Episode 265: Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind

[00:00:00] You already know where is my fellow people out there.

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[00:00:20] We do appreciate y'all.

[00:00:21] If you hear a little construction in the back, it's me fixing my life.

[00:00:25] I was going on, Mr. L.A.

[00:00:27] Doing well, man.

[00:00:29] Another day, another part, you know.

[00:00:32] The life we tell, the stories we tell.

[00:00:35] So we got another acts a good guy.

[00:00:39] This time this person is choosing to stay anonymous.

[00:00:44] Yeah, pussy.

[00:00:46] That was insane.

[00:00:47] Yeah, pussy.

[00:00:49] She said disclaimer.

[00:00:51] Can you please paraphrase this in the caption?

[00:00:54] Hey y'all, I need to remain anonymous for this one.

[00:00:58] This man knows too many people and I feel like he may know at least one of y'all.

[00:01:02] He probably don't die because nobody knows me.

[00:01:04] Hold on.

[00:01:05] My question is, I left a good guy.

[00:01:09] And I need to know if I'm wallowing.

[00:01:12] Yes, let's cut to the chase.

[00:01:13] Yes, you are.

[00:01:15] I need an unbiased opinion.

[00:01:17] Personally, I stand very firm in my decision and I have no desire to get back with this person.

[00:01:23] But maybe there's something I'm missing or need to work on.

[00:01:27] Say it with your chest, Kwanita.

[00:01:29] Mike is right there.

[00:01:31] She won't.

[00:01:33] She never brought it up.

[00:01:36] So basically I was with someone for almost two years and I broke it with him mentally after the first year.

[00:01:42] Damn.

[00:01:43] That's tough.

[00:01:44] Nah, you need to stay anonymous.

[00:01:45] Yeah, that's insane.

[00:01:46] But physically a month ago, but I did remain loyal the whole time although I was very unhappy.

[00:01:53] I will say he never disrespected me or cheated on me.

[00:01:57] And he was always open to talk if I had something to get off my chest.

[00:02:02] We would set time aside for at least once a week to have a safe space conversation.

[00:02:07] Shout out to the check-ins.

[00:02:09] They really loved that piece.

[00:02:10] You killed them.

[00:02:11] We're on recovery.

[00:02:12] You body that one.

[00:02:14] We communicate very well, but there was no real progress in any of these issues.

[00:02:20] We communicate, oh okay, hold.

[00:02:21] I'm a hopeless romantic and he's very boring.

[00:02:25] We never went on dates.

[00:02:27] Even if we went out it was because I planned.

[00:02:29] And he would be visibly annoyed the whole time because he hates being outside.

[00:02:34] That nigga's a bat.

[00:02:38] That's how the baddest thing on the run.

[00:02:41] That nigga got ops, bro.

[00:02:42] He was scared.

[00:02:44] I never judged a man by how much money they made because life is hard.

[00:02:47] And for everyone, he has never gotten me a gift even if it was a $2 card on a holiday or occasion.

[00:02:54] That's a good guy.

[00:02:55] Respectful.

[00:02:56] I have always made sure to get him something even if I had a limited amount of money.

[00:03:01] For example, our first Christmas, I got him an Xbox and he told me I couldn't afford to get you anything because I have to pay rent.

[00:03:09] Rent due.

[00:03:11] That was always his excuse, by the way.

[00:03:17] He doesn't have a car so I did all the driving.

[00:03:20] Even when it comes to picking his child up from school sometimes.

[00:03:23] Oh you get it, person.

[00:03:24] Alright we're going to keep you anonymous for real for real.

[00:03:27] And speaking of the child who I took care of very well.

[00:03:31] Okay step mommy, you're not a step mother.

[00:03:34] You're the mother who stepped up.

[00:03:36] He has beef with his baby mother.

[00:03:39] He has beef with his baby mother due to custody disputes which resulted in her trying to have issues with me as well.

[00:03:44] Fair phrases, L.A.

[00:03:45] But one thing about me, I can park a B word like an old Honda.

[00:03:51] So I decided to remove myself completely from that and the child.

[00:03:56] LOL this is already so long and I'll end it here.

[00:03:59] But how much does one have to put up just because the person is good?

[00:04:03] This person wasn't good to you?

[00:04:04] Yeah it wasn't like that.

[00:04:05] I ain't going to put him better than just saying he's your whole witness to be honest with you.

[00:04:08] Respectfully though.

[00:04:09] Respectfully though, come on let's be serious.

[00:04:12] Okay so the person to answer this question anonymous sender, the person was good.

[00:04:20] Y'all just weren't compatible.

[00:04:22] Like you wanted gifts, you wanted to be shown and you weren't getting that so the checking out makes sense.

[00:04:30] The things you wanted in the relationship he couldn't provide that doesn't take away from the characteristics of the man that he is or he could have been.

[00:04:39] That just wasn't compatible.

[00:04:40] Y'all were literally friends that were probably romping.

[00:04:43] Facts.

[00:04:44] It's unfortunate, you probably liked him a lot though you had a lot of feelings for him but it just didn't align.

[00:04:51] Right, alarming is key.

[00:04:52] Kwani jumping bro.

[00:04:53] I know this is killing you, you couldn't jump in bro.

[00:04:56] He didn't jump in bro.

[00:04:58] I mean I don't have a, she said a rent as an excuse.

[00:05:02] That was always his excuse like rent is due every month.

[00:05:06] Now the thing of the, that was not an excuse one.

[00:05:08] He has baby mother, he has a kid.

[00:05:10] He's not like he's in a different part of life.

[00:05:12] Alright so my fourth cut you off.

[00:05:13] That is what got me like the whole conversation about the rent.

[00:05:17] Okay cool, he couldn't pay for certain things, cool.

[00:05:19] But you got a kid too?

[00:05:21] Yeah his resources.

[00:05:22] That is a lot, your resources are limited though.

[00:05:24] His resources are limited.

[00:05:25] He's fighting a custody battle.

[00:05:27] He may not have the emotional bandwidth to be romantic at that time because he got so much,

[00:05:36] his plate sound full is fucked.

[00:05:39] So she may come off as nagging where he is like yo I wish I had quote unquote $2 to go get you a card but every penny counts for me.

[00:05:52] So yes he may have been the great, had a great qualities of a good person.

[00:05:57] Right but at this present moment for y'all to, y'all not compatible.

[00:06:02] Because she shouldn't change her needs for quote unquote a good guy right because that's how to say the good guys finish last because she's settling for him in the end.

[00:06:11] But with all actuality y'all just not compatible.

[00:06:14] He got too much to figure out right now.

[00:06:16] Don't spend the block though when he get up though.

[00:06:18] Yeah it's okay you gotta leave him.

[00:06:20] I think her self esteem a little low.

[00:06:23] How you figure that?

[00:06:24] This is a listener please don't hurt her.

[00:06:26] It's not like that.

[00:06:27] I fuck with the person.

[00:06:31] It's just like bro you don't gotta sit together, you got a baby and you just want to be a stepmother.

[00:06:38] Let them get back together, let them build their family bro she wants that family back.

[00:06:42] Oh you think the other girl will hunt?

[00:06:44] Hell yeah that's always how it be bro.

[00:06:46] One of them always wants to hear us raise it together.

[00:06:49] I've dated the one with a kid my nigga that's what the other person always wants.

[00:06:52] Are you projecting?

[00:06:53] Oh I'm projecting like a mother.

[00:06:55] I've been here before brother.

[00:06:58] Ain't the best.

[00:07:00] Ain't the worst but listen bro there's other men out there.

[00:07:05] Men that have good jobs that can pay their rent with no kids.

[00:07:09] Just go find that for yourself.

[00:07:11] Men that'll give you a card, $2 card.

[00:07:14] You be fine.

[00:07:16] Nah but son is bugging though.

[00:07:17] $2 card bro.

[00:07:18] He couldn't get her a $2 card?

[00:07:20] You never been in a situation where this never?

[00:07:24] Where the ends were tight?

[00:07:26] Yeah the ends were tight.

[00:07:28] Back to boss them.

[00:07:30] I had $2 though.

[00:07:32] I'm not gonna lie to you bro this is mad free dates bro.

[00:07:36] Alright hold on.

[00:07:37] I just sold it.

[00:07:39] Since you know her is she the type of woman that is okay with like a coffee day or a free day?

[00:07:43] Yeah I don't know her personally but she's like a very chill person.

[00:07:47] Party life fucker hide ahead.

[00:07:50] It's like when women say oh um

[00:07:52] I don't require too much.

[00:07:53] I see you give me some flowers from Target or Trader Joe's like bro you don't want those flowers.

[00:07:57] Hold on now don't do the whole fool flowers are good.

[00:08:00] You can't even give me the flowers bro.

[00:08:02] You can't even give me the flowers bro.

[00:08:04] You can't even give me the flowers bro.

[00:08:06] You can't even give me the flowers bro.

[00:08:08] You can't even give me the flowers bro.

[00:08:10] What is this?

[00:08:12] What is this?

[00:08:14] Like you said we do 12s they don't do 100s.

[00:08:16] Like this man over here.

[00:08:18] What are you saying?

[00:08:20] SICKER.

[00:08:22] So um alright so with this with what

[00:08:27] ****

[00:08:32] Oh.

[00:08:34] ****

[00:08:37] Figure out that timecode figure out that timecode.

[00:08:39] ****

[00:08:41] No don't cut it.

[00:08:43] Yeah.

[00:08:45] That game that I have an idea.

[00:08:48] What not an idea but I had this written down for a while.

[00:08:52] So with our anonymous person now moving on right.

[00:08:59] What do you feel about the out of sight out of mind concept?

[00:09:04] You know people be like oh for me to it's easy for me to get over something.

[00:09:08] It's easy for me to get over somebody out of sight out of mind.

[00:09:11] You think that's true?

[00:09:13] It depends on how strong the relationship is.

[00:09:15] It's quite shaking and say yeah not as much.

[00:09:17] Quite you got a mic bro.

[00:09:19] See with your chest.

[00:09:21] Of course out of sight out of mind is very very very true.

[00:09:26] So I speak on my **** so even when I broke up with my ex.

[00:09:31] Out of sight out of mind didn't work for that long.

[00:09:34] That **** does not work that often.

[00:09:36] It's good if you live with a person that is different bro.

[00:09:38] Like it's like niggas don't be real lovers bro.

[00:09:40] I feel like anybody out of sight out of mind you ain't really **** with that person.

[00:09:44] Bro it's bro it's I don't I don't believe if you didn't **** with that person that much.

[00:09:48] That's easy.

[00:09:49] I've done that a million times but I'm good at detachment.

[00:09:52] That should happen.

[00:09:53] I was like that's good as I thought I was.

[00:09:56] I think it's like there are exceptions to the rule now.

[00:10:00] And I don't act like it's just everybody.

[00:10:03] I'm talking so in this situation right and then the anonymous situation cool.

[00:10:09] She was talking to the guy for two years and she talked about how good of a person she was.

[00:10:16] They may not have been compatible but I don't think the out of sight out of mind concept works for would work for her.

[00:10:26] Like should she be interested?

[00:10:28] I don't know how far her move has it been but I don't think she should jump into something new.

[00:10:33] Yeah I think she's got to do what she's doing right now.

[00:10:35] You don't have to go out and date.

[00:10:37] I mean a therapist said oh you go out and meet new people you don't have to take them seriously which is...

[00:10:42] Well that is dating.

[00:10:43] Dating is collecting data.

[00:10:45] It's a waste of birth.

[00:10:47] Not everybody got to it else.

[00:10:52] Do y'all believe in the right person at the wrong time?

[00:10:57] No.

[00:10:58] Come on coach don't do that.

[00:10:59] The mic right there bro.

[00:11:01] I'm watching porn right now.

[00:11:03] What's wrong with you?

[00:11:04] The middle of the pod bro.

[00:11:06] The pod is just...

[00:11:07] There's four of them in the room over here trying to come on.

[00:11:11] But no, I don't believe in the right person wrong time concept at all.

[00:11:16] We had this conversation.

[00:11:18] I believe in it.

[00:11:19] You believe in it.

[00:11:20] You cut something short?

[00:11:22] Yeah.

[00:11:23] Because you were strong when it lasted.

[00:11:24] Yeah you were strong.

[00:11:25] Yeah I believe in it.

[00:11:26] I believe in it.

[00:11:27] Oh yeah I mean yeah I'll say I believe in it.

[00:11:29] I believe in it.

[00:11:30] But so cool.

[00:11:31] Out of sight out of mind.

[00:11:33] I think that's like if y'all know dating pretty young but once you like love somebody I don't

[00:11:41] think that works.

[00:11:43] In my experience that shit don't work.

[00:11:46] The whole I'm gonna block this person.

[00:11:48] I literally said bro you do not exist in my world.

[00:11:51] I said this shit.

[00:11:52] Until I brought the motherfucking name up I was like what the fuck?

[00:11:55] And then I just...

[00:11:56] I'm gonna tell a story.

[00:11:59] Oh fuck I just told them all the songs.

[00:12:01] Story top.

[00:12:02] I was dating somebody in a workout and it took every like the amount of mental Olympics

[00:12:09] I had to put myself through to force myself to try to get over with soul draining.

[00:12:16] But eventually time passes a little bit and days it don't feel as long.

[00:12:22] Cool.

[00:12:23] I go out with Danny for her birthday.

[00:12:26] And we're at dinner and we just talking.

[00:12:30] And Danny was like you know who hit my timeline?

[00:12:35] So it's so.

[00:12:37] And for what I haven't heard I didn't hear that name in so long bro.

[00:12:42] Let me can I make an educated guess real quick.

[00:12:45] You clocked out.

[00:12:47] Did you clock out?

[00:12:48] Or you just like that thought of that person you just kept running through your mind throughout after that time?

[00:12:52] Nah so let me so blow.

[00:12:55] I'm gonna tell you.

[00:12:56] We uh...

[00:12:59] The restaurant was right across the street from Chase.

[00:13:02] So now you get it?

[00:13:06] Okay cool.

[00:13:07] So I haven't heard any man long.

[00:13:09] I already know it.

[00:13:10] Okay cool.

[00:13:11] So she was like yo.

[00:13:13] Cause we was talking about me being back on social media.

[00:13:15] She was like yo back on Twitter blah blah blah.

[00:13:18] And I'm like yeah like they got something called a 4U page and I'm seeing everything blah blah blah.

[00:13:24] She was like yeah you know what popped up on my 4U page?

[00:13:26] Boom!

[00:13:28] I was like okay.

[00:13:30] Try to you know dust it off.

[00:13:32] And she was like yeah.

[00:13:34] Or she on the timeline talking about my man this, my man this, my man that.

[00:13:38] Now I'm angry now.

[00:13:40] Now I'm hot.

[00:13:42] Now it been some, it's been a year or two?

[00:13:46] A year or two?

[00:13:48] Almost two.

[00:13:49] Yeah almost two.

[00:13:51] Right?

[00:13:52] So I'm like you think it, I'm thinking.

[00:13:54] I ain't nothing.

[00:13:55] Yeah you far removed from it.

[00:13:56] But then she called herself she was like yo like my bad I ain't even acts if blah blah blah.

[00:14:01] I'm not playing off.

[00:14:02] Nah you don't.

[00:14:03] That drive home dog!

[00:14:05] No music.

[00:14:06] No music.

[00:14:07] Just straight road.

[00:14:08] Just straight road bro.

[00:14:10] Just straight road I don't want to listen to nothing.

[00:14:13] Yo bro this is the point where I can hear other car engines like oh you gotta get that fixed.

[00:14:18] They can see your belt sound a little off.

[00:14:20] Bro cause like I said I mentally have blocked, tried my best to block it out.

[00:14:25] You know you have days or whatever whatever.

[00:14:27] This is the point where I wouldn't even talk to y'all about it no more because I figured not talking about it would.

[00:14:33] It doesn't exist anymore.

[00:14:34] Right cool.

[00:14:37] Bro it's like that shit took me right back.

[00:14:41] It felt like the fucking day after.

[00:14:43] Yeah yeah and I'm like holy bro.

[00:14:47] I'm not gonna lie that in itself is kinda insane like I think somebody has sent me some like oh this is you on a date with Shorty?

[00:14:54] I was like I'm like wow wow the nigga sent me this shit nigga sent me the video I was just like next time you ask me if I'm on a date first.

[00:15:01] Yeah.

[00:15:02] One that's and two that's not me.

[00:15:04] Now I'm upset.

[00:15:05] Thanks for ruining my day.

[00:15:06] Yeah.

[00:15:07] See for me like that out of sight out of mind thing don't work because I don't know I feel like the person is.

[00:15:15] It means something to me my nigga like if I hold some type of attachment to you I can't do out of sight out of mind like.

[00:15:22] That I was gonna say more so like yo if you in my heart first I can't even, you mean not thinking about you're not gonna take you out of my heart.

[00:15:31] So that out of sight out of mind concept don't really work for me.

[00:15:36] For me the reason why I kinda hesitate today is because if that shit go well I know how I get I mean mad.

[00:15:43] Head over heels.

[00:15:44] Facts and I can't afford that.

[00:15:46] To go through that again.

[00:15:47] Yeah facts.

[00:15:48] That's the other thing though after we always had those conversations like oh bro I can't I don't want to do another one of them shit right now.

[00:15:54] What was your uh what what but there is a moment with with that break up process where you was like not you but when we have that you know what fucking.

[00:16:05] What was your fucking moment?

[00:16:07] What you what do you mean by fucking I had like eight of them.

[00:16:09] I gave you one of mine.

[00:16:13] I'm trying to figure out how I say this.

[00:16:14] Where do you have to figure that out.

[00:16:15] I got it I got it I got it.

[00:16:19] We had we weren't talking at all but it was an anniversary of someone who passed that mean a lot to her.

[00:16:30] Kind of like the equivalent of my many but the person passed so I'm like and I got a calendar notification because the first time around when we first dated.

[00:16:41] She was just mad sad and I'm like what's wrong and she told me you know somebody who I really cared about passed away.

[00:16:48] So I've marked it in my calendar to keep in mind like yo this is around the time she gets in her phone try to do something nice.

[00:16:57] This is the anniversary of that person's death.

[00:17:01] So I say you know what let me just send her flowers.

[00:17:05] My son in my mind told me send it anonymously.

[00:17:08] Don't put your name on that bullet.

[00:17:12] I said I bet so I did it send it anonymously.

[00:17:17] I got the letter I mean I got the notification that it got delivered and bro I promise you at this time I wasn't checking on Instagram no Twitter no nothing.

[00:17:29] But I didn't know she got it or not.

[00:17:33] Don I couldn't sleep.

[00:17:35] I couldn't sleep bro.

[00:17:37] It's like one something in the morning.

[00:17:40] I said fuck it your mind is racing go check to see if she got it.

[00:17:46] I go on her Twitter page.

[00:17:48] She got it but what she said that was my fucking moment.

[00:17:53] She was like whoever sent these flowers to my house.

[00:17:59] These are the ugliest things I've ever seen.

[00:18:03] And my true is me sending flowers.

[00:18:07] I pick ugly flowers.

[00:18:09] My mom was like the way I translated that was yo she probably assumed it was me and she trying to send a message.

[00:18:16] That was what my mom was.

[00:18:18] You know how they'd be like an angel and devil.

[00:18:20] There was no angel.

[00:18:21] It was just straight.

[00:18:22] It was just one devil.

[00:18:23] Three chaos.

[00:18:24] And then there was Satan.

[00:18:25] He was like nah that woman was letting you know fuck you you bum ass nigga don't send no shit here.

[00:18:32] But to me that was that that was the moment where I was like yo you gotta force yourself to get over this because who that person that you once loved that it would that what that was even if you like God forbid say that was many right.

[00:18:49] And I lost many and that was many's anniversary death.

[00:18:52] And somebody sent me something.

[00:18:54] I don't care how that should I appreciate that shit.

[00:18:56] That shit means a lot.

[00:18:57] Now granted then it was sent anonymously no no no nothing.

[00:19:03] So probably she didn't know what it was for but it's around the time.

[00:19:08] So you should yeah.

[00:19:10] So when I saw that I was like yeah bro you gotta you gotta.

[00:19:16] I fight whatever whatever you feel for that.

[00:19:18] You gotta let that die.

[00:19:20] I feel like there was the same shit social media shit.

[00:19:22] Yeah that shit that shit that shit was just like all right but the last one though.

[00:19:29] I hate this one.

[00:19:30] I hate this one because it was an accident and it was on tick tock.

[00:19:34] And I know tick tock will show you that a person viewed your profile but it was a sad ass accident bro.

[00:19:41] I am purposely search.

[00:19:43] You know how it'd be like based on your contacts.

[00:19:48] I clicked it so I know the profile went but cool we had created a content page but we weren't on it.

[00:19:56] I don't want to describe too much of the page but it was stuff we did together.

[00:20:01] It was stuff we did together kind of like quote unquote a date recap.

[00:20:08] Cool.

[00:20:09] I think it's a content Bay.

[00:20:11] I like it bro you know she's the page is still active but it's new content there.

[00:20:18] No it's new dates.

[00:20:21] Yeah boy don't ask questions you know the answer to just be more specific.

[00:20:25] Don't know what this individual.

[00:20:31] Yo bro you can delete that page start a new page and like you what that shit down that one.

[00:20:38] I thought the flower shit crushed me but I feel like okay so out of sight out of mind but sometimes seeing this believe it.

[00:20:45] Like I had to see that shit for me to really do you feel like that's like God telling you like oh you not as you want to bounce back.

[00:20:54] If you don't hit you're gonna feel my nigga.

[00:20:57] I'm good bro.

[00:20:58] I think that's where out of sight out of mind comes in.

[00:21:01] It's a choice to keep things out of sight so you only focus on what's in front of you or what you have to focus.

[00:21:07] Now out of mind like he said though like he didn't do it on purpose or just happened by accident like.

[00:21:13] That was like a reminder like yo Jessica I feel like you may have some little consideration let me break this off for you.

[00:21:19] That one was crazy to me that one that one was crazy to me.

[00:21:26] I have a question do you think seeing it works for the element for me could send you right back into it.

[00:21:37] It's gonna hurt you're still gonna hurt don't think it's not you're not gonna hurt at all it just you just have to mentally be like I bet so boom I have I had ACL surgery right so I kind of stay away from my baby.

[00:21:48] Stay away from physical sports because I know the pain that I would feel right I don't even want to chance it so sometimes as like I'm not a pain whore like people who get off on pain but sometimes I may have to force myself to for to see reality.

[00:22:07] Like I have to see what this shit is for what it is I remember when like my first ever relationship five years Elizabeth blah blah blah me see her with another man forced me to let that go all hope all hope there's no hope for this.

[00:22:24] She's one block.

[00:22:31] But at the same time at the same time I feel like I had to for like for me I think I got a force myself.

[00:22:40] What does what does force you so to move on look like what does that feel like?

[00:22:45] So younger younger out of sight out of mind.

[00:22:49] I put some something new in my site get a new new vision got some new glasses you notice I don't wear the same glasses each part gotta switch it up gotta switch it up but no that that's how I used to do it.

[00:23:03] Get a new girl out of sight out of mind.

[00:23:06] I just I this is not safe for me to say I've matured I'm in recovery the whatever love I had left over for the last shit that I couldn't do it.

[00:23:16] Give it to somebody.

[00:23:17] Fuck it.

[00:23:18] That's how I used to do it.

[00:23:20] Now out of sight out of mind I just focus on myself that's a lot of looking in the mirror I look in the mirror now and that's what I focus my vision on just focusing on myself.

[00:23:32] You know but that shit for me that but sometimes maybe you got to see I don't know maybe you got a seizure like that it was what's it I want to say it was motivating because it still hurt maybe it was like also a reminder that there's some shit still there.

[00:23:48] You know that in and that in closure closure I don't think closure exists.

[00:23:55] I feel like well I don't think you get closure with the person you got to close that on yourself on yourself.

[00:24:01] So I maybe maybe that helps with more putting that to an end because those two situations was like the deterring factor of like I gang we need to we need to pull ourselves up you know that was that that whole time it just felt like like the whole not seeing I feel like that should kind of made a little bit worse when I see in them.

[00:24:25] That's it made a little worse I wanted to check on that person make sure they was good.

[00:24:29] It's like that should just.

[00:24:32] I don't know bro she kind of spiraled a little bit.

[00:24:35] Yeah, that's what I'm saying I really think out of sight out of mind don't work for real lovers.

[00:24:43] Like if I really loved you like I was in love with you me not seeing you's not gonna make me stop loving you.

[00:24:49] I mean I fuck with you anymore I mean hate what you did I mean hate how we end but that I don't hate you I don't and it stopped loving you because of that.

[00:24:57] That just don't work for me.

[00:24:59] Another thing with the out of sight out of mind is like yo we are probably created so many memories like it's hard not to.

[00:25:04] And that's what I think the social media shit did because that like I said we weren't in it.

[00:25:10] Like you wouldn't know like if you found a page and you was like oh I might do this on a date night you would never know that it was me and her.

[00:25:19] But once you but once I saw I cool let's say there was four dates there before things hit the fan.

[00:25:28] You know the profile be like four posts 200 likes this that it five.

[00:25:37] We only did four.

[00:25:40] It's all fifth one.

[00:25:41] You know what's funny when me and Shari start fucking with each other we did like a combination of dates we want to go on.

[00:25:48] She did one it was somebody else.

[00:25:49] She deleted this shit.

[00:25:50] Oh the shit don't you.

[00:25:53] I'm like I don't talk like this.

[00:25:54] I don't talk like you sneaky bitch.

[00:25:56] Sneaky bitch.

[00:25:57] I didn't say my birthday trip.

[00:26:03] Let me tell you something.

[00:26:04] I hope you like the heat.

[00:26:07] Even though she deleted it.

[00:26:09] I took a screenshot on there.

[00:26:10] I tell her.

[00:26:11] But when I went to the shit that's how I knew.

[00:26:14] This is a sick yo bro.

[00:26:16] We got stopped doing this shit.

[00:26:17] Yeah.

[00:26:19] During that time when we weren't agreeing I would check the share notes daily.

[00:26:24] She's still on she's still holding on she's still holding on she's holding on.

[00:26:27] Then there was one day that shit shared no God.

[00:26:30] They said this person deleted the message.

[00:26:31] Baby though.

[00:26:36] Being a romantic kind of sucks sometimes.

[00:26:41] So speaking as a real lover out of sight out of mind it does it's like I keep saying it's a daily choice.

[00:26:49] So it's not going to be great at first.

[00:26:51] Yeah.

[00:26:52] You trash like you guys keep saying it's going to be terrible but you have to choose like yo this person is done.

[00:26:57] They're out of here.

[00:26:58] If they okay.

[00:26:59] I got a question.

[00:27:00] If it's not your network.

[00:27:01] It's easy.

[00:27:02] I got a question.

[00:27:03] Do you think that doing that is lying to yourself though?

[00:27:06] I think it's facing reality like the situation is dead like there's no need to keep hoping and like.

[00:27:11] It depends how the situation ended though.

[00:27:12] You feel like it's dead already though.

[00:27:14] Yeah I mean you got to you got to be real about it if it's a situation where it's saving and if you try to save it.

[00:27:18] And the other person is not really with it then it's unrequited.

[00:27:21] It's just like I'm just doing this and you know.

[00:27:23] And that's why that whole fight for the relationship shit be fucking with me bro.

[00:27:26] It's a slippery slope.

[00:27:27] Because you do not want to be in that ring by yourself.

[00:27:31] Bro.

[00:27:32] What am I fighting for if you're not fighting?

[00:27:34] Bro.

[00:27:35] I've talked about this in podcast so long ago where a young lady that I was fucking with was like yo

[00:27:42] when I say she was pushing me away she's pushing me away.

[00:27:46] And then at one point I was like you know what you keep pushing me away I'm just gonna go.

[00:27:49] So I went and then one day she's like yo I'm just mad at you then fight for me.

[00:27:54] That's mad at you then fight for us.

[00:27:56] That's manipulation.

[00:27:58] Guess what happened?

[00:28:00] Guess what happened?

[00:28:01] What happened?

[00:28:02] I guess she left her phone in my crib because she spun the block.

[00:28:07] So it's like is it one mic or Uchiwale?

[00:28:13] Sometimes it's both you got you could like both for different settings.

[00:28:16] That's why you don't got to pick.

[00:28:18] I just...

[00:28:19] Because Uchiwale is fire in the club.

[00:28:22] Yo bro.

[00:28:23] One mic is nice when you need some motivation.

[00:28:25] I just, I just, I just, I don't know.

[00:28:28] I don't know.

[00:28:30] For me to get over somebody I do think out of sight out of mind could also mean something about like letting time pass.

[00:28:37] You know eventually you know I'm not as fucked up as I was years ago.

[00:28:44] Nigga Skrillz had to take me to a basketball game.

[00:28:46] I went there everybody mad dressed up nice.

[00:28:49] It's the Barclays so you know Barclays is the club.

[00:28:51] So...

[00:28:53] Nigga take, what, what were you taking? The Qatar?

[00:28:55] No not Qatar.

[00:28:56] Nah I took it to Crown Club bro.

[00:28:57] He took me to the Crown Club bro.

[00:28:59] Nigga treats like a bad bitch boy.

[00:29:01] Man I couldn't eat.

[00:29:02] What?

[00:29:03] I couldn't eat and that fool was...

[00:29:04] Who don't want to taste the same?

[00:29:06] Nothing tastes the same.

[00:29:07] That spicy rigatoni and that motherfucking steak bro.

[00:29:10] Oh nah you wasted that.

[00:29:11] Skrillz you wasted that.

[00:29:12] Yeah it was just a bad time and it was a Bulls game.

[00:29:14] Damn.

[00:29:15] He knew I love the Bulls he took me out.

[00:29:17] I canceled a date.

[00:29:19] I was supposed to ring this girl there but I was like I know you're a really big Bulls fan.

[00:29:22] I was like yo my man's having a hard time.

[00:29:24] I'm gonna take my son out.

[00:29:26] No don't get me wrong.

[00:29:28] I'm a pussy-liner too bro.

[00:29:29] I really appreciated it.

[00:29:31] Be the good friend of the Tommass.

[00:29:33] I really appreciate it.

[00:29:35] I really needed to get out the house.

[00:29:37] But I knew that like...

[00:29:39] Compared to that like if Skrillz was to call me now and be like yo bro we at the Bulls game.

[00:29:45] Fucking lit.

[00:29:47] Yeah.

[00:29:48] Does that mean that I'm fully removed?

[00:29:51] Or over it?

[00:29:52] No.

[00:29:53] Probably not.

[00:29:54] But I'm in a better space though.

[00:29:55] I'm in a better space to enjoy life you know.

[00:29:57] So out of sight, out of mind maybe you know you just need a lot of time depending on like

[00:30:02] you said how much you care about the person and how much you love the person.

[00:30:06] You know that might help.

[00:30:09] That might help for me but like I said if I really like if I was in love with you

[00:30:14] I don't think...

[00:30:15] That's shit in the overnight shit.

[00:30:16] I don't know how much time could really pass for me yeah.

[00:30:18] They even had to ask you a visa to the night shift.

[00:30:20] How did you get over this?

[00:30:21] Yeah and I told you...

[00:30:23] You need to say that every day ain't gonna be good.

[00:30:25] I know the block I was on, I know where I was coming from.

[00:30:29] I just left Planet Fitness.

[00:30:30] I hit that corner the corner where the bus stop is.

[00:30:33] Leave it on.

[00:30:34] Just hit that corner and Don calls me.

[00:30:37] And I'm like I can really really see it back in my head and I'm like yo bro

[00:30:42] you gonna have a good day, you gonna have a great day, then you gonna have a bad day.

[00:30:46] Then you gonna be angry.

[00:30:48] It's gonna and it's gonna keep repeating.

[00:30:50] It's gonna keep repeating.

[00:30:52] And you gotta take the good with the bad

[00:30:54] because that ain't just somebody you get over.

[00:30:57] I don't care.

[00:30:58] Nega, I could be in the car.

[00:31:02] Just look over and you can see her spirit in the passengers.

[00:31:05] You know what's funny?

[00:31:07] I was dropping.

[00:31:08] I was like...

[00:31:10] Like a fucking sicko.

[00:31:12] Okay let's talk about that though.

[00:31:14] So do you think another woman

[00:31:18] let's say in a sense of a rebound

[00:31:20] can help Vanda?

[00:31:21] She fire?

[00:31:22] If she fire.

[00:31:23] She got all the tools.

[00:31:25] That's a short term fix.

[00:31:27] I'm not gonna lie that's the angle front.

[00:31:29] I tried that shit bro.

[00:31:30] That shit ain't really worked.

[00:31:31] Now rebounds are good.

[00:31:32] That shit is not fun bro.

[00:31:33] It's kind of unfair for the other person as well.

[00:31:35] So you can only move on when you are healed.

[00:31:37] When you're healed bro.

[00:31:38] It's like an emotional band aid.

[00:31:40] You wanna just pour it in somebody the same way.

[00:31:42] You pour in this other girl and now you sit there like damn.

[00:31:44] And now you're probably over sharing.

[00:31:46] Yeah, now you're not even over sharing.

[00:31:48] You just coasting.

[00:31:50] And Nega you probably romping with shorty

[00:31:52] making love to a person.

[00:31:54] That's why I didn't want to do that.

[00:31:56] That's the worst thing in my life.

[00:31:58] Oh yeah.

[00:31:59] You give the dick to somebody and you're supposed to give it to somebody else.

[00:32:02] Yeah that's what I'm saying.

[00:32:03] That's what I used to do.

[00:32:04] But I never, you know what kind of...

[00:32:07] As we got older, I gotta watch my words.

[00:32:10] As we got older I seen a lot of my men's

[00:32:13] knock up their rebound.

[00:32:15] And now you stuck with them.

[00:32:17] What that for me?

[00:32:19] So I said keep the penis legs.

[00:32:21] They don't know how to have that conversation.

[00:32:23] They don't know how to have that conversation.

[00:32:25] Yeah, like...

[00:32:27] Oh, oh shorty getting knocked up by her rebound.

[00:32:30] Oh!

[00:32:31] We got a mutual friend.

[00:32:32] I'm not gonna lie to you my heart will fucking hurt.

[00:32:34] We got a mutual friend.

[00:32:36] Not a friend.

[00:32:38] We got a mutual acquaintance.

[00:32:40] She just had her baby shower.

[00:32:42] Right?

[00:32:44] By the time this come out mad baby showers them past.

[00:32:47] Yeah, it's already 10 or 20 in the morning.

[00:32:49] Cool.

[00:32:50] The niggas she had a baby with, bro, she...

[00:32:54] Being her close friends.

[00:32:56] Talking about how she missed her baby father.

[00:32:59] Her first baby father.

[00:33:01] How she did life long.

[00:33:04] But she...

[00:33:06] She just...

[00:33:07] She's having a baby with somebody else.

[00:33:09] And the close friends.

[00:33:12] Nah, she don't want my...

[00:33:13] Yo, she need a journal.

[00:33:15] Niggas need a therapist.

[00:33:17] The third baby father?

[00:33:18] They're really gonna send her right.

[00:33:19] The third one?

[00:33:20] The third one gonna be the right one for her.

[00:33:21] That's why I said stay away from baby mothers.

[00:33:23] Because I can't...

[00:33:24] I will be pissed if I'm about to have a baby with a woman.

[00:33:26] And she talking, and she and her close friends talking about how happy...

[00:33:29] How she missed her first baby daddy.

[00:33:32] She's crazy.

[00:33:34] So niggas get beat getting knocked up by their rebound.

[00:33:37] I can't...

[00:33:38] My ex did say she was like, I thought you would have a kid.

[00:33:41] Huh?

[00:33:42] My ex literally was like, y'all three is gonna have a rebound baby.

[00:33:44] It's been shit like that.

[00:33:45] Damn!

[00:33:46] Damn! What she think of you?

[00:33:47] I thought I was a whore now.

[00:33:48] Nah, you...

[00:33:49] Nah, I can't front. You did it right.

[00:33:51] You did it right.

[00:33:52] Yeah, you kept...

[00:33:53] Nah, come on.

[00:33:54] You know what sucks though?

[00:33:56] Being faithful in a breakup.

[00:33:58] I was on a date, nah, nah, nah, nah.

[00:34:01] You understand though?

[00:34:02] Yeah!

[00:34:03] Listen to being with somebody, bro.

[00:34:04] Listen to what I mean though.

[00:34:06] Faithful in a breakup.

[00:34:07] Bro.

[00:34:08] So close into the mic though.

[00:34:09] You don't understand what a breakup is.

[00:34:10] No, that's what I'm saying.

[00:34:11] Nah, but not be like outside.

[00:34:13] That's what I mean.

[00:34:14] Yeah, bro, like being on a date with a...

[00:34:16] I'm gonna speak from experience.

[00:34:17] Being on a date with a shorty, bro.

[00:34:18] I felt like I was cheating on my ass.

[00:34:20] I'm looking at the door...

[00:34:22] Nigga, my back corner, nigga, my back.

[00:34:24] Give me that corner there with no lights.

[00:34:26] I'm not watching you.

[00:34:27] Give me that candle.

[00:34:28] Don't work over there.

[00:34:29] Give me that corner over there.

[00:34:30] I'm gonna go to hold another bar.

[00:34:32] Don't know this story, but I was saying on the pot.

[00:34:35] I'm talking about Jersey?

[00:34:36] Oh, yeah.

[00:34:38] Look at this fucking...

[00:34:39] Free serve.

[00:34:42] Jersey, bro.

[00:34:44] Man, man.

[00:34:46] Me and her...

[00:34:48] Young lady.

[00:34:49] Every time I was in a situation, she was single.

[00:34:52] When she was single...

[00:34:54] No.

[00:34:55] When she was somebody...

[00:34:56] Boom, boom, boom.

[00:34:57] So we both single.

[00:35:01] Chess all up.

[00:35:02] Don?

[00:35:03] I told Don.

[00:35:04] I haven't the table talking to Don, bro.

[00:35:06] She wearing this dress, bro.

[00:35:08] Her breasts are maculant.

[00:35:10] I promise you, I swear on everything.

[00:35:12] I text Don, yo, bro, my dick don't work.

[00:35:15] Because I felt nothing.

[00:35:17] Nothing.

[00:35:18] Whatever she had on, I probably smelled good.

[00:35:20] My nose ain't working.

[00:35:21] My dick ain't on.

[00:35:23] I just drove home.

[00:35:25] Bro, I was like, yeah, bro, I can't date nobody.

[00:35:28] That's what I mean by being faithful.

[00:35:31] Of course me and Shorty not together.

[00:35:33] But my heart...

[00:35:34] Heart is still on.

[00:35:35] My mind would not be present in this...

[00:35:38] Like, yo, me and her was at a time playing cat and mouse for years.

[00:35:42] Ah, it's finally happening.

[00:35:44] Perfect time, right?

[00:35:45] Right girl, wrong time, bullshit.

[00:35:47] Right?

[00:35:48] Now is the time.

[00:35:49] We both...

[00:35:50] Boom, nothing.

[00:35:51] So I felt nothing.

[00:35:52] I'm texting Don, yo, bro.

[00:35:54] I'm gonna catch you, don't catch the guy in there.

[00:35:56] Wanna hand you the shit, bro?

[00:35:58] I'll be in the bathroom.

[00:35:59] Wait, don't...

[00:36:00] Wait, don't...

[00:36:01] Fuck off.

[00:36:02] I'm like, yo, check please, bro.

[00:36:05] Nothing, bro.

[00:36:06] I got a question.

[00:36:07] So when you say faithful to your ex in a sense or whatever that term is, is that you holding

[00:36:13] out hope that if something...

[00:36:15] Probably?

[00:36:16] Or that person just really holds a huge heart and you find it hard?

[00:36:19] Yeah, like it just holds a huge hold on your heart.

[00:36:23] Like, it's kind of one of those situations where it's like, I could be fucking with

[00:36:27] somebody right now but if Shorty called right now...

[00:36:30] I'm outta here.

[00:36:31] I'm outta here.

[00:36:32] So that took a minute for like...

[00:36:35] That's why I literally chose not to date.

[00:36:37] I'm like, I'm good because there's no reason...

[00:36:39] I'm literally...

[00:36:40] You're talking to me but I'm not here right now.

[00:36:41] Yeah, in fact...

[00:36:42] I'm literally not here.

[00:36:43] Do you think you can...

[00:36:44] What is it?

[00:36:45] Compartmentalize?

[00:36:46] Yeah, yeah.

[00:36:47] There you go.

[00:36:48] You could do that?

[00:36:49] Not right away.

[00:36:51] Not right away.

[00:36:52] Because like I said, I'm a real lover, bro.

[00:36:54] So there's no really...

[00:36:56] Placing that in other pockets, trying to just do this shit.

[00:36:59] I was like a functional skeleton of myself for a very long time.

[00:37:08] Like, I was just going through the motions just because I had to survive.

[00:37:13] But inside, I was destroyed, bro.

[00:37:17] I was destroyed.

[00:37:18] That's a vessel.

[00:37:19] Yeah, I was just a vessel.

[00:37:20] Yeah, facts.

[00:37:21] A shell.

[00:37:22] A shell.

[00:37:23] Have you ever stopped dealing with somebody and everything just started being great in life?

[00:37:28] Yeah.

[00:37:29] Like all the blessings started falling in once you started cutting that off?

[00:37:32] Yeah, yeah.

[00:37:33] You start dealing with somebody then...

[00:37:34] All of a sudden, everything is just great.

[00:37:35] You're in better spirits, everything you wanted to...

[00:37:37] Would you chalk it up to that person?

[00:37:40] You not fucking with that person anymore?

[00:37:42] I would get some blame.

[00:37:43] You would get some blame from that.

[00:37:47] Nah, that has happened to me before with a young short Spanish woman.

[00:37:52] Oh.

[00:37:53] Facts.

[00:37:54] My life literally got way...

[00:37:57] I'm like, whoa, this is...

[00:37:58] I never chalked it up like that, but there was one time...

[00:38:02] Damn, I won't say too much.

[00:38:04] But there was one time an ex-amaz hit me up and she was like, yo, how you doing?

[00:38:10] And I'm like, yo, I'm great, yo.

[00:38:13] This, that, and third boom, boom, boom.

[00:38:15] I lost weight, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

[00:38:17] And she was like, damn, so all they took was for us to break up and your life turned around?

[00:38:21] I ain't saying you did.

[00:38:22] Yeah, bro.

[00:38:23] Yo, bro, with her saying that, I never really put too much stock in that because why would

[00:38:28] I put that on you?

[00:38:29] But I'm like, oh, whoa, whoa, you know.

[00:38:32] Now that you put it like that.

[00:38:34] One plus one doesn't do it.

[00:38:39] But nah, man, it was just one of those situations where you know it is what it is.

[00:38:46] Oh, I can say for y'all, man, if you're going through anything like that just one day at a time.

[00:38:50] Yeah, facts, take your time, bro.

[00:38:52] I'm like, I'm going to crash out.

[00:38:53] That's literally the best advice.

[00:38:54] Stay off the social media page too.

[00:38:57] Because the performances you'll see bro, they putting up Michael Jordan performances out there.

[00:39:03] You ain't never gonna see a story longer, bro.

[00:39:08] I'll bring it with somebody, bro.

[00:39:10] I'm outside.

[00:39:11] Nah, I was down bad in the beginning, bro.

[00:39:15] I can't front.

[00:39:16] You know you could Google search some Instagram IG stories.

[00:39:19] Jesus Christ.

[00:39:21] You can though.

[00:39:22] You can in this show.

[00:39:23] It'll show like a random some random shit.

[00:39:25] Yeah, I was down bad bro.

[00:39:27] I be seeing a lot of random shit in my shit but that's cool.

[00:39:29] I love that for me.

[00:39:30] That's why I don't be acting.

[00:39:32] No close friends.

[00:39:35] I can tell you a story about close friend story on how I got her back.

[00:39:41] Just follow the story.

[00:39:43] This is before how I did it.

[00:39:48] I felt like she was preying my page but had no proof.

[00:39:52] Had no proof.

[00:39:55] I took all y'all niggas out by close friends.

[00:39:58] Not close friends.

[00:39:59] Was it on circles?

[00:40:00] Circles to it, right?

[00:40:01] Yeah.

[00:40:02] I took all y'all out and I added her.

[00:40:05] Right?

[00:40:06] Don't touch me.

[00:40:08] Don't touch me.

[00:40:10] Yo, Eli bring circles back.

[00:40:13] So I just tweeted come home.

[00:40:17] I put it in close friends.

[00:40:21] Take my glasses off so I'm gonna hit her shit.

[00:40:26] Bro, she wrote under the tweet.

[00:40:29] I knew he was preying my page.

[00:40:32] So yeah.

[00:40:33] That's why I said don't let this up because at that time she was putting on a nice little show on social media.

[00:40:40] I used to call Kwani tight bro.

[00:40:42] Yo bro you see this shit that she doing game?

[00:40:45] Did she come home?

[00:40:47] She did.

[00:40:48] She left though.

[00:40:49] She left again.

[00:40:50] What was it meant to be man which is unfortunate.

[00:40:52] Facts.

[00:40:53] But you know, no because like now I'm on the other side of it, you know fully recovered and stuff like that.

[00:40:59] Sex again sexy out here in the streets.

[00:41:01] I don't know about sex again bro.

[00:41:03] I ain't having any more.

[00:41:04] No, I didn't.

[00:41:05] You ain't gotta rub on me.

[00:41:06] I'm just saying.

[00:41:07] After the surgery.

[00:41:08] I'm just saying I got a big on.

[00:41:09] I appreciate you from touching me.

[00:41:10] I got a bigger one.

[00:41:11] I'm just gonna take a picture this.

[00:41:20] But nah, or some G shit like now it's kind of like what if you now before we go.

[00:41:34] I haven't seen that person since.

[00:41:38] That's a thing though.

[00:41:39] Like have you ever out of sight out of mind and then ran into a person ran into that person.

[00:41:45] You know what you know I sort of met where we think I saw them at calm.

[00:41:50] No, no, no, no.

[00:41:51] I just I literally I ain't gonna from Tony because no me well enough to kick out of it.

[00:41:56] Get out of it.

[00:41:57] Shaman's ski and fucking shaman's ski.

[00:41:59] You know what it is about Shaman's ski.

[00:42:01] Everybody don't want to go to Shaman's ski.

[00:42:03] I took it.

[00:42:04] Shaman's ski.

[00:42:05] You know it for sure.

[00:42:08] Luget saw her legit.

[00:42:10] So I think Sprill said something.

[00:42:12] It was like yo bro she's pulling up.

[00:42:14] I'm already this though.

[00:42:15] She pulling up.

[00:42:16] I guess you have to do it whatever.

[00:42:17] I was like, all right, whatever.

[00:42:18] What was that like?

[00:42:20] Was it like that?

[00:42:21] Uh, loving basketball scene when they in the spot.

[00:42:24] I was already removed off that shoot though.

[00:42:27] Oh wow.

[00:42:28] Yeah.

[00:42:29] Well my endeavors was removed off the line.

[00:42:31] Oh wow.

[00:42:33] Wow.

[00:42:34] Hold up is this some come on.

[00:42:36] Come on.

[00:42:37] Come on, squares.

[00:42:38] What are you doing?

[00:42:39] What are you doing bro?

[00:42:41] Huh?

[00:42:42] Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:42:47] Oh man.

[00:42:48] Thank you for actually passing through the packed house that night.

[00:42:51] I kind of avoid, yo.

[00:42:54] That's why I try to avoid having to be in different circles.

[00:42:57] I ain't going to hold you.

[00:42:58] We was at.

[00:42:59] That makes me in record room.

[00:43:00] It's insane.

[00:43:01] What was that spot?

[00:43:02] What is that RB party in the city, Joe?

[00:43:05] I'm like 20 of them.

[00:43:07] Uh, the one hosted by, um, with true blends, true blends.

[00:43:15] Yeah, yeah, that's the one.

[00:43:17] It's a call.

[00:43:18] And HK mall or states would, it was states would eat, right?

[00:43:20] Yeah.

[00:43:21] Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:43:22] It's called the R&B party.

[00:43:23] Yeah.

[00:43:24] Cool.

[00:43:25] So I think me, you went.

[00:43:28] And, um, sure.

[00:43:29] I think you would say it too.

[00:43:31] And I thought I saw a neighbor.

[00:43:35] I thought I saw it wasn't her.

[00:43:37] And at the time, her and my mom was still close.

[00:43:42] So I, yo bro, but she was, but the woman was exactly built.

[00:43:47] Like her, right?

[00:43:50] Gang, but she was with a nigger.

[00:43:53] And I forgot what song was there was holding each other.

[00:43:56] I was about.

[00:43:58] I was about to pop like it was, I was going to fuck this shit up.

[00:44:02] I was about to use a draw.

[00:44:04] I'm popping on her niggles.

[00:44:06] Cause why would you ever play me like that?

[00:44:09] But before I did anything stupid, I say, yo, my, since you and her want to be best friends

[00:44:14] and shit, what her hair look like currently?

[00:44:17] And she was like, Oh, she just got her hair done yesterday.

[00:44:21] All right.

[00:44:22] What, what she got?

[00:44:23] Well, she got done to her head.

[00:44:25] Oh no.

[00:44:26] She then she sent me a picture that she sent off her head, but the woman had the

[00:44:29] braids.

[00:44:30] It was going to get ugly.

[00:44:32] I don't know if I don't think I've ever, you know what's crazy though?

[00:44:36] The women that I date, we intertwined our worlds, but our worlds aren't intertwined.

[00:44:42] So I don't think I would ever be in a situation where we run into each other like so for example,

[00:44:47] say burgers and bottles is coming up.

[00:44:49] I don't think I would ever run into my ex in burgers and you on the red Ruben or the

[00:44:57] I don't think these won't see me at burgers and bottles.

[00:45:00] I ain't on front.

[00:45:01] Oh, like what else?

[00:45:02] What else?

[00:45:03] I think we going to emcee this year.

[00:45:04] I don't know.

[00:45:05] Yeah.

[00:45:06] I'm going to be a fun summer.

[00:45:08] We outside.

[00:45:09] But like, yeah, stuff like that.

[00:45:11] So out of sight out of mind, mental games were in person in 3D.

[00:45:15] I don't know if my full like a fucking launch here, Brian on front.

[00:45:19] Would you would you would you force yourself to pretend like they don't exist in the

[00:45:23] spot?

[00:45:25] I feel like that's my work.

[00:45:27] I mean, I'm not doing that.

[00:45:28] It depends on how the situation was left.

[00:45:30] But I'm not doing that though.

[00:45:31] That's even with me seeing shorty and shimmy.

[00:45:33] She's like, oh, I didn't expect you to say hi to me.

[00:45:35] I was like, why would I say hi to you bro?

[00:45:37] So you say hi.

[00:45:38] I said, what's good?

[00:45:39] Good.

[00:45:40] I bet.

[00:45:41] Oh, I'm not doing that.

[00:45:42] I'm not doing that.

[00:45:43] Shoot a playman.

[00:45:44] I bet.

[00:45:45] No, I'm not even taking that chance.

[00:45:46] I'm not taking that chance.

[00:45:47] You see, I look my agreement better fucking say hi.

[00:45:50] No, no, no.

[00:45:51] Why is that sexy fucking man?

[00:45:52] I'm good.

[00:45:53] I don't care how sexy I am.

[00:45:55] Nah, bro.

[00:45:56] I'm not doing that.

[00:45:57] Nah, I understand you just avoid the whole.

[00:46:00] Yeah, yeah.

[00:46:01] So nah.

[00:46:02] I mean, certain little different show for different folks.

[00:46:05] Question, have you ever been with someone new and someone old walked in?

[00:46:11] What type of movie life you live in Kwaki?

[00:46:14] Because you just had the same example.

[00:46:17] So has it been reversed to you?

[00:46:18] Like you've been out with somebody new and then your old, your old flex just

[00:46:22] like just there.

[00:46:24] I don't know what happened.

[00:46:26] No, I don't think matter of fact that has happened to me and it's a backyard

[00:46:33] barbecue not my prayer.

[00:46:35] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[00:46:38] Cinderella.

[00:46:41] That's crazy.

[00:46:43] That's crazy.

[00:46:46] I love this podcast.

[00:46:48] I'm gonna tell you know they most of them listen.

[00:46:51] Shout out to them.

[00:46:52] I fuck with them.

[00:46:53] One of them my co-worker.

[00:46:56] I'm not putting this back on for the rest of the show.

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[00:47:26] And yeah, man.

[00:47:27] If I'm not here for the next episode you know what.

[00:47:29] You've seen this believe it out of sight out of odd.

[00:47:33] Till next Monday.

[00:47:34] God is good baby.

[00:47:35] God is good.