Shit Already

[00:08:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I Just Looked Up The Definition Of The Word Settle

[00:08:35] [SPEAKER_00]: It's Like So Many Different Like Ways To Describe

[00:08:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Which One Grabbed Y'all Up?

[00:08:45] [SPEAKER_00]: Sheesh

[00:08:47] [SPEAKER_03]: What's The First One?

[00:08:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay Yeah This One

[00:08:49] [SPEAKER_00]: This One No This Is The One I Really

[00:08:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I Think Comes To Mind First For Me

[00:08:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Is To Quiet, Calm Or Bring To Rest

[00:08:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Bring To Rest Sounds Crazy

[00:09:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Right Because No No

[00:09:01] [SPEAKER_00]: You Guys Talk About Settling Down

[00:09:02] [SPEAKER_00]: The First Thing That Comes To Mind Without Reading Any Definitions For Me Is To Like

[00:09:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Relax

[00:09:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Like I Like

[00:09:10] [SPEAKER_00]: The Chase And The Thrill Of Dating And Finding Who's Going To Be The Person You Spending The Rest Of Your Life With

[00:09:15] [SPEAKER_00]: It's Like This Thrill

[00:09:16] [SPEAKER_00]: It Comes With So Much Like Ups And Downs

[00:09:18] [SPEAKER_00]: It's Rippin' Runnin' All This Stuff

[00:09:21] [SPEAKER_00]: The Choice That You Make To Stop Doing That

[00:09:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Start A Family

[00:09:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Get Married Have Kids And Do All That

[00:09:29] [SPEAKER_00]: It's Like I I'm Relaxing In That State

[00:09:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Now Relaxed In This State And I'm Moving On One Line

[00:09:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay

[00:09:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Whereas There's Other People Who See The Word Settle As Just Like

[00:09:40] [SPEAKER_00]: Alright Fuck It

[00:09:42] [SPEAKER_00]: So You Think We've Taken The Word Of It Too Literal Is What You're Saying

[00:09:46] [SPEAKER_03]: I Take Things

[00:09:47] [SPEAKER_00]: If You're Looking At It And Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah

[00:09:50] [SPEAKER_00]: That's Kind Of Maybe

[00:09:51] [SPEAKER_00]: But There's Like I'm Reading It In The Verbs In The Verbs State

[00:09:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Settle Has One Two Three

[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Twen

[00:10:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh I'm Buggin'

[00:10:02] [SPEAKER_00]: It Has Almost 33 Different Definitions

[00:10:04] [SPEAKER_00]: To Settle

[00:10:05] [SPEAKER_03]: So It's All About Your Interpretation

[00:10:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:10:08] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah

[00:10:09] [SPEAKER_03]: 33

[00:10:09] [SPEAKER_01]: How You Feel About That That Faze

[00:10:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Closer

[00:10:13] [SPEAKER_04]: I mean I Agree With Kojo

[00:10:15] [SPEAKER_04]: That's Podcast Out Here

[00:10:16] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Just A Word

[00:10:18] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Really Just How You Want To Look At It

[00:10:22] [SPEAKER_04]: Whatever You Want To Call It

[00:10:23] [SPEAKER_04]: You're Going To Be Doing The Same Thing

[00:10:24] [SPEAKER_04]: It's A Choice At The End Of The Day

[00:10:25] [SPEAKER_04]: If You Want Your Life To Go In A Different Way

[00:10:27] [SPEAKER_04]: You Gotta Move Different

[00:10:28] [SPEAKER_04]: You Can Call It Settling

[00:10:29] [SPEAKER_04]: You Can Call It Realizing You Want Something Different

[00:10:32] [SPEAKER_04]: You Can Call It Changing Your Way

[00:10:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Call It Whatever You Want But It's The Same Thing

[00:10:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Boom And There's Two Other Ones I Want To Read If Y'all Don't Mind Right

[00:10:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Number Eleven Says

[00:10:40] [SPEAKER_00]: Is To Make Someone Comfortable Or Snug

[00:10:43] [SPEAKER_00]: And Then Number Twelve

[00:10:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Right After That Is To Make Stable

[00:10:46] [SPEAKER_00]: Place In A Permanent Position Or Permanent Basis

[00:10:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Or On A Permanent Basis

[00:10:50] [SPEAKER_00]: There You Go

[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I Like That

[00:10:51] [SPEAKER_03]: The Word Stable For Me

[00:10:53] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Think I Have A Stable Lifestyle

[00:10:55] [SPEAKER_03]: So I Think That's Probably Why Like The Idea Of Settling Down

[00:11:00] [SPEAKER_03]: It Can't Be Concrete For Me

[00:11:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I Feel Like Your Life Isn't Stable

[00:11:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Shit I Understand

[00:11:05] [SPEAKER_01]: I Know But I Want To Say

[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_03]: I Understand

[00:11:07] [SPEAKER_01]: I Feel You Control Most Of That Though

[00:11:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah

[00:11:10] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah

[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah

[00:11:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Not Really

[00:11:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Get Your Flashlight On By The Way

[00:11:15] [SPEAKER_05]: Shout Out

[00:11:16] [SPEAKER_05]: Freeze Niggas

[00:11:18] [SPEAKER_03]: But Yeah Like For Example

[00:11:20] [SPEAKER_03]: I Ain't Had No Control Last Week

[00:11:22] [SPEAKER_03]: When Niggas

[00:11:23] [SPEAKER_03]: When We Had That Big IT Outage

[00:11:25] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas Was Stuck

[00:11:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas Was Lost

[00:11:27] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know What I'm Saying

[00:11:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Imagine You Trying To

[00:11:29] [SPEAKER_03]: You Got Somebody You Gotta Take Care Of Back Home

[00:11:32] [SPEAKER_03]: And You Can't Get In Contact With Them

[00:11:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas Don't Know Where You At

[00:11:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas Don't Know Where You At

[00:11:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Niggas Don't Know That

[00:11:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I Mean Those Are Unforeseen Circumstances

[00:11:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Those Happen

[00:11:40] [SPEAKER_03]: That's Extreme

[00:11:42] [SPEAKER_03]: But Stuff Like That I Don't Think I Have

[00:11:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Settled Into My Own Lifestyle To Bring Somebody Into It

[00:11:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Or Try To Incorporate That

[00:11:49] [SPEAKER_01]: So Would You Change Your Profession

[00:11:51] [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck No

[00:11:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Fuck No

[00:11:53] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Here Before A Kid

[00:11:55] [SPEAKER_03]: No

[00:11:57] [SPEAKER_03]: This Shit Bringing Me A Lot Of Money

[00:11:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah And I Don't Think Changing Your Profession

[00:12:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Necessarily Confirms That You Will Be Stable

[00:12:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah

[00:12:04] [SPEAKER_00]: I Don't Even Know

[00:12:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Just To Be There For You

[00:12:06] [SPEAKER_03]: See Also I

[00:12:07] [SPEAKER_03]: There Is A Level Of Mental Sacrifice That You Gotta Have Going Into Anything

[00:12:15] [SPEAKER_03]: And

[00:12:17] [SPEAKER_03]: As Crazy As It Sound

[00:12:18] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Want To Have A Child And Then Resent Them

[00:12:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Mm

[00:12:22] [SPEAKER_03]: And Be Like Damn

[00:12:23] [SPEAKER_01]: I Didn't Have My Life Because Of You

[00:12:26] [SPEAKER_03]: I Had To Put Everything That I Wanted To Do On Pause For You

[00:12:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Until I

[00:12:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Until I Know I Can Get That Out Of My System

[00:12:32] [SPEAKER_03]: For Seeing

[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know

[00:12:34] [SPEAKER_04]: Why Do You Think That You're Gonna Feel That Way

[00:12:36] [SPEAKER_04]: I Was Just About The Accident Too

[00:12:37] [SPEAKER_04]: Because I Feel That Way Now

[00:12:40] [SPEAKER_04]: That's Why

[00:12:40] [SPEAKER_04]: But My Thing

[00:12:41] [SPEAKER_04]: No But

[00:12:42] [SPEAKER_04]: You Cannot Prepare For A Child Bro

[00:12:44] [SPEAKER_04]: There's Nothing That Can Prepare You For A Child

[00:12:45] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Agree With That

[00:12:46] [SPEAKER_04]: If You Don't Have A Child

[00:12:48] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Think Anything

[00:12:49] [SPEAKER_04]: You Can Have

[00:12:50] [SPEAKER_04]: You Can Prepare In Some Ways Though

[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_04]: No

[00:12:51] [SPEAKER_04]: There's No Preparation

[00:12:53] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Not Your Kid

[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Not Your Kid

[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Different

[00:12:54] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Literally Different

[00:12:56] [SPEAKER_04]: What You Mean It's Not My Kid

[00:12:57] [SPEAKER_04]: If You Have A God Child

[00:12:58] [SPEAKER_04]: If You Have A Little Cousin

[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_04]: A Nephew

[00:13:00] [SPEAKER_04]: All That Is Great

[00:13:01] [SPEAKER_04]: That's All Good Practice

[00:13:02] [SPEAKER_04]: He's Saying

[00:13:03] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Different From When You Actually Have

[00:13:05] [SPEAKER_04]: You Talking About The Physical

[00:13:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I Said My Mindset

[00:13:09] [SPEAKER_03]: My Mind Now

[00:13:10] [SPEAKER_03]: If I Have A Child Now

[00:13:11] [SPEAKER_03]: I Already Know In My Mind

[00:13:13] [SPEAKER_03]: I Gotta Give Up All The Shit That I Wanna Do

[00:13:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I Think You Feel That Way Right Now

[00:13:20] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah But It's Like

[00:13:21] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Know

[00:13:22] [SPEAKER_04]: For Me Personally

[00:13:23] [SPEAKER_04]: I Think People Are

[00:13:24] [SPEAKER_04]: I Think Our Minds Are Just So

[00:13:27] [SPEAKER_04]: We Always Think About The What Ifs

[00:13:29] [SPEAKER_04]: And What We Wanna Do

[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_04]: And This And That

[00:13:30] [SPEAKER_04]: And I Think We Naturally Just Talk

[00:13:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Ourselves Out Of Things

[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_04]: Or Just

[00:13:34] [SPEAKER_04]: Maybe Say

[00:13:35] [SPEAKER_04]: I'll Put It Off Later

[00:13:36] [SPEAKER_04]: I'll Put It Off Later

[00:13:37] [SPEAKER_04]: But It's Like

[00:13:39] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Know

[00:13:40] [SPEAKER_04]: Sometimes I Don't Think

[00:13:40] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Think I Know Why

[00:13:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Let Me Tell You Something Right Now

[00:13:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Let Me Tell You Something

[00:13:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Let Me Tell You Something

[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Let Me Tell You Something

[00:13:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Let Me Tell You Something

[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_03]: There's

[00:13:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Okay Boom

[00:13:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Looking At My Job

[00:13:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Right

[00:13:53] [SPEAKER_03]: There's 30

[00:13:54] [SPEAKER_03]: There's A

[00:13:56] [SPEAKER_03]: 2 O'Clock Cabo Flight

[00:13:58] [SPEAKER_03]: We Out

[00:13:58] [SPEAKER_03]: That's 37 Seats Open

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_01]: Damn

[00:14:00] [SPEAKER_01]: How About That

[00:14:01] [SPEAKER_01]: I Gotta Go Get A Babysitter

[00:14:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Somebody Gotta Watch The Kids

[00:14:04] [SPEAKER_01]: So I Can Just Go Enjoy

[00:14:05] [SPEAKER_03]: I Can Just Literally

[00:14:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Go To Cabo Right Now

[00:14:07] [SPEAKER_01]: You Just Saying

[00:14:08] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm Not Talking About A Flight Attendant

[00:14:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Person

[00:14:10] [SPEAKER_01]: He's Talking About

[00:14:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Not Having A Kid

[00:14:15] [SPEAKER_01]: That's Less Responsibility

[00:14:16] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Want To Sign Up For That

[00:14:19] [SPEAKER_01]: You Have Somebody You Literally Have To Feed

[00:14:22] [SPEAKER_01]: I Want To Add Some Perspective To That

[00:14:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I Can't Just Say Yo

[00:14:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Want To Treat My Child's Mom Like A Babysitter

[00:14:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I Get It

[00:14:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I Feel Like LA

[00:14:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Watch This Little Nigga

[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_00]: I Feel Like LA

[00:14:31] [SPEAKER_00]: What LA Is Saying Right Now Is Based On His Current State

[00:14:34] [SPEAKER_00]: That's What I'm Saying

[00:14:35] [SPEAKER_00]: I Know And That's What You Gotta Respect That

[00:14:36] [SPEAKER_00]: You Have To Respect That Right Now

[00:14:38] [SPEAKER_00]: The Way He Feels And The Way He Lives On A Day To Day Basis

[00:14:40] [SPEAKER_00]: His Mentality Can't See That

[00:14:42] [SPEAKER_00]: However

[00:14:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I Do Believe

[00:14:45] [SPEAKER_00]: That

[00:14:46] [SPEAKER_00]: When You Fall In Love

[00:14:47] [SPEAKER_00]: And You Conceive A Child With The Woman That You Love

[00:14:50] [SPEAKER_00]: That Mentality Of

[00:14:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Damn

[00:14:52] [SPEAKER_00]: I Might Not Be Able To Live The Life That I Want To

[00:14:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Is Going To Change Because The Life You Want To Live

[00:14:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Is Because You Made That Decision To Create A Child With The Woman That You Love

[00:15:00] [SPEAKER_00]: I Think That's What Will Switch

[00:15:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Before You Say I Have One

[00:15:03] [SPEAKER_00]: I Have A

[00:15:04] [SPEAKER_04]: I Have A

[00:15:06] [SPEAKER_04]: When You Have A Goal

[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_04]: Do You

[00:15:07] [SPEAKER_04]: Okay

[00:15:08] [SPEAKER_04]: Do You Want To Have A Kid

[00:15:10] [SPEAKER_03]: What Are You Talking About At This Very Moment

[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Right Now

[00:15:12] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm Talking About In Life

[00:15:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh Yeah Yeah Eventually

[00:15:14] [SPEAKER_04]: He Want A Feud

[00:15:15] [SPEAKER_04]: He Want A Feud

[00:15:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Think About Multiple

[00:15:17] [SPEAKER_00]: You Nigga Don't Know When You Talk About Kid Like

[00:15:18] [SPEAKER_00]: Yo I Want One Kid

[00:15:19] [SPEAKER_00]: You Got Three

[00:15:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I May Only Cop One

[00:15:23] [SPEAKER_03]: I May Only Cop One

[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_04]: I Might Cop One

[00:15:24] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Know If This Is Gonna Be

[00:15:26] [SPEAKER_04]: I Might Not Do The Restart

[00:15:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Is That Would You Say That's A Goal

[00:15:30] [SPEAKER_04]: It's A Goal?

[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_04]: No

[00:15:31] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm asking Would You Say It's A Goal

[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_04]: No

[00:15:32] [SPEAKER_04]: A Goal?

[00:15:34] [SPEAKER_04]: Would You Say It's A Goal In Life To Have A Kid?

[00:15:37] [SPEAKER_04]: Gojo?

[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_04]: Absolutely

[00:15:38] [SPEAKER_04]: That Nigga What A Bad

[00:15:39] [SPEAKER_04]: It's A Question For The Room

[00:15:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Absolutely

[00:15:42] [SPEAKER_00]: It's A Goal Of Mine To Have Kids

[00:15:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Y'all Know I Got Two God Daughters

[00:15:45] [SPEAKER_00]: I Got My Niece

[00:15:46] [SPEAKER_00]: My Nephew Is 18

[00:15:47] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh Turned 18

[00:15:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh Yeah

[00:15:49] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Not Really A Goal For Mine

[00:15:51] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Like If It Happens That's Cool

[00:15:53] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Not Really Like A

[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_01]: You Know

[00:15:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Are You Serious?

[00:15:56] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay

[00:15:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I Would Love To Have A Family

[00:15:58] [SPEAKER_01]: But It's Just Like It's Not A Goal For Me

[00:15:59] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Not A Goal

[00:16:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Not A Goal

[00:16:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Not Like A

[00:16:01] [SPEAKER_03]: So Boom Peep Game

[00:16:03] [SPEAKER_03]: So Let's Talk About The Traditional Versus Modern Interpretation

[00:16:07] [SPEAKER_03]: So Traditional Views

[00:16:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Marriage Buying A House Starting Family

[00:16:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Modern Views Is Diverse Lifestyle Career Focus And Travel

[00:16:15] [SPEAKER_03]: I Think I'm More Of The Modern Views

[00:16:17] [SPEAKER_03]: No No, No, Quanny's A Traditional Man

[00:16:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Traditional

[00:16:22] [SPEAKER_03]: He's A Traditional Man

[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_03]: He's A Traditional Man

[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_03]: He's A Traditional Man

[00:16:23] [SPEAKER_03]: He's A Shorty Setter

[00:16:24] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm Traditional Brother

[00:16:25] [SPEAKER_04]: That's A Classic Man Right There

[00:16:26] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm Traditional Brother

[00:16:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah So I Think I'm More Of The

[00:16:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Is There A Middle?

[00:16:30] [SPEAKER_00]: Is There A Middle Graham?

[00:16:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Cause I Think I'm In The Middle With That

[00:16:33] [SPEAKER_04]: It's No Rule Book

[00:16:34] [SPEAKER_04]: It's No Rule Book To This

[00:16:34] [SPEAKER_04]: You Can Do It

[00:16:35] [SPEAKER_04]: You Can Do The Mix If You Want

[00:16:36] [SPEAKER_04]: But I Fall More On The Traditional Side

[00:16:46] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Trotter

[00:16:47] [SPEAKER_00]: You're Trotter

[00:16:47] [SPEAKER_00]: So I Gotta Do What I Gotta Do To Make Sure Shit

[00:16:49] [SPEAKER_03]: I Even Think My Parenting Style Right?

[00:16:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Is More Modern Than Traditional

[00:16:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Like What We Talked About Last Week

[00:16:57] [SPEAKER_03]: With The Condom Situation

[00:17:00] [SPEAKER_03]: And I'ma Be A Condom Dad

[00:17:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I'ma Show My Boy Or Girl

[00:17:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo This Is How You Put It On

[00:17:07] [SPEAKER_03]: This Is How I Don't Want You Putting It On No Man

[00:17:10] [SPEAKER_03]: But Watch How He Put It On

[00:17:13] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know What I'm Saying?

[00:17:14] [SPEAKER_03]: So It Can Work Effectively

[00:17:15] [SPEAKER_03]: We Gonna Have The Conversation You Know About Birth Control

[00:17:19] [SPEAKER_03]: And This That And The Third And What It Might Do To Her Hormones

[00:17:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I Think That's A Little Bit More Modern

[00:17:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Than It Is Traditional

[00:17:26] [SPEAKER_03]: My Parents Was Never Doing That

[00:17:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah We Was Never Doing That

[00:17:28] [SPEAKER_00]: And I've Always Said That

[00:17:29] [SPEAKER_00]: I've Always Wanted To Be The Cool Dad

[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah

[00:17:31] [SPEAKER_00]: And The Way My Kids Feel Like They Can Come To Me

[00:17:34] [SPEAKER_00]: And Speak To Me About Any And Everything

[00:17:37] [SPEAKER_00]: And I Will Give It To Them From The Perspective Of What I Wish I Would Have Been Able To Receive

[00:17:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Or What I Was Doing

[00:17:42] [SPEAKER_01]: So You Weren't Here Because You Was On Vacation

[00:17:45] [SPEAKER_03]: He Was Actually Taking Care Of His Family

[00:17:46] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay

[00:17:47] [SPEAKER_03]: His Secret Family

[00:17:48] [SPEAKER_01]: So You Feel The Same Way Though

[00:17:49] [SPEAKER_01]: You Would Teach Your Kid Like Yo

[00:17:51] [SPEAKER_00]: For Sure

[00:17:52] [SPEAKER_01]: Instead Of Having Your Kid Go To Sex Ed

[00:17:54] [SPEAKER_01]: You Would Rather Do Yourself

[00:17:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I've Never Said It Or Heard It

[00:17:58] [SPEAKER_00]: In The Terms That You Guys Said Last Week

[00:18:00] [SPEAKER_00]: About Like Actually Showing My Child How To Do That

[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_00]: But

[00:18:05] [SPEAKER_03]: That's As Far As I'm Taking It Though

[00:18:06] [SPEAKER_03]: That's As Far As I'm Taking It

[00:18:07] [SPEAKER_00]: That Is It

[00:18:08] [SPEAKER_00]: But I Do Think I Want To Be The Person Responsible For

[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Giving That Game

[00:18:12] [SPEAKER_00]: So You Always Hear That Story About Oh The Birds And The Bees

[00:18:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah But I Never Got That

[00:18:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Never Had That Talk

[00:18:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I Had To Learn Through The Streets

[00:18:20] [SPEAKER_00]: You Know What I'm Saying?

[00:18:20] [SPEAKER_00]: I Don't Want The Streets Teaching My Kids About Sex

[00:18:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah

[00:18:24] [SPEAKER_00]: Especially The Way Sex Is Gonna Develop Maybe In About

[00:18:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Especially The Way We

[00:18:28] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah Yeah The Way The Internet Is And Everything

[00:18:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Cause We Was We Was Old School Porn Too

[00:18:34] [SPEAKER_03]: So It Was A Lot Of Mad Ruffing Shit

[00:18:37] [SPEAKER_03]: And Hiding It Too

[00:18:38] [SPEAKER_03]: DVD

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Yeah

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_03]: It Had A DVD

[00:18:39] [SPEAKER_03]: It Was All Mad Ruff Sex

[00:18:43] [SPEAKER_03]: It Was No Making Love And None Of That

[00:18:44] [SPEAKER_03]: So I Don't Want My Child Learning That Rough Aggression

[00:18:47] [SPEAKER_00]: No When Especially When They're Gonna Go On Their Phones And See It Right On Their

[00:18:50] [SPEAKER_03]: Exactly Exactly

[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Exactly

[00:18:52] [SPEAKER_03]: So You Know

[00:18:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Wow

[00:18:54] [SPEAKER_03]: That's Crazy

[00:18:55] [SPEAKER_03]: But Yeah I Think

[00:18:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Now Some Of The Traditional Views About Buying A House Marriage

[00:19:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I Think In The Sense Of Marriage I'm Still Traditional

[00:19:05] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Do Want To Adapt Some Modern Things You Know

[00:19:13] [SPEAKER_03]: As Far As Marriage Or Just As Far As Marriage Goes I Just Think I Look At Marriage Different

[00:19:22] [SPEAKER_03]: I Look At Marriage Like Yo Whoever I Marry Gotta Be My Best Teammate Like In Life

[00:19:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Like In Life I Feel Like Damn That Was Bad I'm Bad I'm Bad I'm Bad I Corrected That In My Head

[00:19:35] [SPEAKER_01]: Pardon

[00:19:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Pardon

[00:19:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I Feel Like I've Dated A Plethora Of Pretty Women So I Did The Pretty Thing I Did The Fun I Did The Fun I Did The Fun

[00:19:51] [SPEAKER_03]: But I'm Still Looking For Like My Best Running Mate

[00:19:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Like If I Ain't Got It Prom Colby Shaq Prom Jordan Pimp Prom Like I'm Looking For That Like We

[00:20:05] [SPEAKER_01]: Point God Big Man Type Shit

[00:20:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Pick And Roll Like You Can't

[00:20:08] [SPEAKER_03]: We Just Unstoppable

[00:20:10] [SPEAKER_03]: And I Feel Like When I Find Her It Can't Be Considered Settling Down You Know What I'm Saying

[00:20:18] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Feel Like If

[00:20:19] [SPEAKER_00]: What Can It Be Considered Then?

[00:20:23] [SPEAKER_00]: That's What I Want To Know

[00:20:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Elevating

[00:20:24] [SPEAKER_00]: Elevating

[00:20:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah

[00:20:26] [SPEAKER_04]: Call It Whatever You Want

[00:20:28] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Literally The Same Thing Bro

[00:20:30] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Know

[00:20:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Call It What You Want

[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_04]: I Think The Word Settling Really

[00:20:31] [SPEAKER_04]: No It's The

[00:20:33] [SPEAKER_04]: It's A Word

[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah

[00:20:34] [SPEAKER_04]: It Has A Billion Meanings

[00:20:36] [SPEAKER_04]: Words Have Meanings

[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_04]: Words Have Meanings

[00:20:37] [SPEAKER_04]: Words Have Meanings

[00:20:38] [SPEAKER_04]: We're Not Gonna Dismiss The Words

[00:20:40] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Whatever Words You Feel Like It Is That Day

[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_04]: Mr. Dismisses

[00:20:42] [SPEAKER_04]: Because Before I Felt The Same Like Settling Was This Bad Thing But It's Like

[00:20:46] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Just The Way You Look At It

[00:20:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah But Think About The Term In This Way Right

[00:20:51] [SPEAKER_04]: You Have To Say It In A Way That's Bad

[00:20:53] [SPEAKER_04]: But It's You Can Look At It As Bad Or I Can Say Well You're Using It In A Bad Way

[00:20:57] [SPEAKER_00]: But Can You Also Say It In A Good Way

[00:20:59] [SPEAKER_00]: I Settled For

[00:21:01] [SPEAKER_00]: I Settled For The Rose Royce Said It That Said The Lando

[00:21:05] [SPEAKER_03]: I Settled For Her

[00:21:06] [SPEAKER_00]: I Settled For The Woman Of My Dress

[00:21:07] [SPEAKER_04]: That's The Thing We're Making It Sound That Bad Though

[00:21:09] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay How Can You Make It Sound Bad

[00:21:10] [SPEAKER_04]: Make It Sound Good Kwani

[00:21:12] [SPEAKER_01]: I Settled For The Woman Of My Life

[00:21:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Does That Sound Good?

[00:21:14] [SPEAKER_04]: Here Go 91 Jordan

[00:21:18] [SPEAKER_01]: 91 Jordan Is Crazy

[00:21:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Come On Kwani Park

[00:21:20] [SPEAKER_04]: If You've Been To A Plethora Of Beautiful Women

[00:21:22] [SPEAKER_04]: And You've Been Around The World

[00:21:24] [SPEAKER_04]: You've Done This You've Done That

[00:21:25] [SPEAKER_04]: You've Been Everywhere

[00:21:25] [SPEAKER_04]: You Could Have Had Your Pick Of The Litter

[00:21:27] [SPEAKER_04]: But You Settled On This One Person Because They

[00:21:29] [SPEAKER_04]: Have All These Qualities And This And That

[00:21:31] [SPEAKER_04]: And That And That And Third

[00:21:32] [SPEAKER_04]: He Cookin'

[00:21:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Then Yeah

[00:21:33] [SPEAKER_04]: My Thing Is

[00:21:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Alright Just So

[00:21:35] [SPEAKER_03]: When You Done

[00:21:36] [SPEAKER_03]: I'ma Say What I'ma Say

[00:21:37] [SPEAKER_03]: And If It's Bad I'll Take It Out

[00:21:38] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Have To Ask You

[00:21:40] [SPEAKER_04]: He Bought The Dragon

[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_04]: No I'm Not

[00:21:41] [SPEAKER_04]: I Promise You

[00:21:43] [SPEAKER_03]: I Just Want To Make Sure Y'all Niggas Don't Get In Trouble At Home

[00:21:47] [SPEAKER_04]: Nah We Chillin'

[00:21:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't Even Ask

[00:21:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Don't Even Ask

[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_04]: Don't Even Ask

[00:21:52] [SPEAKER_04]: Don't Even Ask

[00:21:53] [SPEAKER_04]: Ask Me Off Mike

[00:21:53] [SPEAKER_03]: No I'ma Ask You Here And If It's Bad

[00:21:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll Just Take It Out

[00:21:58] [SPEAKER_03]: You And Your Ex

[00:21:59] [SPEAKER_03]: When Y'All Had That Conversation On You Wanted To Make It Work

[00:22:02] [SPEAKER_03]: If She

[00:22:03] [SPEAKER_03]: If Y'all Did Decide To And You Was Still With Her

[00:22:06] [SPEAKER_03]: You Wouldn't Have Considered You Settling With Her

[00:22:09] [SPEAKER_03]: Knowing That Where You Are Right Now

[00:22:12] [SPEAKER_00]: I Think I Can Answer That For Corny Though

[00:22:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Me Too

[00:22:17] [SPEAKER_04]: It Would Be More So Of A Compromise

[00:22:19] [SPEAKER_04]: There You Go

[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_04]: Okay

[00:22:20] [SPEAKER_04]: More So Of A Compromise

[00:22:21] [SPEAKER_04]: You See That Word You Use

[00:22:22] [SPEAKER_04]: I Thought You Just Changed The World

[00:22:23] [SPEAKER_04]: You Just Switched The Word

[00:22:24] [SPEAKER_04]: No No No No I Fuck With That

[00:22:26] [SPEAKER_04]: I Fuck With That

[00:22:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Cause I Agree

[00:22:27] [SPEAKER_04]: But My Thing Is You're Not Gonna Get What You Want 100% Of The Time

[00:22:30] [SPEAKER_04]: You Gotta Pick A List And Point To You

[00:22:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Right But

[00:22:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Hindsight Is What 20-20 Right?

[00:22:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Of Course Yeah

[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Cool

[00:22:35] [SPEAKER_03]: So With That Knowing That Right

[00:22:37] [SPEAKER_03]: You Keepin' This In?

[00:22:38] [SPEAKER_03]: You Can Keep This Part Right

[00:22:39] [SPEAKER_03]: No, Connie Can Tell Me When We Done Take It Out

[00:22:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Gotcha

[00:22:42] [SPEAKER_03]: When You Uh

[00:22:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Now Looking Where You Are

[00:22:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Aren't You Glad It Didn't Work Out?

[00:22:49] [SPEAKER_04]: I'ma Ask You McCulley To Cut This Part

[00:22:51] [SPEAKER_04]: I Got You

[00:22:59] [SPEAKER_03]: 23

[00:23:09] [SPEAKER_00]: But Nah He's With Somebody New

[00:23:10] [SPEAKER_00]: And Then He's Gonna Still Have To Answer To

[00:23:12] [SPEAKER_00]: The Press

[00:23:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah Yeah

[00:23:14] [SPEAKER_00]: That Clip Go Back To The Head

[00:23:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:23:16] [SPEAKER_03]: What If I Just Don't Make It A Clip

[00:23:20] [SPEAKER_03]: And That Means She Gotta

[00:23:22] [SPEAKER_03]: She Gotta

[00:23:23] [SPEAKER_03]: She Gotta Lock In

[00:23:24] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know They Don't Do That

[00:23:26] [SPEAKER_03]: She Gotta Lock In

[00:23:27] [SPEAKER_00]: Alright

[00:23:28] [SPEAKER_03]: But Nah You See What I'm Saying

[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_03]: That's What I'm Saying

[00:23:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I Don't Want That Feeling

[00:23:34] [SPEAKER_03]: That Feeling Of Like

[00:23:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn

[00:23:40] [SPEAKER_03]: That Was Might Cost My Future Happiness

[00:23:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Sheesh

[00:23:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Cause We've All Seen That Played Out

[00:23:47] [SPEAKER_03]: We've All Compromised

[00:23:49] [SPEAKER_03]: In A Situation Where

[00:23:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Honestly The Better Option Was To Leave

[00:23:53] [SPEAKER_03]: But We Stayed For Whatever Reason We Stayed Right?

[00:23:56] [SPEAKER_03]: And Then We All Look Back

[00:23:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Hindsight 2020 And Say You Know What?

[00:24:01] [SPEAKER_03]: It Didn't Work Out For A Reason

[00:24:02] [SPEAKER_03]: And We're Happy With That Reason

[00:24:04] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Want That To Be My Wife

[00:24:08] [SPEAKER_04]: But You Can't Go Into

[00:24:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause You Gonna Literally Look At Her Every Day Like

[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo Damn

[00:24:11] [SPEAKER_04]: You Want Rosetta?

[00:24:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah But

[00:24:15] [SPEAKER_04]: Alright You Ever

[00:24:16] [SPEAKER_04]: You Ever Had Something

[00:24:17] [SPEAKER_04]: Yes

[00:24:17] [SPEAKER_04]: That You Wanted To Compromise On

[00:24:18] [SPEAKER_04]: And Then Maybe

[00:24:20] [SPEAKER_04]: Maybe It Was A Compromise

[00:24:22] [SPEAKER_04]: Or Maybe It Didn't Go Your Way

[00:24:23] [SPEAKER_04]: And Then You Just Felt The Opposite Of How You Felt

[00:24:25] [SPEAKER_04]: You Know What's Crazy

[00:24:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I Wanted To Talk About That In

[00:24:28] [SPEAKER_03]: The Next Episode

[00:24:29] [SPEAKER_03]: But Fuck It We Here

[00:24:30] [SPEAKER_03]: No No We Here

[00:24:31] [SPEAKER_03]: We Here

[00:24:32] [SPEAKER_04]: You Loud And Strong About Something

[00:24:33] [SPEAKER_04]: And Then It Happens

[00:24:34] [SPEAKER_03]: You Ever Feel Like You Lost The Breakup?

[00:24:36] [SPEAKER_04]: Like You Lost In The Breakup?

[00:24:37] [SPEAKER_04]: Like I Lost The Breakup?

[00:24:38] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah

[00:24:39] [SPEAKER_04]: Like You Didn't Win

[00:24:40] [SPEAKER_04]: You Didn't Win

[00:24:41] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Thanks Thanks Thanks

[00:24:44] [SPEAKER_02]: And Then You Think About It We Say Like Fuck I Could Have Said This

[00:24:46] [SPEAKER_02]: Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck

[00:24:47] [SPEAKER_02]: That's An Argument

[00:24:48] [SPEAKER_04]: No Like The Laws

[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_04]: Like The Breakup

[00:24:50] [SPEAKER_04]: Like I

[00:24:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Like The Narrative After

[00:24:52] [SPEAKER_04]: Now Be It Be Clear I Don't Think I Know Where Exactly You're Going

[00:24:55] [SPEAKER_00]: How Do You Lose A Breakup?

[00:24:56] [SPEAKER_03]: The Shit I Be Saying On This Podcast Is Ridiculous

[00:24:58] [SPEAKER_03]: But This Is My Own For Right

[00:25:00] [SPEAKER_00]: No That's Not

[00:25:02] [SPEAKER_03]: How Do You Lose A Breakup?

[00:25:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Not That I Want The Nigga Life To Be A Failure Once We're Done

[00:25:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh You Mean

[00:25:07] [SPEAKER_03]: But It's Like Yo

[00:25:09] [SPEAKER_03]: How Are You How Is Life Going So Well For You You?

[00:25:13] [SPEAKER_02]: You Made My Life Hell?

[00:25:15] [SPEAKER_02]: Like There's No Comic Retribution

[00:25:18] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga Why Are You Happy?

[00:25:20] [SPEAKER_02]: What The Fuck?

[00:25:20] [SPEAKER_02]: How Are You What?

[00:25:21] [SPEAKER_02]: Now That's Just God Loving

[00:25:23] [SPEAKER_02]: I Thought I Was Just A Beatup

[00:25:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I Ain't In Nobody's Business But I Don't Think Any Of My Past Relationships Are Like

[00:25:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Time Out

[00:25:31] [SPEAKER_03]: I Just Want To Say

[00:25:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Not That Like These Matter

[00:25:34] [SPEAKER_03]: But That Was All Jokes

[00:25:35] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Want Nothing Bad For Anybody

[00:25:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah

[00:25:38] [SPEAKER_03]: But At The Same Time

[00:25:39] [SPEAKER_03]: At The Same Time

[00:25:40] [SPEAKER_03]: It's Like

[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_03]: It's Pardon

[00:25:41] [SPEAKER_03]: No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No I

[00:25:56] [SPEAKER_02]: Fuck

[00:25:56] [SPEAKER_02]: They Told You You Could Enjoy Life

[00:25:58] [SPEAKER_03]: So

[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_03]: So

[00:26:00] [SPEAKER_03]: When Do You Let That Go?

[00:26:02] [SPEAKER_00]: Eventually You Let That Go

[00:26:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah Yeah Yeah

[00:26:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Eventually

[00:26:04] [SPEAKER_01]: No No No No No No No No

[00:26:06] [SPEAKER_01]: Some People Still Have That Like

[00:26:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Not The Hate In Their Heart

[00:26:09] [SPEAKER_00]: I Feel Like There's A Period of Towers Like Yo If She Get Another Nigga

[00:26:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Mm

[00:26:13] [SPEAKER_00]: But Then You Be Like

[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Oh

[00:26:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah

[00:26:15] [SPEAKER_00]: She Might Do The Same Shit To You Game

[00:26:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah Facts

[00:26:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Facts

[00:26:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Unless You Learn From It

[00:26:21] [SPEAKER_01]: It's Like Okay

[00:26:22] [SPEAKER_03]: That Sucks

[00:26:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't Learn After Me

[00:26:26] [SPEAKER_03]: So

[00:26:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Practiced

[00:26:28] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Sorry

[00:26:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't Learn After Me

[00:26:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Don't Become The Better Woman After Me

[00:26:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe After Him

[00:26:34] [SPEAKER_03]: But Not After Me

[00:26:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Like Damn I Fucked Up Two Good Niggas

[00:26:37] [SPEAKER_03]: I Gotta Stop

[00:26:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Cool But Right After Me

[00:26:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Then Come Back

[00:26:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah

[00:26:41] [SPEAKER_03]: You Gotta Take Pride In That

[00:26:42] [SPEAKER_00]: You Gotta Take Pride In That

[00:26:44] [SPEAKER_00]: You Gotta Take Pride In Being Able To Be Like

[00:26:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I Have No Pride

[00:26:46] [SPEAKER_00]: She's Sorta

[00:26:47] [SPEAKER_00]: What?

[00:26:47] [SPEAKER_02]: Take Pride In What?

[00:26:48] [SPEAKER_02]: For You Being The Lessons?

[00:26:50] [SPEAKER_02]: What The Fuck?

[00:26:50] [SPEAKER_02]: You Think You The Tess The Jumbo

[00:26:52] [SPEAKER_02]: You The Tess The Jumbo

[00:26:55] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro You The Lab Rap

[00:26:56] [SPEAKER_00]: That Means You Were Doing Something Right?

[00:26:58] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro You The Lab Rap Bro

[00:26:58] [SPEAKER_00]: That's Some Narcissistic Shit

[00:27:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro You The Lab Rap

[00:27:01] [SPEAKER_03]: That Means

[00:27:02] [SPEAKER_03]: That Means

[00:27:03] [SPEAKER_03]: That's When You Feel Like You Lost Bro

[00:27:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Like Damn I Really

[00:27:06] [SPEAKER_03]: Bro You The Monkey They Testing The Makeup On Bro

[00:27:09] [SPEAKER_02]: Bro What You Talking About Bro?

[00:27:10] [SPEAKER_04]: So If You See If You With Somebody And She Not Doing Whatever You Want Her To Do

[00:27:15] [SPEAKER_01]: She's Not She's A Physical Touch

[00:27:17] [SPEAKER_01]: But Now She's A Fucking

[00:27:18] [SPEAKER_04]: All Of A Sune

[00:27:18] [SPEAKER_04]: All Of A Sune Y'All Not Together

[00:27:20] [SPEAKER_04]: Two Months Later

[00:27:21] [SPEAKER_04]: Everything You Wanted She's Not Doing

[00:27:22] [SPEAKER_04]: Two Months?

[00:27:24] [SPEAKER_04]: Two Months She Been Talking To That

[00:27:25] [SPEAKER_04]: Two Months Is Crazy

[00:27:27] [SPEAKER_02]: Two Months I Go While She Find The Talk

[00:27:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo Bro

[00:27:29] [SPEAKER_04]: This nigga Said Two Months And I Almost Cried

[00:27:31] [SPEAKER_04]: Two Months

[00:27:32] [SPEAKER_04]: Three Months

[00:27:33] [SPEAKER_04]: Six Months In Here

[00:27:33] [SPEAKER_00]: You Didn't Even Deleted All The Pictures Out Your Phone In The Two Months Bro

[00:27:35] [SPEAKER_00]: How You Showing?

[00:27:36] [SPEAKER_00]: She Did That That Jeez

[00:27:37] [SPEAKER_00]: No I'm Saying

[00:27:39] [SPEAKER_00]: You Trying To Get All The Pictures Out

[00:27:41] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Asking

[00:27:41] [SPEAKER_00]: You Still Scrum Like

[00:27:42] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Asking You Now

[00:27:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Hold on Hold on Hold on Hold on Hold on

[00:27:45] [SPEAKER_03]: First It Goes

[00:27:46] [SPEAKER_03]: All The Pictures

[00:27:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?

[00:27:48] [SPEAKER_03]: All Of Them At Once?

[00:27:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah

[00:27:49] [SPEAKER_03]: You Put Them In The Hidden Folder So You Don't Look At Them

[00:27:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh God

[00:27:52] [SPEAKER_03]: And Then When You Catch Yourself Going Back

[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Then It's Like

[00:27:54] [SPEAKER_01]: He Told Me That

[00:27:55] [SPEAKER_01]: What He Called

[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_00]: Two Months?

[00:27:57] [SPEAKER_00]: You Telling Me In Two Months She's With Another Nigger Already?

[00:28:00] [SPEAKER_04]: The Day After They're In The Trash

[00:28:07] [SPEAKER_04]: They're In The Trash

[00:28:08] [SPEAKER_04]: They're In The Trash

[00:28:09] [SPEAKER_04]: They're Gonna Stay In The Trash

[00:28:10] [SPEAKER_04]: They're In The Trash

[00:28:10] [SPEAKER_04]: They're On My Computer Somewhere

[00:28:11] [SPEAKER_04]: They're In The Trash For 30 Days Before They're In The Trash

[00:28:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Exactly

[00:28:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Thank You

[00:28:14] [SPEAKER_00]: And That Might Recover By Day 29

[00:28:16] [SPEAKER_00]: You Talking About Two Months

[00:28:17] [SPEAKER_00]: That Means She Went And Found Somebody Else

[00:28:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Two Months Is Kinda Crazy Though Bro

[00:28:21] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah That's Kinda

[00:28:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Wow

[00:28:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Time Will Quick

[00:28:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Even Half A Year Kinda Crazy

[00:28:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo Boy

[00:28:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Half A Year Now Half A Year Is

[00:28:29] [SPEAKER_04]: This Is Case By Case

[00:28:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah Yeah

[00:28:30] [SPEAKER_04]: This Is All Nuance

[00:28:32] [SPEAKER_03]: We Only

[00:28:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Here We Only Talk About Like People Like We Really

[00:28:36] [SPEAKER_03]: This Ain't No Regular

[00:28:37] [SPEAKER_03]: You Know We Was Vibing

[00:28:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Talking About

[00:28:40] [SPEAKER_03]: This Is Who We Thought We Was Going To Settle Down With

[00:28:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Spend The Rest Of My Life With

[00:28:43] [SPEAKER_04]: Spend The Rest Of My Life With

[00:28:44] [SPEAKER_04]: But I Mean If She Didn't Want To Do What She Was Asking For

[00:28:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Two Months Is Not Long For Her

[00:28:48] [SPEAKER_04]: She Didn't Want To Be There Anyway

[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_03]: True

[00:28:50] [SPEAKER_03]: True True

[00:28:51] [SPEAKER_03]: True

[00:28:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah That's Kinda

[00:28:52] [SPEAKER_03]: That's Kinda What I Want To Talk About Next Spot

[00:28:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn

[00:28:56] [SPEAKER_01]: I Guess We Can Finish Up On This

[00:29:00] [SPEAKER_01]: But Another Thing We Was Talking About Too As Well Is The

[00:29:02] [SPEAKER_01]: Conversation With The Kid

[00:29:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Like The Whole Settling With The Kid

[00:29:05] [SPEAKER_01]: How Would You In That Space

[00:29:06] [SPEAKER_01]: I Know We've All Been In That Space Where

[00:29:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Like We Shut The World Out

[00:29:09] [SPEAKER_01]: How Do You Do That With A Kid Though

[00:29:11] [SPEAKER_03]: You Can't

[00:29:12] [SPEAKER_03]: You Can't

[00:29:13] [SPEAKER_03]: You Can't

[00:29:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Cause They Are Your World

[00:29:15] [SPEAKER_03]: So

[00:29:15] [SPEAKER_03]: That's It

[00:29:16] [SPEAKER_01]: The Phase The Phase That We're In

[00:29:18] [SPEAKER_01]: We Talk A Lot Of Cold

[00:29:19] [SPEAKER_01]: I Don't Know How We Got Here In Life

[00:29:21] [SPEAKER_01]: But We Talk A Good Amount Of Time

[00:29:22] [SPEAKER_01]: Cause You Love Me Bro

[00:29:23] [SPEAKER_01]: And It's

[00:29:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Hey Yeah

[00:29:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Almost Made The Bad Joke

[00:29:26] [SPEAKER_01]: I'ma Leave That One

[00:29:27] [SPEAKER_01]: But Um

[00:29:29] [SPEAKER_01]: But Yeah How Do You Do That With A Child

[00:29:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Like You Going Through A Lot That Week

[00:29:33] [SPEAKER_01]: You Want To Just Shut The World Out

[00:29:35] [SPEAKER_01]: But You Know You Got A Child At Home

[00:29:37] [SPEAKER_00]: I Think

[00:29:37] [SPEAKER_00]: And I Think LA Kinda Just Alluded To It

[00:29:39] [SPEAKER_00]: I Think

[00:29:40] [SPEAKER_00]: Them Kids Be Your Escape Sometimes

[00:29:42] [SPEAKER_00]: Those Be The People You Want To Like

[00:29:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Lock In With Cause They So Innocent

[00:29:46] [SPEAKER_00]: They Pure

[00:29:46] [SPEAKER_00]: They Don't Judge You

[00:29:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Like

[00:29:49] [SPEAKER_00]: Most People

[00:29:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm with my niece All Week Bro

[00:29:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Like

[00:29:52] [SPEAKER_00]: As Stressed As I Might Have Been

[00:29:54] [SPEAKER_00]: She Don't

[00:29:55] [SPEAKER_00]: She Don't Care About My Stress

[00:29:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Cause She Just Coming In With Positivity

[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_00]: She Want A Place

[00:29:58] [SPEAKER_00]: She Want To Go To The Park

[00:29:59] [SPEAKER_00]: She Want Ice Cream

[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_00]: She Want This She Want That

[00:30:00] [SPEAKER_00]: Like You Look At That

[00:30:02] [SPEAKER_00]: It Might Frustrate You In A Moment

[00:30:03] [SPEAKER_00]: Like Damn I'm Going Through Something

[00:30:04] [SPEAKER_00]: Until You Realize Like Yo

[00:30:06] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro She

[00:30:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Life Is This More To Life Than Your Sadness Bro

[00:30:10] [SPEAKER_00]: Like

[00:30:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Okay

[00:30:11] [SPEAKER_00]: Find Some Joy In That

[00:30:12] [SPEAKER_00]: And I Think Your Own Child

[00:30:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Your Own Flesh And Blood

[00:30:14] [SPEAKER_00]: Your Child Can

[00:30:16] [SPEAKER_00]: Take You Out Of That Immediately

[00:30:17] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay

[00:30:18] [SPEAKER_01]: I Feel Like The Innocence In The Child's Eyes

[00:30:19] [SPEAKER_01]: Will Kind Of Help You

[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_01]: For Sure

[00:30:20] [SPEAKER_01]: Bro

[00:30:21] [SPEAKER_00]: I Yell To Her Bro

[00:30:24] [SPEAKER_00]: In A Moment Of Frustration

[00:30:26] [SPEAKER_00]: And About 30 Minutes Later

[00:30:27] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Like Nah I Gotta Apologize

[00:30:28] [SPEAKER_00]: She Had

[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_00]: She Had

[00:30:29] [SPEAKER_00]: She Did Not Deserve That

[00:30:31] [SPEAKER_00]: Like I Got Up And Went

[00:30:32] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Like Yo

[00:30:32] [SPEAKER_00]: Like What You Want To Talk About

[00:30:34] [SPEAKER_00]: Boom Boom Boom Boom Boom Boom

[00:30:35] [SPEAKER_00]: Because I'm Like Yo

[00:30:36] [SPEAKER_03]: That's What You Said

[00:30:37] [SPEAKER_03]: What You Want To Talk About

[00:30:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah But Like What You Want To Talk About

[00:30:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Did You Apologize Though

[00:30:39] [SPEAKER_00]: I Immediately Apologize

[00:30:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Like It Was The First Thing I Did

[00:30:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Because That's What Our Parents Did

[00:30:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Like

[00:30:44] [SPEAKER_03]: Come To Our Room

[00:30:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Dinner Ready

[00:30:46] [SPEAKER_03]: You Hungry?

[00:30:47] [SPEAKER_00]: You Hungry?

[00:30:48] [SPEAKER_00]: It Led To That

[00:30:50] [SPEAKER_00]: But Eventually I Apologize

[00:30:51] [SPEAKER_00]: They Oh Yo

[00:30:52] [SPEAKER_00]: You Want To Come

[00:30:52] [SPEAKER_00]: You Want To Come Watch TV With Me

[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_00]: Boom Boom Boom Boom

[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_00]: All Of That

[00:30:54] [SPEAKER_04]: She Automatically Forgave You

[00:30:56] [SPEAKER_04]: And Just Like Went

[00:30:56] [SPEAKER_00]: She Didn't Understand My Anger

[00:30:58] [SPEAKER_00]: So She Didn't Take It Personal

[00:30:59] [SPEAKER_00]: You Know What I'm Saying

[00:31:00] [SPEAKER_00]: She Just Was Like Oh

[00:31:01] [SPEAKER_00]: You Know What I Mean?

[00:31:03] [SPEAKER_03]: But Yeah So

[00:31:04] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Even That When You

[00:31:06] [SPEAKER_03]: See I Know I Feel Like I Have The Capability Of Being A Good Father

[00:31:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Great Father

[00:31:12] [SPEAKER_03]: A Loving Father

[00:31:13] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Know Where I Am Right Now

[00:31:16] [SPEAKER_03]: And It Would Be Selfish Of Me To Fornicate With Somebody With The Intent Of Reproducing

[00:31:25] [SPEAKER_03]: I Shouldn't Be Doing That

[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_03]: I Shouldn't Be Doing That

[00:31:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Because I Know Where I Am Right Now

[00:31:28] [SPEAKER_03]: And That Would Make Me A Bad Partner Too

[00:31:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Because If I Know My Mindset Right Now

[00:31:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Her Expectation

[00:31:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm A Full Way Below Her Expectations

[00:31:40] [SPEAKER_03]: How So?

[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Could You Just

[00:31:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Because I'm Not Gonna Be As There

[00:31:46] [SPEAKER_03]: If I Know I'm Not Gonna Be As

[00:31:47] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Not Gonna Be There

[00:31:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm You Know How You Could Go To Work

[00:31:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Do Your Job But You Don't Want To Be There

[00:31:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Want That To Be How I Approach Fatherhood

[00:31:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Like I Know I Could Do All The Things That I Need To Do

[00:32:02] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Kind Of You Kind Of Want The Passion Of Being A Father

[00:32:07] [SPEAKER_03]: To Be A Part Of Your Fatherhood

[00:32:09] [SPEAKER_03]: I Just Don't Want To Treat It Like A Robotic Thing

[00:32:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Now My Thing For You Is Did The Job Change Your Mindset On Like This How You View Life

[00:32:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Like You're Not Like You're Here But You're Not Here

[00:32:19] [SPEAKER_03]: I Mean I'm Forever Growing So There's Prior To Me Taking On This New Role

[00:32:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Probably Because I Don't Come Home Every Day

[00:32:31] [SPEAKER_03]: That's A Huge Aspect Too Like I Don't Come Home Every Day

[00:32:36] [SPEAKER_03]: So Out Of Seven Days I'm Literally Home

[00:32:39] [SPEAKER_03]: I Was Just So Like Quarney I'm Only Home For 48 Hours For The Most Part

[00:32:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Saturday, Sunday Then I'm Back On Road Monday

[00:32:45] [SPEAKER_03]: Maybe Come Back Wednesday Night

[00:32:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Leave Again Thursday Morning

[00:32:51] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Want To Feel Like A Absent Father

[00:32:54] [SPEAKER_03]: But I'm Providing

[00:32:55] [SPEAKER_04]: Isn't That Your Schedule Now Because That's Where You Are Currently Right Now

[00:32:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah And I Like Where I Am That's What I'm Saying I Like Where I Am To Not Want To Disrupt That

[00:33:06] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't I Don't I Don't I Don't What's That Say I'm Not Spoken For By Any

[00:33:12] [SPEAKER_03]: Let's Get Let's Get That Clear

[00:33:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Not Spoken For By Anyone Right Cool

[00:33:19] [SPEAKER_03]: And So Having That Level Of Freedom That Choice

[00:33:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Remember That Word You Said

[00:33:26] [SPEAKER_03]: We Were Talking About Freedom

[00:33:27] [SPEAKER_03]: That Type Of What We Want

[00:33:29] [SPEAKER_03]: That Choice I Have A Lot Of Choices That I Can Make

[00:33:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Without Having To Be Held Accounted For By Anyone

[00:33:37] [SPEAKER_03]: So I'm Not Really Trying To Give That Up Right Now

[00:33:40] [SPEAKER_01]: I Feel Like That's A Peaceful

[00:33:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah And I Feel Like I Had The Advantage Of Saying That

[00:33:47] [SPEAKER_03]: I Could Imagine How A Person Would Feel Hearing That

[00:33:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Knowing That We Together

[00:33:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Like Damn My Man On This Fucking Cancel All Podcast Mic

[00:33:56] [SPEAKER_03]: Destroy All Mic's

[00:33:58] [SPEAKER_03]: I Could See That Narrative Being If Somebody Was Like

[00:34:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn That's My Man Saying Some Shit Like That

[00:34:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Or If She Hearing That For The First Time Through This Episode

[00:34:08] [SPEAKER_03]: Granted You Right You Right That's Fucked Up For Me

[00:34:11] [SPEAKER_03]: But I Don't Report To Anybody

[00:34:13] [SPEAKER_04]: Except For You Know

[00:34:16] [SPEAKER_04]: I Don't Think You Would Feel That Way If You Was With Somebody

[00:34:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah I Wouldn't

[00:34:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah I'm Very Intentional

[00:34:21] [SPEAKER_03]: And As Soon As Shit Go

[00:34:23] [SPEAKER_03]: As Soon As My Intentions Change

[00:34:26] [SPEAKER_03]: My Motives Change

[00:34:27] [SPEAKER_03]: My Thought Process Change

[00:34:29] [SPEAKER_03]: So That's Where I'm At Currently

[00:34:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Y'all Feel Like Y'all Settling For The Careers You Are In Or The Jobs You Have Right Now

[00:34:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Sometimes

[00:34:37] [SPEAKER_03]: But Then For Me It's Like Yo

[00:34:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Another Thing Like What People Would Say Why They Settle Is Like Yo Damn What's Next

[00:34:44] [SPEAKER_03]: I Don't Know What's Next

[00:34:45] [SPEAKER_03]: So Fuck It I'm Here

[00:34:46] [SPEAKER_01]: And The Job Market Is Fucking Ass

[00:34:48] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah I Wouldn't Even Call My Shit Settling Bro

[00:34:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Just Surviving

[00:34:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Even That

[00:34:54] [SPEAKER_00]: If I Am

[00:34:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Damn Can I Share This

[00:34:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah I Shouldn't Share That Never Mind

[00:34:59] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah That

[00:34:59] [SPEAKER_01]: This The Whole Concept Of Settling For A Job Like

[00:35:02] [SPEAKER_01]: I Literally Wake Up From My Job And I'm Just Like

[00:35:04] [SPEAKER_01]: Fuck It

[00:35:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo There's People Living Together Because They Can't Live Alone

[00:35:09] [SPEAKER_01]: It's People

[00:35:10] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah It's People That With People Because They

[00:35:12] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah

[00:35:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:35:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:35:15] [SPEAKER_01]: I Mean

[00:35:16] [SPEAKER_04]: You Seen Your Rent Recently

[00:35:17] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Time

[00:35:18] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Hard

[00:35:19] [SPEAKER_03]: So Imagine Yo We Sticking Together

[00:35:21] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm Only With You Because

[00:35:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Because

[00:35:24] [SPEAKER_01]: This Place Is Expensive

[00:35:26] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:35:28] [SPEAKER_01]: You Would

[00:35:28] [SPEAKER_01]: You're Gonna Be Frustrated

[00:35:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Are There Any Other Responsibilities

[00:35:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Not Really

[00:35:32] [SPEAKER_04]: I Could Look At A Different Way To Where You're Not Frustrated

[00:35:34] [SPEAKER_01]: I Thought You're Psyching Yourself Out

[00:35:36] [SPEAKER_01]: Wait Wait Wait Wait

[00:35:36] [SPEAKER_03]: You're With A Person

[00:35:38] [SPEAKER_03]: You're Living With A Person

[00:35:39] [SPEAKER_03]: You Don't Fuck With That People

[00:35:40] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah Like The Relationship's Over

[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah

[00:35:42] [SPEAKER_04]: But Y'all Living Together Still

[00:35:44] [SPEAKER_04]: Have You Ever Been Better Off As Friends With Somebody As Opposed To Being

[00:35:47] [SPEAKER_04]: Kwonny No

[00:35:48] [SPEAKER_04]: Shut Up

[00:35:50] [SPEAKER_02]: I Like Your Optimism

[00:35:52] [SPEAKER_02]: No

[00:35:53] [SPEAKER_02]: You Never

[00:35:53] [SPEAKER_04]: You Never Been Fucking With Somebody

[00:35:55] [SPEAKER_04]: And You're Like

[00:35:56] [SPEAKER_04]: You Would Be Better As A Friend

[00:35:57] [SPEAKER_02]: Yeah But

[00:35:58] [SPEAKER_02]: Thank You

[00:35:59] [SPEAKER_04]: And They Even Turn Them Into A Roommate

[00:36:01] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo If My Situation Is

[00:36:03] [SPEAKER_04]: I Have To Live Here

[00:36:04] [SPEAKER_04]: And I Cannot Live By Myself

[00:36:06] [SPEAKER_04]: And We're Better Off As Friends

[00:36:08] [SPEAKER_04]: You Gotta Eat That Bro

[00:36:09] [SPEAKER_04]: Y'all Fucking Still Love

[00:36:10] [SPEAKER_04]: No

[00:36:11] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm Saying Like

[00:36:11] [SPEAKER_04]: So Who Literally

[00:36:12] [SPEAKER_01]: So My Thing Is

[00:36:13] [SPEAKER_01]: My Thing Is To You

[00:36:14] [SPEAKER_01]: Now Y'all Not Together

[00:36:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Now Y'all Roommates

[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah

[00:36:17] [SPEAKER_01]: It's A

[00:36:18] [SPEAKER_01]: And She

[00:36:19] [SPEAKER_01]: And She

[00:36:21] [SPEAKER_04]: Alright Cool

[00:36:22] [SPEAKER_04]: Can We

[00:36:22] [SPEAKER_04]: My Thing Is

[00:36:24] [SPEAKER_04]: We Live In A Real World

[00:36:25] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's Look At Different Scenarios

[00:36:26] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's Go In Kwani's World

[00:36:28] [SPEAKER_04]: Let's Into This World

[00:36:28] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Not My World

[00:36:29] [SPEAKER_04]: No No No

[00:36:30] [SPEAKER_04]: You Saw This

[00:36:31] [SPEAKER_04]: It's Not My World

[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_03]: That Quani's World

[00:36:32] [SPEAKER_03]: Right

[00:36:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Let's Use Your Apartment

[00:36:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Let's Use Your Apartment

[00:36:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Cause You Got Two Bedrooms

[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Too

[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Cool

[00:36:39] [SPEAKER_03]: So Now She Goes From

[00:36:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Sleeping In Your Bed

[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_03]: Every Night

[00:36:43] [SPEAKER_03]: To Go To The Other Room

[00:36:44] [SPEAKER_03]: She Gotta Have Company

[00:36:46] [SPEAKER_04]: Bro As Long As

[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_04]: There Ain't No Bro

[00:36:48] [SPEAKER_04]: As Long

[00:36:50] [SPEAKER_04]: Y'all Talking About Being

[00:36:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Why don't you just answer the direct question?

[00:36:53] [SPEAKER_04]: Can she have company?

[00:36:54] [SPEAKER_04]: Yes.

[00:36:55] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm talking about being homeless or being in this crib in my room.

[00:36:59] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I'm taking it.

[00:36:59] [SPEAKER_04]: As long as you bring me that half, do whatever you want.

[00:37:02] [SPEAKER_04]: Because guess what?

[00:37:03] [SPEAKER_04]: He said bring me that money.

[00:37:04] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm bringing company too.

[00:37:05] [SPEAKER_04]: What are we talking about?

[00:37:06] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo, my pride.

[00:37:07] [SPEAKER_04]: It's a roommate situation.

[00:37:09] [SPEAKER_04]: My pride would never allow that vibe.

[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_04]: We're telling us something.

[00:37:11] [SPEAKER_04]: Wait, wait.

[00:37:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Your pride would never allow the old chick who you live with to have company?

[00:37:17] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, I'm saying if you was in there.

[00:37:19] [SPEAKER_00]: You know me in real life.

[00:37:19] [SPEAKER_04]: You know my answer to that.

[00:37:20] [SPEAKER_00]: You're going to be homeless.

[00:37:21] [SPEAKER_00]: No, no.

[00:37:21] [SPEAKER_02]: I really want-

[00:37:22] [SPEAKER_02]: When are the homies going to come pay this other half, bro?

[00:37:25] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold it down.

[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold it down.

[00:37:26] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not talking about-

[00:37:27] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold it down.

[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold it down.

[00:37:28] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not talking about-

[00:37:29] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold it down.

[00:37:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Hold it down.

[00:37:30] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm talking about this one scenario.

[00:37:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, we talking about your scenario.

[00:37:34] [SPEAKER_03]: We entered your world.

[00:37:35] [SPEAKER_03]: You created this Marvel Universe.

[00:37:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Wait, you-

[00:37:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Yes, nigga.

[00:37:38] [SPEAKER_03]: I'll dip.

[00:37:39] [SPEAKER_01]: I ain't gonna front one of the homies could live here.

[00:37:41] [SPEAKER_01]: I think I've done it in real life, gang.

[00:37:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Bro, you crazy.

[00:37:43] [SPEAKER_01]: Not a scenario that one of the homies can't live here?

[00:37:45] [SPEAKER_04]: Nah, it's over.

[00:37:46] [SPEAKER_04]: I ain't gonna front.

[00:37:46] [SPEAKER_04]: I get another job there, bro.

[00:37:47] [SPEAKER_04]: Either it's her or it's homeless.

[00:37:49] [SPEAKER_00]: I 100% believe that he-

[00:37:51] [SPEAKER_00]: I ain't arguing with him.

[00:37:53] [SPEAKER_04]: I just asked to confirm.

[00:37:54] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[00:37:55] [SPEAKER_01]: All right, cool.

[00:37:55] [SPEAKER_01]: I confirm.

[00:37:56] [SPEAKER_01]: For me, I'm not going to be homeless.

[00:37:58] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:37:58] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm kidding.

[00:37:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, we talking about-

[00:38:01] [SPEAKER_04]: No, I got people that agree with me now.

[00:38:03] [SPEAKER_04]: No, no, no.

[00:38:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Hold on.

[00:38:04] [SPEAKER_02]: I didn't say she could have company, brother.

[00:38:06] [SPEAKER_02]: Wait, why can't she have company?

[00:38:07] [SPEAKER_02]: She paid half the rent.

[00:38:08] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo, bro.

[00:38:09] [SPEAKER_02]: Yo, we talking about the girl that we was just in love with.

[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_02]: I was in her class.

[00:38:13] [SPEAKER_02]: That's fine, baby.

[00:38:15] [SPEAKER_04]: Compartmentalize.

[00:38:16] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:38:16] [SPEAKER_04]: Six months later, bro.

[00:38:17] [SPEAKER_03]: And then you compartmentalize the sweet thing she used to say to you.

[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_03]: And now you trying to-

[00:38:22] [SPEAKER_03]: That's not your business.

[00:38:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Where's that hat?

[00:38:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Go get somebody else to say the door.

[00:38:25] [SPEAKER_02]: Bro, she putting a hat on the door, the front door.

[00:38:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Like, you can't come in.

[00:38:28] [SPEAKER_02]: The hat is crazy.

[00:38:29] [SPEAKER_02]: A sock on the door.

[00:38:30] [SPEAKER_02]: This is my thing.

[00:38:31] [SPEAKER_02]: You put your own-

[00:38:32] [SPEAKER_04]: You're gonna be doing the same thing.

[00:38:36] [SPEAKER_04]: Nah, that was the rent.

[00:38:37] [SPEAKER_04]: That was the house.

[00:38:37] [SPEAKER_03]: That was the whole house.

[00:38:38] [SPEAKER_03]: For half the rent?

[00:38:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Half the rent.

[00:38:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Yo, what's the other?

[00:38:40] [SPEAKER_03]: What's-

[00:38:40] [SPEAKER_03]: How much is the other half?

[00:38:42] [SPEAKER_03]: How much are closer to rent a room?

[00:38:45] [SPEAKER_03]: I gotta go find another job.

[00:38:48] [SPEAKER_02]: That's what I'm saying, bro.

[00:38:49] [SPEAKER_04]: Then, but it's just-

[00:38:50] [SPEAKER_04]: Give me that half.

[00:38:51] [SPEAKER_04]: We good.

[00:38:52] [SPEAKER_04]: This is not forever.

[00:38:54] [SPEAKER_04]: Niggas said give me that half.

[00:38:56] [SPEAKER_04]: This is not forever either.

[00:38:56] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm doing it into like a dip, obviously.

[00:38:58] [SPEAKER_04]: But I ain't about to dip because we just not together no more.

[00:39:01] [SPEAKER_04]: If you still got this rent to pay, let's be honest with ourselves.

[00:39:04] [SPEAKER_03]: So we still in your world.

[00:39:05] [SPEAKER_03]: Not your real life world, but your Marvel universe, right?

[00:39:08] [SPEAKER_03]: We're gonna call it the quantum universe.

[00:39:10] [SPEAKER_01]: How do you think that's gonna work?

[00:39:12] [SPEAKER_01]: It may or may not work well.

[00:39:13] [SPEAKER_01]: Let's see.

[00:39:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Are you-

[00:39:15] [SPEAKER_03]: While you living with your roommate, right?

[00:39:17] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:39:18] [SPEAKER_03]: Are you gonna start dating again?

[00:39:20] Yeah.

[00:39:21] [SPEAKER_03]: How you gonna pitch to your new girl-

[00:39:23] [SPEAKER_03]: You living with your ex?

[00:39:23] [SPEAKER_03]: Give me that half.

[00:39:25] [SPEAKER_03]: What the fuck?

[00:39:25] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what he's saying.

[00:39:26] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what he's saying.

[00:39:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, how you gonna pitch it?

[00:39:28] [SPEAKER_01]: I live with my ex, but we live-

[00:39:29] [SPEAKER_01]: Yo, bro.

[00:39:29] [SPEAKER_03]: But she's just my mans.

[00:39:31] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:39:32] [SPEAKER_03]: That's gonna be tough.

[00:39:33] [SPEAKER_01]: As I say, yeah, I live with my baby mom, bro.

[00:39:34] [SPEAKER_01]: We not doing nothing.

[00:39:36] [SPEAKER_01]: What?

[00:39:37] [SPEAKER_01]: If she don't understand-

[00:39:37] [SPEAKER_02]: Then your baby mom's come home off of Don Julio?

[00:39:41] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga, she fucking, bro.

[00:39:42] [SPEAKER_04]: We not forcing nobody to do nothing.

[00:39:43] [SPEAKER_04]: Bro, what are you doing here, bro?

[00:39:44] [SPEAKER_04]: We not forcing-

[00:39:45] [SPEAKER_04]: We not forcing nobody to do nothing.

[00:39:47] [SPEAKER_04]: If she don't understand, that's cool.

[00:39:49] [SPEAKER_04]: I still need my half the rent.

[00:39:51] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo, Fonny.

[00:39:52] [SPEAKER_04]: Bro, your new show, you not understanding that, bro.

[00:39:53] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm gonna find somebody that understands, bro.

[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_03]: Hang on, bro.

[00:39:55] [SPEAKER_03]: You finding somebody that's DeLulu, and that's cool, bro.

[00:39:58] [SPEAKER_03]: I can't imagine quality in a relationship.

[00:40:00] [SPEAKER_03]: That nigga is dollar dick.

[00:40:02] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm DeLulu.

[00:40:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Nigga, you gonna accept that my ex is next door?

[00:40:05] [SPEAKER_03]: That's the thing, though.

[00:40:06] [SPEAKER_03]: That's-

[00:40:07] [SPEAKER_03]: Or dip.

[00:40:08] [SPEAKER_03]: You know why?

[00:40:09] [SPEAKER_03]: You know why you gotta dip?

[00:40:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Because I need my hat.

[00:40:12] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga said, I need that bread, nigga.

[00:40:13] [SPEAKER_02]: I need money.

[00:40:15] [SPEAKER_02]: So we gonna be homeless?

[00:40:16] [SPEAKER_04]: We gonna be living in a-

[00:40:18] [SPEAKER_04]: I got my room.

[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_04]: I got my-

[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_04]: Yo, bro.

[00:40:19] [SPEAKER_00]: All right, yo, Laquanny.

[00:40:20] [SPEAKER_00]: If I'm being logical, what he's saying is not-

[00:40:23] [SPEAKER_00]: Like-

[00:40:24] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not far-fetched.

[00:40:25] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not that it's not-

[00:40:26] [SPEAKER_00]: I think it is far-fetched.

[00:40:27] [SPEAKER_00]: It's crazy.

[00:40:27] [SPEAKER_00]: It's not far-fetched, bro.

[00:40:28] [SPEAKER_00]: No, man.

[00:40:28] [SPEAKER_00]: He's living with their baby moms.

[00:40:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just saying.

[00:40:30] [SPEAKER_00]: And don't wanna be-

[00:40:31] [SPEAKER_00]: He should be able to have a roof over his head,

[00:40:35] [SPEAKER_00]: however it is getting done,

[00:40:37] [SPEAKER_00]: and still date,

[00:40:39] [SPEAKER_00]: and not have to answer to questions about infidelity

[00:40:41] [SPEAKER_00]: that he is not partaking of.

[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro, he gonna-

[00:40:43] [SPEAKER_00]: Bro, he gonna-

[00:40:44] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying that what-

[00:40:44] [SPEAKER_00]: He gonna fucking answer this.

[00:40:45] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm not saying that what y'all saying is not gonna happen.

[00:40:48] [SPEAKER_04]: Of course it's gonna happen.

[00:40:48] [SPEAKER_04]: You ain't gonna touch it up.

[00:40:49] [SPEAKER_04]: But I'm just saying that if it's one or the other,

[00:40:51] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm in the crib and I need my half.

[00:40:53] [SPEAKER_04]: Of course, of course.

[00:40:54] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm in the crib and I need my half.

[00:40:55] [SPEAKER_01]: You gotta know it's not gonna be an easy transition.

[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_04]: But I need my half.

[00:40:58] [SPEAKER_04]: The landlord don't-

[00:40:59] [SPEAKER_04]: The landlord don't-

[00:41:01] [SPEAKER_04]: The landlord don't care about none of that, bro.

[00:41:03] [SPEAKER_04]: They need the half.

[00:41:03] [SPEAKER_04]: I need my shit on the first, nigga.

[00:41:05] [SPEAKER_04]: I need my shit on the first, nigga.

[00:41:05] [SPEAKER_04]: The subtitle of this episode is I need my half.

[00:41:08] [SPEAKER_04]: I need my half.

[00:41:10] [SPEAKER_04]: That's it.

[00:41:11] [SPEAKER_04]: Feel how you wanna feel.

[00:41:12] [SPEAKER_04]: Feelings is not gonna pay this rent.

[00:41:13] [SPEAKER_04]: I need my half.

[00:41:22] [SPEAKER_03]: Well, we talked about the negative connotations.

[00:41:25] [SPEAKER_03]: What about cultural backgrounds and influences on why people settle down?

[00:41:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Ooh.

[00:41:30] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, that's important.

[00:41:34] [SPEAKER_03]: Well, Kojo, you African?

[00:41:35] [SPEAKER_03]: You guys African first.

[00:41:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Make the question so I can fully understand it.

[00:41:38] [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like I have an example.

[00:41:41] [SPEAKER_03]: How do cultural backgrounds influence why people settle down?

[00:41:48] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what's interesting?

[00:41:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Hearing women speak, you know, sometimes when they speak-

[00:41:55] [SPEAKER_03]: I should not say it.

[00:41:57] [SPEAKER_03]: Start off a sentence.

[00:41:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:41:59] [SPEAKER_03]: You ain't get there yet.

[00:42:00] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm glad you're talking.

[00:42:01] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm glad you're talking.

[00:42:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh.

[00:42:03] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah, that's the thing.

[00:42:05] [SPEAKER_03]: I'm not pussy.

[00:42:06] [SPEAKER_03]: But when women speak on their upbringing, right?

[00:42:11] [SPEAKER_03]: Right?

[00:42:12] [SPEAKER_03]: And how they were kind of so focused on their goals.

[00:42:17] [SPEAKER_03]: Or their parents forced their goals.

[00:42:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Like go to school, this, that, this, that, and third.

[00:42:21] [SPEAKER_03]: And then all of a sudden, a switch turns in their parents.

[00:42:26] [SPEAKER_03]: And they're like, oh, give me a grandchild now.

[00:42:29] [SPEAKER_03]: But you brought them up to raise them in a way where they have to be independent.

[00:42:37] [SPEAKER_03]: And now you want them to turn that off because you want a grandchild out of them.

[00:42:45] [SPEAKER_03]: So I think that's kind of like, maybe culturally.

[00:42:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't really know about the other races.

[00:42:54] [SPEAKER_03]: But I hear that a lot with black women where their parents are now pressuring them.

[00:42:59] [SPEAKER_03]: Or making them feel like they're not, they're not where they're supposed to be in life because

[00:43:05] [SPEAKER_03]: they're not having children.

[00:43:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[00:43:08] [SPEAKER_01]: A lot of, a lot of our parents have like kids when they're like 30 and now we're at the

[00:43:12] [SPEAKER_01]: age of like, what's going on?

[00:43:13] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:43:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Facts.

[00:43:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:43:15] [SPEAKER_01]: So it's like, it's a different, it's a different time though.

[00:43:16] [SPEAKER_01]: Even with that, like my mom was like, oh, you need a, even when I was, when I was

[00:43:20] [SPEAKER_01]: like coming out of high school, she's like, make sure you marry a girl that's, you know,

[00:43:24] [SPEAKER_01]: she's a nurse.

[00:43:25] [SPEAKER_01]: She does this.

[00:43:25] [SPEAKER_01]: She does that.

[00:43:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Shout out to the nurses.

[00:43:30] [SPEAKER_01]: What was that?

[00:43:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Three days off?

[00:43:31] [SPEAKER_01]: Four days off.

[00:43:33] [SPEAKER_01]: They said they don't have to do it every, no, but yeah, like, I think that's, that's

[00:43:38] [SPEAKER_01]: another part of it as well.

[00:43:39] [SPEAKER_01]: Like the culture.

[00:43:40] [SPEAKER_01]: So even when niggas, niggas need their papers.

[00:43:46] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, all right.

[00:43:48] [SPEAKER_03]: How much you taking?

[00:43:50] [SPEAKER_03]: You know, that's crazy.

[00:43:50] [SPEAKER_03]: I've been asked that for weeks.

[00:43:51] [SPEAKER_03]: 20 pack.

[00:43:52] [SPEAKER_03]: You taking 20 K?

[00:43:53] [SPEAKER_04]: 20 pack.

[00:43:53] [SPEAKER_04]: You want a 20 pack?

[00:43:55] [SPEAKER_04]: Wait, hold on.

[00:43:55] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold on.

[00:43:55] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold on.

[00:43:56] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold on.

[00:43:56] [SPEAKER_04]: Hold on.

[00:43:56] [SPEAKER_01]: How's she?

[00:43:57] [SPEAKER_01]: How's she?

[00:43:58] [SPEAKER_03]: You got your papers?

[00:43:59] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, brother.

[00:44:00] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh, okay.

[00:44:01] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga, nigga.

[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga.

[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga.

[00:44:02] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga.

[00:44:05] [SPEAKER_04]: Nigga.

[00:44:26] [SPEAKER_04]: You can get divorced.

[00:44:27] [SPEAKER_04]: You can get divorced, but like how long?

[00:44:28] [SPEAKER_04]: I think you got to do it for two years.

[00:44:30] [SPEAKER_04]: Oh.

[00:44:30] [SPEAKER_01]: Nigga's was like, oh, they don't search that much.

[00:44:34] [SPEAKER_03]: No, they do search.

[00:44:34] [SPEAKER_03]: No, they do.

[00:44:35] [SPEAKER_03]: And it's a random search too.

[00:44:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Nigga, 7K?

[00:44:38] [SPEAKER_03]: Nigga, I'm good.

[00:44:39] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I'm going to blow that 7K in a day.

[00:44:41] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, it's going to be gone quick.

[00:44:41] [SPEAKER_03]: That's going to be a watch for me.

[00:44:43] [SPEAKER_01]: A watch is...

[00:44:45] [SPEAKER_03]: That's...

[00:44:46] [SPEAKER_01]: That's...

[00:44:46] [SPEAKER_01]: 20 pack sound good though.

[00:44:48] [SPEAKER_03]: 20 pack?

[00:44:49] [SPEAKER_03]: Nah, 20 pack.

[00:44:50] [SPEAKER_03]: 20 pack for...

[00:44:51] [SPEAKER_03]: You asking for a lot.

[00:44:52] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, nah.

[00:44:53] [SPEAKER_03]: 20 pack is...

[00:44:54] [SPEAKER_03]: You might have to give me like 50.

[00:44:56] [SPEAKER_01]: 50?

[00:44:57] [SPEAKER_03]: I ain't going to front money.

[00:44:58] [SPEAKER_03]: For papers?

[00:44:58] [SPEAKER_04]: 50.

[00:44:59] [SPEAKER_01]: I ain't going to front.

[00:45:00] [SPEAKER_01]: You're expensive.

[00:45:01] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so I've been told.

[00:45:03] [SPEAKER_01]: Huh?

[00:45:04] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah, 50?

[00:45:05] [SPEAKER_04]: What?

[00:45:06] [SPEAKER_04]: 50?

[00:45:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Wow.

[00:45:07] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, LA, you asked me, you know, you said on the African side of it.

[00:45:12] [SPEAKER_00]: But, you know, I know there's like, there's a stigma.

[00:45:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Not a stigma.

[00:45:15] [SPEAKER_00]: I don't get...

[00:45:15] [SPEAKER_00]: Again, there might be a stigma about how African culture is when it comes to marriage.

[00:45:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, your wife was assigned to you at two years old.

[00:45:22] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that didn't happen to me because I also am American, right?

[00:45:25] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I was born here.

[00:45:26] [SPEAKER_00]: My parents raised us here.

[00:45:28] [SPEAKER_00]: And even though we're entrenched in our culture, all my parents' kids, we're like, we know our

[00:45:33] [SPEAKER_00]: culture, we know our history, all that stuff.

[00:45:34] [SPEAKER_00]: We have these names.

[00:45:36] [SPEAKER_00]: I think they still raised us as Brooklynites and Americans.

[00:45:39] [SPEAKER_00]: So, we still abide by those, like, the American way sometimes too.

[00:45:44] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, my mom has never forced me or complained about the racial identity of the woman that

[00:45:50] [SPEAKER_00]: I brought home.

[00:45:51] [SPEAKER_00]: She's never had.

[00:45:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Whereas, in the social world, everything like, oh, you got to come home with an African girl.

[00:45:57] [SPEAKER_01]: I always wanted to ask you that.

[00:45:59] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, like, my mom, it wasn't like, my mom has never sat me down.

[00:46:02] [SPEAKER_00]: It's like, oh, why don't you bring home a young girl?

[00:46:05] [SPEAKER_00]: No, it's never happened.

[00:46:06] [SPEAKER_00]: It's never happened.

[00:46:08] [SPEAKER_00]: That's because I think she understands that when you raise, when you raising kids, three kids

[00:46:12] [SPEAKER_00]: in Flatbush, like, there's going to be Jamaican women.

[00:46:15] [SPEAKER_00]: There's going to be Trinity women.

[00:46:16] [SPEAKER_00]: There's going to be Bayesian women.

[00:46:17] [SPEAKER_00]: There's going to be Dominican women.

[00:46:18] [SPEAKER_00]: There's going to be Puerto Rican women.

[00:46:19] [SPEAKER_00]: Hey, Flatbush?

[00:46:20] [SPEAKER_02]: I've never seen a Dominican woman in Flatbush.

[00:46:23] [SPEAKER_05]: That nigga trying to throw that at the door, Sean.

[00:46:25] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga, nigga, nigga, nigga, nigga, nigga.

[00:46:27] [SPEAKER_02]: Hold on.

[00:46:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Hold on.

[00:46:28] [SPEAKER_02]: Hold on.

[00:46:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Hold on.

[00:46:29] [SPEAKER_02]: Nigga, slip it under the door.

[00:46:30] [SPEAKER_02]: Hold on.

[00:46:31] [SPEAKER_02]: You know what's funny?

[00:46:32] [SPEAKER_02]: Me and Kwadi was like, wait, hold on.

[00:46:34] Hold on.

[00:46:35] [SPEAKER_00]: But, but.

[00:46:36] [SPEAKER_00]: Nigga, so you have me up to that point.

[00:46:37] [SPEAKER_00]: Well, yeah.

[00:46:38] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, you know, I went to school across town in a white neighborhood.

[00:46:41] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, so I got this white girl.

[00:46:43] [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to go.

[00:46:43] [SPEAKER_00]: In my earliest stages of like liking girls after preschool was like.

[00:46:49] [SPEAKER_00]: You horny fuck.

[00:46:51] [SPEAKER_00]: Italian chicks and all that stuff.

[00:46:52] [SPEAKER_00]: Like, it's different.

[00:46:53] [SPEAKER_00]: I think my parents, I think my parents, I didn't hear that.

[00:46:55] [SPEAKER_00]: I think my parents understood.

[00:46:57] [SPEAKER_00]: I think my parents understood that this is how they was raising their kids.

[00:46:59] [SPEAKER_00]: So it was like, there's no way we can place these like, uh, these rules on the children.

[00:47:05] [SPEAKER_01]: So your parents are okay with you bringing home a white woman?

[00:47:07] [SPEAKER_01]: So I think, oh shit.

[00:47:08] [SPEAKER_01]: No, no, no, no, no.

[00:47:09] [SPEAKER_01]: It's a question I asked you.

[00:47:10] [SPEAKER_01]: You said, you said.

[00:47:10] [SPEAKER_00]: I wouldn't even, I wouldn't even test it out to see.

[00:47:12] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.

[00:47:13] [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.

[00:47:13] [SPEAKER_01]: My mom ain't with that.

[00:47:16] [SPEAKER_01]: My dad wouldn't give a fuck.

[00:47:17] [SPEAKER_01]: My mom's like, nah.

[00:47:17] [SPEAKER_00]: I think they're going to draw the line somewhere.

[00:47:19] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, so I think your parents were, uh, they grew up traditional, but you know, they

[00:47:25] [SPEAKER_03]: were modern for their time, whatever that, that during that.

[00:47:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Hybrid.

[00:47:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, hybrid.

[00:47:29] [SPEAKER_03]: My parents still do some bullshit.

[00:47:30] [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, you got, you got to have a little bit of the traditional in you though.

[00:47:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:47:33] [SPEAKER_01]: Because, um, we can't say all of our traditional, the traditional things that we learned when

[00:47:36] [SPEAKER_01]: we were children was bad.

[00:47:37] [SPEAKER_01]: Like some of it we had to adjust to or we had to become modernized.

[00:47:41] [SPEAKER_04]: What are, what are these traditional things you would like to keep?

[00:47:45] [SPEAKER_04]: Um, or that, you know, in general, like what's like these traditional views?

[00:47:51] [SPEAKER_04]: What would you like to have?

[00:47:53] [SPEAKER_03]: I think I understand a, uh, a little bit more on what, especially trying to maintain your,

[00:48:00] [SPEAKER_03]: your own apartment or your home.

[00:48:03] [SPEAKER_03]: I kind of understand the little, uh, annoyance, the little annoying nuances that my parents

[00:48:10] [SPEAKER_03]: had when, um, particular things aren't done.

[00:48:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Like the trash, the trash, the food, bro.

[00:48:20] [SPEAKER_03]: The defrosted chicken.

[00:48:22] [SPEAKER_03]: Leave them my light on in the bathroom.

[00:48:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Turn the fucking light on.

[00:48:24] [SPEAKER_00]: My first, my first week in my college apartment, I realized the frustration of my mom.

[00:48:29] [SPEAKER_00]: When I didn't, I'm like, I'm about to be hungry, bro.

[00:48:33] [SPEAKER_00]: Like that shit was crazy.

[00:48:34] [SPEAKER_01]: You know, you know, you know, it's one traditional thing I would like to keep.

[00:48:38] [SPEAKER_01]: We used to do this when I was younger.

[00:48:39] [SPEAKER_01]: We used to all eat as a family, but we all probably sit around and just watch TV together.

[00:48:43] [SPEAKER_01]: So now, like, now I have to, if I'm watching TV, when I'm eating, I have to watch TV.

[00:48:47] [SPEAKER_01]: Unless I'm actually at a dinner table.

[00:48:48] [SPEAKER_01]: You eat alone?

[00:48:49] [SPEAKER_01]: With me?

[00:48:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[00:48:50] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I eat alone now.

[00:48:52] [SPEAKER_01]: I usually watch TV to make it feel like-

[00:48:53] [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it's funny because when I was younger, I used to like eat with my sister at the table.

[00:48:56] [SPEAKER_00]: Even if it wasn't all of us, at least I was sitting with my sister at the table.

[00:48:58] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, I think, I think I would like that.

[00:49:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:49:01] [SPEAKER_01]: That, that, that, that, like, like we'll see the, like we'll see it in movies.

[00:49:05] [SPEAKER_01]: We'll see it in TV shows, like a family sitting around like, how was your day, sweetheart?

[00:49:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[00:49:09] [SPEAKER_03]: See, I don't know that.

[00:49:10] [SPEAKER_01]: No, I like that.

[00:49:12] [SPEAKER_03]: That's where the condom dad comes in.

[00:49:14] [SPEAKER_03]: I like that.

[00:49:15] [SPEAKER_03]: Like, yo, how you-

[00:49:16] [SPEAKER_00]: That don't sound natural.

[00:49:17] [SPEAKER_03]: How you doing?

[00:49:18] [SPEAKER_01]: Nah, what was, yeah, but it's like, yo, what's good?

[00:49:21] [SPEAKER_01]: How you doing?

[00:49:21] [SPEAKER_01]: You know what, you know what I wanted to be like?

[00:49:23] [SPEAKER_01]: It's a great example.

[00:49:24] [SPEAKER_01]: Bernie Mac show.

[00:49:25] [SPEAKER_01]: How they all sit around him, Wanda, and the rest of the, rest of the gang that's sitting

[00:49:29] [SPEAKER_01]: there talking like-

[00:49:30] [SPEAKER_00]: I won't take that at little, but I know, to me it's a TV show, so I feel like that's

[00:49:34] [SPEAKER_00]: what's-

[00:49:34] [SPEAKER_01]: But the thing about it is though, that's what I learned, like, I saw a lot of things that I

[00:49:38] [SPEAKER_01]: would like to do, like my wife and kids.

[00:49:40] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I, that's why I love shows like that.

[00:49:41] [SPEAKER_01]: So, you know what I'm saying?

[00:49:42] [SPEAKER_01]: Like I want to be that, I want to be Michael Kyle for my family.

[00:49:45] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I want to be that fun dad that teaches you shit.

[00:49:48] [SPEAKER_01]: Like yo, alright, you want to be an asshole?

[00:49:49] [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to teach you a lesson there.

[00:49:51] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:49:51] [SPEAKER_03]: Rob Markman, Like Overfield?

[00:49:52] [SPEAKER_03]: His punishment was fun.

[00:49:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:49:54] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I want.

[00:49:55] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, you want to take my car for a joyride?

[00:49:57] [SPEAKER_01]: Alright, I'm going to hide around the block now.

[00:49:58] [SPEAKER_03]: That was a classic episode.

[00:50:00] [SPEAKER_03]: Classic.

[00:50:02] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:50:02] [SPEAKER_01]: That, but see-

[00:50:03] [SPEAKER_01]: That's modern and a little traditional.

[00:50:05] [SPEAKER_03]: When you look at, cause you know, that's still fiction, right?

[00:50:09] [SPEAKER_03]: And you look at it like, alright, that's an image they painting.

[00:50:14] [SPEAKER_03]: Cool.

[00:50:15] [SPEAKER_03]: But that don't feel like, none of those shows felt like the man settled down.

[00:50:22] [SPEAKER_03]: Mm-hmm.

[00:50:22] [SPEAKER_03]: You know what I'm saying?

[00:50:23] [SPEAKER_01]: He picked the woman that he really wanted to be with.

[00:50:24] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah, like, I feel like there's a level of victory in life.

[00:50:28] [SPEAKER_03]: Mm-hmm.

[00:50:29] [SPEAKER_03]: I feel like in all aspects that, I feel it in everything else.

[00:50:33] [SPEAKER_03]: Whether it's my, uh, my day to day, my job, like I feel fulfilled.

[00:50:40] [SPEAKER_03]: And that's kind of what I'm looking-

[00:50:41] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't think I could ever say that I'm settling down if the person I'm with brings me fulfillment.

[00:50:47] [SPEAKER_03]: Mm-hmm.

[00:50:48] [SPEAKER_03]: That's just-

[00:50:49] [SPEAKER_03]: That's just-

[00:50:49] [SPEAKER_03]: My whole thing on this episode in itself, the concept of what quote unquote settling

[00:50:57] [SPEAKER_03]: down means, I'm for it.

[00:50:59] [SPEAKER_03]: It's just the wording of it that long isn't even.

[00:51:02] [SPEAKER_01]: It's like, but it's my fault of the question, but at the same time, like, now I'm listening

[00:51:05] [SPEAKER_01]: to it, it's like, it's your perspective, bro.

[00:51:07] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[00:51:08] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, it's how you take it, for real.

[00:51:09] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, yeah, that's just it.

[00:51:11] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I'm listening to what Quanee's saying, I'm listening to what you're saying, but it's

[00:51:13] [SPEAKER_01]: like, it's how you take the word.

[00:51:15] [SPEAKER_04]: Well, Quanee only want his half, so.

[00:51:17] [SPEAKER_04]: With what you said, you said the woman did, or the men-

[00:51:21] [SPEAKER_04]: What did you just say?

[00:51:22] [SPEAKER_04]: The women don't feel like they're settling or something like that?

[00:51:24] [SPEAKER_04]: Not wrong.

[00:51:24] [SPEAKER_04]: On the shows?

[00:51:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Oh no, yeah.

[00:51:25] [SPEAKER_01]: He feels like he had the woman of his life.

[00:51:27] [SPEAKER_01]: Like, they look like they had the women of their life.

[00:51:29] [SPEAKER_03]: They, you know, they, it was, it was one thing, two things about the Bernie Mac show, if I

[00:51:35] [SPEAKER_03]: remember correctly, and my wife and kids.

[00:51:39] [SPEAKER_03]: They never had like an episode or a series throughout the show where they were in turmoil,

[00:51:47] [SPEAKER_03]: the husband and wife.

[00:51:48] [SPEAKER_03]: Like, they may not, they may have their little arguments, but it never was like, divorce

[00:51:52] [SPEAKER_03]: never got brought up.

[00:51:53] [SPEAKER_03]: Breakup never got brought up.

[00:51:54] [SPEAKER_03]: Not the extreme.

[00:51:55] [SPEAKER_03]: It was, yeah, it never got to that extreme.

[00:51:57] [SPEAKER_03]: And I kind of like that.

[00:51:58] [SPEAKER_03]: I love the hell out of that.

[00:51:59] [SPEAKER_03]: That they, they always figured it out.

[00:52:01] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I'm saying.

[00:52:01] [SPEAKER_03]: My, my, the person I feel like I'm a succeed in life with, where everything is going to

[00:52:07] [SPEAKER_03]: be victorious, we make, we not going to win every day, you know, but when you look back,

[00:52:13] [SPEAKER_03]: it's always going to be a successful year.

[00:52:15] [SPEAKER_03]: And that's kind of how I kind of, I kind of want it.

[00:52:18] [SPEAKER_03]: That's what I'm, and I feel like anything other than that is going to make me feel

[00:52:24] [SPEAKER_03]: like I settled.

[00:52:25] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

[00:52:26] [SPEAKER_01]: If there's more.

[00:52:27] [SPEAKER_03]: Like, I don't want to give up on God blessing me.

[00:52:32] [SPEAKER_03]: I don't want to be so impatient that I just take whatever I could get.

[00:52:35] [SPEAKER_03]: Oof.

[00:52:36] [SPEAKER_04]: I have a question.

[00:52:37] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:52:37] [SPEAKER_04]: Do you think that you can feel like you're settling?

[00:52:39] [SPEAKER_04]: This is a, from what you're talking about, this is a long-term relationship leading

[00:52:43] [SPEAKER_04]: like to marriage and all that.

[00:52:44] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:52:44] [SPEAKER_03]: We're not talking about no hidden idyllity.

[00:52:47] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:52:47] [SPEAKER_04]: So being, being that we're talking about situations like that, maybe I've heard married

[00:52:51] [SPEAKER_04]: people say, or people that's been together for a while.

[00:52:53] [SPEAKER_04]: It wasn't all peaches and cream.

[00:52:54] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:52:55] [SPEAKER_04]: I just said that.

[00:52:56] [SPEAKER_04]: Yeah.

[00:52:57] [SPEAKER_04]: I'm leading up to a question, right?

[00:52:59] [SPEAKER_04]: So let's say in one year you feel like you're settling, but that next year could be

[00:53:03] [SPEAKER_04]: like the, that's the year that everything changes and it goes up and it goes down.

[00:53:06] [SPEAKER_04]: So I guess I'm asking if you feel like you're settling and in your moment, do you then make

[00:53:13] [SPEAKER_04]: a change in the moment or do you wait it out?

[00:53:16] [SPEAKER_03]: Oh, you mean, you mean like if the moment I feel like I'm settling and am I bouncing?

[00:53:20] [SPEAKER_03]: Cause I'm talking about, no.

[00:53:21] [SPEAKER_03]: Like do you, do you?

[00:53:22] [SPEAKER_03]: No.

[00:53:22] [SPEAKER_03]: That actually goes into the next episode.

[00:53:24] [SPEAKER_03]: I promise you.

[00:53:26] [SPEAKER_03]: All right.

[00:53:26] [SPEAKER_03]: So I'll just, yeah.

[00:53:27] [SPEAKER_01]: I guess that would just be being, being patient.

[00:53:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:53:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:53:29] [SPEAKER_03]: Yeah.

[00:53:29] [SPEAKER_03]: That's my question.

[00:53:30] [SPEAKER_03]: No, no, no, no, no.

[00:53:31] [SPEAKER_03]: We'll start off there, but that, that'll go to my, literally the next episode.

[00:53:35] [SPEAKER_03]: It's called Zero to 100.

[00:53:36] [SPEAKER_03]: Sure.

[00:53:37] [SPEAKER_03]: Real quick.

[00:53:38] [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah.

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[00:54:43] [SPEAKER_01]: And this guy right here, he does women's apparel.

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[00:54:55] What?

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[00:55:01] [SPEAKER_03]: God is good.

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[00:55:02] [SPEAKER_03]: That'll be easy.